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I dont think incels have a predatory instinct; otherwise they wouldnt be venting in an online forum. I think its just self hatred and frustration folding into itself over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:30 PM
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I still dont see how playing with your child translates into sexual arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:50 PM
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I doubt that that is sustainable in the long run. I dont get sex points for not blowing up at my girl, and I dont see how chamging a diaper gets her juices going.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:30 PM
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He probably had to learn how to be that man. Dont take that for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:09 PM
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Your shtick is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:52 PM
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Dude, I'm putting an idea out there, not hosting an extensive study. Either argue points in the OP or move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:49 PM
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No, I think you're proselytizing and conflating two separate points to make an appeal to feel sympathy for women. This is still missing the actual point of the thread, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:48 PM
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This post is the assertion. Thats the entire point of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:46 PM
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Ok. As long as I learn things it doesnt matter to me. You can make your own thread with blackjack and hookers, I dont curr.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:46 PM
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Eh. Semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:41 PM
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Thats not even the meat of my point, you're just nitpicking something because you didnt like it. So what do you think of Madonna-Whore complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:39 PM
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Im not going to dig up quotes that Ive heard over the past two years about women bitching about Madonna-Whore, that would be silly. If you want to confront a part of the post Ive made, feel free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:30 PM
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..what does this have to do with the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:26 PM
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Do you not see the Madonna Whore complex as a burden?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:16 PM
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You're spending too much time on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:26 PM
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All the standard positions. Dick didnt care. A true manwhore takes pride in his craft, no matter the instruments he's given.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 04:36 PM
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No you wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:15 AM
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Right. Maybe I gave women too much credit. Ah well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:43 PM
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If you wanna respond to my last point and argue on good faith, feel free. Otherwise this is automod material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:40 PM
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But sex with random men doesnt appeal as much to women as vice versa. Risks are greater for women, and a good time isnt always guaranteed for them, so why would they be inclined to indulge in those offers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:27 PM
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Why do I always hear that women 'dont have eyes for anyone but their man' in a conmitted relationship? Is that just posturing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:19 PM
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Apparently tongue in cheek doesnt translate well. And apparently telling women to give their SO's a pleasurable bedroom treat is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:18 PM
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Semantics, you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:17 PM
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Thats a fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:16 PM
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If the average guy couldnt cheat, he wouldnt have gotten a relationship in the first place. Sure he could have become a dump truck in the process, but that relationship is doomed either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:11 PM
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Its easy for you to say because you dont want to fuck a kid. Thats exactly my point. Its like saying eating grapefruit is immoral and you happen to hate grapefruit anyway; for you its as easy as breathing. And because its as easy as breathing for you you imply that its that easy for everyone and ise that as a metric of morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:06 PM
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I want you to go give your faithful man a gratitude blowjob. He earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:59 PM
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I'd say if someone really really wanted to become a serial killer but didnt for ethical reasons, he probably deserves something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:58 PM
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Yestersay posted how she has zero sympathy for struggling men. Today, starts an entire thread asking for sympathy. What a wonderful day this turned out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:10 PM
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Well there are homeless guys that are assholes, its up to the individual to discern to help them or not. Maybe you'll really help someone and they'll genuinely be grateful, sometimes you'll get someone yelling at you because you offered to buy them dinner instead of giving you cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:49 PM
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Most of them have been fine, it was just the one girl really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:42 PM
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There's lots of men like him, and they arent going anywhere. Either they figure things out or we suffer their existance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:15 PM
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Eh, cant help everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:00 PM
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I can see the sandwich analogy comes in, because its insanely easy to connect those dots. But he needed to be told why that was the wrong conclusion. Men look at sex completely differently than woman and understanding that difference is a huge step forward. The problem is that men are driven insane by their lack of affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:52 PM
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Quit all your vices and get a great job and just be an amazing person, idiot. XD And I have no idea where your moralizing is even coming from or what it pertains to. Are you just using it to score points?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:39 PM
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I find it hilarious when women frame mens problems as womens problems because men are struggling, like we're just consummable products to you instead of human beings. Its almost as if men succeeding is good for women too. How absolutely novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:30 PM
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I wouldnt expect you to solve anyones problems. At the end of the day you dont owe anybody anything. But, if you want men to understand and empathise with problems women face, as opposed to just brushing it off like nothing, its not asking much to do the same in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:50 PM
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Have you spoken to men IRL who have said this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:45 PM
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I already told you I would give the same advice to a man who wants to help out other struggling men. I dont know what else you want from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:40 PM
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Well, you asked how you can help. I'd advise the same thing to another man, you just happen to be a woman so it appears sexist. After that? Really, thats it. You can help him out more if you want, but a lot of times men just need to say their peace. You'd be amazef how many men are starved for kindness. I'd avoid comparing your problems to his though, a lot of men are gonna get defensive because it'll feel like they dont have permission to be sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:27 PM
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Im not going to lie to you and say that all of these men will interact with you on good faith. But if they hear something enough times it might start to sink in. Nobody is gonna snap out of a toxic mindset on the first try.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:18 PM
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Listen to his problems. Try to understand his perspective. Nobody in his life is going to give him that except maybe another online incel, and that doesnt carry the same weight as an IRL interaction in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:13 PM
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Why isnt it that the act of sex was an act of vetting a woman, and she wasnt good enough/compatable in some aspect so she was let go? Do all one night stands count as pump and dumps? Is the concept of pump and dump only applicable if the woman was expecting more out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:00 PM
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The sexlessness epidemic, how difficult it is picking women up, the problems struggling men face like confidence issues, social anxiety, depression, the feeling that they're never good enough, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:47 PM
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Lol why do women keep interpreting 'women dont care about sexless men' as 'men want me to be passed around and used'. To me it seems like they're mixing their bad experiences with dangerous, rapey men with these sad sacks that get no affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:25 PM
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I think a lot of the time men just expect you to understand our problems and try to appear sympathetic. To actually care about our well being and not look at our gender like a consumer product for you to enjoy. I hear the whole 'Oh you expect us to have sex with disgusting men', and it so evident that you dont understand it whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:16 PM
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You never mentioned anything about that, nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:21 PM
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Lol the only answer you claim is honest is the one that confirms your worldview. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:14 PM
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Apex Fallacy. Apex Fallacy. Apex Fallacy. If I could get this tattooed on every girls god damn forehead I'd finally be happy for 5 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 08:34 PM
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You never told me how you fell in love with a dumpy, ugly depressed man btw, Im pretty disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:13 PM
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Well, a lot more ladies wear makeup than men do, so idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:05 PM
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We're not the ones conditioned to slather on a clowns worth of face paint to be presentable. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:52 PM
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I just sent a nice little 'gotcha' email after my boss tried to burn me in front of a bunch of other people. Oooooh, it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:11 PM
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They're gay, not aliens. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:47 PM
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Do you have that source? Im breaking my balls trying to re-find these studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:06 PM
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Im looking for a study that compares gays, lesbians and straights against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:54 PM
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Said the woman. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:52 PM
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Men believe they're more attractive because they underestimate how ruthless female attraction is. Likewise, women underestimate their own attractiveness.. Because female attraction is ruthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:44 PM
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Wow, men consider themselves acceptable humans where women do not. Stop the presses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:38 PM
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https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_4596779 Thats all I could dig up in 5 minutes. If you desire I'll try to find the other stats later.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:37 PM
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Of course men would date themselves; they arent high maintenance. There's a reason why gay men have the best couples statistics; most sex, lowest rate of divorce, highest happiness levels. What do you think that says about women? You're crowing to the choir on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:24 PM
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And as far as my problem with self improvement goes, its a personal issue and I recognize that it's one of my more irrational feelings. I'm not going to bore you with it, just realize that I when I speak about self improvement Im trying to grapple with comcepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:08 PM
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I'm so god damn jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:17 PM
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How on earth do you fall in love with somebody fat, ugly and severely depressed? Everything every woman tells me here is that guy would die a lonely virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:14 PM
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The question is, do you think youd eother consciously or unconsciously start withholding affection if he started to stop improving?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:25 PM
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Hot take: I laugh to myself whenever a girl pushes a guy to improve himself and he leaves her for someone better. If you commit to someone and you're only in love with the guy's potential and not the guy you're with now, you're lying to him every day you say you really love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:53 PM
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When a dude gets stabbed, do you blame the guy who' s stabbing, or the person who walked down the street late at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:30 PM
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Lol what monkeys paw horseshit is that. It makes it sound like you're selling your soul for more productivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:25 PM
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Are there any setbacks to downing bottles of Adderall?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:39 PM
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If that were the case then the happy couple would straight up be a myth. Which it isnt. Blackpill isnt an absolute determination of everyone, and being fatalistic doesnt necessarily make things more true. The difference between acknowledging some blackpill and fully embracing blackpill is to live without hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:32 PM
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Lol it wasnt just his height. It was also his height. What do you think happens with short men? Everythings proportional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:29 PM
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Well for one Im 5'11" so Im in the clear. But its amusing from a spectator point concerning this sub, since the mods censor the blackpill to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:03 PM
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Nah, despair is never useful. Its better to be a hopeful idiot than an all-knowing nihilist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:02 PM
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Simply because of height. Just because of height. I dont ascribe to blackpill, but these little nuggets do make me smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:45 PM
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I suppose the difference is how easy are you able to pick up casual sex, I.e. how attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:20 PM
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This: Most women just want to make sure they are taken care of and that their kids are taken care of after a divorce. Absolutely trumps this: I mean a lot of women don’t ruin the lives of someone they used to love At our core all people are selfish pieces of shit. Also what kind of woman doesnt have marketable skills in 2020? The opportunity is there now, this isnt 1950. When do we put the onus of blame on the woman to be so irresponsible as to hinge hers and the livelihoods of her kids on their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:16 PM
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I think being inauthentic will lead to 'gotcha' moments. Nothing dries out a pussy like fake confidence being exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:13 PM
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You're right, but being extroverted is simply a big advantage. The moment you cross over from being a natural to learning and effort, things start getting difficult. The ceiling for an extrovert to pick up women is arguably a lot higher than one of an introvert because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:06 PM
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Or maybe women can just not ruin the life of someone you used to love.,Little things, you know? On a more serious note, like.. What if a guy falls in love with a girl makes less and wants to marry her? Why should his life being ruined even be a concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:55 PM
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Approaching is more or less an extroverted trait. To insert yourself into a group of strangers? Totally. Even picking someone out by themselves, the extrovert has an inherent advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:21 PM
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A) Men typically make more money than women. So men get fucked. B) Women typically go after men who make more money than them. So men get fucked. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:47 PM
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The difference between your desire for popularity and mens desire for sex is that you dont have a constant screaming biological noise that demands you be popular all the fucking time. People get a wee bit emotional when needs arent met.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:30 PM
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CMV: Being confident, when it comes to picking up women, is just being authentic and being extroverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:09 PM
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If I had such an easy time quitting, absolutely not. I cant quit drinking or eating shitty foods nearly as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:44 AM
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Sometimes once, sometimes twice, sometimes I'd skip a day. I wouldnt jerk off without it, because why the hell wouldnt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:47 AM
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Masturbation isnt sex. Dont tell me what will and wont satiate my sex drive. The problem is women start to feel discomfort when they hear about our sex drive and get defensive. Its not an assault on you; Im trying to get you to wrap your head around what we go through, and you guys are having none of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:19 PM
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Havent used porn in over a month; barely think about it anymore. It was never a big problem to begin with, I only stopped using to see what kind of benefits it would bring. I suppose I'm still 'of sound mind', meaning I still have control over all of my emotions, so I dont feel the need to indulge just yet. Not much of a benefit to the bedroom either... I mainly just stopped to see if I could, and I'm still using it as a mental challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:09 PM
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How many blackpillers do you think like Jesus?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:11 PM
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Ya but those rules dont apply to straight white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:32 PM
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Remember when SJWs argued that saying mean things was the exact same thing as being physically violent? Thats what this sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:05 PM
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Beta af. The dude is crushing on this bitch cause she bought food for another man. On another note, Austin cops must be fucking bored outta their skulls, holy frick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:00 PM
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The male beauty standard increases yet again. Ye gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:55 PM
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Was this really worth a thread, or are you fishing for drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:46 PM
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Everyone, everyone is inherently selfish, you cannot deny that. Even acts of charity have been proven to have a selfish core to them. Human nature is downright selfish. This is what makes us, for lack of a better term, trash. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:58 PM
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Lol everyone is selfish trash though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:44 PM
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Why dont you like 90% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:24 PM
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We can easily feel sorry for being lonely, but if you show a man that you're sorry for his lack of sex, he will most likely make an attempt to have sex with you. Whats the excuse for this shit happening online? Face it, women dont get it and dont care to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:18 PM
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But at least we understand that those things hurt. All of you seem absolutely flippant and dismissive about our sex drives. I demand reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:58 AM
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After reading a certain thread, its apparent that women will never understand the male sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:41 AM
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To you, you silly goose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:59 PM
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Lol who even are you. Im not being hostile, I'm trying to put across what its like being a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:40 PM
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Do you think the homeless are doing good because they are surviving? Do you think someone with no friends who cloisters themselves in their apartment is doing fine because he is surviving? Would you consider a suicidal person doing just OK because he hasnt actually done it yet? What do you think needs are in the civilized world? We are expected to fulfill non-survival requirements all the time in order to lead happy lives. Why is this any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:39 PM
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You're looking at what its like being a man from the POV of a woman. You'll never get it at this rate. And it'd be fine that you never got it if you werent so condescending. Its like me telling you why getting pumped and dumped is no big deal. Just get over it, you big baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:36 PM
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Lol you pulled a Karen, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:45 PM
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A woman being fat makes it harder for her to find a man that meets her standards, lets just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:48 PM
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Compared to not fat women, you could say that fat women struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:42 PM
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Being attractive is step one towards finding a relationship. The gym is how a fat person becomes attractive, because fat people are unattractive. Therefore, if you are fat you will struggle greatly in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:39 PM
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Well yeah. Theres also a shitload of divorces too. If you cant pick up on your partners love language after years, you a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:05 PM
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If she's in a relationship with you she'll know how important sex is to you. If its important, she should be willing to speak to you in your love language, just like Im expected to speak in hers when I'm being loving. It goes both ways. Sure something else could cause the decline, but I gotta be the one to endure feeling unloved because thats my love language. This is where communication is imperitive, because thats how spite grows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:46 PM
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There's a difference between 'I feel safe with you' and 'you are my safe option'. One is enjoying a sense of security, the other is knowing your partner isnt going to leave you because he has no better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:42 PM
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Well sure. But being picked because you are safe definitely means much less sex. If she loved you, she should show it. If thats your barometer, it'll be pretty evident when she stops loving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:18 PM
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I think the difference is that the safe option arises when the person you're with no longer does anything for you after years in a relationship, so staying the course is the 'safe option'. So unlike looking for rapists, this is a much slower, gradual descent that men have to be wary of. So any men who experience a marked decline in frequency of sex since the beginning of the relationship should be on the lookout for this. Its kinda like a barometer of how much she actually gives a shit about you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:57 PM
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But yeah, if you look at every woman as a potential gold digger or manipulator you are going to alienate the ones that are not as easily as the ones that are. Whelp, if women look at every man as a potential rapist, then you are going to alienate the ones that are not as easily as the ones that are. Of course the stakes arent nearly as high in our case, but the sentiment is the same. Im sure you arent exactly chuffed to be treated as a gold digger as I am treated like a rapist. But, its necessar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:46 PM
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I'll see it where the girl snaps at the guy one minute then acts all kissy and loving at some point later in the night. Absuve, manipulative relationships are a thing. Also, I never said that some men are simply paranoid that this happens. Think of it like having the fear that a guy is only in a relationship with you for steady sex. Its a fear that keeps you vigilant for the worst case scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:33 PM
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Start writing your episode ideas in regular blog form first, for yourself. It not only gives you an opportunity to see how much content is there for each concept, it'll act as a proofreading exercise. Plus if you're willing to put in that work ahead of time, you can gague how interested you are in actually going through with the concept rather than something you'd like to do one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:22 PM
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Why would you not leave someone who was demeaning to you? Men who fall under this trap in particular arent exactly great prospects to begin with, and not only is dating a nightmare for them but there's a strong chance they wont find anyone else. I've seen it in low value friends myself. If they chose you, and are loyal to you and treat you well, why question that? In this situation you feel like any love demonstrated is a lie through the teeth, that they're only there to extract resources and cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:14 PM
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Safe in this context means that your other half could do a lot better than you, but he's staying with you because he knows that you know that and you wont leave. Also you can get away with certain behaviors with a safe option that you couldnt in another relationship, like being bitchy or demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:09 PM
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Whats your xbox game o choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:37 AM
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Snapchat is a really odd app though; it seems built just for cheating. I'd be a little sus if I saw it on my girls phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:03 PM
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Eh. What would you do if your husband of 3 years was cheating on you? After all the trust you've built over that time just going to shit? Shit gets weird fast when infidelity is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:27 PM
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Dude. I. Am. In.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:10 AM
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What benefits do you get from microdosing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:16 AM
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Any bad experiences? How was your first time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:25 PM
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Let me know if you get anywhere with micro, it interests me greatly. How were your mushroom trips?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:05 PM
1

Microdosing is just doing a small amount of shrooms. Supposed to be good for you. Mushrooms in itself is probably considered to be pretty close to weed in tameness anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:04 PM
1

You mentioned vodka earlier; how do you drink it? Im a whiskey and bourbon dude, so I cant imagine drinking vodka straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:34 PM
2

I am in a relationship. I love my girl. I also want to fuck other women. I dont fuck other women because it would hurt my girl, and she is important to me. It is in my nature to want to fuck. Its also in my nature to eat whole family bags of Doritos for dinner every night. If a man can curb his indulgences, he can curb his polygamous nature. Its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:24 PM
1

Has anyone had experience with micro-dosing, or just mushrooms in general? asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:16 PM
1

Still dont see geo-politics anywhere in there :p
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:00 PM
1

If you look at allllll the other topics posted here today and cant see why this doesnt belong, then you're being a little ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:46 PM
3

For this sub, yes. This is just amother excuse for [deleted] to bash men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:20 PM
2

This has nothing to do with dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:17 PM
3

The people in that group are probably mostly edgelord teenagers anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:54 PM
1

Well no, I never did that. There is definitely a sliding scale when it comes to incels and they all get lumped into that extreme. But I get just as defensive when FDSers slander men, so I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:43 PM
1

Obnoxious, its in the eyes of the beholder. Im sure half of you guys still consider me obnoxious. Self defeating, absolutely, with a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:30 PM
2

I was basically an incel before the term was coined. Should I be eradicated?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:21 PM
1

I wish sometimes that incel content wasnt blocked; I had a good response to the thread posted and it was locked before it printed. I know why it is, because incels have no fucking chill. But still.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:59 PM
1

This is how Idiocracy happens. Fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:19 PM
6

In a vacuum, women dont hate sex. It can be an enjoyable experience for them thats nice to have with a skilled and handsome operator. Compared to men though? Women basically hate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:01 PM
3

Absolutely. I owe a lot to a couple really generous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:12 PM
2

I dont know about everyone else, but my anger phase was integral in order to change my mindset. Arguing with others was the only way to squash my own warped beliefs and adopt healthier ones. Your brain has remarkable self defense mechanisms to keep your current worldview valid; it would actually physically hurt sometimes to take in contradictory information. I dont think a lot of people understand it because they never had to wholesale dump out your brain's default way of operating for a new one…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:04 PM
2

