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Partners, relationships, i don't tend to have conversations where we count and compare. Do you want someone naive? What makes a good wife
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:30 PM
19

She won't settle for someone treating her like shit
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:29 PM
10

I know plenty of people who don't get hung up on sex and have good relationships
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:25 PM
11

Yes
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:19 PM
2

I wouldn't want someone obsessed and id worry about that with someone with little to no experience i guess
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:18 PM
3

Does it? Main thing is they get tested
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:15 PM
2

To some extent, only because I don't want to teach basics but it just means they're less likely someone id date nothing else
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:12 PM
7

I can't see how 6 mins is long enough for a deep dive
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 05:10 AM
5

Most people don't settle long term. You don't want kids so why do you care about a non existent offspring?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 12:59 PM
6

Everyone could worry that their partner settled for them, if you're that worried about it don't date at all but I think it's crazy to limit yourself in that manner
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 12:29 PM
10

Do you not think women have the same worry from men they date? Given how many guys just swipe on everyone on dating apps
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 06:36 AM
12

What's the point of confessions like my partner is great
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 06:32 AM
52

I don't think tiktok is a good representation of any group
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 02:55 PM
8

When he said don't trust people who don't like sparkling water because they are weak and he wasn't joking should be enough to tell you not to take him seriously
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 05:43 AM
11

So stop following people if you don't want to see thier posts
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 11:06 PM
16

I don't find misogynists hot and I assume they'd be crap in bed
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 12:00 PM
2

Not everyone does, if that works for you then you're the type red pill love
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 10:23 PM
2

Speak for yourself. Chemical bonding what nonsense, I'm assuming it doesn't work that way for men?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 10:14 PM
5

You probably should have educated yourself on what toxic masculinity is. You needed to m follow to sexist pricks to apparently not be a loser doesn't sound like an improvement
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 04:50 AM
3

Why did it even appeal to you
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 07:37 PM
4

But they've always been hypocrites spouting off about how women should be but they can do what they want,
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 06:34 AM
11

So sexism is fine but being a hypocrite is where you draw the line? Haven't they always been hypocrite anyway?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 08:48 PM
42

Exactly it could be any reason so why are you assuming it supports men are more romantic?
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 10:02 AM
45

Why do women file for divorce more? Are they cheated on more? Doing more than the man in the relationship? Etc what's the reason behind it
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 09:23 AM
1

I'd just be honest say you tried to big yourself up by playing a stupid game with negging and trying to come across as a player and do a fresh start with her. You say sex is important but at the same time you tried to play it off as it wasn't so she's probably just wary of you, but I think just being honest is best and not playing games. Ask for an actual date and if you don't like that she's late or whatever then just move on. I don't think grabbing a drink is a set time scale thing but food or…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 02:40 AM
2

I think you're over analysing, I don't really see how she disrespected you. She just doesn't want to stop her hobbies for you. If it bothers you then don't date her, I don't know why just going with the flow is so difficult for redpill guys everything has to be broken down and over complicated. You want to date then date and see where it goes, you don't want to then don't
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 01:35 AM
2

What did she do that was disrespectful to you
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 07:28 PM
10

Yeah why would someone want to spend more time with someone who insulted them?, also saying you've slept with ten people really isn't that big of a number.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 07:57 AM
18

What makes women inferior? If you feel weak start training some sort of physical exercise. Start focusing on your interests, you don't need to be defined purely by your gender
/r/ExRedPill11/02/24 10:27 PM
20

So you hate gender roles but believe in the redpill? Do you think you're an exception to other women who are all the same? Also why have out with people like that
/r/ExRedPill11/02/24 10:20 PM
10

Yeah and you sound like a child, she said no. Grow up and don't go all I'm going to make her jealous and sleep with only hotter women, your whole post makes it sound like you don't see women as people. She said no and you're blaming her. The solution is to either move on and you can either be friends or not, friends can fuck but by pretending to be a friend to get laid is pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 08:02 AM
14

Just stop hanging out with them or grow up accept you got a no and either be friends or don't. You sound like a child
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 07:36 AM
13

So what effort are you making to meet someone? What exactly do you mean by quality women?
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 03:03 AM
3

And she's not going to tell them because sex and all that is bad and the men probably aren't interested in learning
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:17 AM
9

I can't imagine wanting to have sex with someone who probably won't enjoy it, I bet the men who insist on a virgin are then the same ones moaning after marriage how they don't get enough sex because their wife isn't interested
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:12 AM
11

I doubt someone who's into gangbangs would marry someone who wants to wait for sex after marriage and isn't into the fetish/ social sex scene
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:34 AM
11

Did I say laughing matter? I think sex should be enjoyable. If someone is practicing safe sex and gets tested regularly and communicates with partners there is still a risk but it's not as dangerous as you seem to think. Bro everyone sees sex as sacred it doesn't mean they lack control issues it is just something they enjoy, there's a difference between being addicted and enjoying something
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:32 AM
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So practice safe sex. What makes someone waiting for marriage a good person? I see it as foolish, what if the sex is terrible with your partner you've now married or you're not compatible? Why place so much build up on something that doesn't change who you are
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:08 AM
12

Casual sex isn't for everyone there's nothing wrong with it though, I don't think not having sex makes someone more moral, plenty of incel types have zero sex but I wouldn't say they have good morals Do they find sex sacred or just disgusting and only for having kids? Some men care some don't, the ones who tend to shame women about it are insecure
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 12:36 AM
6

Why she's at home all day and bored, knows when you're out way easier to cheat than if she's working. If you're going to have sex after marriage what if the sex is terrible?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 10:39 PM
14

Because she's not like other girls /s
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 10:14 PM
13

But chances are you will and are more likely to than a woman. Why should someone trust you?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 05:39 PM
12

But the chances are you'll cheat or is that ok? So why should women marry you when you'll probably cheat and leave them
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 05:31 PM
20

But men cheat more so by your logic no one should marry you because you'll probably cheat. Passport bros want a bangmaid who is desperate.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 05:12 PM
14

Men who go to court to actually fight to get their kids do not lose access. How do you know a foreign woman wouldn't cheat? Divorce statistics are skewed by people who have been married and divorced multiple times, likewise women are more likely to file the paperwork and try to leave than men who may stay married but just cheat (this is general not necessarily a stat for all) Don't be a passport bro, what's your source that all western women are terrible
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 04:56 PM
4

I don't see dating as a driving test, just commincate if you don't trust your partner why date them
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:59 PM
3

Testing people
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:42 PM
3

Insecurity like my original point
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:40 PM
6

I wouldn't want to date someone who felt the need to test me
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:36 PM
17

Shitty insecure men and women test their partners. It isn't a gendered thing just a crappy person thing
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:22 PM
7

Let me guess he watches porn while bitching about how slutty and ruined the women are?
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:26 PM
3

Not necessarily part of redpill some people don't like when a partner has slept with a certain number of people, if he's slept with the same sort of number then he's a hypocrite. Not everyone is bothered by stuff like that though just find someone else. I don't really see why you'd bother dating a guy who ignores you for months and uses the term body count
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:21 PM
5

I wouldn't bother messaging someone who waited days to message me, why would I want to waste my time with someone who plays silly games?
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 05:42 PM
7

They can but that doesn't mean they do in long term relationships, you're making assumptions
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:46 PM
5

Source?
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:29 PM
20

What makes someone high or low value?
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:04 PM
36

I think most people don't break up on a whim, so will consider things for a while before deciding. I don't think that the majority of men or women have a back up ready to just suddenly go to. I'd leave a guy who said he had other options, I have zero interest in being treated that way, it's just a silly power play game and anyone who plays games isn't worth my time
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 07:56 AM
9

And this applies to everyone according to you?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:56 AM
5

Some men do, bit every one. Just like not every man wants kids
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:53 AM
6

