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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | "Men and women care about looks" No shit, it's the bar of what passes as an attractive man that is up in the sky*man going for women he finds attractive: "You struggle because you only go for pretty girls" *man likes plain Janes too: "No woman would want to be with a man who doesn't find her stunning" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 03:00 PM |
| – | "Men and women care about looks" No shit, it's the bar of what passes as an attractive man that is up in the sky. Women find less men physically attractive but are more likely than men to date someone they aren't particularly physically attracted to and then wonder why they just aren't feeling like having sex with Bob despite him being a great person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:55 PM |
| – | "Men and women care about looks" No shit, it's the bar of what passes as an attractive man that is up in the skyJesus, and women are still "both-siding" the issue lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:51 PM |
| – | "Men and women care about looks" No shit, it's the bar of what passes as an attractive man that is up in the skyonline dating would be easier if that were true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:47 PM |
| – | "Men and women care about looks" No shit, it's the bar of what passes as an attractive man that is up in the skyits the perception of her "Looksmatch" as unattractive that says a lot about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:46 PM |
| – | "Men and women care about looks" No shit, it's the bar of what passes as an attractive man that is up in the skyGenerally speaking, women looks match their partners just like men do. and generally they will describe the "Bob" they got together with as being "meh" in looks before he "grew on her". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's okay for an autistic person to not want to date other autistic people, etc etc.she ghosted you for asking why didn’t she stand up for herself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:37 PM |
| – | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexHas someone told you it’s because of your ethnicity? I'm form a small town where women were raised on corn syrup and country boys, and women have definetly let me know that I'm to "feminine looking" compared to anglo-saxon ginger bearded tall guys who look like they'd wrestle a gator out of the water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 02:22 PM |
| – | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexlol I get next’d because of my ethnicity alone, despite my face not having any big flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:55 AM |
| – | The problem is not women caring about looks, it’s them pretending not to.the problem isnt even women caring about looks, I care about looks too, but mens tresholds are a spectrum, they go for women from thin to chubby, short to tall, while for women its basically just tall, muscly and square jawed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 08:15 AM |
| 8 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexwomen in threads about personality: "we just want good looking hot men too" women in threads about approaching: "ew, guys are shallow and just wanna hot girl to put penis in" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexthat shit is a pure ideological machine, Imagine a reality whete nazis won the war and where ChatGpt gives you a “scientific” explanation why jews are subhumans . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 09:22 AM |
| 4 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating"gosh those pesky nice guys hiding their ulterior motives, trying to weasel in a woman's pants. I wish men could be honest with their intent from the get-go" "damn these autistic men with their frank straight forwardness are making me uncomfortable" what do women want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:10 PM |
| 6 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingHave you watched Love on the Spectum? yes and most of the autistic women on that show end up not feeling attracted their equally retarded male counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 03:28 PM |
| 122 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingis it just me or did our society recently got very "woke" and understanding of neurodivergence yet simultaneously developed a almost zero tolerance policy for socially awkward men fumbling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 10:40 AM |
| 14 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingI'm currently working with a girl who is autistic and she doesn't shower and doesn't brush teeth and her older brother (who is neurotypical) was horrified when he found out she regularly brought men for sex in their family summerhouse whenever she felt "lonely". Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 10:37 AM |
| 17 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...When men, particularly blackpillers, talk about “women” here it’s important to remember that what they really mean is “women between 18 and 40 that most of these men happen to be between 18-40 as well... suddenly it comes as surprise they aren't into big age gaps ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:24 AM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsWhy does her “peace of mind” imply that she’s alone and a hermit? exactly, you are competing with the guy that fucks her on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:21 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsit was a woman's confession blog which launched the #metoo movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:19 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsIt could be either, or neither. it could be anything, except an average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:14 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsI've read a lot of blogs and saw quite some vlogs about the happily single female experience and it usually went like this: "hey I'm 20something and never had a boyfriend..." "...so my last situationship ended with him cumming