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| 1 | casual heterosexual sex is most likely to be a negative experience for women who want to be happyA man with no estrogen has no libido. You are incorrect sir. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The biggest issue with modern dating today is looks are valued more than anything else.Yes, I wish more people would understand this. Most people think women were different back then, but it's just because they didn't have rights. I as a man would absolutely love to return to this time period, but unfortunately I don't think the 19th will be repealed anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 02:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The biggest issue with modern dating today is looks are valued more than anything else.As long as someone meets your minimum level of attraction, shouldn't looking for someone who matches values and is compatible with your lifestyle more important? Majority of men cant even get to this point without a deep social network. Male 6-7 in OLD is rarely going to attract anything above a 1-4. Once you get to that average and below looks threshold it becomes very difficult to try and ignore looks. I'd say you're talking to good looking men, and women 5 and above. All my guy friends will s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Crime wave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?The cold reality is there Is no equality between men and women. This in theory should give back some power to men. Forced pregnancy is lightweight enslavement and will benefit men as a whole. Historically women would need to be more cautious about who and how many men they sleep with. That said, now days I'm guessing instead of the single mom of 3 on tinder, you'll just see single mom of 9 on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | CMV: RedPill is correct that straight women are predominantly attracted to "bad boys"You're the outlier. Congratulations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 12:56 PM |
| 8 | CMV: RedPill is correct that straight women are predominantly attracted to "bad boys"Lol, very kind sir. 9/10 hypeman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 12:55 PM |
| 9 | CMV: RedPill is correct that straight women are predominantly attracted to "bad boys"This is classic women thinking that so many fall into. "I want someone with all the traits of a bad boy but is nice to me xD". The motto of single moms under 30 and domestic assualt victims everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 12:50 PM |
| 5 | CMV: RedPill is correct that straight women are predominantly attracted to "bad boys"Not true. I have no passions . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Do you personally see it as a red flag if someone who wasn't interested in you before later seems interested after they find out you own a home (or other asset)?No woman will like you for only you unless you're good looking/tall. It's not a red flag it's just normal behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Supply and demand. Women want guys the perceive above them, those men are in short supply, so they do what they can to keep them happy. Also, it may shock the femnazis out there. Some women actually enjoy being caring givers. Shocking I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore'Never join apps like Seeking for fucks sake' Finds wife on MillionaireMatch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreYep, Xennial here as well. Was jarring realizing how completely undesirable I am in today's market. Make decent money, still in good shape ( abs ) . Def aged and not as good looking as I was, but went from dating 6s-8s in my mid-late 20s to, I'm lucky if a 2-4 under 200 lbs talks to me in my mid 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreUse specialty apps: I met my wife on one of these What year was this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:14 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?There's no gym for your face. You're still ugly and no one finds you attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Older men can't get women their age?but I know damn well a 35 man isn't with a 23 woman for her mind. And mind IS important I dunno where this misconception comes from that older people are somehow remarkably different than younger. The only generally accepted differences that come with age are you're not quite as wild, and should have a little more wisdom. The core fundamentals of a brain is barely any different from 25 to 35 to 45. I suspect the people that thing this were total idiots in their youth and took a lot of fucking up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 12:12 AM |
| 5 | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isWomen have more relationship options too though. The caveat being, not with men out of your league. Your entire argument is that women have it rough because they can't lock down guys well out of their reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | The only men getting consistent action are men with no/ loose standardsBecause women don't care about anything they say they do. Tattoos and a weed habit > a genuine guy that cares for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 03:49 PM |
| – | Who has it harder : a 50th percentile male, or a 50th percentile female?I'm mid 30s, make 70k year in the Midwest. Not good looking anymore, but not ugly, get called cute a lot, handsome sometimes, hot by the occasional young chubby gal with septum piercings. OLD is barely a thing for me. I say in my profile I'm looking for something long term and still cant get any matches with women around my age, or single moms, or single moms around my age, older women, not conventionally attractive women. Like once a month I might get lucky and get a match with someone that's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Well a lot of men suffer from ED issues and size issues. So how do both sides feel about the use of Male Hollow Strap On sex toys as a solution in a relationship?Jfl at the state of men in 2021 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 04:57 AM |
