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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. There are a lot of things to say about this situation that don't result in comments lacking any substance beyond "leave him sis."
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/25 05:42 PM
1

Removed. If you know it is bad advice, you probably shouldn't advise it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/25 12:53 AM
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Reminder to all the men lurking here: our requirements for posting are strict. See Rule 9. If you do not have extensive Redpill experience you are unlikely to understand female hypergamy and its association with wealth. I'm seeing (and removing) a lot of comments that are coming from a male-interest standpoint.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 09:44 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 09:42 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 09:41 PM
0

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 09:40 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 09:39 PM
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Agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 06:48 PM
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No self-promotion without mod approval.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 06:46 PM
1

Removed. No insulting the community or its members.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/24 05:03 AM
3

u/chilligarliclinguine Please edit this post to include paragraph breaks. That will help you get more replies! -RPW Mod Team
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/24 06:00 PM
1

And you think we allow being intentionally offensive as long as you're a woman? No. Read the linked post if you don't understand.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/24 05:28 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/24 09:43 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/24 09:08 PM
1

Rule 7
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/24 09:59 PM
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u/DarlinggD Please see Rule 6, "Guidelines for asking relationship advice" and update your post with the required information. Message me or another mod when done for your thread to be unlocked.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/24 08:42 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/24 08:40 PM
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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/24 08:23 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/24 06:30 AM
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This post has been locked as it is unclear what you are asking of the community. Although it sounds like you are in a lot of distress for understandable reasons, we don't allow vent posts. If you are looking for some kind of advice, please edit your post to reflect this and message me or another mod for your post to be unlocked.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/24 11:21 PM
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Locked. We do not allow vent posts. Read all rules before posting.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/24 05:48 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:17 PM
2

Removed. This isn't actionable advice for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:16 PM
1

Removed. Do not insult community members. You would be well advised to pay attention to common themes in advice from endorsed and starred members.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:16 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 05:08 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/24 10:19 PM
4

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Personal opinion is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/24 02:26 PM
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Removed. We don't allow questions on behalf of others, and "Did you see this post from this other sub? Do you think it's rage bait?" just isn't on-topic. If this post from another sub inspired you to contemplate certain questions, a post discussing those inspired thoughts and how they pertain to you might contribute.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 12:54 AM
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OP, you are posting frequently and show very little study of women's RP strategy. This and all future posts from you will be locked until you are demonstrating reflection and action on what the community has to offer.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/24 01:56 AM
5

"I just don't get why my paragraphs about how terrible the problem OP wants help for is and then one single sentence suggesting she try something she included in the long list of solutions she has already tried and said made the problem worse is not actionable advice!" Take the L and move along.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 08:08 PM
4

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Advice must be actionable for OP. OP is aware of the problem and reiterating it does nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 07:03 PM
3

Removed, no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 11:10 PM
6

Every single commenter has at least pointed out divorce is an option. Divorce can, in fact, sometimes be the best choice for someone after being cheated on even "just" once, or not the best choice even after a dozen times. Not all commenters take a tone like there's something wrong with OP for not immediately going there, so yes, if you're doubling down on your attitude you can have a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 02:09 PM
3

This is removed for moralizing/insulting OP. Please edit it to remove the moralizing, judgemental statements about women who ever take cheaters back and then ping me or another mod to be re-approved.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 05:08 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 05:05 AM
3

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. Bonus: Do not insult OP.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 05:02 AM
2

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. No moralizing. Do not make shaming comments to OP.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 05:01 AM
1

Rule 4. This sub is a spin-off of the male RP sub. While female and male RP strategy may compete in practice, they are built on the same roots, which we absolutely do "ascribe to." Additionally, while there is good reason to be highly cautious regarding dating RP-aware men, you will find several EC's are successfully married to RP-aware men.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 08:10 PM
2

Removed, Rule 4. Antagonizing men is awful strategy, unless your goal is to end the relationship, in which case you need to respect OP's non-relationship-ending goals instead.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/24 12:51 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/24 10:27 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/24 05:37 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/24 04:17 PM
2