Thanks. You can guarantee I'll be all over this place tomorrow lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:04 AM
10

The reason these men thrash about in anger is because they have been deemed unworthy by the entire female population. They internalize the feeling that they are not good enough and not worthy of love and it sinks and rots in their core. This rot festers into an incredible self hatred that gets projected onto any online forum unfortunate enough to have them. It doesnt matter if they find other people unattractive. They hate it when you find them unattractive, because literally everyone else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:58 PM
1

I dont take risks like that. It would be fine, but Im not risking getting busted. Oh. And my headphones broke, so no music all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:45 PM
1

Lol working all day. In a snowstorm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:14 PM
1

Tomorrow is going to be miserable and so have no idea how I'm gping to be able to handle it. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:45 PM
3

There are groups of men that women want nothing to do with, friendship or not. Its not as outlandish as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:11 PM
2

Women arent forced to act like anything. They took the ball and ran with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:31 PM
3

So do you think there are men who overcame a struggle without being angry or resentful at all? Have you seen it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:44 PM
2

Q4W: What do you think of the concept of the Anger Phase? Do you think its a necessary step for a struggling guy to find the right path, or a baby throwing a hissy fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:38 PM
16

Let me know when you get a date after asking a woman that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:07 PM
1

Everybody is a self centered piece of shit, dont expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:07 PM
3

I cannot put into words how little women give a fuck about your feelings. So get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:51 PM
4

If nobody sees value in you as a person, why should you? If everyone else requires their love to be earned, why is it any different with yourself? I dont think there's a world for me where self hatred and self improvement arent hand in hand. You improve yourself because you cant stand the person you are. The person you are is an ugly worm who doesnt deserve love; therefore, you become a being worthy of this love. Why improve yourself at all if you already love yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:55 PM
4

Oh I know; Im a lot better than I used to be. I still get looks though because a man with resting bitch face means danger to some women. But it still means that some people going through mental illness are treated like murder rape men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:28 PM
1

Dude.. What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:43 PM
1

Oh, thats how you argue. I suddenly lost interest in anything you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:29 PM
3

The type of person who would resort to plastic surgery to enhance their appearance are not the type of people I would be in a relationship with anyway. So, hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:19 PM
1

Denying this is possible when there is clear, recent, legal precedent for it is really just willful ignorance. The only reason to hold willful ignorance is to be able to support reprehensible, indefensible beliefs. Listen, dont call me a proponent of marital rape just because I'm skeptical policy makers will make it legal. That's just unsound logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:17 PM
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I'd get shifty glances, people physically recoiling, just every piece of body language under the sun that said get the fuck away from me. If you're lucky you get a group of girls that point at you saying 'eew' to their friends. There's other innocuous stuff I noticed, like women looking at me in a bar and bringing their drinks to the bathroom... in broad daylight. The bartender and I just shook our heads and chuckled at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:09 PM
2

There's a pretty big leap between 'incels believe every man should be assigned a woman' and 'society culturally enforces monogamy'. The cultural enforcement society does looks nothing like what incels want; cultural enforcement itself is basically your mother badgering you to tie the knot with your SO, and it discourages cheating on your SO. It is not 'women are mens slaves to rape in their house'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:57 PM
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I've creeped women out just by existing. I was depressed, had social anxiety and didnt take care of my appearance, so people always thought the worst just by looking at me. The things you describe is overt creepy behavior; men can be labeled as creepy without doing overtly creepy things, just by having a 'creep' factor. Their existance is an affront in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:38 PM
3

Do you believe they're going to legalize rape because a bunch of incels want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:29 PM
4

Listen, I want to fuck women outside of the relationship all the time. And yet Im still faithful. Many, many men are atill faithful in spite of wanting to fuck 1 out of every 4 women they see. But nobody gives a shit about faithful men, just the awful jerk dogs because we all have to morally posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:52 PM
2

Online dating is a relatively new phenomenon; I think (should hope) we're all starting to learn what a shitshow its turning into by this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:44 PM
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Im doing "ok", but I feeling like Im always playing catchup. Like I shouldnt be struggling with what I'm struggling with at this stage in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:39 PM
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Or maybe there are people out there that are different from you. Its like saying anyone who calls a suicide hotline is stupid because you never needed one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:36 PM
2

SICK. it was supposed to say sick. Stupid phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:09 PM
1

Lol I think she would feel legitimately ripped off if her wealthy boyfriend never spent money on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:52 PM
1

Wasnt there a study that women got sick of their men more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:40 PM
0

I deliberately omitted that, I dont like discussing finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:51 PM
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Sex comes less often and they become generally less loving if you happen to spend under the expected amount. Its not a straight dumping, but the path is set to walk down should it happen for long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:37 PM
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The difference is that girls will stop loving you for not spending X amount of dollars, whereas I dont want her to spend a single god damn cent on silly gifts for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:05 PM
0

Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:33 PM
-1

When being a better person means becoming a different person, its the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:19 PM
2

So is being in a relationship with a hypergamous girl just prostitution with extra steps?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:13 PM
1

Have you ever been suicidal before?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:03 AM
1

Fuck, I was getting so twisted up by my own appearance all day today that I completely forgot I had a body dismorphia problem. Ignore everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:55 AM
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CMV: Men are now expected to spend just as much time on their physical appearance as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:40 AM
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Every single standard that women have and men dont is a source of asymmetry. I'd say there's at least a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:38 AM
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Lol ok but our nation is fucked if all of our kids are raised by cunty single moms. But hey, enjoy the decline, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 12:06 AM
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I have a sinking feeling that we're going to see a dramatic rise in spoiled entitled women in the next 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:32 PM
2

I dont care, just by your tone I know Im going to regret probing further.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:16 PM
2

Do you care about the guys sexual needs... at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:07 PM
1

Shit, I forgot about eating disorders. Maybe I'll look into one for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:58 PM
1

You know, I was 17 years old 15 years ago. That makes sense, because I was absolutely taught and saw a different set of values. But you have to admit that male beauty standards certainly arent dropping. With all the stuff going on in the world, doesnt the beauty standard rising just make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:36 PM
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Nah, its OLD raising womens beauty standards combined with stagnating wages/women entering the workforce on droves, simultaneously dropping mens inherent value to the Mariana Trench. Certain trends may have started 15 years ago, but its really pulling ahead full steam now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:09 PM
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Metrosexuals were always laughed at, and women didnt expect men to look like 80s rock stars. Its about the standard of the average man, not the outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:58 PM
1

Times are changing, and men are being judged much more harshly on their appearance. Its gonna be a rough decade of learning for a lot of dudes to adjust to new standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:49 PM
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I dunno, I had sex with my girl after date 2. I wanted it, she wanted it, so we did it. Its been years together now. Just go by what you want and sport an abundance mentality. I mean, if you want to wait two months for sex, I wouldnt hang around. But then we probably werent compatable to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:51 PM
1

Well, its just different words for getting your head on straight. I think the wisdom would still ring true if you phrased it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:42 PM
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But if you choose the right women you'll have lots of sex anyway You'd never find out until years in how much you'll really be having. There's a lot of women whose sex drive for you is nowhere near where you first started dating. You look at it and think you got sold a sack of moldy potatoes. Men are at the mercy of women when it comes to sex in an LTR; she either wants it or you get nothin, Jack. If a man is single, he may not even be having as much sex as he would have if he was in an LTR, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:10 PM
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Todays the kind of morning where my girls annoyed that I'm annoyed at her for being annoyed at something stupid. Luckily I get to go to work On another note, I looked at mgtow for the first time in awhile, and jeez. Listen, I understand going online and twisting in the wind, go bananas. But understand that you're doing it because you're going through a struggle; devoting all that energy towards being spiteful is not sustainable to a healthy mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:43 PM
2

Fuckin women I swear. Men find 50 reasons to love a bitch and yall find 50 reasons to hate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:14 AM
1

Oh no I purposefully accidentally paralyzed myself now I can never run again oh nooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:12 AM
1

Did you watch the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:02 AM
1

Hunh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:45 AM
1

Oh no the news just showed a report of roving gangs of thugs stabbing any and all joggers I cant marathon run now oh noooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:38 AM
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Oh no, its too cold and snowy here to do a marathon, how sad for me oh no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:18 AM
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Lol its because he's literally this chad dude who happens to be brown and not tall, and no girl wants anything to do with him. But its a reality tv show, who gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:05 PM
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Location is a pretty big factor. Can a man build himself into a chad in New York City? LOL fuck no. Raleigh, North Carolina? Maybe you can pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:29 PM
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Risk averse guys still wont go for ot unless its legal. Beyond the capacity of getting busted, being illegal makes it less accessible, increases chances for STDs and introduces a criminal element, I.e. getting robbed while you're fucking a prostitute and you cant go to the cops because you were.. fucking a prostitute. Like, I wouldnt ever see a prostitute here because its illegal. But if I were thirsty enough (like if I lost a limb and nobody wanted to fuck me) then Id consider making a road tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:12 PM
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Originally I was thinking no. But if womens standards keep rising and more and more men are left out of the dating pool, it might be a good help. Of course, legalizing prostitution will probably help more in the short term cause the technology just aint there yet. As much as you want to be defensive, low value men need options and a reason to get out of bed each day. If its a sex robot, more power to em.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:01 PM
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Or maybe porn appeals to men because they're primarily visual, and women need more than that to get worked up, I.e. a storyline that a book provides. I have seen men get angry and jealous from their partner just looking at a man, wearing clothes he doesn’t approve of in public, even talking to a guy. Like come on, men get way more jealous when it comes to their partner.We all know this. Stop downplaying it. Well, I havent seen it, so my lived experience nullifies yours. Now, if you were to provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:48 PM
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Because we're talking about porn use. Women dont watch porn like men do, ergo Im talking about this perspective. Besides, you dont know if men do this more than women, you're pulling that out of your ass. I can recognize that there are meatheads that are like that, but dpnt make a definitive statement without proof to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:40 PM
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There is a distinction between that and 'my partner shouldnt find other women attractive'. Logically she'll never say that, but it's a gut feeling that porn produces because women know what men are like. There's also women that believe their man 'isnt like that because we're soulmates. I only have eyes for him, so he should only have eyes for me', which is a pile of nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:29 PM
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If you can show me a study I have a few comments, but Im not gonna comment if you're not certain cause thats news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:24 PM
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Well, Im not going to lie that I believe a lot of anti-porn and anti-prostitution talk from women is emotionally rooted in that monogamous 'I only want him to love me' core, and a rejection of male sexuality in general. BUT, I think there is a valid point in the pushback, in that the consumption of these things can correalate to undesirable men who cant control their indulgences. So its kinda both, but women will only tell you that side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:12 PM
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I would argue that an anger phase is natural for non natural men. Seeing what female attraction really is, and looking at yourself as a man who isnt good enough is, for lack of a better term, rage inducing. It takes years of introspection to develop peace of mind for something that is such a sore spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:56 AM
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I dont think my cardio is cutting it anymore, Im not drenched in sweat like I used to be when I was more of a fatty pig fatty. Maybe I'll look into spin classes, it just sucks that they have pussy music. Give me a spin class with Rammstein god dammit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:35 AM
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Apparently all I have to do to become a sexual tyrannasaurus is alternate drinking Jack on the rocks and double IPA's. I hadnt had such an energetic drunken high in years. Lasted a good while in bed and was rock hard 2 minutes after the first round. Shit was mental. I didnt even have a bad hangover. What a fuckin awesome night.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 06:02 PM
1

More like HIMpes Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha Im clean I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 04:48 AM
1

Ladies and gentlemen We got em
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:12 AM
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We're just talking about two separate things at this point. I'll teach you a thing or two about the birds and the bees some other day, if you catch me on a good mood. ;y
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:35 AM
1

What makes you think I didn't absorb what you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:20 AM
1

You get good quality roses for that much here. A dozen costs at least 20 from a florist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:08 AM
1

I bought the dozen for 7 bucks. Its not a huge deal if your woman isnt aversed to supermarket quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:02 AM
2

We dont trade ruples for potatoes comrade. We uh Use dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:58 AM
1

Yeah we buy roses by the dozens here. Never heard of that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:55 AM
2

She changed her tune a tad and gave me a chipper tone while jumping in the shower. Looking better yo I have a sneaking suspicion she knows about my reddit postings, in which case what the fuck is she still doing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:52 AM
2

Eh, what are ya gonna do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:50 AM
1

In soviet Russia, roses gift you! Listen, Im in a relationship, Im not throwing this shit at someone Ive dated twice. Im also not a giga chad that can get away with doing whatever I want and still get rockin NSA sex. Whaddya want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:48 AM
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Whelp. Got the girl a dozen roses and some mochi ice cream, and the good vibes from that seemed to have mellowed within two hours. Sex or not, Im getting crunk tonight, fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:32 AM
1

I would have hoped that women can contextualize the difference between LTR love sex and after the club Chad sex. Its not the attraction aspect that had me slightly resentful, but the lovemaking aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:49 PM
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If sex is your ultimate act of love, do you feel like doing it as much when you don’t feel love/loved? Well, Im a dude, so I'm up for it regardless. Its all fun and games to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:16 PM
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My girl's mother had something like that happen. 28 years later and she still gets really emotional around the time of her would-be birthday, and this woman is tough as nails. There's nothing you can say. Just be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:43 PM
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Link me an article, because Ive known people that were able to eat an absurd amount of junk and be rail thin. I mean my sister and I grew up in the same house and ate the same meals, she was always rail thin and I was always a pig. Unless she threw up on the sly idk, but she's still rail thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:59 PM
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display status Yeck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:57 PM
3

But thats not why women in general are enamored with jewellery, right? They're not looking at a wedding ring and,creaming their shorts over liquid assets. ....or are they. I cant be sure anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:44 PM
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Im glad you brought this up, because I was on a track towards being resentful. My love language is physical contact, so to me having sex is the ultimate act of love. I was talking to Tumbleweed and she's taking as if sex is just nothing, and it made me think 'Am I an idiot for putting so much emotion into sex when women will never reciprocate those exact feelings?' But you're absolutely right, people talk in different love languages. I had forgotten about that concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:42 PM
1

They're both useless shiny rocks that cost a lot of money. Same difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:21 PM
2

Oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:39 PM
1

I see this as an absolute win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:13 PM
2

Even in LTR sex, with foreplay, cunnilingus and making sure you cum first? Hot, passionate, intimate sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:03 PM
2

It wasnt even anything to do with my post, he didnt like the way I made my point. I dont fuckin know, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:39 PM
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So you feel like sex is a gift for the man instead of a mutual thing? Like he 'used you up' for his own purposes? Im just trying to put the thought process into words.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:35 PM
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*Makes post "I dont like these points in your posts" "Then refute them." "No, internet fights are for losers." "This is a debate forum." "You're a doody head!" ...like, for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:33 PM
2

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:26 PM
2

It’s not too expensive and they have a 2 for $25 deal that comes with 2 glasses of wine and a shared dessert. Lol sounds like Applebees.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:22 PM
10

I don't think there's such a thing as a non-sexual romantic act. Any act of romance is basically prolonged foreplay imho. Ooh, I like that. Nice post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:12 PM
4

Another rhetorical question, but is the act of sex itself not romantic enough? Do you have a requirement to feel special and cherished?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:06 PM
2

Boy you said it. Have a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:58 PM
9

Its a debate forum you donut. Either debate or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:53 PM
1

Ok, let refute some of it and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:50 PM
2

I think when people say 'dont be fat' here its targeted at women, and its basically saying that all you have to do to be super high value is to not be fat, in comparison to all the additional hurdles men have to clear to achieve the same status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:17 PM
7

Are you so dense that you cant recognize that you are one of the people gifted with a super fast metabolism? There are pople that get fatter than you by eating less than you do. The one time I had that bad of a diet I ballooned to 250 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:15 PM
1

I get some fucking strong ones that make my body contort. They happen a lot more during sex than jerking off, but a couple days ago I was doubled over in the shower because I had a real whopper of an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:50 AM
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Thread will be closed due to circle jerking. But yeah agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:39 AM
2

Its an endless treadmill. I'll never be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:10 PM
2

I'll let you know in six months if I'm about to slit my wrists due to zero job prospects. Thanks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:09 PM
2

Like I said, its indicitive of a wholesale increase of womens atandards each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:54 PM
3

Resume's done; one mark checked off on my monthly to do list. Time to celebrate with some Jack on the rocks. God damn it felt like homework though, ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:52 PM
2

Eh, I wouldnt expect you to notice anyway. As long as things are good for you everythings A-OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:40 PM
1

True, but its a barometer of the worsening conditions in general. Each year it gets worse and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:28 PM
2

Men. Best marriage stats. Most sex. No gigantic handicap via gender difference. Sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:03 PM
1

Well, there are men who dont want to learn dancing but feel it necessary to increase mating chances, so of course they're going to have that attitude. Then again, there's a lot of shit they had to do that they initially didnt want, so idk how this is so much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:03 PM
2

Yep, women have a stranglehold over mating. Enjoy the decline, fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:58 PM
4

Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:18 PM
6

Im letting you know I dont give a frenchmans fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:14 PM
6

I blocked Atlas in part because 90% of her posts were arguing pointless semantics. So
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:09 PM
1

Im not necessarily trying to get ripped right now, I have to lose the gut first. Im not doing that eating god damn potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:21 PM
1

Lol I was never jacked, I wouldnt know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:01 PM
1

I want to know what to expect if I were to go down this route? Whats with the defensiveness? If you say being an attractive man is easy, then its also important to consider how much it costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:00 PM
1

How much does it cost for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:49 PM
1

Are you telling me you tailor your tshirts? How much does that even cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:40 PM
1

I dont know dick about it. Got any sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:34 PM
19

Women are Wonderful, Men are Terrible. Also Women are the Prize, Men are the Donkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:14 PM
3

Why. Is is it so hard. To not make. Fat boy decisions? I got a healthy option by the skin of my teeth for lunch. I had like 5 other fat boy options that were way easier, way tastier and way cheaper, and I resisted it all for one meal on one day. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:13 PM
1

How does a well fitted cheap tshirt cover skinny fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:11 PM
2

You say 'isnt that high' but what does that entail? Being tall enough? Having enough hair? Not being fat? Spending enough on a wardrobe? Are flaws in appearance allowed at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:50 PM
4

I think the problem is OLD uprooted everything and we need to readjust. Its no secret that looks matter a lot more than your profile and message game, so the rules are presumed to be an end-all. Its also a fact that appearances naturally enhance your game through halo effect, so why waste effort improving everything when focusing on one area does the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:38 PM
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The problem is that looks are the first barrier to success. If the looks threshhold isnt met, then it doesnt matter how much game you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:28 PM
3

Which posts are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:39 PM
5

Way more men are NPCs and the threshhold to be treated as such is much lower for women. This is why my initial reaction is to not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:55 PM
3

Arguing in bad faith, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:13 PM
1

I censor myself with pretty much everyone except the couple times Im seeing a therapist. If there's one thing I learned, its that nobody likes a weak man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:50 PM
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How so? Men are already treated as NPCs as default. This is the exact same. I should have stated that in order to get attention, they have one prerequisite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:24 PM
6

