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Yeah. Gonna be honest sometimes a lot of FR’s are about how many women someone layed but I’d rather someone just tell a story of how they had an amazing time with another PERSON. And how they were on top of their game because of how much of a connection they had and that they genuinely wanted to get to know this person. Call me a traditionalist but stories with real connections are great and makes me smile
/r/seduction24/03/19 05:43 PM
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I think your question isn’t the root of the problem. I think it’s a symptom of a problem you are struggling with yourself. If I were to guess, even in my experience, it feels freaking great to get validation and that really helps your self esteem. And now the types of validation you’re getting are people that you find not very attractive? So the validation doesn’t feel as good. I’ve definitely depended on validation from others to build up my self esteem, but I’m working on just depending on mys…
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:34 PM
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I mean he’s got a point... Smash is really freakin fun...
/r/seduction18/01/19 02:26 AM
12

Yes
/r/seduction26/12/18 10:50 PM
1

You can still say those things because you genuinely miss her! There’s no games! You’re in. She trusts you and you trust her! HOWEVER, some things to take from seduction is that you do not make your happiness dependent on her. You are steady. You are happy. And are unmoved and unreactive to negativity. To me you still have to maintain being a leader. Compassion and care comes with that too. Imagine a leader that you can base yourself off of. I imagine a tribal leader who’s strong, smiles at all …
/r/seduction25/12/18 04:26 PM
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The example I THINK was a parent’s kid was really nervous and not excited about going to school for the first time, so the parents ended up making like an activities table at home and got their kid excited. Then they sorta marketed “See, this is what you’ll be doing at school with other kids your age! Doesn’t that sound fun?” If it wasn’t... I’m not sure if it was another chapter. And I am still confused as to how it applies to anything hahaha
/r/seduction03/09/18 08:21 PM
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Gotcha gotcha. I was just confused with your goal in mind. For me all that is nice, but maybe I’m different to just want a genuine connection. Now THAT for me at least is the most difficult
/r/seduction19/08/18 05:06 PM
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And what does this accomplish for you? It’s definitely fun though
/r/seduction19/08/18 04:48 PM
7

Bruh. You’re in the bf gf game now. No games. All heart
/r/seduction19/08/18 08:45 AM
1

I totally understand. Dabbling in a lot of different things is really fun. I’m not sure if I have much time to read anymore though! I used to have a front desk job as a receptionist but that’s long gone. Now I can’t just read at work! I DO need to pick up a book though. You’re totally right on that
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:55 PM
1

Great recommendations! If you don't mind me asking, what are YOU into? What do you enjoy for fun??
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:15 PM
1

