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| 1 | Why do so many people have the "no 1 on 1 time with the opposite gender" rule?Because I can afford to have that rule. If she's not with it, then we can never be. I'm not going to control her, I'm just going to leave. I can find someone who can agree with that rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Whats the true minimum?Lol, I'm not mad at all. Just living in reality. Men will date women and hold marriage as a dangling prize. Doesn't mean anything lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Whats the true minimum?He did? So you're married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 06:03 PM |
| 27 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsThis doesn't make sense, and it borders sadistic. The fact is you act differently with a girl you're attracted to in relation to the one you're not so much. So you won't be practicing anything meaningful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Do alpha males ever regret not settling down when they get old?This is such a childish question. "Alpha" males aren't guys who sleep around and not settle. They're actually guys who have the potential to sleep around. There is a difference. Most guys I know still want marriage and are very monogamous, some are also being better looking (and successful) than the guys who do well on the apps or hookup culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:55 AM |
| -1 | I wish men would stop normalizing women approaching them and trying to "shoot their shot". Almost every man i've seen feels very uncomfortable with a woman approaching themI personally wouldn't trust any girl that approaches me in an a obvious way and expressed her interest. Why? Because if she's done it with me it's likely I'm not the first and won't be the last. I know somebody is going to say, the reverse us true with men. Sure, to a degree it is but men generally have to be vetted to be worth a woman's time, with guys, he'll keep her around for years if she's even moderately attractive. If I see a girl I'm attracted to I'm going to try to get close to her and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceYes it would but it would also mean you're confident in who you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 02:55 AM |
| 30 | How do I gain back my confidenceConfidence can come from within and from outside feedback. The latter is fickle, one day you're the cool guy the other day you're not, and just like that, your Confidence is gone. Do you think you're smart? Do you think you're good looking? Do you think you're a a catch? If the answer to those questions is yes then you wouldn't have a Confidence issue, so, you have figure out why you have doubts about yourself and it shouldn't be because of your lack of female attention or outside influence, the… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsBeing open about your emotions and feelings is a sign of confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Men overestimate how "easy" it is for women to date. It is much harder than they think.Most guys don't approach in person, OLD is how they "approach". In OLD obviously women will have more matches but that doesn't mean it is "easier" for women because women have to deal with the problem of figuring out whether a guy is interested in more than just sex. Which is a problem most men won't come close to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitIdk bro your post comes off a bit unintelligent. Perhaps they just aren't into you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 04:58 PM |
| 3 | The art of “Negging”…I unfortunately feel like it works…Negging only works on insecure people and done by even more insecure people, unfortunately there are a lot of insecure people walking around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Would it be unreasonable to ask your significant other that sex is done when they orgasm?It's reasonable to ask it. Talk to the person and reach a mutual agreement, that's the most reasonable approach to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 10:30 AM |
| 1 | What's the truth on how women perceive emotional men?Being upfront about your emotion does not equal being emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Men who are average, how's your dating life?Average is subjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:44 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf I were a woman and a guy asked me that I would next him. That's a stupid question that women shouldn't entertain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Would most women stay with a guy that wants to wait before having sex?They're off messing with another dude because YOU weren't worth it. You interpreted your history as a result of women lying about their intentions but there is another interpretation, you were not worth their time homeboy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 02:53 AM |
| 9 | Monogamy: by-product or goal? (Also, settling for someone)We're more monogamous than we are polygamous, that's for sure. If we were outright non-monogamous we wouldn't have these strong feelings of "love" and sexual jealousy. Most people want a monogamous relationship not because of culture but because it's a biological impulse. The women want a guy whose going to stick around for her at her most vulnerable state, pregnancy. The men don't want their girl that they've spent considerable time with sleeping with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:57 PM |
| 7 | We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors.That's more likely due to male power and less to do with female sexual freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:41 AM |
| 2 | The real problem with high n-count womenThat's not the problem with high n-count women. The real problem is that it indicates that she's easy and if she's easy she'll be more likely to cheat. That's the only problem with high n-count women and it has been proven that women with a lot of sexual experience are more likely to commit infidelity. And women can protest all they want, facts are facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe's probably right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:23 AM |
| 0 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsWhy would any guy want a female as a friend 🤔 unless he's spineless and can't risk rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 09:55 AM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?All guys feel validated by female attention but the degree of validation may not be the same for some guys who center their self esteem around the act of having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 03:56 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm a man and I've been on this planet far too long to know bullshit when I see it. You have 4 other women you are sexually active with and yet you want to keep a girl you're not attracted to around. I think you're full of it but incase you aren't it is very simple to just say to her "we're better off as friends". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy would you want to friend zone if you're not interested in her romantically or sexually 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameOLD is a lot different from the real world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 03:28 AM |
