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Why do women at the gym almost dress like they are going to the beach ? Are the tiny shorts and sportsbra really that more functional ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:14 PM
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And the guys praising Leo now would be ranting about how Sheo proves how horrible modern women are that even hot 20 year old studs are forced to date an out of shape post wall woman. Nobody cares about Madonna or Britney spears going after toyboys. It's only when a man does it like Leo that it gets some outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:13 PM
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I want a petite cute feminine girl as a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:25 PM
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And yet non of those things will get you girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:51 PM
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"Just wear glasses bro you'll look intelligent and sophisticated to women" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:26 PM
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They won't as that would disprove their 'just smile on pics and show women you are having a good time' theory
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:10 PM
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6'3 is OK 6'2 is basic entry-level Women the meme gender <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:08 PM
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I would say it’s just OK to mock ugly men. No cancelling or social repercussions whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:00 PM
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Just give her a superlike bro. Women love that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:45 PM
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Just put yourself out there and ask out your looksmatch. She’ll appreciate your confidence! https://youtu.be/BAomN00kHpI?si=fmYaiz9YhVf0rYOt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:38 PM
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Ragefuel https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/06/average-looking-men-hot-woman-advice.html
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:47 PM
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They built your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:01 PM
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Women if there was a button that would let all sub-5 men (except your male relatives and friends) disappear from existence would you push it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:46 PM
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Never watch a horror movie for the first time with a date. If she sees you getting scared or surprised by jump scares she is going to lose attraction. Watch it right before the date so you know where the jump scares are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:52 PM
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Someone who gets sex offers on tinder and gets approached by women in nightclubs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:41 PM
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Then I take my words back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:34 PM
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If you want to spend one day holding my hands in public
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:30 PM
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If you have an average face you are going to be rated a 2.5/10 by women. They don't make any distinction between ugly; below average and average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:04 PM
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Women love nothing more than to make fun of unattractive men especially balding ones or with a weak chin. They are mean-spirited.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:58 PM
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I think 2 or 3 are a fair rating. Maybe the last one is a 4. But they are all below average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:50 PM
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https://live.staticflickr.com/4062/4380176482_8c563f53b1_b.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:32 PM
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Incels created redpill/blackpill/looksmax ideology on niche forums around 10 years ago. Now you have chad influencers like Brett Maverick or Austin Dunham plagiarizing the content; making it mainstream and earning money from it. This always annoyed me as I browsed and posted on forums like lookism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:28 PM
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I'm around a 5 and as a 33M male virgin I'd rather stay alone than to go fuck 2's and 3's from tinder (I had the chance to do that but refused at the last moment)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:41 PM
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I only want sex with a girl who also desires me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:48 PM
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Rule number 1 : never ask women dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:24 PM
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I assume I just might be low T (despite working out) and maybe a little depressed which doesn't give me the motivation to go through many rejections and mind games just to find one girl willing to give me a chance. Outside of that I still have a normal life; I read books; do volunteering; go travel 3-4 times a year; research and invest in stocks; watch movies/videogames; gym and swimming;... but I must be the biggest creep to women because I'm 30 yo and a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:54 PM
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The guy is giving his "girlfriend" a ride so she can meet and fuck a guy she met at a festival once ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:46 PM
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IMO men shouldn't have to explain/justify to any women why they are virgins. If you are non-chad level of looks + hate online dating because of this and you don't feel like approaching women in real life and go through the hassle of rejections you are going to be an older virgin. There are really no red flags about that. Women don't get that because they get bombarded by male attention no matter what they look like. So they assume any older aged male virgin is a serial killer or stuttering loser…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:40 PM