False equivolency, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:49 PM
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You turned studies that say 'men arent as attracted to smarter women' into 'men hate women with a personality'. The man hater continues to twist facts to suit her narrative. Move along people, nothing to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:18 PM
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Women have one prerequisite; be pretty. Men do not have one prerequisite, we have many, including being pretty. So.... Yeah. I dont think I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:01 PM
1

Pff, no shit thats unusual. I mean... You enjoyed it? Yay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:33 PM
1

I can absolutely see the appeal. Was the place super classy? I wonder how they get both an actual masseuse and a person willing to jerk off their customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:12 PM
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-For one, women and men lead entirely different lives and are treated very differently. A womans life experiences are more likely to wildly differ from that of another man. -Women typically act guarded towards men they are not immediately attracted to. As an unattractive man, I'm not compelled to relate someone who gives off a frosty disposition. (Not exactly true; I think my tendency to look naturally unfriendly and threatening doesnt help much. But the former sentiment was my natural state of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:53 PM
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Just got done with my massage. The massage itaelf was ok, but wow was I able to do a deep meditative mental dive. Imagery manifesting out of thin air, heavy introspection.. obviously I was long overdue. On a side note, does anyone else just want to fuck their masseuse throughout the whole thing, or is it just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:24 PM
1

Women arent exclusive after the first date. Why should I be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:11 AM
2

Yeah, maybe. My original goal was to double the amount of weight I could do reps of at the end of the year, and this is a simple end of month goal. We'll see how it goes. In my estimation as long as I keep up exercising Im in the positive, so meeting my goals is icing on the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 12:54 AM
2

5'11". And I do look like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:55 PM
2

205 lbs. Not terribly ambitious I know, but again, I'm planning on putting on muscle as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:14 PM
2

If I could give you my belly fat and man tits I absolutely would. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:04 PM
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I have two goals for the end of January- definitevely get under 200 pounds and finish my resume so I can find a better job. Adding muscle mass may throw a kink into the weight loss goal, but since Im relatively starting fresh Im hoping a lot of the fat I carried is an easy burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:34 PM
1

Or there are guys who think they know the One Weird Trick to make you have an orgasm, and when you tell them "Hey I'm not really into that, can you do xyz instead" they get upset or argue with you. This is a weird one. You take the time to look up how to please a woman, but you got a woman right there who wants to be pleased and you're gonna throw a hissy fit? Morons. Also good insights. Nothing says cooperation like mutual selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:55 PM
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I mean, its not the worst thing in the world. At the end of the day, its still self improvement. But its also still manipulation. And the fact that a lot of women do it doesnt make it not manipulation. If it was a benevolent action, yo'd be as upfront about it as possible, but these women arent because its sneaky and shitty. Then again, the ultimate justice is when a man does improve and leaves her ass for a better woman. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:36 PM
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We have to approach women, do all the work to get into the relationship and deal with constant rejection. And if we chase our equal, we are constantly rejected no matter what we do. So we start to think that we are worth less then we really are (which also makes men physically ugly and depressed as people tend to become what they think that they are). When any man voices our concerns about this, we are shamed and personally attacked. Which makes men either angry and toxic, or more weak and insec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:17 PM
0

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:09 PM
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Eh, you're still entering a relationship with him on conditions and withholding love to meet your demands. It doesnt matter how gentle you act about it, thats what you're doing. The whole 'being supportive' thing is a lie to conceal your true intentions. I mean, you're not going to tell him that this is your plan with him on the first few dates, right? You're waiting for the dude to get emotionally and time invested in you before you drop your decree. You also dont realize that men are generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:04 PM
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I might be using harsh language, but I think Im being fair about it. Obvioisly Im not trying to debate you, but Im just letting you know Im hating on the act, not the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:57 PM
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Hey, at least you arent fat. There's a lot of people who would kill to be in that position for that reason alone. I mean, your family doing that was a little fucked up, but it coulda been worse. That being said, there's a lot of people, especially dudes, not raised with that sort of pressure, and to put that on them with your love as a condition is a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:44 PM
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Dont build a boyfriend, men are people, not empty vessels to impose your will upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:16 PM
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Dude. I want the job of Meme Arbiter for my local paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:16 PM
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Does any other guy in a LTR use sex to get closer with your girl? Something that I feel is really not touched upon here is the kind of connection that is forged with your partner. It gets drowned put by "MAN WANT SEX", when its honestly the best way I can feel close to someone, and infrequent sex causes real consequences. Do any other men feel the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:10 PM
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The next time someone calls you stupid, believe it. Im done wirh you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:13 PM
1

I did two posts ago. Like I said. In my last post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:02 PM
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I am telling you that you are interpreting my words incorrectly. I will say it again so you understand what I am saying to you. I am telling you that you are interpreting my words incorrectly. Do you understand? Did I get through to you? Read my last response. This is what I meant. Not whatever horseshit you're trying to pin on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:57 PM
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Lol that isnt what I implied at all. I meant to say that women dont consider men to have any problems whatsoever because womens' problems exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:49 PM
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I dont expect a woman to relate to a mans struggles or drives in the slightest, so thats completely inconsequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:42 PM
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Eh. Im not going to go out of my way to entertain anything she has to say or any studies she wants to show. I dont have time to feverishly pore over everything thats put in front of my face. I also dont pride myself at looking a gift horse in the mouth, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:34 PM
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You dont want opinions about jews from a Nazi, even if they have studies. I still have a clear conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:54 PM
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I'm not going to listen to a misandrists opinion about men; your point of view is already compromised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:31 PM
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I know it must suck to be the "evil" gender, but you can't change reality. Why would I give a shit about anything you have to say after reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:41 PM
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I was being sarcastic you egomaniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:07 PM
1

Wow, you really do have a solution for every problem. Why dont all the world leaders just consult you when they have an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:50 PM
1

-Free -Professional Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:54 AM
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So mens problems dont matter as long as a woman can be a victim. Nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:52 AM
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Cant afford therapy and medication. Whoopsie poopsie, guess my road stops here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:17 PM
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Its inconsequential. You are talking to me as if I had gone through an amazing inner tranformation, and yet I have nowhere to turn to. If I dont get guidance soon I will turn right back to hating all women again. What do I do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:14 PM
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Just got legalized like a week ago. Stupid legalzation is dancing around close enough to annoy me that it isnt legal here yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:11 PM
2

That last line does explain some womens behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:38 PM
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Again, I never said women didnt have problems. But your problems dont invalidate mine, and vice versa. I didnt touch on all of the bullshit men go through just for brevitys sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:47 PM
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Ok, done. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:09 PM
1

When did I ever say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:06 PM
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Yes, all of your experiences with men are completely invalid as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:15 PM
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What does fixing their issues like a normal adult look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 02:30 PM
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Dude, come on, thats not what I meant, stop trying to score points. Your perspective that men only see women as sex objects is your biased female perspective. Do you know how many dudes were kids who had a massive crush on a girl and got their heart torn to pieces? Do you really think all of mens negative views about women come out of thin air?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 02:09 PM
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No, he actually has a really strong point. Im sitting here twisting myself into knots trying to find a good response because he absolutely nailed it. All of your shit is from a female perspective. Speaking as a man, this is a really big issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:57 PM
1

Wait, is FDS advocating beating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:36 PM
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Because there is a sexlessness epidemic going on. Because women are frustrating to deal with. Women are really fucking frustrating to deal with. I dont condone hitting a woman. Like at all. But women also beat their men.. I guess they dont go around posting about it? There's some pretty vile things said about men on FDS as well, Im surprised you havent noticed. Have you considered that your exposure to certain subreddits may be tainting your image?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:24 PM
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And women dont gave cognitive dissonance at all? They're never hypocrites? And if you're going to be a stickler about this, show posts from the same user who said these things, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:13 PM
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Men hate women because of how they treat them. Women hate men because how they treat them. Stop. The presses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:05 PM
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I may have some semantics off, but you get the picture. Actually the distinction of masculinity being what women find attractive is interesting considering that 'toxic masculinity' is just manly traits that arent attractive to women. Smells like a shitpost to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:02 PM
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Fame is status, and women definitely care about status. Fame also means money, and women definitely care about money. I know right off the bat you're gonna protest, so ask yourself this; would you rather be with a guy who's respected by your friends, or someone who your friends think less of you for dating? Would you rather go out with a dude who takes you out to nice dinners and buys you expensive things, or asks you for money to pay off his student loans?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:58 PM
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Fame being an attractive trait is masculine. Men dont give a frenchmans fuck about famous women because they're famous; its because they're really hot. There's a reason why the only people who watch Entertainment Tonight are goofy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:48 PM
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Lol thats true. Had a girl flip out on me because I was on SSRIs and couldnt cum. At the time it didnt even occur to me that she would be offended that I didnt cum so I was just confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:57 PM
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I think we all saw the Nina Hartley instructional video at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:37 PM
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Upvoted for being baller.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:11 PM
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Im not going to argue because this is going to turn stupid, I can feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:10 PM
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I would kill to last forever. Maybe I should go back on SSRIs, I was able to lay some serious pipe at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:01 PM
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Thanks for that. Im just going to focus really really hard on the massage I have scheduled next week and count my blessings. The next few days are going to be a fucking grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:51 PM
2

I know, its just rotten to be autistic in general. No matter what your life is just going to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:42 PM
2

You bitch, you actually did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:35 PM
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Dont make me harass you about utilitarianism again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:30 PM
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Good. Now let me be mentally ill in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:25 PM
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A woman who wants it all. Imagine my surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:21 PM
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Just a heads up, Im having a terrible day and if I snap at anyone I apologise in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:17 PM
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If the dude loves to eat you out, he cares. Also, if the physiology was on the other shoe, do you really think women would give a shit about male pleasure? Pff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:16 PM
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-Strong willed emotional rock who will weather the storm -Emotionally in touch soul who will comfort you in times of need Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:09 PM
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Neurotransmitter bullshit doesnt matter when the Kill Switch is engaged and you're just buying time. And of course you can make a guy cum quicker, its the easiest thing in the world to make a guy cum. Doesnt make you aome sort of master cocksmith. Point is you dont give feedback in English, you're speaking a language that you both assume a man is listening for and can interpret what it means, which takes raw experience. The same experience you gatekeep like a bank vault. Not to mention all the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:00 PM
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Or when I'm getting to a point and I say keep going and he nuts right then and there. Women have this strange delusion that we're in complete control of our orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:55 AM
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Ive been beating off, its just no porn. Im not a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:49 AM
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Lol, 'go back to'. Hilarious. Anyway, you can treat a dude nicely and not do it in a romantically misleading way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:47 AM
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My abstinence from porn is quickly becoming a lot less about the actual porn and more about re -establishing my willpower each day. No porn, much less booze, and more exercise. Im exhausted, but Im still not giving in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 01:16 AM
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I dont know, it was just a catchall term from unearned. Like qualities that she already possessed, its of consequence that it works out in her favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:53 PM
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Listen, I dont want my penis telling my brain what to do just as much as you do, but Im the one thats subject to its screaming desires. Im the one that's subject to your sexual desires because you hold all the keys. I dont want the retarded amount of lust I have any more than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:21 PM
1

Damn, an enthusastic line of suitors ready and willing to impress you sure does sound terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:11 PM
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My mistake, I meant choice of men. Be skinny, wear makeup, pick and choose your man. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:54 PM
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Eh, just lose more weight. Limitless men. Ez pz.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:50 PM
1

Only if Im promised my choice of women after I put on some makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:37 PM
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Eh. Id rather wax my taint then have to be amazing at everything in order to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:32 PM
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If I call it pulling an Epstein, does it count?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:25 PM
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Womens qualities are ones they dont have to earn, I.e. they're things they inherently have. Attractive men need confidence, status, money, muscles, etc. I mean women do work on their appearance, but their looksmatch men work just as hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:55 PM
3

TIL cry to sleep every night if you start losing hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:43 PM
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Thats why I put it under the automod you summer sausage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:21 PM
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Finally (this is for me) I would like to ask what I someone can do if they begin a relationship with someone who enjoyed sex with multiple people and multiple times in any given week/month but lose all libido soon after starting a monogamous relationship. Boy, if you can figure that one out hmu.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:03 PM
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Thats my point; its an unearned quality. Consequential of owning a bergina.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:54 PM
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The men who cant achieve what they want with the qualities they have on Tinder dont belong on Tinder. 85%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:44 PM
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CMV: Most of a woman's value is either unearned or consequential. This phrase is going through my head all morning and its giving me a sour mood, so if someone could tell me why Im wrong, I can move on with my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:33 PM
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Aka suck it up or die alone. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:14 PM
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Well, it doesnt change the fact that it sucks to live through sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:09 PM
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I think my problem is that I've been afraid of women from puberty to like 24, and I still have social anxiety issues. So I still have a lot of residual tension when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:37 PM
2

Well yeah, free meals for you xD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:19 PM
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I wanted to say dating is just shit. But you could choose to do fun activities while you date, so that even if the chick is a miserable user you still have a good time. Plus you get bonus points for being the 'fun guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:13 PM
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Thats what was bugging me about this thread. Thank you for reminding me. Women flock towards certain personality types a lot more than others; chances are this guy is on the outside of this bias, so he feels like he has to change himself to attract women. So his options are to either change to one of these favored types or work on himself for a really long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:56 PM
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Ok, lets cut through the fat. How many women have you PnD'd? How manu can you do in a given time frame? Is it enough to your liking?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:43 PM
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I'd assume its purge residuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:55 PM
1

Do you happen to like the way beards look on dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 05:54 PM
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Well, I only had one experience with a woman in that age bracket, and she hadnt had sex 2 years prior. As a man in his young 30s, I hope to be pleasantly surprised in the coming years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 05:49 PM
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I wouldnt say that it isnt unheard of for a woman to have sex in the back of her mind all day. But a lot more men are like that than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 05:37 PM
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Compared to mens? Absolutely. Its a lot more situational, a lot more discerning and a lot less persistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 05:28 PM
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"I wish this fantasy lifestyle was real, but it's mostly not even real for the people involved in making it." Im not convinced all men that regularly watch remember to separate it from real life; if it becomes habitual over years, it just becomes background noise in your life. The FOMO may be more subconsious than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:32 PM
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I was leaning towards inc*l guys, but the rules are shaky regarding that content.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:29 PM
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Some people beat off to porn to the extent that its a lifestyle, man. What can I say?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:18 PM
2

Women: Does facial hair on a man enhance or detract from a man eating you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:10 PM
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I get where its coming from, but its misguided. My estimation of why NoFap exists is so men can exert control over an area of their lives that is so dominated by base instincts, to reclaim some agency. Its rising to prominence now because the dating scene has never been worse for men, so they feel like they have even less control. Having said that, beating off is healthy. I would suggest no porn instead of NoFap; you can still exert self control, you can still relieve tension and you're not gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:49 PM
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You keep asking for evidence for this stuff when all of it comes from anecdotal, real life experiences. Nobody documents this shit, we just live it. Do you have proof that men catcall women on the street? Show me or it doesnt happen. The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:12 PM
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Oh I know. Most of this subs content either heavily implies or outright states that women are the Desirables and that men are the donkeys. Im not going to be sour about it though, dwelling only causes misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:33 PM
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Women are expected to be emotional and men are expected to be stoic. The amount of emotion a man can display is much less than that of his counterpart. And no, its not just toxic masculinity. Women enforce this just as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:24 PM
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So men have to clear it with women to see what they can and cant get upset about. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:56 PM
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Agnostic. Dont know if there's a god, never will. It's ignorant of me to presume there absolutely is or absolutely isnt, so why bother? Philisophically, we're all just self interest driven bastards bumping off of each other; in other words, absolute chaos. Existance is inherently meaningless, but theres no reason not to make the best of it while we're here. Oh, and death is just a void of nothingness. Black and somber, just like sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:28 PM
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Hey, if women didnt divorce rape men this wouldnt be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:39 PM
2

Lol fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:29 PM
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Im not wasting my energy on morons like that anymore. Just make my personal life what I want and I'll have a great year. 2020 is gonna be my bitch, mark my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:18 PM
2

Women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:54 PM
1

This is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:22 PM
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Im blushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:56 PM
2

Oh no, did you get burned by trying to find a chick on OLD? Well, welcome to the club, have a drink on me. Males have it easier for that because women are far more forgiving with age. Single moms existing also make for insta families. The wall is only as high as the quality of the man. The catch is if the woman is worth it... Family oriented women are absolutely capable of ruining a life. Spice is my thing, but my system cant handle it like it used to. I can still order indian spicy at an indian…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:40 PM
3

Hows the lesbian thing going? Are you bored with the idea yet? Also AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:23 PM
1

Is that why you're divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:12 PM
3

I think if it werent for raising kids prostitution would absolutely be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:53 PM
1

Oh shit poppys black? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:28 PM
2

Hatefucking made zero sense to me. If I hate the bitch, why am I gracing her with my cock? I was wondering if hatefucking makes you last longer though, since you're focusing on hating her instead of the good fee fees of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:26 PM
2

Whelp, there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:29 PM
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I think Im definitely developing a preference for thick, curvy women. I dont know what to do with this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:08 PM
1

Chicken stock does make more sense. I also never really fuck with chicken thighs, so this'll give me some good experience with its taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:07 PM
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Im gonna try that chicken soup recipe at some point. Sounds motha fuckin delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:59 PM
2

No, Man Up means “We expect men to act like a stereotypical men”. No it doesnt, thats your interpretation as a woman who hates men. You didnt invent the term, we did. I think we know more about it than you do. Man Up basically means fix your fucking problems and stop bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:50 PM
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Man Up and Grow the Fuck Up are remarkanly similar when you think about it. It might as well be the same thing. I think you're being a tad disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:38 PM
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Show me. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/eh79cu/what_causes_a_guy_to_get_so_caught_up_in_his/ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:31 PM
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Then the problem isn't femininity. Its NEGATIVE feminine traits. You still dont want a man who's dominantly feminine. Most women expect their man to act like a man. Have you heard Kpop- No. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:04 PM
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Never had the opportunity. I already said I dont expect it, Im using it as a reason why men get on other guys for their behavior. Please use context next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:02 PM
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3.5 Billion women and apparently you think they're all wanting to fuck ultra-masculine dudes? Its that general femininity is a detriment, not that masculinity is a must. The men who are feminine have things to make up for their detriment, namely better hygiene, more attention to fashion, better looking in general, etc. No woman is attracted to a man that cries more than they do. Also, why? Kpop stars are famous because of talent. Talent doesn't change your masculinity. Talent changes your appeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:00 PM
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No, we're not. We're on r/niceguys and r/TheBluePill offering solutions and making it explicitly clear what NOT to do. Men just have to take the time to listen. r/IncelTears has a section where guys can get advice. The guidance is there. But what's the reaction? "A fisherman doesn't ask a fish what it likes!" I did make a point to point out IRL specifically. If a man is turning to an online forum for help, the real world already failed him. Online help can only matter so much because of how impe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:40 PM
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I dont think understanding necessitates hatred; you can understand a man or woman operates a certain way and rationalize that they never chose to do so. The anger surfaces because of bad experiences, like others have said, but also because our instincts are almost diametrically opposed. Women want one good male to settle with, men want to sow their seed with as many women as possible. People learn facts like this and become incensed that we are not inherently cooperative bit in fact combatative,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:31 PM
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You're missing the point; women arent going to tell men anything that make them look bad, so men have to check each other. 'You're not being manly'? Yeah, women dont like feminine men. 'Dont show you're depressed'? Yeah, women dont like emotional luggage. As for your last one, nobody has to tell other men to pursue sex; they naturally want it. Women are deafeningly silent IRL when it comes to helping struggling men with women problems. Im not saying that its your obligation by any means, but som…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:07 PM
5