That makes sense! As a design major I can geek out on anything tangible or intangible and the meaning behind it all. I can talk about emotions since our whole architecture field focused on experiences. On top of that I DO have tons of video game knowledge and history of that. Movies. Music. Technology. Compooters. I getchu though. Do you think you just “sell” yourself better than before?? I know there’s not one answer but it’s just interesting
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:28 AM
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The double edged sword for me is I can go on dates and they go great. I’d like to say I’m a great first/second/third date guy. But that’s due to me being good at dating. After that though, I’m pretty boring and that’s a huge weakness of mine. Any way to be more interesting and not boring? Maybe I need to be more theatrical? Animated? What do you think?
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:17 AM
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Ehhhh. I wouldn’t do that. That shows you’re not confident in the things you say. Just message what you think and replicate her interest but one dial up.
/r/seduction25/06/18 05:15 AM
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You handled that awesomely. That was rude as hell for her to have someone tag along without even asking you. Glad you made that decision, because what she did kinda confirms that's not someone you want to be around. Seems like a taker and not a giver.
/r/seduction11/04/18 02:57 PM
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Sex isn't your goal dude. She'll smell that from a mile away. Also a car works well in the back seat. Just start with cuddling and go from there. "Hey! Let's cuddle in the back seat!" With no goal oriented mindset other than to have fun. Gonna be honest, church parking lots work very well.
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:53 PM
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Neither are more than half the dads out there. But you know why they’re attractive? Confidence, charisma, a hardy laugh, paired with slapping your back when they greet you.
/r/seduction21/01/18 02:58 PM
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Yes. You’re definitely right. If you wanna keep trying that string of messages, keep trying. However you will know when you struck gold with a lucky lady. There will be this connection that just feels right and both parties will find each other attractive. With regular use I would maybe get that connection once a month. It’s a lot of patience but sometimes well worth it.
/r/seduction20/01/18 06:56 PM
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Well if they’re only there for an ego boost you have to respect that. Some of these ladies, who are actual people, might be in a low point of their lives or just got out of a relationship and use tinder as a distraction. On top of that, you can’t expect every girl you match with to instantly be so cheery. They go through so many average “hey’s” a day. You can’t force someone to be into you. If both are, then awesome. Make a date. If not, get on with your life. Why would you waste your time on so…
/r/seduction20/01/18 04:48 PM
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I'm sure it's too late but you only miss 100% of the shots you don't take. If you keep doubting yourself nothing's gonna happen. You're the most influential person of your own life.
/r/seduction24/12/17 07:09 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:54 AM
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I really enjoyed your "Be a fucking nice person" because sometimes it seems people on here trying to better themselves don't stop to remember that the goal is to genuinely connect with a person and to have fun doing it. We're dealing with people whether you like it or not and every person has the right to receive some sort of kindness.
/r/seduction18/12/17 10:14 PM
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Kudos to you for writing this up. No one ever talks about how to end things off, and this is really great advice. These texts are a bummer on both ends, but it's better to actually be upfront than to just ghost.
/r/seduction18/12/17 06:48 PM
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So don't let that phase you and ask her out. If she calls you out on being a manipulator straight up be honest and say it's an ice breaker that's nice to use because if you didn't you'd be stumbling over your words on what to say to a girl you find attractive. I THINK she might find this flattering?
/r/seduction18/12/17 04:35 AM
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The difference between an okay artist and a great artist is that an okay artist thinks his work is the shit. A great artist thinks all his work is shit and knows its weaknesses. This is what every single successful comedian does. Bill Cosby, Aziz Ansari, Kevin Hart etc. In their interviews they always say stuff like I've been working on this bit in my new routine." Which tells you they work hard on what they do. They critique the hell out of it on content and delivery. So to sum up you've got to…
/r/seduction17/12/17 12:41 AM
3

Not exactly. A republican can still despise Trump..
/r/seduction17/12/17 12:31 AM
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I think it's just a mental thing. You know your body the most and it was scared. I was too my first time. It gets to your head and then you fail again and again and it's a downward spiral. My solution would be if you feel comfortable with her text her and propose another date. If you want you can tell her youve never had sex before and maybe even get her to "teach" you. That could be fun for the both of you. If she declines or makes fun, the next person will be a lot more understanding. It's not…
/r/seduction09/12/17 04:51 PM
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Weight training = gain weight? Sounds good :D
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:46 PM
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Super great if you don’t have much time to meet people. Easy to set up dates on the whim if you connect with someone. A bit hard for me at least to match with someone with my... quirkiness?
/r/seduction11/10/17 03:58 AM
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Honestly if she's that comfortable with you and you didn't do anything too drastic to break her trust in you as a guy, I'm certain she would want another go but the timing was just off. In my experience, women really like their sleep, so it makes sense that happened. And the fact that nothing serious happened in terms of seduction means it wasn't too big of a deal for you that you guys didn't have sex. The longer you drag it out and make her comfortable with just being around you (while conveyin…
/r/seduction09/01/17 03:06 AM
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She's hesitant because she doesn't want to feel used and doesn't want to get into something if all you're going to do is see her solely as someone for sex. If she seems like a really cool person let her know. I feel like with her sexual history she's constantly been used wrongly and now maybe doesn't want to go through that. You have to genuinely let her know that's not like you. And if it is, then back off and just be kind. Seduction isn't about hurting people. Seduction is about having the too…
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:54 PM
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This I can agree with. I feel like a lot of people on here pay attention to small details, but don't mind trying to understand the big picture. All the formulaic stuff is just a little push to try and get yourself out there. I think the first months of getting into "seduction" I saw women as everything but people. Everything explained on pua conditioned me into something I really didn't want to be until I realized the bigger picture. Yes, I definitely would tip my hat towards the pua community a…
/r/seduction02/01/15 07:04 AM
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Me and my SO don't live in the same hometown, and I did this to her last night on new years drop. There were so many people downtown that the reception was awful. Yeah this definitely works, but at what cost? I ended up calling her and she was having a horrible day independent of me and I wasn't there to help. I feel like this is a double edged sword. Sure it makes her go crazy, but then you have to pretend like you don't care? Honestly I think that just kills me more inside...
/r/seduction02/01/15 06:55 AM
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I think it has to do with the culture/socioeconomic status of that person. There's definitely a difference between a white frat boy and a white redneck. Or Asian jock and an Asian long haired neckbeard. In my eyes, I don't compare by race, but by status among society. Like I'd be down to hook up with art girls, sorority girls, or athletic girls, but when it comes to raunchy, fat, ghetto, obnoxious, or bitchy girls count me out. No matter what race that falls under.
/r/seduction14/12/14 09:59 PM
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Make sure you're socializing with her while dancing. Most likely screaming in her ear. Then after that, just straight up say "Hey let's get a drink" or "Hey follow me" and take her hand and lead her wherever you want. Then do whatever you want from there.
/r/seduction13/12/14 11:01 PM
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What can help also is a "freeze-out" as mystery stated. It's pretty much if they do something undesirable like not wanting to take off their top you just stop and direct their attention to something else like "hey let's play chess" or "hey I think BBC earth is on." Until they cave in and you try again. It takes a while, but it gives them a reason to sleep with you. Essentially girls give the last minute resistance because they are unsure if you will stick around or not (They are hard wired for m…
/r/seduction07/09/14 05:39 AM
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Wow. The number of rejections is enormous! Probably because there's no guilt, but dang! If you approached them in real life I feel like your success rate would be higher.
/r/seduction21/08/14 04:38 AM
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I make it a game to make eye contact and smile at every person I pass and see how many smiles I can get back. It's really fun. For every smile you give and receive, you've just made one more person have a better day. You can at least appreciate the fact that you're affecting someone's life in a positive way.
/r/seduction11/08/14 08:30 AM
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Wow. You're the worst. This is partly why I despise the seduction community. Mostly people on here are really nice and give great advice. But then people like you come along and just make the most irrelevant comments of profanity because you think you're all that. Grow up. Appreciate the fact that he's actually getting himself out there and give him some advice. Sheesh!
/r/seduction11/08/14 08:23 AM
1

