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77кg for a woman is insaaaane, I feel so bad for American men lol. You could also add average height since it matters, Swedish 67kg is not the same as Spanish since they are a lot taller Although I guess it would be different if you include only < 40y old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:26 AM
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Settling in a way that the new guy is less sexualy attractive to her, but has other qualities she like for a logn term partner, beacuse it's rare to have all. But thing is for the most men, I think, is that this is kinda humiliating. You don't understand this probably since for women being the "best sex he ever had" is not important as to men. And that is why these guys are kinda bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:00 AM
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This is not opposite to what I said. I did say that 'body count' matter more to guys with low experience, and that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:03 AM
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Promiscuous past" matters to non-promiscuous men. High quality men are non-promiscuous So I was right, you are conservative "I want a woman like my grandmother" guy... Isn't red pill about ridiculing conservative provider types? Jolie has no biological children, what are you on? She adopted all the kids while married to Brad. Ok, I am not that familiar with celebrity relationships, but Vergara definitely had kids. Still one of the hottest woman, that you would FOR SURE reject.. Joe definitely di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:52 PM
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I am am man, and as I replied to some other guy, I did care about body count - when I was young and low body count myself. The more success I had, the more women I made orgasm, the less I started to care. Basis of caring about body count is one and only - lack of confidence in sexual abilities, and the more guys she fucked, the bigger is the chance that someone was better than you. And we as men, want to be the best fuck she ever had, that's normal. I don't talk about girls who were fucking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:17 AM
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I mean what is a definition of a high quality man, that's subjective. For you it's probably some conservative religious guy I gave an example of 2 rich famous extremely good looking guys, since they are the ones who literally can choose however they want. And they have chosen single moms whose body counts are for sure above average. They didn't chose submissive housewifes who never leave houses. Because Jolie and Vergara are bombshells who are probably also cool as fuck, which means that this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:16 AM
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Not sure if this is ironic or not, but I have been through "the trenches" and this is definitely what I saw and experienced first hand. I never once in my life met a man who are attractive and handsome, who holds some conservative beliefs about sex. Women as well. It was always ones who can't get any that are bitter that "women nowadays are sluts, our grandmothers were better". Those who can, they fuck around, at least in one period of time until they are ready to marry and create a family. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:28 PM
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That is why you have that opinion - it's not based in reality, it's based on Fresh and Fit type podcasts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:03 PM
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I felt I was genuinely desired by her. She was the one initiating a lot if time, I never been rejected, the moment we start kissing she is instantly in the mood, always horny...(I mean we were 19-20) I still wasn't sure If I was the best, but I was definitely good enough, but still I had a bit of insecurity sometimes. I overcome it completely after we broke je up and I started to hook up more lol and pump my number up. But it's not only about number itself, because if you hooked up and girl don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:49 PM
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Beacuse it never happened that girl meet a guy and have sex with him the same night...You never spent a summer on a party destination obviously...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:40 PM
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Beacuse there are only 2 types of women in the world...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:39 PM
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very few high quality guys won't care about someone's highly promiscuous past. Like most desirable man in recent history Brad Pitt cared about Angelina Jolie past? Or that Joe Mangagelo(or however is spelled) who is like one of the best looking man on the planet as well didn't marry Sofia Vergara? (Who was also single mom, oh my god!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:26 PM
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Exactly lol, being "promiscuous" in college/young age is a "red flag" to guys who missed out on that experience and are bitter about it, feel inadequate since they are less experienced. When I was young, my girlfriend had way more exp than me (She was my 1st serious relationship and 2nd sexual and she was with 6,7 guys) and that bothered me a bit. But it's an ego thing, since the more and more exp I got, the less I cared about girls "body count".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:18 PM
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Or.. since you have been through a lot, you now know exactly what you want and if I choose 1 girl over 100 that means I reaaaally like her. And vice versa And also, since you have the ability to pull, you are not needy. Since many men think they are "in love" but they are actually touch starveed and will settle with anyone As we have a saying in Serbia, "it's easy to be faithful when nobody desires you"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:53 PM