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I don't know if that has anything to do with it but shorter men may tend to have more compact faces (thus better harmony) while tall man have taller faces (and thus a longer midface = less harmony).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:06 PM
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Never seen that study but holy fuck that graph is brutal : women rate the average male a 2.5 out of 10. Men rate the average female a 5.5 out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:57 PM
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That's what you say now but if he was standing before you and started to flirt you would reciprocate (assuming you were single)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:38 PM
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Most men would look ridiculous trying to copy his style. He pulls it off because he has face; body and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:30 PM
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Tall; juiced up body; dresses like a fuckboy; fuckboy haircut and beard; expensive watch. This is exactly what modern women find attractive and you are coping if you believe them when they say they don't find men like him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:24 PM
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AI robots will become sentient and start to reject the bottom 80% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:22 PM
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No. And again any IG fitness influencer that sells programs has to take roids to stay competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:09 PM
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True but still overly muscular to the point you cannot achieve his physique naturally. There are gradations to being overly muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:42 AM
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Thor is also overly muscular. Any gym and bodybuild expert will tell you he is not natty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:40 AM
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I've tried the Paco Rabanne 1 million flagrance (it's supposed to be the fuckboy flagrance). Still no girls approaching me; still didn't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:39 AM
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Women claiming they don't like the overly muscular look but then proceed to say Zac Efron (Baywatch) or Thor are not overly muscular really puts a light on how important visible muscles are for sexual attraction. When they say they don't like muscles they are talking about someone like Schwarzenegger or Ronnie Coleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:24 AM
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In a thread about unrealistic body expectations for men. Woman says she doesn't find the Hollywood muscle body attractive and prefers natural. Proceeds to say The Rock and Chris Hemsworth are attractive because they are natural and somewhat skinny. Women can really be the meme gender sometimes jfl <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:49 PM
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His traps; his 3D muscles; his low body fat while still being bulky. The fact that he is a fitness influencer and every fitness influencer is on gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:09 PM
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Yeah you could tell Chris Hemsworth has already been training during his young soap opera years so he was already close to his natty potential. To gain the muscle mass he did at his older age for Thor.. I call bullshit https://preview.redd.it/8ktf8uxggdyb1.jpeg?width=634&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8576e6e567c98865647592f471f8738ca10def41
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:12 PM
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Women thinking men can have the same body as TRT users is exactly why I made this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:09 PM
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Huberman already admitted in interviews being on test I don't even know what you want to argue here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:03 PM
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This guy claims to be natty (I will tend to believe him as he probably just got a pump while taking the picture) : https://www.instagram.com/p/B7Aa0ien0R3/ His traps are very little compared to the other muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:58 PM
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You must be a girl lol. His traps are not achievable natty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:39 PM
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Chris Hemsworth is a great example. The amount of women thinking he is natural lifter and not at the very least on some dose of test makes me laugh. That's like saying Pamela Anderson didn't have a boob job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:46 PM
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Women greatly overestimate the effects of steroids and underestimate the amount of men who take roids. They think any man who takes roids will start to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger. They think their favourite IG influencer or fitness model is natty just because he doesn't have bulging Mr. Olympia 3D muscles. This sets unrealistic expectations for men who don't want to use roids or test and just want a lean body from lifting some weights. I have some nice shoulder and arms after going to the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:05 PM
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Yes most men are not chadlites or chads and most men eventually get into relationships. Majority of women not being sexually or physically attracted (or at least not to a high degree) to their husband or boyfriend is one of the main pillars of red and blackpill and I believe it's definitely true. But for men who are average looking it's still a better fate to have companionship and sex from a woman who is not sexually attracted to hem to a high degree compared to being alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:44 PM
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It's not harmful for a woman to be with a taller or richer guy as long as both are consenting adults. It's not harmful for a man to be with a younger woman as long as both are consenting adults. What is this bullshit ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:22 PM
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Yes you still need to be in the average bracket obviously and not be outright repulsive or very short if you want to get a girl by being fun and social.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:18 PM