Or Raiden superman fly into her chest. That usually works too.
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:08 AM
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Wow.. This is really good. I never liked pua terminology in the first place. It degrades people and makes you sound like an ass.. Why can't I say "a cute girl" rather then hb8? Why can't I say teased instead of negged? Why can't I say I just kissed a really awesome girl instead of k closed?? It just sounds so dumb and immature. Sure it's a quick way to communicate different situations but it's so silly.
/r/seduction01/08/14 07:43 AM
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But if you go to a trampoline park, don't think you can do crazy stuff and juke and cut everywhere... Learned that the hard way.. Tore my acl cutting too hard. Make sure your movements always involve front to back movements. If you twist or do anything laterally do it with caution.. Knees are not to be messed with..
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:26 AM
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There was a girl who did that to me like girl a. Not that exaggerated but we hung out one night and she pretty much threw herself onto me while I was just having fun seeing what ridiculous things I could make her do like giving me a full back massage. Then she messaged me on fb the next day and I ignored it. Saw her that week and she was like "I messaged you! Why didn't you respond back?!" Which was just really awkward for me.. So DON'T MAKE IT AWKWARD. Just pretend nothing happened!
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:17 AM
1

I like how you roll
/r/seduction26/07/14 04:38 PM
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I am here because this is one of the most interesting concepts I've come across. I'm a bit of a formulaic person and the information I've learned is like learning a new subject in school. I treat it as a field of study that can help me with my life, career, and friends if they need it. There was a time in my life where I was at an all time low because I was using these really great people for my own pleasure and gain. I thought to myself "what's the point anymore??" I got so guilty of the pointl…
/r/seduction26/07/14 09:27 AM
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Find something that makes your life better. As a person. Something you enjoy for yourself. Like aardvarkarmorer said, don't just do it because it's an exciting activity. Do it because you actually have an interest in it. Try it out for a while and don't give up on it the first day because you're not good. The fact is, you probably won't be very good at it if it's your first time. My hobbies include things I really like. I like design, music, technology, and fitness. So my hobbies include archite…
/r/seduction26/07/14 09:08 AM
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LOL
/r/seduction26/07/14 08:45 AM
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This is sounds really fun for some reason. Hahaha. To add to this, you can always improve your acting skillset. That's pretty much what talking to furniture is. You'reacting like your furniture are actually people. So every time you talk to people, you can make it a game where you want to be a better actor. Your goal is to convey friendliness, confidence, and genuineness. Even though you're acting, you can do it enough to where it will become part of you.
/r/seduction21/07/14 08:18 AM
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Oh yeah! Forgot about select teams. I only did rec.
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:11 AM
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It certainly is. Like $20 per game center ref. Great bucks
/r/seduction21/07/14 04:41 AM
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I'm guessing you're 14/15? I used to referee and it was great because you didn't have to be 16 to work, but it would suck because my parents would have to take me and my hour long breaks between games were so useless and boring.
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:47 AM
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Shhh. I told her I wouldn't kiss and tell ;D
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:56 AM
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I live in a boring town filled with old people too. I'm being totally honest and sincere in the bluntest way possible. Hahaha. I went on a date two weeks ago, and that's probably gonna be my highlight of the month.
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:20 AM
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Atta boy! Especially in a town so boring, she'll be really excited to see you.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:33 AM
1

