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True. But what are you supposed to do if you're first guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:55 PM
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Yeah, God nerfed us cause he knew we'd be too strong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:53 PM
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Meeting women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:48 PM
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I only date friends As in "guy from my friend circle I see in group hang-outs sometimes" or "close friend I've know for months that I have 1 on 1 contact with regularly"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:49 PM
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I think you might be onto something, though it's not necessarily just about their bodies but their 'presence' as a woman. Female (dis-)approval is a very strong instigator for sure, and the women who write those comments might be used to that and expect the same result, but here the effect falls flat completely. Hope I don't come off too misogynistic but it might be one of the reasons anonymous websites like reddit, 4chan are very male-dominated generally while social media like Instagram, Tikto…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:44 PM
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Imo it's more like "I'm smart enough to not shoot myself in the foot with a giant bazooka".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:29 PM
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There is no authentic, or fake, or "real self", we just choose to expose different sides of ourselves in different circumstances for whatever reasons, in my opinion anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:29 PM
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There is no authentic, or fake, or "real self", we just choose to expose different sides of ourselves in different circumstances for whatever reasons, in my opinion anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:28 PM
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There are so many women here and on similar subs writing comments like "Your attitude is really unattractive!" "You sound hateful, I wouldn't date you either" "No wonder you're an incel" "I sense red flags in your text". It's strange. Those guys are not posting on reddit in the hopes a girl will DM them and ask them out lol. They (probably) don't give a shit what you or anyone thinks. And I'm pretty sure they would never talk and act like this in any real social situations with real women. The i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:12 PM
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I should stop reading this subreddit, this is misery porn and legit bad for my mental health. I wish I never tried to understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:28 AM
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Maybe idk no girl ever asked me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:26 PM
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One struggle from the "foreveralone/inkwell"-crowd that I could never relate to is that they often claim they're mocked/bullied/ostracized for their virginity + inability to find a partner and basically regarded as second class-citizens by colleagues/classmates/family/society at large. It also comes up often on this sub where men complain about women rejecting them for being virgins. Very strange victim-mentality imo. In my personal life (as an adult virgin), noone cares. Not my family, not my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:27 PM
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Whatever man I give up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:30 PM
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Dictionary definitions don't matter that much, what the word generally refers to in colloqial use does. E.g. "incel" = involuntary celibate, but most people don't mean that when they use the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:23 PM
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Yeah? In my mind "objectifying" is like a feminist buzzword to derogatively refer to unwanted sexual attention (think of the "Hello, HR?"-meme). I'm open to being enlightened though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:15 PM
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a woman showcase her sexuality without you objectifying, that’s when the real enlightenment starts. What does that even mean? What is "objectifying"? What is the difference between "objectifying" and seeing her sexuality in an "enlightened" or healthy manner? How do I get there? Am I always "objectifying" if I think of a woman sexually? And again, why would she show her sexuality if she didn't want people to acknowldge it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:59 AM
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I'm not sure why I would want to appeal to women when I date men. It's the topic of this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 10:16 AM
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I don't think anyone would describe themself as boring. But are you "not boring" in a way that wouls appeal to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:44 AM
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Bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:06 PM
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80% of manosphere issues and debates would be instantly resolved if we got rid of the women-are-wonderful effect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:03 PM
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I don't mind it, it sounds really funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:01 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:57 PM
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What do you think of many small tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:55 PM
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REAL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:54 PM
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It kind of blows my mind that you can just assume that both of you are exclusive without explicitly discussing it. Why? Personally I always thought that when you do so much as to kiss, you're implicitly already exclusive (until I discovered internet dating discourse...)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:34 AM
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He probably won't be as good as the "naturals", but one can definitely improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:56 PM
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Unironically agree. I'm in a very similar spot to OP, the only times I ever got close to something like sexual tension/a sexual encounter with a woman were when I was drunk. I lose like 30 IQ points, all my verbal filters disappear and I just say whatever and it's often perceived as witty by women (who are also drunk tbf). It really allows you to just go with flow when in a sober state the flow is restricted. Might not be the best long-term solution though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:03 PM
