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This is too neurotic, go outside and play
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:10 AM
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This is the world we live in today I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:04 AM
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Lmao more like they ignore the consequences of unsafe, unprotected sex because they are sum impulsive cumbrains
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:19 PM
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I don't really see cope as much as I see gripe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:41 PM
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A marriage is about children, not about sex (though I would probably never get married to a Western European woman in this day and age unless she was exceptional). It is to raise a family and give them a stable foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:39 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:38 PM
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It seems that the average age of this subreddit is somewhere between 42-48, with both male and female Generation Xers completely incapable of seeing how much they greatly overstate their problems. I never seen very few women in this subreddit with behaviour that could ever be described as even remotely feminine or attractive; LIkewise, the men in here are disgusting worms that all make me read their posts in Jerry Smith's voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:37 PM
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Life isn't fair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:40 AM
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This subreddit is autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:21 PM
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I have cystic hormonal acne Okay? why put it in a dating profile?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 10:11 AM
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I imagine this is some more journalistic bullshit from the out-of-touch idealogues (who's paying them? Do people even still subscribe?) at the The Atlantic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 05:17 AM
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I don't consider myself to have slept with a lot of women, but I slept with all the ones I wanted to: My advice is, remember that you are a man and she is a woman, and you were born to do this, that everything you need to attract a girl is already within you, and that the worst that can come is she says "no" (sexual harassment suits only seem to happen to losers)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:47 PM
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Simply put: Because Young women find older men appealing, and vice versa. Men who are dating over 30 don't feel any different than men who are dating over 20 or dating over 15, and if anything, have a slight advantage over being younger: The authors found that more than a quarter of sexually active young women engaged in age-disparate relationships. The majority of the respondents did not see age as an important factor, while financial support ranked fourth in the list of reasons for having olde…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:58 PM
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We date women in their 20s, if we can Why is everyone still acting like younger girls don't like older men, literally every last available piece of scientific literature and anecdotal evidence back this up: I know this study was in South Africa, but among 650 girls 15-24, "The majority of the respondents did not see age as an important factor, while financial support ranked fourth in the list of reasons for having older partners." So it's not even like they're dating older men for pecuniary bene…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:55 PM
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Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:28 PM
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This place is full of autists who never get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:25 AM
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I reiterate: That will mostly be religious people. Modern society promotes self-centered hedonism, and so it will be people who resist the grain of such a lifestyle that won't be into such things: That will usually be religious people if not people who live outright alternative lifestyles (e.g preppers)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:54 AM
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The people here are mostly lonely trolls who have no real life experience with the opposite sex, but Ill tell you that it's going to be very hard in the modern West today to find people who value chastity, since that was often correlated with religiousity, which doesn't exist much anymore. My suggestion to you is find someone who is religious: such men value family and self-chastity far more than a lot of young men these days who I will agree with you, are narcissistic, sex-driven losers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:49 AM
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And not a word about Kazakhstan. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:40 AM
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What the fuck are you even talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:47 AM
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Guys arent going overseas to get married. I imagine a lot aren't. I imagine a lot are. Either way, it's to the exclusion of Western women for the most part (though I reiterate, I don't want to paint everyone with a broadbrush since there are still a lot of decent people in the /EU/US/UK), and a lot of Asian girls seem way more than willing (I think they like the height difference more than the financial motive if anything) They're taking their bruised egos, depression, desperation and depravity …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:19 AM
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Who mentioned marriage? I said fucked as in sex. See? This is why guys are going overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:09 AM
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Imagine a woman having to fly to another country just to get fucked. I'd be mad too A lot of guys have no choice since their only offerings are US or British girls tbh, who can be decent friends but overwhelmingly aren't suitable for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:26 AM
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Truth is, most college girls don't even give a shit if you have money (so long as you're not relatively poor, e.g you can take her out), you just have to be cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:24 AM
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Middle-aged post-hoe phase Stacy has already had a few husbands and always has a boyfriend That's how you know she isn't Stacy, since Stacy gets married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:24 AM