Watch some stand up! Bill Cosby, Donald Glover, and Aziz Ansari are my favorites. Just my opinion concerning stand up, but those that don't need to curse much or use any dirty language during their bits are rated funnier for me. Bill Cosby especially is a master at this. Donald Glover too. If you rewatch standups you really liked you'll notice how dumb, unfunny, and immature the dirtier jokes are.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:10 AM
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Exactly but even on beginner routes there seems to be a consensus that girls don't wanna look like an idiot.
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:09 PM
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Yes and no. You can't exactly "help" someone climbing. And if you try to, someone's going to get hurt. How it usually goes is "Hey here's the rock wall. Let's do an easy one just to get you started!" "But I'm scared/Everyone's gonna look at me" "Okay I'll go first then" "You made it look so easy" I find it a lot harder for the typical girl to climb, because they're concerned about their image. There can be some kino here and there after an accomplished route but not as effective as the slackline…
/r/seduction15/07/14 03:50 AM
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They're valuable, especially the higher tier ones. If you've ridden an expensive speed bike, it's understandable. They're like heaven on two wheels.
/r/seduction11/07/14 08:11 AM
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I don't exactly have any marriage experience but I'll try and help out!!! First thing's first, chill and relax. Once you've done that, tell yourself and your wife you wanna have fun. So what your plans didn't work out? Nothing's perfect. Happens to the best of us. There are plenty of activities you can do that are low budget or even free. Just be creative and show her a fun time. Be playful. Be a tease. Show that you care. I don't see how else you can fix it. Complaining that it didn't work out …
/r/seduction11/07/14 08:04 AM
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I think it has to do with having a someone to fall back on. Going alone you only have one activity: shopping by yourself. With a friend you have two activities: shopping with your friend and dickin around with your friend. With yourself it's a lot harder to break the silence of your inner thoughts because you're not talking with anyone. Your mouth isn't ready to talk to anyone. With a friend because you're communicating, your social self is warmed up and ready to go. So I'd say if there's a way …
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:57 AM
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Hmm... The laugh you're talking about is the comfort between the two of you which to me seems a bit low from what you've said. If you DO go out again try and be more approachable and friendly. To me there are two versions of people: formal and informal. Formal would be he personality you convey to someone you just met, a teacher, boss, or interviewer. Sure you'll laugh at things but only to break the tension because formal settings are so stressful and uptight. On the other hand the informal per…
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:46 AM
2

You can still be you but also assert some dominance sometimes. I think Michael Cera in Scott Pilgrim plays a great example of it. He plays a pretty shy dude but was still assertive and got what he wanted just by asking and being himself.
/r/seduction09/07/14 08:42 AM
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Appreciating a girl you like and putting her on a pedestal are two different things. The former is what you want. You want to be able to know that you have value and so does she. You are both interesting and amazing people. The latter however can become unhealthy. You see yourself as someone who can never reach out to her because her value, in your mind, has been skewed and exaggerated a butt ton. Try and tell yourself that you're awesome and nothing you do can mess anything up. If it doesn't wo…
/r/seduction09/07/14 08:29 AM
1

Agreed. She showed obvious interest in you. It's fine for this situation to text a bit. Make sure to keep it fun. If you find yourself bored thinking it's a bit of a chore to text, just stop texting for that day.
/r/seduction08/07/14 07:56 PM
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Maybe you were so caught up with social interaction and taking it for granted, you lost sense of yourself. This happens to me over summer break. I have to resort to texting, snapping, and calling a bunch of people to not go insane, but then I start discovering hobbies (I take up guitar lessons over breaks) and it helps so much. Gives me a goal to reach and improves myself a lot. So take up some hobbies on your down times. Read up on some forums for more information on them and just explore.
/r/seduction08/07/14 05:21 PM
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As corny as that sounds, it sounds a hell of a lot better than my ordeal. Haha thanks!
/r/seduction08/07/14 04:25 PM
1