on my face and ghosting me the next day haha" what a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.Everybody imagines some white men going to Thailand, but I k now there are poc "passport bros ", japanese guys, who had to go back to find girlfriends because americanized asian women usually go for white guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:03 AM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderI know no men in my social circle who got approached. Guess women really are Chad only. Incels were right again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 10:27 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinderbut women tell me leagues don’t exist and that attraction doesn’t work that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 02:53 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinderconsidering the two are still strangers what would a choosing signal look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 02:49 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tindergaze + smile? women I never talked to in my life do this, but people claim its just women being “polite”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 01:28 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinderhow tall? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 01:19 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinder“women are approaching just not you hehe” so the incels were right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 01:15 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinderreally? Yet it is Poland and France where I see women dating normal “average” looking men, in Germany even the fat ones seem to have a gymbro boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 01:13 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tindera good relationship requires some sacrifice and mutual understanding, today women expect it to be a 24/7 merry go round. Insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 01:11 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinderwhat type of approach is the most appropriate one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 01:08 PM |
| -1 | ''You're a Creep Because The Brain Doesn't Develop Until 25'' Is A Myththis false dichotomy where you have to raise or lower both the voting and age of consent to the same number is ludicrous. "she's mature enough to vote for the Nazi Party, but not mature enough to have a fling with an older man" lmao americans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 07:19 AM |
| 12 | ''You're a Creep Because The Brain Doesn't Develop Until 25'' Is A Mythher "morality" is what in sociology is called presentism: a almost comical adherence to present-day attitudes. Imagine it like this: If this were the 1860s she'd probably think that lashing homosexuals is justified because they're "morally depraved", if she was living in the 1960s she'd soften a bit and say that while homosexuality might be "legal" now it is still not "morally right" because its corrupts the youth by robbing them of a healthy heterosexual development... her basis that a younger … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:28 PM |
| 14 | ''You're a Creep Because The Brain Doesn't Develop Until 25'' Is A Mythlike all great myths it is based on half truths the "brain doesn't finish developing till 25" is a case of junk framed pop science redditors love like the previously wide spread factoid that you "only use 10% of the brain" lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsits the only study they peddle. I've seen it several times posted here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsthe "brain doesn't finish developing till 25" is the same case of extreme junk framed pop science redditors love like the previously wide spread factoid that you "only use 10% of the brain" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsa study done in Chicago, whose subjects are Chicago resdients, which is compared to Europe a violent crime ridden shithole is not representative of the rest of the world. That said, why do all the "we care about a woman's safety" people stop with "age gaps" tho? Studies have found that the risks of IPV (intimate partner violence) are also higher in interracial couples (significantly in black man / white woman pairing), but I have yet to see these people bring it up as an argument against interra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:05 AM |
| – | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?nailed her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 06:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you vet someone?lol there are studies showing bullies get more consensual sex than a timid men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 12:11 PM |
| 2 | How do you vet someone?women who go for aggressive men because “they feel protected” around them are victims as much as a mob associate getting whacked is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 12:04 PM |
| – | Is it over for inexperienced men who didn't go to college?a inexperienced guy lying about it won’t hurt anyone, a used up whore lying about it can get you stds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 07:59 AM |
| 5 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren't“if a woman likes tall men she doesn’t like automatically like all tall men” correct, she makes a baseline preselection based on on one feature (6ft+) that excludes the vast majority of men and then within a minority of them selects a niche that eliminates even more potential candidate’s. How the fuck isn’t this proving my point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 10:01 PM |
| 23 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren't; Tom Holland, Timothee Chalamet, the whole k-pop genre, are you trolling, in what universe are these guys anything but conventionally attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:07 PM |
| 18 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tActually women have a lot of conversations about how they think each other's types look downright ugly or plain yeah, women will debate whether that 6ft1 guy with a otherwise conventionally attractive face is downright ugly or not because his left ears sticks out or his nose looks a bit funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:05 PM |