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/24 04:16 PM
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OP, this post is locked per rule 2. OP's may not neglect to mention obviously relevant information. Please edit your post to specify you're discouraged after not seeing results in 8 days. People are assuming you attempted nun mode for months, as nun mode is intended to give major results only after months. Edit: Now unlocked.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 09:54 PM
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u/Current_Ad_7079 This post has been locked due to rule 7 regarding quality of posts. Please elaborate further than a quick question in a post title, and be sure to include specifics if this references a situation you're going through. Message me or other mods to be unlocked once you have done so.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 06:35 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. This is a women's forum. On a personal note, adults who mature typically move on from their teenage obsessions as their overall perspective of life broadens and they come to focus on things in life with more direct impact than fandoms. You hopefully will too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 11:57 PM
0

Removed, Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 08:28 PM
1

The effort is appreciated, but still a rule 4 issue. Telling someone in a relationship strategy sub they should just be happy being single does nothing to help people here with their goals.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 07:01 AM
1

Get banned
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 06:59 AM
1

It wouldn't. Has been removed for Rule 4 violation.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 03:53 AM
2

Rules 4 and 7. No promoting other subs. OP has good reason to be concerned with matching with a good partner in her prime.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 03:46 AM
0

Removed, Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 03:36 AM
3

Done! u/AngelFire_3_14156 Congratulations and thank you for your contributions to the community.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 07:35 PM
1

Removed, Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 07:21 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 12:05 AM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. This comment will be re-approved if you edit your comment to adhere to the Rule 9 guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 08:22 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 08:21 PM
1

Removed, Rule 4. Advice must be from a RedPill perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 07:11 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 07:10 PM
1

Removed. Haven't decided if you're a troll I need to ban or not.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 06:35 PM
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We don't allow inter-reddit links. Please make a separate post for here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/24 03:10 AM
1

Removed, Rule 4. Ordinarily I might leave this conversation up for the debate, but given that you've blocked the EC you were engaging with, it seems that isn't an option.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/24 06:48 PM
1

Read the sentence again. W&M wasn't saying you were. You're being needlessly combative with multiple highly regarded regular contributors here, blocking people and reading things that aren't there. Cool your jets a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/24 06:47 PM
2

Removed, "dump him" comments are not allowed. And in this particular case, rule 7 for low-quality commenting as well. If you pay attention to context you'll realize she is not dating this man in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 11:10 PM
2

Removed, Rule 4.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 11:07 PM
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OP, I'm locking this post. It's your 3rd in 3 days. We discourage new members from making frequent new posts, and encourage taking the time to read through our introductory material and wiki, search the sub to find old discussion on topics of interest, and reflect on and continue to engage with feedback on their first posts instead.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 11:01 PM
1

OP used a LD analogy, so it's pretty obvious she's read it. If there are specific skills you think she should apply in this situation, that might be more helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 06:20 PM
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Rule 9
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 03:14 AM
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Removed, Rule 10. No moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/24 09:18 PM
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u/Responsible_Loss9267 This thread is now locked due to non-responsiveness. Message moderators to appeal.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/24 08:48 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 04:59 PM
1

Removed, low quality. Read OP's post again.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 04:44 PM
2

No AI
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 04:54 PM
2

No chatgpt
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 04:52 PM
2

We remove cluttering comments that don't add to the discussion. Please message a user a thread if you wish them to see it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 08:30 PM
1

Low effort comments with no advice for OP will be removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 08:28 PM
2

Look, you can edit your comment and get re-approved, or ignore the whole situation, or catch a temp ban for playing coy and acting like you don't understand saying someone should be put in their place is an insult. Pick.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 08:10 PM
0

Rule 3, no insulting OP or OP's husband
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:46 PM
1

Comments must contain actionable advice for OP
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:45 PM
1

Removed, do not insult OP's husband. And no bad advice. Among other things, you need to familiarize yourself with state divorce precedence for couples that have only been together a year, and what is and isn't marital property, before making unfounded claims.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:42 PM
2

Advice must be actionable for OP
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:38 PM
-1

Rule 3. You can offer this advice without insulting OP's husband.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:37 PM
2

Your second paragraph has good actionable advice for OP but your first is a "No insulting OP's spouse" and "Advice must be RP" two for one rules violation. Feel free to edit for your comment to be re-approved.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:35 PM
2

This is a good topic of discussion, but does not contain any helpful or actionable advice for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:31 PM
2

Removed, comments must be helpful and actionable for OP
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:15 PM
1