Thanks for the advice! I'll try and remember that next time!!
/r/seduction08/07/14 01:38 PM
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I actually did have a bunch of fun. Glad that I got out of the house.
/r/seduction08/07/14 01:36 PM
1

It really depends on what area you live in. Lets say you message someone with something witty. Depending on the area many things can happen. For example those who live in a small town "drive to go anywhere in the city" city, then the more power to you because social interaction is low. Those who live in college campuses where walking to travel is the norm, you'll be at a disadvantage due to social interactions being ridiculously high. So try it and see what happens but I feel like meeting throug…
/r/seduction02/07/14 05:47 PM
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Honestly, social media initially is your enemy. How can people know the real you without physically having a conversation with you? My rule is never approach cold using social media/texting. Once you actually meet the person and get their number, send a few funny texts and back off or set up another date. Don't try and make conversation through text because lets say she likes the same music you do and you find out through text? Cool. But wouldn't it be a lot more exciting to find that out in per…
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:42 PM
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It's probably because of your comfort levels with her. Kino more. I don't know where I read this but you kiss once you've kino'd so much that it's the last and only thing you CAN do. Your awkward feelings come from not being physically comfortable with the girl. So after they kiss you, you feel more comfortable with them. So in terms of Kino. Once you're able to push/pull and all that jazz then you strike. If you're ready for it, she's probably ready for it, and really really wants it, too.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:58 AM
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HA
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:56 AM
1

Honestly just keep doing what you're doing having a great time and being independent. But when socializing after the initial ice breaker, mid story, tell them to sit down somewhere with you. That way they're not looking down at you but on YOUR eye level. It also creates more of a personal connection.
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:46 AM
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You don't need to read anything on this. Just join sports or clubs that interest you and whatever personality you strike well with. For example I was an art/math type student so I made an effort to join swim and soccer team and art club and even did some of the school dances. I didn't however join baseball, football, or basketball because I never clicked with those personalities. In terms of clothing, dress nice everyday. Basketball shorts and a shitty tshirt will get you nowhere. Another thing …
/r/seduction17/06/14 08:53 AM
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That's just running away from a situation that doesn't need running away from.. If people don't exactly talk to him in this school, they'll treat him the same in another. For some reason high schoolers have this 6th sense which can tell how high of a social standing someone has with one glance.
/r/seduction17/06/14 08:36 AM
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Slowly push your boundaries of your comfort zone. You don't have to immediately start making out with every girl you meet to become a success. The victories are all relative to what you want which you can answer yourself.
/r/seduction17/06/14 08:23 AM
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Either you can go all out and try to get her thinking that you're actually worth a damn. ORRRR.... stop taking her out and all the texting because it seems like nothing is going to happen. Treat her like you would any other person. Also get out and do other activities, find new hobbies, and hang out and mingle with other people. Edit: Everyone has a different situation. You know more than we do on it, so choose what you think is the right path. Being depressed all the time with false hope sucks …
/r/seduction16/06/14 04:43 AM
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That's definitely a problem... Try and be yourself for once and turn off the manipulative pua form of you. Have any friends that are girls? Hang out with them more but don't sleep with them. Train yourself to see girls as more than just a sexual being. Also... Have you read Dorian Grey by any chance? He goes through this wanting more all his life. Because his looks and aura were very attractive he took advantage of it. Then he wanted more so much he just got depressed and ended up being murdered…
/r/seduction14/06/14 08:45 AM
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It's not a bad thing. My parents share the same views as well. If you're not comfortable with it then just do everything BUT sex until you're ready. For now don't even focus on it. Just focus on having a good time within your comfort levels and keep trying to push that boundary little at a time.
/r/seduction14/06/14 08:33 AM
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I have no idea because I don't know what you guys talked about! I always make them really dumb. But for my own entertainment. Maybe something about finals??? Or moving out?
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:52 AM
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Haha. It wasn't bad. Just a bit friendly formal for me. But I'mkinda mean. Haha who knows. You're probably a really friendly guy so that text matches your personality perfectly.
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:39 AM
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You said friend... Not okay. But oh well. What's done is done. Your ice breaker was very..... Lacking personality. See if you can poke around a little maybe joke about something you mentioned earlier. If the response is as bland as that then just call it quits. Good luck! Hope this helps.
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:28 AM
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Text her a confirmation text of your number. I always use: "Hey ___! This is a very important number so be sure to store it with care. -Name" Then see how she responds. Positively? Negatively? Poke around a little and end on a high note. Then just stop texting her. When you're outta town send maybe one or two playful texts to keep you in her mind. Once you get back. Set up the date. Done. edit: And text at a reasonable time. Don't text around late night 10pm. To me people appreciate a fun text d…
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:14 AM
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You don't need to do anything special. Just make small talk. Smile a lot make good eye contact. Then ask for their number. Also don't try to approach people who look like they're in a hurry to go to class.
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:45 PM
0

