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Now that you've articulated your position well, I'll respond in kind. I react with a hostile and shitty attitude to poor reasoning. I think that one of the most condemnable features of mankind is groupthink. Working up a circlejerk around poor reasoning is a behavior that needs to be shamed, especially in a community that is supposed to be oriented around critical, objective thinking. The poster I responded to used poor reasoning. I responded shittily towards him, because frankly, that's what he…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 12:40 AM
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Rape culture is an idea that is out of touch with reality.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 12:07 AM
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You're right that there is a rape culture concerning women Ahahaha. This is great. I never once said such a thing...and I don't believe it. And apparently I sound like a feminazi when 50% of the text of my first post is this: Just because your opponent is full of shit, doesn't mean you have to be. Stop perpetuating sensationalist nonsense. Yeah. Calling over the top feminists full of shit sure makes me sound like a feminist. You're continually leaping to conclusions, glossing over a full half of…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 09:47 PM
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Holy fuck I love manipulating people, is that a good thing? For you, definitely.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 05:41 PM
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So don't be a damn Feminazi and go thinking that because rape on women is more acknowledged it must also be so much harder to deal with. What the fuck are you going on about? I called out the idiot above me for claiming there specifically is a rape culture and it is only against men. It's knee jerk bullshit. I'm no feminist, but I'm also not going to agree with every MRA-like statement someone makes just to join a circlejerk.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 05:40 PM
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Met my first one in awhile a few months ago, I almost felt bad around her.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:34 PM
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Work on your reading comprehension skills.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:12 PM
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I hope this is a bad joke. If it isn't, I'll elaborate for you.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:05 PM
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Agreed, quite a few of his sources don't match up to his rhetoric.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:56 PM
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Women are still raped more than men. The notion that there is a 'rape culture against men' if there isn't one against women is absurd. Just because your opponent is full of shit, doesn't mean you have to be. Stop perpetuating sensationalist nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:55 PM
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As you pointed out, though -- it IS trainable. And someone who knows how to prioritize shouldn't take long to figure out that training mental willpower and physical fitness together has a double whammy effect in that the former will give you more ability to direct effort, and the latter will give you more energy / reduce the amount of effort necessary to do most things.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 09:12 PM
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Indeed. I recall a girl railing on how I was "fat shaming" her for being at her "natural weight" when I said I didn't want to hook up with her because she was fat. I laughed. Not to long later, I offered her water or tea, and she asked for soda...in just...the most...disgustingly excited way. I did something I shouldn't have: for the sake of the peace, I did not point out that if she regularly consumes soda, she is nowhere near her "natural weight".
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 09:10 PM
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Personally, I say good for her. The guy who's paying is the sucker. I think she should be commended for her intelligent opportunism and marketing. Most women just give their virginity away to a sappy high school boyfriend or the local neighborhood badboy. This girl is making over half a million dollars off of it. That could easily turn into a $20k/year income stream that grows with inflation using no-brainer investment strategies. I'd do it, if I could.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:55 PM
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No shit?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 09:23 PM
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No kids, no alimony. I left her. She actually gave me more than my fair share of departing assets. Or tried to, I refused to take it.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 01:20 PM
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Castration, perhaps?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:20 PM
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My ex wife earned just over six figures, while I earned just under 6 figures. She was also about a year and a half older than me (although we both often forgot this as she appears very youthful and perky, and I have always had an older vibe to me). It was definitely kind of weird at first, but we were so frugal that it essentially didn't matter. We were spending less than half of our money, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:14 PM
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I'm skeptical, but honestly, I would have to thank whoever had the balls to make that kind of decision.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:02 PM
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At the end of the day, I can't help but feel I'm alienating myself more and more from the maintream. Not that I regret swallowing the red pill. Do you have any RP or semi-RP friends or family?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:00 PM
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Adam got AMOG'd by a fucking talking snake. Beta as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:16 PM
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the only reason it has a functioning economy in many parts of the country is the low corporation tax rate which encourages foreign companies to invest The above is true even of "some parts" of the US, Britain, or Germany. Ireland has an exceptionally well developed and productive economy (in fact, better developed than Germany and Britain in many ways), I'm not sure what you're getting at here.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:14 PM
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This obviously is true for 1st world countries. Africans and Indians should stop breading, for their own sake Eh, we Westerners are a small fraction of the world's population, but we're dependent on almost all of the world's natural resources to sustain our lifestyle. Meanwhile the poorer countries of the world support very large populations while operating on only a fraction of their nation's resources, while the oligarchs sell the difference to rich foreigners for a pittance. I'd say we Wester…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:10 PM
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We may. I have a suspicion that it will be too little too late, given that even if reproduction continues to taper off the way it does, we're still looking at capping out at around 10 billion people in a few decades.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:41 PM
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Ah, I hadn't thought of LA. That surprises me less than other places on the west coast would. But it still surprises me.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:48 PM
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Amen to that. I think that for a lot of boys, though, that growth will eventually come. It's hard not to get swept up, especially when you're young. As you get older and your emotions start mellowing, it becomes a lot easier to see things for what they are and prioritize accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:46 PM
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He may not have liked it, but it sounds to me like you got him thinking. Good on you.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:43 PM
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Do you live in the midwest by any chance? It's definitely all over the coasts.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:25 PM
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Yeah, I'm personally all for eugenics. In fact, I think one of humanity's great failings at present is the massive aversion to eugenics we have. It looks like China will probably counteract this, though -- given their pro-PGD attitude and willingness to regulate births, it's not much further to go until not only is number of children limited, but Gattaca-like genetic selection of fittest embryos or something along those lines becomes very normal. A smaller group of more elite people will mean a …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:23 PM
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I understand this so well. When I was younger and a Christian, I was very BP...and constantly hated myself for the way I treated women, even though they seemed to like it. Resolving that cognitive dissonance has been amazing.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:12 PM
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I should give latin dance another try. The only salsa club I've been to was populated by wrinkled smokers. The cutest girl there was a 7. I was unimpressed. Now that you've got me thinking about it, I realize this is probably not uniform.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:09 PM
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I'm 26, live on the West Coast, and have been with around 20 women.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:07 PM
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Well, regardless of the macrosexual situation, my own experience is that inexperienced women are fairly easy to come by.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:07 PM
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I'd rather not.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:06 PM
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Hahahaha. I was with a beautiful 22 year old virgin just a couple of months ago. Though she was a huge prude before I got to her. She spent a lot of time overseas (in Japan) where men were not exactly the sexy beasts we have come to expect. A few months before that, I got together with a 19 year old virgin. Not 2 weeks ago I sexed up with another girl who had been with 3 men in her life before me. She was...23, I think? It's largely a matter of what circles you move in and who you attract. I hav…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:06 PM
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In a row...?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:46 PM
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For a genuine LTR, I probably wouldn't accept anything above 4 or so. Preferably 2 or less. About 1/4 of the women I've been with were virgins, and maybe another 1/4 had less than 4 partners. So these women aren't particularly scarce.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:43 PM
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This jives with my experience as well. Particularly in women with more masculine personalities who want to prove how fulfilled they are in life.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:27 PM