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It's usually the bitter people worried about the last laugh, tho. The happy people care more about things that give them smiles throughout the day. Came here to say this. The fact that this woman even makes a post and cares so much about the 'last laugh' certainly shows that it won't be hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:23 AM
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I’m hoping “blue pill” men are more likely to have compassion and the desire to spare a woman from an experience (in my case, pregnancy and childbirth) that she really doesn’t want to have. Just find a man who doesn't want kids, I mean they're not hard to find
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:12 AM
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Sure it does, it's more likely to happen if she's not biologically attracted to him. Modern dating is a subsidy for such men to be in biological opportunities they should have never been in the first place. Weak women are very detrimental to the species. Women do pass on genetic diseases and frailties that can harm their offspring. Women of low intelligence do adversely affect their child's intelligence. Even Chad cannot nullify that. If she is mentally feeble she can make mistakes that get her …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:06 AM
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My male friends are my joie de vivre, and I honestly love their companionship more than I could ever regard any female or family member, if only because the ardour of their affection is completely unconditional regardless of any troubles that arise, whereas with family or relationships, it always seems predicated on some sort of externality that otherwise wouldn't have us together (or is the only reason why we are, like with relationships). Ergo, I think my male frienships are the most valuable …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:31 AM
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I recently got out of a relationship not too long ago, but am talking to a girl right now who makes me happy and think of spring time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:28 AM
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And the men not taking care of the old ones are really just doing the same. For biology as well as a healthy, functioning society. I'd agree, so long as it isn't a man who is abandoning his wife who traded her younger years to raise children, since marriages are a two-way partnership I think. I want to fall in love with a woman at an age where I still am attracted to her when we grow because of our shared history
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:22 AM
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It's different, since during his "worst years" he still had something to offer evident by the fact that he made it. How many men have actually "made it" though? Most of the dudes here seem beta af and don't honestly strike me as having 'made it', whereas dudes who are healthy and active towards their goals in their younger years usually have girlfriends anyway, so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:20 AM
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. And makes sense, too, despite people often pretending they don't (or being momentarily incapable for whatever reason to) get it. It's not that they don't get it, it's just that it's stupid. People are inherently insecure and anxious for the most part, and are attracted to confidence and success because it makes them feel good. Why would they hang around some loser who shows no promise? Because someday he might hit the lottery?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:20 AM
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But she brings nothing to the table to compensate for that. If she's attractive and fertile, she's doing enough (I don't make the rules, nature does). Men are getting a raw deal from this. No wonder so many men don't want to marry anymore. There are probably too many roosters for the hen house as it is anyway. Also... black don't crack. I see you've never been to the United States or Oakland California
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:14 AM
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Yup. And some women seem to really just be complaining that their value on the SM and RM isn't considered as having risen with age and baggage. Read my comment history, I don't disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:50 AM
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This. Life isn't fair, but then some men seem to really just be complaining that they weren't born considered high status
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:14 AM
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"You didn't want me during your best years, I don't want you during mine." This kinda sounds like the male version of "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:10 AM
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I think this is BS honestly. A man needs to bring something to the table in order to ensure a woman's loyalty, since women operate on the principle of eros not philia (that is, they aren't just going to declare loyalty to a man for no fucking reason at all, because that's not how mating works). i see absolutely nothing wrong with a woman wanting a man who is accomplished or has some sort of status; I just think it's wrong if she abandons him the minute the struggle gets tight, or wants a man who…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:09 AM
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Some people are born ugly and short, some people just don't have the odds work out for them, sorry you didn't get a chance, life is a lottery and I thank my stars every day for my tickets
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:20 AM
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All the more a question as to why you weren't seeking someone to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:30 AM
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But he won't date her, he'll just use her for sex. That's not... something we want? Where were you 15 years ago? I can't help but think this wouldn't be an issue then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:26 AM
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Lol if the 'high standard' is only that they be young, then that is still a relatively easy standard I've seen guys also claim that women past age 25 to 30 are no longer attractive. Not "no longer attractive", just not as attractive as a girl at 19 or 20
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:25 AM
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I'm sure what this post is trying to say. Congratulations I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:02 AM
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A woman would be stupid not to. Now it's not necessarily about the money, but about the level of accolades and achievement: A successful author in a subject of the woman's interest I imagine would be more attractive than a nameless-but-wealthy lawyer Regardless, don't listen to these losers telling you that it shouldn't be taken into account, because it's a big measure of how much a man actually sticks to his goals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:59 PM
