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| 1 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?You're not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?Probably something like this https://preview.redd.it/7nm8bae9s7sb1.jpeg?width=696&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a5563f8182d1923da4db77b726fdb6c1aea14ca7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 04:41 PM |
| 3 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemSure it is, when Lower-recognition420 could be spending that time playing video games and smoking weed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?Great flex dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 07:19 PM |
| 3 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?Virtually all sex with a condom, just for starters That's definitely not true for all men. My first boyfriend never suggested stopping using them, he said they didn't make a difference. Another boyfriend completely refused using them from the get-go. Most men seem to fall somewhere in between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?Plastic surgery can make small improvements but it cannot change your whole face or make you beautiful. That’s impossible. I'd have to disagree, but it certainly takes many procedures and a long time. Some posts example 1 example 2 example 3 example 4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behaviorMost women want men to be comfortable with their sexuality, whether that is gay, bi, straight or something else. They don't want straight men to become bi, as some commenters seem to think. I support mens fight to be equal in family court/custody cases. Single fathers are at a disadvantage at this point. Does that mean I want to date single fathers, because I support them? Fuck no Supporting someone is not the same as wanting to date them, that ain't hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.I was betting, not pretending to give genuine advice 😅 The other option though, is obviously to expand the geografical area you're searching in. Whether it be to other counties or even other countries. I'm sure there's someone out there that wants what you got, but it's a very small needle in a very big pile of hay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.That's gonna be a really tough one mate. The majority of goth people seem to be very liberal and most Trump supporters don't like effeminate men. My bet is that you have to significantly lower your standards if you really want a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Giving woman your own age a chance why?Not everyone wants kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | It is a man's duty to protect his woman. You're a coward if you think otherwise. (excluding very specific situations)I have a problem with doing it for free. If my partner expects me to risk body and life for her then she will pay for it. I am not giving that kind of service for free/cheap. What exactly does this mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+From Wikipedia: Between 2000 and 2018, nearly 300,000 minors were legally married in the United States. The vast majority of child marriages in the U.S. were between a minor girl and an adult man. In many cases, minors in the U.S. may be married when they are under the age of sexual consent, which varies from 16 to 18 depending on the state. In some states, minors cannot legally divorce or leave their spouse, and domestic violence shelters typically do not accept minors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Is obesity a primary factor in dissatisfaction with the “economics” of dating?There are (or atleast there was in the 90es) parents telling their kids to "think of the hungry children in Africa " and finish their plate. I'm so glad my dad told me "you're not a rubbish bin" and that I didn't have to eat more than I wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships?Tbh it just came to me when reading the comment above 😂 Never really considered it before but i guess I have a weird imagination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 10:35 AM |
| 15 | How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships?is there a future where people are coming out as Robosexual to their parents at Thanksgiving and nervous about introducing their AI girlfriend to their close minded relatives? Not only that, there will be so many posts on relationship subs like: -I just discovered that my husband keeps a robot in our basement. I feel betrayed but also sorry for her. What should I do? -My girlfriend used to date a robot and I don't know if I can get over it. Any advice? -I (16m) have found myself attracted to my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?r/marriedredpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to love someone and cheat on them?Genuine love means that he deeply cares about the woman and her feelings, thus he wouldn't do something intentionally to deeply hurt her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 02:06 PM |
| 7 | What Are Some Sure Ways to Prevent Being "Traded In" for a Younger Woman?Why didn't I think of that 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 9 | What Are Some Sure Ways to Prevent Being "Traded In" for a Younger Woman?Just get down to 16% body fat, maybe get a boob lift/implants, and do sexual things that younger women won't do like swinging or porn. I feel like that even if a woman wants to stay with her man, she might not feel like it's worth it if she has to be online doing porn for the world to see or bang other men (swinging). At least that's how I'd feel. But it's certainly one way to do it, thanks for your answer :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:32 PM |
| 14 | What Are Some Sure Ways to Prevent Being "Traded In" for a Younger Woman?How exactly is say, a mother of 3 and 48 years old wife supposed to stay hotter than the husbands 20 y/o secretary? Hopefully attraction isn't the only glue that's keeping a marriage together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:17 PM |
| 3 | What should be the consequence of false paternityWhy don't you go look at the 300+ other replies instead :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:47 PM |
