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Yeah I am in nyc. Disappearing at early texting is pretty normal. Unfortunately with social media and all that girls just flake a TON now a days. My theory is they basically need to be afraid to lose you. Like they have to both want you and have a bit of a fear that you might forget them or something. You want them to be chasing you. Incorporating little things to get them chasing can help. Also - it is surprisingly easy to take women straight home and hook up with them from daygame in nyc. Then…
/r/seduction09/06/26 12:54 AM
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Hey dude. Totally different culture. I love eastern european women - they sort of stare you down and you hold the stare and they get attracted. White american women view men who compliment them as losers. They are uncomfortable with eye contact.They respond to teasing. You have to tease them. A lot of day game coaches teach direct game but a lot of those dudes get laid with fresh off the boat girls who don’t realize how lame they are. You just need to learn nyc style game - tease girls, act bett…
/r/seduction21/05/26 04:37 AM
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No it's not a shit test. Yes she probably does want to confirm you are cool/normal. Some girls think it's suspect if a guy doesn't have one. Try and make it better it's just part of the game nowadays. Even a few good pictures is okay. If she is already interested it doesn't need to be great - just confirmation that you are probably cool and not dangerous. If your game is really good and you are obviously high value you can not have one - but that works better if you are very obviously high value…
/r/seduction03/03/26 12:51 AM
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I think you need to be more clear and detailed - I really don't know what you are trying to say
/r/seduction03/03/26 12:49 AM
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Learn game The advice you are mentioning is often not effective. It got really popular in the modern "seduction community" for guys to basically tell you to do everything except for directly work on your skills with women. You are seeing the result of that advice. Women aren't psychic they can't sense your hobbies , job or anything. They only can go based off of what you say and how you say it. It's by no means a bad thing that you have this great balanced life - that's good and is helpful. But …
/r/seduction13/02/26 09:00 PM
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You are 100% correct - this is a legitimate problem and it is good you are thinking of it. As some guys don't. It's best if you can do more volume in a place where it is not a closed environment. Also indirect game is better. If you game indirectly and subtly you can approach many more women without a problem. If you also are friendly with guys and workers that makes it better. Something that works PHENOMENALLY well in closed environments ( gym, school etc.) is just be a friendly people person w…
/r/seduction19/01/26 05:11 PM
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Hahaha nice dude. My first job where I made good money I actually got from cold approaching a girl .
/r/seduction19/01/26 05:08 PM
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Well you don't want to worry yourself too much. You did good and this is a win. Realize most numbers flake anyways and as you get better you will be able to get less flakes. Do details matter? yes they do - but that's not a bad thing. Don't use it to beat yourself up or to analyze every little thing. View it as opportunity for growth. As you approach overtime you get better and better at it. I will make a practical recommendation for you - practice taking your phone out of your pocket and "getti…
/r/seduction12/01/26 11:15 PM
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Interesting. I guess it depends on the location. I am in a smaller city so spending more time with the girl is worth it. I suppose I could see using a different strategy - for example NYC in the summer you can practically bump into 3 hot girls a minute so one could just get a ton of numbers quick.
/r/seduction12/01/26 05:03 AM
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Hmm - I don't think I understand your perspective. To me getting a girl moving with me and hanging with me ( commitment) also moves us into a "we are hanging out together" rather then " he approached me" category. Plus the extra 10 minutes is just extra time for either more connection , her to invest more or her to learn more. IMO if game is tight the more time together ( within reason) the more likely she is to agree to anything - whether it's going on a date, coming home, having sex whatever -…
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:28 PM
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Malls can be good , parks, coffee shops - maybe wait on a little bit. It depends how good your game is they take a tiny bit more subtlety. Try and put in a good amount of volume. That's part of why cold approach is such a life hack. You can interact with lots of really hot girls and eventually you get used to and desensitised to it. It'll become less of a big deal to you - which also is really attractive to those girls because you are much more used to them. Gonna sort of self promote here but l…
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:24 PM
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Massage. It's not the only way to do it but it's super reliable and works even if you are nervous and inexperienced. SO many guys lost their virginity by offering a massage lol. She knows whatsup - it's just a really easy way to make things happen for both of you. Maybe watch a quick youtube tutorial on how to give a neck rub.
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:19 PM
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Speed dating - if you can find it. It's very underrated - especially for building momentum
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:17 PM
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Being a good public speaker - SO powerful. It carries over to so many situations as well. ( great answers here btw I am happy to see some good stuff in here)
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:16 PM
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Nah bro the girl literally asked you out. She is handling things in a healthy way - it's a first date too much shouldn't be invested. Don't keep pursuing for more - just be like "cool - see you then" something real casual. A lot of girls are all over the place and either are super into you and will drop everything if interested or will basically treat you like crap and have zero interest. A girl who is interested but in a grounded way is actually very cool.
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:15 PM
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No it is generally good - just make sure you are friendly with the bartender and give tips that are pretty good. If you try to sort of hide and not be noticed going to the same place that's not great. you sort of want to embrace it - when you are a regular. also if that did happen - just don't act ashamed. There is nothing wrong with going on lots of first dates. If she had been your exclusive girlfriend for several months that could be a problem lol - but a girl knowing she isn't the only first…
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:12 PM
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You seem like basically a mean grouchy guy lol. Who doesn't belong on this sub at all. "not everyone gets to be an astraunaut?" lol you are literally in a sub for guys who are specifically working at building their skills with women. Let's say theoretically I did have frustrations with women or it were difficult for "many others" - your response is F YOU! not everyone gets to have a good life! Your entire post is just saying - how dare anyone strive! Don't put in any effort to meeting women and …
/r/seduction10/01/26 07:21 PM
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Hmm - what do you find fun? That can help. Creative hobbies can be really good. Like music, dancing - whatever you like. Other good ones are just watching comedy more, going to comedy shows. A really great hobby is improv classes/groups ( where you participate)
/r/seduction10/01/26 12:49 AM
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Not sure why you got so offended by the post? It seems like you are not familiar with survivorship bias. Looking only at successes ( guys who have girlfriends) does not prove a method works consistently only that it has worked. Not to go into survivorship bias in detail but you are just using the example of "guys with girlfriends" ignoring the rest of the data - the majority of guys who do not have girlfriends. The OP is correct in what he is saying - at least in large amercian/uk cities. In NYC…
/r/seduction10/01/26 12:44 AM
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I agree on tourists coming on instadates basically 100% of the time. Why do you say either or though? I like to do quick instadates to strengthen the connection and then settup a date for later on. So I do both a lot of the time
/r/seduction09/01/26 11:39 PM
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Nice dude. Sometimes the stars align. One time I was walking with a friend. He liked a girl but was nervous to approach her so said I should approach her instead. The girl was SO down and walked me directly to her hotel and we had crazy sex lol. That was 90% luck - I needed game not to mess it up but it wasn't game that made it happen that fast. She was just super down My friend hopefully learned to actually approach girls he is into lol.
/r/seduction09/01/26 11:38 PM
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Only doing 80 approaches that is great. You will get better and better over time. They used to say the first THOUSAND don't count in the old days lol
/r/seduction09/01/26 11:35 PM
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Super common - maybe like 1 in 3 or 4 approaches for me. The key is make it casual. It's natural. Like you are hitting it off and "hey let's do this thing". Logistics matter though. Right now I am doing most of my approaches in an open layout mall. That makes it so easy - going to a cafe in the mall feels like just moving to a different location inside the same place. The more casual and easy it feels , verbally and logistically the easier it will be. That's actually the "secret" to instadates a…
/r/seduction09/01/26 11:35 PM
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*First zoom meeting will be on Monday evening
/r/seduction08/01/26 08:42 PM
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Perfect man! Keep it up . Yeah work on building your reputation and making friend s- it pays off big over time
/r/seduction08/01/26 08:33 PM
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Girls call guys they are into cute all the time. It's literally the most common word they use. You lost weight and you still are not letting yourself identify with being attractive so girls are directly complimenting your looks and you are discrediting the compliment in your mind. Start to visualize girls being into you and accept that girls can be into you. Cute absolutely means attractive
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:30 PM
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Awesome bro - yeah it's so fun. I think of all the videos of dudes like the Masai , who hunt lions etc. jumping around and turning up. It's a natural part of fun but so many modern men are separated from it and consider it un masculine. It's a blast
/r/seduction27/12/25 03:34 PM
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They aren't mind readers. Thinking of good texts is perfectly reasonable. This woo woo game got so popular. It is very possible to fire off terrible texts without caring or to care a lot and send a good text. Gosh this new idea of game " don't try don't game - don't learn" is so silly
/r/seduction27/12/25 07:46 AM
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Because loads of lame guys who are a bit "tight" and closed minded are turned off by them so it is a good ratio of hot girls to guys. And for guys who can manage to not be stuck in their head it is a blast. I love dancing around having fun and meeting tons of girls super easily. It filters out a lot of guys who can't really handle fun/ high energy and are inflexible - who don't come or who suck in the environment so for the few guys who thrive there it is AMAZING. The modern world has really sep…
/r/seduction27/12/25 07:42 AM
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You could probably get around the rule by chatting up with bouncers + giving them tips. I tip my local bouncers and DO NOT DO THIS but I KO'd a jerk a few weeks ago and HE got kicked out ( he was a creep and touching girls I was with - deserved it) some other workers were kicking me out and the guys I know and take care of came over and smoothed it over and brought me back in and high fived me lol - point being being friendly with and tipping bouncers often means normal rules do not apply to you…
/r/seduction26/12/25 10:16 PM
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Probably increase it but putting a lot of effort into a girl you didn't even match with yet for online dating is a baaadd strategy. Don't fall in love with a profile.