| 2 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tYoung women under a certain age are often attracted to young non-threatening looking pretty boys. wow, it seems that after 30 women's standards get even narrower: it goes from being at least open to more boyish looking men to only wanting lumbersexual bearded types over anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 07:54 PM |
| 10 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tphysically attractive features can appear in a variety of ways this just sounds like this meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tthey are flying overseas because even fat women are in situationships with fit men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:24 PM |
| 7 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tlol, plenty of men with a preference for chubby and bbw. nice try, tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'thttps://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21988581/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:37 PM |
| 3 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'twestern women before kpop craze: asian men seen as unattractive, asexual goofballs western women after kpop craze: "akshully korean guyz are kinda hawt" compare this to my male boomer friends who had no problem dating asian women since the 1970s. Women seem to need society to give them the "green light" to find someone attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:22 PM |
| 4 | I’ve never understood how sex ‘just happens’ so casually for some people in adulthoodbeing the only asian guy in a white town women will take interest in you because they have a childlike curiosity in "alien races" not because they find you interesting as a man. Being "unintimidating" looking they will not get creeped out that fast, but once I'd escalate things they'd be weirded out, because most of them have been pre-set to view asian men in a asexual light. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsok Hitler . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 07:36 AM |
| 4 | What makes someone boring in your eyes?considering 80% of men appear as "below average" to women most men aren't "much of a looker" when the standard itself is unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themI once met a girl in college, we were both attending mutual classes for about 4 months, we would talk sometimes, she started texing me random stuff unrelated to our studies... so when the semester was ending I asked if she'd be down to meet sometimes for some coffee...I thought I couldn't be more obvious, when the day came she still felt "weirded out" and "betrayed" that I thought I had a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themThe reality for men is that the bulk of women will not find you attractive, and that’s okay! Who cares about the bulk of women. You just want the ones who do like you a reality which leads many man to treat is as a "numbers game" and try approaching women everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themIf you like a female friend, try flirting or telling her outright. "I like you and wat to have sex sometimes" -- NO NOT LIKE THAT YOU AUTIST. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them"These also always happen to be guys that have very little meaningful experience with women." how would a guy with "experience with women" do it then? Just ask "wanna smash" or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:44 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themits not a particular woman that says one thing or the other. I'm seeing the bigger picture here which amounts to a kind of hegemonic broader consensus that simultaneously is tearing down taboo's around sex with a growing paranoia about men wanting it being objectifying/ even predatory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 09:51 AM |
| 3 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themPeople should generally know when they have a chance. your girl "friends" will talk about you what they find attractive, they will say like "no BO", or "no bad teeth", and "like my guy to have thick hair" and someone "who dresses nice" so if you fit that description you will be getting ideas as she already likes to hang out with you. Only after making a pass you discover your liberal girl has a hard NO policy for east asian/indian men and never even saw you as a option in the first place, regard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 09:19 AM |
| 6 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themthe question is what are the “cues” that she is attracted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:20 PM |
| 9 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themnot even this, women have invited me to 1on1 hangouts and were still surprised I took it “that way”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:12 PM |
| -1 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themwhere lol? Link me your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 03:37 PM |
| 18 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themits just the zeitgeist of the times simultaneously casting sex as the best thing ever: " sex is good" , "sex is healthy", "fuck moralists whos say her going wild and fucking 12 guys at sprinbreak defines her value" and then: "disgusting men are only after one thing", "our bodies are being used for sex", "perverted male gaze is omnipresent" ... its a key feature of the current schizoid yass queening sex positive/#metoo culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations“people find different things attractive” women’s tastes aren’t nearly as diverse and unique as you think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 06:08 PM |