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Yes they are miserable because they see how awful the dating landscapes is Awful for them, because they suck. I am in a relationship now, but I enjoyed dating world in past years a lot. Dating is fun - if you are fun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:48 PM
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Lucky her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:36 PM
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like sure even below average women with high body counts I said it twice, and my original comment was "if they are still hot". Which means that body count is irrelevant, and it's only relevant to guys who has low body count themselves. And low body count men are usually low body count men beacuse they are undesirable, so those women could not care less about them anyway. Morals or religion are just used by those guys as coping mechanism to justify their lack of success in that field.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:34 PM
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*Man who are not confident in their sexual abilities and want virgins who can't compare them to anybody else since they don't know better. If you are real attractive desirable man and know what to do in bed, you can make CEO of multimillion company be faithful and "submissive". I don't want woman who is submissive to any man just beacuse she is raised like this. Do you guys have sisters or mothers? Do you want for your sister to be submissive housewife who does not leave a house?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:26 PM
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Celebrities were just an example of beauty level. Doesn't actually have to be Jessica Alba or Sofia Vergara, but the woman who look like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:20 PM
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If you are 25 than yes of course, you don't eant to sate single mom. But usually single moms are paired with single dads that are also 30+ as well. I am not talking about extremes with 2 kids at 21 and baby daddy who is a criminal. My mother is a divorced and a surgeon, she was pursued by her colleagues FOR MARRIAGE even in her 50s lol. Those guys were also in 50s of course. But she didn't want to get married again, since she doesn't want to adapt her habits to anyone. My father was also in a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:18 PM
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girl who doesn’t like to leave the house. That explains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:54 PM
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I saw "if they are still good looking" But I really beg to differ, even those women can find someone,I see that all the time. And those infamous single moms that red pill podcasters talk about a lot, they are still pursued. I think this is some kind of revenge fantasy you guys have, "you will die old with 13 cats" etc... I used to read some red pill stuff 10 years ago, and I do agree with many things from there, but aren't the one of the major tenants "woman with rather be single or even share a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:53 PM
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That doesn't matter, I see men simp over fucking twitch streamers and only fans girls lol. It's not about being a celebrity, more about being in that level of beauty. Any Instagram model will find a man to marry easily. Even rich guys, it happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:45 PM
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The rise and rise of single childless women over 40 is testimony to this! Beacuse women prefer to be single rather than be with a guy who doesn't meet their standards, not beacuse men don't want them lol. While men are the one who are bitter and lonely if they are single in 40s. Since most single men in 40s aren't DiCaprios or James Bonds of the world Women handling being single way better than men do, and since we don't live in conservative religious times anymore, they are not depending on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:21 PM
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I gave an example of a hot famous girl, it can be anyone, young Salma Hayek or JLo if you prefer more busty one..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:14 PM
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You say that now because you know there is not a slight chance for that to happen. Like when fat hairy girls on reddit say they prefer nerdy chubby guys over athletic classic-handsome ones. Beacuse they were never pursued by one Sinilar like poor people say that if they are millionaires they would still live frugaly and give all the money to charity. But if they actually got that money they would definitely not do that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:11 PM
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If she is hot enough she can get a man to commit and be head over heels over her regardless of how many guys she had. Those guys who says shit like "she is for recreational use only" blah blah ONLINE are just bitter guys who cope beacuse they kbow they don't have a chance with them anyway Like all of you guys would reject a relationship with someone like, for example, Arianna Grande or Jessica Alba beacuse they had sex with more than 10 men, yeah right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:50 PM
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Then everyone is a nerd and word lost it's meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:45 PM
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Well yes, nerd is kinda associated with "losers". But nerds from my example. However playing games and watching anime does not make someone a nerd. I graduated from HS 10+ years ago, and we all watched DragonBall for example, most of boys gamed etc.. Ones who ONLY gamed and did nothing else, those were losers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:35 PM
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Then in my HS days 90% of boys were nerds, since almost everyone gamed. Everyone, popular guys, quiet shy guys, average joes ...Dota, Lol, Warcraft, Counter strike, PES, FIFA...whole class gathering over the weekend to plays CS for example...That is why my definition of a nerd isn't the same as yours