/r/seduction26/12/25 05:44 PM
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You’ll do fine man - don’t worry about odds. Worry about results. There are different styles. Some guys are direct and may have many short approaches until they find the a girl who liked them. For example in night game I love bouncing around and socializing with tons of people - I don’t even go for numbers or dates with like 90%. In daygame I can get numbers on most approaches if I want . But it’s just different styles. The important thing is it sounds you have a great base and if you learn a li…
/r/seduction26/12/25 03:24 PM
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Of course it’s good to be fit. If you want to really quickly look way better. Focus a ton on your shoulders and wear tight shirts. For a time I was doing intense yoga classes like 5 days a week. I was thin and lean but had proportionally big shoulders - in tight shirts I looked amazing and got complements . And I was like 141 pounds at 5’6 . Just add in a lot of lateral raises - focus on shoulder hyper trophy. You’ll go from slim to looking awesome in literally 6-8 weeks
/r/seduction26/12/25 03:18 PM
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Hey just saw this. Hmm - old school opinion openers could be a good start. They are pretty unlikely to get bad reactions and will just get you into a convo at least. Also “hi!” Often works well haha . That’s a start. Opinion opener means just ask their opinion - on any reasonable topic If you want you can dm me and I can try and send you some specific openers. 1) I am on my phone And 2) I don’t want dozens of guys all using the same opens lpl
/r/seduction26/12/25 03:14 PM
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Never been sorry bro haha. I know nothing about it
/r/seduction26/12/25 03:05 PM
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I was there a few months ago - wildly easy. But my game is really good. I don't say that to boast but since it may feel different to different people mileage may vary. But basically there a lot of hot girls out during the day - more than most other places. That's really all you can ask for - other than that it is 99% up to your game. There are guys in every city who says that city sucks - mostly it is due to their game not being good enough.
/r/seduction26/12/25 02:18 AM
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Cool point. The idea that guys need to narrate their thoughts isn't a great one. Underlying sexual tension is awesome
/r/seduction25/12/25 08:03 PM
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I like indirect. But found direct can be cool to mix it up - but for me for as an exercise, not really for results. When I was rewarming up and hadn't approached in awhile I found direct was cool to get me "going for it" and not being afraid to flirt - then I could convert that into boldness but in teasing and push-pulls etc. In the start of my game journey I did like thousands of direct approaches and got zero results until I found indirect so for my actual game I am pretty big on indirect haha…
/r/seduction25/12/25 07:20 PM
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Beach game is amazing if you have good subtle game. HUGE number one make sure you are not wearing a shirt and are in a bathing suit. It is very creepy and uncomfortable to be on a beach approaching girls who are semi naked when you are clothed. It's a major imbalance. It's an immediate red flag to the girl and sort of un fair. So be dressed appropriately. Even in parks if girls are tanning and in bathing suits I will usually take my shirt off so we are on an even footing that way. DO NOT just si…
/r/seduction25/12/25 01:52 AM
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What else is going on in your life bro? Do you have a job etc? I see your post history and it is pretty consistently talking about this area of your life - being a virgin etc. how is the rest of your life
/r/seduction25/12/25 01:47 AM
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Yeah man dance with her haha. I am not familiar with raves. So idk about grabbing the hand unless it is a real signal? How does she know you’re behind her? But yeah man it’s a RAVE it’s about dancing. Go with the flow of the environment. Dance, have fun
/r/seduction24/12/25 02:50 PM
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Yep - that game style is HORRIBLE. It spread to everyone and killed guys results. I saw really good looking cool guys doing it and they crippled themselves - they'd have been better off never learning game maybe standing around during the day making eye contact. In nyc there would be packs of guys in the middle of busy squares doing these idiotic running approaches. I would be off to the side and often meet girls and instadate/ or pull them home unnoticed. You REALLY hit the nail on the head. Th…
/r/seduction24/12/25 05:07 AM
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To be honest you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Putting all your eggs in one basket of one night. Here is a better mindset new year's eve can be a KICK OFF to lasting change. Go out approach all the women and let that be a new start to you going out consistently and approaching women. If you do that and make adjustments you will get results. Seriously - if you make approaches and learn from the right sources and adjust until it works - it will work. That is a near guarantee. Going o…
/r/seduction24/12/25 05:05 AM
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The girls signal you to dance with them and you ask them to go outside and talk? DANCE WITH THEM lol. Not sure what this means though - is this like a rave thing you know the signaling you? If so the answer is unbelievably obvious. Dance with them dude
/r/seduction24/12/25 12:30 AM
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Good luck man - I am on the other side of the world but sounds like fun haha.
/r/seduction23/12/25 05:18 AM
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Super on the money! It is way more fun to connect on a date. Plus doesn't throw off life as much - hygiene is better too lol.
/r/seduction23/12/25 03:02 AM
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Thanks dude
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:23 AM
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Didn’t you already ask? Miami no question. Tho some will Only speak spanish. But it’s not close
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:21 AM
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It is definitely harder - everything about game is a bit harder with the rise of social media. Girls just have to be a lot more invested then they used to be. But of course it is possible. I wasn't really ever that focused on taking girls home the same night I met them. I mostly on meeting girls and scheduling dates with them. Makeouts in the bar don't necessarily go anywhere. Instead of making out it could be better to build a lot of rapport with the girl - so she actually shows up for a date. …
/r/seduction21/12/25 03:51 PM
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Hahaha - dang it must have REALLY sucked lol. Ah dude that makes sense - if he has a team that helps him write.
/r/seduction21/12/25 03:43 PM
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Dope I was never an RSD fan but I experimented with some of it tonight and seems like it is legit. You have any favorite aspects of the game courses/ coaches? I tried it tonight and see it for sure must be real. I watched some of the hot seats then went out and was jumping around with girls saying we loved each other etc just like RSD vids on my first try doing that type of game so made me realize it's probably real lol
/r/seduction21/12/25 08:12 AM
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I don't trust Mark Manson at all - in my opinion he was basically a sex tourist. He went to a small village in brazil when it was even more rare to be a white american dude there - hooked up with a few girls and decided he was a pick up expert. I don't get why when he says stuff like work out and build a good life people find it earth shattering - you don't need a coach to tell you that. smart guy but not a real dating expert.
/r/seduction21/12/25 08:11 AM
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Mystery is a freaking genius. Seriously. One of the smartest people I have ever met. He is a super sweet guy. He genuinely loves getting guys results. He was most proud about married couples resulting from his methods - he said he's had 100s of people come up to him and say they met their wives from him. That's an interesting thing about Mystery he is pretty relationship oriented
/r/seduction21/12/25 08:09 AM
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Bro I am going to shamelessly self plug here - but I posted about a free 30 day challenge I am hosting. It's going to focus on beginners and rebuilding momentum approaching - then a bit of exercises to loosen up and for charisma. I think it'll help loads. Extra support and motivation. It's totally free. Let me know if you wanna join. The post should still be here also. Starting up this week first meeting Mon or tues. Just lmk if you want to join. Just gonna be a skool group and zoom meetings.
/r/seduction21/12/25 07:52 AM
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If it is borderline I just ask something like " are you in college" or "what is your major" . If they are too young they answer "I'm in high school". Done .
/r/seduction20/12/25 03:29 AM
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You can specifically practice push- pull actually. You can google pictures of hot girls and flip through them and practice push-pull. Works pretty well. That guy's a jerk
/r/seduction18/12/25 04:48 PM
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The aim is to get guys lasting results. Often guys go on these short bootcamps get a period of a "high" but return back to the old habits. I have a lot of experience getting guys results - and find the slow approach building overtime leads to real results. I want to get guys real results, guys who can approach consistently moving forward not just a brief thing. Also it is online - so we won't be meeting in person for me to push the guys. A smooth approach that builds works best. The natural char…
/r/seduction18/12/25 08:20 AM
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I have a few sign ups who messaged me via DM. So feel free to DM - and comment below for any clarification. This'll be a great way to start the new year. Great for guys who are new and also a good way to rebuild momentum to get back into the swing of things. About 5 years ago I rededicated myself to game at the start of the year and that's when I started really crushing it with consistent results.
/r/seduction18/12/25 07:35 AM
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Mall is good - give us more details though about where you live etc
/r/seduction18/12/25 07:15 AM
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She told you completely directly how she felt. This is super common for girls. Super common and normal. Just invite her to do something outside of her place. The only way to mess it up is make it a big deal. Answer something like "all good - me and my friends are going to a concert on _____ - want to come" easy
/r/seduction18/12/25 06:30 AM
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It's great if you have good game. For me it was amazing. Why I say great if you have good game is - there are tons of girls, lots of them are sexually wild, it has the best foot traffic of most anywhere. But IF you have good game because : there are pitfalls. The girls are often pretty anti men. I think bad approaches, direct approaches could be misconstrued pretty badly. I saw a guy try that running type approach that got popular in daygame and he got yelled at by a bunch of women in the area l…
/r/seduction18/12/25 05:16 AM
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I used to have this problem. Counter intuitive but maybe dress a little worse ( not horribly) look a lil worse and do some approaches. Get a lil practice in without a super powerful image to break. Also indirect game helps a lot. It's out of fashion now a days and it works. To me game isn't about proving I am fearless but about what works. If you are scared of approaching directly, for example, and can sort of "hide" behind something else that is more indirect and get into a good convo and conne…
/r/seduction18/12/25 12:36 AM
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Sounds pretty shitty. I mean it seems like the obvious answer is this girl is a no. In the case of the girl I was with it started off casual and stayed casual and didn't last long. It's almost never a good idea/ worth it to be with a girl who basically sabotages your emotions and life. I mean maybe you could try setting a boundary like "bitch your crazy... we can hook up casually but that's it" Probably with different words lol
/r/seduction17/12/25 08:50 PM
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The obvious answer would be NO. BUT - if you are really good at managing things it can be okay for the short term. I had a girl who was really annoying like this - and wanted me to spend more time with her, meet her shady friends etc. I just would have sex with her - then let her leave after. Not give her any attention otherwise. I knew it wouldn't last. Had sex with her 3-4 times, then she sent me some crazy message because I did not show to the casino to meet some shady friend of her - blocked…
/r/seduction17/12/25 08:20 PM
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Bro I will dm you
/r/seduction17/12/25 05:18 AM
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You are so right dude. This reddit is super anti game lol. Thanks for giving him some real advice.
/r/seduction17/12/25 05:18 AM
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Probably 40s because few guys want them but I have never approached a woman in her 40s so I wouldn't know. My friend who doesn't really have any game likes older women and does great. I mean women in their 40s are horny and without many options so they are going to be easy for guys of any age.
/r/seduction17/12/25 05:17 AM
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Yes it definitely helps a ton.