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It takes two things for a man to be incel or struggling at modern dating : Being below chadlite level so women will never make the first move or signal interest Being shy/socially anxious/low motivation/.. so they will never make the first move themselves or take every rejection at heart and they never try again after a couple of rejections The only place where men can feel less shy and judged for signalling interest (online dating) is also the place where their looks matter the most And the pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:12 PM
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Women are turned off by men who don't eat a lot and can't finish their plate. True or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:59 PM
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Doesn't matter. When someone take his time to answer your questions you respect him and don't pull off pranks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:52 PM
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Fortnite is my go-to game to quickly kill the time when I have some free time between 2 tasks. I'm 33M lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:49 PM
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Cruise handled that well; almost in a fatherly way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:31 PM
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Women is there something wrong with this guy or his opening line ? It was posted in a thread called the "The Official Horrible Online Dating Profiles Thread" https://i.imgur.com/KFKHqxq.png
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:34 PM
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Women saying you are different than all the other guys is code word for saying you are not as exciting or attractive as the guys she fucked in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:29 PM
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Yes men use it to make women feel bad but women use height and dick size as well to make men feel worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:27 PM
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Very neotenous features and I doubt she's any older than 22 : https://www.tiktok.com/@meeyadugiedd/video/7294749341233712426
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:59 PM
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Fair enough but you are talking about personality here. I also prefer a women's personality between 23-30 yo than younger simply because they had more time to mature. But strictly speaking about looks I prefer women to look as neotenous/youthful as possible whil still looking as an adult which is mostly between age 18-21.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:57 PM
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I had one tell me I need to buy more fashionable sunglasses as a first message and unmatched me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:45 PM
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Women will literally make the effort to screenshot and shame ugly male dating profiles JFL https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/the-official-horrible-online-dating-profiles-thread.3916867/page-145
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:37 PM
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I will believe you but most women will also say they look better now at age 35 than when they were 18 and I just have to LOL at this cope in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:34 PM
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Men should choose 25-30; women should choose 18 tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:31 PM
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Yeah that's bullshit if people were really trying to kill him on the spot he would run away as fast as he could and not waste his time asking someone for a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:29 PM
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Yes that's obvious. That's like asking if the same guy would be more attractive at 5'8 or 6'2. All men can accept the latter will be more universally attractive to women and won't try to argue with women about their height preference and "why it's wrong". Women have a very hard time accepting the wall and they think they are the ones who can decide if the wall is real or not; which is kinda strange as if men are not allowed to have their own preferences just like women are allowed to have. Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:59 PM
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Women don't really understand what prime and male age preference means. They think that because after 30 years old they still have SMV and can get sex or dates easily they never lost their prime and then get shocked when they see the chart about ideal age for men. The point about prime and age is that : any woman isn't as desirable anymore at an older age compared to when she was 20 years old (unless she was fat at that age and isn't anymore) they cannot compete with prime girls anymore for male…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:48 PM
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Aging is the only fair thing in life. Women have a very short prime because neotenous features are ideal on them. Just look at Daenarys from season 1 compared to season 8. She descended a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:28 PM
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That's why I always laugh at people claiming women don't care about men's looks. Yeah sure they want everything to look pretty just not the guy she's fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:25 PM
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33M virgin but yes I have been caught masturbating once by my dad))
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:02 PM
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This is the guy apparently from the front (same tattoo) : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RdqWX5G-nBI What would you rate him ? I expected him to be more spectacular looking given the reactions he gets in public. I know better looking guy who don't receive that treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:50 PM
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Are we talking about chad or gigachad level here ? As a gigachad I could make money out of my looks and be admired everywhere. Who cares about dick then I'll just use toys and tongue to satisfy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:40 PM
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That's my quote. I meant flirting by giving him IOI's (smiles; repeated eyecontact; playing with hair; standing close to him) so he knows it's safe to approach her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:51 PM