Oh fuck. Did you just single handedly explain why womens standards skyrocketed this past decade?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:16 PM
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Yes, I lost my virginity at a very late age and struggled in general right up to relatively recently. I remember very distinctly at a middle school dance two girls dragging another girl towards me while the one being dragged was screaming 'No! No!' in a playful manner. Another girl kept acting like she was my girlfriend as a goof. I was just depressed and had a really shitty view of myself at the time I should have been learning about women, so everything kind of got warped around it. Maybe your…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:58 PM
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You're a real cool dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:51 PM
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Im using my experience as well. I dont hang around women that would do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:45 PM
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Most women aren't like that. Maybe in your circles the stats are skewed, but thats definitelty not most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:34 PM
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I never said people who use porn to salve a DB are addicted, but they do use it to alleviate the hurt of a DB. Addiction is a tricky concept when its not a pure physical dependancy. I guess my issue is that other areas in a relationship can be great, but when the bedroom becomes a recurring problem, even after discussing it with your SO, there's a tendency to try to alleviate the issue on your own as opposed to just breaking things off. I guess it depends on how much of your sex life you're will…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:32 PM
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Or she'll drop you for the next one because you 'arent man enough'. But at that rate she's doing you the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:07 PM
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(Ignore what I said 20 minutes ago) While it is a vice that feels good, and I do think some men overdo it, why wouldnt it be reasonable to accept that some men dont get enough sexual satisfaction in their relationship and use porn to fill in the blanks? Would you accept that you dont have the equipment to relate to a sex starved man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:51 PM
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Not inappropriate at all. How does he exert dominance in bed? Does he still proposition you for sex as an equal, or is that where his dominance start?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:52 PM
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Thats the thing, I dont think women even want the authority; being submissive means giving authority up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:47 PM
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How many men do you think use porn in their LTR as a way to curb their appetite to serve their SO's sex drive? A lot of guys want to bang way more than their wives do, and they're also expected to stay faithful, so that pent up energy has to go somewhere. I'm getting to week 1 of no porn and beating off is becoming more like a chore (Its healthier for a man to beat off at least once every few days, also being used to curb excessive sexuality). My partner's lower libido is a lot more noticable, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:44 PM
2

Could you flesh this out? What does this imply you want to be/what you expect your man to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:33 PM
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Especially is he's a busy CEO who doesnt have time to waste, yes, you would he absolutely wasting his time. Unless you want to be upfront with your intentions before you meet, that is. If you're omitting a truth, ypu've got something to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:04 PM
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Wow, he really is getting the raw end of the deal, huh? I was going to make a point about demonstrating value on first dates, but I think you're just embarassed about what you really offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:42 PM
1

Whats your version of special treatment you give to your man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:32 PM
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Your version of equality is getting special treatment when you want and being treated like a man when it services you. You're all gluttons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:25 PM
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And there's plenty of women who want to fuck a guy with muscles. And what do you mean, 'think like you'? I want a woman who treats me like an equal. Is that too much to ask for these days? Is the dating scene so absolutely skewed that Im expected to pay for the privelege of basking in your feminine presence? I give plenty in my relationships; the difference is that I want to be treated like a human being, not a servant. Is that asking too much? Do you know where my utilitarian views come from? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:19 PM
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And men dont value being cash dispensers. It seems we're at an impasse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:02 PM
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No, I started working out with 20 pound weights, and I couldnt finish a 3 rep set with them until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:44 PM
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I half expected to fight you for hours on that point. Color me surprised. You're giving advice out to guys about dating when you cant relate to guys and you cant relate to how difficult dating is for us. What good is it? You really think we havent thought of 'Just be better, stupid'?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:37 PM
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There's a also a difference in finding a fuck buddy and finding a life partner; one can survive on disrespect, the other cant. Their strategies are disrespectful, and I dont want a girp in my life that doesnt respect me like a person. Some bimbo in the club getting TRP'ed wont care as much if she has muscles to lean on. There's a fundamental difference, and you're letting your 'Slay Queen!' mentality cloud your judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:27 PM
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Just had my first noticeable improvement weight lifting; I was finally able to complete a set with the weights I used when I started. Hopefully this is the start of a long journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:14 PM
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You're comparing 'Women dont want to fuck hot men' with 'Men dont want to feel like a vedning machine'. Its not comparable in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:11 PM
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Women straight up have it easier in the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:08 PM
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I'd argue that something even less masculine is giving a shit about some faceless nobody's online opinion. Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:58 PM
1

See what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:57 PM
1

I guess once a chad, always a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:37 PM
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Depression and anxiety are pretty big factors. Men have the disadvantage of having to be proactive in order to obtain what we want, which doesnt play nicely with mental disorders. Also this entire post is BOOTSTRAPS as fuck. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:24 PM
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I honestly treat uglier women better than pretty women. Something about beautiful women just seems so alien to me, that their life experiences are just so wildly different than mine and I cant relate to them. It could be residual feeling from being treated like shit in high school, so idk. I can see where you're going with in regards to sex, but Id assume that would only be the case if the man gets boatloads of pussy. A real man doesnt half ass sex; be prideful of how well you lay the pipe down …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:20 PM
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Exactly. Do you think men brag to their dude friends how awesome their wife is in order to get brownie points? Fucks no. At best I can see a quiet admiration when other guys check out your hot wife. Stand on your own accomplishments, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:14 PM
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No, FDS' strategies will nail them a blubbering beta POS that'll make them sick to their stomachs after two years. Those are the only people who have such little self respect to fall for garbage like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:19 PM
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I would think that, because its so easy to attract men, those that cant are viewed as people who must have something wrong, and are avoided. Its like avoiding some dude on a public bus with a messed up collar; if he cant even get that right, what else is going on with this guy? The thing that really gets me is when successful women, in all aspects, brag about their men in their social circles. I suppose what it comes down to is that bagging a high value man is what women really want, so the high…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:17 PM
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Well, FDS seems up to the task to create the toxic internet environment. Also, what percentage of struggling men do you really think is comitting violent acts? Come on, now. Should the small percentage of mothers who kill their babies mean we should condemn any woman with post partum depression? Maybe you need a break from the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:00 AM
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Do you think there's a male equivolent for such a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:17 AM
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I dont think guys like being told their sexual preferences are a load of bullshit and impossible to achieve. Imagine if casual sex was the norm and only 5% of women ever landed a husband; after awhile it would eat away at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:56 AM
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These women dont give a shit about who a man dates in addition to them (since a lot of their posts claim something like 2+ months to be exclusive anyway), they just want omnomnomnomnomnomnomnomnom FREE FOOOOOOOOOOOOD. Domt give the gluttons what they want, they dont respect you and they never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:15 AM
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Out of curiosity, why do you think that is? If its so wholesale there must be some core differences that are setting one gender apart from the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:13 PM
1

I would insta-marry a chick with a Homer Simpson vagina tattoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:12 PM
1

If you're that worried about being raped or murdered, why not date in the middle of the day? Wouldnt that just be another bonus point for daytime coffee dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:50 PM
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I've always been pretty easygoing with physical preference. Great when selecting a mate, but god damn if Im not attracted to a fuckload of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 05:53 PM
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I still jerk. Not watching porn still makes me notice women a lot more, has nothing to do with jerkitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 05:41 PM
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You can even use your lubed condom for all the rocking sex you just earned for being so thrifty. Absolutely brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:30 PM
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I wonder what percentage of women who are treated like princesses as children act more like they're some valuable prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:10 PM
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Pff, Im questioning if you're a prize with each passing day here. There's a difference between being treated with respect and acting like a gluttonous piece of garbage. Guess who I beliebe will make a better partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:32 PM
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Women: We demand equal pay! Also women: You better pay for our dates you piece of shit. Im done being a sarcastic shit, I just had to get it outta my system.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:17 PM
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As a non-natural man, Im simply done analyzing why Im miserable. The only way you can approach living as one of these men is to expect absolutely no one to give a shit about your problems, meaning you're in charge of your own happiness. Worrying about gay conversion therapy is just spinning your misery wheels. Everyone's a self interested piece of shit, dont expect people to share their happiness with you. Do what you want and find your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:05 PM
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I have self respect so I dont let my wallet get sore on the first date ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:35 PM
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A woman being overly demaning with your money on the first date is exactly the same as a man being overly demanding with your pussy on the first date. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:28 PM
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If a woman believes you owe her recompense for her time, she isnt worth your time. If she valued you as an equal, as opposed to a vending machine, this wouldnt even have to be said. These women are not worth the energy to worry about. Some people value a much more transactional relationship (especially when it only benefits them, hurr hurr go figure), and I am absolutely not one of those people. Therefore I can easily write these people as those not worthy of my time. Would anyone else agree tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:24 PM
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Me 24 Her 50 Her 25 Me 29 Say what you will about the first one but she was both super hot and super chill. If do it again in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 10:12 PM
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I've been thinking the difference between self hatred and self love is that self hatred is looking out over the landscape of your brain and seeing a filthy junkyard, while self love is looking out and seeing your beautiful trash kingdom. This pile of complete garbage may not be the best, but its my god damn trash heap and I am the sovereign that reigns here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 08:23 PM
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For what its worth, I lost my V card to a woman that was decades older than me. She was super fucking hot to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:36 PM
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Nobody's forcing you to do improve at all, if you dont like the game dont play. If you dont want a sub par woman, nobody is forcing you to be with one, be with the woman you're proud to be with. But nobody is forcing them to be attracted to men they arent attracted to either. It is what it is. I'm just saying I'm not into being with a woman who has to settle for me, becauae thats when a lot of problems happen. I want to improve myself because there's things in life I want to accomplish. If there…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:11 PM
1

Sounds like black and white thinking with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:30 PM
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Isnt swinging around the term 'normal people' akin to the 'No True Scotsman' fallacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:27 PM
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Im not trying to convince you of any sort of gender being fair, or anything like that. If you dont think women are worth the effort, dont date them. But as I was telling someone else, increasing your value is good for you first and foremost. It is work, but ultimately you're doing yourself a service.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:22 PM
1

Do you think the average man is finding it harder and harder to get with the average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:19 PM
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Red pill is mostly for pickups and casual sex. This is geared more towards relationship shit. I dont know what else to tell ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:19 PM
1

That song stinks. Christmas is bad enough, just let the bitch die already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:08 PM
1

This doesnt make you feel contempt for her? Did you intentionally seek out a situation like this? What made you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:01 PM
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Well, if a woman has nothing to offer but her looks, she'll be used for sex. Same difference. The high standards men complain about is the fact that you often need to provide value in several departments while at MOST the value she could provide you is often just sex and her mediocre companionship. I never said it was necessarily fair. And if you feel the juice isnt worth the squeeze, thats totally fine. If you feel like your woman isnt pulling her weight, talk about it, and if it persists, dump…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:55 PM
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I never said women being used isnt a big deal. If anything I had compared your being used for a night to our being used for years at a time, but thats as far as it went.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:49 PM
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Male, obviously. If I didnt think about sex all the time, I wouldnt be here. I have tp make a concentrated effort not to appear like Im attracted to women a lot. I realised that I rarely think about sex. I think about it when my boyfriend is trying to build the sexual tension throughout the day when we're at home. And I think about it when I am planning to seduce him when he gets home. So I think about it when it's about to happen. You have no idea how much of a luxury this sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:47 PM
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Who cares? lol Okay, he had a bad experience, THAT'S NORMAL! I dont think we live in a healthy society if a man being used for his money is considered normal. Women brush this off all the time as no big deal, but you're not the ones on the receiving end of having your soul drained from your body. The problem is that those low value guys are dealing with mental illness, so they dont have the capacity to change until they change their mentality. Yes, exactly. Its absolutely endemic and nobody give…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:32 PM
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Id think her financial situation plays a huge role in how a single mothers standards shake out. She'll be more likely to find a sexless beta worm quickly if life as a single mother is too overbearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:27 PM
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Yeah, in the example that happened the woman did tell the man how in love she was. This is kinda why I would stay away from single mothers, among other reasons. While you cant stop that necessarily, you're still in control of your own value. I'm not saying she'll learn to fall in love, or that she'll suddenly become more appreciative. Thats the kind of stuff you need to figure out how to vet for. There's also a difference with setting when it comes to 'There are better people that exist out ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:16 PM
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I mean sure, there are always more beautiful people. But people evaluate others through their own lenses; and if one is in love with another, the bad fades and the good shines. People arent machines that all arrive at one stat block for a person. There's things put in place to stop cheating; loyalty, guilt, time investment, loss aversion. All things that are easier to acquire if your value is known to her. Works the same for men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:10 PM
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Day 3 of porn abstinence and the only thing its doing so far is making me thirstier for women in every other context. I have a feeling this whole anti-porn movement is a sick feminist ploy to increase their value even further. /s, shouldnt have to say it but here we are. Also god damn workplace is still playing Christmas music. I was accepting of yesterday as a buffer, but this is horse hockey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:05 PM
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And you're not outraged labeling all men rapists. So you're just as big an asshole as they are, congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:18 PM
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Im bothered with being labeled a rapist, yeah. If you cant see why anyone would be upset by that then you must be a special kind of asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:13 PM
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I found this video to be pretty good, for a quick 7 minute pop psychology piece: https://youtu.be/A02Ucd6monY This channel sometimes goes a little too hard on the 'your parents were shit' side, but this is a good perspective. Unrelated, but fuck anyone who tries to spreqd the notion that all men are potential rapists. Just got back from a nice Christmas and come back to this shit. Some people are unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:35 PM
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Am I really supposed to sit here and pretend that incel content is conpltetely fine to wholesale disallow, but having someone tell me that my entire gender would be violent rapists if law allowed is totally fine? This place is turning into a clown fiesta.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:19 PM
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It happens because the average stranger is essentially treated as disposable. There's tons of strangers out there, and usually they're just hurdles in your super important life. So why waste time with one that doesnt fulfill your giney/peepee tingles in the way you want? In other words, the odds are greater that if someone appears to fill a role you arent interested in, there's a greater perceived chance they're going to waste your time and resources by not being what you desire. Just remember, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:09 PM
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I think Im going to take a break from porn, if only to see if I magically becoke self actualized. On a related note, am I depressed if I admit to myself that Id really have to force myself to give a shit about being ambitious?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:38 AM
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I just find it funny is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:25 PM
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Has a huge moral problem with pornography, yet leers at strangers bulges hoping for huge packages. My sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:05 PM
2

Sounds like social anxiety. The alcohol sounds like he uses it to loosen his inhibitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:36 PM
2

Time to buy silk gloves and hit the club. Bonus points if I can sneak a blindfold on em first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:56 PM
1

Repeat the word "insecurity" in your head for 10 minutes straight and you'll find your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:49 PM
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Its much more likely that the guy foolishly asked beforehand and she told the truth. Statistically, most men arent going the be the biggest a girl has been with. Its about the size of your loving soul, not the size of your veiny keilbasa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:39 PM
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I mean... Did you get it checked? Even if you can function fine without high T, wouldnt you rather know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:07 PM
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After spending like 4 months here, Im finally starting to understand women. The pieces are sliding into place, and the feeling of finally getting it is fantastic. You're still a pain in the ass, but at least Im not confused about it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 01:12 PM
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Honestly, you just bug me. Simple personality conflict. I'm just going to block you, because I dont think I can resist being a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:51 PM
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Hey, those are good skills for women to have as well. Nice post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:38 PM
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Expressing your genders disadvantages is literally the same as complaining, ypu pathetic weakling. Now go man up and quit yer bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:36 PM
-2

Complaining is for the weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:03 PM
3

Ah, a 'weakness is for the weak' type. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:33 PM
1

Sometimes I wonder if women even consider men human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:46 PM
3

Operative word is 'sometimes'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:49 PM
2

I was going to post exactly this; there is absolutely no such thing as a 'ticket to pussy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:39 PM
2

Whatever you want; Im ready to let go of the balloon and let it float into the aether.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:45 AM
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I'm not saying all women who imply you should pay for the date are using golddiggers. But all using golddiggers will imply you should pay on the first date. Split that shit, better safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:44 AM
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Ugh, why does drinking have to be so much fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:33 AM
1

Rich people are almost all assholes. Power hungry rich people are most definitely assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:12 PM
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I was going to start with how men who cant get their desires fulfilled is an obvious point, its obviously bad if a man cant get his dick wet. After that, it kinda branches out to everywhere. The male sex drive is used as a barganing chip by shrewd women to both punch above their weight class and enable hypergamy, it causes a wandering eye in relationships which enables the leading cause for men to cheat which leads to all problems divorce and child custody.. The fact that male sex drive is focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:53 PM
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Ah, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:43 PM
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I was going to make a post titled, 'Should male sexuality be viewed as a burden?'. but I just cant ger all my ducks in a row. My thoughts are simply spilling out of my head like an unwanted Orange Julius.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:12 PM
1

I dunno, losing desire for the opposite sex sounds like a pretty sweet deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:46 PM
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There are women who arent toxic assholes who try to get away with as much as you can; the only way to find them is to have next to zero tolerance for that kind of shit behavior. Be prepared to drop the atomic bomb if it ever becomes an issue, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:58 PM
3

There was a study done on American politics that stated we should be classified as an oligarchy instead of a democracy. This was 4 years ago, and nobody gave a shit. Everything that happens in politics is incredibly meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:04 PM
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Women allow for their view of men to be tainted by rapists and abusers. How is this different? I already elaborated that I dont want to hate women. I am actively fighting my perceptions to let my logical side win, what more do you want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:53 PM
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If I didnt have a hatred for such flippant, uncaring disgust, what would that say about me? What kind of person would I be? But... I know I shouldnt hate all women, because there are women that arent flippant, uncaring monsters. I dont want to hate women. But my god do you people make it fucking difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:07 PM
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And thats why we hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 12:40 PM
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How many of those men are even going to show,up on your radar? There's a reason some men bevome obsessed, because they were shit at getting women in the first place; it becomes their only form of sexuality. If a womans intuition isnt a giant pile of horseshit, then it shoildnt be a problem to suss those guys out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 12:37 PM
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I know you dont. Men are horrible and women are wonderful, therefore nothing you do is wrong. What a wonderful world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 12:34 PM
5

Ugh. As a guy who struggled, I really just want to lay into you right now. Having disorders is hard enough, we dont need you people to act like assholes on top of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 12:21 PM
1

Thats just bullshit propoganda. Nearly 100% of men qatch porn; why arent there near 100% of men who cant get it up for their women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 12:11 PM
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While I completely understand where you're coming from, you have to know when to cut your losses. Incels are typically really bad at making an objective point; at least the most vocal ones are the most emotionally charged and simply pejorative. Not to mention the Blackpill is so god damned fatalistic, even for me... I dont see the point in arguing a stance where everything is utterly fucked and unfixable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:11 PM
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I was always referring to the lovelies at FDS, not to you in any way. This is where your involvenent begins: Because we’ve endured TRPs incels and mgtows and their bullshit for years. It’s clear, they can dish but they can’t take it. Taking joy in witnessing others being called subhuman trash. Shafdenfruede, or however the fuck you spell that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:03 PM
1