/r/seduction17/12/25 04:22 AM
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What's the problem? You've got a great base of doing things you like. But yeah if you want to date and socialize you have to go for that. The idea that just doing everything other then going to meet girls, will result in meeting girls, doesn't really work. But it's still a huge win that you have gotten your life going really well. Just add in approaches a few women or online dating and you're good. Keep the hobbies. You can start inviting women to your hobbies and the cool things you do. I just …
/r/seduction17/12/25 04:21 AM
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Not really true in my experience. Lots of dates start off slow and end in sex. I guess this could be useful if you are bad at dates. I am not saying that as an insult but genuinely. It can take a bit of skill to get a girl comfortable who is nervous or a bit tight at the start of a date
/r/seduction16/12/25 10:16 PM
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Yeah that context helps especially your coworkers commenting on it. The living an hour away actually makes things tougher though imo. Is she coming back? Maybe you invite her to something really casual mid way between where she lives. You can hedge your bets with inviting her to a mutual interest . Let’s say you guys talk about whatever political cause and you agree “ I am going to xyz cafe for a fundraiser ( or a protest or whatever) and invite her” Already going to something and inviting a gir…
/r/seduction16/12/25 08:16 PM
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I wouldn't call that cockblocking at all. Just you were into the girl and chatted with her and in the swing of things your friend ended up hitting it off with her. Sure it's still annoying - but don't think of your friend as a cockblock. Cockblock would be if you were like hitting it off and he comes in and interrupts clearly messing it up. Sounds like it was innocent. Stuff like this just happens sometimes in groups - you don't always get the girl.
/r/seduction16/12/25 06:24 PM
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Do you consistently get women's numbers who respond well and answer your messages outside of work? If you do not do not even consider it. As a crucial rule. Unless you have proven results that women respond well to you and give you their numbers when they do not have to talk to you - don't start hitting on women who need to talk to you. No offense but based on your question I think your understanding of game isn't at a very high level so I wouldn't hit on girls at work yet. You are asking for tr…
/r/seduction16/12/25 07:12 AM
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Not really harder. My results keep getting better but it does depend somewhat on how you look. I know a dude who is about 60 who crushes it with women in their 20s - but he is in great shape and super energetic. Generally though standards of lifestyle raise a bit. Socially and by women you are expected to be a bit further a long in life.
/r/seduction16/12/25 04:35 AM
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Good point. That's the weird thing though. Focusing totally on outer game can actually be a form of inner game. Since it is a mindset shift. If you can totally take your focus off yourself - whether you are good enough , whether it can work out, how you are coming off and just totally focus on the process , either the skill or what you are doing in the moment. That is a HUGE mindset shift and changing what is going on internally a great deal. I did that in PUA and business. It works in all sorts…
/r/seduction16/12/25 12:38 AM
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Great mindset - that is what I did myself and have advised other guys to do. Basically when confidence is low and results feel overwhelming focusing on the process helps tons.
/r/seduction16/12/25 12:35 AM
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Writing out your thoughts and disputing them is EXCELLENT. I used cognitive behavioural therapy books. That is legit inner game that works. Too much PUA "inner game" gurus are guys who just don't really know what they are talking about and say "feel good" "it's about confidence" etc. which isn't really useful advice. It's like outer game advice being "get laid" lol. Anyways that's my little tangent. But for inner game the stuff that works IMO comes from outside PUA - thought disputation to chang…
/r/seduction16/12/25 12:33 AM
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Dope. We can all link if you want.
/r/seduction15/12/25 06:20 PM
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Sure bro - I’ll dm you. Fired reports help a lot
/r/seduction15/12/25 06:19 PM
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Congrats bro. Also try and just habitually go places with girls. If you have errands to run , do it at a mall and approach 1 or 2 girls - it’ll add up.
/r/seduction15/12/25 06:18 PM
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Sure dude - I'll send you a DM
/r/seduction15/12/25 04:59 PM
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You had sex with her one time? Give more details please? How much total time have you spent together? What was the sex like? What happened after? How long before you guys had sex? More details.
/r/seduction15/12/25 01:32 AM
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Great advice.
/r/seduction15/12/25 01:26 AM
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Good job - yeah no need to over think. Don't text her again explicitly saying you want to do it again - you guys already established that. Doing that more comes off as needed excess re assurance. If you want you can just send her a quick random message maybe a lil inside joke or mentioning something about one of the games you played. Then you can just follow up and invite her to hang out again. The first message is optional. Depends on the tone you wanna set - if you want to be texting each othe…
/r/seduction15/12/25 01:25 AM
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You're probably fine then. Just play the game really slow and casual. But think of the risk reward though. I am actually thinking I may contradict myself a bit. 1) I did feel like you need to have good enough game you get lots of results to even consider this. 2) If you can get laid pretty much whenever you want - why not just crush it at the conference for work purposes. Use your game to be charismatic and to come off awesome and further your career. Feel great and pumped up about it then go ou…
/r/seduction15/12/25 01:15 AM
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How good is your game? Do you very consistently pull women and never have very bad interactions? If not don't even think about it.
/r/seduction15/12/25 12:03 AM
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It's okay man. Sure every guy has fumbled like this. There will be other opportunites. Do you approach? Approach girls the more you approach the more ready you will be in these situations.
/r/seduction15/12/25 12:02 AM
1

She didn't ghost you - you sent her a sort of rude annoying message and she didn't respond. Now you are thinking she cheated on you just because she didn't respond? Basically she was reaching at to you saying you guys don't talk much - you pushed her away and punished her for it - she responded in a rational way by withdrawing attention . Then somehow you think she cheated on you? You really need to work on your communication - yes you should of put an emoji. Or even better responded appropriate…
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:22 PM
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It depends on where you are in the conversation. You may be jumping into these topics too early. But assuming you are not - ask follow up questions instead. What is your favorite - "did you start young" "what do you like about it" Deep dive into topics don't be a question robot get curious. But again this assumes you are in the right part of the conversation for this
/r/seduction14/12/25 08:37 AM
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Met a girl in a club. We chatted for a second and exchanged numbers. We texted later that night and found each other - started making out immediately, led to fooling around in the club - then to sex in the photo booth - all within a few min. Fun cool girl
/r/seduction14/12/25 08:11 AM
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You need to PERSIST. This is really good. You might just need a few small tweaks. The difference between 2 or 3 numbers flaking and feeling like crap and having sex with 2 or 3 girls and feeling amazing is often really small. Where guys mess up is that week break you are doing. Do multiple weeks in a row, make adjustments and get results
/r/seduction13/12/25 11:39 PM
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Yes it's too low. You are no longer allowed to live on earth. You must live on a small colony on the moon. Honestly bro who cares? Don't worry about the number. If you want to hook up with more girls - take action to make it happen. If you are happy hooking up with less girls or like long term relationships stick with it. Live your life as you want - not based on a number or what other people say. I say this as a guy who has been with a pretty large amount of women - but I do that because I enjo…
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:08 PM
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What she says doesn't mean anything. What she does does. Dude this is like fundamental stuff everywhere. It is basically mainstream at this point to not be a friend that listens to girls emotions. Think about it bro - you are basically doing something you know does not work, it didn't work. Then you did it AGAIN - it still didn't work. Then you are questioning if "love" as for you. How about you try changing your strategy before you just quit.... Don't be so darn stubborn. Accept what you are do…
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:05 PM
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Well - perhaps you can adjust your lifestyle a small amount? Also do a lil online dating? It's not great but even if you message with a few not too attractive girls it could help you with thinking a little less about messaging conversations. There are also some good cognitive behavioural therapy type exercises that can help a lot with over thinking - but they are a bit complex to explain in a comment. There are books etc though
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:02 PM
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Moving to multiple locations is good but not totally necessary. If it is cold as balls I'd just deal with it. I am coaching a dude in the midwest now - and we have settup some dates for him in the mall ( where their are multiple cafe's and things) but in a city that size I doubt there is a large indoor mall? The idea behind multiple locations is in part the experience. So maybe find one place and make a good experience out of it. Some bar - where you order together - then you go to a nice corner…
/r/seduction13/12/25 01:36 AM
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Four cold approaches is NOTHING. You need volume and strategy. I am coaching a guy was doing 3 a day. He was not getting results but then once we changed his strategy he just had sex with a girl. Point being you need both - you need to approach more women and probably need to have a bit of a strategy. u/Budget-Kick822 had a really good analogy about bodybuilders.
/r/seduction13/12/25 01:33 AM
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As a JOKE yes. I have some funny lines that I used to use - they worked for me and about 60% of students because it depends on your personality. But I am stressing it was actually pretending I was gay. It was saying stuff like "wow if I weren't gay I would ______" type of thing. But said playfully obvious I am not gay but also made it more comfortable and fun then just straight out saying whatever I was going to say. The principle of the girl not feeling judged is a good one though.
/r/seduction13/12/25 01:30 AM
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Post a few cool things on your instagram in the next few days. Like 1 of her recent posts. Then message her and invite her to something casually. In that order. Do it all casually like it is no big deal and it's not. Also stop telling yourself you have a crush on her. Make it into not a big deal in your head. It's a girl you chat with a small amount and exchanged insta's with - you can follow up but also meet other girls. I really recommend you try and meet other girls in anyway you can. It give…
/r/seduction13/12/25 01:22 AM
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Your tinder is probably really bad. This happens repeatedly. Guys make bad profiles HORRIBLE ones then get insecure about looks and things. Just assume that it can work and make adjustments until it can
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:46 AM
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Keep it simple - just invite her to link if she doesn't respond you leave her be.
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:27 AM
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That's great man - good story. Just let yourself absorb his vibe and how he does things
/r/seduction07/11/25 04:04 AM
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Hell yeah bro - thanks for the positive vibes
/r/seduction07/11/25 03:57 AM
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GAME - it's not that complex or tough. A lot of coaches make it into some kind of nefarious woo woo thing about detachment because they actually have no clue what they are doing and can not teach so they just spout non actionable bullshit. It's simple if you get good at approaching girls, attracting them, getting them to invest. And are also good at making them comfortable and then GOOD AT SEX. You will have multiple women you are fucking. That is actually one of the most underrated things - goo…
/r/seduction07/11/25 02:59 AM
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Nice job man - celebrate the wins and keep going.
/r/seduction07/11/25 02:55 AM
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Definitely. Yeah - do your best to consume no social media . It is difficult to moderate by design and some people ( myself included) are more compulsive than others. Social media is designed to addict you, steal your attention so companies can pay the social media companies to advertise to you. You are the product. Your attention and time ( your life) is literally being sold by design. Think about that some shady social media executives literally research how to monopolize your life and attenti…
/r/seduction09/10/25 04:57 PM
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Just make the best possible profile. I am not a big online dating guy. But I can tell you don't drop hints for ONS. That isn't going to make it more likely for you to get a one night stand it'll just make make you get less/ no matches. It's not like you are offering something unique by being like "hey I am a man and I am offering dick". Like Chris Rock said dick is free. Loads of girls are down for FWB type of deal but they don't want to explicitly acknowledge it up front. Be as attractive as po…
/r/seduction08/10/25 06:25 AM
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LMAO - to the point and true.