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That girl is not sexy though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:47 PM
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It's the puffy look you get from roids. It will stand out in public but it's not as good as a normal lean body imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:43 PM
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Don't care what Soros is planning as long as I can finally lose my virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:38 PM
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No but judging by the female reactions passing him it's safe to say his face is 9+ + body and height halo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:33 PM
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They don't even spot the camera they are clearly only looking at him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:20 PM
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Must be nice being a chad. "But but women don't check men out they do it discretely" https://www.tiktok.com/@alex.karsten/video/7239030550625930523
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:14 PM
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Everything that's wrong with modern dating summarized in 30 seconds : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4ZeOikigTs Based how the chad she was actually excited to talk to rejected her immediately because of her personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:22 AM
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Average looking men see at stacy and think "damn she's beautiful I have no chance with her so I'm just going to look a her and that's it" Average looking women see a chad and think "wow he's hot and he happens to be exactly my type so I deserve him. I will give him ioi's so he can approach me"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:58 AM
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Women : what is the both the hottest and ugliest guy you have slept with ? And what is your own rating. Don't lie by underrating or overrating and try to be as objective as possible. Naturally the ugliest guy you have slept with should have at least been your own rating if you ain't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 PM
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It would be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qt2mbGP6vFI
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:57 PM
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Don't agree I'm 6 ft and a 33M virgin. Not that tall but taller than vast majority of women. I have seen many shorter men with pretty faces doing well with girls in high school and college as long as they were at least same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:49 PM
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I would rate her a 4-5. She's a little plain because of the no make up; sad expression; boring haircut and clothes and glasses. With some soft looksmaxing she might turn out to be a 6. She would have no problem finding a chadlite the way she looks right now. Her male counterpart would be incel. If I was younger I would have loved to date her as she is around my league but she would have brutally ignored or rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:46 PM
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That girl is decently cute imo and should have no problem finding many simping incels and nerds if she opens a gaming livestream while she fucks a chadlite on the side. Maybe I don't understand the meme because I don't know what a chud is. Her male version would be incel though. Women can get away with having less conventionally attractive features than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:34 PM
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A WW3 would greatly benefit the (surviving) men as male supply would be reduced with barely changed female demand; taking away a lot of the advantages women have in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:18 PM
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Most bad boys are likely to have sociopathic/narcissistic/psychopathy personality disorders. That isn't just going to go automatically away later in life. They are born with that/predisposed to have it. That "I want a bad boy who is now a nice guy" is such an exhausting trope and I doubt the women who dream about wanting that have put much thought into it. Unless by bad boys they mean something like a guy doing extreme sports; risky adventures;... but those are not bad boys in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:10 PM
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But it's still what it is : a fantasy. A guy who is a criminal; bad boy; drugs dealer; pimp or whatever is not going to magically turn nice towards his girlfriend while he beats up or treat everyone else like crap. He is also going to beat her up or treat her like crap. That's just reality. Most bad boys are also likely to have sociopathic/narcissistic/psychopathy personality disorders. That isn't just going to go automatically away later in life. They are born with that/predisposed to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:01 PM
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Still bad boy turned nice because he met the love of his life and she tamed him is such a cliche trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:58 PM
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I see you've read a lot of female erotic books. Good looking bad boy lover who is only nice to his average looking girlfriend is like the plot of every female-written romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:54 PM
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Russia and China are the only wortwhile threats to NATO in a WW3. Russia is already heavily weakened and the Chinese don't have much battle experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:35 PM
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Do they have a big army ? Anyway I think WW3 victory should go to NATO assuming it doesn't turn nuclear and India; Brazil and South Africa stay neutral which I'm fairly sure they would. South Korea should keep North Korea busy for a while Israel will easily deal with Hamas/keep Iran busy Ukraine can keep a weakened Russia busy; Poland; Turkey; Sweden and Norway should be able to finish off the russian forces without the U.S. having to intervene. The U.S.; Western Europe; Japan and Taiwan can dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:16 PM
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NATO; Ukraine and Israel against China; Russia; North Korea; Iran and Hamas. Am I missing a country ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:12 PM