Removed. Just... read the rules and exercise common sense. Putting with all due respect in front of a disrespectful comment doesn't make it respectful.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:15 PM
1

Approved
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 12:45 AM
2

No low effort comments
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 08:11 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 03:09 AM
1

Removed. Speculation this extreme isn't helpful for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 03:09 AM
0

Rule 4
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 03:05 AM
-1

Rule 4
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 03:04 AM
4

Your personal opinion does not change the existence of the rules. Please review the sidebar in full. You're welcome to caution OP based on potential concerns. But this is the one haven of Reddit people go to not get dog piled with "leave him sis."
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 01:03 AM
-10

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 09:00 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. This is not TikTok.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 08:59 PM
1

OP, we believe you made this post previously and then deleted it. I've locked comments for now. Please message me or the other mods if you have questions.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 02:59 AM
2

Please edit your comments instead of spamming sentence fragments.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/24 01:20 AM
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u/poetically-winning This is a reminder of our rule against deleting posts. Repeat violations may result in a ban. Post about boyfriend not wanting to marry for ten years: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1duaz5r/totally_different_timelines_on_marriage_and_its/ Post about boyfriend reading OP's diary: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1dsoj57/my_boyfriend_read_my_personal_journal_i_vent_in/
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/24 01:16 AM
1

No insulting community members.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/24 01:02 AM
1

Removed, low effort.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 04:15 PM
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Removed, low effort platitude. Since it sounds like you came from a similar experience as OP, you're certainly welcome to elaborate on your experience and choices beyond a platitude and ping for re-approval.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 04:14 PM
4

I'm not going to remove this comment under our "Leave him etc." rule, but this is a gentle warning to focus on OP's goals and not project your own experiences. OP is already trying to avoid a loveless, joyless, passionless marriage, or she would not be asking the question she is asking.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 12:38 AM
2

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. OP is requesting advice on maintaining her relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 12:34 AM
5

We generally allow off-topic discussion, unless it's in true "Sir, this is a McDonald's" territory. Hence the existence of the Off Topic tag.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 10:49 PM
1

Removed, low effort
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 11:10 PM
2

Rule 9
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 11:10 PM
1

Removed, no moralizing and no insulting OP.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 10:52 PM
1

Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 10:50 PM
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u/thirtysecondstovodka OP's must continue to interact with comments and questions once they make a post, otherwise the thread will be locked. Message the moderators for this thread to be unlocked.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 03:10 AM
1

Rule 3. Time out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 08:05 PM
1

Rule 3, time out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 08:05 PM
5

Removed for sarcasm, poor reading comprehension, and gross dramatization. It's probably best you leave this thread alone.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 11:26 PM
5

Removed, Rule 4. While your ideas here are not very clearly stated, you appear to be saying that Red Pill "creates psychological problems." This is a Red Pill sub.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 07:17 AM
3

Removed, Rule 4. There is no country on earth where female secondary sexual characteristics are not valued.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 04:20 AM
1

Removed, low effort platitude and Rule 4.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 02:16 PM
2

Removed for what is either poor reading comprehension or a violation of Rule 2.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/24 06:40 AM
3

Removed, I'm calling Rule 5 on this one. An inexperienced adult is still an adult and the infantilization of specifically female young adults is a hallmark of paternalistic (maternalistic?) feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/24 06:34 AM
1

Removed, Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 03:21 PM
2

Hi, this is moderator Happy. Please edit your original post to note that you already have an established D/s dynamic, as you are getting many commenters assuming a man is out of the blue asking for this extreme submission in a vanilla relationship. This is important context you need to add to receive helpful advice.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 02:04 AM
1

Removed, no insulting OP or OP's SO.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 01:53 AM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 01:51 AM
-2

Removed, no insulting OP or OP's SO.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 01:43 AM
-1

No low effort comments. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. Feel free to edit for re-approval.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 07:57 PM
3

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 11:10 AM
1

See Rule 7, no low effort comments
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/24 05:20 AM
2

Approved!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/24 04:11 AM
1

I see, I was wrong about your profile. Why don't you edit your post to more fully describe what you're talking about? Your comment gives many more details not included in your post. We'll re-approve your post if you edit.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 06:00 PM
1

Approved
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 05:51 PM
2

No low effort posts. It also appears you may be a man, in which case refer to Rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 05:49 PM
2