Hey man, my retirement plan's a shotgun. When my time comes I'll welcome the void with open arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:41 PM
3

Hey, good thing I dont want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:50 PM
2

Wow. Is there anything you cant do with strength and resolve?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:10 PM
3

Only for weak, not assertive husbands. So do all men in bad marriages deserve it? Its entirely their fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:54 PM
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What are some personal benefits marriage bestows that cohabitation doesnt fulfill? Also, we can absolutely let the world die off, humanity isnt anything special.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:52 PM
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People. If you can’t handle differing opinions, stay the fuck off of a debate sub. I wouldnt call calling a group of people useless subhumans debate, but otherwise your point remains valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:23 PM
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I would think you would need briefs. At the end of the day, who cares. If a girl/guy is bothered by your saggy balls/tits, next them. Spoken like someone without a scarcity mentality. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:31 PM
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Time to put "support nutsack so it doesnt sag" on the list of womens standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:25 PM
2

Is it possible that trying to find a solution to a problem directly contributes to a problem? I have a sinking feeling that maybe spinning my mental wheels around something is a coping mechanism to make it feel like Im doing something when the problem can only be solved with action instead of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:22 PM
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Thats fine. Just dont be shocked when the door revolves again. Whats good is good if its good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:18 PM
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Whats good is good if its good for me. Works both ways; not really seeing any women regulars have a problem with the FDS storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:09 PM
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This thread alone makes you the most miserable poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:29 PM
2

And women wonder why men are mysoginistic. Ecks dee.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:52 PM
5

To be fair, did you really need a study to figure this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:48 PM
2

Debatable. Certain personality types align with typical masculinity and typical femininity. If a child rails really hard in the opposite direction, there's only so much people can teach it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:45 PM
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A lot of men arent naturally masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:34 PM
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Do you think actually masculine men would dial back their true nature simply because it might benefit a class that dorsnt deserve those benefits slightly more? Or do you think its naturally unmasculine men hamstering why they dont want to put the effort in to make themselves feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:23 PM
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A lot of men arent naturally masculine. I dont know why you would assume every man is a dynamo of masculine possibility and simply choose not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:19 PM
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There's modes of personality that are more successful with women, regarless of age. We're also expected to be the emotional rock, to be the provider, to be strong. Not every personality type is given a mathmatically equal distribution of attraction. We still have expectations to fulfill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:14 PM
3

Eh. The void cant be worse than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:52 PM
3

So do people only fail simply because they havent tried? That you can do anything if you simply set your mind to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:41 PM
3

Id recognise that certain peoples natural dispositions are more rewarding than others. Therefore some people are stuck in a positive feedback loop, while others in a negative one. In order tp get your results I have to be a completely different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:16 PM
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I think you're just one of those people who has had such wildly different life experiences that you're literally alien to me. I dont know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:10 PM
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In other words, be ambitious. Which is an alpha trait. Not everybody wants the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:56 PM
3

You're the one thats shook, you do it. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:43 PM
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Well, other people arent you, and lead lives they consider lackluster. Their natural selves arent working for them, so they need to change themselves in some fashion in order to get what they want. If others have a template that has worked for them, why not emulate it? What works for you may not work for others. I can just not worry about what people think about me, but I can assure you that I would simply die alone. Some people dont have the luxury of being their natural selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:43 PM
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Your points carry weight only if the person in question has traits like ambition and extraversion. Without certain qualities, what you receive out of this world will be lackluster; ergo, some people need to adapt to the world around them. People arent going to be searching for answers if they didnt have a problem to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:30 PM
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I wasnt following you around, you just happen to post everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:27 PM
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If the last time when your point was valid was 5 decades ago, the ship has sailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:14 PM
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First off, you dont have to try so hard to,get a point across. Settle down a tad. I think men start out not caring; the problem arises when women expect you to act a certain way in order to gain their attention, so the men start scrambling for a solution. Becauae what they were instinctually doing wasnt working, they cant trust their own intuition anymore and start pooling for information. You can die on the hill of being as authentic as humanly possible, but it only works if its the right kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:04 PM
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I imagine its to the same extent women care about mens feelings. If you're my spouse, I'm miserable if you're miserable. If you're a friend or family, Im interested in lending an ear and helping you through it, if necessary. If I dont know you, I got my own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:04 PM
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Like I said, there's more and more pressire on men to be more attractive. It'll catch up, dont worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:17 PM
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Well, I cant dissuade you from your own experiences. Just compare your life to what a short guy has to go through, and there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:13 PM
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If you're gunning for the top 5% of guys, maybe. Most guys arent that picky. Just be thin. Also have you been here before? The amount of beautification men are expected to do is rapidly rising. I wouldnt be surprised if beauty expectations were more or less equal in 2030.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:31 PM
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You wouldnt get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:20 PM
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And? We gave one standard we hold you up to, compared to the dozens you give us. And you cant even achieve that, considering how women are getting more and more heavy. If you cant fulfill that one standard we have, how much do you really care about us? I lied, there's two standards; be thin and dont be an asshole. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:13 PM
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I guess women trust in the ability of other women not forget the advice even if it delivered without a link. and then to take the initiative to google stuff. Awfully convenient. Im glad women are a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:59 PM
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Thats just it; there's a lot to consider if I'm going to have a permanent fixture on myself. I also need better muscle tone to get one in general, so one step at a time. I'll be researching what a good tattoo looks like in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:09 PM
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Girls with tattoos definitely do something for me. This is trash. Good to keep in mind, I'm preparing to get my first tattoo at some point next year. I dont want to look like.... this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:57 PM
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I think I finally figured out what was bothering me about this whole FDS thing. Saying an entire group of people is disposable is a fucked up thing to do. It doesnt matter if its a race, religion or a gender, its just a fucked up ideal to put out into the world. And since this is the first time this behavior has happened to me, I started to internalize and absorb that message. Fuck FDS, I have worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:22 PM
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You're aware that there's womens prisons, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:15 AM
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The only thing that bugs me about you is that you flat out reject everything I say while offering nothing of value in return. At this point I dont think you have views about anything at all, you just hate mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:06 AM
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The problem is FDS doesnt explicitly state this advice is only for high achieving women who set the bar too low; this is packaged as wholesale advice meant for everyone, so Im going to treat it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:35 PM
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I understand. It serves you not to give a shit. Thats fine, just be honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:22 PM
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A simple yes will suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:18 PM
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For the record, closing your mind off to someone you're talking to doesnt make you right. Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:25 PM
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So you agree that FDS is a zero sum game?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:19 PM
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Your worldview is reflected in what you observe in the world. So is mine. Die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:12 PM
4

Why work to get money when I can just stab someone on a street corner and take their wallet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:10 PM
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A woman getting men is by no means comparable to a man getting women in any stretch of the imagination, especially if she's only getting low value men. In fact, Id say its a direct analogy to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:01 PM
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Let u/SunflowerBurst and u/the-red_woman know about this :p
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:48 PM
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The problem is FDS doesnt explicitly state this advice is only for high achieving women who set the bar too low; this is packaged as wholesale advice meant for everyone, so Im going to treat it as such. The standards FDS sets are very achievable for a normal, intelligent man. Our standards are not extreme I think I read a thread last week that had 18+ items a man had to achieve in order to be acceptable? How many items do you think we expect of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:42 PM
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If you're a good fit for him, he wont let you go. In other words, men are evaluated the moment we lay eyes on you; women are evaluated the moment we have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:45 PM
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Secondly, the right guys are too timid Non the right guys are both bold and respectful; they want sex, but are willing to put it off for her satisfaction. In other words, for women, the only right men are the ones with little to no faults whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:17 PM
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Maybe the guys who are so adamant about the 3 date rule don't have female friends, so the idea of escalating a friendship to a relationship is foreign? Or maybe they were burned once or twice by an unrequited crush on high school Becky so they effectively cut off the friend to relationship path for future sex partners? Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:44 PM
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Is that really what she meant? I took it at face value tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:16 PM
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There's nobody better than me I wonder how many women have that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:46 PM
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-High Sex Drive -No history of casual sex -Good looking Pick 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:45 PM
1

Sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:29 PM
2

Well, look at where our lives turned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:02 PM
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This. Following our basest of instincts on a societal level seems like a recipe for disaster. Our preferences were built to ensure our genetics get the healthiest offspring, not to build a functioning society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:16 PM
1

She had a habit of exploding for relatively small reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:37 PM
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Man here. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:54 PM
1

I just recalled a childhood memory, where I was such an agreeable little worm that at one point I had thrown up in my bed and slept in it so I wouldnt disturb my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:35 PM
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How.. on earth am I supposed to interpret that as anything but an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:59 AM
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Yes, all men need to realize they are incredibly disposable. Brb, disposing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:18 AM
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Im not triggered, its just kinda sad is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:05 AM
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That's what all of these subs are about; evaluating worth. If you look through the right lens you'll see it everywhere. What kind of man do you look for? What qualities does he need to fill your prerequisites? Do you think those qualities come from thin air, or did he need to prove his worth to get them? Thats the thing about women; they dont give a frenchmans fuck aboit how the sausage is made, as long as they can enjoy the benefits. Unconditional love is an absolute lie, everything is evaluate…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:39 PM
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Here's a quote from another woman here; A high value man adds to my life positively A low value man does not Men need to demonstrate their worth in order to be worthy of affection. Any man who goes through life as he pleases is not good enough, and is summarily ignored. Whether its aquiring wealth, being aesthetically pleasing or adopting pleasant personality traits, value must be assessed before be's deemed worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:21 PM
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You object an awful lot for someone who offers nothing to attack such statements. And dont talk to me about self fulfilling prophecy. It took me way too long to learn that my default self isnt worth jack shit to anybody. Your default self may have more worth than mine, which is why ot isnt as evident. But stop closing yourself off to uncomfortable truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:11 PM
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Its called using evidence to deduce an outcome. Pretty standard stuff. Produce something worthwhile in order to become worthy. I gave you nothing, therefore I am worthless to you. Once I am useful to you, I have a semblanve of worth. A man who adds nothing to anybodys life will never get a woman. A person who doesnt make others lives more worth living doesnt aquire amy friends. A man whose ugly face is a detriment to the lives of others is treated worse than those who have a nice face. Evidence …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:45 PM
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Even women who make over 100k per year still need a man to define her worth. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:23 PM
1

See, I offer no value to your life, therefore I am worthless in your eyes. Its literally played out in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:09 PM
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At this point I think we can all agree to let the mother fucker burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:56 PM
1

And as soon as the words were uttered, they were whisked away by the blowing wind, never to be received by human ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:33 PM
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She's goung to have to demonstrate a lot of value for the juice to be worth the 3 month squeeze. Sexual incompatability is alreadyban instant dealbrealer, so,I have to be head over heels in order for it to work. Listening to the FDS' gluttonous behavior though ensures me I will never fall head over heels for one of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:22 PM
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Listen, I didnt choose what to observe in the real world. The 'everyone is special and worthwhile' is clearly horseshit. Im not going to ascribe to something I cant believe in simply because it would make my life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:57 PM
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Do you have people in your life who care about you and/or rely on you and/or value your existence? If you do then you're not invalid in any way that matters Its not enough. I cant explain it, but it simply isnt enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 11:04 PM
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Clearly there's a metric of value for the here and now though; measuring things only until death is a meaningless gesture. We treat others based on the value they provide; if nobody cares about you, you provide no value to others and might as well not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:31 PM
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Which I do. Doesnt mean I still dont want to get in a good dicking down too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:28 PM
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Im aware, but the term is the most accurate means of conveyance that comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:45 PM
1

Invalid as in you dont matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:41 PM
1

Are there such things as invalid people? Am I an invalid person?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:29 PM
1

Sure, to committed women who dont need a hookup. But he gets attention from people who still get something out of his appearance. He's not an NPC to enough people for him to not feel like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:49 PM
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I dont ever put on heirs that my mindset isnt abnormal; I knew as a kid that I was a fucking weirdo, so I try not to assume that everyone is on my wavelength. Its not about the wealthy reptiles, its about a provider who's keeping your ass from working a shitty job you hate. I mean, I see it happen when men complain about not getting sex and the women are completely flippant about it; they've taken their key to sex and threw it into the sewer because it wasnt worth it anymore, but they'll stay in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:36 PM
2

Depends on how attractive he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:19 PM
1

Would you consider yourself an outlier because you sometimes date down? Do you think there are women out there who would consider unsatisfying sex for a two story house to be a reasonable tradeoff?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:16 PM
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Didnt help though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:59 PM
2

Well, you guys arent together anymore. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:53 PM
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Alright, then theres nothing else to be done. Put the point across as clear as possible, then move on. I guess the problem is women arent willing to dump a guy for this as long as he's providing resources for her to take advantage of. Its seen as a tradeoff that the guy has to figure out the nature of 8 months into a sexless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:36 PM
2

Well, I had forgotten about condoms. But nobody fuckin likes em anyway. The real answer is to take SSRIs that still give you an erection but stop you from cumming. Good lord I could lay down some pipe while I was on that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:33 PM
4

Time to add "Must wear concealer" to the ever expanding list of demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:09 PM
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Crazy concept, but maybe the 7/10 girl should aim for the 7/10 guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:54 PM
7

Do you really think these men arent getting what they want because they arent having sex the right way? They arent having sex, period. There's about 20 more barriers a man has to pass before he even gets an opportunity to have sex, and the number is growing. Chances are its one of the several other dozen factors that prevent them from having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:49 PM
1

Nah, the element of lust for men is having sex with different partners, not necessarily achieving a perfect one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:42 PM
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But you write them off for consideration in a relationship; maybe not for basic human interaction, although with the halo effect even that's up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:40 PM
7

And yet he still gets sex to begin with. Is it possible that this is more of a Chad mindset than anything, where he can afford to have an abundance mentality because he's just a Chad and women want to fuck him? Why should a man care then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:35 PM
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Its been said here that if a man isnt attractive, he's seen as a literal NPC; barely a human being at all. Attractiveness is the first thing we notice about people, its the literal gatekeeper to sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:30 PM
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With all the bullshit you put us through to get there, Im not terribly shocked they dont care. Anyway, you cant force a man to care just as much as I cant force you to give a shit about mens problems. Do what you can on your end, and failing that, just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:23 PM
11

You're moving goalposts, you literally said it was because men are bad, now,they're too ugly? Are you getting fucked by his grooming skills and dress sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:17 PM
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Well, you guard sex like some mystical treasure, so men learn from the only willing teacher; porn. So there you go. I mean, where else is he supposed to learn this? His peers, who are just as clueless and watch the same porn? And for every dude that fucks like that, there's a group of women he fucked like that who didnt lift a finger to correct him. Step up, you pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:13 PM
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Do you know how hard it is to not cum as a man? Have you ever catch running water out of a sink without any spilling? Thats what its like. We get no god damn respect for the work we put in to please you people. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:09 PM
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Does a man ever tell you that? Or are you just reading things on a computer screen? Im also certain that there's ways to let a man know that you consider your satisfaction is important, too. Failing that, just get rid of him, ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:07 PM
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And? There's a lot of reasons for dead bedrooms, and this is one of them... So, what can be done? The woman can let him know what she likes, as opposed to letting the relationship rot because she's too meek to do so. Especially if the woman acts like he's good in bed, even to placate his ego, how would he know thats the issue? In his world his performance is out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:58 PM
2

Its pretty apparent women have an inherent value, and men need to demonstrate it. Women dont notice it because they arent treated without value. Pretty cut and dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:01 PM
2

Women also expect to be with the top 5% of males by virtue of their vaginas, so his version of settling and your version of settling are probably two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:23 PM
2

Lets just say I reach for the funny greeting cards instead of the heartfelt ones on special occasions. Things are finally starting to buoy back to what normal people are like, but I suspect its only because I'm starting to act more like a son instead of some depressed dude in her house. She had wild mood swings growing up, lost her temper at insignificant moments, often enacted punishments that lasted for years even when siblings had fucked up, and hadnt shown a scrap of affection from the age o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:03 PM
2

Men can say shit like 'youre so beautiful' in bed just like a hypergamous girl can say 'I love you' to her BB. Doesnt mean its a 100% thing though. Maybe he just thinks you're beautiful. Also, women get so many compliments they get numb to them. What a world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 03:45 AM
2

On vacation. Jacuzzi tub. Feels like my soul got a blowjob. I feel absolutely godly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 01:11 AM
0

Dont bother, Im an absolute head case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:01 AM
0

Man up and pull myself up by the bootstraps. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:28 PM
1

Would you not be angry if you got an incurable cancer? Just because something is out of my control doesnt mean I cant suffer at the hands of it. Also, you I dont think women have a leg to stand on when they talk about male validation; women know the only thing male attraction confirms is your physical attraction. Womens attraction is literally a barometer on your life. And that is completely separate from the male biological urge, which is a thing in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:27 PM
1

I'd have to sterilize myself, the urges would make me hysterical. And Im not a social butterfly, so I cant lean on a friend circle. I would go insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:20 PM
1

At least 50%. If you're attractive enough for me to poke, you're attractive enough to be wifey material. The distinction is a little odd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:09 PM
1

Could you imagine living under the whims of the opposite sex unless you were in the top 2% of women? What you're implying is that even if I'm attractive Im not attractive. I just have to.. Be somebody else. You're frustrating people, and my happiness depends on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:24 PM
1

You're making me want to slam my head through my desk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:52 PM
4

Why does it seem like trying to be attractive to women is like scooping out your soul with an ice cream scooper and chainsaw-carving it into a Greek marble statue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:22 PM
-1

Unattractive means he's not attracting you. I understand you might not want to be harsh, but you cant argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:17 PM
1

Fascinating, isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:15 PM
2

Im gonna go out on a limb and suggest that if a man isnt attracting you, he's unattractive. I think <5% is a fair assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:11 PM
9

So in other words most men are simply unremarkable to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:07 PM
4

1) Whens the last time a man made you turn your head? 2) How often does this happen per week? 3) How many men do think you see in public that dont do this for you? Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:55 PM
3

If there's a website where you can click on a button every day for a 1% chance for a free pizza, its going to be a wildly successful website. Risk vs reward, basically. Little risk, little effort required, sometimes it pays off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:51 PM
1

Women run out on men who are in bad financial situations. Potato, potahto. That's the best answer, because then you'll actually solve it. Unless that problem is the seven year itch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:18 PM
3

Parental negligence and a cocktail of mental disorders. Thats really it. Obviously they cant be too attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:57 PM
1

I was severely depressed and generally clueless about the world around me because I couldnt leave my bubble. I needed a lot more than that, but yes, I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:54 PM
0

White. My dad made me exercise but never impressed that I'd be unacceptable if I was fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:07 PM
1

Well, should fathers be lecuting their sons about it? Should mothers? Should mothers be the only ones lecturing their daughters about it? Should fathers get involved as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:48 PM
13

Its nothing really complicated. Its just the gender that rails against men controlling their sexuality is trying to control mens sexuality. You know, the people that dont want to be shamed trying to shame men for using it, calling it pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:55 PM
1

Bitch idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:07 PM
5

So no amount of self improvement can turn a man into a Chad? Its all predetermined from birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:01 PM
91

Did you forget about testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:59 PM
1

Getting the rug pulled out of a relationship is a destabilizing force in someone's life. If women are more likely to pull that trigger, its important for the man to be more wary of what is going to happen in such a case. Especially if money and/or children are involved, both cases typically favoring the woman. If there was a guy at a bar that punched the dude sitting to his right about 10% of the time every night, you can either find out why he does this so you can safely have a drink, or just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:55 PM
1