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Holy shit...I don't look entirely unlike that model.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:15 PM
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Some behaviors make women angry and frustrated at the same time they are found attractive. Similarly, some beta behaviors evoke respect or flattery even if they are boring or low value. The key is to find a woman who wants a balance in your behavior that roughly matches how you'd like to behave. Me, personally, I love having women on the side. Although all women are attracted to the preselection of a successful philanderer, some will find it intolerably disrepectful. Others will just find it hot…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:36 PM
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Game is a part of SMV. "SMV" isn't about "getting the door open", it's about getting through the door. If you are superficially attractive and high initial interest, but can never close a deal, you have low SMV.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 06:08 PM
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Most girls who flirt with you are at least interested. But interested does not mean 'sold', and the sexual marketplace is full of perils for men. There's a tightrope to walk, and the most innocuous thing can send you tumbling off of it without even realizing it. I find that if a girl flirts with me, and I am playfully persistent and dominant towards her, most of the time she'll go along with it, eventually. I know how to read signals and back off, though. I'd hate to see the ugly aftermath of a …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 06:03 PM
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My own perspective has been to have some fun, accumulate wealth, make good friends, and constantly improve my skills in all kinds of ways. HAM radio operation, first aid, hell, I do some sailing from time to time. I know how to build things. I have rapidly decreasing debts and within a year, I'll be piling on cash which I'll use to buy income-producing real estate. The way I see it, society as a whole is changing. Some parts of it for better, some for worse. Things certainly are becoming harder.…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:37 PM
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Attitudes amongst young men shifting IS important. Possibly the most important thing. Our society is still dependent on talented and diligent men moreso than any other group.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:35 PM
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That's actually a great frame. Her frame is, "you're talking to other girls (explicit), and it's bad (implicit)". Your frame agrees with the explicit part of her frame, because it's true. It dismisses casually the implicit part of her frame with the so/and. It's a terse mixed message which gets right to the point. It's way more alpha than the tryhardish responses given above. Although the "yea, and I'm sleeping with all of them" is of similar quality.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:05 PM
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Agreed, it just sounds bizarre and tryhard.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:59 PM
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I wouldn't go with number 2 as it rewards her jealousy. Our brains really like it when we're sexy, so they pick up on that stuff. Honestly, the whole thing seems weird. Wtf is OP doing in his relationships that a girl would consider bringing up something lime this, especially in a confrontational manner?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:58 PM
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You sound like a fucking pussy. PIV IS the gold standard for virginity everywhere but your fairytale dreamland.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 05:31 AM
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I have a negative net worth. I have an 8/10 lady friend who comes over, sucks my cock, and makes me dinner a couple of times a week without even expecting reciprical pleasure. I bed multiple new girls a month when I'm in the mood. My score by your scale? Deep in the red. So no, your aspie as shit formula attempting to quantify attraction into a single number in all situations is not right.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 05:27 AM
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Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:34 PM
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If someone tries persistently, I personally do give a shit. Because that leads to success. Trying is a sign of a future successful person, assuming their goals are reasonable.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 08:05 PM
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Meh, i've spent a few Fridays in playing video games. The longest I have gone without fucking in the last year was about 3 weeks. Not so much an incel. Then again, nobody who knows me believes I play video games 30+ hours/week.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:40 AM
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Not long ago, a girl came on to me. I told her straight up, I couldn't be her boyfriend. She got visibly upset but played it cool and said she was bit looking for anything serious. We hooked up; she felt like she couldn't back out because she just told me she had no expectations, I think. Six months later, she's engaged to a well to do nerdy guy who has never been in a relationship before. I feel so sorry for him. Sbe's going to get bored and hamster her way into half of his possessions. I am th…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:52 AM
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Can you play it for us?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:03 PM
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Man, I know what you mean, I really do. After about 2.5 years with a woman, I shared a weakness. A real insecurity. She was clearly disturbed and troubled by it. She actually grew to like me more as a person afterwards and found me more relateable...but way less sexy, it was easy to tell.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:01 PM
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Animals actually rarely fight. Mostly they posture. More rarely they pseudo fight (think rams butting horns). Rarely to they straight up try to injure each other. Injuries are energetically and thus reproductively expensive. Humans are among the most violent mammals ever, and we also heal crazy fast and easily have the biggest energy budgets for our size. Coincidence?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 02:49 PM
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I want to live in a neofeudal society.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:12 PM
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I need to find me some alpha friends.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 04:24 PM
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I went through something somewhat similar, but I did just straight up leave my wife. I didn't have TRP, I just knew I needed to be alone and regain the manhood I had stopped developing. That was a little over a year ago. We're now divorced after a 3 month separation. My advice? Tell her essentially what you've told us. And that what you think you need is to be alone and uncommitted. Tell her that you haven't totally given up on your marriage, but you need to weigh it against bachelorhood. Tell h…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:55 PM
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Which is fantastic for making it sound like cars cost less now than they did in our grandparent's time.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:44 PM
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In order to answer that question, a bit of an economics lesson is necessary. Just a bit of one, as I imagine you grasp the basics. We live in a market economy. There are 3 principal, broad limiting factors to the size/growth of a market economy: Labor (we have lots of this) Capital (we have lots of this, too) Resources (this is our current bottleneck) Early on, I wanted to increase the wealth of mankind in a meaningful, broad-based way. I think that the only way to pull this off is to increase o…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:43 PM
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This sounds like the Portland market.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 04:45 PM
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My plan: Buy a 2-story house with a separate bedroom and bathroom on the top floor, rent out the bottom floor. Aim for at least 3 bedrooms. In my local market, that's 800-1000 bucks a month in income but only costs around 150k. Given the cash-on-cash cost with a 20% down payment, you're looking at being able to pay your mortgage and taxes entirely off of rents with a smidge leftover, and have your own housing costs covered in the process. Not to mention you're gaining a house. I'm paying down my…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 04:44 PM
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It doesn't matter. If what she says is true, frankly, she isn't LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:41 PM
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I was a 'natural' lesser alpha before I got married. Got married. Slowly went full on beta. I didn't lose her, because she was a loyal woman, but I could tell she was frustrated with me and no longer attracted. I didn't like the dynamic and left, but frankly, if I had stayed with her and stayed beta, she would have left me eventually because she's human. Your alpha frame is even more important in an LTR, and harder to maintain.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:38 PM
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Yeah, you also stopped being a loser dropout faggot.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:36 PM
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There is genuinely a balance. If he ignores her too much / makes her feel unvalued, she's going to cheat, as well. Life is a balancing act, there's no cureall.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:35 PM
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There are competent female engineers. I married and then later divorced one. In fact, I'd say that most of the female engineers I've personally worked with have been above average. Just because they dress in a distracting fashion doesn't make them bad engineers, it makes them distracting coworkers.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:25 PM
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Average (or ugly) guys of r/theredpill, how many times in your life would you say you've received an un-asked-for and unflattering physical assessment from a woman? God, I'm above average and I still get girls pulling that shit from time to time. It becomes a lot less frequent once you leave school.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:22 PM
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Middle class needs to get its head out of its ass and start buying stock.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:05 PM
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Basically people need to be oppressed into doing what's good for them at this point. Know anyone willing to try?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:02 PM
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He's probably infected with some sort of borderline anarcholibertarian meme and has a "private market can do not wrong, government bad" mindset.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:00 PM