| -1 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?Top 3 traits men find most attractive in woman Femininity 2. Appearance 3. Desire to please Top 3 traits woman find most attractive in men 1: Face 2: Height 3: Status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | There's more male virgins than female virgins, but there's also more male sluts than female sluts.Men's standards for fucking are way lower than a woman's. All women are 'sluts' , we've just historically shamed women for sleeping around to keep them controlled. Some women still are programmed though or just don't realize their options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | There's more male virgins than female virgins, but there's also more male sluts than female sluts.Jfl at using any statistics pre like 2018. Male female sexual market dynamics have shifted so much in the past few years that looking at historical data is near useless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it mistreatment or are men oblivious?Def feel you on the perfectly average part. I'm just glad I at least learn some of these dom traits instead of being blue pilled my entire life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it mistreatment or are men oblivious?I'd prob get skewered for saying this, but either girls like nice guys because they want the good looking guys the already like from looks to be nice to them, or they just like bigger more masculine guys to be nice. I'm 5'7, and don't have the most prominent facial bones. I assume me being nice is just too bleh for them? I have no idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it mistreatment or are men oblivious?It's not really about being mean. It's about being an asshole in a playful way, maybe making fun of them a bit more than I should or saying something a bit outlandish. Plus there's the dominance and commanding aspect about it. Not asking, just telling sort of thing. Most importantly is not showing you care. Even my chad friends, I have one that's 6'5 250lbs muscular. Anytime he shows he cares or has genuine feelings for a girl is when things go upside down for him. Happens so often to guys I kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it mistreatment or are men oblivious?Na not even that. If I'm nice and sweet from the get go, the panties seemingly stay dry for the girl. If I have em wet by some other method I can feel them dry up. Can feel the tone of the conversation changing. Can feel I've just been placed mentally somewhere else in their heads. Just hasn't worked out for me. I dunno why it works for some guys supposedly but not me and others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Is it mistreatment or are men oblivious?I guess not. It's just been the opposite experience for me. I'm naturally on the nicer end so anytime I'm nice and sweet from the get go it's not worked out at all for me. I'm not seen as a romantic interest. If I lean in on being more of dominant asshole I have way better success. Then usually once my mask slips off and girls find out I'm sweet they lose interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Is it mistreatment or are men oblivious?:( I'm sorry that happened to you. Try dating guys you find boring and nice in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:16 PM |
| 9 | Is it mistreatment or are men oblivious?LOL if I had a dollar for every time I've heard this. I'd have at least 300 dollars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it mistreatment or are men oblivious?Do you know the names of everyone you've slept with? Yes, but there's been girls I've forgotten I had slept with How often do you try to hook up with women you have no feelings for whatsoever and don't find attractive, just a literally looking for a hole sex? Never If you tell your gf you don't remember the name of someone you hooked up with ~10x in the couple years, are you lying? Yes, unless you're getting a high enough amount of sex with different women that 10x is a blip, and or it was a lon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?If you are a solid dude with a lot going for you, why do you need a woman? You're independent, a free agent, I wish men like you could just find an ounce of self worth in themselves and realize that having a GF won't make your life easier. In fact, it would make it worse. You're a doormat and you need to get some principles to stick to. This is good for you both in terms of romantic relationships and in your work. Like throughout the history of man outside of a handful of turbo nerds and leaders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”The smug passive aggressiveness is making me lol, quality stuff. You were playing it straight until the end you went a little to heavy with it. Assuming I'm just the kind of guy that would resort to slut shaming someone I knew had a history of casual sex because I was angry. I'm guessing that's happened to you in the past, but that's what happens when you spend all your time with boys instead of grown men. Also, acting like the only people that aren't into hook up culture are going to be puritan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?Being with someone you resent is worse than being alone. I think a lot of young men need to pull up their standards and realize that having a woman is NOT anything like being with A woman who you truly enjoy the company of. This is good economic times and abundance of choice privilege cringe take. Most people don't and didn't end up with their perfect partner throughout all of history. You can absolutely have a decent to good life with someone you're not totally in sync with or soul mates with f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:17 PM |
| 0 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?I'm a bit confused by your question. I think most people want an intimate partner mentally and physically. I don't want just any woman, at least not yet. It might get there at some point, but that would be better for a lot of guys theman being alone. Sex with other men I'm not really into? Validation from men is cool I guess but different than coming from women. Friends family and work can't compete with that intimate bond of being with someone all the time, loving and caring for them . Friends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."Yah it's weird how women get sexually excited or turned off by your job. Women are king of following assumption chains. Oh he's an an artist the must be a passionate creative lover. Oh hes a firefighter, so manly brave and strong. He's a programmer? He must be a boring fuck. Almost everything ties back to sex for women . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:09 PM |
| 8 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."Poor you ☹️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:03 PM |
| -1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Jfc, go back to instagram normie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I never understood this. What does looking good mean exactly. Isn't being sexually attractive what looking good is? So you're boosting your confidence for yourself ( not men ) by being sexually attractive to..... whom? I would assume men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I understand brother. Girls love talking to me and tell me they love talking to me but often never see me as anymore. I generally have to play up hyper masculine Dom personality traits to stand a chance and once they get a slight whiff that I'm not nonstop domineering or selfish the illusion usually wears off for them sexually. I then just end up someone they love talking to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I'm sure the guy your responding here comes here to speak openly and honestly about his feelings. He can state reality and maybe me depressed about it but not show it to other people in real life and he definitely doesn't have to put on a show for midwits like yourself that don't understand nuance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?"Don't worry, scro! Now there are plenty of'tards out there living really kick-ass lives". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:29 PM |