Definitely talk to everyone and you'll meet new people
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 03:55 PM
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Just talk to people who you find interesting, don't over think things about how the conversation should go, obviously be socially aware like don't open with 'nice tits' to someone at a funeral..women are people, if you meet someone at a sports bar ask what team they support or something, at a pottery class how long and why they got into it.. conversation isn't difficult
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 08:26 AM
24

Why are you dating him?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 09:38 AM
3

Why are single mothers garbage? Why not the deadbeats who leave them? Sometimes people break up, and sure some are crap people others are great. Talk to men, only creeps think teenagers are in their prime. If you think you're inferior why not make effort to change that surely just accepting it is the worst thing. Plenty of men don't want to fuck everything that moves Do you not think womeb enjoy sex?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 11:17 AM
11

Why did you date him?
/r/ExRedPill07/10/23 07:07 PM
5

Or she enjoys sex?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 07:36 PM
2

I'm going to need to see some sources on this, you haven't even dated the OkCupid study just it was some time ago.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 07:50 AM
18

The 6ft thing really isn't as much of a thing as the internet makes it out to be. I think most women prefer taller men but given the height of most women I really wouldn't be concerned
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 04:40 PM
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You wouldn't be reported for being boring. Just stay away from nsfw topics and treat them as you would men
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 09:31 PM
10

Sounds like you can't be friends with women...not sure why you've assumed it applies to all men
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 10:48 PM
17

Men don't just choose women based on beauty, there's not a nice way of saying this but a lot of ugly people are dating/fucking etc. There are men who don't have any of those qualities who are reproducing
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 09:31 PM
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I've seen plenty of men in relationships who lack a lot of those things, there are plenty of chavvy guys who seem to have multiple kids with multiple women so obviously have something going for them...
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 09:18 PM
5

You clearly have no idea what you're talking about
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 09:38 PM
5

My only concern would be a guy who's a virgin may make the sex to be a huge deal if it was meant to be casual. If people are having safe sex/getting checked etc. Numbers don't bother me though
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 09:34 PM
24

Anyone who plays games or tests partners isn't worth the effort
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 10:06 PM
2

How so I don't use dating apps
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:06 PM
2

Trust me, as someone who's dated a couple they're not stealing your options
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:03 PM
1

I'm indifferent to them generally
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:41 PM
3

But you're not a couple so anyone interested in that wouldn't date you
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:38 PM
7

If they're looking for threesomes why would they date you?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:11 PM
2

They don't help, they can be fun but they're not a fix
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:09 PM
5

I'm glad you're doing ok now. I think threesomes can work but I've noticed anytime it's on dating apps and people are pushy it's due to some sort of relationship issue
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:30 PM
8

It's because your attitude sucks and no one wants to pity fuck someone. Work on yourself, stop being bitter and ditch dating apps they suck.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:17 PM
4

Yeah it happens in person, on apps it's normally the desperate ones
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:11 PM
4

Why?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:07 PM
2

If people aren't interested in them how is it competition?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:03 PM
6

I'm poly too but so many desperate guys think that means instant sex, threesomes or you're ok with them cheating on their partner
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:59 PM
3

On a dating app mostly yeah, especially when it reads along the lines of "we're looking to spice up our relationship" If you don't like dating apps don't use them, a lot of women don't.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:55 PM
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Yeah, being offered to be a third for unicorn hunters who are trying to stop their relationship falling apart is a great offer... The idea women have it easy isn't really true, so many men just swipe yes on everyone that it's meaningless to get a match
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:45 PM
7

The only people I hear saying about 6ft and all that are men complaining online about it
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 06:43 AM
1

You don't think general fitness advice is found anywhere else online? Attract who exactly? I'm curious why you're promoting this on exredpill please explain further.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 07:25 PM
1

Sure a summary of an example of what exactly premium knowledge is, what area are we talking about. Knowledge on what subject, physics, business, how to use Reddit? Premium knowledge is pretty vague so I'm asking for clarification
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 06:46 PM
1

So you can't provide an example of this knowledge?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 06:42 PM
1

What kind of premium knowledge can you provide an example?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 06:37 PM
2

Have you tried not using apps. What else is on your profile? Do you obsess with apparently being ugly, what kind of women are you trying to attract
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 11:27 AM
2

I wasn't interested so no relationship.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:12 PM
18

I'm completely against playing games if you're interested in someone tell them, I'm not saying being pushy or needy though. I've had guys who were interested in me then moved on or whatever, at no point did I think now I'm interested in them
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 03:57 PM
5

If he wants to, if shes also interested in. There is no idea relationship one size fits all
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:09 PM
7

If he wants to sure
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 03:26 PM
8

I find it difficult to be interested in a photo and a few sentences plus it seems too much like a forced interaction
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 09:20 PM
8

Make friends with more people and speak to them about their relationships and realise how people don't just move on so quickly
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 11:43 AM
5

Would you do that to someone? Most people want to settle down with a partner and have kids why would they keep trying to meet hotter people, do you think women only date men for their appearance? As for dick size men care way more than women and I don't know any women going around measuring guys dicks to see if its bigger than their current partners
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 11:39 AM
7

Again people have different tastes. Are looks the onlt thing that matter?
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 11:35 AM
22

There's no ideal for dating, people have different preferences and types. Say one guy wants to be a dad and another guy doesn't, who's better? Neither it just depends on what you want in a partner
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 11:24 AM
1

Why not a role model? Probably is to some men. Why are you're getting recommended Tate and watching him regularly. What makes musk so great? His handling of twitter seems pretty poor.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 09:38 AM
3

Twilight sparkle or you could try thinking independently, but let's be honest whatever I say you'll just keep following Tate, if you can't see anything wrong with him
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 08:25 AM
5

You need to find a better role model
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 07:58 AM
7

People sleep with people they're not super into all the time, normally there is booze involved
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 04:31 PM
11

You sure? Or is that just confirmation bias?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:51 PM
9

Probably makes women feel more at ease if you're with a woman
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:43 PM
10

If more people like you then you seem more trustworthy/worth liking. You can't get those things if someone is alone
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 01:58 PM
9

Why settle? I'd rather be single
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 09:08 PM
15

How many men are going to post or share, going through a hard time was vulnerable to partner she supported me, people don't really post those kind of things it's easier to post about issues for help not just this went well
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 03:27 PM
3

It seems a pretty even split in people I know who are poly. Monogamy is the norm, the majority of people do not like the idea of a poly relationship
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 08:11 PM
7

So do you know more poly or monogamous people? I'm poly and the majority of people I know are monogamous and can't imagine "sharing a partner". Most people want to have a family with one person and stay in a fairly normal life. Of the poly people you know is it only women?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 08:06 PM
9

Yeah but they're not the norm. People are way too jealous generally. Because they see that guy as the guy they want to be with, and not everyone wants to be with multiple partners or is comfortable with their partner seeing other people. Are you poly?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 07:46 PM
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Most people are monogamous, poly while not as uncommon is not the norm. Poly relationships are rarely only one party can have multiple partners/relationships and a lot of people are jealous so have no interest in that dynamic.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 07:32 PM
8

Because most people want to be monogamous and don't feel like they're settling for a partner
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 07:25 PM
11

He'll sleep with you then leave or just cheat continuously because you are very naive
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 09:11 AM
6

Yes, loads of people hook up without being redpilled
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 07:19 AM
5

Everyone should have some level on control, that's not to say completely ignore them either
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 01:22 PM
3

Do you think people go into relationships expecting someone to leave? It's weird you think men are blame free when there are plenty of deadbeat dads
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 10:06 PM
2

How come the man doesn't get any blame for leaving?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 10:00 PM
15

Are you trying to hook up or get dates
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 10:21 AM
3

Why are you dating him? Presumably you have alt right views too
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 07:47 AM
3

True, though I'm unsure if they're a troll or just brainwashed
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 05:47 AM
2