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sting and building things. Empirically, in the West the general trend has been a decline in real wages, even when based off of the government's artificially under-reported inflation rate. The real decline has been much more significant. The fact that the CPI excludes food and fuel on the ground of "volatility" is hilarious. If by "volatile" you mean "increasingly scarce and expensive", then sure. On top of that, we use CPI (a measure of consumer goods) for our "general inflation" number, when a …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:58 PM
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Exactly it. The capital:labor ratio matters a lot.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:54 PM
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They are entering the food services and retail industries in droves. Barbers have been replaced by cosmetologists. Most nurses are women. Many doctors are women. Accountants? Most new ones are women. Furthermore, frankly, most of the men I met in school self-medicated with video games and porn, whereas women actually took care of shit. Now, the top of the class tended to consist of men who were on the ball, but frankly, most men lack the motivation and willpower to pry themselves away from their…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:48 PM
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Cars replaced by jets, jets replaced by rockets. There's really no limit.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:46 PM
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That's not what he's talking about. At all. He's specifically talking about power and how we're "sheep" because we do not threaten those with power. Basically Roosh has gotten bored of the pursuit of pussy and travel and his ennui is beginning to get the better of him. He's asking himself, "What matters?" and working his way up the pyramid.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:41 PM
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It seems to me that they weren't intending to buy the 'company' that was so painstakingly built up -- they were intending to buy the engineering talent. Which she was not. Did Google even keep their product, whatever it was? How much value did it really have apart from the fact that it had engineers working on it?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:31 PM
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C for 'Cock'. Be proud, son.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:27 PM
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And that's just the thing. We have a culture of disposability. "Oh, it can be replaced" means you treat it like it has no value. Pretty fucked up. That said, I do it, so I can't exactly complain.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:17 PM
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I have my alpha frame in general, but maintaining it in a relationship with her was the challenging thing. Basically I fell so hard I went full beta and couldn't recover without leaving her.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:52 PM
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That gets me thinking about something that happened a few months ago. Another woman I was seeing said she couldn't handle that I was seeing other women. We explicitly talked about being non exclusive and she agreed, and so she did apologize for being "so immature" and unable to handle it. I actually respected her self awareness in that regard. However, after we broke things off, a month or so later she started coming by again and we continued fucking. Basically the same except she was bitchier.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 01:44 PM
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"What? Flirting? Me? I would never flirt...!" Said with a cheeky grin.
/r/seduction25/03/14 01:40 PM
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As a man...so do I! I want the upsides of everything and the downsides of nothing, and I'll even try to get as close to that as I can. Seems reasonable to me.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 01:27 AM
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A mere 2 weeks ago, a plate said she was breaking things off. I said, "Cool". I got a two hour blowjob from her and fucked her a few times a mere 5 days later. Nonchalance is hot.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:41 PM
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I can think of a study that implies it, such as the fact that the STD prevalence rate for men is way, way lower than the STD prevalence rate amongst women. A few men have STDs, and those men are having a lot more sex than the men without STDs, and they're spreading those STDs to the chicas.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 02:58 AM
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I really can't imagine it reducing divorce rate amongst men, except perhaps by lowering the marriage rate.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 01:06 AM
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As someone who donates about $100/month to the Mprize foundation (by far my largest charitable donation), I'm pretty glad to hear this coming from someone else's mouth.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 01:02 AM
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Come back when it makes you laugh.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 12:26 AM
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Agreed. Seriously, you are doing a lot to make the world a better place by taking a kid in.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:41 AM
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I did laugh, myself.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:11 AM
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Yeah, I've started to laugh about it. I cared a little for awhile, but it's just dumb now. Like... A few days ago, I met a woman at a pub. After some persistence, she agreed to meet with me in a few days for dinner at my place. The topic of arrogance in a non-person-specific way came up. She then said that I was kind of arrogant. I asked for clarification/instances, and she said I just seemed arrogant...but it could just be confidence, she supposed. Took me a long ass time to just accept that if…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:08 AM
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They admitted that it was true, or so it seems. That said, your basic objection -- that they're attempting to police private conversations -- if 100% true and is an absolutely bullshit situation.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 12:14 AM
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I did leave her, because I'm a bit of an idiot. The sad truth, though, is that I lost my alpha frame with her and you basically can't get that back.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 12:13 AM
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Ugh, this is forcing me to confront some shit at an awful time. Thanks, though.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 07:09 PM
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Same here. "Why not become powerful? If you want to keep people down, you can. If you think that's bad, you can prevent others from doing so. But power is necessary for either one." That's rough paraphrase of something I probably said a million times to deaf ears in high school and college.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 06:43 PM
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Anyone mind helping me figure out what redpill means/redpillwomen means? Redpill is a tongue-in-cheek take on the choice Neo is given by Morpheus in the Matrix: "Take the red pill, stay in wonderland, and I'll show you how deep the rabbit hole goes..." It is, in this sense, used to mean the collection of contrarian ideas regarding gender relations and social systems, modern moral sensibilities, and so on. In this forum, you'll find a big emphasis on sexual/reproductive strategy and the occasiona…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 06:40 PM
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MWGTOW "Men Going Their Own Way" Generally men who can't get together with or keep women realizing they're not very attractive and simply giving up on the dating game. Occasionally a genuinely attractive/successful/charming guy just doing what he wants irrespective of what society tells him he should desire. Most of the latter don't identify as MGTOW, though.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 06:32 PM
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Vasalgel probably isn't a bad investment, but there are definitely better ones. Why would an investor put their money in vasalgel and give up the opportunity to make more off their investment by putting it elsewhere? This sounds like an ignorance of market economics. If the ROI is higher somewhere else, the price of ownership drops until it hits a risk-adjusted market average return. I suppose it's possible that the return will be so dismally low that it simply won't be profitable, but that seem…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 05:14 PM
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that is what drove him mad in the end Definitely wasn't the syph. No, sir.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 05:10 PM
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Sounds about right, actually.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 04:00 PM
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I meant single fathers with custody, actually. I know a couple. They never got much tail. Somewhat different sexual market era, though.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 08:39 PM
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I laughed heartily. I agree with some of what you say. It's when you get to this: do you really think it's best for a guy to pretend to be something else his whole life in order to have sex with a certain type of girl? you guys think you've figured it all out - but you're actually the most lost people I've ever seen. This is the funny part. Because you just don't get what's going on.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 08:37 PM
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How do you actually see the image? The blue text is not a link for me at redditlog.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 08:30 PM
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I guess I move in unusual circles, but most women I know are horrified at the thought of giving birth, but are more open to the idea of adoption somewhat later in life. I personally don't know any men or women who have adopted their children yet. For the actual converse, I know very few women who are dating single fathers, but more than a couple who have dated, and in one case married, a single mother.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 08:29 PM
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That really does seem to be the mentality.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 08:25 PM
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This guy really informed my post-Christian thought for some time. I love me some good Nietzsche.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 08:20 PM
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I have to admit -- I know this is a 'still plugged in' statement -- I have a close friend who was mostly raised by her stepdad, and she adores him to no end and thinks he's the best thing ever. She's successful (six figure salary engineer) and attractive. I don't think there's anything wrong with doing good in the world and alleviating other's suffering (in fact, I do think it's admirable when done in a particular way), but I have to admit, the number of men I see jumping wholesale at the chance…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 08:18 PM
1

