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Compliments on his masculinity! His height, his muscles, his beard, his strength both physical and emotional, his athletic ability, his leadership ability, his success in his career and as a provider. These are just a few I can think of off the top of my head, but basically anything stereotypically masculine that he accels in!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/21 03:39 PM
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Or break up with him. Either way if he doesn't wanna please her the way she wants. Those are pretty much the only two options.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 05:29 AM
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I'm sorry, I'm gonna get downvoted to help for this. My husband has fetishes that actively turn me off. I still do those things anyway though because I love him, and want him to be happy and enjoy himself. Nothing bad about me or him. And yes, sometimes I go in one of the guest rooms with a vibrator. Again, it doesn't make, or him a bad person,or bad at sex, its just difference in preference at the time. If this girl has never gotten off by PIV, it's time for a serious conversation on how he can…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 05:28 AM
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Sex is a thing we do for men, no matter how much you enjoy it or don't enjoy it. If he doesn't get you off, go ahead and "take care of your self", just make sure to do it in another room so don't upset him. Men are very sensitive towards that sort of thing.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 04:52 AM
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Wonderful! I'll take a look at hers, that sounds exactly like what I'm looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 03:46 PM
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I'll look those up! As far as "fast fashion" i was referring to things I buy to wear only for a short while. Super trendy things that I'll wear this spring for example, but by next year I'll be tired of and throw out. I wasnt referring to any brands or price range.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 03:45 PM
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Thats a great idea! Im a sucker for color, so I like the idea of investing in a few staple neutrals then accenting it with bright dresses/tops I can change out more often. Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 03:43 PM
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That's fine. I'd like to have one or two pairs of jeans, just not majority jeans like a lot of guides to capsule wardrobes I've seen. I'm glad to know where to get good ones!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 03:21 PM
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Thank you, I'll look those up. :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 03:17 PM
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Thats wonderful! I'll definitely check it out! I dont mind paying more for good quality. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 03:07 PM
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Yesterday was shrimp scampi with broccoli orzo. Today we're having beef and cheese manicotti with a salad. Wednesday is hubby's birthday so we're going out to dinner with his father. I'm still planning to make a delicious seared sesame tuna over a salad of baby arugula with homemade soy ginger vinegarette for lunch. For breakfast I was planning to make Swiss chard eggs Benedict, but last night he mentioned he really wants corned beef hash, which I've never made before. If any of y'all have any g…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 02:52 PM
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Honestly, I'd say count your blessings. Despite what your super creepy uncle said, most men would prefer skinny I think. Also, just like in losing weight, you can't control which body parts the weight goes too. It might go to your butt and chest, or it might all stick to your stomach. If you really really want to gaining weight, the others are right. Weight training and protein is probably best. It's painful and unpleasant, but it gives you the most control over your individual body parts.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 01:58 PM
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I'm familiar with this. I grew up in a household where it was emphasized that things done right look like they're supposed to. That if someone doesn't notice what you've done, you did it correctly. Once I got married though, it got to be a bit frustrating that a clean house and a meal on the table were sort of "taken for granted" What I've been doing to combat this is doing something productive but unnecessary. For example, right now I'm making some pajama pants for my husband and a quilt for a …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 03:40 PM
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Seems interesting. Will definitely bookmark the page, kinda wish they sold hard copies!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 01:51 PM
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I'm a smoker, a drinker, and my mother was extremely wrinkly, so i know your pain! Drinking lots and lots of water is super important. I know it's cliche, but it really does help. Also, I looked up an infographic on everything your skin needs in a day and in what order and have been following it really consistently for about 3 weeks and I can almost go without foundation now. Wash, exfoliate 3x a week, toner, serum, eye cream, moisturizer, and sunscreen. I personally use the masquology 24k gold …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 05:28 PM
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I agree. I may have come across that way because one of the first responses was telling me to basically suck it up and drop the subject with my husband. It had me feeling like I was 100% in the wrong until a few others came in with a more supportive "talk it out" attitude. I do agree with what you're saying about not being alone. Believe me, thats not something I want at all. I'd much rather be with my family, but it's an 8 out of 10 on my importance scale. This trip is an 11 out of 10 on my hus…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 09:37 PM
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Perhaps I should have explained further. It isn't the sporting event I'm excited for. I'm not a huge football fan. I was excited to see my parents, which is something I can do most any time. As far as the alternatives, I've already considered those. My parents' property is unfenced, and one dog has a history of running away. She also will not go potty on a leash for some reason. The other would probably be ok, but it's very young and energetic and my parents do not like it. I also asked a few of…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 09:09 PM