How do you know the sample size? Yes, people on apps look for hot people, again these experiments have too many variables. I'm pretty sure you'd get the same results with a female profile but you clearly have issues with women. If you don't like dating apps don't use them, plenty of people meet outside them
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 05:26 AM
2

So you're just going to ignore my questions then. Apps are crap, they don't represent the majority of the population. These "experiments " have too many variables such as, sample size, how many are matching vs skipping, how many think it's a joke, how many matches are genuine profiles and not bots, how many read the profile, as a few examples
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 05:15 AM
2

You didn't answer any of my questions. Dating apps suck, you could do the same nonsense with any hot person, guy or girl and get loads of matches and messages. Do dating apps reflect reality? I don't think its a good way of judging an entire gender. How many people would be cool dating a paedophile in real life? I think it just shows dating apps are crap.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 05:04 AM
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Does that represent the majority of women? How many thought it a joke? Is having a ons the same as a relationship? The 2nd one shows 3 women who match, the second ones conversation stops before we see what else she was going to say next, how do 3 people show that all women are cool with paedophilia? How do we know they're real profiles and not just other people playing along?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 04:57 AM
5

People on dating apps swipe on attractive people...shocking
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 04:46 AM
4

Id drop anyone who tested me, I don't need to test people
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 06:39 AM
5

If you or the other person is playing games just leave
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 09:35 AM
7

It's a load of crap for shallow pick mes and bitter girls.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 09:08 AM
10

Fds is a dumpster fire
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 12:04 AM
1

Yeah just go to the right places
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 05:02 PM
5

I don't know what exactly the friendzone means, it just seems like some bitter thing rejected people made up. You can have sex with friends and it doesn't need to be weird or a relationship. You just get a feel for someone in person more than you do over awkward text. The idea of meeting someone over an app for the purpose of sex just seems an odd expectation for me, just talk to people if something happens just go with it.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 12:59 PM
5

It gives me zero excitement, same reason I don't get interested in photos and bios on apps, no body language or personality. There's a risk that the other person shares info too. I don't really gain anything from some random person getting off on me, if they're doing it anonymously there's probably a reason
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 12:44 PM
5

No I'd rather watch porn than randomly message someone online, with people I'm fwb/partners etc with sexting is great but randomers online is meh
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 12:03 PM
5

Because cybersex does nothing for me
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 12:51 AM
4

They're not, there's been a drop in people using them. What exactly is top 10%
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 11:16 PM
3

Do you have a source for these claims? What's wrong with being promiscuous if you don't want kids?
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 11:15 PM
7

Run
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 08:56 PM
2

Loads of men under 6ft get dates, maybe it's just certain people who use dating apps care about that crap. Most women just prefer a tablet guy
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 06:45 PM
2

You're
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:43 PM
2

So none then
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:43 PM
3

Pill stuff is nonsense just another cult, not sure why you're pushing your own pill but I doubt the reasons are good
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 07:15 AM
3

Golden pill reminds me of golden shower....I know there are a limited number of pill colours but still. Maybe stop trying to join a pill mindset
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 12:04 AM
1

Yeah that's another red flag
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 11:59 PM
3

What dating apps are 6ft only?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 11:58 PM
9

I just don't think that's the majority though just shallow teens
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 12:08 AM
9

One of the most off-putting things I see is when someone has 6ft as if it's a personality trait
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 12:03 AM
16

No, most women prefer a man taller than they are (I think and even then a lot aren't fussed) but the whole only 6ft men get dates/laid is clearly nonsense
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 11:34 PM
1

Because they're not bitter and don't see women as just walking fucktoys. It doesn't apply to everyone but yeah generally maybe it is true, how does it mean they're privileged? It's that they have a better attitude there's nothing stopping you from being nice to women
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:34 PM
2

The takeaway is treat women like people and they'll like you more
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:31 PM
10

If a guy is hot but talks to me like shit I'm not interested, if a guy is ugly but treats me like an actual person then I'm going to enjoy spending time with him. Hot guys can treat women like crap, likewise ugly men can as well though often from ugly men it comes from a more bitter place...neither of those men I'd wish to spend time with.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:26 PM
1

I enjoy casual sex however I think apps make it forced and less casual like you'd get just meeting someone out etc. It's harder to read someone over text as opposed to in person too
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:22 PM
8

Ive not used tinder or okcupid in years, I recall one guy asking if I was a virgin and how he'd enjoy showing me new things. Are you free tonight? Zero introduction that was the first question Apps are generally poor, when conversation does go on it is far too manufactured and fake, meeting in person is way easier no expectations or pressures. Alot of men just swipe on everyone so it's kinda pointless because there is no real interest just desperation, I always list I don't want or have kids or …
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 11:21 AM
5

Years ago, it was horrendous but I think most online or app stuff is bad so perhaps I'm bias. Sounds like a fairly safe bio, liking nerdy and video game stuff is what a lot of men and I imagine reddit men want
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 11:09 AM
13

When I tried okcupid it was mostly creepy messages, as for forever alone dating where they messages from men near by? What use is a nice message from someone the other side of the world? How long were conversations? They may start nice but change quickly, look at examples on niceguys it goes from you seem really nice to fucking slut you're ugly anyway in a few messages. As for finding a partner, what criteria did you list? Generic stuff like travel?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 10:58 AM
0

Do you need to follow a misogynist to decide to improve your own life? Its basic stuff, have goals work towards them, be healthy etc. There are so many self help resources why follow Tate?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 07:58 AM
4

Dating apps are just kinda crap and most guys swipe yes on everyone so it's kinda pointless from my experience, but I just find it difficult to be interested in a few photos and a few generic lines, like I like travelling or nothing at all
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 10:16 PM
4

I like a bit of aging, slightly greying hair, more a refined look. I'm 29, even when I was younger I preffered men who were at least 5 years older. I'm an adult, I'm not interested in guys who look/act like teenagers. Most women like men who are older than themselves or around around same age. I personally just don't find younger guys attractive, I'd never date/sleep with a younger guy
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 11:43 AM
4

Why? I don't find men who look younger attractive, I prefer an older looking guy
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 11:36 AM
6

Depends on the age of the woman.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 11:32 AM
4

How do you know what your best years are? Why not just go with the attitude of I'll make next year the best year?
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 10:49 AM
20

There's plenty of time, don't worry about it
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 10:17 AM
3

If you're wound up no harm in having a wank is my point. Isn't being a role model and providing for a family just being a responsible adult, not many can live off single income now.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 10:25 PM
5

Quite possibly, I think people need to understand masculine/feminine doesnt necessarily mean toxic or bad, it's complex subject. I don't really understand whats so complicated to some men about the idea that women are people and can be shitty or good
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 01:44 PM
8

He seemed to think everyone in the comments was saying masculinity means toxic, which it doesn't need to be. I don't think he's a bad guy , I didn't say he was toxic, I said he could be more masculine without falling down that rabbithole and his experience of being nice qnd not having the best results may have been due to expectating something in return or being too nice, it shouldn't stop him being nice in future just be aware of being a doormat
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:10 PM
1

What exactly is masculinity to you? You can be masculine without being toxic, I.e you can be physically very strong without needing to prove it by beating up people every week. You can have good principles and morals but I'd argue thats not exclusively masculine. Whats so terrible about being nice? Just don't be a doormat or expect sex for being a nice person. There's nothing wrong with being horny just have some self control, watch some porn rather than harassing women etc. Why do you need redp…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 09:56 AM
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Why do you need to embrace an ideology that shits on women to be better? Why do you need to follow some YouTuber to figure out what you need to do to improve your life, adopt good working practices, figure out a goal and break it down, don't be a dick. What exactly do you mean by mode masculine? Since when does getting fitter/healthier only mean going red pill?
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 06:51 AM
6

So why are you upset about marriage that's cultural not evolution
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 07:27 PM
8

Time to grow up and realise we've moved past that nonsense and step up as a partner
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 01:32 PM
3