Wtf is going on in the background I guess the argument is that she's publically putting sexual information about a guy online that would shame him and lower his social standing. And that you're supposed to imagine if a guy did that to a girl. I dunno, I think women can just get away with doing a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:41 PM
3

The stories of cunts poking holes into condoms wasnt already an indicator of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:34 PM
8

You're supposed to get fat and notice how people treat you like a pile of hot garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:48 AM
6

Interesting. So you believe that if men do come to terms with the fact they can't get women, they will think to themselves "what's the point?" and in extreme circumstances might decide to end their life? Pretty much. Negative appraisals of themselves arent going to magically go away. They would need a very good social circle, and if he could attain that he could probably have gotten a woman anyway. You believe that women provide a good motivator for men to achieve things? Hasnt it always been? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:54 AM
25

Wait, why do the hottest men get next to no messages? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:48 AM
15

As much as I wish this were possible, despair trickles down into all other aspects of life. And that is what giving up on women is; an act of despair. The belief that you arent good enough manifested into reality. You can see it right on the MGTOW forums; desperation everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:38 AM
2

Except theyre not getting paid, its just people mingling with people. Hypergamy cultures moldifying in a Petri dish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:55 AM
3

I make the mistake, after a lot of drinking, to go to the r/Gonewild webcam chatroom, and holy shit the dynamic is so ridiculously off base. You'll see muscular shirt off dudes just fawning over women that are 3s to 5s. If a girl that resembles something attractive comes through, thirst just grows to an exponential level. I think OLD or doing anything online is like trying to buy fresh mangoes in Alaska; overpriced, shitty quality, and all the locals will still eat them up because they dont know…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:07 PM
5

2 weeks ago I was spazzing out about wanting to cut my balls off becauseI was sick of being controlled by my sexuality. Shit isnt easy for anybody. Unless you're Chad, but that goes without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:55 PM
2

Whelp, if what Im hearing is true and women need to feel special in order to have sex, guess what? Every woman you want to fuck is special, by simple definition. The term gaslighting springs to mind, and I have no idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:01 PM
11

As much of a chip on my shoulder I have, I can recognize that it isnt a burning hatred, but a cold, uncaring indifference. The opposite of love isnt hatred, its indifference. Thats how the saying goes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:27 PM
13

We figure out its unwanted by giving you sexual attention, you summer sausage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:18 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:12 PM
2

I say this sarcastically, but your sexuality sucks. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:05 PM
3

Well, when I was a little inc*l I learned a lot about womens experiences, which helped me enrich my own life and the lives around me. Now that I think about it women dont need to know dick about men at all in order to be happy and successful. So yeah, I suppose it isnt productive in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:14 PM
3

I mean, she was a night shift nurse so I get why she did it.. But she was a night shift nurse, so she was also crazy as sin. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:57 PM
9

Lol naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:36 PM
2

Lady, I am a ridiculous outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:28 PM
16

Do you think its more difficult for a man to be attractive enough to sustain a stream of women to pork, or for women to not be gross enough to get special treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:27 PM
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And males sex drive is having sex with a lot of different women. One gender gets to act out their desires, the other is told to go pound sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:07 PM
0

The psych profile
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:04 PM
75

There was a quote afterwards from a girl who said "I split the bill 50 50 with my man, but when it comes to going out and having fun I want him to pay... because I want to feel special." I think this is the crux of the entire issue: women expect a man to treat them so they can feel special, and that goes out the window when they make more. So now she is expected to treat him, and what kind of twisted world would we live in if that were the case. I cant even imagine feeling I was entitled to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:52 PM
1

Its all coming into focus now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:45 PM
1

Bullshit. All women have to be is attractive and not an asshole. Your group is failing at number 2, so maybe look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:45 PM
2

We're not a monolith you moron. Fuck, you annoy me. Have you ever had to change any aspect of your personality at all to get a guy? I had to twist my psyche beyond recognition to get female attention, and here you are telling me that men need to evolve. You have no idea what its like being a man, and you have no intention of learning. You're not worth talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:38 PM
2

Oh yeah, thats right. We're all fucking morons who should just kill ourselves. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:32 PM
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She rang me up at 3 in the morning, and I was dead asleep with work in the morning. I sent her a text to see if we can compromise by doing such things on my off days, only to be greeted with a voicemail of her calling me a faggot. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:30 PM
3

Women tried to engage men equally in good faith, but men were never on board. Your 'good faith' is hanging on to all of the advantages your gender gets while fervently demanding more from men, while you dont lift a finger to improve yourselves in the slightest. See? I can babble from my narrow scope of perspective too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:27 PM
2

Excuse me while I pull out this Reverse card from my Uno deck.. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:21 PM
7

Well, how much of that do you think is blowing off steam? Men have very few standards while abiding by a comparatively exponential list of standards they're expected to uphold, dont you think some of them are bitter about that? That at least half of those posts are revenge fantasy type deals where a man is able to turn down a woman due to her lust for Chads? Dont let this garbage get to your head, you're better than this, Queen! Now go slay!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:00 PM
5

Between the weord flippant dialogue of the man and the perfect scenario of innocence for the woman.. It's the Fox News of PPD topics. Link to me a convo where a man does this though, I am genuinely curious. Also I can guarantee women dont give a shit about how a man got to where he was in his life either, as long as his,prerequisites are filled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:21 PM
13

The amount of unfairness you put into your post, and your all caps last paragraph tell a different story. At least Im honest about my anger :y
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:58 PM
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I think part of the issue is that a womancan always be assumed to be lying about their sexual past, so when Becky says something like that the guy assumes the worst. Also obligitory you're getting mad at your own made up scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:28 PM
6

Isnt it at least telling how the toxicity manifests in women and how it manifests in men? TRP is all about getting frustrated men a track to get laid, FDS is all about frustrated women a track to get resources from men. I think it says where the basest of intentions lie, and how it cuts through the bullshit of what people really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:01 PM
1

Please ask why. My curiosity is piqued as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:11 PM
1

Lol did you express a differing opinion of sone sort?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:00 PM
3

Because Id been struggling for long enough that I still emphasize with struggling men. Hearing women being unapologetic gluttonous assholes strikes a neve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 05:28 PM
2

do you watch porn Yeppers how often Across a span of a week about once a day? Somedays I feel frisky and others I dont bother how old are you 30's do you think porn is bad Some people are more suseptible to porn consumption like others, like gambling. Also, some people are taken advantage of when making porn. Its not Satan incarnate, but it isnt squeaky clean either. why do you watch it I dont have sex with my gf often enough to be satisfied. Plus its fun to watch. do you consider yourself happy…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 04:30 PM
5

Im involved with a woman who isnt a hypergamous dickhead. I like her. She treats me like a person and I treat her like one too. Its a good thing we got going. If she had done anything you people,are,describing to do on our first date, I would have dropped her like a sack of potatoes. Put that into your sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:53 PM
3

Listen, Im just telling you shit that women tell incels all the time. But keep diluding yourself, I dont have a horse in this race. Keep spinning your wheels and die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:18 PM
3

You're in a bracket where you're only dealing with low value men. Your perspective is tainted by your own experiences. Improve yourself or you'll be dealing with them for the rest of your life. Be worthy of a good man. You have nobody to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:14 PM
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The person who believes she's entitled to mens money by verity of her vagina is calling men childlike. Ow, my sides. Acting like a selfish baby isnt going to get you shit, especially if you're not worth the cost of admission. Judging how emotional you're being, you already know you're not worth the cost of admission. So go spin your wheels and die mad about it. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:05 PM
1

So why should I bend over backwards for your entitled ass? Equality, bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:56 PM
3

So how are you improving yourself so that you can demand the best? TRP is all about elevating yourself to be worthy of a womans admiration. What work are you putting in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:51 PM
9

So does this sub completely validate that women are in fact hypergamous? Is that not up for debate anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:08 PM
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The problem is every man is victim to the whims of every other man and their thirstiness. As long as there's a man to tolerate a woman's bullshit, nothing eill change. It took years for me to change myself, and literally the only reason to do so eas because I wasnt getting a glimmer of sexual interest. I simply cannot see this happening widespread across all of men; we are slaves to our own sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:43 PM
4

Nah, it was cool. I go to a good gym; 20 foot wide doors and bulletproof glass. Its all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:07 PM
9

First trip to the gym in like a year done, thanks in part to everyone calling me fat and ugly yesterday. Much appreciated!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:48 PM
9

The last two women he dated poked holes in their condoms. BRING 👏 YOUR 👏 OWN 👏 CONDOMS Turns my fucking stomach..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:52 AM
2

...you put in an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:49 AM
2

Thanks dude. Sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:55 PM
1

In actuality I probably need to do exactly that; I want to get a tattoo at some point and I dont want one slapped on the wet noodle that is my arm. Im just so aversed to gym rats that I dont wanna be anywhere near the freeweights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:11 PM
1

I think I'd rather die a virgin than try to emulate this douche canoe. Its an incurable personality conflict is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:50 PM
1

Wow that dude gave me douche chills. I didnt even watch the video, just looked at a few of the splash screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:30 PM
3

I kinda like this, all the girls I harass get to give out a free shot. It almost cleanses the guilt away. But you can shove those berries up your wet lasagna. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:25 PM
1

Ugh, I wanted to post something self depricating and pandering for sympathy, but Im over it. A week ago I would have jumped all over it. It is what it is, thats all I'll say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:29 PM
1

Its funny when I was reading up on suff like this. Some people develop one way and excessively dote on their appearance, some people develop the other way and grow a great aversion to such things. So at least your trauma worked out for you. Cheers 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:11 PM
1

No, im just looking for lip service. I've had body dysmorphia from bad acne and I cant stand mirrors or photographs anyway. Doesnt matter anyway, work is actually supplying pizza for once, and as long as I dont eat any I will get what I need from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:56 PM
1

Just shut up and call me fat already
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:26 PM
1

You know what I mean by the context, you silly goose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:23 PM
2

If there's a villain controlling your actions, nothing you do is your fault. How terribly convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:35 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:22 PM
1

Someone woke up grumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:30 PM
4

Somebody, please call me a fat ugly piece of shit, preferably a woman. Ineed some motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:20 PM
2

Must be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:30 AM
19

No you dont. Those are nice to have, you don't need them. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:07 PM
14

Just be thin and use makeup. It isnt rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 09:53 PM
2

Blue pill is just a mockery of Red Pill. FemaleDatingStrategy is a mockery of Red Pill. Scrotes Mad is a mockery of Hoes Mad. You women dont have an original bone in your body. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 09:02 PM
1

Yeah, I dont relate to the old fashioned crowd either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:49 PM
3

The point is I was able to nail your income by hearing your dating style, regardless of your prior circumstances. I dont begrudge you, but you might as well be an alien to me. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:35 PM
2

Yeah, thats what I thought. Im surprised you're not trying to charge me for taking up your time. Listen, Im going to preface this by saying that people love differently. But people in your bracket just seem lizardlike to me when it comes to relationships; seeing you rattle off all of the things you have to do in a date makes it sound more like a fuckin business merger than a relationship. So, Im not going to get into it with you, because Im not interested in that world. Thanks for your time, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:12 PM
0

What income bracket are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:53 PM
1

What are you trying to impress him with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:40 PM
2

I think its simply women gaining power. Not that I fault them at all for it, but thats really all it is. The problem with feminism is that its a million different things to people, and everyone claims its feminism. It's just like dealing with hamstering; pay attention to their actions, not their words. 'Equality' is a great buzzword but the actions havent proven this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:30 PM
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I expect a man to try to impress me Lol I let out an audible eww. You women are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:26 PM
4

Now that Im getting an objective look at this, having a girl go dutch on the first date is a good way to screen women who will treat you as an equal, instead of a revenue service. Its 2019, women hold jobs and are expected to be respected as equals. What does it say about your mentality if you're expecting special treatment on our first monetary conflict? I want a partner, I dont want a coin slot fuck machine that stops working after 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:22 PM
2

I didnt say thats good either. But this is just absolutely flagrant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 06:45 PM
2

Feminism is about women gaining power. Some people see it through different filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:04 PM
13

They work very hard at keeping it an echo chamber, just flat out. Thats all the information you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:01 PM
6

'Tumbleweed spouts platitudes in a thread that mentions porn'. PPD Bingo is looking good today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:17 PM
4

Bonobos are arguably closer relatives to us than chimps. And we all know how bonobos get down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:37 AM
2

Jokes on you, sexual disgust is my fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:24 AM
2

I know sex addiction is a thing, but comparing it to something as evil as heroin seems kinda off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:06 AM
2

I cant hear you over the sound of me squeezing lubricant in my hand. You know, so I can beat off to this sweet sweet victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:55 AM
2

'Im not a doodie head, you are!' The sounds of defeat. Music to my ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:48 AM
2

You're still using the location of a mans jizz as gatekeeping. Just stop, you sound ridiculous. I would say that if I married a woman primarily for her looks, I peobably didnt love her either. The key word I used was primarily. If every other quality is a distant second, then yes. And men who have careers, who want children and a wife, can be used and tossed aside. Its not some far off fantasy, it happens. Hasnt happened to me, but you sit around at bars and listen to bitter men tell you how a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:44 AM
2

I think I nearly had a mental breakdown last week. I was in a bad funk for awhile. I also didnt have sex in over a month. As soon as I had sex again, my mood has been Jiffy peanut butter smooth for the past 3 days. I dont think its overrated in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:36 AM
1

So nothing about having sex has a single thing to do with biological urges right up until a man gives his girl a creampie versus pulling it out. That is a really dumb distinction. And you mentioned 'looking for a provider' in your message, aka 'Im using his money lol'. If you're looking for a mate primarily as a provider, you probably dont love him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:31 AM
0

And yet men like this decry women who screen for providers and want lots of children as scheming and cold A woman using a man she doesnt love for his money is scheming and cold, though. Also you're talking a lot of shit for someone who has no idea what male sex drive feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:14 AM
1

Wish I was having sex right now tho. I appreciate it a lot more now that I don't have it regularly. ​ I cant even imagine what you would be like as a man if you're saying shit like this. Either a complete mess or the fabled Galactic Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 05:32 AM
2

I dont have a small dick, I just wanted a womans perspective. But thanks for the concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:43 AM
1

I bet. Let me know what she says about my comment about prison bitches, I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:26 AM
1

Your wife is ignoring all of the men that are spending decades in prison for that mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:18 AM
3

Why would you ever give a frenchman's fuck about the opinions of men who can't get laid? Don't you feel above them all due to your 'I can get laid' superiority? Arent they naught but insects to be crushed under your mighty feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:16 AM
2

There's definitely a difference. Boobs are an accessory, a dick is the lynchpin in the entire operation. Guys like boobs regardless. I dont think a lot of girls like small penii.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 01:21 AM
2

Dont make me slap your wet lasagna.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 09:02 PM
2

Thats a great euphamism for pussy. Im keeping that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 08:33 PM
3

Well you're a doodie head.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 08:31 PM
2

I remembered the opposite, but it coulda been a different sub. Responses like how life would be so easy if they were men, ect. I think the older battleaxes may have preferred to stay women, but that was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 08:28 PM
1

Thats fine, a lot of people misread the post completely as well. At least you're admitting to it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 07:25 PM
1

