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Going on a date in about half an hour, but to be honest, I don't even want to go. I've been putting myself out there and going on dates with girls from dating apps, but i'd honestly rather just focus on the gym and my friends. Don't know why I'm like this, maybe some day I'll feel ready. At least i put myself outside of my comfort zone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:34 PM
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damn so to improve myself in the eyes of women my only avenue is...plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:12 PM
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proof? this wouldnt even make genetic sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:50 PM
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Q4W: How many points can a guy being fit add on the scale? I've seen this question answered before with "not a lot" but then in the before and after pictures used as backing, the guy in the before clearly hits the gym, he just went from buff with some fat to shredded. Curious as I'm slowly morphing into a gym rat, trying to go from skinny to muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:18 PM
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21 :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:49 AM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:11 AM
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Hey there, i'm drunk asf so im curious, yall think i should get surgery on my nose? baseball injury from a while back, always hated how it looked. be honest, lmk https://ibb.co/q5kXDTd https://ibb.co/KLCk9xN
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:45 AM
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Feel like ive been spiraling for about 8 years now tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:08 AM
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I've played sports my whole life, I go for runs, I consider myself to have a healthy, balanced diet, I golf often. I just cannot gain weight. I plan to start lifting and bulking when I go back to college this fall. I just hate looking at my twig arms and twig calves. I don't know how I can be attractive sexually to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:06 AM
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I want a loving, romantic relationship. I want to feel like I can be attractive to a girl and can provide value to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:00 AM
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i cant. i like the discussion and im addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:48 AM
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too addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:45 AM
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This sub is depressing, but by no fault of its own. It just reinforces the cold hard truth that unless i get big and muscular and spend money on getting work done, ill probably never find what I want. Sounds easy to fix, but between career and academic pursuits, a social life, and hobbies, I just dont know how to find the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:34 AM
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whats whr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:19 PM
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Not a PUA, but did suffer through bad abuse perpetuated by my mother, emotional and physical. Maybe I should try out therapy?
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:41 PM
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Any tips on how to avoid this being me in 14 years?
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:40 PM
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Rank 1-10: ​ https://www.instagram.com/emmabrooks/?hl=en
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:39 PM
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I am and would love for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:52 PM
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We need a sub where people honestly rate other's SMV (or whatever you people in this sphere call it). r/truerateme is good, but it's only for faces. Although it would probably turn into a shitshow when a guy who gets a decent rating takes that as an invitation to send dick pics to his raters. Agree or disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:35 PM
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Cheating at any level is the lowest of the low you can do. Sure, cheating when you have responsibilities and kids causes more harm, but that doesn't make cheating when you're a 20 something and single any better of an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:03 PM
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how considerate of the women to only cheat when they don't have responsibilities.......
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:01 PM
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or they're both equally bad because cheating is inherently an extremely shitty thing to do and there doesn't need to be a dick measuring contest on what "types" of cheating are worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:59 PM
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Ok, but I don't think that's what CRT is, and outside of people on the far far left, I highly doubt you'll find many people agreeing with that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:47 PM
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interesting, id consider adriana lima at least an 8 or 9
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:29 PM
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fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:26 PM
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would you be willing to date Nathan Fielder? No incel shit, just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:24 PM
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Can't really think of any 7's or 5's, but a couple 9/10's would be: ​ Emma Brooks McAllister Ana de Armas ​ Honestly I can't really distinguish between 7's and 9's. A girl is either attractive or she isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:22 PM
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give an example of a few things they're teaching your kids at school that you don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:14 PM
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I don't think I've ever experienced true love, so I'll answer this from a standpoint of attraction, although that may not be what you are looking for. I generally tend to put girls into one of lets say three categories. Ugly, average, and attractive. There are some girls that are slightly above average (maybe a nice body or something), but for the most part, I wouldn't date a girl that I'm not attracted to. That being said, to answer your question, I really don't see much of a difference between…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:01 PM
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as in you didnt have work done yet or you didn't notice a difference yet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:44 PM
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Q4M: Any of you guys ever had plastic surgery? If so, did you notice a difference in dating after?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:41 PM
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Any guy who won't go 50/50 on that stuff assuming you're both working isn't worth your time. And i thought that due to your initial reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:49 PM
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Is consensual, loving sex a bad thing? I'm not sure what you mean by service, but isn't supporting your partner a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:08 PM
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Well all men are different. I'm sure some want casual sex, but I think the vast majority of men do want a monogamous relationship. What else do you think men want?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:56 PM
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Well of course--that's just symbolism for a loving, romantic, caring relationship in which we are mutually attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:53 PM
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honestly, this is probably part of it too. I don't really want a stereotypical model type chick, but i do want someone i'm attracted to, but I recognize that in order for that, I actually have to be attractive to the opposite sex, which when I look in the mirror, i just dont see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:50 PM