Except the OP didn't say what hobbies so I was throwing out some examples, you don't need something to show for it but presumably you can actually talk about it
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 05:34 AM
7

And what about when both parents work? We are intelligent enough to not just want to stay home raise babies and men aren't going out to hunt for food. If you're a man and you have kids presumably you'd want to actually do some parenting and not expect your partner to do everything, if not why have kids at all
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 02:07 AM
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Is video gaming a niche hobby? You don't need to be funny or have tons of stories about something. What other hobbies? Why would early 30s be the earliest? So do you want to date because you're implying you don't so not sure why you care?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 01:07 AM
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So find your own hobbies, people are interesting when they have something that they can talk about, into a niche film genre? Cool, tell me about it, tell me why you're interested in it. Furniture builder? Great, show me your work tell me about it, seeing pride in something you've achieved is attractive, (not arrogance), are there people who think you're hobby is dumb, probably there are hobbies I have zero interest in hearing about, but having a passion for something gives someone a bit of depth
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 12:36 AM
7

No, what I think makes a great partner is probably different to you and many others. There will probably be a few general traits that most people agree on, thoughtful, respectful, etc. But someone may say a great partner has a high libido while someone may completely disagree. Another example a great partner for me would be someone who doesn't want kids but that's terrible for someone who wants kids. A lighter comparison a bad partner for me someone who smokes and is into car/bike culture, but s…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 08:10 PM
7

Depends on your own definition
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 07:43 PM
15

Relationships are great with great partners, same with fwb.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:14 PM
20

If you're not happy maybe it's because your partner is lazy and insists childcare and housework is for women, for example. Bad doesn't need to be extreme
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:12 PM
19

Maybe men are being bad partners?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 04:53 PM
26

Presumably this is American women only? Why does this source have the authority on what is a worthless degree? Late on what exactly? What's so terrible about number 4? Single mums, why are they always to blame let's look at the dads as well. Std whats the comparison to men having them? Comparison to men who are mentally ill or have "mutilated " their bodies? I don't think being on anti depressants is a red flag at least that person has made the effort to improve their current state. Also not eve…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 04:25 AM
10

Then you'd just say men are generally stronger, most people don't deny that. But using the word superior is implying something else.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 10:45 AM
1

Yes but not a misogynist apparently
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 10:39 AM
3

How exactly are men superior?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 09:28 AM
3

And here you are posting
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 12:35 PM
2

No? High value is such a bizarre idea you're either attracted to someone or you're not. Someone may see a guy who loves the idea of a big family and plays rugby ad a high value guy or super attractive, to me I can't think of a worse partner. People want different things. Sexual market value is a meaningless term used to try make women feel shit because they're older than 20 and have had sex with someone before
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:49 AM
4

5'9 isn't short, plenty of poor men date, if your personality is bad fix it.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 11:22 PM
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I don't go into a conversation looking to date them, I just chat to them, they maybe attractive to me but body language, conversation etc. Is still important. I've never approached someone purely for the intention of dating them, it's why apps don't work for me. Just easier to go with the flow of things, some people you click with and have a ons, sometimes you ended up dating or friends for years and sometimes you never speak to them again
/r/ExRedPill08/12/22 02:20 PM
8

I just talk to people without intentions, if I ends up flirty then so be it
/r/ExRedPill08/12/22 01:55 PM
11

No, I've never done that. I just mean you meet people through different friend groups
/r/ExRedPill08/12/22 01:51 PM
14

Both, through friends, social events etc
/r/ExRedPill08/12/22 01:46 PM
16

A lot of people still meet in real life though
/r/ExRedPill08/12/22 12:52 PM
3

Live how you want just try not to be a dick to people, that doesn't mean being a doormat though
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 05:51 AM
8

I'm just imagining how the hot new must carry item is the tape measure. To check potential partners height and dick
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 08:30 PM
17

I have never measured a partners dick...though the incel language is the biggest turn off
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 07:18 PM
3

Report to authorities, including mental wellness so they're aware and get somewhere safe. Or two one of her friends to come over before or just after you leave to look after her
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 12:41 PM
7

Report to authorities and get to somewhere safe
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 12:29 PM
9

Sounds horrific, the cringe that comes from people who refer to themselves as alphas is something else. Also in your world how can someone be between being an alpha and beta?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/22 10:57 PM
2

What makes a woman alpha?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/22 09:48 PM
1

I don't get why you keep posting this stuff, most of the people here are either trying to improve or help other improve.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 06:07 PM
4

Why?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 07:10 PM
2

Edgy
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 05:05 PM
8

Why? You knew you were being a dick and the mods just decided they didn't want to deal with it and now you're using it as an excuse to be against feminism
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 09:08 AM
7

So you understand why you're banned but think it means those against feminism have a point
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 08:45 AM
9

I can see why they banned you, just sounds like you want to be intentionally confrontation. I don't really get would you rather have no rights or what? When feminism is about equality going in with a lol women no rights just screams troll
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 08:30 AM
3

I don't get the question did it not go further than would you rather not have rights or?
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 08:25 AM
1

Or what?
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 08:23 AM
7

What did you say to get banned?
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 08:17 AM
19

Depends why you were banned but being against feminism because you were banned from a forum seems an over reaction
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 08:11 AM
1

Probably not. I live in a major city in the UK.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 04:21 PM
4

Just go outside to a job center and look at the couples. Maybe you're just more critical of how women look, you seem to have quite a dislike of women. What are you looking for in a partner?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 07:34 AM
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Women date unattractive guys all the time, just look at couples out and about. Sit outside a job center for a while, I can guarantee you'll see plenty of unattractive men with women. If you don't want someone who's just into your money don't flash it around or date people who have careers. Just get to know people beyond looks and money.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 07:22 AM
3

What exactly do you mean by status? I don't think it's as much of a big deal as you think unless I'm wrong about what it is. Yeah looking well presented isn't some secret, presumably you're only interested in people you find physically attractive? What I disagree with about RP is the only specific type of person is attractive
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 07:13 AM
3

Do you have nothing else to talk about or that you're interested in outside of looks and money? My partner and I are physically attracted to each other but that's not it, we also share a few hobbies like fitness and we plan fun stuff to try together. You just find people you click with, there are certain deal breakers you'll probably have just about finding people on the same page.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 06:48 AM
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Anytime you point out an average couple redpillers or incels move the goalpost, oh its because that guys rich or he's a beta provider, she's just waiting for the next person. Most people tend to get comfortable in relationships, it's not uncommon to see people gain weight in long term relationships for example
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 10:45 AM
7

Why do you need a pill, basic dating advice have standards and a vague idea of what you want and don't be a dick
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 02:15 PM
10

Finding a partner shouldn't be your main goal, work out for yourself not just to impress someone else, it's good to improve yourself to be more attractive but it shouldn't be your single goal. Finance wise most people are happy with someone who's stable, I don't know many people who would actively look for someone with massive debt and struggle financially and not trying to change it. You don't need to be a millionaire to date. Healthy weight is fine, though if you want someone who goes to the g…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 12:00 AM
2

So you're saying choice is good...hmm
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 04:42 PM
2

Then why did feminism start if they were so happy in that role?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 04:36 PM
4

So you're just going to ignore my question...OK then. Strength isn't just physical
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 04:12 PM
4

What's there to address? You've got this weird obsession that women should be weak and rely on men and I think it's silly to insist that. Why can't women be independent?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 04:09 PM
6

You still haven't answered why women shouldn't be independent. Oh no, giving people a choice how terrible.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 03:39 PM
4

So what are men protecting women from? Please tell me why women shouldn't be independent? I don't think women are leading massive companies because they were forced into it. Having a choice is important, it's silly to say you're a woman therefore you should stay home and raise kids, likewise you're a man therefore don't raise your kids and just work. Have you seen the number of fans of kpop or boy band artists I wouldnt say they were traditionally masculinity. No one is saying you can't be mascu…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 03:32 PM
7