/r/seduction08/10/25 06:22 AM
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NYC is pretty good. A decent of the women are crazy but they also are crazy in bed for the most part and lots of attractive ones. One thing to keep in mind is LOGISTICS are insanely important. If you live in the center of town and can easily casually invite a girl to your place right near where you met her it makes your results literally 5-10x better. So that may be a factor where in the given city you can live. As neighborhood matters. If you can live in the trendy neighborhood with hot women t…
/r/seduction08/10/25 06:19 AM
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Not a mentality but having simple ideas of HOW to flirt. Certain simple structures just work for flirting. Just having those in my back pocket really helped the consistency. Mindset though I think having fun is probably it.
/r/seduction08/10/25 06:15 AM
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I was in Miami before 2020 and it was like a fucking shooting gallery. BUT - it has gotten worse and worse maybe? Oh yes - do you speak Spanish? Depending on the part of miami that could be a help. I was going to say miami by a million miles. But I was there before 2020 so I don't know how things may have changed. An advantage ( HUGE) of miami though is weather. It is beautiful wonderful weather to daygame throughout the entire year. But the trend I noticed was south beach was getting worse and …
/r/seduction08/10/25 06:13 AM
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Well, the main thing I'd say is to be friendly and chat with everyone. Don't really cold approach and day game the way a lot of people do. Meaning don't just ask girls out or hit on then, since campus is a bit of a closed environment. The bad part of that is if you hit on girls and get turned down you can get a bad reputation. The good part is you have plenty of time to build attraction. So chat up people be friendly then keep it moving. You'll run into the same people. I'd say for you - corny t…
/r/seduction08/10/25 06:05 AM
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You sound like a far left wing feminist woman complaining. " As a women I feel...." " As a nuerodivergent man....." first of all - stop thinking like a pussy and using new speak. Be a man and own who you are. The complaining "as a..." type talk - a rich suburban girl can get away with but men can't. We can't copy this wimpy new think junk if you really want a good life. Unless you are okay with having a victim mentality and failing at life and dying having never fulfilled any of your potential. …
/r/seduction28/09/24 04:27 AM
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It just lacks a TON of detail and has very minimal practical steps. To be fair things like " go to the gym" and do sports you like and dress well are good tips but think about it - literally anyone in the world can tell you that. Model's to me basically personifies the coaches who do not really know much but get kind of woo woo and tell you all that matters is confidence and being yourself and things. That just is not the case. Some guys who are insanely good with girls are sui cidal or drug add…
/r/seduction28/09/24 04:17 AM
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This is a really good idea. I can not think of any off hand - but definitely have found using slightly more complex words as opens/ compliments works wayyy better.
/r/seduction26/09/24 11:27 PM
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Well - are you talking first dates? Once you have already hooked up it is super common ( and awesome) to have the girl come over or do something really tiny like just walk a bit then hook up. But yeah you can get girls to come straight over, or do the little walk thing too - but not every girl will do it. Normally if I get the girl chasing sexually that will do it. But again it's not like something I am trying to make happen. For example if I have 5 girls I am messaging maybe 4 will come on a da…
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:27 PM
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Models is pretty bad. IMO Mark Manson was a sex tourist. He got no women in the USA and went to brazil and managed to get some impoverished women. I don't think it is wrong to travel and date wherever one wants. But that dude's advice is just bad. Hmmm - there are unfortunately not too many good books out there - particularly for online game/texting. Just as a tip - realize online not every number will lead to a date - well in cold approach it won't either. But generally start off with super sim…
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:22 PM
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Do you get dates? Like do your approaches tend to go well? Sounds like you said you have experience. But just asking if your cold approaches are leading to dates - because that is OBJECTIVE proof that your approaches are good. Some guys get awkward smiles and laughs from girls and think they are good then try it in the gym and get booted for harassment lol. ( just saying - basically objectively make sure your game is good before approaching in closed environments) Okay if that is out of the way …
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:17 PM
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Unfortunately this reddit is very anti game and most guys much prefer being right about things not working or a a theory they have that is not working then being humble and putting in an earnest effort to learn. For some odd reason a lot of guys interested in game have this weird like rage at the idea of paying for anything, courses, club covers , a fee to go to an event - whatever. It is weird. There are some great books and courses out there. It makes no sense guys just think everyone who ever…
/r/seduction15/06/24 05:46 PM
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Lot of good answers already so I will go a bit out of left field. Public speaking clubs, if we are talking practice , practicing public speaking will really help your game.
/r/seduction15/06/24 05:41 PM
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By all means you do not have to do nightgame, daygame and activities can be awesome. But, there absolutely are bars and nightclubs that are full of attractive women, you just need to find them and sometimes get some connections/plan to get some tickets in advance
/r/seduction15/06/24 05:40 PM
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This is a seduction forum for DUDES to learn to pick up girls so I imagine not many of us have directly experienced it lol. But - I have noticed that for sure, lot of girls are horny and want sex on their period. No idea what is supposed to happen or whatever but I have absolutely noticed that. If I had to choose between is a girl hornier on or off her period? It would be EASILY on her period. BUT - there could be some survivorship bias as girls less horny or embarrassed to do it on their period…
/r/seduction09/06/24 11:41 PM
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hahaha
/r/seduction09/06/24 11:39 PM
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Just saw this. Good question bro. I guess you just need to get really really good at game and/or strategic. Like maybe you have a hobby you are great at and you can perform it giving yourself pick of women. I am just thinking out loud here, as that is not too easy. Also surely there must be some 7s you can have fun sex with? One of the girls I was dating awhile back was attractive but not mind blowing, basically a cute girl a nice butt and legs - but my goodness she was a 1 in 10,000 freak in be…
/r/seduction09/06/24 11:38 PM
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LMAO - well I guess that is a quality problem being more satisfied. Sort of makes sense if you took some caveman and he just had girls coming to his cave all day and had enough to eat he prob wouldn't care about much else either
/r/seduction02/06/24 10:31 PM
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Honestly dude, you are kind of an embarrassment to short guys lol. You expect so much from people and have a victim mentality. I have instinctive "ewww" response to you. Like you are shy and don't do shit and blame it on being short. It is great your friend is so nice. But you view it like your friend SHOULD introduce you to people and be understanding of your insecurities etc. Why - because you are short and poor you waa waa? What are you offering to these people? You want to capitalize off of …
/r/seduction28/05/24 06:14 AM
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I STRONGLY disagree with gainful physique here. Gotta men up a bit. It is one thing to be short but another thing to be a man baby child. Other people are not responsible for your insecurities. Gotta get over it. You need to work hard on getting good with girls put in effort and have your own path. When you get your shit together it won't bother you as much when you see other's having success. If a dude took my aside to explain that he was upset that a girl like me I would cut that loser out of …
/r/seduction28/05/24 06:06 AM
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YES. Very good point.
/r/seduction28/05/24 06:03 AM
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Straight up. I am not jacked but brimming with confidence and it still works fine haha. My only problem with being short is sometimes I am embarrassed by how soft a lot of other short dudes are making excuses etc. lol ( not blaming the op but in general)
/r/seduction28/05/24 06:02 AM
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Don't worry about it too much. The BIG problem is that whenever something goes wrong your mind will jump to the insecurity. But REALIZE that this happens to all men sometimes short, tall handsome or not. They like a girl and the girl picks another guy - it sucks. But that is pretty important to realize that every guy experiences this. I am a HUGE fan of Mystery - the original pick up artist. He is 6 foot 4, yet if you read his books he has experienced every problem I have experienced AND he came…
/r/seduction28/05/24 05:52 AM
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Hmmm, I was in this position at a certain point. Where it was just driving me NUTS the lack of women in my life. I theorized that I had to get that handled then it would open up my mind to other things and it was absolutely true. Once I was dating a few women - I felt better and started working on other goals. But I new that piece of my life needed to be handled. My advice to you is just put LOTS of effort into it. Momentum is crucial. Doing a bit of approaching or apps over the course of a year…
/r/seduction28/05/24 05:35 AM
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" I feel like it is impossible to find a high-quality woman who doesn't constantly seek validation from others" More or less, yes this is the case in the United States. The culture is well against a relationship - girls friends will tell her you are abusive and controlling if you request she is not posting naked photos of herself for 1000s of dudes to see online and constantly DM her etc. Sometimes my posts may sound negative - but I want to clarify I am overall super positive - I am about setti…
/r/seduction28/05/24 05:27 AM
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1000%. This is why I like indirect game
/r/seduction19/05/24 09:22 PM
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100%, plus adding insults to guys looking for help on top of it makes it worse. Good for us to call out BS.
/r/seduction15/05/24 03:10 PM
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Alright fair enough to have different perspectives, really cool when it is civil - I am always open to new information and changing my mind. I'd rather be wrong and get results then be "right" in my mind. However in this case I believe I am right, but like I said civil disagreement is just fine. I think perhaps your "gaming in us and abroad" has something to do with it. I think the massive connectedness to Instagram and constant stimulation that leads to women just jumping to wherever they want,…
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:20 PM
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Sure, my point is: it is actually a lot more difficult to maintain female friends then female friends with benefits . Not that it is not possible…. The context here is for lonely guys - if the goal of dating is easier then the “baby step” of having female friends that is very important information. In this context. As why put effort into a more difficult frustrating side quest when the actual os both easier and a lot more rewarding. My point is female friends are the least forgiving of all socia…
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:35 AM
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Read "Learned Optimist" By Martin Seligman. You will learn about explanatory style and optimism vs pessimism and how to fix it so you will be able to persist better to get results
/r/seduction11/05/24 11:01 PM
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Sounds like apps are tough there. Maybe you Canadian guys are soft and don't approach so you over flow the apps JK lol. But in seriousness I found toronto excellent for cold approach so for the toronto men with balls get on the cold approach. Lotta guys got soft and don't approach, of course there will be tons of competition to sit on ones butt on their phone to get girls. Less competition to build a superb skillset and have a great dating life
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:59 PM
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Shouldn't you be on incel.com or something? Not even using incel as an insult, but literally that is the sort of philosophy you have, this is a game reddit
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:58 PM
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I guarantee your profile is bad. Here is why: When things do not work, you jump to things you can not control and circumstances rather than making changes. ALWAYS assume when something does not work that it is fixable and changeable. Are there 6'5 black guys on dating apps in Toronto getting lots of dates - ABSOLUTELY. Apps however, are difficult in general and not my forte. I know the above about you because: I was in Toronto in JANUARY and even then it was excellent for gaming. I met multiple …
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:53 PM
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I do not know why I am able to see "ROB" 's comments as I blocked him. But PLEASE do not listen to anything he says. I have no personal interaction with him. I blocked him because, as a guy who really games and lives it, it was VERY obvious to me that ROB talks purely from theory and is completely full of BS. So I had no interest in seeing his comments. Please do not take his accusations seriously. His reward is having an ego and upvotes on reddit. He does not actually have sex. Listen to nothin…
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:41 PM
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It is has a much lower success rate then approaching women for sex. I appreciate the OP did not state this like it is the end all be all but, those advocating for this are mostly thinking theory. You occasionally get female friends in the course of game, but generally trying to get girls to be friends they are even flakier then girls you are trying to date.