| 0 | What should be the consequence of false paternityThis is not a subject I've given a lot of thought really (paternity fraud is something I've read about but never encountered irl), but there are many suggestions in this post. The state not paying child support for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | What should be the consequence of false paternityI don't know. Financially is probably the most realistic road.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 3 | What should be the consequence of false paternityYou're suggesting that the only way to punish a mother is to take away her children? That's pretty extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 7 | Men getting vasectomies at a young age, yes or no?Suing your doctor for referring you to a voluntary procedure is not a thing in Denmark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 3 | What are some arbitrary things that make you immediately swipe left?Blessed be the fruit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on Men’s and Women’s Only SpacesI can't understand how you can truly believe that the morality of something is inherently tied to whether that thing is legal or not. The laws all around the world are so vastly different; in North Korea stealing a poster comes with a punishment of.. well, you know. There are a lot of immoral things that aren't illegal. Some moral things that are. The world is build most on solid logic and reason. It's not built on random feelings and social trends. Completely disagree. Presidents are often elec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on Men’s and Women’s Only SpacesThat's just some strawman arguments here - it's not equivalent to the original issue we are discussing. For all the things you listed there is actually fairly logical reasons/arguments why you shouldn't do those things. For the staring there is no such arguments. So it's not an argument that all these women are telling ya'll that it makes them hella uncomfortable? Cool then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on Men’s and Women’s Only SpacesWomen with trauma, no self esteem, abused as children etc. are more likely to accept this kind of man. So yeah if that's the women you want to attract, be a cheater and a beater (plz don't though). But women with high self worth/esteem and clear boundaries for what she will accept will just leave. The women I know who've been in physically abuse relationships, all had mental health issues before entering the relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on Men’s and Women’s Only SpacesAnd why should they? It's not something illegal as far as I know and its everybody's freedom to look wherever they want. It's not illegal to cut in line at the store, to shit on the toilet seat in public bathrooms or to fart repeatedly on an airplane. But all of those things make you a giant asshole, who should modify your behaviour. Same with intensely staring at women in the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?If not being attracted to someone that's morbidly obese, then yeah I have a type. That would go for 90% of men too. Very often when you see a man complain about not getting any, he will say something like "I'll date anyone, as long as it's not a landwhale". Even incels use this rhetoric. I've only met one guy who was shorter than me who caught my attention in that way. But I was in a relationship at the time so nothing happend and I didn't keep in contact with him. He's now married and settled i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?That just says that people often go after some specific personality traits, which I agree with is true. But not physical traits. However, it also says that a certain type of people (extroverts) are less likely to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?No, I'm not special. There are lots of women like me:) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?Yeah kinda like that :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 2 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?That's just not true. Why can't ya'll accept that a lot of women have dated vastly different men? I've dated from almost see through white with acne (and cancer.. still miss him) to dark brown skin with afro hair. From someone who were 5'6 (I'm 5'5) to someone well above 6'.. I dated a couple of men who were dirt poor where i had to pay for literally everything, but also men who would always pay for dates. One with African background, some with indian, Caribbean and south Pacific islander. Even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?I think it's a half smile with life in your eyes, something like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 7 | What standards are TOO high?I think the parent commenter was just saying that for most run down out of shape 40 year old men, it's unrealistic to attract such a woman. There are exceptions of course, such as if the guy is very rich, has charisma and a good face. Just like it isn't problematic for a short obese woman to date a handsome millionaire, but usually she can't. An extremely charming and feminine character coupled with meeting a fella who has a thing for fat women, could be an exception to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?In general? For me? Or for the other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 06:45 PM |
| 30 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?If it were me and I had feelings for a guy, that would mean I'd gotten to know him pretty well and he'd gotten to know me. If he then goes out and sleeps with another women, I will take it as a clear sign that he doesn't have feelings for me and move on. These things can be a blessing in disguise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 09:29 PM |