So women should be soft and just look after kids? Why can't men nurture the kids they bring into this world? Why should women not be independent and rely on men? Women work, we don't live in the stone age, what are men physically protecting their families from now?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 03:20 PM
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It's not a woman's role It's a parental role.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 03:14 PM
5

Everyone should be independent, you shouldn't need to rely on a partner. If you have kids you should look after them man or woman.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 03:12 PM
7

Then block the friend or have a conversation about it with them. Or just live your best life and not worry about him
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:31 PM
1

The fallback of being an escort or doing onlyfans isn't really a way to make money for most, maybe you'll get a quick 100quid then what? Everything on the Internet and having to do more and more degrading or extreme stuff to make money...it's not really some amazing thing for most people
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:27 PM
3

So you want to be treated like crap in a relationship?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 03:23 PM
2

So what are some standards you have? Not everything can be flexible like if you want kids dating someone who doesn't isn't an option
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 08:11 AM
1

What standards to you have? Wanting a reasonably fit partner when you work out makes sense as a standard but a standard like they must be a blonde virgin who speaks 5 languages is going to be super limiting. Some standards are fine but it depends how unreasonable they are and if you would be happy being with someone who didn't fit them.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 07:24 AM
3

The op is lonely, why is that apparently invalid because some guy may use them as a fuck toy
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 06:50 PM
3

That's my point they're only interested in sex, which is fine but that's not what the OP wants so saying you can just get laid isn't a cure to loneliness
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 05:19 PM
9

No it isn't. The OP is lonely and wants someone to show genuine interest, being a fucktoy for some desperate guy isn't genuine care. I'm not sure why that's confusing for you
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 11:09 PM
15

Being a fucktoy wouldn't make most people feel less lonely, though you've proved the OPs point
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 11:06 PM
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If you're attractive and the other person is more interested beyond fucking you. Which if you're ugly as hell once they get sex they'll ditch and they'll ditch if it's a long game. Loneliness isn't cured.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 10:53 PM
20

It seems most guys on tinder just swipe yes on everyone out of desperation to get laid. I don't think being a "you'll do" would make someone feel less lonely
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 10:43 PM
23

If you're ugly as hell and go on tinder you'll most likely get guys just lookin to get their dick wet
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 10:39 PM
22

Being a fucktoy generally wouldn't make someone who's lonely feel better
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 10:37 PM
13

It's just a load of nonsense to me to categorise people like that. When it comes to men I want to date they don't fall into one of four groups It's just am I interested or not. Not all relationships involve couples who argue too, it just isn't the case for everyone
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 07:11 AM
2

No, not on the UK, just means unemployment you don't need to have been previously employed. It's got a bad reputation to just be on the dole.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 08:12 PM
2

Most people going to the jobcentre in the UK aren't doing well for themselves. Being on the dole isn't an achievement
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 04:16 PM
3

Just sit outside a job centre for half an hour you'll see plenty of broke couples
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 06:56 AM
5

Males and foids...
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 12:37 PM
13

I'm not fussed, if they bragged about it or used the term body count I'd be turned off.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 06:43 PM
-3

What are you doing to make yourself someone that someone wants to date? Most people don't want to date someone who talks like this. Also you're 18, you've barely lived.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 08:50 AM
19

Have you never seen women with freckles?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 12:05 AM
13

Good luck, hope you have a good wedding day and family stuff works out
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 02:29 PM
23

Maybe not intentional but I would definitely consider not inviting them as it sounds like it could be a nightmare
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 02:23 PM
29

Also if they came would they ruin the day? Would you be worrying what they may say to other guests etc? It may just be best to cut ties
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 02:05 PM
49

Why invite them at all?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 01:58 PM
4

Start with small things, like brushing your teeth. Seriously how do you expect a woman to come in and sort your life out?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 08:32 AM
2

And I don't find it attractive. We don't have the same type of men we like it seems
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:29 PM
2

Not really, it's not that attractive to me
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:27 PM
2

But I also don't want someone 6ft 6
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:16 PM
1

Bull? As someone who doesn't want children that's a complete turn off. Also over 6ft is too tall for me generally. You've listed a lot of nonsense that proves how dumb the pill taking is
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 06:05 PM
1

What is too available? Having free time, do you have nothing else going on?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:36 PM
3

Or that they play immature games or aren't interested
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 06:07 PM
4

Not enraged, it's pretty basic advice, communicate with women and don't play pua games
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:02 AM
19

I don't really care but if a guy is bragging about it that's unattractive
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 04:58 AM
3

Talk to women, don't call them bitches for a start.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 04:57 AM
11

Why distance yourself, just communicate with her like you would a normal person
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 11:04 PM
15

Not everyone wants to just pop out kids though or just have their worth reduced to babymaker
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 11:46 AM
65

I've not really seen anyone outside of RP/manosphere using it in a serious way and if they do they're normally mocked or assumed to be a dick
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:43 PM
28

Evidence for this ?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 03:38 PM
2

I'm guessing you haven't been with a woman before? There's a difference between being a virgin and having sex without considering your partner
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 09:59 AM
4

Casual sex and dating are different.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:58 AM
1

Why not study Spanish and go explore the culture/country instead of staying in bed
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 07:05 AM
2

Find a hobby you enjoy, something you can take pride in and put some effort into, model making, fitness anything. Confidence will come when you feel more pride in yourself
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 10:22 PM
2

Saying I'm lonely I wish I could find sex, once or twice most people get. Constantly complaining about it or saying nonsense like it's not fair women only go for Chad etc. Most people will lose sympathy
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 10:06 AM
1

I expect it'll be more than they're whining about it and how women only want Chad. Or are you talking about gay relationships and shaming?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 08:17 AM
1

Outside of religion, people don't care. However if you're personality is I want to get sex then thats weird. Loads of people want sex but most know how to function in society without demanding it
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 08:06 AM
4

No one is saying it's not OK, what isn't ok is creating a personality around not having sex and then saying things like women should have no rights and just be property so you can get sex. It's how people handle wanting sex that's the issue.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 08:02 AM
11

A healthy relationship is not one-sided, its ridiculous to think women never do nothing in relationships
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 04:09 PM
1

An ex is an ex for a reason, I don't see the issue with being friends with exs
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 09:44 PM
1

Is it more likely though? You either trust them or you don't, would you sleep with your exs now?
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 12:10 PM
3

They could cheat on you with anyone new they meet though
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 12:03 PM
3

Some people can be friends with their exs, it doesn't always need to be a big fall out. I don't see the issue with it, are you concerned they're going to get back together or something?
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 09:29 AM
2

Know what? I communicate with partners if I found out they'd lied that would be the end
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:52 PM
10

Or don't lie to your partner? Women understand loneliness however paying someone to fuck you is a massive turn off
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:33 PM
2

If I'd sleep with a virgin? Maybe, someone who paid for sex not a chance.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:32 PM
4

I would prefer a virgin over a guy who had paid for sex, I think most would. I think having paid sex will not help you
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 02:43 AM
9

I never said women are perfect. Some people will be fine you've had sex with an escort but I do think it'll put alot off and you seem not keen on the idea anyway would you even be happy paying for sex?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:27 AM
10

Would you really want to just lie to a partner ? Having sex once with an escort won't really give you much experience unless you intend to go to them multiple times
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:08 AM
14

I would probably be more put off from someone who has paid for sex than a virgin and I don't think I would be alone in that thinking
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 11:54 PM
39

Go outside and people watch for a while you'll see you are talking nonsense
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 10:44 AM
31

Hypothetically if artificial wombs were a thing I can't see redpill men taking on childcare roles
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 12:03 PM
2

Source?
/r/ExRedPill25/12/21 03:17 AM
24

Presumably he was just trying to use her for sex anyway as she's a single mum
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 12:52 AM
3