Honestly all of us have probably reached 10000 hours of video gaming and/or computer usage!! Isn't that awesome?
/r/seduction28/05/14 02:11 PM
3

Yes. Pink Triangle. Weezer is da bomb. Also they're working on a new album as we speak!!!
/r/seduction23/05/14 05:30 PM
1

I meamt like as in crush on a girl. It's been too long since I've had a crush
/r/seduction22/05/14 05:31 PM
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Sure he's just starting out but he's also very right in a lot of aspects. The way this subreddit teaches us to think is a bit promiscuous... Once you score with one you want more and more and more. You feel amazing. And then bored until you reach that next high..It's a vicious cycle. For instance I haven't actually LIKED a girl ever since I read on this stuff two years ago. It's a lot of lusting. And it's a bit of a love hate relationship. Just my two cents. "Do you know what I am saying?" -Butt…
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:53 PM
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Haha. Thanks! But the point of this post was more about eye contact with friends. Not with HBs. It's weird.
/r/seduction09/05/14 11:56 PM
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I'll give you props for comparing with math. We should do more math analogies for everything in life in my opinion.
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:27 PM
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Make sure to smile! Then if you make eye contact again see if you can make her laugh. You can play the mimicking game. Everything she does, do it mirrored and really exaggerated. Then after class talk to her. Edit: OHHH. Also, you can mouth "What?!" whenever she looks at you. I'm a "why are you looking at me" playful face
/r/seduction07/05/14 06:23 PM
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With that tone of writing, everyone will take your advice with a grain of salt. Yes you have a point, but you can be a lot more constructive with your criticism without attacking your subject.
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:23 PM
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The way the story unfolds how it's over the course of three dates.. Two dates? And how she called after him texting, it seems like a very healthy relationship. There's much more potential for this to be an ongoing thing rather than just a one nighter.
/r/seduction07/04/14 07:00 AM
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Honestly, even though this is quite insulting, Carbone has a point. She might have just wanted to have some fun that night/week. Doesn't mean she was crushing on him as well. Sure she was attracted to him, but maybe not obsessed. IwantIT_all, did she say anything back once you confessed your 5-year crushing to her? Or did she just say it was cute and she's flattered, and then changed the subject? I worry that you could have gone too strong with that.
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:12 AM
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Try to find a club that stays open later. Also, loud clubs are easy. You just have to make sure to dance. Only dance hardcore occasionally and try to get everyone to join. Be playful and fun. Direct and cheesy. This is where the fishing pole reel in can b useful. Going by yourself might be challenging. Go with one of yur friends and tell them the down low. Just make your goal to be the life of the club. Someone everyone knows and is happy And comfortable to dance with. Then the seduction may or …
/r/seduction21/03/14 07:11 AM
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You're right. I'm noticing that it's so much easier to approach now without caring about rejection. But anyways you've been a great help! Really insightful. Thanks!
/r/seduction02/03/14 12:29 AM
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Great advice! I'll be sure to do that. My moral self feels horrible but my pua self is saying good job. I don't exactly want this pua personality to consume me because that's not who I want to be,, but I'm glad that I was able to act the part and reach the goal I set.
/r/seduction01/03/14 08:07 PM
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Okay. Sounds good. This was my first gig, so I have a lot to learn. Also I didn't get her number. Because I had no intentions to. I just want to prevent her thinking I'm an asshole for just kinda dropping her like that. So I guess if I DO see her/her friend on campus I should do my best to be friendly and playful, correct?
/r/seduction01/03/14 07:34 PM
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