I never said unattractive people dont couple up. I said if you're not getting female attention as a man, then you aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 07:21 PM
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I was thinking more like a fantastical comedy where men and women deal with their opposites' hormones, bodies and social situations. This is a nonfiction thing, but it is interesting too. This was an interesring excerpt: Vincent asserts that, since the experiment, she has gained more sympathy for the male condition, stating, "Men are suffering. They have different problems than women have but they don't have it better. They need our sympathy, they need our love, and they need each other more tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:06 PM
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There's always the hypothetical situation that floats out there once in awhile: "Would you swap your gender?", and most women emphatically answer yes. Would women be so eager to swap genders if they had to live their life as a small dicked guy? Im curious. On a related note, how long do you think a hypothetical woman-turned-man would last during sex? Im guessing 3 strokes xD Good lord, why isnt this a movie yet..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 05:43 PM
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If drunk women are your target, then absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 03:48 AM
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No because it doesn't work that way. Men aren't either 100% attractive and every woman wants to fuck them or 100% unattractive and no woman would ever have sex with them. In reality every guy is somewhere in the middle. You're misinterpreting it. 1 means you're attractive enough to have women notice and approach you, 0 means you're not. No matter who you are, there are some chicks out there who would want to fuck your brains out no matter what. Nope. Life isn't a video game where you can improve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:05 PM
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Its based on how many women approach them. Women will not approach men who arent attractive. This is how you judge how attractive you are. If you're a 0, fix up your appearance and personality until you're a 1. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:59 PM
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Oh man, if men were naturally polygamous this thread would be like really depressing. Thank god thats not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:07 PM
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I disagree with that. If your main metric of being a 1 is that you literally attract women to you, there's not a lot of bullshitting you can tell yourself to get around that. A lot of men would get comfortable calling themselves a 5 or a 6, which simply isnt good enough in practicality. Being kind to yourself isnt a luxury a lot of men can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:18 PM
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Then attracting women is not your primary purpose. Therefore this system isnt as useful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:16 PM
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What does a 5 rating on 1-10 tell you? You're playing up the usefulness of a 1-10 rating since one can be unattractive in a lot of different ways. 0 says your not attractive enough. Become more attractive until you're a 1. If you cant attract women to you, you're a 0. Work at it until you can, then you're a 1. A numerical rating isnt supposed to be nuanced, its a representation of information.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:07 PM
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Ok, pretend Im an idiot. Could you rephrase your point so that an idiot could get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:36 PM
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The 1-10 scale doesnt let guys know what they need to do to improve anyway, at least not on its own. Most people assign themselves their own rating, which is where some of the problems lie. A binary rating cuts the crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:33 PM
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I sort of agree, but the problem with binary is there is no derivative and no gradient to climb. Women don't act on gradient though, its either attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:10 PM
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I'd argue that once you're a 1 on the binary scale, you can use your actions to up yourself enough to attract a 10. As long as the prerequisites of attractive is acquired, a man can use the rest of his arsenal to finish the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:08 PM
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Which is why I put that bit at the beginning. But honestly unless you're a 1 instead of a 0 you're still not going to be treated much differently anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 02:38 PM
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Women might as well use a binary system for rating attractiveness. You're either treated like you're attractive or you're not; a 1 or a 0. A man rating himself on a system other than this is an exercise in futility. So if you think you're under an 8, guess what? You're a 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 02:00 PM
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I'll opt right the fuck out of living in a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 01:20 PM
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Ok Boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 01:17 PM
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I think men are expected to generate a lot more value than women are, so Im not surprised you dont notice such treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:30 PM
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Im simply reacting to how Im treated, and how I see others get treated. If you dont generate value, you're treated worse than people who do. Simplicity itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:44 PM
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Im not defining a higher heirarchy simply based on who gets better treatment. The better treatment is the carrot on the stick to get people to get a higher status. I think heirarchy is also compartmentalized within brackets, which is why you camt really compare Jeff Besos to a 16 year old girl. People are expected to generate a value thats specific to their demographic. So while Jeff Bezos goes into the Businessman category, which includes value to stockholders, how his business helps society, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:42 PM
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Most of the men complaining about the dating or sex issues are the ones asking for Sharia law or banning women from doing basically anything. Hi Mr. Strawman, how are you doing today? The entire premise of this thread is based on the fact that all men who struggle with women are inherently terrible people. I wipe my ass with your premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:36 PM
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Exactly. Why should I give a shit about any of your problems if you're going to treat me like dirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:34 PM
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I think it comes down to how much influence people have over other people, period. Using your example, the two men who differ by which gender they are more comfortable with would be relatively equal. But a charismatic man that is great with women and not so great with other guys has more value than someone that straight up isnt charismatic. Its important to say these heirarchies exist, as opposed to saying 'we're all equal', because people are straight up treated better or worse depending on how…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:32 PM
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Im not stating my opinion, Im looking at it as 'this is how the world really works, this is *fact'. It would be nice if thats how we treated people, but it isnt. A mother of 3 inherently has more value than a bum. We value people more on what they produce to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:26 PM
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Sure, but that simply isnt practical, at all. The heirarchy far outweighs the lofty 'all men are created equal' stuff. It might as well not even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:04 PM
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I dont know, I feel like there's a difference between a man who suffered andcan relate to you and a person who is more advantaged than you giving you platitudes, and both can be considered happy people. Especially on the internet there's a huge abundance of the latter and not nearly enough od the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:02 PM
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Get a hooker - Become Chad - Lower his standards to Becky or Ugly Betty. - Get enough money so Stacy will be his sugar baby. Do you see women ever feeling good about being presented those options as the only ways of getting affection? Do you think men arent already trying these things in addition to just complaining online? Is it possible that men are simply upset at the hand that life dealt them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:49 PM
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I'm going to put very sloppy metaphor out there, because it amuses me. But this illustrates my thought process. Pretend there's only two different food items anyone could ever eat, and you can only pick one. There's McDonalds cheeseburgers, which can only be purchased at McDonalds. And there's lobster bisque, which can only be made at home. Im a lobster bisque guy. I just love the taste of lobster bisque, and I cant stand McDonalds cheeseburgers. So far so good. The problem is not only is lobste…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:53 PM
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I saw a post where someone said they didnt believe any one person was worth more than any one else. Does anyone else believe this? If there was one thing I have learned on planet Earth, its that people are constructed of nothing but heirarchies of who is worth more than who.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:25 PM
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So I really do have to spell it out for you. I thought I was being a smarmy dick insinuating you didnt understand my subtext. But here we are, and I dont know who should feel more awkward about this. I want women to want men like men want women. Gay men are way more accepting than women are. Thats all I wanted to say, but you couldnt resist taking the low hanging fruit. And I shouldnt have to tell you this, but we cant choose our own sexuality. Im not gay, and I would know that Im not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:18 PM
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My sides. They hurt so much. From the laughter Im having. Apparently nuance is a hard concept to grasp for some. I'll speak more plainly next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 01:28 PM
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Women are not gay men. No, we just wish you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:20 PM
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This is way more accurate than OP. Happy people are usually the ones who cant really relate to your problems whatsoever, like your mother telling you you'll meet a nice girl one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:56 AM
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What a vile, terrible world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 03:03 AM
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What a bunch of losers. IMO they just need to Woman Up and get out there and meet people, nobody is gonna hand you happiness on a silver platter, bunch of risk averse losers. /s if it wasnt obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 11:02 PM
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OK Boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:58 PM
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The subs going through its anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:00 PM
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And this is supposed to cure the anger phase? Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:25 PM
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Ok, cloaked insult aside, what are the ratio of you doing the approaching versus the amount you approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:03 PM
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Ok, we can play semantics. Yes, women sometimes approach. Is it comparatable at all to the rate at which men are expected to approach? Fucks no. The ratio is probably over 95-5, at least. This is the best you can muster?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:00 PM
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Fair enough. I am an ugly hunk of garbage after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:53 PM
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'Employing' them. Good lord. If someone told me you dropped them as a friend because they did OLD I would call you a douche. Anyway, this is a silly CMV, because we cant convince you to be friends with people you want to be friends with. In summary, OK Boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:04 PM
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Nah. If women arent approaching men now when its almost 2020 it'll never happen. As much as feminism claims to be about equality, no woman is willing to put any particular favors aside in favor of such equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:58 PM
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Women are priveleged, you just dont see it because you arent trying to impress women. Impressing you people is a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:28 PM
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It still isnt an individual males fault that the entirety of the gender puts pussy on a pedestal, he's simply a player caught in a bullshit game. To be fair, OLD dating is complete clownshoes and should never be a valid metric for real life dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:22 PM
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I was able to sharpen a lot of good opinions and throw out bad ones by butting heads with people on online forums for years, especially concerning women and dating. I hadnt grown up normal in the slightest, so its good to get perspective on what.. more normal people think about things. Also, women never cease to surprise me, not only on what their real thought processes are, but what kind of esteem they hold for men. EDIT: I almost completely forgot the incredible amount of self indulgent whinin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:08 PM
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Filter and pagination UIs are great and all, but have you ever written a program that simulated 2 dice being rolled? AND notified you when you rolled doubles? That was my magnum opus. Its because I cant stick to learning things like coding or following through on doing any projects (among other things) is why I'm thinking I have a touch of ADD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 05:14 PM
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Ah, I tried to learn coding and dropped it after 2 weeks. I heard it was super boring working on other peoplea coding projects though, and it would become just another desk job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:51 PM
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Shit, now I'm trying to diagnose myself with ADD. This is all your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 02:56 PM
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I just think they dont create accurate depictions of struggling men without 'teehee he's a nerd he deserves it'. I thought Joker was was going to be that movie, but it werent. There's untapped potential there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 02:21 PM
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Haha, I dont jerk and tell ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 03:41 AM
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In what world is a manager at Foot Locker able to pick up a neurosurgeon?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 07:19 PM
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Because those girls are effectively unobtainable, while the former girls are relatable. Those 'ultra hot' women have a price tag on them, and that price tag is the kind of man I would have to be to obtain them. Which is a turnoff in and of itself. The Anna Kendricks not only seem a lot more down to earth, bit maybe they remind you of a girl you had a sexy fling with and that brings up fond memories. My favorite porn star just happens to be very reminiscent of the woman I had my first time with. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:46 PM
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They're women who are attractive enough for us to want to fuck them. You're thinking about it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:19 PM
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Eh, I think you're being disingenuous. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:53 PM
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Lets just say they're on the same technical level as the kpop dudes. Would the dudes performing in a garage do the same thing to you after seeing a kpop band play in a sold out show? Seeing all of their admirers would really do nothing for you? Even if you dont notice these things, men sure as shit do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:41 PM
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And yet the guys who play music out of their garages are somehow less attractive than the kpop guys. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:19 PM
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But women still care about status. Its simply the nomenclature that women claim not to care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:47 PM
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Do you women ever talk about anything other than what we need to do to appease the goddesses that are women? I have zero incentive to give a shit about any of your problems if you show zero interest to care about mine. Its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 01:57 PM
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Which is why no woman ever has an unsatisfying experience in bed. Because they can just tell. Just by looking at him. Absolutely fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 01:36 PM
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Yeah I dont know why I made an appeal to empathy either, completely wasted on you dipdopes. As long as things work out for your lot men can just go fuck themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 01:35 PM
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For those who are in a perpetual state of frustration/anger trying to understand and accept women’s sexual choices, do you really not get why women don’t act like men? Or is it just the anger talking? Do you understand why we are frustrated with you? This information is absolutely nothing new. We are frustrated because not only is your sexuality so completely different than ours, but you hold the keys to sex, so we only get to have it on your terms. And we're the gender with the higher sex drive…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 01:09 PM
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are choosy about who we have sex — especially casual — and prefer men who look like they know what they’re doing Are you honest to goodsness suggesting that women can glean a mans sexual ability in sight alone Are you for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 01:04 PM
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I understand your hurt, and Im not trying to do some Oppression Olympics type bullshit. But women need to realize that when men hurt, they hurt deeply, sometimes in ways that you guys cant understand. There was a time when I hadnt received meaningful physical contact with another human being for over a decade. Its a uniquely male problem that once you're deemed unworthy, you literally become radioactive to society and even to your own family. All I want is for women to understand what sub-optima…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 01:43 AM
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Man: 'Im angry because Im not getting sex!' Woman: 'Ha! I'll show you! Stop being angry with me, or else you get NO SEX!' Man: '...' You already control our behavior. Are you applying for sheer mind control at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:55 PM
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Why would I aspire to be second banana to a child whom I have no familial ties to? Also, these women are desperate because they need support raising a child, not really for a man specifically. Wouldnt it just default to a woman treating you like free labor and a cash dispenser?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:38 PM
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Shouldn't then your anger be more directed at men who have no standards for a woman's personality whatsoever ? Men are disadvantaged by a lot of things when it comes to find a mate, so it doesnt surprise me when there's very little wiggle room for standards. Those men are victims of the game as well. Or is it the issue that men have more diverse tastes in women whereas women have less diverse tastes ? Thats basically it. Your less diverse taste means I have to contort myself to fit that personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:07 PM
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The differencr is that men have to act a certain way in order to get with a woman, whereas a woman can get a man on looks alone. The only mental health issues that a man can have that can also get the ones are the Dark Triad shit; depressed and anxious men are going to have a tougher time because they have to put on a performance. Can you imagine a guy with social anxiety trying to pick up a girl? Or a guy with body dysmorphia trying to act confident? A depressed guy acting happy enough to appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:48 PM
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The difference is that you get to have ex boyfriends. You get to have happiness at some point, without radically changing who you are. And you women completely take that for granted. And I think a lot of women simply see less attractive men with some feeling of disgust, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:13 PM
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Hey, that sure looks familiar. I've said this at some point, or something to this effect, but this is about being your default self. Aside from appearances, women dont have to worry about chainging their default self to aquire the attention of men. A lot of men simply arent appealing to women as they are, so they have to change aspects of themselves to become appealing. If a man isnt conquering sonething in some aspect of his life, he's worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:09 PM
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An attractive woman is a woman who doesnt have to struggle to receive male attention. Likewise, an attractivrle man Id classify as someone who doesnt have to struggle to receive female attention. Attractive women just have an air of 'Impress me', in spite of bringing nothing to the table other than their looks. By virtue of their vagina they get to have a list of demands for a man. They also get to cruise control through life with their default personality while I have to psychoanalyze every lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:02 PM
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Listen, if you're going to tie me down and explain everything I ever said in an emotionally compromised state, we're going to be here for awhile. Maybe I can drop that part. Attractive women still piss me off though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 05:56 PM
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I dont hate women as people, I hate their sexual selection and I hate my sexual attraction towards them. I dont want to be enslaved by something so capricious. Maybe I hate attractive women for their dripping entitlement. Idk, Im just venting really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:46 PM
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I think if I wasnt attracted to women at all, I wouldnt hate them as a whole nearly as much as I do. I think what it is is that being attractive to women requires a lot of conformity in the system, I.e. dressing to appease them, earing enough money to appease them, saying the socially acceptable things.. And I was never somebody who society embraced in the slightest. My biological urges are constantly fighting my emotional states. Women routinely make me feel miserable about myself just by exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:40 PM
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I didnt need dating advice, I'm just telling this person it isnt always as easy as looking at yourself and giving an evaluation. Thank god I'm dont need the advice either, because I cant stand vanity or faking confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:09 PM
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As long as the prerequisites are met and maintained, yes. Otherwise you're literal garbage. :y
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:53 PM
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I've had body dysmorphia for a long time. I literally cant trust how attractive I am at any given moment, for a myriad of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:40 PM
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He was also a fat mf and one of the most abrasive comedians to be around. His success cant be compared to a chads like that because he was such an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:38 PM
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Only attractive men are rewarded for acting on their sexuality in those scenarios, any other dudes' sexuality is basically a burden. So thats a no from me dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:42 PM
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Yes, I was in desperate need of guidance for a long time and never got any. Turns out when you have social anxiety in high school, you become radioactive and nobody wants to be anywhere near you. As far as telling potential children of mine, coming from a father you cant really try to indoctrinate a child too heavily in one direction or another. I'd probably drop a few nuggets of wisdom and try to steer him away from extremist shit, but thats about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:54 PM
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I'd rather blow up the ship than give the keys to a band of pirates, for what its worth. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:25 PM
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Isnt that just women in a nutshell?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:21 PM
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Your original post. It speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:47 PM
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You have no idea. Not even a speck of a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:44 PM
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All I have to say is that you women are fucking unbearable when it comes to dating. There, Im done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:35 PM
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I have about a million things to say to this, and none of them are good. I'll just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:15 PM
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Hey, if she's a shitty arguer, thats a demerit right there. If you think she's vapid, ask her if she likes following celebrities' personal lives, or simply what kind of crappy movie they like the most. I can knock a 10 down to a 4 finding out how much of an airhead they are. Think about some of the stuff you're really opinionated about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:47 PM
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Color me surprised. I looked it up and it is pretty cheap. I think its a lack of information and the potential risk factor that keeps people in check as well. I mean, if I get a hotel in Thailand I dont know where I can go, who I can speak English to, what not to eat to get sick, etc. Maybe if I break up and have a mental health breakdown I'll consider it. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:41 PM
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Ask her opinion about a controversial opinion of yours. Finding out they have a stupid viewpoint is a great way to knock her down a few pegs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:13 PM
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I think a lot of people just dont have over 5 grand to blow on a trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:11 PM
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Men are disposable, news at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:50 PM
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Respecting women based on their dating preferences is inherently stupid because that is the one area where they deserve the least amount of respect. The amount of work a woman has to put in to obtain what they want is staggeringly smaller than a man's effort, why would I inherently respect anyone who can do what I had to struggle for with minimal effort? I CAN respect a woman who has qualities worth respecting, like empathy, humor, resolve, kindness.... I mean, if a woman goes against the grain …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:36 PM
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The person who has a personal crusade against porn thinks its all porns fault. Incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:21 PM
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Then why are you being so flippant about attracting women? You alreast know that attracting women is a whole different ball game than attracting a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 09:25 PM
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Said a person who never had to attract a woman in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 09:18 PM
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I dont want to be dominant, and I dont want to be a slave to my own desires or a womans desires for the type of man they want me to be. Im tired of dissecting my own personality to fit the mold of some bitch because her curves satisfy my lizard brain. Part of me just wants freedom from all of that horseshit. I already have a girlfriend, so at the very least Im not completely strung out, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 09:09 PM
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Imagine telling your psychiatrist your depression meds arent working because you're still horny as a goat. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:21 PM
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Me personally, Im tired of looking at pretty women in my everyday life and feel absolutely useless attraction; attractive people that I have zero chance of ever doing anything with. And Im not even going my own way, it must be a pain in the ass for those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:18 PM
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Those are the types of men that can afford to be choosy with women. So most women couldnt offer much, but a top of the line woman would actually take time to ensure his happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:56 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:29 PM
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Maybe a persons default self is different than yours, one that doesnt attract women? Introverts, for example, have a way more difficult time proactively attracting women than extroverts do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:12 PM
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What are the health ramifications of a dude chemically castrating himself? Like, an operation with the intent to remove his sexual desire? This talk about MGTOWs make me wonder if there's a reason why those men dont do that so they can unburden themselves from that kind of desire for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:05 PM
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There was a post deleted for not having a proper tag. I thought mods could simply change tags on topics? Seemed pretty unnecessary imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:28 PM
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Why are you so angry? He posted a bunch of studies highlighting his points. Is this just a kneejerk reaction because it upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:15 PM
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Wow, people really hate it when women are shown in a negative light. Astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:13 PM
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While Becky whines about her boyfriend not proposing, a lonely man considers hanging himself It is not one to one. You have no idea how bottom of the barrel it gets for hundreds of thousands of men. You can shout at men to MAN UP and to PULL YOURSELVES BY YOUR BOOTSTRAPS as much as you want, we"he heard it dozens of times. It gets old. Your solipsism gets fucking old. Just. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 01:48 AM
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Do you believe that should be the norm? That average women deserve exceptional men by right of their magical vagina? Pfffffffffffffft
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:06 PM
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The difference is that women are allowed to be average and men are expected to be exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:54 PM
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You're talking to someone who absorbs literally every possible demand a woman could have in a giant leering monolith of impossible standards. Just follow your own manual, dont let others inform you on how to operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:27 PM
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Maybe too much time on PPD, reading all these guys’ expectations for a wifey? I was only aware of 2 expectations; have sex with us once in awhile and dont be an asshole. Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:16 PM
1

Completely depends on the environment, granted. Im sure you could take a hint if your company was rampantly incestuous. Even then though, it all goes down to the individual. It only takes one goofy girl to ruin everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:48 PM
7

Were they coworkers? If so, fuuuuuuuck just doing it with a 10 foot pole. While having the law step in is a little far fetched, it is not far fetched to assume that if an interaction goes wrong, that she will march straight to HR and get fired from your job, with a black mark on your record. NEVER mess with a girl on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:37 PM
10

The bar for men is only going to climb higher and higher. I feel really bad for any dude hovering anywhere close to average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:24 PM
6

Would you rather have to spend years twisting and contorting yourself to appease another gender, or slap on a layer of makeup and call it a day? Men cant afford to have higher standards because dating is tilted so far in your advantage, so thats the one standard we're allowed to have. For most men higher standards means you dont get laid, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 01:49 PM
4

Yeah, we should just line up men in a line and shoot them in the back of the head once the robots take over. If you're not useful, you dont get to live, am I right? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 04:33 PM
3

Both of my parents told me to shut up and stop crying all the time. I still cried, a lot; a lot more often than other boys, and my life was worse because of it. I'll be blunt; this kind of advice is seriously lacking in nuance. While its true that society despises a crying man, yelling at him to man up isnt constructive whatsoever. Tone is everything. A young boy cant feel ashamed because he's crying, because that will only add more distress. He needs to learn how to calm himself, and how to for…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:54 PM
4

Ok, when are women going to start rewarding men for being unmasculine then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:43 PM
1

No, I think chubby chasers are just guys who got burned by attractive chicks, and have learned that a big girls enthusiasm has a lot more value than an attractive girls boredom. Chubby chasing is a cope for men to actually have a lover that loves them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:45 AM
1

Is that just your default accusation for questions you dont want to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:12 PM
2

Im against the concept of,hypergamy for myself if only because its creepy and lizardlike. 'I dont really love you as a person, but Im going to pretend I do so I get access to your materials, you walking ATM.' Yech.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:05 PM
3

Wouldnt hatred for single fathers have to come from women? Maybe you women need to step up your misandry game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:23 PM
1

They arent though. Women can pursue men as much as they like; they simply dont have to. Besides, I've heard plenty of times that women just wont get those fee fees for men if they pursue them themselves, because it means the man doesnt want it enough. Which is the exact same gun we're put under, but women dont seem to mind much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:57 AM
1

All I see in humanity is a bitter, horrible systemic ugliness. Having children is a perpetuation of this ugliness. What I dont get is how people can justify having children for their own entertainment in spite of the condition of humanity and the condition of the world. Everything is rotting and we're going to bring more beings into it to suffer pointlessly? Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:41 PM
1

Imagine being someone who trolls a 2 day old thread trying to pick fights. You must be a real superstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:59 AM
1

You present this as Great Positive & Slight Negative against Middle Negative and Great Negative. I mean, its pretty obvious what the answer is, it feels like a loaded question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:20 PM
9