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DM please. Won't share.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:59 PM
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Yeah even mentalcels are getting laid easily as long as they are chad. JFL at the personality meme. Personality never mattered to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:56 PM
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True women will only make the first move for chad and chadlites in real life. On dating apps I had some 2's and 3's who sent me the first message but I never really felt the need to fuck them (I guess I could have because they made the first move and seemed into meeting me).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:49 PM
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See my response below.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:43 PM
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By being average looking and never really been attracted to the 2's or 3's I was supposed to fuck on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:41 PM
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33M virgin here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:39 PM
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I'm right. I'm 100% right it's all backed by science and studies but yet you have the usual women coming her to deny this with their usual bluepilled cope because they don't want their hypergamous nature to get revealed to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:26 PM
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If you believe their self-reported numbers. Men always overreport their sexual encounters; women underreport.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:18 PM
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It's simple math. 80% of men are rated below average looking by women so most women will end up with a guy they are not physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:15 PM
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She does in the hope chad will commit to her. And there are also plenty of women who are interested in casual sex with chad even if she knows he won't commit or is not searching for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:07 PM
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Yeas but for average women those 4-7 are all chads; for men they are women below his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:03 PM
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The "tragic" part about dating for average men and average women : Average women = will be able to sleep around with chad; getting a taste of him and what could have been but in the end will not being able to make him commit (unless she gets extremely lucky). Will be forced to settle with her looksmatch who she is not sexually attracted to but might be decent in other ways. Average men = won't be able to sleep around unless he goes well below his league. Will eventually find his looksmatch willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:52 PM
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The "if not" part is still related to the "really very few women out there that can't get commitment" meaning you literally said that really very few women can't get commitment from the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:24 PM
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Yeah but how are close to 100% of women going to get commitment (which I guess means exclusivity) from 20% of men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:14 PM
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Your last sentence doesn't make much sense. How is almost every women able to get commitment from the top 20% of men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:10 PM
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So you admit going after chads ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:01 PM
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Women cannot tell men the truth about their true nature regarding sex; relationships and social dynamics. Most of the time they don't even realize it themselves as they are emotional ; not rational thinkers. Words ≠ action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:43 PM
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This place is still very bluepilled. I came from the incels .is to tell you guys the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:30 PM
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So yes just be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:14 PM
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70% of divorces are started by women not by men you should edit that. As for the short explanation : having rode the chad cock carousel during their prime years and having to eventually settle with a boring and sexually unappealing dude is going to get boring and confronting eventually. "Passion" (that was never there in the first place) gone = divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:08 PM
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That's even worse. So women would deliberately sleep with chad during their prime years just for sexual enjoyment knowing full well some sucker is going to settle with her when she turns older need the stability ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:03 PM
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The best strategy for approaching women during the day is the same as with online dating and club/bar game : be attractive and don't be unattractive. Don't be those guys while attempting daygame : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KPBNgWYSNU
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:56 PM
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Most men are not even chasing stacies as they know it's futile. We understand very soon even average women are not interested in average men so why would we chase someone that is even harder to get ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:43 PM
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Nothing. You are only following your biology. But I wish women would understand sooner chad is not going to commit to them just because they had sex together. He is only going to commit to women who are beautiful themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:35 PM
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Of course they are. BBW are portrayed as beautiful by the media. I haven't seen the same movement for fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:32 PM