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My one homie is gonna help me out with that stuff, he's pretty knowledgable on that stuff. But I do eat a shit ton and just don't seem to gain weight lol. Thanks for all the advice btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:49 PM
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Honestly, me and my friends go out to have a good time and not necessarily to pick up chicks, but yeah I think I've noticed it a few times. I got that attention too, but the last time was probably around 5 years ago when I was in high school. I was just too anxious and in a bad living situation so I pushed the two girls in question away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:48 PM
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Well I consider social skills, intelligence, humor, etc. to be in my control. But height, nah, I'm 5'10, weight, I've always been skinny, my eyesight sucks, my skin is both dry and pimply, and my face is slightly above average at absolute best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:46 PM
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I can chat up strangers pretty well, yeah, especially when I have some whiskey in me lol. I keep telling myself I'm going to start lifting but I genuinely find it hard when I have an internship full time and I'm pouring time into my social life and hobbies. I'm sure I'm just making excuses, I probably could find the time if I tried hard enough. Hopefully I start going when I go back to school in the next month here. ​ I can chat up girls at parties and what not but I always just keep it to small…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:31 PM
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Many I hate to throw a pity party for myself but I literally cannot even think of one genetic advantage I have. Maybe that I have a nice butt I've been told? Lol. I guess I'm fortunate to be born when I was, where I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:26 PM
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RIP. I just wish more in this life was in our control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:23 PM
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Idk, theres two problems. First off, I'm not where I want to be attractiveness wise. I've been told I'm cute (probably like a 5.5) and I'm a healthy BMI, I'm just skinny and being honest, looking in the mirror I really don't know what I could provide to a girl sexually. I just don't see myself in a sexual way at all. Of course this way of thinking is super unattractive, but I can't help it. ​ Second, I really don't know how to socially interact with girls. I'm the life of the party and have tons…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:21 PM
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maybe one day...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:06 PM
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YDI? huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:03 PM
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Man all I want is to be attractive to a girl I am also attracted to and sit on a blanket and watch the stars together and shit. Is that really that much to ask for :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:58 PM
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drinking in moderation could help with 2-4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:56 PM
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i recognize that my height may rule me out in a lot of situations, but I think if I can get muscular and have a pleasing face, i still can hopefully find a girl i am also attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:54 PM
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Lift weights and get bigger. Figure out why I still get pimples at 21 years of age. Explore plastic surgery and possibly get the bump in my nose from a baseball injury removed. Hairline lowering surgery, i'm not balding but i naturally have a big forehead. Figure out why I have chronic dark circles under my eyes. I'm not entering the dating game until I can look in the mirror and recognize that I'm a good looking guy. I'm maybe a 5.5/10 right now. Much too skinny. 5'10 and 155 pounds. I'm a perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:32 PM
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i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:28 PM
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No. Do you expect men to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:21 PM
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what else are men supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:21 AM
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bmi is 17 or so it said, is that right if i'm 5'9 155?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:47 PM
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yeah it is a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:23 PM
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Nope, that's battery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:02 PM
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Not ugly, but average. His style, charisma, and vibe really elevates him. Plus a beard is an automatic +2 points on the scale if you can grow it in well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:39 PM
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Do any other guys go through periods where they honestly could not care less about dating/relationships? But then when the idea of emotional attachment and companionship does come on, it happens to be super freakin intense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:37 PM
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i'm so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:33 PM
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jack harlow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:35 AM
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not true at all for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:59 PM
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Q4A building off of the question below: What percentage of guys aged 20-24 do you think are virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:34 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:46 PM
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Q4A: How much does intelligence play into attraction for you? I absolutely fall for girls when they seem super smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:50 PM
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yeah im not where i need to be at all. need to hit the gym and get my nose fixed--baseball injury from a while back. i will give you USC and ASU chicks, but i'm telling you man, PSU chicks are slept on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:51 PM
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whats the hb scale
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:48 PM
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NA education amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:46 PM
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you're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:46 PM
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huh? state college is considered to have some of the most beautiful women in the north east. besides, i'm like a 5.5/10 at best, i never claimed to be hot stuff. not sure why you're so defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:45 PM
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nature vs. nurture. i don't really believe we have a choice over the threshold we're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:32 PM
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Q4A: How much of your attractiveness do you think is in your own hands, rather than genetic? What % of your score on a 10 point scale can you influence?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:20 PM
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good rebuttal. would be interested to see some studies on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:18 PM
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fair enough, one of the best rebuttals in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:17 PM
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could be true. couldnt speak for it myself, I've been attracted to girls and lusted but i'm not sure that i've ever experienced "true love".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:16 PM