| 34 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsif a guy can't get it up anymore at the trace of cellulite or strechmarks, everyone would be calling him a coomer with "porn induced erectile dysfunction" , if a woman cant feel attracted to a guy under 6ft it is merely a "preference". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsthe fact that no relationship is better than an unsatisfying one? What sets the criteria for a "satisfying relationship" is no longer something innate and natural , it is being shaped and molded by the media you consume. If a guy went "I just can feel attracted to my wife after she gave birth to our child because of those disgusting stretchmarks are giving me the ick" dumps her for a fit younger woman, nobody would go "glad that chap is out of a unsatisfying relationship" , they would call him a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?“i want to feel protected = i want a guy with a capability of fucking up another guy, just not me teehee” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Can men just not be loved for who they actually are?the issue is you having a problem with your own unkempt fat ass, and not a lack of men who would be still attracted to your fat unkempt ass, which is what the thread is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:54 PM |
| 3 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?Well when you open PornHub do you search for... nice women with good personalities? that doesn't really make you horny, does it? if you open pornhub you'll literally get women of all shapes and sizes -- from petite ones to obese BBW's, younger and milfs -- all of these types of women invoke lust in men. What makes women horny? Oh yeah... its tall and handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 07:54 PM |
| 5 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?so being an asshole and ugly will never get you laid, being nice and ugly still wont get you laid, being an asshole but hot will sometimes get you laid, with nice and hot getting you laid more often -- the only constant in all 4 scenarios on which one can make it or break it is not personality but looks. LMAO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 07:05 PM |
| 10 | Do most women really prefer to use online dating and social media as the means to select potential men over being approached in real life?Go outside, weirdo. women don't want to he harassed on the street by creeps like you jfl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 06:43 PM |
| 30 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?But a woman will be attracted to a man she has nothing in common with because of his masculine energy. “One of the guys” is a positive for a lot of men, but “one of the girls” is more of a turn off to women. hard for us to reckon with "toxic masculinity" with preferences like this in place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 06:06 PM |
| 4 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?Almost all of my relationships/crushes were my friends first. it was more probably that your "we just started as friends" was his very intended and planned approach to get to know you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 06:04 PM |
| -3 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?for women "personality" means confident, knows what he wants, unafraid to take risks, exciting. if this is true, then no wonder women end up in situations where they get get abused, beaten and even murdered by their partners. In essence their selection privileges a mans capability of violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 05:53 PM |
| 12 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?There is no guaranteed formula for sexual attraction because if there was, everyone would do it. there are patterns tho, and studies proving the existence of those when it comes to romantic/sexual selection in partners. And you're attempting to mystify a very real and observable reality with mumbo jumbo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 05:51 PM |
| 6 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?what would a "personality" to date need to have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 05:37 PM |
| 11 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?men who are popular with women usually look similiar. Tall, fit, low hairline with a trendy haircut, broad shoulders, sharp jawline. So much for "every woman being different with her own individual preferences". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 05:29 PM |
| 4 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?every guy is a “where’s my hug” type of guy, the only difference that some get hugged every day, others a couple of times in their life or never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 04:54 PM |
| 14 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?sexual attraction… as in good looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 04:40 PM |
| 6 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.most age gaps involve couples with a 1-3 year age difference. Larger age gaps in couples are rare, so they statistically wouldn't make up such a discrepancy in that study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:44 PM |
| -2 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Maybe they’re dating men in their 30s? I'm pretty sure Pew Research conducting a study on "women between the ages 20-29" would just happen to make such rookie methodological mistake where their "20-29" sample would tip heavily into the 28yo+ women dating that 31 year old guy, skewing the whole thing so heavily LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:33 PM |
| 16 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single."just seeing someone" = situationship with a guy who probably has other women on rotation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:16 PM |
| 0 | You're focused on the wrong qualities that are triggering her lust: He's more attractive than you because he's more masculine, not because he's an asshole.studies have shown women are less intelligent than men, lack introspection, logical reasoning (need to look no further than pinkpill feminism where 95% is just manosphere jargon copy-pasted) naturally women prefer dumb bravado aka “confident” men because a they internalize social structures without questioning them and fight for a position in the hierarchy unlike a introspective guy who questions the “game” itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 04:57 PM |