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One in three for males and one in four for females is still a huge gap that can only be explained by a small pool of men having multiple sex partners. And : it's a self-reported survey Men don't want to admit having had no sex for at least a year so the numbers are overreported. Meanwhile women don't want to admit they had a lot of sex and sleeping around so the numbers are underreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:18 PM
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You mean men are having less sex than they did in the past ? That is correct. Meanwhile women are having more sex than ever. That can only be explained by a bigger group of women fucking the same small poo of (desirable) men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:10 PM
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In 2005 there was no social media; no online dating apps; less feminism and female empowerment movements = less opportunities for women to cheat and sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:58 PM
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1 out of 25 fathers are not the biological father while they believe their child to be theirs. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2005/aug/11/childrensservices.uknews This is a study from 2005. It wouldn't surprise me if it's 1 out of 10 by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:51 PM
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As a male I feel 7 is already too high at 25 years old but that's subjective.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 03:22 PM
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It makes me wonder IF women were physically stronger than men what would the rape statistics be ? Clearly sometimes women can get so horny they are not that different from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:35 PM
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If women have a way lower sex drive why do they still allow themselves to be in risky and illegal behavior regarding sex ? (mostly talking about the uprise of female teachers fucking their students) https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/teacher-faces-jail-sending-nudes-student-missouri/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:25 PM
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Have you people been around the lipstickalley forum ? What's up with them ? They all claim to be perfect 10/10's and supposedly have chads hit on them all the time so they can be picky about which chad they LTR. They never post pictures though. Is it larping or are they seriously that deluded ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:13 PM
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I wanted to join a yoga class exactly for that reason but then quickly realized an average looking guy entering their class is going to be creepy as fuck to them. Come to think of it any guy who attends yoga classes most likely does it for the primary reason to meet and ogle at women in tight outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:00 PM
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That's what I thought. "I'm doing it for myself because I like to feel good" is bullshit. They should be honest about it and not complain when they are being treated as an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:53 PM
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You'd be surprised how many young males will approach a 45 years old woman standing alone at the bar. Granted she will be used for sex but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:36 PM
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I don't agree. Even an aged face will still look better with youthful blonde; brown or dark hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:28 PM
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Both of you were right in your own way. I mostly listed the visuals traits like face; height and dick size; but also the bad boy trope which can mostly be attributed to also being more exciting in bed. But being good looking or a bad boy can also makes woman's life more exciting outside of bed. For example the validation she receives while walking around in public with a good looking and tall male. Or the bad boy taking her on risky and exciting adventures with goes lost once she settles with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:13 PM
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Uh no. Grey is not a youthful color and youth is admired in women so that is terrible advice; especially at 45 where most women don't have grey hair yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:07 PM
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Could you share why you dress sexy while going out ? Is it because you enjoy male attention and would feel bad if no guy looked at you during the night because you dressed too conservatively ? Is it because you feel you are in competition with other women (not so much for male attention but just because you feel like you want to look better/sexier than the other girls there) ? Or is it because you compete with other women for the good looking males there and you know they are also going to dress…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:01 PM
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So they want attention from good looking guys. But how does that change the fact they will still be seen as an object by those good looking guys ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:44 PM
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Question for women : Why do women complain about unwanted male attention and only be seen as an object but still do their very best to look as sexy as possible while going out in public ? I was looking at pictures of a local Halloween party and almost half of the women there had a revealing outfit which showed some skin instead of putting on a fully-clothed Halloween costume.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:31 PM
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No it's about orgasms so no sex also
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:28 PM
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It's also no nut November
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:25 PM
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Logically you'd want a wife/GF who is sexually and physically attracted to you and not settled with you because she couldn't lock something better. 1) Women are only attracted to the top 5-20% percentage of men 2) Most men eventually get sex and a relationship Put both of them together and majority of women are not sexually/physically attracted to their boyfriend/husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:10 PM