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 12:53 PM
1

Removed, please remove or modify the moralizing "good dad" remark and ping me for re-approval.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 04:05 AM
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RULE REMINDERS: Do not insult OP or other community members. No moralizing. Your personal cultural belief system about what make a man "good" is not relevant. Phrase your opinions carefully, not in a moralizing fashion.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 04:01 AM
1

Removed, do not insult community members.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:58 AM
1

Removed, no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:58 AM
1

Removed. Please edit the moralizing/personal opinion "good men" remarks and ping for re-approval.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:56 AM
1

Removed for low effort. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:56 AM
1

Tradcon is Redpill but Redpill is not Tradcon.. The OG RPW founding philosophies were VERY non-traditional, although traditional strategies have gained popularity in recent years.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:55 AM
0

Removed. Please edit and remove or modify the "decent man" moralizing, as this is at best a cultual judgment, and ping me for comment re-approval.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:49 AM
0

Removed, do not insult community members.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:46 AM
2

Removed. Please edit and remove or modify the "good man" moralizing and ping me for comment re-approval.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:45 AM
1

Removed. Feel free to edit but the tone of this smacks of moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/24 06:27 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/24 05:42 PM
1

No low effort comments. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/24 05:40 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/24 10:57 PM
5

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/24 10:41 PM
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OP, substance abuse issues are Beyond the Scope of RP. We wish you the best but advise you to seek offline assistance. This thread is now locked.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/24 04:34 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Personal opinion is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/24 05:55 AM
4

As the EC said, a sick burn is basically a creative insult. I'll use less regional slang in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/24 01:19 AM
1

Low effort comments will be removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/24 01:11 AM
9

Removed, strategies must be from a RedPill perspective. Suggesting "sick burns" someone should employ against their spouse from your armchair is a peak Reddit moment but not permitted.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/24 11:49 PM
2

Removed, see sub rules. Strategies must be from a Red Pill perspective. This is just passive aggressive.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/24 07:08 PM
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OP, please edit your post to include your country and culture to receive advice that's more likely to be helpful to you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/24 08:11 PM
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All right, wrap it up. It's been fun but we're locking this. OP appears to have posted merely for the purpose of fighting. OP, we don't do straw-manning, we don't do changing goal posts, and we don't do moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 09:57 PM
1

Removed for poor reading comprehension.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 09:12 PM
1

Removed, no insulting community members.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 09:11 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 04:50 PM
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Currently locked due to possible issues Beyond the Scope of RP and OP non-response.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 08:54 AM
2

Rule 9 + 4. This is all projection + bad pop psychology. Someone who is most of the time fully engaged with their partner and occasionally more chill/distant is showing a normal range of emotion expected in any healthy long term relationship. Don't tell OP to pathologize it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 08:50 AM
2

We don't allow venting here, and please don't post encouraging the idea of habitually moderating negative emotions with alcohol.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 08:39 AM
1

Removed, no low effort comments on year-old posts.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 08:36 AM
2

Removed, weirdly antagonistic attitude. Feel free to edit with better phrasing to present your ideas and will be re-approved.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 08:35 AM
1

Thanks, Vas. Approved. BTW it was the "as a guy" line that triggered the automod.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/24 03:02 PM
1

The autmod nuked your reply and we didn't catch it until now. Before I approve it, though, can you take a gander at OP's post history? It answers some of your questions and may impact your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/24 07:16 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/24 02:56 AM
3

Please clarify if you mean he is physically restraining or otherwise physically preventing you from leaving the house. If this is the case, your situation Beyond the Scope of RP and is cause to contact law enforcement for imprisonment in many countries. If it is not, please edit your comment to accurately state he doesn't want you to leave the house, rather than "not letting you," as you are an adult who can choose whether or not to leave the house.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 03:35 PM
2

Removed. You're trauma dumping on someone else's thread. Make your own thread if you would like feedback or advice on some particular aspect of your life right now (such as moving on from your past), or move the conversation to DM's if you only want to vent, as pure venting is not permitted on this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 02:24 AM
1

Removed, low effort comment. See rule 4.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 02:22 AM
1

Removed for low effort + likely moralizing. See rule 4.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/24 04:45 PM
1

Removed Rule 9
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/24 01:12 AM
1