| 15 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chanceswomen will give the most unflattering interpretation of a guy’s interest as him merely wanting to stick his penis in her. Happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 02:57 PM |
| -1 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chances“would you compliment, flirt, ask out a regular guy at the bar? no? see, you’re not treating me as a regular person, but as a woman you want to stick your dick in reeeee” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Dear Women: For the "socially inept" here, what are the subtle cues you find a guy attractive ?"I just told my big fat nerdy star wars t-shirt wearing bf I wanted to fuck him in the after hours of dungeon and dragons club meets, life is to short to play games teehee" something tells me these fuckers were tall and white, or this sub really is outlier central. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Dear Women: For the "socially inept" here, what are the subtle cues you find a guy attractive ?I got a this lot and 99,9% of the time it turned out she saw me as one of the "besties". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nicewhat were the “obvious” signs? Care to share a few examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 12:06 AM |
| – | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"“stop noticing things you dweeb” what a fucking absurd ad hominem, considering we’re on a literal dating/relationship sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nice"you're autistic" "you weren't socialized" "its actually easy to identify which smiling is the "i am attracted to you" as usual they never, ever, elaborate. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nicedifference between "customer service smile" and "hey this guy is kind of interesting" smile. ok, what was the difference in your case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nicebehave like around other guys they're interested in, I don't stalk women and watch them what they do with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 08:21 AM |
| 8 | What is something every woman can agree on regarding male attractiveness?“egalitarian feminist” has preferences out of a 1930s eugenics book. 🤣do women even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:20 AM |
| 9 | What is something every woman can agree on regarding male attractiveness?“women want to feel safe” translation: I get off on the idea he’s capable of fucking up another guy in a fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:13 AM |
| -6 | Men are having less sex, but women are somehow contracting more STDs"It's almost like women are more susceptible to STD's" yet they still risk it all by having sex with the "ladies man" or "fuccboi" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Men are having less sex, but women are somehow contracting more STDsI did, a lot of the rise in STD contractions correlate with the normalization of college "hookup culture" and the use of dating apps chronologically -- which correlates with the data showing women picking a minority of men when for casual dating and flings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 04:07 PM |
| -4 | Men are having less sex, but women are somehow contracting more STDs"we're built different down there" lol you don't just get it out of thin air. It just means women are more prone to get it from having sex with a man who is already infected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 03:54 PM |
| -3 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"sure, women rate 80% of men as below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"there were 2.38 million students studying in the UK from 2018-2019. About 1.36 million females, and 1.02 million males attending university in the UK between 2018-2019. If you then figure in the sexually active statistics, that would make for about 640,000 sexually active females, and 350,000 sexually active males. think many of us have seen this picture that shows sexless rates among young men from 1989-2018. at the peak in 2018 27% of young men are sexless. That's an excess of 340,000 females.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 03:26 PM |
| -4 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"no one is hooking up with average looking men in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Would women suggest that men not approach them?“you become a regular at a hobby” my hobby is going to the gym and work out, but I suspect you’d say it’s a no-no to bother women in gym clubs. lol. 😂 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:40 AM |
| 14 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themNo need to "both sides" this one. The average woman has been approached by at least one guy, has had at least a opportunity for a summer fling, has had a secret admirer, or someone who pursued her. This is not the experience of a average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:13 PM |
| 0 | The reason that having SWAGGER works with women is that most of them will fall for the same sales pitchin real life its always the “bae this, bae that” guys who get laid the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 05:36 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulWhat are "fuck me eyes" how does the look look? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"“her refined appreciation of exotic beauty vs. his depraved fetishization of the other” 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 11:51 AM |
| -1 | What advice would you give a "high value man" who is struggling with dating?“is he really high value if he struggles dating teehhee” women ascribing “value” symmetrically to the amount baby momma’s a fuccboi has fighting over him… 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:57 PM |