If they're so rational then surely they can separate themselves from that basic idea, and why is it ok for men to sleep around then?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 09:24 AM
1

Red pill have a big dislike though and the whole smv nonsense lowering. If the red pill is so rational surely it goes over men enjoy sex women don't due to biology
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 09:14 AM
12

So why are women who enjoy sex looked down upon
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 08:31 AM
15

Do women not like casual sex? Are the women who like casual sex the same ones who are single mums? A single mum could have been with the dad for years then they broke up when the kid was 3 making her a single mum not as a result of casual sex.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 07:23 PM
3

Some women are sexually frustrated but of they said that you'd dismiss it anyway
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 02:08 PM
1

Not what I said at all, I don't know how old you are but what people find attractive tends to change when they're older as things like debt generally aren't a considerable under 21. It's jot some weird chad vs beta nonsense, plenty of people date "Chads" later in life and don't just settle for someone they're not attracted to.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 09:44 AM
9

No it isn't true. People generally change what they find attractive as they get older, not every woman sleeps with multiple men before getting married or a long term relationship. Also women are not not hivemind, some enjoy casual sex while others hate the idea so there is no exact number for your claim
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 09:23 AM
1

Define it. And how do you know women can't love?
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 10:07 PM
2

How do you know how women feel? What defines top tier anyway?
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 05:18 PM
1

How is this exredpill
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 10:32 AM
1

Possibly but I don't think settling for someone is a good thing
/r/ExRedPill25/09/21 05:50 AM
2

I wouldn't say that was exclusively a problem to women, some people just have very picky standards. People have different preferences and what they find attractive so hotter to one person maybe worse to another.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/21 12:28 AM
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Some women want relationships, some women want casual sex but most women don't want to be treated like crap and saying women don't feel lonely is a ridiculous statement
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 11:41 PM
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Why ask the question if you're just going to ignore the answers? Are dating apps full of only hot guys? Not every woman wants to be some guy's fucktoy out of desperation. Plenty of unattractive women struggle to find men
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 11:39 PM
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Hot people can get hold of other hot people. Average or unattractive people don't have a list of people on speed dial
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 11:35 PM
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They do exist not sure why you would assume women can't get lonely or sexually frustrated
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 11:33 PM
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Except some women enjoy causal sex, there is nothing wrong with it if all parties are consenting (and safe obviously), it doesn't need to be empowering just a thing to enjoy
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 05:19 PM
1

And the rest?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 09:15 PM
1

Got a source for this?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 09:13 PM
4

I'm not roasting him, I didn't say his life being ruined was justified but his only issue seems to be he got called out on his behaviour not his actual behaviour
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 09:29 AM
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Your behaviour was creepy, no one wants some bloke to come up filming and harassing them.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 04:55 PM
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You seem to not take any responsibility for your actions and blame some bitch for you harassing women and girls. I'm not saying you getting attacked is right but you seem to not think your behaviour was that bad
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 11:13 AM
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Women want different things much like not all men like the same type of woman, the exact idea of what an alpha male is seems to vary anyway
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 08:03 AM
2

Explain this further, what makes a loser?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 10:40 AM
6

Source for this statement?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 01:06 AM
6

How do you know how other people experience emotions?
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 12:34 AM
6

Ah yes, how dare you feel sad because someone wants to use you.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 12:11 AM
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Where does she say she wouldn't date ugly virgins? She wants to date someone she's attracted to who doesn't just want want quick fuck. Ah of course we all know that random men on Instagram are definitely not looking for a quick fuck, do you really not see the issue
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 12:03 AM
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Why would anyone want to be fucked by someone who says shit like "foids shouldn't have rights and be raped daily"?. It may come as a shock to you but I doubt the OP and most women want to be a living fleshlight for some entitled incel and would much rather be seen as a person. The OP is feeling isolated by people her own age and a lack of friendships and potential relationships with men who don't just want a quick fuck.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 11:47 PM
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Not everyone wants to be fucked by desperate guys, this whiney response is exactly what the OP was saying made them feel like crap
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 11:41 PM
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It just sounds like you need to find a group of people who you get along with, I don't know how old you are but I doubt hanging out in femcel spaces where they make sweeping judgments about all men are misogynistic isn't healthy. No one has to date anyone they're not interested in and it's harder for some people to find someone they're interested in
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 11:31 PM
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Do they think babies only change men's lives? Are men not part of the process for creating life. Weird to solely blame women. Also how does your one example prove anything about how all women lie when it comes to dating
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 02:02 PM
1

I disagree it's a dumpster fire
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:33 PM
2

It's pretty easy to ignore that dumpster fire, most women don't think that way.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:48 AM
2

They're not that common, anyone who is that entitled won't be hiding it for long.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:29 AM
3

Nice guy as a term means a guy who thinks being nice is the bare minimum he needs to get laid they generally aren't nice. Do some women date asshole guys sure, do some men date asshole women of course. People date different types of people, someone you may think is an asshole could be someone else's dream partner. There's no blanket rule of all women date this type of guy
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 07:43 AM
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It proves hot people get more attention on dating apps which isn't groundbreaking. It doesn't prove anything you said
/r/ExRedPill01/08/21 04:04 PM
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Men have no choice who they sleep with?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 01:48 PM
11

I feel sorry for your partner
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 10:26 PM
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Probably not, Probably just believes she deserves it
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 03:56 PM
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Seems a bit I'm not like other girls, date me I'm submissive (in all ways) and romantising gender roles.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 02:24 PM
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You said we men can be married and loyal in ltr, implying women can not. Women initiating 80% divorces does not mean that women are looking for the next best thing, without knowing the reasons, partners not pulling their weight in in relationship would you stay in a crappy marriage just because? Women and men aren't that different, hypergamy is not some huge problem all women suffer with
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 11:17 AM
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It's ridiculous to think most women are. Men are more likely to leave when things get tough, I.e. if a spouse gets cancer so it's silly to say all men are amazing partners.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 10:58 AM
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Good luck with your attitude
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:50 PM
11

Stop being melodramatic
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:34 PM
3

What do you want?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:31 PM
4

Didn't say they were.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:29 PM
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But did society crumble as a result? Who cares if some show you don't like is popular it'll be forgotten about soon.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:17 PM
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Be a virgin but also super experienced and know exactly how to please a man...
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:15 PM
7

Why only this show though? There are other popular shows that come and go where men are taking advantage and treating women like crap. 50 shades comes to mind.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:14 PM
7

It's pretty easy to avoid articles about a TV show
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:10 PM
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Thanks for answering my question
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:10 PM
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There's plenty of popular stuff that comes and goes and people forget about it. Keeping up with the kardashians was popular and it didn't really make much difference to the world, I see way more people bitching about it then those who watch it. Love Island is another crappy thing that people watch but generally it doesn't make society crumble. Should we only have "safe " media incase someone is influenced
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:08 PM
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So all media should cater to the male gaze?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:03 PM
12

Why did you watch it if it upsets you? I don't like torture porn films so I don't watch them but I also don't insist no one else views them or they're not made. Are people that easily influenced by every piece of media they see that they go and live the life of the main character?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:02 PM
3

Redpill folk
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 04:01 PM
5

They constantly blame women for all problems
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 03:58 PM
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Easy answers to complicated problems, they're desperate for a solution to something. I.e why don't I have good health? God is testing me. Why don't I have a girlfriend? Women are stupid. It's easier to have a short answer you don't challenge than delve into more complicated or less satisfying answers.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 10:06 AM
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It's easier to believe that it's someone else's fault (women's) than accept your own flaws, redpill etc offers supposedly simple and easy solutions to things
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 09:59 AM
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When people are at a bar is normally a good bet, offer to do shots or something. Every night is different there isn't a go up at this time to hit on someone, going out and just having fun and no pressure is the best thing
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:47 AM
1

Just go up and talk to people casually without an agenda, there isn't really a technique to get people to go home with you.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:41 AM
1