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:34 PM
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I actually have to disagree with this strongly. I appreciate the effort and that you are honest that you are thinking this for yourself and not that you are certain of it. But.... maintaining female friends is actually a lot more difficult then having sex with women. They are even flakier then girls who date you. I have been hard pressed to get groups of girls to come out multiple times, yet I EASILY can date multiple women. I have found it much easier to attempt to go for threesomes with multip…
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:30 PM
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Very true
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:23 PM
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You’re welcome. I actually do not drink either at all. I still do bars, with a nice couch. Personally I don’t tend to get too hot and heavy until home with the girl. Even then, a nice little hack is make your place not just about sex. Maybe you drop your bike off at your place with her there and hustle out quick and do Something else. Then your place becomes low pressure and can easily be your hot and heavy location even if it is too early for sex
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:49 PM
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Hahaha - couldn't be summed up any better
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:48 PM
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Aaah, the comments on here are killing me. Honestly the old stuff works just fine, if anything it is more important to use then ever. Game got SO watered down. Read the old mystery method books - nothing better ever came out
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:46 PM
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To be honest that is just your fault. That material is insanely good. Laziness is what got you, not secondhand stimulation. Going out is hard and no one wants to do it, but when you make yourself it is awesome.
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:42 PM
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Oh yes absolutely. You'd have to be clinically insane to consider monogamy with the vast majority of particularly US women, but likely other places as well. We must adjust to the times. I love the women I date, but our culture puts a man in a horrendous position by being monogamous.
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:39 PM
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Super common.
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:37 PM
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I am not the best at this as it is tough. BUT - the one thing I learned from an older guy with loads of game was: You always say something like " I am just in a dating mode right now and I really like spending time with you etc..". This is not the exact wording but the key principles are: 1) It is not about her, you are just not in relationship mode 2) You like hanging with her
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:36 PM
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Key to this is that you are not looking for monogamy right now. That is the key part - tact. So it is not about her
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:33 PM
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You are simply skipping qualification and connecting. Sounds like your game works just slow it down, and slow it down but incorporating in questions about her for her to impress you and a little bit of exchanging cool life stories. You want your stories to get her to know you a bit but also they shouldn't make you look bad.
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:31 PM
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Sounds like an excellent place to get physical and escalate - nothing like the old classic "let's both ride bikes and makeout at the same time together" . Just kidding lol. I would just have fun and be playful. Maybe you could tease her about something and give her playful LIGHT pushes ( not while riding the bike, while stopped) - it can be comfortable to get physical playfully while doing an activity. But overall you did not select logistics that lend themselves to getting hot and heavy, so don…
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:29 PM
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What a scrub. Good you cut him out. There absolutely are people out there like this, the only reason they are able to stick around is non dirtbags can not fathom the way they are acting, so it is surreal. Then when you get out of it - you are like what was I doing around that dude?
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:25 PM
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Eliminate him from your life. This is the worst situation when you are treating them like a friend but they are clowning you. It is like being in a fight getting punched in the face while you are trying to put bandages on your opponents knuckles so they feel better lol. Eliminate him from your life, anytime you are in set use it as an opportunity to practice amogging and clowning. He is your enemy, treat him properly.
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:23 PM
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First of all: Punching a dick won't give you any idea how big a dick is, it is not like she grabbed it. Sounds like you got bullied a bit and that really stinks and can make it tough, being in that tough environment is no help. I agree a therapist could be helpful and working out is awesome. The bright side is that you program and make good money. People down play it but money is AMAZINGLY useful. For example money can allow you to say, go backpacking in beautiful nature for a month or two and r…
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:21 PM
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There was actually nothing that happened that would suggest you two would get in touch again. Overall that is really cool that it happened and fun, but that just is not the "vibe" of let's exchange contact and see each other again. It is hard to explain, but it just isn't at all. If you wanted to see a girl like that again hmmm.... you could maybe try flipping the script and not kissing her saying she has to work for it playfully and get her qualifying to you. Even then though this was just a re…
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:17 PM
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Not sure who down voted you - this is EASILY true. 3 is like the "slow" norm. 2nd has been most common for me
/r/seduction01/05/24 12:26 AM
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ABSTOLUTELY This is pretty much the norm. Momentum is really important. A good discussion could be on how to make the bad streaks as short as possible
/r/seduction30/04/24 04:28 PM
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Fair enough - man I must have been super tired when I made the post. Had no idea I wrote "has" until I saw this. Edit: Ahh I think I was going to write "has anyone..." and was so tired I switched midway lol
/r/seduction30/04/24 10:09 AM
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Lol - 12 hours of door walking. That is interesting and makes sense - improvised scenes for reality tv, Thanks for the insider info man, it's really interesting
/r/seduction29/04/24 10:32 PM
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No problem dude! Sure man - this is a topic that I am pretty into. Basically a lot of guys are somewhat anti game and like to over simplify it. I will give a detailed answer on here - or we can mention things like tactics that actually work to get a conversation started or build some interest. And these guys will be like "man, that stuff is so fake - you have to be real and genuine with a girl" type of thing. ( the same guys then often can be found complaining all that matters is looks and they …
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:44 AM
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The books are great. It stinks so much of his stuff disappeared. I think a video course may come out in the next few years lol. He has another book - to read later on called revelations - I am not sure if it is for sale but it seems to be all over the internet. Also I will send you a quick message, just to mention something
/r/seduction28/04/24 09:17 PM
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Mystery can't help it. He has serious mental illness - his advice is brilliant even on inner game etc. People who are truly bipolar in the medical sense there is little that can be done
/r/seduction28/04/24 08:56 PM
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COMPETENCE . As mystery has said - is perhaps more important. You can feel nervous and doubt and still do the right action. But there is a difference between doubt and like self-hatred if that makes sense.
/r/seduction28/04/24 08:40 PM
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Brilliant dude - thanks so much. Sounds like you have a great thought out system. Yeah the courses you mentioned by todd are the ones I used. But I will check out girlfriend game for sure. Which coach made fearless? I google rsd fearless and found nothing but taylor swift stuff haha *edit just had to change RSD to real social dynamics - duh lol. So sounds like max is pretty legit? Owen for example I felt was very untrustworthy and gave crap advice
/r/seduction28/04/24 08:31 PM
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I am sure you'd find someone - just maybe check their game out first. Cheers you are in quebec - I have met women from there and they seem really attractive
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:15 AM
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Ah - I see. Actually I feel like your advice applies more to maintaining a relationship then to meeting women. Having a lot going on seems to really help relationships I believe. But I have found meeting new women to be truly a skillset
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:13 AM
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Alright fair enough haha. I had felt that way at times as well
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:12 AM
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I'd maybe take a look at the longer post I made in this thread. ?Be a bit flexible. I have thought that way as well BUT - a girl that you have to tease and do this with for the first 5 minutes - that has NOTHING to do with what your months or years long relationship is going to be like. Like I totally feel you so much of it seems like nonsense and like "ugghh I gotta do this bs" sometimes. But again you may just have to "play the game" for 10 minutes then you connect - imo a girl needing to be t…
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:04 AM
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Oh cool man. I mostly viewed RSD as scammy - but found Todds programs legit. Interesting to hear some of the other ones have some good stuff. I don't even know of attraction unlocked. Anyone of those you find the most useful?
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:02 AM
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Congrats man- sounds like a blast. Keep it up. I suppose I ought to look for some fashion events haha
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:00 AM
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Man great stuff dude. Love to see these LEGIT game answers and happy to see it is upvoted. Nothing more needs to be said
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:59 AM
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Great job bro - there are LOADS of girls out there. You are on the right track. Keep it up and go hard. It is a great time to put yourself out there.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:57 AM
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Nice bro, hows it been going? Any dates? I used to be there but not at the moment. Seems like game had really died down in NYC
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:56 AM
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Hmm, I think you do not understand, that is not what it is at all. The women like the teasing push away type game - it is not about having the girl go home crying haha. Also are you getting results? I get the feeling you are somewhat philosophical thinking about how things "should" be
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:56 AM
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Do you have sex with a lot of women?