| 11 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"“I don’t think men necessarily sexualize weight, there’s other aspects of size that men find attractive like it being sign she’s well fed and can birth strong healthy children, whereas liking tall men in always about making your ovaries explode” I can do this too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.why are you bringing these two up? Ghandi had a affair with a 15 year old Sushila Nayan when he was pushing 60. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.but calling a older adult dating a younger adult a “sexual predator” is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.I know loving fathers who’d skin their kids alive for coming out as gay or trans, and if they brought home partner they would get in big trouble — a fathers opposition to these relationships is often times just a projection of his own prejudices rather than some inner truth about these relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.i come from a part of the world where you’d be disowned / killed by your father for bringing home anyone outside your ethnicity/religion… what’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:07 PM |
| 34 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.“healthy” “age appropriate” jesus it’s like listening to a 1950s sex hygiene video warning us of homosexuals. You accept people who used to be men, chopped their dick off, and became women who are in relationship with a female-to-male transperson and it’s “love don’t judge”, but age gaps are this taboo you cannot fathom happening without “trauma” related issues. lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:25 PM |
| 13 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?this is entirely self-reported. Of course women will say "we started off as friends", every woman says that, even when the guy clearly approached her and they started meeting up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 04:14 PM |
| 27 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?a guy has a 2.8% chance of landing a match, while a girl has a 35% chance of landing a match on Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Why is interpersonal chemistry never accounted for in conversations about attraction- only looks?Women simply are not introspecting. "Chemistry" is pure bluepilled mystification. It’s like if you like a band. And someone asks you why you like them, and you say you can’t explain it. “There’s no reason to it. It’s in the soul of the band.” And then some music critic comes by and says maybe you like them because of their relatable lyrics, their catchy production, the perfectly timed hook, formulaic tricks that make it sound familiar etc. Well, that makes the band feel a little less special now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:23 PM |
| -2 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?I never understood the aversion to longer labia thing, it doesn't really change the functionality of anything? idk does baby talk change the functionality of anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?these women would want us simultaneously believe that “the wall” at 30 is a misogynistic myth, yet any man over 30 is easily discernible to the 20somethings woman’s eye due to his dusty balls and crusty scalp. lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:43 PM |
| 16 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?"its just a tiktok thing" wrong: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/jul/31/got-the-ick-when-a-pang-of-disgust-ruins-your-romance https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/what-is-the-ick https://www.thecut.com/2020/06/the-ick.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:16 PM |
| 53 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?"its social media its not real" why do bluepillers keep repeating this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”very informative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likewhat is even more ironic is that many hardcore woke college students who read lefist post-structuralist authors have no idea a lot of them were having affairs with their students. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 09:54 PM |
| 7 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeI wouldn't blame older women for pushing the age-gap stigma, or even feminism, I mainly see it coming from terminally online crowds and sometimes white knight types or gen Z "nice guys". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t like“they ostracize consensual relations because of their old misogynistic tribal ways, we ostracize them out of our concern for women” lol.😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likethis is ideologically loaded, there are still parts the world that harass, disown or even kill women if they “dishonor” their family by having relationships affairs with men their father doesn’t approve of (extramarital, the guy being of different religion or ethnicity) —all in the name of “love” and “respect” for ones familial ties of course. Your mindset is reflective of a atomized society that privileges female autonomy. Why are woke westerners unable to grasp that what you consider “normal” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeThis reasoning isn’t any different from Jordan Peterson idea of a “enforced monogamy”; that we should pressure people to date what we believe to be their appropriate peer-matched counterparts instead of allowing women go for the “top % of hot guys”. I swear this is the only topic where women sound as unhinged as the “nice guys” demanding people are paired up accordingly to their respective “leagues”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likethe message of today’s post-sex liberated society seems to be: every taboo around sex has fallen, everything is permitted, from tinder hookups with strangers, slutwalks to spring break orgies and polyamorous relationships, except if you’re old, then it’s perverted and predatory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeironically our sciencepilled friend is into age gaps himself.😆and “best interest” is a ideologically heavily loaded definition that just conforms to whatever the particular zeitgeist is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeas a broader culture we loudly disapprove of bigots who would oppose gay or interracial relationships — because what goes on in the bedrooms of consenting adults is no ones business but their own, right?— somehow woke people are all into other people’s affairs if there is [insert whatever you define as inappropriate age gap]. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeyour freedom came with a price tag: owning your own conduct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:09 PM |