Removed, no low effort comments with bad grammar where you criticize OP for something you would have seen she already acknowledges if you actually read half the post. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. Also, again, TradCon is RP but RP is not TradCon: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/mdr62i/tradcon_is_rpw_but_rpw_is_not_tradcon/
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/24 02:19 PM
2

Rule #3. No insulting members. You can challenge OP's self-perception, or even offer a critical view of this post's sincerity, without being nasty.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/24 12:55 AM
1

Removed, no moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/24 02:26 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/24 04:11 AM
2

Rule 9 + Banned
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/24 04:08 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/24 04:07 AM
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u/Fantastic-Fudge888 Rule #2 warning for deleting a post. We do not allow post deletion as it stops others from being able to read and benefit from the conversation. Repeat violations may result in a ban. EDIT: Warning removed due to extenuating circumstances.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 08:25 PM
0

Removed, do not insult the community or its members.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 07:41 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/24 06:12 AM
1

Certainly. u/Early_Minute8893 Congratulations! Welcome to the Star Contributors.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/24 04:36 AM
3

No. Bad dog. Drop it. Drop it!
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/24 03:10 PM
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u/VeterinarianGood1660 Interaction with the community is required for posters. Many endorsed and starred members have asked for more information that you have not provided. Please continue community interaction or your post will be locked as abandoned.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/24 01:37 PM
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u/PersianMermaid While we appreciate the field report confirming the community's warnings on your previous post, we do not permit drive-by posting with no interaction with the community, for which your previous post was locked. Please engage in discussion or your post will be locked. Repeated violation of this rule may result in a ban. EDIT: Locked.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/24 01:18 PM
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Locking this thread as substance addiction issues are Beyond the Scope of RP. RedPill tactics are not going to have a reliable impact on addicts. OP, you've have good responses from starred and endorsed contributors. Please consider them, and seek out real life help for partners of addicts, such as Al-Anon. Partners of addicts are often themselves addicts to the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/24 01:13 PM
-2

Please edit your comment for re-approval. "Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/24 01:35 AM
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Rule warning: Do not delete posts. Removing discussions stops the community from being able to read and benefit from them. Repeat violations will result in a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/24 06:25 AM
3

Removed, a rare combo rule 5 + 9 issue. This reads like radfem misandry, except somehow from a guy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 12:35 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/24 06:53 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Spend some time in the male Redsphere first.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/24 06:49 PM
2

RIP, thanks for the catch Chammie!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 07:52 PM
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u/kroshkamoya Hello OP! Rule #2 includes that posters must engage in the discussion, especially when asking a personal question. Contributors take time to write out replies or request more info, and OP's who post and then do not engage discourage contributors from, well, contributing. In this case you have only made two short dismissive replies to a couple comments. If you do not engage in conversation, this thread will be locked. Gentle reminder also that we do not allow post deletion and users…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 06:01 PM
3

u/tr1shylol This is a Rule #2 warning - We don't allow deletion of posts as that removes the community's ability to learn from the discussion. Repeated violations may result in a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 12:15 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 12:13 PM
2

This subreddit is moderated in English and Spanish. Please supply a translation, as we are forced to remove all comments in languages we are unable to moderate.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 03:17 AM
1

Rule #3, no insulting other members. Do not impose your cultural norm as a moral standard upon others.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 03:24 PM
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OP, we discourage making multiple posts a day. Take time to digest the advice you're being given on your first post instead. It's also disingenuous to claim you know every relationship is different and then admit you're using people's responses to evaluate leaving your own relationship. Locked.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/24 01:13 AM
2

Your brief post history mentions potentially dating a woman. Could you clarify if you are lesbian?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 08:50 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 02:03 PM
3

Men who abide by our rules for men are welcome here, and RPDad in particular you may notice is Endorsed for his repeatedly valuable contributions. If you can't figure out how you insulted him, perhaps you don't fit in well with the desired tone of this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/24 02:43 PM
2

Not approved. Rule 3. Careful, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/24 11:36 PM
4

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Extra demerits for talking about your boners.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 05:55 PM
3

Removed for either poor reading comprehension or giving off topic advice. 95lbs is not overweight.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 05:21 PM
2

No insulting upwards of 50%+ of the entire female population. Find something better to do. Read up on the psychology of kink, perhaps.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 01:01 PM
4