How is it a judgement call? What single word or linguistic device does he use to make it a judgement call? What I see is just a contrast. This kind of reminds me of the whole "TRP is misogynistic" meme going around. TRP speaks the truth about women. Not vitriolically or with malice, but simply speaks the truth. The only way I could see that being a judgement call is if you have internalized the idea that having sex with someone for fame isn't okay. Because there's nothing implying it there in th…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 07:47 PM
3

Generally if she hasn't made me cum within 2 "dates", I assume it's nothing and next her. Some exceptions: Extremely inexperienced women (as in, virgins), and women with boyfriends who are actually trying to be loyal. I might go out to 3 dates for women with solid boundaries if I can tell they're at least conflicted about making me wait. This works well for me. I've made out with around 1/3 of my female friends (more than 1/2 of the genuinely attractive ones), had sex with probably 1/4 of them, …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 01:52 AM
-1

just because I was a huge asshole to her You didn't buy her a drink and you kinda-sorta ignored her. How is that being a huge asshole? Fucking hell...
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 12:31 AM
2

I don't think he said it's "bad" for women to go crazy over status or "good" for men to go crazy over looks. Those value judgments are purely in your own head.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:14 PM
2

Why in the world would GERMANY of all places do this?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:13 PM
1

This is, in fact, a very powerful tool in the seduction process if you're with someone who doesn't want to feel commanded. Getting just the right inflection for the right person/time makes a huge difference. Good for ramping up compliance because the request feels 'softer'.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 05:41 AM
1

Cuddle swingout, best of both worlds.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 04:41 AM
1

I love pointing out how sexist ballroom dancing is and figuring out who the hardcore feminists are by the insane amount of backleading that occurs.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 04:39 AM
24

This is a favorite. Basically, all girls love spankings. A girl tells me it's her birthday? I ask if she's had her spankings. A girl is being kind of whiny? I tell her she hasn't been getting spanked enough recently. A girl wants to know what I'll do for her if she does something for me? I offer her a good spanking. It goes on like this. Bitches love spankings.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 04:31 AM
3

we drank like a Cherokee v Ireland game of numbing the pain. Brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 04:27 AM
3

Throwing your drink at a fatty is like throwing money at Bill Gates. Why do it? What are you going to achieve?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 04:21 AM
2

Barney did rub off on him.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:12 AM
1

I have actually broken this rule a number of times with women who have given me blowjobs. IDGAF.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 09:51 PM
1

I so want to see Elizabeth Warren with more power. She's one of the roughly one politicians I'm not presently disgusted with.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 09:31 PM
24

Yeah, exactly, it's absurd. "I'm going to raise my standards since I have greater burdens to deal with and can't offer as much." Yeah...good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:20 PM
11

I came here to say what he said. Then I signed in so that I could say what you said. Fuck, I'm glad we're all on the same page here.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:17 PM
0

I recall seeing a video in which an overweight, balding guy with bad tattoos in his late 30s with grey hair was bitching about how the women he dates aren't supermodels, essentially. Can't get that image out of my head when I hear the more fervent complaints.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:18 AM
3

Prenups can be nullified, and usually a divorce lawyer will make the attempt if they can get anything for it. At a bare minimum, bothof you have to consult totally separate legal counsel and review the prenup with them, and as much evidence as possible must be gathered that this was done under duress, including -- I shit you not -- that it wasn't a requirement for you to get married. As in, both of you had to have made this agreement out of the goodness of your hearts and fair play, not because …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:39 PM
4

Being 35+ does not grant you a solid career. I'm 26 and I have a career. Know why? I started preparing for it when I was 12. You have to make that shit happen.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:36 PM
4

It's true, we're spoiled as fuck. I'm way above average for a white american, and I'm getting paid about $50/hr to be on reddit right now. I'll take that immigrant labor gladly.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 06:36 PM
3

This ... is way more horrifying than I had imagined. On so many levels. She is the exact kind of person who makes me want to institute draconian social controls for eugenic purposes, and here she is, trying to force a guy to impregnate her.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 06:17 PM
1

It is the supposition that we are nothing more than thoughtless animals who react to our arousal by wanting to pin down the nearest female so we can ram an erection into them repetitively until we eject our seminal genetic signatures inside of them Barring the 'nothing more than thoughtless animals' bit, it's basically true if I haven't had sexual release for a few days and I'm around an attractive woman. I want to grab her and fuck her to pieces. Doesn't mean I actually do it.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 06:14 PM
1

Yeah, it seriously is magic.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 05:54 PM
1

Actually, all humans take action, then feel, then rationalize. Neuroscience ftw.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 05:51 PM
1

Hey, it's a bit late, but thanks for this.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 05:18 PM
1

