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Taking another life is never justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:53 AM
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No, it's alright, actually. I wouldn't date me as well. I can't afford therapy, and lord knows I need one for sure. Growing up, I saw my parents fight a lot, which at times turned violent. Lost another family member to domestic violence, and it would not be far-fetched to say that I have never seen a good stable relationship growing up. Why do women bring up body count ? I don't want to know about it, period. If a rich person were to flaunt their money, everyone would consider it rude. Why is fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:18 AM
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This was truly helpful. I've so much anxiety that a woman I am interested in would reject me because I am not good at sex. That would be disastrous and disappointing. I already struggle quite a bit with suicidal ideation, and if this were to happen, I'm not sure if I can keep everything under control. I just want someone to love me. Not too much to ask, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:36 PM
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Not a virgin, sadly. That's what is frustrating as far as I am concerned. Because one woman, who BTW was way out of my league, thought I was worthy enough to spend her precious time and energy on. If I am being honest, that relationship ended in 2020, and I've been single since. I've no bloody idea. What am I doing wrong ? I know I'm socially inadequate, which isn’t really my fault because of some past childhood trauma. Hard to explain all issues with men, there are too many. In short i get tire…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:33 PM
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Point taken. How am I supposed to know what they like if it's a hookup ? I don't think we've enough time to try things out. Guess that tells you I've never hooked up 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:13 PM
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What is the point of that hypothetical? I understand why you would say that. Tbh, I have not had much success in LTR or hookups. I would classify myself as an incel. There are reasons why I am one, some within my control, but mostly ones that I can't control. From all the feminist posts I've come across on Reddit, I was given to understand that a society that is non-judgemental or takes violence against women seriously had a greater chance of women hooking up more openly and pursuing men. They a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:06 PM
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Ah, gotcha. I've had just one relationship, so I'm not experienced like you're. Whenever we did the deed, I liked running my fingers on her quite gently and softly. She loved it, and it was evident ! Is that something women like ? Sorry if this is inappropriate for this thread. Mind if I message you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:58 PM
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Why not ? Is it because you're afraid that's not safe or because people judge ? If you were in a gender and non-violent utopia, would you change your stand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:50 PM
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But most women don’t want to hookup Has that been your experience ? I thought most women hook up but are afraid of consequences such as safety and character assassination
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:49 PM
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I don't know how to take this. I don't have much experience, but I'm willing to learn and would want my "paramour" to enjoy sex. In fact, I would say that it's not fun for me if it's totally one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:46 PM
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Hahaha, okay. I can definitely see that happening. So would that ugly person, say, become a long-term prospect if they've other qualities that you like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:41 PM
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May I ask how you chose those men ? This is embarrassing to admit, but I don't really have great luck in either dating or hookups. From my experience, women choose men based on just three things : competence, looks, social capital, or extroversion. I am trying to be funny, but my jokes never land. I am good at banter only if I know for a longer time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:40 PM
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Did you forget the not ugly part ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:32 PM
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guys I hooked up Stop bragging ! I wish I could do that, but alas. It's like God had a personal vendetta against me. Short, balding, ADHD, anxiety, and a home with DV ! Well, I hope someone thinks I can be a long-term prospect at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:30 PM
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I mean, don't most relationships start as friendships ? Before the hellscape of dating apps, I think that's how most people dated. You met your person either through work or through friends. Don't think you would classify it as sexzoned, would you ? Granted, men who make friends in the hopes that they will either sleep with them or start a relationship with them can be called sexzoned. Before you crucify me, I just want to say that as an incel, I would never befriend a woman in the hopes of some…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:26 PM
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Thank you for your kindness. Believe me, I'm trying. I don't want to be so bitter and angry all the time, and I don't like the person I'm becoming because of it. I just want a little love, that's all. I'm never anyone's first choice or second choice for that matter. I've had a hard life growing up and worked to change it. I see women gushing about their men all the time and how they smile when someone asks them about their partner. I see couples watching sunsets together or just laying on the gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:06 PM
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I'm exhausted, is all. Nothing ever goes right for me, and I don't know if it ever will. The only reason I've not killed myself yet is because of my parents, but it's harder by the day. So yeah, I'll probably try in a year till I succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:39 PM
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Yes, it is not. But do you understand how it is for someone who grew up watching DV, poor, neurodivergent and bullied to become confident ? Do you know how hard it is to stop hating yourself and stop feeling that you'll always be less ? I'm exhausted... I am done trying to make you understand. Frankly, all this is pointless anyway. I will just off myself in a year or two. So, good day to you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:41 AM
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Okay, but it still doesn't negate what I've just said. Confidence isn't just internal. If you believe you can do something, you’re more likely to try. If you try, you get better. And when you get better, you start to believe in yourself more. That belief fuels action, which reinforces the belief. And someone who has been unsuccessful in dating isn't going to be confident. Women love to tell men that rejection shouldn't be a problem because you've never faced rejection or at least to the same lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:17 AM
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yet I would cook and eat every person who insults him and happily go to jail so 🤷 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:07 AM
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It comes from the fact that you no longer shit your pants and can tie your own shoes, because over the years, you’ve proved to yourself, again and again, that you can learn and figure things out. That’s where it comes from, demonstrated evidence. Are you naive ? If that is all it took to be confident, every Tom, dick and Harry would be confident. We wouldn't require therapists or counsellors. If I were to follow your foolish logic, no adult would be underconfident.Confidence is very much a part …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:47 AM