Reminder to read the rules before commenting. In particular, "Leave him" should not be the first/only advice, no insulting OP or her current partner, and personal opinion is not advice. Fully flesh out your thoughts if you have advice or observations for OP. Going to issue temp bans for anyone ignoring this in the thread going forward.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 02:56 AM
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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. + personal opinion is not advice
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 02:48 AM
-29

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 02:47 AM
-28

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 02:47 AM
1

This comment may be re-approved if you remove the "No true Scottsman fallacy" statements about Christian men who care about how a woman's sexual history impacts her SMV and RMV.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/24 05:10 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/24 09:43 PM
1

You're replying to a comment that slipped past mod radar. This is not a space for women to give men advice, nor for men to ask for it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/24 09:42 PM
1

OP, you're replying to your removed post after three weeks. Take some time to read the community material and soak up the knowledge here before engaging again (and if you do, make sure to put effort into your post). You'll find the pinned posts on the main page to be the best starting point. Eventually you may learn that men and women see "friendship" very differently thanks to strong biological forces.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/24 03:54 AM
5

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/24 05:46 AM
3

u/marshmallow_fluffe You must interact with your post replies or your post will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 05:21 AM
3

Because it is. Has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 05:19 AM
1

Removed. Not remotely useful.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 06:52 PM
1

All good.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 02:15 AM
4

Removed due to Rule 4: Strategies must be from a RedPill perspective. Everything here is a very blue pill talking point. The RP community has put over a decade of collective effort into cataloguing how to keep sexual passion in a marriage. "Choreplay" does not work and women usually respond quite well to men who are confidently sexually expressive.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 01:56 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines, with a side of Rule 4. Personal opinion is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 05:50 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. This comment doesn't seem to say anything. Edit for re-approval.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 05:49 PM
1

You're a troll. Banned.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 03:38 PM
0

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 03:36 PM
0

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. Personal opinion is not actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 03:33 PM
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Locked, Rule 4: Strategies for no-commitment sex from men will not be discussed. OP, you have explained you have no problems with your current relationship and are seeking advice for no-commitment sex outside of your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/24 06:27 PM
3

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/24 01:51 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/24 04:24 AM
2

Read the linked post in my above comment. There's a reason it states the best material comes from older, married men. If you're giving advice for her husband, who is not here, you're violating rules that advice must be actionable for OP. If you're suggesting OP dump a library of nofap material on her husband, you're just giving bad advice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/24 01:01 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/24 09:08 AM
2

Removed, RPW is not your therapist's office.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/24 08:30 PM
-9

Removed. You can express concern for OP without fear mongering.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/24 08:51 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/24 08:48 AM
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Locked. If you wish to participate in this community, please edit your post to remove the drastic judgements against those who have had sex or used contraception. If you wish to clarify that you are dealing with feeling that having sex will make you disgusting for the rest of your life, or the feeling that using contraception means you are a whore, please clarify, as your absolute statements are a Rule 3 violation.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 03:04 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. And also rule 1 and rule 10. Just no.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 10:36 AM
1

Removed, this is off-topic and does nothing to assist OP. Take theological debate to a relevant religion sub. And I suggest researching monogamy, polygamy, and the definition of adultery in Christianity before doing so, as there are some historical facts that might surprise you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/24 02:04 AM
1

Removed, rule 7. No low effort comments. If you don't have anything to add, don't add anything.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 03:59 AM
1

Removed, you responded to the thread title without reading the post. We don't permit low-effort commenting here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 03:43 AM
0

Removed, you responded to the thread title without reading the post. We don't permit low-effort commenting here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 03:42 AM
1

Removed, you responded to the thread title without reading the post. We don't permit low-effort commenting here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 12:04 AM
3

Removed, you responded to the thread title without reading the post. We don't permit low-effort commenting here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 12:03 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 12:22 PM
8

u/OK-Independent272 We do not allow vent posts. Please edit your post to indicate what advice you are looking for, and follow the guidelines in Rule 6: If you are asking a personal relationship question, please answer the following questions: What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? What is your current relationship status and length of time? Be honest with yourself about what background is needed to help the…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/24 03:44 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/24 03:59 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/24 09:13 AM
1