We are slowly deflating it by removing a few house related tax credits, though, so we've got that going for us.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 08:55 PM
2

Normally with Ryan, but in this case I agree with you. He seems to me to be hamstering on this whole validation issue, using misdirection and conclusions that don't really follow his premises.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 01:17 AM
1

Hahaha, I love the conclusions you jump to.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 06:03 PM
1

Just because you have boundaries doesn't mean you have to turn to violence to enforce them. Violence is a tool of last resort due to the cost/risks involved. Anyone who has any other kind of power uses that power first.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 07:42 PM
3

How To Win Friends and Influence People, maybe?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:40 PM
1

HAHAHAHA. Hilarious. That violence is so central to your being shows just how low status you are. Animals that have ANYTHING to lose don't turn to violence if they have other options; it's too expensive in terms of survival.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:38 PM
1

As I've always said...if this situation comes up, laugh at them. Because let's face it...it's pretty fucking hilarious. Then again, basically nothing bothers me anymore and I think people getting worked up about anything is hilarious, so this approach may work better for me than for others.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:35 PM
-1

A lot of it depends on context. Some people are cool with it, some aren't. Socialization 101: Not everyone adheres to the same standards of conversation or behavior.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:15 PM
8

It's all about the whole package, baby.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:06 PM
6

You are a freshman...which means that you are competing with men who are older, have honed their game further, and who have social connections and a reputation that you don't. A lot of it may simply be stiffer competition. It's hard to say much more, though, without a ton more information about you and your environment.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 03:35 AM
36

Your girlfriend goes clubbing? Meh, I'd ditch. Club girls ain't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 03:34 AM
1

I think that more than 51% of people, in general, male or female, are not worth befriending. You just have to make the call on a case by case basis either way. Having screening criteria and apply it evenly. Note: This will result in some initial loneliness.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 03:07 AM
2

This shit right here. When you get good game though / start thinking in a redpill fashion, it gets kinda weird, though. You do tend to judge people more based on appearance (or at least I do), and inevitably, she will start testing you to see if you're a good mate. You can reject her preemptively and try to friendzone her, and that will just make her go crazy for you. You can game her and do the same. In order for the rejection to stick, it has to hurt. Once it hurts...yeah...no more friendship.…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 01:00 AM
4

I really have to wonder... LMR is SO common amongst virgins. Persistent LMR. Let's say, hypothetically, that everyone in the world follows feminist advice and doesn't persist past the first sign of resistance. What percentage of women would die virgins?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 12:43 AM
2

The love test one is complete bullshit. For real.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 12:28 AM
1

Point.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:59 PM
3

Atheists are actually among the least likely demographic groups to divorce, weirdly enough. Might be because they're not as likely to get married, though.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:23 PM
1

Wow, that's a huge imbalance. On top of that, polygamy is a thing, which means the vast majority of those men (more than 2/3) have NO shot at a woman. That's...scary. That can motivate men to do some nasty shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:18 PM
5

Social standing and belonging to the tribe is of absolute importance to a woman. To be cast out is to die. Humiliation instills in them the fear of death.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:11 PM
1

I've done plenty of things that deserved a good slap to the face. I've never been slapped in those times. However, twice I've been slapped in the face. I didn't deserve it either time. So, I got slapped, laughed, and said, "Well, that wasn't called for, having a bad day?"
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:08 PM
2

Friends are hard to find. A lot of people are either 100% career focused or 100% socially/fuck around focused, and neither are particularly appealing to me.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:05 PM
3

I've met that type. Friend of friend situation...he was clearly used to being dominant/alpha and liked to have 'intellectual' conversation where he clearly had NO idea what he was talking about. My favorite memory of him was trying to describe the mortgage crisis. "The...GDP...of...Fannie Mae...is half...of the country..." "Are you fucking kidding me? You don't measure the GDP of companies." I was then told to shush down by the non-confrontational types, but thankfully he was an idiot and contin…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 08:57 PM
3

I'm put to shame, I would only need two or three cats at most.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 08:15 PM
3

Weird thing is, if I start forcing myself to think about having children, tall, fit chicks are a lot more attractive. But just for raw pleasure/fooling around, short chicks win the day.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 06:46 PM
3

I love you more with every post I read, hahaha.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 06:14 PM
0

If a man has two kids and wants to have an alpha male baby, he has a 25% chance of never producing a male heir. At all. If he has one male child (50% chance), then that one child HAS to be an alpha. If he has two male children (25%) chance, then he has two shots at producing an alpha male child. On the other hand, if he has 50 children (such as the father of one of my cousins who started off kind of beta and then became alpha as fuck), skips out on child support payments, and proceeds to not giv…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 06:13 PM
1

Such an overt need to prove himself. Was he, like, 19?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 06:04 PM
0

6'2 guy here, goddamn scoring short girls as a pain in the ass. Tall women, though? Shit...They approach me. It's a pity I am just not sustainably attracted to women over 5'7 or so.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 06:02 PM
16

The femininity of the cats balanced out their masculinity under ideal circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:34 PM
2

Oh, yeah...it's a shitty situation, and he needs to just get the fuck out and bite the bullet if he wants a chance at redemption.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 12:37 AM
1

but it wasn't foolproof FTFY
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 08:35 PM
13

Ew, bar hopping. That said, I recently went out with a group of acquaintances, one of whom tried to get me to buy her a drink. I said no and laughed, she pouted, I laughed harder and said 'No' more firmly. She then went and got some other guy to buy her $50 worth of alcohol that night. Poor sap.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 07:57 PM
28

Age and fertility are social constructs, duh.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 07:24 PM
16

This combined with amused mastery is fantastic. You send across this message of, "No, and I think it's hilarious that you would ask me that."
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 07:23 PM
10

No fault divorce + alimony + child support = it doesn't matter that he earns the income of the household, he now owes the majority of it to them unconditionally.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 07:08 PM
1

I paid my rent for two months with a small time bitcoin mining operation in the summer of 2011. Ah, lovely times.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:35 PM
0

They're already priced out for their current place in the market, whereas bitcoin is still finding its place.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:34 PM
0

Agreed. Suicide can be selfish if it's intended to escape pain, for instance.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 12:40 AM
5

I don't think the dark triad types mess with other alpha types too often when there's a whole timid herd out there asking to be taken advantage of for the sake of their own entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 12:38 AM
1

I recently had one of these. WTF.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 11:56 PM
0

Don't thank me too hard. I ruined a couple of NAWALT unicorns when I was bluepill and thought true love was a thing.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 10:51 PM
2

That's a great way of putting it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 08:30 PM
2

Redpill enclaves pls
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 08:19 PM
9

thousand cock stare I lost it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 08:18 PM
1