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Men cheat three times as often as women do. Source ? All the research that I've come across says that both genders cheat equally. How did you get that conclusion from what I said? Because that's what you implied ! How dare these ugly assholes cheat ? Can't they see how low my standards were when I decided to date him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:57 PM
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Stop making things up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:23 PM
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I doubt that. He must be loaded with generational wealth and must be in the top 10% of handsome men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:03 PM
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Why ? Because it doesn’t suit your useless virtue signalling ? I doubt you're with your bf because he is nice. I'm pretty sure it's because he is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:35 PM
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A handful ? That petition garnered 100k signatures ! Your standards morality is based on how handsome a man is to you. I've a friend who is a tall, handsome Italian. He and his best friend's gf slept together. Women don't seem to mind that at all. I've seen a violent misogynist man get women so easily because he is handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:30 PM
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Yeah, keep deluding yourself. I've seen, time and again, that women go for masculine men irrespective of their morals. Why do you think Ted Bundy had so many swooning even after he was convincted ? Look up the case of the guy who killed a mother and a child in Florida. Women petition for him to be released because he was handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:20 PM
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Women don't cheat ? Then, who the hell are men cheating with ? I've seen women who knew the guy was married but still decided to pursue a relationship with him. Women cheat more than men do, but try to hide it. No it’s because dudes, no matter how ugly, will cheat and lie to get women. Ah, so only good-looking men should cheat ? Maybe that's why they cheat because they know you don't find them attractive and are settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:18 PM
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To show that even they don't give a damn ! You wanted to use your passport to escape. I'm just showing you that everywhere men are fed up with feminism and misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:51 PM
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So, no autistic guys ? Gotcha ! Neurodivergents just kill themselves, eh ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:49 PM
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I'm not. I literally said that I don't give a damn about women's issues anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:48 PM
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Have you watched the new lately ? Andrew Tate is a UK citizen. Have you watched that shitty tv show, Adolescence ? Men, everywhere, are waking up ! I was in Scotland sometime back, and anti-abortion protests were in full swing. Their politics may be more socialist, but their conservative attitudes are the same. Look up grooming gangs and how the UK government didn't give a rat's ass about it. Edit : Polls after polls show that young men are becoming more conservative in Western Europe as well. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:44 PM
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Most women like poets or something Yeah, not at all true!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:30 PM
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I'm getting all that I voted for. Abortion bans, kicking out illegals, and no more whining about toxic masculinity. Where do you think you would be moving ? Everyone one is following the USA. Trump is huge in the UK as well. Reform is taking over ! Nigel Farage is winning. Andrew Tate is more popular than ever in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:19 PM
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I pointed out his friends who talk like that aren't nice people, and maybe thats why they can't find girlfriends So anyone who can't find a partner is not nice ? The reason men are attracted to such people is that no one provides them the safe space to talk about it and help them. Andrew Tate didn't become popular just because men are cruel ! He is popular because he is providing such men a space. Your son sounds like a great and kudos to you for being a great parent, but not everyone is blessed…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:12 PM
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I don't give a damn women's issues anymore. Now, having seen how duplicitous and vindictive women can be, I don't care. Voted for Trump, baby !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:01 PM
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Jason Momoa or Henry Cavill is a nerd for them, not your average Joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:58 PM
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truly, really think men place an absolutely insane amount of importance on height, much more so than women ever have. I really don't understand the issue of "seen as attractive despite height". Don't women experience the same? Seen as attractive "despite" small breasts? Seen as attractive despite being overweight? My experience says otherwise. Women just don't want to appear shallow but are shallow asf. My ex kept pestering me about my height. It was humiliating and left me feeling insecure. Bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:57 PM
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Just like women !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:45 PM
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What a huge generalisation ! When my female friends vent about their dating, I don't think of them any. God forbid a man wants to vent about the same. These same people look at him like he's asked them to part with their inheritance. It is not just I who faced this issue, but most of my male friends said the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:43 PM
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Exactly 💯 ! Most women virtue signal a lot about behaviour, but it all goes out of the window when a Chad is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:39 PM
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You do agree that this is a gendered phenomenon ? I don't see men having such groups, and that is enough for me to make a judgement. Women want the same 10 guys. Why bother trying ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:37 PM
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Okay, where does that confidence come from ? Confidence isn’t created in a vacuum !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:38 PM
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Confidence comes first. No, it doesn't. What exactly would that confidence be based on ? Confidence is derived from the competence of the past. It just doesn't manifest randomly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:34 PM
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Stop taking a piss ! Confidence isn't internal. It is something one gains through constant practice and winning. I'm not an architect, and I've no bloody confidence in that particular area, whereas I'm confident I could write a code easily. Where do you think I gained such confidence ? Because I was validated through multiple years of training and being praised for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:45 AM
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It can even be used against you in court to justify anything done to you. I can't think of any recent incidents where this argument was used to justify assault. Such a person would be crucified in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:58 AM
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I’m a fat woman who’s been fat and thin, I’ve been ugly and I’ve been beautiful and my taste in men has always remained the same In what world are you fat or ugly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:28 PM
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That partner doesn't have to be a stereotypical masculine guy, but it is what so-called feminists go for exactly the same type of men. The most successful man I know is a raging misogynist who is violent. Women don't give two hoots about toxic masculinity, infact that's what they crave. Whereas actual well-adjusted sensitive guys are picked last.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:02 PM
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