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:52 AM
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Honestly, you are totally correct. At least in the united states and absolutely with younger women. I took some college classes and if those girls SNIFFED interest they turn nasty. But teasing them etc. and they respond well. Philosophically guys may not like this but it is ABSOLUTELY how it is now. That being said, it does not mean this is some awful thing or it is fake or anything. It just means the game strategy is different. Example: Years ago I met an arrogant aloof french girl. As she acte…
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:48 AM
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What is wrong with it is yeah unfourtunately with early 20s women in the US - it has a near zero percent chance of working unfortunately :/
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:43 AM
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More details? Game experience? Styles you are into.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:42 AM
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Do you really mean ANYTHING? I totally get not throwing down $100 for someone you have never heard of. But I think it is a good attitude to be willing to invest a little bit ( in books for example). I did learn a lot from those courses. But it seems like the book "daygame hustle" by tom torrero is good from what I hear. I doubt it is too expensive. The only problem with him is he is a douchebag who lies and says he invented lots of stuff he took word for word from other people - but from a consu…
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:41 AM
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I actually just met one tonight. Seems like when they do they are super down and also often cool girls. Because they are cool with just doing their thing, not really worried about the norm or whatever. As even some guys are nervous to go to clubs a lone, women tend to be much more sensitive to being judged socially ( or seen as a slut looking to hook up) She was, as I said a really cool girl. But I was not attracted to her - I had a nice chat with her and tried some new stuff with her. Usually t…
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:36 AM
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Man, you got down voted for giving a super logical detailed response. Well, I want to thank you man - this is really interesting intelligent useful stuff.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:33 AM
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Ah thanks for sharing mine. I'd be curious to here more about your experiences ( that you can share). I do youtube myself
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:32 AM
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No idea why you got down voted - you make a good point. Also one can EASILY approach 10 women a day/ night. If something worked even 10% of the time in a few weeks you'd be dating a dozen women. The success rate does not need to be so high - but the system does have to work
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:32 AM
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You are likely skipping steps. Also women flake much more now - unfortunately so the bar is a lot higher for a number to turn into dates. How long are your sets? You likely need them to know more about you and for them to invest more into winning you over and to connect more. Basically focus on having the woman very attracted to you, not on getting a number
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:23 AM
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I somewhat disagree. The vibe can throw things off - but also your specific technique and strategy should be looked at. ( op)
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:20 AM
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Lol - thanks for the report. Yeah I saw students also - and the one I talked with was a nice guy but SUPER cringey. I saw Todd winging a student VERY briefly but the girl was quite unattractive ( grenade) but it looked like she was engaged. Out of curiosity you ever see any other known guys? Or just guys whos game really stood out? I used to see this guy around who was a freaking monster. He was like literally 5 ft tall, perhaps indian and I saw him once with a like 6 foot something blond girl w…
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:11 AM
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Hmm - I am coming from a solely in person perspective ( I don't do online game - and I think there is much more bs there). But I could see just making a joke/ teasing her a bit possibly working. LIke cmon goofball - let me show you _____ for a video chat or something. Or maybe invite her to something where other people are - like hey just come to this yoga class I am doing and say hi. I am somewhat speculating - but I have had girls ( cold approach though) be earnest about being nervous and it t…
/r/seduction27/04/24 04:07 AM
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Brilliant bro - very clever you figured that out. Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:38 AM
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Nice! Responding
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:35 AM
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Yeah - it helped me LOADS. To the point I almost can not remember as I have been doing it so long. I almost forget that I was extremely socially anxious in the past. So yes I think it is a good idea. HOWEVER, something important: I also used to work in sales then started up an online business. Basically things that are exciting and high reward but have some risk and ups and downs - cold approach is the same. So a lot of this is EUSTRESS ( the opposite of distress - positive stress) but it is sti…
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:54 AM
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The selfie situation is not a shit test. The title + :you did it, I can do it too!" parts do not make any sense to me, I do not know exactly what you are trying to say but for sure it does not sound like you are describing a shit test.
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:48 AM
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Depends on how good your game is. If you game subtly and consistently get lots of solid numbers from women and almost never have women telling you they "have a boyfriend" it is probably fine. I would not go doing direct game etc. though. Basically you want to have the skillset to approach women where they respond well and you can read them well.
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:45 AM
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Lol that is wild. I was there and approached girls no problem. At the end of the day guys doing bad approaches will always get banned from places. Stuff like dudes doing the running stops in malls living in their own little world. No shit if you are running after girls you will get banned. Doing good subtle game and you'll be fine
/r/seduction16/04/24 05:06 AM
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1000%. Wanting something and working to get better at getting it is a pleasure in general. No different in dating. Same boat - I had never even kissed a girl
/r/seduction16/04/24 05:03 AM
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Why would it be? Subjectively people could perceive it that way but so long as you are meeting willing partners there is nothing wrong about pursuing sex.
/r/seduction15/04/24 10:57 PM
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Nice man, some booty call on speed dial
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:58 AM
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On the money!
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:57 AM
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NO CHANCE. Not to be a debbie downer but this is done, dead and gone. She decided she was done with you by the time she left your place maybe before. Unfortunately it is your emotions that are rationalizing to you that "maybe you can fix it". That is what leads to weird needy texts and things people's emotions not accepting reality. The good thing though is you seem very aware of much of what you did wrong and recognized some of it and are not just totally blind to why she stopped answering. Tha…
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:55 AM
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You need to work out hard. This isn't that much of a crazy question. Human's are supposed to be carrying around heavy shit all day. There are videos of tribes people climbing trees with no branches like nothing, or that really old guy wrestling a freaking shark into a boat. Modern humans are like a quarter as strong as they are meant to be and literally probably have 5% of the endurance ( seriously, a lot of people can not run a half mile at a decent pace and 100% a hunter gatherer can do 10 mil…
/r/seduction13/04/24 11:49 PM
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Glad to hear man! Lol what are those maniacs thinking, I am for sure not a morning person
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:39 AM
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No problem dude! Glad it is helpful! You will get it for sure. The really cool secret is, once eating healthier stuff is a long term habit you actually enjoy eating way MORE since your tastebuds become more sensitive. There is also strategy involved. EXAMPLE: I get entire bags of frozen blueberries - they are a pound. If I eat the whole bag at once I feel like I "binge ate" like I stuffed myself - guess how many calories that is? Like 200 or 250 or something like that. Whereas like a bagel or so…
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:33 AM
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There is really nothing wrong with selling courses. Some guys have this weird mentality of never spending money on anything like everything should be free. I am not saying you need to buy a course. But having a mentality like " I only want to learn from people who don't sell anything!" is just kind of weird/lame. It's just been my experience, like I'd be in pick up groups and you'd have these guys who were socially weird coders who made 170k a year but would refuse to pay $10 covers or pay for a…
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:37 AM
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Lol. Man I want to give you a round of applause. You summed it up so much quicker then me. The art of game died lol. Oh well it is nice you can use routines from the freaking "the game" book and no one has heard them
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:32 AM
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"The only women I've seen chase guys who outright ignored them were the legit psychos." You mean 90% of women chase guys who outright ignore them?
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:31 AM
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Yes sort of. Showing not too much investment and a decent amount of disinterest is pretty good. On the flip side it is a bit tough nowadays as girls do have so much stimulation and opportunities to date that taking rain checks on dates still can result in losing the dates. My friend for example cancels dates all of the time and loses out on tons of opportunities ( actually two friends) Both guys have long/permanent dry spells so they have a little fear they have not admitted to themselves, and t…
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:30 AM
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Yeah man toastmasters rocks! If you can get real consistent for about a year you can usually get really solid and it sticks with you. I went hard at it for a year and wow what a difference. I remember I would go to toastmasters then I'd go out that night and just talk to groups of girls - the same way I'd give a speech - just speaking that way and making eye contact with each one and they'd hang on each word. Then it was SO easy to just then pick the girl I wanted as it was so cool to them the w…
/r/seduction09/04/24 03:33 AM
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I mean there are two different ways of looking at it. Through the lens of reality or through the lense of a philosophy. Yes in reality being an amazing singer will attract 10 times more women then being an amazing dungeons and dragons player, no matter how passionate and pumped about it you are. As a personal example - I found a hobby that requires fine motor coordination and practice. Another hobby that requires fine motor coordination is tech deck skateboards. I could choose either hobby - but…
/r/seduction09/04/24 03:29 AM
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Nice man keep it up. I personally find "all or nothing" works just fine in eating. I NEVER eat processed sugar or simple carbs. I have basically been eating Paleo for over half my life at this point and it is easy, as after awhile my body and mind basically forgot that something like Oreos is food. I always get shocked when I see people eating like "gushers" and things - my mind is like "wait people actually eat that stuff?" Also - something that I heard I forget where it was a video or podcast …
/r/seduction09/04/24 01:24 AM
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Oh dude that is HUGE. Lose your gut ASAP. So in addition to the hobbies get your nutrition in order. On that note I will add hiking as a great hobby. People do not realize but burning calories is more about total movement then intensity. For example you can go on like an hour or hour and a half hike and burn well over a thousand calories. It is one of the best ways to lose weight
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:46 PM
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Sigh. This theoretical stuff can be annoying. It is perfectly true that some hobbies are more attractive and useful. Tons of guys who are the best in the world and love what they do openly admit they started because they thought it would get them women lol. A lot of guys say philosophical stuff like this but don't get any results.
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:44 PM
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PUBLIC SPEAKING. Not quite the same in terms of meeting women directly (albeit if you give a good speech often a few women will throw themselves at you). But the carry over to being confident, and good with women is massive. It is really a great skill everyone should develop
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:41 PM
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Lol fair enough. I am strong opinioned lol - ( but at the same time I will flip like a pancake ). If I find out Mark mason shit can get me better results then I do now - I will immediately go all in on mark mason and pretend I never said that lol. Like I said I’d rather get results then be right. Cool though we can have civil disagreement ( well I am uncivil towards manson but among eachother) . I’d just focus on the process. Like the details I mentioned when it comes to the hottest girls. The s…
/r/seduction05/04/24 06:22 AM
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Thanks bro! Totally always glad when a few guys get it. More women for us haha
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:50 AM
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You're welcome bro. I would say start with reading the "mystery method" book. Also see if you can find toastmasters meetings near you - it is a public speaking club and can help with your delivery which is a part of game. Those are good starts . Also reading books out loud and varying your pitch, volume and speed - practicing different pauses can really help a lot too. Then you also think of cool things to say that work and look up old school pua routines. I don't really have tons of time but I …
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:56 AM
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Mark Manson is an overweight sex tourist who had sex with a handful of impoverished Brazilian women by way of being a Caucasian American and then wrote books as if he were an expert on dating. Generally hotter girls can handle a bit harsher teasing. But it varies girl to girl. Especially now a days the gap is closing. Girls get huge amounts of attention on social media and have much less respect for guys showing interest in them then in the past. I find for example college age girls almost all n…
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:33 AM
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Yeah man not rare at all lol. Great stuff about the challenge dude! That is motivating to hear - nice to hear about guys actually going for it. I am aiming to step up my game this month as well
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:05 AM
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* I've never caught a girl cheating on me in my life* I mean I think I have never been cheated on either but girls are very slick. All the girls who cheated with me ( usually they did not tell me about the boyfriends until later the guys thought they were faithful) and loads of girls fooled me into thinking they were single - so hard for us to be sure
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:05 AM
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Great stuff - uggghh I didn't even see your answer as it was hidden and had a downvote. Siggghh a rare person who understands game and mystery method - oddly it's like being the black sheep on a SEDUCTION reddit . Oh well it is kind of ultra nice that real game is back totally underground - makes it so easy and all the old routines are new again
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:17 PM
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I know a guy who worked in mortgage brokering and made bank the guy HE worked for had a lazy eye and was super confident and basically the man at the office. You could tell girls obviously liked him and he was making at least 500k a year ( like 7 years ago) which is probably like 750k- a million today with the lockdown induced inflation turning dollars into basically monopoly money lol Anyways at the end of the day seems like you can't control it? - so do what you can, eye exercises. Then focus …
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:01 PM
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I am totally confused. She said no to hanging out but she came back and you had her number?