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Women don't suddenly get unattractive in their late 20s/early30s. It's more in their mid 40s tbh. What the wall really is, is just women taking less care of themselves. No, that's called "Not Taking Care of Yourself", that has nothing to do with The Wall. This includes, getting skinny fat or flat out fat (and this is by far the top reason), cutting their hair very short or colouring their hair in unnatural ways, doing any kind of surgery and overuse of makeup (aka caked up face). Why do you thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:27 PM
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Every day, there's some new +35 year old woman telling us the wall doesn't exist and then goes on some monologue about stuff that has nothing to do with aging, which in my opinion, is just more proof that the wall exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:26 PM
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Honestly? Depends on the social class of the area I'm in (unless Brazil, they all look fucking great even the favela-dwellers)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 02:58 PM
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What's the point of even being married if you don't have children? strongly disagree. Because of that we see all the problems in modern relationships... dead bedrooms, beta men that get exploited, divorce, etc etc. This isn't because of modern relationships, but (as you said) beta men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:12 AM
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Single motherhood: I'm proud of you for not having an abortion, but then you should have just used birth control from the get-go anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:41 PM
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Honestly, I just work out and fast because I always want to remember myself as a sexy man, I don't even care what women want, since the ones I want will be attracted to what I am in my natural element anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:39 PM
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I just like soft, gentle women who don't even like swearing (and yes they exist), it's not really complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:23 AM
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What about all the high school and college sweethearts that got married? They don't. Average age to get married in the US is 27-29. How many men are that the finish line at that age? What even is the finish line? Who decides? I'll probably wait until I'm in my mid 30s and marry someone much younger and more artistic than me, but those aren't both prerequisites, just seems to be what is attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:23 AM
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Why would I do that, I love women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:09 PM
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Men and women can only be friends only if there is an equilibrium that prevents further romantic entanglement from developing: One person is more attractive/higher smv than the other, one person is gay, one person cannot date for cultural reasons, etc. But two people who are equally attractive with no tangible reasons keeping them from being together? No, they can't be friends, at least not without it becoming sexual in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:16 PM
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It seems like every beardlet (esp. on reddit, where it seems to be extremely common compared to say, 4chan or facebook) in America wants some big, strong womyn who outweighs and outsmarts him, I'd hardly say that the average American wants a stay-at-home-wife: Does the average American beardlet even want children?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:05 PM
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For some, 'non-exclusivity' means that only the dominant partner has multiples, and the submissive partner doesn't, and for many women (and men), this is perfectly acceptable and okay, and even can be loving. The latter involves at some point consent and informing in some form or fashion while the former does not, and thus involves betrayal. I think you are confused as to what 'latter' and 'former' mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:03 PM
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My romantic and sexual experiences in secondary school made me somewhat bitter towards the idea of love and being loved. To that effect, I almost wish I just remained a virgin until university. It seems like men pine over HS experiences more so than women. While I disagree that this is a masculine virtue, I think this may be because for a lot of men, this was the last chance they really had an equitable chance at dating where the playing field wasn't skewed so heavily towards achievement or thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:02 PM
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If you warn a woman early on in a relationship how you are with a disclaimer towards full disclosure, and she still stays with you knowing that, I don't see anything wrong with taking multiple women, and doubt it could even be considered cheating. Basically: it's not cheating if it also happens to be her fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:56 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:51 AM
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Because most of the men in this subreddit are highly undesirable and never in the position to reject a woman, even an aging woman such as yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:27 AM
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/u/smallgardenfairy see this person? never be like this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:14 PM
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This sounds like some modern new age BS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:59 PM
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You asked a question, what do you think I'm saying yes to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:58 PM
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I mean, it's not like my personality changes just because I want certain things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 07:17 AM
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Are you willing to financially support this kind of woman or she supposed first work full day and then make you mittens, wash your clothes with your favourite detergent and allow you to rest your head on her lap while doing another task? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:49 AM
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That's good and all. I'm speaking about averages on what men like, since if you were to poll 100 random men, I guarantee you they'd want a coy, feminine woman over a 'badass' loud one that makes them feel like they are dating a competitor from work or something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:28 AM