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My husband makes good money, but works on commission. I know the last few months havent been very good for him, but we do have a pretty decent savings. However, he doesn't like to dip into that unless absolutely necessary. We're also working on a separate savings to buy a house when our lease is up in September. We can afford it, and it's a relatively small amount compared to what we have, but it's not a good time to spend the money. So I see where he's coming from from now that I think about it…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 07:59 PM
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Thank you. This is exactly what I was trying to think of how to say, but I'm awful with words! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 07:53 PM
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That's a good point... I can go visit family most any time. This is something for him he may only get the chance for once and i want him to be able to enjoy it to the fullest. Thank you so much for all your help and talking through all of this with me!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 07:40 PM
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I'll talk to him more about his plans. My understanding was that the tickets, hotel, and food are covered, but "extra" things, such as betting or souvenirs and maybe some other things aren't. I don't know his plan on how much to spend on those things though. Seeing my family is very important to me, but I'm beginning to think I should maybe offer a compromise instead. Something to the effect of him staying home one weekend so i can visit my parents, or me waiting till next month when we don't ha…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 07:26 PM
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I hadn't thought about that. I'lI do the numbers and see how much it will really be for both of our trips. It may be more than I'm expecting, or less than he's expecting.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 06:54 PM
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You're right. I do need to stop. His answer should be final, and I need to stop putting my wants ahead of his. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 06:52 PM
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I've already read this chapter, and the part about making a list for one another was so wonderful! When I read my list to him, he genuinely lit up! There were a lot of things I have always appreciated about him, but never expressed. He really enjoyed the recognition for small things, like anticipating my wants and needs. He also seemed very proud when I pointed out that things like video games and sports show his skills for strategy and planning. Also, since I've been looking for things to appre…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 03:02 PM
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Yes, that's exactly how we do it except I don't pay the bills from my account. All the groceries/vet bills/ home expenses/ come from my account. My online banking keeps up with it for me, I spend an average of $1,500 a month on these things. However there's a lot of variation, some months I spend $2,500 and some it's as low as $500. I was hoping to ask him for a specific amount each week to lessen this variation a bit, and to help me prioritize. How to go about that is what I'm trying to ask.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 04:01 PM
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At home, very hard. Out of the home, no. I do all of the necessity buying for the family, so that's what the money is for, not as fun money.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 03:32 PM
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Thank you so much for this! I did this hairstyle tonight and my husband was so excited! He said it was his favorite way I've ever done my hair! Yay! :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 03:53 AM
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When I used to work, I was a receptionist and wore dresses every day. I'm not sure what sort of work you do, but for me knee length a-line dresses + tights + a cardigan in a complimentary color was a go to winter look. It's warm, modest but pretty, and comfortable. I never felt overdressed at all, I still dress that way most of the time.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 08:10 PM
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My husband and I are both smokers, so I think it depends on how he smokes. For example, we only smoke outside, wash our hands and faces, brush our teeth, and spray a bit of cologne/perfume on ourselves after each cigarette. There are certain clothes we dont smoke in either, expensive things or dry clean only things. We also never smoke around our pets and would not smoke around children. I'd be far more concerned with his social class. It seems like he may have a criminal record of some kind, an…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 02:12 PM
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Scar revision like this I think is perfectly fine. However most men I've known are highly against plastic surgery for superficial reasons. As long as you're just correcting a,scsr though, I doubt anyone will have a problem with it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 01:10 AM
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Thank you! I'll go over there and join now. :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 11:18 PM
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I'll look her up! I haven't seen her videos before. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 10:03 PM
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Thank you! My mother used to listen to her radio show when I was a little girl! I'll add her book to my reading list. :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 02:06 PM
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It was so bad, that he got up and slept in the guest bedroom a few nights, so I'm going through a little faster than I'd ultimately like. I think it would be lovely to go through slowly with other ladies and absorb and discuss the concepts. I looked up the book club, and noticed y'all are on chapter one, I'll go back and reread it and join the discussion as soon as i finish my housework. I'm very much looking forward to it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 05:50 PM
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I'd love to join! I'll go find it and sign up now! And I agree about the inner peace. The first few days, I'll admit it was a bit forced, but now I'm really starting to feel it! It's made me do a lot of wonderful self reflection, and has made me so much happier over all.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 05:26 PM