/r/seduction03/04/24 08:05 PM
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Wait what are you kidding? Did this really happen? You asked her out like four times she said no everytime and you kept coming back? Forget everything I said in my first reply then. The guy you were with was just rescuing her from you. Are you crazy approaching a girl 4 times who said no everytime.
/r/seduction03/04/24 08:00 PM
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So, there are two really different situations. When you are approaching a girl and a random dude tries to cut on. OR this where you are hanging out with a leach/scumbag/jealous clown. In that case it is pretty difficult when the person is nominally your friend and now your friend is competing with you for a girl or disrespecting you. It just looks awful as you look sort of like two desperate hungry losers ( not your fault, his fault). The solution is simple - cut the dude out 100%. he is not a f…
/r/seduction03/04/24 07:49 PM
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1000% Guys like that are toxic.
/r/seduction03/04/24 07:43 PM
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No wrong, 100% if your game is very good girls will rarely tell you they have boyfriends. I don't think a girl has directly said to me " I have a boyfriend" this year. If you have very good social saavy and game girls will not feel like they need to tell you that to get you to back off. I am not saying all girls will cheat or that you want to get a girl to cheat ( though unfortunately when you have good game girls CONSTANTLY lie about being single to have sex with you) - but " I have a boyfriend…
/r/seduction27/03/24 05:51 AM
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Nonsense
/r/seduction24/03/24 07:15 AM
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Worked for what? For getting fake phone numbers?
/r/seduction24/03/24 07:14 AM
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Have you had sex this year?
/r/seduction24/03/24 07:14 AM
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It is over. If she says she has a boyfriend she is not interested. Any objection or word game you use is just annoying to her and will result in her giving you a fake number to get rid of you. If girl's constantly tell you they have boyfriends you show too much interest without building enough attraction and you are not subtle enough.
/r/seduction24/03/24 07:12 AM
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Good job dude! Yes definitely ditch those friends. Bad wings are just bad wings it is like bringing a cock block/ set interrupter around with you. Actually that is literally exactly what it is. I had a guy do that and I just ghosted him - helped a lot
/r/seduction24/02/24 09:17 AM
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o Lol - do you have a link. I want to check that out haha
/r/seduction24/02/24 09:16 AM
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That stuff is super annoying. I used to have it happen more. It is still something I want to continue developing ( but part of game) but a few things perhaps could help: Body language/ fashion. If you are leaning into the girl or the girl is facing out you look like more of a target. If you are say sitting next to a girl it is tougher. If your back is to a wall and the girl is facing you it is also tough. ( for another guy to come into the set I mean) - it just gets more awkward for him and is a…
/r/seduction24/02/24 09:12 AM
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Haha - I do not know who this Rob dude is but your response definitely sums up his advice here lol. These guys are almost trolls. Every response being basically a non answer blame yourself type of thing
/r/seduction24/02/24 09:04 AM
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I normally don't trust RSD guys BUT - I am totally down to give it a go and try stuff. Any particular Jeffy videos on this that you like/ recommend on this topic? There are quite a few videos
/r/seduction24/02/24 09:01 AM
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Good stuff. Yeah good you tossed the girl. She was part of the problem it seems for sure. Way too rude/ disrespectful in terms of being cool with flirting with other dudes.
/r/seduction24/02/24 08:59 AM
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Why are loser haters like you in this sub?
/r/seduction24/02/24 08:58 AM
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Awesome dude - will try it
/r/seduction24/02/24 08:56 AM
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Thanks bro! That is super helpful. Especially being reminded that " women out there who want to experience 3somes and more". It is like how as a newb realizing oh yeah women want to date and have sex too. That was not in my mind - like oh yeah the women actually WANT 3somes. These girls both talked about making out with girls in college and stuff too ( the last one). Such a good reminder - it's not like " I want a 3 some!" remember many of the women want it too and just lead them through it. Man…
/r/seduction20/02/24 06:06 AM
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YES - porn is proven to rewire the brain in bad ways. It does depend on the person though - but it seems like most guys who started porn young it has some negative impact. Some it is much worse. A lot of guys get PIED -( porn induced erectile dysfunction) - where they can get hard with porn but not with a girl. Mystery reccomends don't masturbate - orgasm with a woman only. He says it will motivate you to go out. You are either home with a girl or going out ( home a lone masturbating not an opti…
/r/seduction20/02/24 01:48 AM
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Yeah I agreee. My bad if I was not clear. It is 2 different stories. The first one FOR SURE - that was the way to go. And dude - now that I heard it it sounds obvious but the massage one while the other massages would have been solid
/r/seduction20/02/24 01:45 AM
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Thanks dude - yeah that makes sense. Now that I think about it earlier in the night things went great and it was like that - a lot more of me laying back
/r/seduction20/02/24 01:44 AM
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Yeah man - and like I said it is not a big deal. It is not so serious. If you are dating a woman for 4 years and might get married and realize you both are living a lie - that is serious drama haha. But - the first few texts with a girl? It's nothing. Big picture
/r/seduction20/02/24 01:43 AM
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You should not feel like you are asking for anything. If you have sex with a girl you met - it is a massive win-win for you both. Women love being attracted to someone, having fun, connecting and getting comfortable and having sex too. If you do have sex with a girl all of that will happen. So it is always mutual when successful
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:07 PM
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You need a bigger picture perspective. Right now you are in the EARLIEST stage of meeting the girl. Being unique and getting to know each other happens later. Basically you want immediate connection and rapport with girls you just met. This is a turn off for her - because when you start having a lot of sex with girls - you realize that the real relationship starts AFTER you are having sex. Basically you are looking at this from the perspective of a guy who does not have success with women - whic…
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:04 PM
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1) focus on the skillset and the process of getting better 2) realize your success rate can be extremely low and you can still have a great dating life. This is not something that needs a high success rate ( that does not mean make it a numbers game as a lot things have a success rate of zero) BUT - if you have a system that CAN attract hot girls. Imagine your success rate is 1%. You approach 5 girls a day. In 20 days you have sex with a hot girl! In 3 months your are having sex with 2-3 hot gir…
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:57 PM
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Wow great stuff man - it is unfortunately rare to see legit good practical advice here lately
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:54 PM
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Sick bro. Any tips on getting into the industry?
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:42 AM
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Sign me up
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:39 AM
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Sigh. Game is dead isn’t it lol
/r/seduction08/02/24 01:10 AM
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I take classes at a college that is 90% female - more than half commuters - it's in a big city ( i.e it is not like small town campus life where everyone knows each other). And classes just started so they mostly don't have their social schedules solidified - so are often free before/after class/ have nothing to do. Oh yeah and probably 2/3rds of the dudes are gay. And no one can access it without a school id lol. It is a monstrously good situation and I am a fool that I have not taken advantage…
/r/seduction05/02/24 03:04 AM
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Cool dude! I'll give it a try. Seems simple - but simple in a good way. I believe you that it works. I totally imagine doing it especially very casually with the invite works really well. I'll try it next time I get a chance at daygame. Probably monday. Edit: I am trying to be more methodical in my game and try specific things. So hmm part of me thinks it'd be fun to specifically go out and do this opener like 5x and field report it ( I'll give you credit of course" could be fun like " field rep…
/r/seduction04/02/24 09:05 AM
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Lol siiicckk. Last night and tonight were dope. I had so much fun with the two girls. Part of me is considering a field report here but I probably won't - this reddit there are cool guys but almost every time I post about getting laid I get like 60% mad comments from losers saying I am lying lol. Like guys are ultra offended that their weird game ideas don't get them laid but that some guys actually get laid. I say to my friend I swear in game a lot of guys prefer being "right" to getting laid. …
/r/seduction04/02/24 09:00 AM
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What up bro! You end up setting anything up? I tool two girls home last night - dude it is dope. We didn’t not have sex but cuddled in bed and stuff and it was a blast hope I see em again but I am learning the strategy for it
/r/seduction04/02/24 04:08 AM
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Dude! Great thread idea. One tip - if you are decent dancer. Just really dancing and having fun with a huge smile and moving around the dancefloor you can get lots of IOIs. I then would see the same girls in other areas of the club and they were already attracted. Not exactly "dancefloo" per se - but it is a use of the dancefloor I find works
/r/seduction01/02/24 07:34 PM
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Just six! It was pretty cool. Their model seems to be sort of "premium" but small ( like I said the dudes were ballers, one of the guys is doing the LA bootcamp so two in a month lol). It was pretty great. It was me and five other guys plus Mystery and Beckster. We had a lot of comradery. I learned loads but the part that surprised me was it was really fun, like we all joked around and stuff. My game is going pretty well! I have plans to hang out with a hottie today. There is another I am messag…
/r/seduction01/02/24 07:28 PM
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I'd bet there are
/r/seduction30/01/24 06:23 AM
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Go up to 10 guys in a row you do not know and say "hey, I like your cock, can I touch it?" with whatever you feel is the proper way of saying it is and report your results back to us.
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:54 AM
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Well put man! I agree on that. People over simplify for sure.
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:53 AM
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Are you able to qualify for MENSA?
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:53 AM
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Fuck yeah dude - very very good point. Being jacked makes a HUGE difference. My good friend has HORRIBLE game total AFC ( great guy but a typical nice guy sort of chump with girls). but he is super jacked and girls always respond well to him and it's like they "want" it to go well. He has to fuck up repeatedly to put girls off.
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:52 AM
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Dude that is super dope! I'd love to exchange information that we learned on the bootcamps. Maybe I'll shoot you a message on here?
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:50 AM
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Cool! What was it like with Colgate? Mystery said the 3 best in field ( other then his self I assume) are matador, colgate and beckster. He said Colgate is "phenomenal" . What was it like?
/r/seduction29/01/24 01:16 AM
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Haha - man this is wildly concise. Probably the best description of game one could possibly put in one sentence.