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:18 PM
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In 5 days other possibly better looking and funnier men are competing with me for her attention and a date. Not necessarily lol, you felt for "girls arr getting bombarded by messages from movie stars daily" trap from youtube videos. She already agreed bro, that means she liked you enough. If a new guy messaged her and she decide to cancel, she didn't like you enough anyway. Don't be desperate. You could just text her once, or reply to insta story with some joke etc..something lighhearted and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:49 PM
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Yeah, but definition you posted is too general. For example, I was always a party guy, have a big social group, I do things basic people in my country do (watch and play sports, going drinking every weekend, chasing girls, had a few fights.. ) but I am also heavily into Fantasy books, which might qualify me as a nerd by your definition. I also have a friend who is literall party animal, didn't skip 2 weekends out in a row ever, who was making secret parties during Covid quarantine...who also pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:43 PM
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You already had a date confirmed? So then stop texting as much. Point of texting (I guess its an online dating) is getting to a date. Nothing else. You don't ask girl you never met about her day, this is what you do with girlfriend. I am in sales, so I can make a parallel. After you close a deal and just wait for technicalities (payment to arrive, paperwork.. ) stop talking unless asked, since you might "oversell" and create more questions than answers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:30 PM
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I don't know, overall accepted definition of a "nerd" in my country at least, is a person who is good in school, do everything by the book, blindly follows the rules, never misbehaves,on a quieter and shy side, bad in sports etc.. book smart but not "street" smart etc. So someone can be a smart, top student, into gaming,books. but athletic and socially more adapted and not making a personality out of his hobby - therefore not a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:13 PM
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Both genders start to have less options after 30. I disagree, at least for causal. At 30, you can pull 20 old and 40 y old as well. While I was 21, I could go max 2,3y older. And also didn't want to date highschoolers, so age range was +-3 and now is +-10 It will never be better because you will never be someone’s first, you will never have the genuine teen love experience, But you can at least have adult love experience. Yes experiencing everything is better, but having something is better than…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:09 PM
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Agreed. I have been to a lot of places (not Latin America tho), and nowhere I saw the amount of good looking women as in Belgrade and even my home city.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:59 PM
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The point of this post is that other men never tell you it’s unfair, you’re just expected to do well I agree with this, many people, especially on Reddit are just virtue signaling. Me and my other good looking friends have to try twice as less for twice as better results that average or bellow average guys looks wise. I do agree that ugly guys are being gaslighted that the problem is their "personality" Money is not dating. I can get rich at 35 and have as much fun with the money at age 25. If I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:48 PM
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You can spend years working to be a 7/10 but the other guy started out life at an 8/10 and put in half as much work and became a 9/10. So what? Nobody says dating and life overall is fair. Someone is born in working class family while someone is born in rich family with connections. Person A has to work 100 times harder just to reach person B starting point. However that doesn't mean that person A can't become successful or even rich eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:25 PM
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She is mid. Her being a celebrity doesn't mean she must be some next level beauty. She is skinny cute girl, no more no less. If we talk about Gal Gadot, Jessica Alba, Sofia Vergara, young Monnica Bellucci or Ketrin Zeta Jones, or Scarlet...then yes, they are extreme beauties with god blesses genetics that you don't see everyday. But you and other girl say that Emma is some goddess, while me and every other guy here say that we see girls like her every fucking day. So it's not about "man have unr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:45 AM
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Skull shape lol...her being a celebrity doesn't mean she must be some next level beauty. She is skinny cute girl, no more no less. If we talk about Gal Gadot, Jessica Alba, Sofia Vergara, young Monnica Bellucci or Ketrin Zeta Jones...then yes, they are extreme beauties with god blesses genetics that you don't see everyday. But you and other girl say that Emma is some goddess, while me and every other guy here say that we see girls like her every fucking day. So it's not about "man have unreasona…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:39 AM
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You can't be serious? Emma looks like she never did any serious workout ever. No curves, no muscle definition, no ass.. She is literally just skinny. Like "just don't eat much and take a walk every day" type of body
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:49 AM
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Romania- Netherlands?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:45 PM