Removed. This is great advice for the husband... who is not here. Advice must be actionable FOR OP.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 10:28 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 08:40 PM
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OP, your specific situation is beyond the scope of what internet strangers here can assist with, and you seem to ignore advice given here anyway. It would be a good idea to discuss with your care team whether being a mother is right for you (20+ year old conversations don't count), receive therapy for your moodiness, and consider social skills therapy that could assist you on your journey to find a relationship. This thread has been locked.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 01:14 PM
5

Removed, Rule 3. Insinuating racism without cause is completely uncalled for. Women are allowed to discuss the cultural norms of different communities and ethnicities here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 01:21 PM
1

OP, this is a warning for Rule 2. We do not allow deleting posts here as it interferes with the ability of others to learn from your discussion topic. Repeat violation may result in a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 01:17 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 03:42 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 01:43 AM
1

OP is describes herself as "chronically ill." I'm sure she has explored all modalities of treatment which she is comfortable with. She is here asking for relationship advice, not medical advice, and this sub does not handle medical matters either - a specific suggestion, especially from personal experience, might be helpful but a simple "try my favorite medical modality" is not. No more arguing with mods.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 01:40 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/24 08:16 PM
0

Rule Zero.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/24 03:57 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 02:43 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 10:54 AM
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u/persianmermaid You must reply and engage in conversation in your post comments per Rule 2. If you do not, this thread will be locked.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 10:42 AM
2

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. No low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 10:39 AM
2

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 10:38 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/24 04:17 AM
1

Removed. No low effort comments, or in this case, low effort behavior in general. If you clicked on the first pinned post in this subreddit and then the FAQ, you wouldn't have this question. Other members can not doing the reading for you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/24 08:52 AM
6

Rules 3, 4, plus no moralizing. Don't tell everyone who performs a specific sex act that they have lost respect for themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 04:44 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/24 03:51 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Don't pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/24 12:22 PM
1

Removed, Do not argue with mods. Several other commenters have gone through different vetting choices based on the multiple possibilities OP left open. Your assumptions are unhelpful.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 10:45 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 07:57 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 12:05 PM
3

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. You're making some serious assumptions. OP has not yet replied to people asking what advice this man specifically gives.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 11:59 AM
1

Rule Zero, stay on topic. This is circle-jerking, not anything that is actionable advice to help OP.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 10:11 AM
1

Rule 4. Responding to genuine preferences expressed by a husband with "retorts" to the point the husband mostly quits doing so is not building the kind of relationship we aim for around here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 10:05 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 02:02 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 02:01 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. No low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 05:37 PM
-2

Do not argue with mods.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 04:57 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 04:49 AM
-2

Do not insult OP's husband. Also, personal opinion on what constitutes "HV" is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 04:41 AM
1

Removed, Rule 4.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/24 03:18 AM
1

Re-approved.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/24 07:10 PM
-3

Advice must be from an RP perspective. "Just do what you want" with no connection to how this supposedly helps OP's relationship strategy is unhelpful.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/24 10:36 AM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/24 10:28 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/24 05:49 AM
2

Be coherent.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/24 05:20 AM
3

Rule 3. Don't insult OP's man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/24 11:18 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/24 10:24 PM
3

Advice must be actionable for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/24 12:00 PM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/24 08:18 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/24 08:18 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 10:40 PM
2

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 09:36 PM
2

Removed, Rule 3. There are multiple possible explanations and doing nothing but jumping to the worst with an insult does not serve OP.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 09:34 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/24 10:45 PM
2

Removed for violating like half the rules. But in particular: rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/24 08:05 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 11:08 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. You're lost. Go to TRP or askMRP.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 11:06 AM
1

Between this post and the last one where someone asked for dating app strategy, you've listed a tremendous amount of valuable information in your comments. We would love it if you pasted all that advice together into a field report describing your wins and mistakes on the road to meeting and dating your now-husband. All your nuggets of wisdom are currently scattered, and it would be great to be able to direct anyone asking about the topic to a field report or guide you wrote!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 02:37 AM
3

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 09:46 PM
3

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Do not request community members DM you personal information.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 09:41 PM
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u/No_Ebb4186 This is a Rule 2 warning, as we do not allow deleting posts. If you delete a post again, you will be permanently banned from the subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 12:32 PM
1

Removed. This is crabs-in-the-bucket nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 09:42 AM
2