/r/seduction28/01/24 09:52 AM
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haha siiicckkk dude. That is dope the hookups. Yeah - it I think went super well for guys like that who have the dating and stuff down - but learned the nightgame techniques to build the value and work the hot ass girls. I went to cold ass Toronto ( cause mystery is living there again lol) and even that was pretty dope. Was surprised at how the girls were pretty freaking hot. My key is to just KEEP doing what I learned. Because I have/had decent game and I notice I want to like fall back into my…
/r/seduction28/01/24 09:34 AM
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Short answer is no. I say that because there is no reason to "approach" her. Guys seem hell bent on obviousl walking across a chasm in a straight line to initiate a conversation. You could easily fall into a conversation with her, flirt a bit and go from there. But it all depends on your skill. For me the main indicator is this: Do you often get dates with girls off of cold approach? If you do not the answer is do not go for a girl who is working. As if your game does not work on a girl who is n…
/r/seduction28/01/24 04:17 AM
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Dude she couldn't have gotten much more direct than that. I think it meant that the girl thinks that " you'd be intimidating but you're note. You're nice. I had fun" It's a good compliment
/r/seduction27/01/24 08:27 PM
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It is pretty rare I think so not something I would worry about much. I would overall keep it simple and just not do things you don't want to do - like buy girls stuff. I feel like girl's also will like touch your arm a bit slowly when letting a guy down or asking for something. But when they like you they touch you more quickly, sort of excited/nervous. But that is the sort of thing that could lead to overthinking. The simple answer: Don't buy her stuff.
/r/seduction27/01/24 08:25 PM
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No prob! good luck
/r/seduction27/01/24 08:23 PM
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It is a field report. I basically said that I had a great time , learned and recommended canned and structured game. It is not only their routines that are good but the concept of routine based game in general. But yeah, I mean I did pay a lot and don't want 1,000s of guys saying the same stuff I am saying lol. I am logical about it. Having sex with lots of women MASSIVELY increases my quality of life. I'd rather live in an average apartment with a revolving door of hotties I am banging then a s…
/r/seduction27/01/24 06:38 PM
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I mean - I think you answered your own question lol. Bartender sounds great and your buddy already set the path.
/r/seduction27/01/24 09:25 AM
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If you really think about it "be yourself" is basically a bullshit term. It does not really mean anything. A very old school dating book talked about this and had great points. If you are in a job interview and the woman interviewing you is hot are you "not being yourself" if you do not hit on her? If you are in church and need to burp are you "not being yourself" if you are discreet and don't just belch over the sermon? As human's we have a prefrontal cortex and were never meant to simply act o…
/r/seduction27/01/24 09:21 AM
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YES - I just saw a few guys in their 40s crush it. Mystery is 52 and still games well and Beckster is 46. But I saw a few guys in their 40s just learning and they did great
/r/seduction27/01/24 09:17 AM
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No problem dude - I just got back from gaming so good timing. I absolutely would with one caveat - it is freaking expensive. Literally like 5-10k depending on the option. The LA one is coming up and is slightly cheaper I know. It was small and most of the guys there were total ballers. I was lucky and had a good month of business which is what allowed me to go. But I am still progressing towards being a baller like those guys. It was an awesome group of guys though. Like super positive dudes - m…
/r/seduction27/01/24 08:54 AM
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EXACTLY. And actually Mystery was adamant that for DHV stories you actually use real stories. So - like routines they give you are just like fun little games and openers for the first few minutes. Then you work on creating your own DHV stories. Guys who are anti routines - usually have routines. They say and do the same things often ( that is simply how human's work) but they do it without awareness and poorly. I find that on many game forums - it is more important for guys to be right then it i…
/r/seduction27/01/24 01:54 AM
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I mean you don't have to. I don't get why there are so many angry dudes who are mad at the idea at ever paying for anything. It is a weird thing in pick up - guys would have good jobs and not want to pay $5 cover charge. There are tons of routines online and information on how to make them. But yes - I did get better training for a few k then you will get for free - why would that be hard to understand? How about instead of I give you some stuff I paid for - you give me some stuff you paid for? …
/r/seduction27/01/24 01:47 AM
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It’s really not like that with routines. It is hard to describe. No one gets it lol. Idk like comedians can tell the same jokes and feel connected to the audience and spontaneous I feel like people just repeat the same stuff over and over about routines and real game - but have not actually seen or tried it I call it real game because “ be confident and approach women” to me is fine but there is no point in going to reddit for that
/r/seduction26/01/24 08:36 PM
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Okay - I am not going to go into the exact routine/ lines because I want them for me lol. Also Bluntly I don’t like this reddit much, paid a lot for them and I am only going to share specifics with my friends. But - Beckster gave a quick one liner for loud clubs. And I’d say it and I think literally every girl laughed and responded well ( I also have good delivery) then with teo I ran another routine right after and BOTH asked for my instagram. I need more stuff in between to make it better but …
/r/seduction26/01/24 08:28 PM
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You’re not the same aceofspades from facebook who is obese and lies about getting laid are you?
/r/seduction26/01/24 08:23 PM
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How are your results? How many women are you dating?
/r/seduction26/01/24 08:20 PM
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Oh - no I have done that style of game. But I just had no clue how good one can get at this stuff. A lot of the guys posting anti routine stuff do not get what it is like doing and learning it in person. By “modern” game standards I am advanced. Like I am better than just about everyone I wing with. But advanced to these guys is shit like - going to the same strip club 3 nights in a row and pulling a stripper. Or going out approaching 5 women and having sex with 4 or 5 of them. It’s a matter of …
/r/seduction26/01/24 08:19 PM
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OH - in terms of sex a GREAT book. ( not sure if it is even still around). Is the sex god method ( and crap there was another great one I can not remember lol). Basically these books taught a lot about the "vibe" and mental side of sex. Overall my experience has been dweeby nerdy stuff like turning a vagina into a freaking complex biology experiment is not like "real" or all that sexy. Wherea's like getting the mental sides of sex really makes for great sex. Like our ancestors did not pull out a…
/r/seduction26/01/24 07:33 AM
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I think the mystery method is good but hard to learn from the book. BUT - understanding the idea of Attract her - qualify her. Is so key. Like I used to have a girl attracted to me, then I'd ask her to hang out and they would lose interest immediately I was like WTF! But from that book the main lesson I learned was - when a girl likes you that you have to ask her questions and let her basically tell you about herself in a way that she is trying to win you over a bit first THEN you escalate thing…
/r/seduction26/01/24 07:24 AM
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Good shit dude! Yeah I guess worth a look to hold my nose and try and read that shit to grab some of his skills lol. Or better to read it from you guys
/r/seduction26/01/24 07:17 AM
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I respect differing opinions but gosh I hate that author's vibe lol. He is such a simp new age type. All about like men enjoying sex is bad. Tying to male feminst and submit his way into a girls panties. However, I think though I may have learned like to start eating a girl out by licking her pussy bottom to top - from that Not sure if it was from his book. I am pretty sure I was a teenager read a bit of it then tore it in half cause I didn't like the dude lol. But I'd be curious if you learned …
/r/seduction26/01/24 02:12 AM
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He is doing a bootcamp in toronto in January I know and some online thing this month.
/r/seduction20/12/23 04:12 AM
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Mystery is still active actually and his stuff is super legit - just not as mainstream. Pua is actually better than ever - especially legit game with social saavy.
/r/seduction02/12/23 02:45 AM
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Aaahh glad I am not the only one who was confused. That is fing nasty lol
/r/seduction10/09/23 09:00 AM
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Oh bummer about that drama. Oh yeah I was thinking more pre relationship/sex. Maybe it’s different during as well and person to person.
/r/seduction01/09/23 07:47 PM
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Good point about the awareness - that shit can be a game changer
/r/seduction01/09/23 07:46 PM
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Hmmm - a little but not even CLOSE to the level it does with women . It can attract women solely on it’s own and actual overtly being unattracted to them, not just a hard to get type thing
/r/seduction01/09/23 01:23 PM
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Sort of - but also girls sort of sense it when you are not that into them/ feeling it and it makes them super into you. Women are weird. So you also kind of gamed her perfectly unintentionally. I am not saying it is a good way to game. But like aside from if she is into you she is into you, not being into her can make her wayyy more into you. I remember I was in this workout class and there was one of those resentful man hating girls with nasty hairy armpits - sticking out in a tank top - I was …
/r/seduction01/09/23 06:16 AM
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Meh, it's no big deal. To me people over think - but not in the sense that one shouldn't game and just " be ones self". But in that : hey who the hell cares - if you want something and don't have it, figure out how to get it. I wanted to date, was not dating. I have and had insane levels of desire for sex and affection with women - much more than the average guy. I worked really hard at game and ended up wayyyy out performing guys who had it come naturally in terms of my dating success. And I am…
/r/seduction01/09/23 04:32 AM
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Straight up
/r/MensRights29/08/23 04:34 AM
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Absolutely - this has been a long term trend, the " buffoon husband"
/r/MensRights29/08/23 04:34 AM
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It is not surprising at all. This attitude is the norm in colleges. It is a bummer, but I'd just find a different therapist.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:46 AM
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Well sure, if you have the proper premise things make sense. The premise is " Whatever is best for me and feels good for me is right and whatever is not is evil" So body shaming refers to weight ( within someone control) because it effects women more. But height is perfectly fine to shame because it is a pressure on men. Then just any logic/ changing the meanings of words/values can be created to support the end goal.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:44 AM
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I would just move on. It's basically a turn down. But, Not sure where I read it ( here) but one guy built it all up and said he'd get this girl the best drink ever and have it sent to her. He had the waiter deliver a cup of water to the girl LOL. I will probably do that just for fun if it happens to me. That being said, I have not had a girl ask me to buy her a drink in many years. I am guessing your game is pretty upfront, so the girls know you are hitting on them, some lame ass girls think "he…
/r/seduction10/07/23 05:17 PM
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Why not? Dating apps are kind of a ridiculous way of dating if you think about it. So I think it is lovely that us humans won't have to handle it in the future. I never did online dating but I'd be happy to use AI. I feel like men got kind of forced into this awful online dating situation, it is best to totally depersonalize it and this is an awesome way to make the best of the online dating situation
/r/seduction30/06/23 08:07 PM
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When you say positive interactions : Do you mean that the girls are friendly or that you end up having sex with the girl? My hypothesis, is this line is so polite and "nice" with a compliment it is hard socially for a girl to respond negatively to it. I feel that a lot of direct game the girls are nice to the guy but don't take him seriously. "It's like aww cute he complimented me" but don't bang the guy. I could be wrong though, but that is my hypothesis, is I have seen that a lot guys who get …
/r/seduction18/06/23 06:53 PM
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