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You'll make you deepest and real friendships while in primary school; highschool and college. You need a young brain wiring to be able to form deep friendships. School and college is like an adventure you take together with your friends with shared experiences. Those settings go away later in life. All the people you meet after college like at work or at the gym will be good acquaintances at most but never friends for life like the ones you made while young. During school reunions I still meet s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:04 PM
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There aren't enough attractive men for every woman to LTR. Average looking men have the choice to stay alone forever without sex or be with a woman who is not physically/sexually attracted to them. Both options are not ideal but the later option at least gives them sex and companionship. Women have the choice to be part of chad's harem but with no stability in life or be together with an average looking male who they are not physically/sexually attracted to. Both options are not ideal but the la…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:48 AM
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If a male is able to get multiple women at once and has the luxury to be able to cheat that means he is high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:31 AM
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Average looking men can definitely struggle with the opposite sex. Women aren't attracted to average by default so average men will need to put in actual effort. If for whatever reason (depression; shyness; approach anxiety; lack of motivation or just simply having no other redeeming qualities for their average looks) those average men aren't willing to put in effort they will be incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:28 AM
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There's a difference between looking at attractive men in public and actually being intimate with one. Most modern western women go through a chad carousel phase and she will never be satisfied by her stable but boring and average looking husband later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:18 AM
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That's not the point. The point is she has no one to compare him with. It's within female biology to compare their current partner with what they had in the past and if you are not her best one yet she will never truly love or respect you. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1321015/How-university-students-spoof-thesis-rating-sex-13-men-web-sensation.html
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:08 AM
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Most men are never fucking a hot girl so that doesn't really come into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:00 AM
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Most women are getting pumped and dumped by chad at some point in their life; or have a short romance with him until he dumps her or cheats. This is the guy they keep fantasizing about for the rest of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:58 AM
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Once you understand female nature it is hard to just "let it go and accept it". If you LTR her as an inferior male compared to her past lovers she WILL always keep thinking about those other men whenever she looks at you; fucks you; walks around with you;...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:54 AM
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The higher her N-count the less likely you are going to be her best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:51 AM
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Women who stayed with their high school boyfriend or have a very low N-count are feminine and ideal because women cannot be satisfied anymore once they experienced something better in the past. If a woman slept around a lot she is more likely to have experienced a big dick so she cannot be satisfied anymore by anything smaller. If she slept or dated around a lot she is more likely to have walked around with men over 6 feet and she cannot be satisfied anymore by shorter men. She is more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:38 AM
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He's handsome to women aged 30-40+; prime girls would find him creepy and too much. https://www.pinterest.com.au/pin/ernest-khalimov-bio-age-height-real-face-wiki-net-worth--730779477047901861/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:23 AM
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I know it's a caricature/meme but the guy really exists and some men seem to think he looks ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:18 AM
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The guy from the gigachad meme will do well with women but he is not ideal imo. Women prefer a maesthetic guy : a guy with masculine features like a good jawline; fit body and dark hair and thick eyebrows mixed with some prettyboy feminine features like big lips and pretty eyes. The gigachad looks too masculine like a caveman. He'll do well with older women but younger prime girls will tend to go for a maesthetic chad. Any women agree ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:03 AM
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He will do well with women obviously but he is not ideal imo. Women prefer a maesthetic guy : a guy with masculine features like a good jawline and dark hair and thick eyebrows mixed with some prettyboy feminine features like big lips and pretty eyes. The gigachad looks too masculine like a caveman. He'll do well with older women but younger prime girls will tend to go for a maesthetic chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:01 AM
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Like anything they do when it's attached to a good looking male.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:06 AM
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No one has had as much pretty privilege as Jeremy Meeks imo and he's male. I mean the guy was a convicted criminal who literally got famous because of a mugshot; got bailed out of jail by women; got modeling contracts as soon as he stepped out of jail; became a millionaire; married a billionaire heiress; became an actor; and is admired by women for how much of a good person he is (despite beating up a kid as a crime). Has there ever been one single female who has received as much pretty privileg…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:41 AM
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Isn't this the same for men though ? The shirtless males you see on social media ads or promoting some event or travel location are always ripped and good looking. Good looking people attract more customers so companies will use that to their advantage on social media. Traditionally unattractive women still have an easier time to find companionship and love than traditionally unattractive men so I don't get why they should be pissed outside of the fact that they won't be able to make money from …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:21 AM