| -1 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likemost people will show themselves in their best light when they’re attracted someone. Just because you later found out he was more of a cat person instead of a doggo lover ( as he presented on the date) doesn’t mean you were “manipulated” into having sex with him. lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:07 PM |
| 8 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likethe word grooming was especially gutted of its meaning: it was always understood as the act of an adult establishing a relationship with a minor for sexual purposes. Not 21yo women dating someone [insert whatever age gap you don’t like]. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:45 AM |
| -1 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thathow does one "use" a woman for sex? You either mutually consent to have sex or not. Do women not like sex? Is sex like a "reward" woman hands out to a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:03 AM |
| -2 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatthe bigger problem is the expectation of sex in response to said kindness girls aren't machines that you put kindness coins into until sex falls out" moms tell their sons that kindness is what will make a girl fall for them all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:38 PM |
| 2 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with that"Saying X Y Z is always wrong. Unless they find you hot" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 06:11 PM |
| 6 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with that"lol I know CHAD uses me for sex, but at least he's HONESTTT Whenever a less attractive guy is honest about his true intentions with a woman him expressing these desires unambiguously just gets labelled as "lewd", "creepy" or "inappropriate". Then women suggest how these men should take baby-steps toward a relationship by getting-to-know a woman as a "fellow human bean" first allowing for something more to happen. When they do that, they get called "nice guys" who, unlike the fuckbois, obviously… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:31 PM |
| – | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatbeing a gold-digging whore is not comparable to wanting to have sex (a biolgoical instinct) . It's a product of a consumer-obsessed society, not a natural desire innate to a healthy libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:28 PM |
| 4 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatThe difference between a nice guy and a chad is the chad lets the woman know he’s sexually interested in her upfront if a nice guy is "upfront" about it he just gets lectured that he is treating women as potential romantic prospects instead of "regular people". lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:21 PM |
| 7 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatThe difference is that "nice guys" think they're owed something for being nice. They aren't. The hot guys feel this too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:18 PM |
| -2 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”you are neurotic and anglicized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 06:20 PM |
| – | Why do women flirt with men beneath them?They were engaging with you as another human being [...] rather than seeing them as possibilities for bodily access. "tHey WERE eNGAgING wiTh You as A fElLOW HUMAn bEaN, wiThOUt COMMiTinG SiNfUl tHouGhTs YoU dirty cOrn BrAiNed peRverT" God, I fucking hate this neo-puritan mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 06:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?unresolved childhood trauma women picking men I personally don't find attractive = unresolved childhood trauma reddits armchair fetish for "heckin science", and now pop psychology remains unmatched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:29 PM |
| 8 | how is hookup culture accepted if you’re supposed to get to know women "as people" first?how respecting someone as a person is not congruent with hooking up with someone? don't play dumb please, we all know how dating subs where people of a simliar worldview congregate respond to a man asking if he ought to approach a woman he finds attractive but doesn't know her yet in person, doesn't even need to be for a hookup, but something more serious, and the usual response he will get is : "wow, kind of shallow you're approaching a woman because her looks caught your eye" or "I wouldn't fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Work on yourself in your 20s, reap the rewards in your 30sI know what this sub would call “middle aged losers” with younger girlfriends. These guys are almost never well-off, theyre kinda immature by reddit standars, but young women like them because they’ve youthful, but also “mature” in a drama free sense, usually good listeners, handsome + I suspect a lot of these young women think that a older good looking guy will try and settle down soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:16 PM |
| 10 | Work on yourself in your 20s, reap the rewards in your 30swhy are redpillers still “coping” with “once I get rich getting chicks will be easy” the only ones who still get younger women are handsome/pretty looking older men, not some incel crypto millionares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:02 PM |
| 6 | How would you prefer a man express their interest in you?“i don’t like it when a man likes me for my tits and ass, but I won’t find him worthwhile if he isn’t physically attractive” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Apparently, a lot of women now want to meet someone while "running errands"tiktok is not a “convincing” source until it’s incels sharing misogynistic memes then every outlet warns of “rising tide of misogyny in society”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Apparently, a lot of women now want to meet someone while "running errands"what evidence? most women will say they wish to be approached in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:01 AM |
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