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You should! Last night, my husband looked up the author because he wanted to write her a thank you letter. Lol.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 03:22 PM
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I make all my own cleaning products! It saves a ton and is just as good. I get all my "recipes" from Pinterest, but feel free to message me if you have any questions or are having trouble finding a recipe for something. Most everything is a mix of castille soap, borax, vinegar, baking soda, washing soda, water, and essential oils. However, for personal care products, it seems more expensive and less effective. I tried making toothpaste, and it tasted awful and didnt leave my teeth feeling clean.…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 02:41 PM
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Make sure the house is clean, you look nice, the pets are calm and well cared for. Also, make sure your personal effects are put away. No cleaning supplies, no sewing stuff, no open books or laptops. You can even put one of his favorite shows on the television and have a cold beer waiting on the table if he drinks. I've started doing these things recently, and it's a real game changer.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 02:34 PM
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Not a game, but I can see how you'd feel that way. But the point isn't to give him some kind of run around, it's to improve yourself by not allowing your entire life to revolve around a man who isn't interested in you or giving you his 100%. Honestly though, reading your story, you sound like a great lady and I'm sure he'll come around to the idea of a relationship whatever you do.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 01:45 PM
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Hmmm... I know it's far from RPW, but when I was younger, I did this a lot, and always ended up heartbroken. My stepmother gave me a book called "Why men love bitches" and the whole point of it was men need a reason to pursue, and want to pursue. If you're cleaning for him, cooking for him, comforting him, giving him good sex whenever he wants, what motivation does he have to take the next step? Make him pursue you a bit, he knows you're an amazing woman, he's seen you in action. Make yourself b…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 01:08 PM
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Honestly, I think the problem is that men and women mature at different rates. If you're both 21, that means you've pretty much reached emotional maturity, might be getting ready to settle down, you might have really started to find yourself and get comfortable with who you are. At 21, men are not at that level, and they usually don't get there till at least 25. He's still likely very emotionally and mentally immature and selfish, and it isn't his fault, he's just biologically on the same develo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 07:52 AM
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Sometimes, expecially if there's 20lbs of cat litter in there. And taking the big can from the garage to the road (we have a rather long driveway) definitely is. I take it out plenty, obviously if it fills up while he's at work, I'm not going to just leave it there, but for the big trips he doesn't mind taking care of it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 05:52 PM
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I think this is really fair. I stay at home, and our kids are pets, so not near as demanding as human babies, and I have no problem doing all the housework. The only things I don't do are jobs involving heavy lifting, such as bringing in the patio furniture before a storm, taking out the trash, and putting the cover on the hot tub and pool.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 05:14 PM
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Maybe just sit down and divide out the responsibilities? To a lesser degree my husband and I do this. For example, taking out the trash is always his job, as is bringing in the patio furniture when it's going to rain. Cleaning up after our fur kids is always my job, as is laundry and vacuuming. Dishes and feeding the animals we both do, though I do it more often than he does. That way, no one feels overwhelmed and forced to do everything, or like the other is slacking off. Also, it adds a bit of…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 03:44 PM
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You aren't a housewife. You can't be expected to do everything a stay at home mom could do in a day. That's quite unreasonable of him in my opinion. I say it's time for a serious discussion with him, and y'all need to decide together whether you should put your career on hold until the baby is a little older, or if he's going to start helping out more. My husband works 60 hours a week, so I completely don't mind doing everything around the house because I stay home. But if I also worked full tim…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 02:45 PM
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I think that depends on how you feel about it, y'alls lifestyle, and how he treats you. My SO drinks a six pack of beer a night, and I drink a bottle of wine. Neither of us really gets drunk or angry or anything so other than being expensive it's not really a problem. However, if your man gets angry or violent when he drinks, that's probably a deal breaker. I can also see it being difficult if you don't drink to have him drinking like that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 03:09 PM
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I would advise you to use extreme caution here. I dated a man like that, he lived with his mother and she did everything for him. I didn't think much of it at first, I've lived with my parents on and off, but he honestly couldn't do anything for himself. He'd come stay for a few days and wouldn't do dishes, would just throw his clothes on the floor willy-nilly even with a hamper in clear view, would play video games and not even come keep me company while I made dinner. Not to mention he had no …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 03:16 PM
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It isn't the end of the world, honestly in college I was dating a guy I swore up and down I'd marry. I even used some of my father's business connections to get him into a more prestigious college and get interviews with a few big companies in his desired career field. I say that just to illustrate how serious we were. We tried getting an apartment together summer of our junior year (dating 2.5 years at this point), and realized neither of us were mature enough for that sort of commitment/decisi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/18 05:39 AM
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