You in the PNW by any chance?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:39 PM
14

Honestly, it isn't civilized behavior, but my opinion is that if a woman can't care for her child, the child is probably better off not living a fucked up life of suffering, the woman is clearly better off without it, and society as a whole is better off without the burden of the child. It's a win-win-win in a lot of circumstances, in my book. I don't expect many to agree with me, though, even here, as the bitterness I've tasted has basically destroyed my ability to worry about senseless ethical…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:36 PM
2

Women can go out and get sex any time they want, if they're willing to compromise on social approval and attraction. Many aren't.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:18 PM
3

There was a weird dance with my ex wife and I. I would want sex every day, sometimes multiple times a day...and she'd only want it every other day or so. I would then start looking to other avenues to satiate myself, like porn, or just sublimate my sex drive away, which would result in a reduced libido towards my wife as it was a hell of a lot more work to deal with her than take care of it myself. Then I'd feel bad about not pleasing her, redirect my sex drive towards her, and fuck her to piece…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:17 PM
3

It's so difficult for me to comprehend this 'women using sex as a weapon' idea. Every girlfriend I have ever had since childhood did what I wanted, when I wanted, how I wanted...and was very upset with the notion of disappointing me. It's such a natural part of my frame that if a woman is withholding sex (not that I can recall this happening more than once or twice in my 12 years of dating), I'd pretty much assume that she wasn't attracted to me anymore and that we were on our way out and act ac…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:15 PM
6

Your average hambeast is just a cog in the machine. Your above average hambeast, however, pulls the levers. Those are the ones who set the trends / establish the trolling script.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:03 PM
13

I literally laughed out loud. Wow, that's fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:02 PM
1

See? Now you're getting it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:00 PM
2

I don't know, I've had no trouble finding girls who fit neither of those molds. Not giving away my methods/early screening criteria, though, because they do seem to be only about 5% of the population.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:58 PM
1

Oh yeah...there were definitely a lot of missed opportunities.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:11 AM
1

Ah, yeah, there is definitely that. Happiness is never untempered anymore. If that's what you mean by 'depressed', then sure, I'm depressed. It isn't really that bad, though. You're born, you live, you die. No biggie.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:00 AM
2

Doesn't mean they won't be low. Just means they won't get better.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 05:59 AM
2

Ahahaha, yeah....I sure fucked that one up. Thankfully college chicks also LOVE a guy in his mid 20s. List to this man, OP, he has your best interests at heart.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 05:55 AM
1

How long has it been since you came to this understanding? I went through it some time ago, about 8 months, and I have to say...I'm not as happy, energetic, and blindly optimistic as I was, but I am definitely not depressed.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 05:52 AM
2

It's anecdotal, but I can speak to the risks. I was put on antidepressants for a flimsy depression/anxiety diagnosis when I went in to a doc thinking I had ADHD / could get some ADHD meds for a few months of superhuman performance while kickstarting a side business. I took them against my instincts as I figured, well, he's a professional...holy shit, that may have been the single worst decision of my life. I took them less than a month and they fucked me up for almost a year afterwards. If your …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:54 AM
7

Condoms every time. I do not ever compromise on this.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:48 AM
6

That and everything else.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:42 AM
15

This is my policy. I once almost banged a girl, found out she was a virgin and made my expectations REALLY clear. She said she really wanted her first time to be with someone she could at least potentially get into a relationship with, and I told her no way in hell and sent her on her way with a few pointers on how to avoid men who are like me but who might be a bit less honest/caring. BETA AS FUCK and proud.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:13 AM
4

Everything leading up to the beautiful consummation of this comment was a worthy and good thing.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:07 AM
2

Yeah, the difference is that those other cultures use cultural forces to discourage shitty, mercenary behavior in relationships, whereas Western culture encourages it. That is a pretty big factor. However, many people lose touch with their cultural heritage and pressures/rewards over time.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:04 AM
5

She sounds SE Asian to me.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:02 AM
6

Ah, how many women like this I've met. I've made it clear to one of my plates that if she wants more commitment, I'd let her be my live-in sex slave for a few months, but definitely don't see her as girlfriend material. She seems to think this is unreasonable, despite the fact that she can't manage her own emotions, has no career, and has already shown me that she has no problem with cheating.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:01 AM
3

Well, you make a lot of value judgments like 'waste' which imply a nihilistic worldview -- not mandatory to be a rationalist. You also make some other statements about, say, lack of satisfaction of the ego which is pretty strongly associated with Buddhism.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:05 PM
2

For awhile there, I had a one strike policy, or two strikes on rare occasions. That shit worked, let me tell you. New woman every week, slowly picking up plates, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:46 AM
6

Dude, honestly that's totally badass and I want twelve.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:39 AM
2

FYI, you were downvoted for awful delivery.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:39 AM
6

I don't know, women don't bitch at me for not obeying their every wish. Or maybe they do. I don't know, I don't pay much attention.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:34 AM
1

I'm amazed at how many people misunderstood this. I loved the yDNA vs mtDNA diversity comparison -- that's a great way of analyzing the problem.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:27 AM
2

That is seriously some harrowing shit. Her suffering is over, but oh man, I feel sorry for that guy.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:21 AM
7

The nihilistic buddhism is strong with this one. Completely agree, though.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:10 AM
6

God, I love preselection. It's like manna from heaven.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 11:26 PM
2

How is Japan, in general, for a redpiller? Kind of considering moving there as they're an advanced, safe, prosperous nation, but still fairly patriarchal/have a functional social order. Even if a lot of young men are dropping out of it because they're pansies. Or so it seems to me. Seems like they could use quite a few good men to fill the ranks.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 08:07 PM
1

Maybe something like "orbiter", because it's like the guy is constantly around her but never quite collides.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 07:53 PM
1

Hm... I'm going to join Toastmasters. Seems worthwhile.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 01:36 AM
1

Sucks, bro, but welcome to the family. Seems you're doing rather well, all things considered.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 01:27 AM
1

Oh. My. God.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 01:25 AM
0

God, this whole fat shaming thing is ridiculous. It's disgusting and slothful to be fat. It's a sign of either lack of desire to be attractive and healthy or lack of ability to be attractive. Either one is shameful to one degree or another.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 01:12 AM
1

As the article puts it, women are more quickly emerging as the more successful of the species. Can't argue with that in this most recent generation. However, success and necessity are not the same. The successful are very often simply people who can manipulate others into allowing them use of their resources. There are exceptions, of course. Take, say, successful tech entrepreneurs who open up new frontiers for humanity, lower costs, etc as extreme examples of both necessity and success. Then ta…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 01:10 AM
1