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I agree 100%. The real black pill is that the greatest predictor of your dating success isn't unchangeable aspects about your body but unchangeable aspects about your inherent personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:46 PM
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You're again wrong about everything. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:40 PM
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Bit OP's whole point is that introverted (or rather the traits commonly paired and associated with it) = boring
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:35 PM
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You don't seem to know what an of these words/things mean. Intelligence = IQ, "wit" has nothing to do with it Hypergamy = Desiring romantic partners of social status higger than one's own And no, on average women are not smarter then men. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:23 PM
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Not a good example because hair- + eyecolor and height don't really matter, it's the face that's actually important. Also, female models are geared towards the female gaze, they're not necessarily what men find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:20 AM
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All men want to commit to you for a serious relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:46 PM
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No, that's not appropriately gender-reversed. Stacy-treatment is all men want to commit to you for a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:45 PM
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Women aren't attracted to traits that are positive traits in a long term relationship? Exactly. These traits are desirable but not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:55 PM
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Question from an inexperienced virgin: What exactly is an "emotional connection"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:20 PM
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I mean I can sorta see where you're coming from but this example really isn't that bad. At least she has clothes on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:58 PM
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I would say just pay intention to the lingo they use "mog, maxx etc" but tbf looksmaxxing and related content reached meanstream at this point and there is a lot of overlap, so they might not all be incels yeah But I can tell you years ago they talked the same way about chads in niche incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:39 PM
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I mean just read the comments here, you'd think all incels are actually in the closet😂 https://youtu.be/Knpeg-DJNDY?si=snZ0BvnfIPtIXxxP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:12 PM
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Not true. Why do you think that? I browse incel spaces more than I'd like to admit and they don't seem to be particularly antagonistic towards sexually successful men. A lot of times they even straight up worship them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:00 PM
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Agreed. I'd wager anxiety- or avoidant personality disorders are the root for many if not most cases of inceldom. But turned down version of serious disorders then get projected onto chad when in reality it's just low interest from their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:55 PM
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I do respect the big 5. Attachement styles not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:24 PM
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"Attachement styles" aren't real lmao it's just therapy-speak for women to rationalize getting strung along by chad. No man cares about "attachement styles". "He has avoidant attachement style😭" Nah girl, this guy just thinks you're too easy/ugly/annoying to commit to, so he won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:21 PM
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No, have you? (Trick question, you didn't, because again, they aren't chosen)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:10 PM
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Life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:06 PM
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Or maybe they are around but women overwhelmingly don't choose them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:02 PM
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Even here, women are the larger "active" group and hence it would be more accurate to say they are performing the act of "sharing" the smaller group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:39 PM
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I think sharing would imply having access to. Can't share something I don't "have" in any meaningful way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:29 PM
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300 men are interested in casual sex on Tinder, so are 100 women. All 100 women get it, but only 30 men do. (Imagined numbers but you get the point)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:09 PM
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Like how did the sexual encounters happen? I assume there was at least foreplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:40 AM
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That's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:36 AM
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It might have to do with the dating app-algorithm. Like if your profile is doing well it will be shown to more women/will be higher on the stack, then consequently receive even more likes, ad infinitum. Especially when it's a new profile, it will calibrate quickly into one direction or the other. I experienced something similar when I set up my profile anew with better pictures and got from 1-2 matches a week to like 10-20 (while being literally the same guy). I don't think looking slightly more…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:43 AM
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Nah all good, my phrasing was not clear tbf. But well now you get why I didn't quite believe your "thousands of times" answer hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:08 AM
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Oh I think there might have been a misunderstanding. I'm moreso wondering "have you performed sexual acts with someone without EVER having kissed that person before?". Like in a hookup/FWB situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:53 AM
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Maybe I'm autistic but I can't tell if you're sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:40 AM
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Question from an inexperienced virgin (slightly rephrased): Have you ever performed a sexual act with someone without ever having kissed them (on the mouth) before? Is that common?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:22 AM
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