When people don't have to stay sittings things will be different at the moment I don't really think people are up for meeting ons with the pandemic on understandably
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:36 AM
1

Obviously given the current situation it's a bit different but just initiating conversation it's easy to tell if someone is into it or not
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:33 AM
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Claiming all women are the same isn't educational, it's a dumb sweeping statement. Mgtow is a choice but it's not leaving women it's choosing to continually bitch about them in a little echo chamber.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 07:58 AM
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To meet alot of people as a social circle, hobbies are good but also plan to do stuff with people you meet not just see them once a week at tennis or whatever hobby you take up. When it comes to one night stands or fwbs yes you can fall into meeting people through friend groups but meeting at bars or clubs is probably easier and less messy.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 07:53 AM
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What did I say that wasn't nice? I gave you genuine advice.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 09:33 PM
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I'm not playing this game and neither should you. If you want to improve your confidence don't seek it out on random online forums, find things you enjoy doing and how you express yourself aesthetically, will you please everyone? No but you'll be happier and that's all that matters. Rating people by numbers is ridiculous
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 09:27 PM
1

What?
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 09:23 PM
1

You'll have to be a bit more specific about what you took in from redpill. What do you want long term?
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 09:20 PM
3

I don't understand what the last half of your title means but what exactly did you want help with?
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 09:14 PM
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Probably some women but most aren't hitting 30 and having a meltdown that they may get less attention, mor everyone ages the same or stops getting attention at a certain age. I'm sure there are men who are sad they've left their youth behind it depends on the person
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 09:07 AM
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You have one example of a relationship that didn't work and have applied it to all women. Some men like older women, some women like younger guys. It just sounds like you're annoyed this one woman is dating a hot guy
/r/ExRedPill30/06/21 04:32 PM
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Women think they can do no wrong? Really, plenty of women get worried they're too prude, too forward, too much make up, not enough etc. On dates. There is no one size fits all for dating just communicate with people
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 02:31 PM
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Women do approach men though, men don't have to pursue if they don't want to. It's silly to sit around and wait for people to approach you whatever gender you are.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 04:46 PM
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It's pathetic, anyone who uses the terms is someone to avoid
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 12:54 PM
1

You're misunderstanding, its not high value to be able to do basic things like cooking it's just being an adult. Saying high and low value is a horrible way to dehumanise people.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 09:28 PM
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Nah it's dumb and gross
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 06:31 PM
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If someone needs to test someone they shouldn't be dating.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 03:34 PM
1

I'm sure people do both, if someone shit tests just leave them that's how to deal with it.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 07:06 AM
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I'd never define someone as high or low value, it's really a gross way to view someone. Being able to cook and clean is a basic adult task and looking after yourself isn't exactly groundbreaking.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 09:38 PM
1

But you specifically said a high value woman implying you have a set idea of what makes a high value woman.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 07:14 PM
1

OK but what makes a woman low value? I find the terms low and high value to describe people pretty gross so I'm genuinely interested what makes a woman low or high value.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 03:47 PM
1

What makes someone a high value or low value woman?
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 03:35 PM
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And I'm saying it's dumb, if you feel the need to shit test you shouldn't be dating.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:48 PM
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Playing games, shit testing etc is just dumb. Just be honest and if someone tries to play games just leave, it's immature and pathetic. Also there's something kinda of gross about calling people low or high value
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:09 PM
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I've never heard anyone saying wanting a future together is toxic, yeah being dependent on each other completely probably isn't healthy but some people are happy being in each other's pockets.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 06:15 PM
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Some people are bad at messaging, if you don't like the way she is messaging then move on and find someone else, though saying all women can't love seems somewhat dramatic
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 06:10 PM
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Being independent is good because it means someone genuinely wants to be with you rather than needing you to provide for them.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 01:12 AM
1

If you're a misogynistic and blaming all women then chances are you're an incel
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 06:03 PM
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Just say you're a virgin, incels have a whole philosophy of how shit everything is so why would you choose to identify as one?
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 03:37 PM
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So incels identify as incels even if they don't believe it? No that's nonsense. When you look at the real world you realise that not every woman wants a buff guy who's had lots of sex, just like not every man wants the same type of woman. TV tropes exist but there are plenty of nerdy guys who get hot girlfriends on TV so saying women only date sport guys the TV told me isn't even an excuse.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 06:58 PM
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How many incels are rape victims? If you belief is that you are owed sex regardless of how you came to it, that's entitlement and if you're so obsessed with that idea that you refuse to accept that you're not then sorry but fuck you. No one is entitled to someone else's body. As for the kkk not being racist, if you're in a group that is known for being racist maybe think a little bit about it? Ignorance is forgivable to some extent but the kkk being a hate group isn't exactly secret. Life isn't …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:08 PM
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I'm not saying all men are entitled nor am I claiming that you don't get entitled women. I said alot of incels are entitled.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:41 PM
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Some are bullied I'm not denying that, others just feel entitled to women
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:05 PM
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Incels are not blame free. Not everyone who is bullied thinks women should be raped and have zero rights. Incel's entitlement is the issue and when they don't get sex fall into their laps they lash out and blame women instead of taking any responsibility. I'm not saying bullying doesn't happen but a lot of of time they don't help themselves or have a shit attitude to start
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:02 PM
2

So you made this post to show how alpha you are and don't make woman like observations?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 01:37 PM
8

Ignoring your use of the word females, most people have social media it doesn't have to be public not every woman is getting random men messaging her constantly
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 07:04 PM
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Source? Women are told to be more feminine this isn't a gendered issue
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 08:50 PM
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That's not true at all. The people who enforce the whole men shouldn't have issues or show emotion are the red pill folk. You've dismissed women's issues so do they exist or not?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 05:32 PM
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Attractive women just like attractive men. Ugly women don't have options, stop assuming all women have it easy. Why should women sympathise with your situation when you dismiss their struggles
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 05:01 PM
5

Women get rejected aswell though you seem to think all women have a super easy time dating and it isn't the case.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 01:17 PM
4

You don't think women get rejected? You don't think women experience difficulties dating or not being good enough? It's not a unique experience to one gender. Being confident is not the same as being pushy and creepy, if someone says no then it's a no..it's not complicated. You can communicate with people to get what they want anyone who plays mind games is immature and not worth your time that's how you don't end up humiliated.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 01:16 PM
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So women should approach men and take things slow but also understand being humiliated and this achieves what exactly
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 01:12 PM
4

Just sounds like you want some weird petty revenge of wanting to reject women to humiliate them, it's all a bit pathetic
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 01:10 PM
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Women go up to men. It just sounds like you're annoyed you don't have swarms of women around you and that seems kind of silly to me, why does it matter or do you just want lots of people to fuck? But women jogging have the same experience it isn't a gendered thing
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 01:05 PM
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Assholes say stuff like that. And we call people who make fun a man trying to improve his fitness assholes too. Who is bullying and humiliating them? What about the stereotype of the nerdy girl who needs a make over? Or the nerdy guy who wins the super hot girl in the end over the jock who's a jerl because those are also common storylines. Once you get out of school people are less immature
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 01:00 PM
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Good looking people get treated better and have an easier time dating that's not shocking. A fat man jogging or a fat woman jogging will get mocked, if they both lost weight then they'll see less mockery its not a gendered thing.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 12:53 PM
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Improvement in what way? You're not entitled to date anyone and not everyone will be attracted to you because you make x amount of money or lift so much. People want different things and have different chemistry with people. Very few people have a completely smooth dating life (and they're probably the sort who get married based on being more religious and don't date), not gelling with someone isn't necessarily humiliating it just means you and them weren't going to work
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 12:29 PM
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Women like different things, self improvement should be about yourself not to impress other people. One guy may see himself as better because he got into bodybuilding and sure some women may love that but others won't like that look, just do what you enjoy and present yourself how you want to be.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 12:24 PM
7