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Yes obviously but my point was whenever women say things like "I like intelligence in men" they mean they like intelligence in men who are already good looking in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:12 AM
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Kissing an unattractive male is an actual act that can make women feel repulsed or make them puke. It's something they can hardly fake. The way she kisses you is the easiest way to tell if your girlfriend or wife is actually attracted to you or if she is with you for other reasons. It's easier to fake desire with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:06 AM
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You mean the surfer girl who kept traveling alone with her female friends and had some chad friends liking her IG pics and it made him insecure thinking she was cucking him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:58 PM
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"They can be smart but when women say they value intelligence in men they don't mean the nerdy bespectacled booksmart kind of guy who spends his days in the library. They mean the chad who loves sports and who also happens to be smart."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:55 PM
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Even being an A-list celebrity won't save you from being ridiculed by women for the crime of being below average looking : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bb3raUCj2wY
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:50 PM
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Are you male or female ? Emma Watson can't compare to prime Megan Fox. If you were male you would understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:42 PM
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Compare her to Transformers era Megan Fox (both 2010s) and that should tell you enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:37 PM
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Lmao Emma Watson has never been objectively the most beautiful woman in Hollywood. That's just hype from HP fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:30 PM
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They can be smart but when women say they value intelligence in men they don't mean the nerdy bespectacled booksmart kind of guy who spends his days in the library. They mean the chad who loves sports and who also happens to be smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:29 PM
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Even nerdy and plain celebrity Emma Watson who claims to value intelligence in men is dating a tall rugby player chad lmao can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:26 PM
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He looks good for his age imo but still invisible to women on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:19 PM
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Yes but who does she bag ? Depending on where she lives how many 10/10 male models surround her ? She ain't having ONS with average or merely good looking men that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:17 PM
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Daily reminder it's all about personality : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24NXjLWG5Zg (spoiler: she did end up choosing one of the hot guys)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:03 PM
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It's well known women always shoot above their own league due to hypergamy. But I was wondering if a 10/10 girl wants to shoot above her league what guys does she actually go for ? 10/10 males who are also millionaires ? Those male 10/10 millionaires are very rare so girls like in the tiktok video will stay single for a while; which makes sense as it is often said beautiful women have a lower n-count than average women as there are simply way less males in existence above their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:44 PM
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How attractive/rich/popular do you need to be to ONS or LTR a girl like this ? https://www.tiktok.com/@meeyadugiedd/video/7188589958796430634
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:30 PM
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An ugly guy doing the approach will always be creepy/unwanted attention A good looking guy doing the approach will always be charming/cute/funny unless he goes out of his way to make it as creepy as possible (like approaching a girl in a dark alleyway or approaching her from behind and ticking her shoulder).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:33 PM
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Yeah I wonder why men under 5'8 are not more eager and passionate to approach women IRL after being ridiculed all the time by that same group for their height or having to read men under 6 ft don't need to apply on many female tinder profiles. I wonder why men with average looks are not approaching women 24/7 in places where you are not even supposed to approach a stranger (nightclubs being the only exception) while only getting 1-3 (non-responsive) matches a week at most on an application which…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:26 PM
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I took my tinder date on a ferris wheel during a carnival. While on the wheel the firework went off in the distance and romantic music started playing. It was probably the closest thing I have done with a girl like you would see in a romantic movie. She still rejected me afterwards because "no spark" (which is women code for : "I loved the date and setting but you are not quite good looking enough") but oh well at least I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:27 PM
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Men have to set up dates. They need to be creative. They have to create the environment and setting which can lead to romance. They are the ones who need to create the romantic tingles within women. Women just need to show up if they feel like it and just adapt a wait and see approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:24 PM
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The Girl Next Door. The first kiss during the house party in which the shy incel (although he gets played by an above average looking actor) gets the courage to steal the girl from chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:16 PM
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