| 7 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?I don't know Harvey or his wives (not American) but you keep saying his wife let herself go. I'm assuming you mean Mary Shackelford, after reading Harveys wiki. When I google her name, pictures like this and this comes up at the top. How can anyone in any way think she is even a little bit chubby? She has big tits but that's about it. I really don't see how she let herself go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?Are you suggesting that women can change their sexuality? Well let me tell you, we can't. If a women had a male partner and later a female partner then she was bisexual all along (or hadn't admitted to herself that she was lesbian). I've been doing the celibacy thing for close to 3 years now and it can get lonely, in a romantic sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?Huh I found the stats for Denmark very quickly. It has been done by asking people to write down all their activities for 2 random days. Yes, men on average work 5 hours/week more than women. I agree that not all housework is equal, but would personally find it very problematic if I were overall doing 5 hours ekstra work every week. Actual free time (that isn't used on chores) is one of the most valuable assets in my life. Even though I'm "only" 27, I can already see looking back at my life, that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 8 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?Maybe not 20 hours. Here in Denmark, it's statistically around 10 hours more housework a week that women put in. I don't find that hard to believe at all, looking at the couples I know. While the men might do some honorary vacuuming after being told to+yardwork, the women are often responsible for cooking, dishes, laundry and generel cleaning. Things that generally takes up way more time in the ordinary day than mowing the lawn every other week or cutting the hedges once or twice a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | If 80% of women are going after the top 20% of men, what are the remaining 20% of women doing?I can't believe you have the patience to deal with someone on that level. Bless you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Can’t older women just date older men?I guess by rp definition any women in her 50s has? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Can’t older women just date older men?Idk just the impression I got from your comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Can’t older women just date older men?You wanna date OPs mom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:56 AM |
| 7 | Can’t older women just date older men?This. The idea that old, unattractive people don't have sex is a huge myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:45 AM |
| 8 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?Sure they want a way to vet but that begs the question, what sort of guy is going to be genuinely into someone even before the first date? Can they even respect a man like that? Someone who knows them in real life and ask them out on a date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:16 PM |
| – | Q4W: have potential partners/partners asked for your body count?By that logic, couples should severely limit how much sex they have with each other.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The sex life of the average man pre free love movement was much worse than todayPolynesia had a very casual sexual morale back in the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 10:35 AM |
| 9 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Damn it's a very green flag for me 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Why don't wealthy/powerful men think they're too good for hookers/to pay for sex?Sorry I've got nothing more than sympathy to give. I can't imagine how terrible it must be not to be able to pay for treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 06:02 PM |
| 7 | Why don't wealthy/powerful men think they're too good for hookers/to pay for sex?I think some of the different experiences and opinions we have might stem from being from different places. The average salary for a CEO of 16 big charities here in Denmark is 159.000 usd/year. Sure it's still high, but not outrageously so. But I do agree with you that the salaries are generally too high. Also the whole blood thing, if something goes wrong you're treated for free like everyone else.. I despise those commercials. But I guess they unfortunately seems to be working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Why don't wealthy/powerful men think they're too good for hookers/to pay for sex?Varies wildly across charities though.. You can find some that only use maybe 20% for the actual cause, while others use 80%. And of course the employees of a charity is paid for by the donors. Who else should be paying their salary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusiveI don't want to bullshit you, there's no point. I don't blame you for giving up hope, if that's a path you can find some kind of happiness in. But if it isn't, I hope you won't give up completely. To be straightforward, there are some ugly ass asd guys in relationships, but it isn't the majority. I guess it doesn't help much to say this to someone with social anxiety, but the more people you meet, the better a chance you have of finding someone you click with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusiveHow rich were they? My own ex: very poor. Met him while volunteering in a developing country. I paid for everything, working my ass off in a bakery so I could go see him and pay for food and rent while there. My best friends bf: low middle class. Works as an apprentice in a diy centre (?). Other friends ex: restaurant worker. Not with social anxiety and ASD. That is a huge challenge, no doubt about it. I dont believe in faith, but I believe that some people just get lucky. There are probably onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 08:41 PM |
| 0 | There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusiveI know you won't care and will probably say anecdotes are worthless. But dude.. that's just not what I'm seeing around me. Dated a 5'7 guy for years. My best friends bf/father of her children, is 5'5, which is the same height as me and my friend. Another good friend dated a 5'4 guy for years and had a kid with him. Just to clarify, none of us are overweight or ugly either. One thing these relationships had in common though: none of them started online. If you have a good personality, you will ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 18 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Thank you for being a male voice of reason in this cesspool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?You're not really winning if your own teammates are the only ones who think so. That's like a soccer team declaring themselves winners, even if there is no judge and the opposing team think they themselves won too. Sure you can pat yourself on the shoulder and buy a trophy in the dollar store. Doesn't really count though, does it? Furthermore men arguing with women on reddit is like being an 8 person group playing against a 2 person group. That's approximately the gender gap on reddit and I bet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 07:58 PM |
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