So have you opened up to a woman about your apparently weird hobbies and been shut down? Surely it depends what these hobbies are, taxidermy as an example maybe a complete no go for some but really cool for others.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/21 11:56 PM
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All relationships have risk, it's down to the people involved and their chemistry. I don't think number of previous partners is a sign of immaturity or maturity. Sure take someone's past into account but judging them solely on that is just silly.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:41 AM
4

So should she care about your past more? It seems more risky to enter a relationship with someone when you don't know what problems to avoid from their previous relationships by your logic.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:30 AM
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My point is she's judging you as you are now and not by your previous relationships, does it make her immature or you immature? No, so why claim others are or that people should judge women on their previous relationships
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:23 AM
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So you're judging her as a person as opposed to her lack of history and she's not judging your history but you as a person. So does your history make that much of a difference or does is only really matter when you're judging someone
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:20 AM
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By your logic you're being selfish and she's being naive and immature by blindly trusting you without knowing your history...I know that sounds ridiculous because it is but you're claiming knowing history is important yet it's not so important you don't insist on mentioning it
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:17 AM
2

So wouldn't you be more concerned entering a relationship with someone who's never had one or has much experience in relationships including casual ones as you have nothing to base how they treat partner/s
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:14 AM
7

So why are you not insisting that your current partner knows your past in detail if it matters?
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:10 AM
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You're assuming everyone has the same experience of sex though. It can be a meaningless fuck for plenty of people, a one night stand is just that, sex doesn't mean love to everyone and some people separate meaningless sex and emotional sex. Again I shall ask when you say mature what exactly do you mean? Is it saving yourself for one person?
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:09 AM
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So you don't think you've changed and you still want to be with previous partners? That seems selfish to date someone new. You keep saying mature but what exactly do you mean by that? People should only have one partner? Some people are fine having casual sex and not everything ends in pain, people can remain on good terms with previous partners, it doesn't show a lack of maturity one way or the other, not everyone works the same way. If all parties involved are consenting it isn't selfish at al…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 11:59 PM
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Does she question your past? People change and want different things in life, it's silly to expect people to have no history of relationships outside of religious reasons for the most part. Not everyone brings drama with them into new relationships. Your statement about several partners doesn't necessarily mean immature, some people don't want full commitment or are in poly relationships, if someone is up front and honest about that then other parties can't really be annoyed
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 11:47 PM
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So are you full of drama as you have previous partners?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 11:36 PM
6

I've approached guys but I'm not going to waste my time chasing ot playing stupid games if someone wants to test my interest or something like that
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 07:03 AM
10

It's not as much but we still say slut or thot to put women down
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:49 AM
12

Shouldn't everyone make an effort for a date? Are women just sitting there and making zero effort? There is still a taboo about women being too forward when it comes to sex it's understandable why some hold back.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 01:11 AM
10

Plenty of women are also looking for men, and I don't think arranging dates is a one sided thing for women do men not want to get to know someone before entering a relationship?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 09:00 PM
1

If you're acting creepy and continually making people uncomfortable that's not OK, it's not rejecting men based on them being autistic it's based on poor behaviour which is not exclusively or limited to being autistic. The virgin neckbeard loser type you're talking about very often go down the all women are slags and only anime women are good and insist on having a virgin super hot girlfriend who looks after them while they refuse to work on themselves.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 09:22 AM
1

Ah OK, so it's complete nonsense. Don't yell at women, focus on education and making friends.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:32 AM
1

Where are the articles you mentioned? What good would yelling at women do?
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:28 AM
2

So you got the feminist articles saying to reject autistic men? You're 16, you have a whole life ahead of you and you want to scream at women for no reason.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:20 AM
5

There are autistic men who date, feminists don't sit around writing articles about rejecting men based on them being autistic, please provide examples of this because I have never seen it. I know you're the kid who's upset he can't go to Russia to find a girlfriend so instead want to yell at women. You should focus on socialising and school work.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 06:53 AM
4

Every woman? Are all women reading 50 shades to get off? Do fantasies always mean I want this in reality? Why would someone settle for someone who doesn't bring any joy when they could be on their own and not have the hassle of dating someone they're not that interested in. I'm a woman, 50 shades did nothing for me. The whole bad boy is a massive turn off, I highly doubt that I am the only woman who feels this way so why are you deciding that evey woman wants a bad boy. Do you want the same as e…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 10:14 PM
2

Fantasy and curiosity, I got a copy because I'd heard it was terrible and thought I'd give it a go before jumping on the it's crap bandwagon, it is crap. I have a copy but I can assure you it doesn't do anything for me
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 09:55 PM
2

Are these fathers doing much childcare before and how many fathers are trying to get most or fill custody? Why does the red pill only bitch about single mothers then they're not saying single fathers are ruined. You've avoided the question constantly of why are only single mothers bad and not single fathers.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:47 PM
4

Of course, women are only valuable if they are virgins who know how to fulfil every pornstar fantasy in bed that a man may have and only get pregnant when he wants kids.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 04:00 PM
7

Did you just want to go to Russia to get a Russian girlfriend?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:17 PM
5

How many men fight to see their kids or took on the majority of childcare before divorce? And why does the red pill solely blame women and say they're damaged goods but not men.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:26 AM
12

You dismissed my point completely. If a woman gets an abortion there isn't a kid for the man to be a father to so explain why you believe there are more single mothers than fathers. The red pill blames women for everything, it's never men's fault.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 08:36 PM
12

So men are going around having multiple children with different partners? Having a kid makes you a parent, deadbeat or not. Some people don't mind their partner having kids already. How do you know the reason they got divorced, staying together for the kids is a terrible idea. Why are women only blamed for single parenthood by the red pill, they're not moaning about fathers it's just ab excuse to moan about women. If you dislike single parents at least be consistent.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 08:18 PM
11

Red flags such as? Do they apply to men? If single mothers are the majority is it 3 women to every one man having kids?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 07:31 PM
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Because they blame women for everything and children "ruin" women but not men.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 03:42 PM
11

It's total bollocks, women suddenly don't have some drastic change when they turn 25.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:16 PM
4

Just be yourself and talk to her like an adult, explaining why you felt uncomfortable. Drop the alpha, beta male nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 07:01 PM
2

Not setting stupid tests up. Seeing how you get on with someone isnt a test
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 06:04 PM
2

That says get to know people and communicate. There is nothing that says test people.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 04:25 PM
2

No one is saying blindly go into things but testing people and using tactics is a major red flag and reason to avoid someone
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 03:44 PM
6

A red flag would be someone testing me.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 03:36 PM
6

Or maybe you could just try communicating with them rather than wasting everyone's time with tests
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 03:01 PM
5

So don't have sex then? Pair bonding is nonsense anyway.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 05:22 PM
5

Not all women are the same. Will some use men sure, just like some men use women.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 05:19 PM
6

Free attention? Do you charge your male friends for your attention?
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 05:00 PM
7

You think 50% of the population is exactly the same? Are all men the same? Women have their own struggles, try getting to know some girls and you'll probably change your opinion
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 04:36 PM
1

Doctors for the alopecia, or just fully shave it (I know people who took that approach). As for the gym, not everyone enjoys it he could look at trying classes or a new hobby that's exercised based.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 02:54 PM
7

1 there is no one size fits all, try to find common ground and just be genuine. 2 dating is fine as long as it isn't all you revolve your life around. There are a few things that are true like confidence is good etc, but the whole alpha male thing is laughable. It's not true, not all women are the same. Some will lose their temper quickly and make poor decisions just like some men will. The blackpill is full of contradictions, only 10%of men get laid? Really? Dont revolve your life around dating…
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 04:07 PM
7

Not all women are the same, if someone is being continually distance then I reckon most people would just stop trying and move on. Dating shouldn't be a trying to one up the other person.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/20 12:37 AM
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