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Lol, you don't have to be rich to look hot. Just don't eat like an idiot and workout 3-4 times per week You think that she looks below average in that picture?! She looks plain, nothing special, therefore average. Tonight I am going to a bar to watch EURO, I bet there would be at least 3 better looking ones, on a random Tuesday evening. Literally everyone from Eeast Europe and Balkans would agree with me on it. You go to any swimming pool in my country now you will see at least 20 better looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:28 PM
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I just said that I saw 5 better looking girls while going to a store and back home, so no, I am not blind to plain girls, like Emma, since I am seeing them all the time. My girlfriend looks better, most of girls from my friend group look better. https://preview.redd.it/gj1glktx05ad1.jpeg?width=746&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d32dddf0769cd16e6d1577c5f37579b60fe45529 This is above average to you? What is "average" for you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:08 PM
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I mean she is pretty without makeup as well, on the 1st photo she just made an ugly expression. But body-wise, literally average. Many girls I know that look like her, or similar. My ex who never did a sit up or squat in her life looked like that, with 0 extra fat and flat stomach. Just by eating moderately and not eating fast food and pastry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:38 PM
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No lol, don't twist my words. I said she looks like an average skinny cute girl and that look is easily achievable. I went to buy food now 200m down from my place and I saw 5 better looking girls during that walk. Literally. I am saying that due to your standards of what is fat and what is "chubby" you think Emma Watson's body is unachievable and that you have to be rich to look like that. While in my city, 80% of girls under 30 (even 40 I might say) looks the same or way way better than her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:09 PM
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This is literally my life for 30 years. What you in UK/USA consider "chubby" (especially on reddit where girl who is 160cm and weigh 70kg is considered "a bit chubby") we consider fat as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:49 PM
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Come to Serbia or any other Balkan country and walk around any city center you will literally see hundreds of girls looking better then Emma. She is literally nothing spectacular looks wise. Average skinny girl with a cute face. You absolutely don't need to be rich to have body like her. She is not some Jessica Alba or Monnica Bellucci level of beauty so you can talk about being "genetically blessed".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:54 PM
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Well moreso yes...Emma Watson looks (body, not face) is pretty basic and extremely achievable. Even without gym, literally just eat healthy. In my country that is a basic look, I can see 30 girls looking like that while walking down the street for 20minutes. Most of my girl friends also look similar, many of them even better (gym goers) If in USA Emma Watson's body is considered "unrealistic", damn.. I feel sorry for American men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:00 AM
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So you would rather that your wife stays with you even if she doesn't want to? And you would be happy to be with someone just for beacuse she isn't allowed to leave? Lack of divorces in previous "good old times" isn't an indicator for the quality of marriage. It was just socially unacceptable thing to do and people rather leaved unfulfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:16 PM
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I didn't watch all low quality movies from 30s lol, but if you see any picture of actresses from that period of time you will see no hairy legs and arms <image> Here is a random photo. Same beauty standards as today
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:56 PM
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Most women don't get that. Most women don't want that as well, at least not as much as men want. For example I shave my chest and stomach hair so my abs are more visible, and my girl likes that but don't mind the hair, but shaving arms and legs are a big no-no. I am and was a friend with a lot of girls, and majority of them dislikes and ridicule guys that shave legs Believe me, if women would start to prefer shaven legs, men would start to do it regularly. Majority of things men do and work hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:00 PM
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First you said 60s, now is 1910s... Even if this is true, which I doubt, so what? Men didn't know better before. Now we know and are able to compare and pick and choose what we like. Just to make an analogy, 300years ago people were happy to eat just bread and corn, but that does not mean I am not allowed to prefer burgers or pizza over bread During the time of our ancestors in caves nobody cared about pretty faces as well, it was just important that female homo sapiens has a vagina, so that mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:50 PM
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but if you're gonna ask for something hopefully be willing to give it in return. So if I like hourglass figure that mean I have to have an hourglass figure? Or if I like small feet and hands in a women, I need to have it as well? What is beutifull on woman is not the same on what is beutifull on man, that is basic logic Feeling the smooth soft girl's skin is one if the most pleasurable thing in the world. Simple as that. It has nothing to do with patriarchy, oppression or whatever. It is just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:43 PM
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I don't see any hairy women in pre-WWII movies as well, this "it's all recent propaganda men are brainwashed by razor companies" is absolute bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:31 PM
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