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That's fine. Again, I am not criticizing a reason for not wanting to date one. I wouldn't want to date one. Nothin wrong there. The problem is the general view and resentment prevalent in that community that transforms a single mother into something quite else. I agree that it goes overboard into a weird hatred that seems to be based on some (unattractive) men's sense of alienation and wanting a feeling of 'vengeance' towards women who would otherwise have a high smv if not for their child; But …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:27 AM
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You'd be shocked at how often we get judged for wanting such moments of tenderness, as if we somehow forfeit our masculinity or become feminine homosexuals the minute we admit that we want to have warmth in our lives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:21 AM
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Always remember: the best acts of love are unspoken. It could be as small as remembering little details about someone's personal likes or pet peeves (how they enjoy their coffee, the sort of detergent they like in their clothing etc.), or being the sort of woman who won't judge a guy for wanting to rest his head in your lap. Usually for men I notice that the unspoken acts we appreciate the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:17 AM
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It can be any sort of little action like that, which shows care in a nurturing sort of way: If she sees I'm hungry and without telling her she makes something I really like, if she sees that I fell asleep for a nap without covering myself and tucks me in to make sure I don't shiver. Generally, I'm not very good at communicating my needs and wants and won't hold it against a woman for not being able to read my mind obviously, but if she is the kind of person who just tends to those little things …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:07 AM
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There's a difference in not dating or preference over non-single mothers, which is understandable, and the thing very prevalent in TRP community. I don't see this disproportionate to not wanting to date someone for any other reason, e.g, obesity or height. People are discriminatory in how they date, and I think it should be the one place they are allowed to be As I said in another post, compare single mothers with a granny of 80 years old. TRPers wouldn't date the granny, but would not create lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:01 AM
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Yes, because the media teaches us everything about morality Unfortunately, with the weakening of religious figures and authorities, it does. Who else fills the vacuums? The governments? The schools? Ethnic ties have been eroded heavily too, so no one even trusts each other within their own groups anymore .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:57 AM
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Femininity. That can entail many things, but generally just means a sense of nurturing and softness that we otherwise don't find in our everyday lives, e.g If a girl is the type of person who knits me a mittens because she thinks my hands look cold, that to me is a very attractive trait
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:55 AM
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Meh, they do it anyway, I don't know any girl my age or younger who prefers men younger than 27tbh thanks for normalizing 30 & 40 year old being with teenagers Lana Del Rey (the girl wrote a song about thirsting after reknowned ogre Harvey Weinstein ffs), Melanie Martinez, and Hey Violet already beat me to it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:51 AM
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Not 'hatred', there's just zero reason why I should date a single mother when there are so many girls who don't have someone else's children, and when we say this they get mad and accuse us of hatred lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:16 AM
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It's not odd at all with even a basic understanding of fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 12:03 AM
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This is an outlier of a story no matter how you look at it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 04:36 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 05:28 AM
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Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 04:12 AM
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That's what happens: The older a woman gets, the more the dude is some younger ponytailed Dr Who fan who works at Trader Joes or Greggs and wants to be pegged
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:49 AM
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exactly, women over 25 still get plenty of attention & are considered sexually desirable. The difference is, now it's from weird, short ponytailed guys who have foot fetishes and dudes who have mommy issues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:48 AM
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Edit: lmao called out pedophilia in a “non-civil” manner and got banned 3 days Good, people are sick and fucking tired of aging women throwing this around on girls who are old enough to consent and decide what it is they want. You should have been banned longer imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:47 AM
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No one said anything about the opposite extreme, just that older women aren't as desirable physically which is objective fact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:46 AM
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women are pretty fertile until their mid 30s... If mid 30s women were more desirable, you'd have Beyonce in her mom pants and Amy Schumer as pinup babes in magazines geared towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:12 PM
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He said absolutely nothing paedophiliac, he's just saying how most traditional SEA cultures think, which is true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:10 PM
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As said, only few will stay on top and perfect until 28, but the best ones mostly do. We keep saying that male SMV peaks at 38 (35-40). Most men that age have a beer belly and can't run a mile. If they aren't rich (like most) their SMV is by no means higher than an active 25 year old. This is extreme cope. Many younger women are attracted to much older men, and while younger men are open to dating much older women too, truth is,for most women dating a younger, less experienced man isn't at all i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:08 PM
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Not all of America is equally fat. Where I live in California, an Asian or White person who is obese will stick out like a sore thumb
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:08 PM
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If you get unsolicited attention from women and they try to start conversations with you online or in random places, does that mean you are attractive? Asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:45 AM
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