Also harder to sell to someone than hard data. I think it'd be good to have both 'institutionalized and measurable advantages of women over men', and 'game theory based offspring optimization strategies for women vs men and scientifically validated examples of such'.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 12:42 AM
3

I like the idea of my competition being mostly blue pill. OTOH, with enough redpill guys in the world, men could potentially reinstitute patriarchy and we could reverse a great deal of social decline. It's mixed.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 09:54 PM
1

Yeah, I think I'm going to move to try to move to a patriarchal society. Hard to get into any place that isn't a shithole, though.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 06:18 PM
3

your balls are still intact Otherwise 10/10 would upvote etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 06:16 PM
1

Yeah, polyamory was great for me until I beta'd down a bit and my ex started wanting to hook up / go out with other men. Until then, she was always feigning excitement at the prospect of hooking up with other women with me.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 05:43 PM
3

In the vast majority of cases, women have an easier time getting sex from men than men do from women. Having a boyfriend on the hook to provide for her fulfills her 'material provider' instinct whilst allowing her to go out and have a bunch of casual sex to fulfill her 'genetic provider' instinct.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 04:24 PM
4

I want to see this write up.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 04:10 PM
1

Only makes sense if your incomes are disparate, couples with similar income levels pay way more taxes.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 04:34 PM
1

I did not get a male-specific vibe from this article at all.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:14 PM
1

I think the apathy is biological (as in, no boners from success), but the intimidating is somewhat sociological. A woman does not become a less viable mate because she is successful.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 06:53 PM
1

Such bullshit, everybody knows LMR means 'Last Minute Resistance', not 'Last Minute Rejection'.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 06:22 PM
3

You know...I've definitely noticed this among the less-intelligent women I've hooked up with. In a big way. Huh. Regardless, I am a greedy shit so I am just going to keep my grass fed beef and vegetable stir fries to myself. I have found no impact of food on fucking.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 05:16 PM
1

Oh, yea...this has actually been a favorite topic of mine for years. It continually amazes me how flexible human psychology is. That said, I actually do love what we've achieved. Much lower infant mortality, ability to travel and communicate over vast distances, art, culture, philosphy, comfort...I'll.take it. And given a clear choice, I think you would, too.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 02:57 PM
1

Work twice as hard as everyone else, pick a career field with real demand, and learn how to market yourself. Mix and shake for ten years. I sure hope you're a teenager.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 02:46 PM
3

Video game joke. In Fallout, you can drink unpurified water, but due to the diluted fallout in everything from a decades-past nuclear war, you take on some "rad" units by doing so. Toilets, however, are more like 40 rads than 3 rads IIRC. It's been a few years.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 10:01 PM
1

As a person with a ~50% savings rate who actually enjoys a degree of self-denial, I have to wonder if many people simply get no pleasure whatsoever from the pride of asceticism and self-control.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:54 PM
7

As a man who successfully chases money, this is a lie.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:25 PM
5

Spoken like a true bearded lady.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:23 PM
0

I think that most women are more competent and capable these days than most men, and that a lot of what many here call 'female' behaviors are narcissistic and emotionally manipulative behaviors that plenty of people of either sex act on, some of which are encouraged in the same breath they're condemned.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:19 PM
5

Not at all. They want resource providers and gene providers. In an optimal world, these will not be the same person. It's not that they don't know what they want, it's that they -- like men -- have warring desires that must be compromised.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:03 PM
9

Men do this, too, of course -- but this is a great example of where women do it. Women are generally less attracted to servile men, and so for them it is often a mixed bag. When men brag about a submissive mate...it's generally all positive, provided she isn't downright sychophantic. At the same time, there IS an ego boost that comes with having a man wrapped around your thumb. It is a sign of social power -- 'Look, man who was once fierce and powerful is now my pawn'.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:11 PM
6

I love this for a number of reasons, not the least of which is that it encourages them to develop their own strength of character.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:03 PM
1

Can't say I disagree on the family dynamic aspect of it. I grew up in a Christian environment, and even the atheists in that area were heavily influenced by it. Moving away from that dynamic has been...interesting, to say the least. The last year or two have really opened my eyes to how shitty a lot of people are even to those close to them.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:49 PM
2

look for ladies who have a decent work ethic, and are humble enough to serve others This. My most satisfying relationship ever was with a very mildly religious woman who considered it her duty to take care of her older disabled brother and her aging parents. Towards that end, she got a Master's degree in a technical discipline and was making 6 figures in her mid-late 20s. She's basically spoiled me on other women, though. Since I left her, I have had absolutely no interest in anyone else long-te…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 05:22 PM
2

I don't know, I can't stand tradcons at all. They're anti-evidence, when it comes down to it. They have the same practical solutions to some problems, but because they didn't arrive there rationally, they are just as prone to be batshit insane in other practical areas (such as global manmade climate change, economics).
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 05:15 PM
2

Ah, and the downvote asking a serious question does shed some light on the misogyny of this sub. Not saying this sub is pure or even predominantly misogyny, but it's definitely there. I'm not personally aware of any causal mechanism, but I do know that women are considerably more likely to be religious. I'm not sure that they're more prone to hamstering so much as more strongly attached to belonging to what they perceive to be respectable/socially powerful groups, and because many of those group…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 05:13 PM
1

Fair. Even so, I guess I assume fat means that 5/10 is almost the max in looks.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 03:41 AM
1

Is fat, dirty, and broke an average 5?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 10:40 PM
1

IT guy who has considered going into nursing here. Is it really that great for male nurses? Hot damn.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 10:38 PM
8

Exactly. Things have changed dramatically in just the last handful of years.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 04:22 PM
6

Well, nursing degrees are pretty good and accounting isn't bad at the moment -- although the latter is trending down slowly and steadily. I can't imagine what's going to happen to the nursing market once the last of the baby boomers finally kick it, though.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 04:17 PM
1

If 'stability' means 'non-systemic stability', then sure. Although you threw in the weak / timid male hypothesis, as well -- and you chained them together in such a way that it was easy to interpret the causality chain as: stability -> weak men -> societal collapse. It now appears that this is not what you are saying.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 09:56 PM
1

Black swan events. I'm familiar with the phenomena, and it's the exact thing I'm describing. By attempting to cushion the entire system from small shocks, the system absorbs shocks, well, systemically.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 09:04 PM
2

NASA is a government science organization, not a commercial entity. Planetary Resources is going to use SpaceX Rockets. NASA accounts for only about 1/4 of SpaceX's launches, and they have 3x as much money in launch contracts for private entities. Elon Musk has revealed that 4-5 years ago, when he was first starting SpaceX, he was told by private money that if he could make a Mars mission work for $10 billion, they would fund it. NASA isn't totally irrelevant to the commercialization, just unnec…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 05:21 PM
1