Advice must be actionable for OP, not the men she's encountering.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 09:34 AM
1

Rule 2. Plenty of commenters have said "it's probably personality" without Rule 2'ing OP and an entire generation. (And if it applies to an entire age or generation, it's not the issue OP is looking for.)
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:27 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 08:18 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 08:17 AM
1

This discussion is locked. Racial definitions vary by culture and are beyond the scope of RP. Further comments on the subject will be deleted.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 07:50 AM
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There have been a couple reports on this post. Reminder that posts do not have to be applicable to everyone. African-American, African, Arab, Asian, etc. women are all free to post theory and discussion about their respective communities and they do not have to talk about whether or not their observations apply to general Western Culture, Cambodia, or future Mars colonies if they do not want to. Furthermore, discussing population statistics, cultural forces, and probability of desirable sexual o…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 11:26 PM
1

Removed, Rule 3. See other top comments for how to say something useful while answering OP.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 11:42 AM
2

Removed, Rule 3. OP is being quite open with her mental health. Insults are completely uncalled for.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 11:37 AM
0

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 06:54 AM
1

The imaginary scenario is you applying this to OP. Heal yourself before giving advice in scenarios that trigger memories of your ex.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 06:49 AM
0

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. No low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 11:45 AM
2

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. No low effort comments.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 11:44 AM
1

Rule Zero.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 08:43 AM
1

Removed, rule Zero.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 08:42 AM
2

Removed, Rule 3. Give advice without insulting community members.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 08:40 AM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 08:36 AM
1

This is not a dating or match making sub.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 11:05 PM
1

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 04:24 PM
2

This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 11:38 AM
3

Removed, no feminism/inaccurate generalizations about men allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 11:36 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 07:59 AM
2

This is not actionable advice for OP. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 05:23 PM
1

Funny, but this was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 04:36 AM
2

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 06:13 PM
1

"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 06:08 PM
1

Rule 2. Arguments between community members are allowed, insults are not.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 05:31 PM
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I'm approving this post even though you made one earlier today as it is a very different topic. Please keep in mind we recommend taking time to digest the Reddit's resources and comments before making new posts.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 01:26 AM
1

This post is nearly a year old. If you joined Reddit due to this post, you may benefit from exploring this community and its resources. Start with the stickied posts on the main page of this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 07:35 PM
1

Removed, Rule 2.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 07:22 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Don't pet the unicorns. Especially when the unicorns are likely a troll.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 04:55 PM
1

Removed, rule 3. Also please see mod sticky at top of this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 04:52 PM
1

This is purely speculative and offers no actionable advice to OP.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 03:45 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 03:43 AM
1

See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 03:43 AM
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Hello OP, please edit your post with the answers to the questions in Rule 6. The thread will be unlocked once you have made the edit. If you are asking a personal relationship question, please answer the following questions: What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? What is your current relationship status and length of time? Be honest with yourself about what background is needed to help the community answer …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 02:29 AM
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In that case: this was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. This is simply not a space for men to come in and go on a tangent insulting other groups of men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 08:20 AM
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"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 08:17 AM
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Telling someone to go insult their ex is no value add. Advice must be actionable and RP.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 08:11 AM
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No moralizing. Your biblical interpretation is only relevant if it relates to actionable advice for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 08:10 AM
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No value add. We do not allow rants or comments that are merely rants about men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 08:07 AM
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Low effort comments will be removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 08:05 AM
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Telling someone to go insult their ex is no value add. Advice must be actionable and RP.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 08:04 AM
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Removed, rule Zero. Feel free to read through the material and FAQ in the stickied posts if you're actually curious.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 10:01 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 06:53 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 06:49 PM
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Advice must be actionable for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 04:32 AM
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I'll re-approve the comment. To be honest, thought you were a random introducing yourself as the "right man" to a commenter you had no prior interaction with!
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 10:34 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 10:33 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Do not announce you are a man.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 09:33 PM
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Rule 3
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 09:27 PM
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See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 09:22 PM
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OP, this is your third post in four days. Your questions indicate you haven't yet spent time reading through the rich resources this community has curated. Take some time to explore the material in the stickied posts before making your own post again.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 11:25 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 08:35 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 02:52 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Men lamenting post-wall women's choices belongs in another subreddit, not a thread where OP is looking for advice.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 02:49 PM
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