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this sub is depressing lol. i love the commentary because i do believe there is some truth to the issues presented in this sub, but so many choose to just give up rather than try at all. can lead a horse to water but you cant make em drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:15 PM
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But if "average" (the minimum threshold someone needs to be to be considered attractive), is dictated by our predisposed genetic attraction to certain qualities, it could not change depending on these factors. I.E. If you're a 5/10 in a crowd of 8/10's you're still a 5/10, not a 2/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:11 PM
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Again, you're not understanding my point. Sure, that may be the STATISTICAL average, the textbook definition of average, but when 90% of people talk about "average" as it pertains to attractiveness/looks, they're not talking about the statistical average, they're talking about a person who looks nothing special, but not ugly either. ​ Just because you're a 2/10 manlet standing with a crowd of 1/10 obese balding neckbeards at a bar doesn't make you any more attractive to the 8/10 girl sitting at …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:06 PM
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Almost as if you can't grasp the concept that the meaning of words get twisted and changed depending on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:00 PM
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thank you. this is exactly what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:03 PM
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you and i are on the same wavelength, but i disagree with your last point. women will not adjust to dating the bridge troll, because attractiveness standards are genetic and out of their control
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:14 PM
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I didn't intend to blame women at all for the norms, but I don't think its entirely men upholding these stigmas, I don't think its a gender issue at all. I think people of both genders perpetuate this stuff. But I think if you surveyed most women in western countries, they would strongly dislike the idea of their partner wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:23 PM
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Don't feel like worthless trash, but just understand that the reason you're most likely average is because like 50% of the country you're in is overweight and takes no care of themselves at all. If 9 other people are standing in line next to you, whether 3 of them are obese and ugly or 9 of them are, that doesn't change your attractiveness to women at all, since what we're attracted to is something we don't get control over at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:13 PM
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That's chemicals in your brain deciding what's attractive and what isn't. ​ I dare you to try to have sex with a 450 pound overweight woman who is the nicest, most kind woman in the world and be attracted to it. Try it and tell me if you still believe that you choose who you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:09 PM
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Statistically average, yes. But most people don't use average that way when it comes to looks, they just use it to refer to their minimum level of attractiveness. And you don't get to choose that 9 out of 10 bananas don't taste sweet to you, its just how your tastebuds are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:08 PM
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Welcome to society. Words get appropriated and take on new meanings every day. I don't think most people consult a dictionary in their day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:06 PM
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I'd challenge that the 85th percentile is not hard to reach. Most men don't take care of themselves (saying this as a guy), and that's why 85% of men don't reach the level needed to make a women's brain chemicals go crazy. ​ Also, I highly doubt that a woman with no makeup is considered in most men's definition of "average". Most women spend hours doing their makeup, skincare, and beauty routines daily. Women don't get to just show up and be hot, unless they're extremely attractive (top ~5% I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:02 PM
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It's cultural stigma and societal norms. I'm willing to bet you if a guy wears makeup and that gets found out, in most western cultures, he'd be looked at as feminine and less of a man. We're ingrained with that from our birth. Hell, most men can't even get plastic surgery without being fearful of looked at as less of a man for, DARING to care about looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:57 PM
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Words have meanings, but often those meanings fall prey to alternate interpretations based on cultural factors. The true definition of average is a statistical average, but when you ask people about "average" when it comes to attractiveness and looks, I can almost guarantee that most time, they're thinking of someone that's the bare minimum they're attracted at least somewhat to. ​ I may be somewhere in the top 45-50% of men, but that doesn't mean I'm meeting most women's standards for attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:55 PM
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Hot take: Men and women don't get to choose what we're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:50 PM
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you're missing the point. i'm saying that genetics of attraction doesnt give a shit about your definition of average. when most people say average, they're referring to the minimum threshold to get nasty with someone, not "muh statistical average"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:28 PM
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by this definition, 95% of men are coomers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:09 PM
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Q4W: Have you ever been close to a guy that underwent a physical transformation and got fit? If so, how much did this change their attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:09 PM
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Huh? Being attracted to someone is out of our control. Genetics doesn't give a crap about your statistical averages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:07 PM
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Except "average" in this context refers to a standard of looks. Nothing special, not hot, but not ugly either. So yes, it is very much possible for 80% of men to be below average, especially when you consider most of us do the bare minimum when it comes to taking care of our looks and bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:26 PM
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Am man. quality > quantity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:29 PM
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I'd say girls that a shorter than me, have soft, feminine features, and are cute. I don't go for stereotypical "hot" sorority chicks. Maybe it's my brains way of keeping myself in my league lol. I'm really not that picky. I don't consider myself "pilled", but do believe that some of the pill rhetoric has some merit, while other parts of it is just nonsense. If you want an example of a girl I think is extremely attractive, look up Emma Brooks McAllister. She's probably way out of my league though…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:51 PM
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fuck society, just do it. look at tom brady
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:15 AM
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be careful with roids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:45 PM
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Don't mean to hijack the thread, but have any guys done the same? ​ Had a baseball injury that left my nose a bit crooked and gave it a bump. Its not a hook nose, but its definitely noticeable. Thinking about seeing if my septum is deviated, and if so, asking the surgeon if he can fix it during surgery. ​ I know there is a stigma against male plastic surgery, but I'd be curious to hear if any guys can relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:57 PM
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