| 6 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?There's actually red pill guys that buy into cold approach PUA? Cold approach never worked and absolutely doesn't work in the age of declining social interaction. If it's working in any shape or form for you it's because you're good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 11:57 AM |
| 0 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?Jesus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | What happens to the dating world if the polyamory lifestyle goes mainstream?I'm pretty sure dating husband and wife nuclear unit has been a thing long before the 20th century. You're telling me peasants in 1500s England were all living some poly giant extended family life. What your describing ironically sounds like Russian communist propaganda ( coming from a supposed capitalist ). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:30 AM |
| 8 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."If you can get sex but not love then you actually have a shitty personality that most people will say incels have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."Explains it, dating markets drastically different now than it was 5 years ago and not even recognizable compared to 10 years ago. All that stuff would be enough to get laid in the past. Now most of it is meaningless unless you're good looking enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:09 AM |
| 18 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."In a heart beat. A man that can get endless casual sex can get almost anything of that stuff with ease. A woman will pay for your stuff, put you in a home and find friends for you if you're chad enough to get endless sex. Family you can't replace, but you can create a new one. This is a no brainer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:06 AM |
| 13 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH welcome to being an average guy in 2021. Might be able to snag a single mom off plenty of fish if you're lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?Yeah, but it's better chance than most men will have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”I'll go along with you on that. Normies are tards, men and women. I got out of a very long relationship a year aog, so I do have some experience :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | What happens to the dating world if the polyamory lifestyle goes mainstream?Nuclear family is 50's fantasy propaganda. lol, I'm never one for asking for citation but gonna need to see one for that. I'll absolutely admit that historically most men didnt pass their genes on, the increased hardships for men dating now are just reverting to the historical mean. Trad relationships being 50s fantasy is laughable. Trad relationships been around since dawn of time, yes extended families were more normal and still are in some places, but that has nothing to do with trad vs poly.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:13 AM |
| 2 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?If you can't get a steady supply of women being single, which is most guys, it's gauranteed everyday access to woman. Pretty big perk imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”May have proved your point, but also it's an admittance that women lack any sort of inward self reflection and have absolutely no idea what they want or why they do the things they do. That's why any woman's opinion on dating, women's likes, behavior or anthing in that area should be taken with a grain of salt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand datingGood start. I lean mostly blackpill, but redpill has some good bits in it that absolutely help in interactions with women, pick up and cold approaching is massively delusional though. Red pillers are as bluepilled as bluepillers in a lot of regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:34 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.They are basics, but you insinuated somehow that's all you need by telling that guy he's the exception. Plenty of men out there that have the basics. As for the other stuff, personality and hobbies that's more varied but I'd say there's no shortage of guys that have those. They just might not be as EXCITING as you'd like or have the HOBBY that you think is cool and acceptable. Don’t men also want a woman who can take care of herself and who has a hobbies and friends? This is probably the biggest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”women who approach sex in an almost mechanical way and act like they are entitled to an orgasm on the first sex with someone He's saying you're gross for being able to use another human beings body like a fleshlight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”I’m not insecure about my sexual prowess, but it increases the likelihood that she has had someone with a bigger dick or more stamina before. Most men want to be their woman’s best. It has just as much to do with hypergamy - A woman will only settle for the best she can get. It’s also just humiliating to think about the fact that a lot of men have been there before. So many women don't understand or don't care about this. Part of it for me is insecurity, but like you said that stems from wanting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”There's countless anecdotes and articles that women don't actually enjoy hookup culture. Women might not intentionally be using sex to buy love, but that's the reality of what's happening. FWB is just friendzone for women. Most women realize this at on some level, but are probably in denial. Who are you choosing to have sex with. Guessing you're not picking your looksmatch to casually have sex with. Guessing you're shooting for someone better looking than you whether you realize it or not. So yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.Best post here. Men have like one or two kinds of love. Women have like 6 different kinds of love. Women don't get we want the lust/love, not the best friend/partner love. Then they act like we're insecure and dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 11:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.He's not the exception. Lot of dudes do all the things you say and get passed up OLD. Countless stories of gymcels and other wise trying to self improve and no better for it in the dating market. appearance, clothes, makeup, hair, they go to college, get a career and succeed in it, keep a clean home, eat healthy, workout, and maintain family and social ties Half these things I've read a million times on reddit women say are just prerequisites for being a human being. A lot of women expect all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Worst part about being a woman has to be being most sexually attracted to guys that will treat you the worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for incomeAs men we should be encouraging legalization and an increase in sex work. It directly takes leverage away from non sex working women and puts it back in the hands of men. My own personal reasons aside. Who gives a shit, better than working at Mcdonalds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 07:49 PM |
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