On the surface, I can see why you might have that suspicion, although having some more topic-specific knowledge, I can say that it definitely isn't the case that stability leads to the collapse of societies -- quite the opposite. In the vast majority of cases throughout history, there was a lot of instability during the death of empires. Our own is a bit unique in that we have lots of tools for turning large amounts of small scale instability into small amounts of systemic instability, but in th…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 04:02 PM
2

A sociological phenomena known as a "dead branch" comes to mind. I have a Chinese penpal who told me that finding a foreign wife isn't uncommon, though.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 02:37 PM
1

believe that their education matters to a guy and therefore ironically they still don't understand I personally do care about a woman's education for long term pairings. In particular, I have quite a bit of respect (and respect builds attraction) for anyone who can finish a STEM degree. I also find it odd that PZ Meyers didn't get the supply/demand curve given that he is, in fact, a scientist, and generally a pretty bright one. Willful ignorance, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 02:05 PM
1

I can see how that would be a lucrative market.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 01:59 PM
2

A potentially interesting hypothesis is that empires/civilizations crumble when they become too successful at creating stability and their males become too tamed and weak. Doubtful. Societal rise and collapse is almost universally associated with population growth and resources, barring certain political systems which enable more rapid technological and economic progress, such as the feudal system of Europe in the middle ages and capitalism...everywhere today. Timid, weak men make good workers.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 01:53 PM
4

Well, the price of solar panels is exponentially dropping. The price of spaceflight has halved in the last 4-5 years and if SpaceX has its way, will continue to do so until a round trip ticket to Mars is around $500,000. A serious endeavor to mine asteroids, Planetary Resources, backed by several Silicon Valley billionaires, has popped up and they're launching their first prototype survey satellite in 2014, if I'm not mistaken. Those are all pretty big. Asteroid mining and solar power mean acces…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 01:46 PM
1

Damn. Out of curiosity, what is it you're doing and where? Or is a juicy market you want to keep to yourself?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 01:38 PM
3

Not really the principal topic at hand, but I hope you are making bank working overseas 6 days a week.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 05:32 AM
9

Looking back at Rome -- I highly recommend reading Decline And Fall Of The Roman Empire, by the way -- we can see very similar problems (entitlement etc) popping up in Rome even without universal suffrage. Here's the pattern: Humans find a means of exploiting untapped resources and build a complex society around it. More resources means more capacity to produce children, which means more people. The increased supply of labor means more military and economic power, but also more desire for resour…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 05:11 AM
2

The GDP of the US is not seven times that of China. Nominally, it's twice that of China at ~15 trillion vs ~7 trillion. In terms of purchasing power parity, it's even closer, with the US coming in at ~15 trillion and China coming in at ~12 trillion. This is using IMF numbers, World Bank and the CIA World Factbook have similar ratios but with slightly higher numbers for each nation in this case.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 04:59 AM
1

This is normal. Mediocre people want to ignore or destroy those who remind them of their mediocrity. That said, you want to ramp up your attainability with those people. Make yourself seem more relateable, be humble, etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:16 PM
2

In OP's case, I'd say he really is higher value than at least 80% of women at this point.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 03:21 AM
-16

What, and give away my edge? Nah.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:39 AM
1

This was amazing.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:38 AM
2

As a guy who thinks the fundamentals of TRP are correct, I agree with this guy entirely. The red pill is the right medicine, but this sub is thick with many of that pill's negative side effects.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:25 AM
2

My neighbor heard me laugh at just how prosaic your post was.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:17 AM
1

He's not saying he doesn't adapt his views. He's saying that it hurts -- and in light of the fact that it hurts him, he empathizes with others and assumes it hurts them, as well. This informs him that, perhaps, the reason they refuse to adapt is because they don't want to, or can't, deal with the pain of adapting to the truth.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:12 AM
7

I went to marriage counseling before divorcing my wife (a rare, male-initiated divorce). It was pretty bullshit. I was sitting there saying, "The marriage has some serious problems and I am just about beyond the emotional point of no return, but I am making an effort to try to fix it. Work with me one day at a time and we'll see what we can do." My wife was sitting there saying, "I will try anything, I want to save our marriage." Our counselor was sitting there saying, "Now, now, husband, you ha…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 01:48 AM
3

I had kind of a weird experience growing up. I was actually raised by a single father whose father had abused him physically and emotionally, and whose mother divorced said father of my father and became a child psychologist. They were my primary parent figures. My father was a mess. Did okay with women, though -- I remember him meeting quite a few people when I was younger and doing pretty well with them. Later developed a strange fascination with fat chicks. I have to say, if I end up looking …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 01:44 AM
3

Even with a condom on.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 11:29 PM
2

God, as someone who lives/works in Portland who had this exact experience -- me paying a chick I was banging to pick up some pot only to have her flake out for weeks on end -- it's kind of depressing and something of an eye opener. Fuck this place, I need to get out.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 11:01 PM
5

See, that's just classy and shows that you care.
/r/seduction28/08/13 01:53 PM
0

3 is pretty shitty of you if I'm interpreting it correctly. If a girl is trusting you enough to sleep with you, you don't need to go ruining her rep by publicly declaring that she's putting out outside of a relationship.
/r/seduction28/08/13 01:47 PM
2

It's my understanding that guys in the Pacific Northwest have no game. Don't feel bad.
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:06 AM
1

Whoops, got that backwards. SMV helps to drive SV, but the reverse isn't true for women.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 05:38 PM
1

always wrap your tool Good advice no matter what. Virgin on birth control? Wrap your tool. Wrap your tool. Wrap your tool.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 04:14 AM
1

They overlap more for men than for women. For both genders, SMV drives SV quite a bit. However, men have the advantage of SV also driving forward SMV -- so there's a positive feedback loop between SV and SMV in men. Women, on the other hand, often rely on SMV to drive SV. Edit:NewtoYouStew called me on an error in what I said -- SV does NOT drive SMV in women, my bad.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 04:13 AM
1

I love this feeling.
/r/seduction17/08/13 05:18 PM
2

City? Population and culture matters a lot for these things.
/r/seduction17/08/13 05:09 PM
2

What city do you live in?
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:48 PM
1

As someone who is always direct, my advice is tell her what drew you to her and ask if she's single. I might throw in a 'I know I'm stealing you away from your friends, but..." then continue with my opening.
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:44 PM
7

Bad message to send to people just getting started. Social savvy is an attractive sign of power. "I do what I want" is often a cover for social incompetence.
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:37 PM
3

Being able to read people is of paramount importance for these things.
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:33 PM
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