Women create the lopsided dynamic, intentional or otherwise. Women being put in the passive role gives them an inherent boost in their SMV. That discrepancy, some would argue, isnt fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 07:59 PM
10

Because rape is literally one of the most heated topics in existance, its hard to say what people's true intentions are when it comes to a numbers game. I'm sure there's a good proportion of proponents that simply believe the 2%-10% statistic because they're nice, clean numbers. And, if it makes your argument look better, bonus points. I'm also sure there's a portion of people that believe that trading an amount of false rape allegations for actual rape incarerations is completely acceptable, ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:35 PM
1

Dude, thats a load of bullshit. If the perception of widespread violence across males was calcified into reality, then everyone would run and hide anytime a male walked onto a sidewalk. That was an extreme example, but we cannot assume every male is violent because they exist as a male, that is a load of fucking horseshit. We have to give people the benefit of a doubt, otherwise building a spciety would be impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 04:12 AM
1

Well, violence is an action. If violent tendencies are contained, then they arent being violent. Inherently violent is a term that assumes a man is violent no matter what his actions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:42 PM
0

Men have the capacity for violence more than women, it does not mean all men are inherently violent. The fact is men get punished so badly for acting out on violent tendencies, its a potentially life ruining move every time. The grand majority of men bottle up those feelings completely,and nobody has the common decency to thank us on not being the violent apes that we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:47 PM
-1

Why is acting like a self centered child around anyone, in any context, considered a blessing? Grow up, ffs. Just because some men are meanies doesn't give you the right to juice completely unrelated men for all they're worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:58 PM
1

How is that relevant when talking about a girl who puts out by the third date as opposed to the 6th or 7th date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:42 PM
1

Speaking for myself, I dont want to be with someone so uptight about sex that they require a transaction of commitment first. I want to be with a person who treats sex like an act of love, not like some good girl credit. I like a lot of sex, and if she is going to be that uptight about it, she's not the girl for me. Now, if sex is not a priority for you, then it makes sense. But for her to not want sex by the third date, its telling me I'm going to be dead bedroomed by year 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:07 PM
0

I was under the impression that sex by the 3rd date was the compromise for both men and women, the standard stuff. I havent heard anyone complaining about it until now. Dont people who get to the 3rd date want to have sex with each other, anyway? I really dont ubnderstand where you're coming from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:25 PM
4

I'd argue that your sample size is too small, but I dont know your lifestyle, ma'am. I'll just take your word that your sample size is... adequate, and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:04 PM
4

I think you know a little more about somebody by being that person rather than fucking that person, dont you agree? I fuck women, therefore I know everything about them. ffs...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:48 AM
5

You dont understand men, and clearly you don't try. In that case, your opinion is as valuable as a poopie flavored lollipop.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:19 AM
3

Just reading this thread over and holy shit, you women just sound miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:54 PM
2

Some people treat their partners like partners, and others treat them like consumable products who exist only to enrich their own lives. Cunts gonna cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:50 PM
1

When the 'Women Are Wonderful' effect is so powerful that it threatens to tear apart the US Constitution
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 12:09 PM
1

Im starting to learn that people need to discover their own operating manual in order to be healthy individuals. If you operate by having a lot of hobbies, fantastic. If someone desires lots of sex, by all means. Whether or not said person is operating at their peak selves is on their heads alone. I cant ascribe that to anybody, least of all on an internet forum. So I reserve judgment. What kind of games you into?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:13 PM
1

Halloween bar crawl tonight, should be fun as hell. Weathers gonna hold up this time too. Who else has halloween plans?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:18 PM
2

Eh, nobodys obligated to have hobbies. If I could smash pussy 5 times a week in my spare time I'd heckin do it. The worlds a burning dumpster fire, might as well do what you enjoy while you're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:15 PM
3

I picture it like a woman eating a real gourmet burger and telling me how its awful because sometimes the fennel gets stuck in her teeth, while she continues to eat it. Meanwhile Im staring at a lump of raw beef. I also realized that being a sexually liberated man is like saying Im allowed to purchase as many speedboats as I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 05:21 PM
2

So to all the boys who think how awesome casual sex is for women, I regret it and wish I didn't even bother. I got a bigger younger cock scheduled later today. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 05:03 PM
1

Outside of the obvious, probably me suffering a really bad suicidal episode. It isnt fair to drag people I love into a miserable situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:41 PM
8

Nah, he's wrong. Men just need to MAN UP! Go execute your vision! Stop being a lazy piece of shit, get ofd your ass and contribite to society you zero! Stop being man babies and FILL YOUR DAYS WITH MEANINGFUL SHIT! What adversity are men facing these days, anyway?? Fucking pussies. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 01:19 AM
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I think with women it's worse because there's a much larger industry geared to making them buy products and do pilates and yoga and cardio kickboxing and that means women need to believe only the best women get good results because otherwise they get nothing. Would you rather be the ones who are told the opposite gender has super high standards only to learn they are low, or told that the opposite gender has lower standards only to learn they are super high? I mean, women here all the time tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:49 PM
1

I'm chomping at the bit to use that phrase a lot more often now, sucka.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:40 PM
1

Regardless, everything else I said still stands. If thats all you can pick out that you have issue with, then I dont know what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:38 PM
1

I saw that, that was pretty damn funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:33 PM
2

Both, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:19 PM
12

No, women hold that expectation as well. When masculinity is attractive to women, anything deviating from that is being seen as a lesser man, one not worthy of respect. There's not a whole lot of women chomping at the bit to help out struggling men either, they're just seen as creepy and are subsequently avoided. Either way, if a member of the same gender harassing individuals of the same gender invalidates a struggle, it would disqualify all complaints about things like the female social matrix…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:01 PM
16

Its not open season on men, its that we're invisible. Your live and let live is our isolation. Its been shown that women get a lot more societal support over men; we're expected to handle our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:49 PM
4

Nothing says 'Please dont kill yourself' like an unfeeling robot on an internet forum vomiting a phone number at you. What a time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:22 PM
15

Nobody would ascribe themselves to a personality that went so wildly against their instincts if it wasnt for selfish reasons. People want their default selves to be good enough, they dont want to get muscular and overhaul their personality just for the hell of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:12 PM
85

I dont know, join the club? Part of me wants to feel bad, but scores of other men in this exact position are just told to get the fuck over it, so Im not bursting with emotion right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:59 PM
1

If you were given a magic rod that makes everyone within a 50 foot radius start wildly fucking each other, where would you use it first? I'd probably save it for a really boring day at work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 11:50 PM
4

Eh, came across in the tone. So do you have sympathy for women who get beaten by their boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:49 PM
6

So do women who get punched out by their boyfriends fall under this 'fuck you you deserve it' umbrella too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:25 PM
1

For monetary value. To skate though life without earning a single cent of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 04:00 AM
1

Ugh. You're not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:22 PM
2

Ok, but if someone were to come up to you and tell you that they can take all the emotional sting of a pump and dump you've just experienced, but it will cost $150,000 over 10 years, would you take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:59 PM
20

Lying about the rules of the game doesnt magically change them. The bitter sting of betrayal will still be there when your high school crush goes after the pie e of shit, no matter how many times you're told to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:54 PM
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I've said this in another thread, but I dont think men learn this stuff as much as they assume women are like men in that they dont require a gargantuan checklist of prerequisites to be considered dateable, and nobody tells them otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:42 PM
1

We can fuck girls we dont care about, and have sex form emotional attachments to the ones we do care about. Its contextual. We also have a powerful drive to fuck, which causes its own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:37 PM
5

My death throes of becoming cat shit and forcing you to clean up the putrid mess that was once my body will fulfill my life's purpose, for I will have made my mortal enemy's life a minor hassle for a few moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:26 PM
1

Those men hate women for the bullshit hoops they have to jump through to earn your affection. If they really didnt care, they wouldnt devote so much energy into bashing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:24 PM
2

You dont think a man gets attached to the woman milking him for Prada money? Oh right, we're just lumbering wealth generators and status dispensers. Irony is a PPD woman trying to nail someone for solipsism. Ecks Dee.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:08 PM
5

I will take out your legs with a crossbow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:04 PM
2

One lasts for a few fuck sessions, the other lasts for years and drains hundreds of thousands of dollars from the victim. One of these things is not like the otherrr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:42 PM
3

My post was sarcastic you silly goose, thats just the boilerplate catchphrases people tell struggling males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:33 PM
2

An angel that looks at guys and audibly says ew. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:43 PM
4

You lost me at step two. What are those lumpy protrusions on his midsection?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:32 PM
1

I dont think its that you're actively being lied to, its that nobody will tell you the bloody truth, so men will assume women are on the same page as them as,far as standards goes. Nobody wants to tell a young guy their sexuality is as valuable as the dog shit on the bottom of their shoe, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:25 PM
2

Eh, the username was to keep myself in check. It wasn't sob an open invitation to sob be mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:34 PM
1

Wow. Blocked, muted, reported, and Im calling the cyber police.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:30 PM
2

I believe this question was directed for men. Mods, can we get a timeout please?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:25 PM
12

You're not owed a tall man. Go get an interesting hobby and work on your personality, sweaty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:15 PM
0

Ah, so he still holds a high status position.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:10 PM
12

It’s not that looks don’t matter, it’s that looks aren’t the end all/be all of attraction. They’re the threshold to entry, if you will. You must be this attractive for me to consider you at all. If you cant get your foot in the door, then your attractiveness is literally the end all be all. The threshhold is so remarkably feast or famine that semantics make little difference at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:05 PM
0

Damn, he must be a super masculine dude. I cant see women respecting any man they outearn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:01 PM
29

Basically yeah, Shrek got catfished.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:47 PM
1

Imagine how quickly a man would be slapped down if he admitted he wanted to be spoiled. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:09 PM
2

Redpill is literally just for guys to smash women and nothing else; of course they're not going to give a shit about anything else. If you really want to lock down a red pill man for an LTR, then you got bigger problems than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:00 PM
2

Strawman. Invalid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:43 PM
3

Women, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:20 PM
6

If all a woman has to offer is their looks, I dont feel the slightest bit bad when a man trades up. Considering men have to be confident, smart, funny, tall, fit, extroverted, ambitious and interesting with a higher paying job than you, and all you have to be is pretty in order to get attention, I dont feel the slightest bit bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:20 PM
6

You'll be chuffed to know that the list for men is just as long, if not longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:10 PM
4

Im in this photo and I dont like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:03 PM
3

Was that bullshit expecting men to know exactly how to please you on the first time? Is that how you met your man, he just got lucky and cracked the code on the first try?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:30 PM
4

Yeah, and women cant see things from a mans point of view. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:17 PM
9

I dont know what this means but its hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:53 PM
3

So you dont even live the persecuted life you portray women as living.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:49 PM
3

Does the cross you're nailed to get moldy when it rains too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:34 PM
1

If the woman herself isnt invested enough to do the same legwork, than why should a guy? Why should a guy expect to give priority to a womans sexual desire when her priority to her sexual desire is next to nothing? Why do I need to explain this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:14 PM
1

But see, you still have the general appearance of a girl, so Chad can still jump in. Also, labeling catcalling as sexual assault is a tad extreme, isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:57 PM
4

How very reductionist, thank you for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:47 PM
9

Its ever been easier to be a low value man. There are more men now than ever before, it isnt coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:27 PM
3

So you're telling me men are expected to know how to please women inherently, while women dont know how to please women. Fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:10 PM
4

Yeah, but Im not going to partake in circlejerking. Punching down isnt classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:07 PM
1

Alright, then get back in the kitchen and birth kids. If you expect men to be men, then go be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:04 PM
6

My effort is listening to what you want, but if you dont want to tell me because MAN BAD, then Im going to do what I can, but I'm not a sodding mind reader. Women just have to be enthusiastic to have hot sex, I dont understand why this is so difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:02 PM
3

Pff. Men arent complicated. Dont act as if you have to learn how to please a man. You spread your legs and you're like 90% done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:58 PM
1

People have mental disorders, and those disorders prevent them from learning how to interact with the world. Just saying 'they're stupid' is just circlejerking at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:55 PM
7

Then just say its what you like, for fucks sake. Stop being weak. 'Men are just supposed to know'. Suck my ass. Participate in your own sexuality you weak pieces of garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:41 PM
8

I really dont think so. If you phrase it to mean, 'this is what I like', instead of 'you're not making me cum', plenty of men will want to make sure their girl is satisfied. Either you're in the age bracket where the men are immature, or you attract dummies. Dont know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:30 PM
8

Then dont fuck dummies. Women fucking morons who react like that not only enable dumbasses to succeed, but enable bad sex by virtue of them still thinking they are good at sex. Stop playing the fragile princess card. If you want better sex, ask for it. Stop being a perpetual victim, for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:09 PM
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Women who cant communicate what they want in bed, and then complain about their sex life behind the mans back are dumb as fucking bricks. Thank you for listening to my TEDtalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:41 PM
11

Imagine getting all the benefits women do, without worrying about periods and with the bone structure of a man so you can still kick the shit out of other aggressive men. Sounds like a sweet deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:36 PM
1

What are your prospects, if you dont mind my asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:29 PM
6

I wont argue I havent needed it before, but I definitely dont need to lose thousands of dollars in healthcare bills and lose my job as a result of it. Besides, what kind of boilerplate material could they possibly come up with to alleviate suicidal tendencies? Its all wank.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:22 PM
1

In that case, better spread dem cheeks. :y
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:16 PM
13

You know that meme where there's a guy sinking, and then someone high fives him as he sinks? Thats what the suicide hotline posts feel like. Plus, fuck having some idiot ambulance pull up on me and try to incarcerate me to a funny farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:12 PM
1

If thats all you want out of life, I dont know what to tell ya
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:09 PM
3

Utilitarian machines whose only purpose is to carry as many people as it can to their destination. Did I do it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:04 PM
1

Goes both ways. Dummies like Lilith run their mouths with bad faith arguments all the time, and I never see the pussy posse jump em. Yes, TC, you can flash your credentials at me too, but you are the exception, not the norm. Point is, you can tell when someone is arguing in bad faith; when you will get nothing of value whatsoever out of them. Report them, block them, move on. This is the mods' jobs, not the posters. I cant be arsed to thumb through everyones posts for women to defend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:03 PM
4

No. Im bored of purge week. Shitposting is boring. Circlejerking dummies go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:42 PM
0

Because your confrontational attitude starts me off at that level. I dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:54 PM
1

And yet they're the dummies fucking these clueless men. 'They go to the doctor and handle their shit'. Pff. Ok. For the record, when I was casually fucking I used my own condom because I trusted none of you. A couple of the girls tried to fuck me without one while we were both naked, and one succeeded because I wasnt paying attention. That pissed me off to no end. You women are just as big of dummies as men are. Stop with the strawmanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:43 PM
1

Read 'men on the make' and immediately thought 'Boomer thread' Saw the thread author and
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:38 PM
5

I dont think a woman respects men they feel they are better than. I was gonna make a whole thread about how women need their man to be better than them, but I cant be arsed. The dating game definitely skews towards women in a way that makes it very difficult for men to get a woman better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:35 PM
-1

We naturally hate your asses because you gatekeep all the sex. It just leaks out in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:21 PM
1

You're the dumbasses fucking men without condoms. You're even way more likely to catch STDs, and you having a bastard kid,will probably fuck up your life more than his. And you still let em in raw? It takes two to tango, you silly goose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:20 PM
5

You dont understand men, and I dont think you want to anyway. No big loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:14 PM
0

Its still hypocritical for women to demand men to act like men when they also expect zero gender roles for women. Also, not being allowed to act like an asshole is a little more managable then not being allowed to express discontent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:10 PM
1

That would imply that women are the only ones who are allowed to complain, and men have to bury all of their problems to become valued members of society. I realize how completely outlandish and unrealistic this sounds, but this is the implications of your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:51 PM
7

Women: "Gender roles are bullshit!" Also women: "Be a man, faggot!" Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:11 PM
8

I think the same women that are likely to treat her man as an object are the same women that get picked up by Red Pilled Chads in a nightclub. Its a self fulfilling prophecy. So focus on the quality of the woman, not the quantity. If you're attractice enough to pull Stacies, you're attractive enough to raise your standards on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:37 PM
4

Ideally yes, but the either/or comes up when a guy is struggling and needs to zone in on his priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:34 PM
8

That is one trusty barkeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:17 PM
2

On one hand, it is technically a gift. You are forfeiting up ownership of the ring once you pass it along On the ither hand, its a symbol of a lifelong commitment, and let's face it, rings arent cheap. It doesnt hurt that men are pressured to buy these stupid things in the first place. So, while a woman can keep the ring, under most circumstances the classy thing to do would be to give it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:51 PM
4

Yeah, its a woman problem too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 02:06 PM
1

Hell, its rare to get compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 12:05 PM
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Do you think a father is in competition with his son? Do you think a forumgoer is in competition with a struggling dude halfway across the country? Do you think a guy is going to withhold helping out his friend out of the fear that one day he is going to surpass him and harm him in some inconceivable fashion? Its a ridiculous notion, pure and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:54 PM
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Thats just stupid. On a lot of levels. According to you, no man should ever get any advice, or receive any help from anyone? That he will just figure out how to navigate through life through sheer dumb luck? What if Im one of the weak, do I just crumple into a stupid little puddle and die because Im too weak? What kind of existance is that? Why are you aversed to men helping each other out? Or men receiving help? How does it affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:40 PM
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I think a major problem with non-factor men is the time when they first get involved with women, they're expected to be confident, assertive and extroverted at a time when people are the most insecure about themselves; middle school and high school. Failure with women damages a young persons ego, so they feel even more insecure. Throw in the fact that children are assholes and might reject a dude like an asshole, or tease him for not being alpha enough, and insecurity multiplies. Fast forward to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 02:32 PM
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You're only 22. You have plenty of time. Plenty of time. Just take some time off. Hell, take a year off. Your anxiety is only going to exasperate your issues, you need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:07 PM
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Dude, just unplug for awhile. Do anything in life you want to do with zero expectation of finding a girl, and stop analyzing women and relationships for now. If you need affection that bad, go spend an afternoon at a strip club. Just take it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:52 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:32 PM
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Thats great and all, but I dont think Id have the capacity to meet my own high standards. Everytime I try to better myself, it fizzles out and once I start to hate myself for not meeting those standards, its all over. Glad you found your way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:46 PM
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I dont think I could have ever have moved past my inc*l stage if I hadnt gone out of my way to challenge others on a different forum. Trying to absorb content that isnt a part of your heavily ingrained belief system is almost literally painful, so you need to depend on rational arguments to disprove your mode of thought as thoroughly as possible. Obviously I still have problems remaining, or else I wouldnt be here. But such as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:22 PM
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Let me ask you something; was there ever a time you thought of yourself as not good enough to get a woman? I've already seen posts you've made that highlight how successful you are with woman now, but did you ever have to fight to earn it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:50 PM
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The thing that you havent mentioned is that women already have high standards, so raising a low value man's standards just ensures he gets nothing. The only thing to extrapolate from this is for these men to bootstraps their way to be able to have standards, which is basically the boilerplate "Men Git Gud" that we've seen here a million times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:35 PM
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If men are unlucky in love, tell them to drop their standards. They cant afford to be choosy. If men are unlucky in love, tell them to raise their standards. You'll commit to the first girl you cone across and be miserable. ?_?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:34 PM
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