| 0 | "Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him"There are a lot of guys that use steroids and God knows what else, perhaps, it's become so pervasive women are adapting to this reality. Furthermore, women can tell if you're pretending to be something you're not, which is what red pill guys like to do a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag?Therapy can be lifelong. Therapy is actually a red flag but red flags shouldn't be anything but that, a red flag. You should still date a guy if he exhibits some red flags because we all have some red flags about our personality. What you shouldn't do is date someone whose behavior would be insufferable if it were to continue in the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why are marriages and relationships important to you?Children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 07:34 AM |
| 4 | The rationalize behind a a guy paying for a date is similar to a girl having sex with a guyWomen had a lot more to lose from having sex, so courting that involve considerable investment by the male usually balances out the equation. It also signifies that he's there for the long haul. I know we have contraceptives and ways to minimize these risks for women, but our behavior is largely based on our evolutionary programming and there us no way around it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 07:32 AM |
| 12 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.I think you're wrong. I think that if the genders were reversed the comments would be the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Would genetically engineering men solve women's hypergamy? Or is their hypergamy insatiable?Dont you have better things to think about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:14 AM |
| 7 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameYes they are, or rather they go for the highest tier men they can manage to attract Everyone goes after their best offer. That doesn't mean women are going after a small percentage, that's not how math works. Chad doesn't have to pay for sex, how bluepilled. Paying for a date that results in sex, is still paying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 09:45 PM |
| 10 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameThis is great red pill fiction. Women are not whole sale going after top men, that's just an excuse little boys with no ability to talk to women make. Assuming there is some truth to your story I would say the guy who sleeps with all these women benefit a whole lot from the exchange, at the expense of his wallet ofcourse. Women don't compare the man infront of them to their past in order to quantify if he's worth sleeping with. It's either he's worth it or not and you don't have to be tall and h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEveryone knows he lost to golovkin the first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:42 AM |
| 10 | I think most men know their league of who is too hot for them. But do women just NOT have an awareness of who is too attractive for them?There is a lot more involved in mate selection than physical attraction, as subjective as it is. But to answer your question, yes, everyone is aware of their relative value in the mating market. The notion of women all running 🏃♀️ to the same man is just incel fiction. Idk a single woman who is interested in sharing her man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:36 AM |
| 5 | Do you have one type or multiple types ?Because it is a wide range. It's better for me to say what isn't my type than what is. I'm not attracted to chubby women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 5 | Do you have one type or multiple types ?I'm more of a values and goals guy. Don't really have a physical type. As long as she's attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?Some of you guys posting just make me scratch my head. Smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLook around we live in an insane society. More depression, more addiction, more pollution, more suicides, more homicides, more corruption, more billionaires, less sanity. If you're normal in this society you're actually insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:24 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Like I said, less reading more interacting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:01 AM |
| 34 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.I got a tip, put down the psychology books and stop reading red pill bs, and start interacting with real people, specifically, real women. I don't know where to start lmao. Men don't come in two flavors of nice and bad. Vast majority of men are "nice", when people say bad "bad boy" they are referring to a guy who doesn't put women on the pedestal for various reasons. It could be because he has a lot of options, or it could be that he prioritizes his career and needs a girl to fit into his life r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:02 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltEvery guy cares about body count. Whether he wants to acknowledge it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:23 AM |
| 7 | FWB Relationships: The Gatekeeping of Sex by Women vs. The Gatekeeping of Relationships by MenGreat take. Cant overlook the fact that a lot of hookups are done under the influence in order to suppress emotions and natural impulses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:20 AM |
| 20 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.Modern female sexuality caters more to men than women, it's easier than ever to have sex care free. Can't say I agree with the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Competitive reputation manipulation: Women strategically transmit social information about romantic rivalsIt is well known that most of the slut shaming actually come from other women. Maybe shakespear was right, all is fair in love and war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 10:15 PM |
| 3 | What is the right amount of dates do you think a woman should wait before having sex with you?Idk if you're a troll or have a reading comprehension issue, I said "early", meaning, they are still dating and not in a relationship. I frame sex as something women give up because me are always ready for it and a women who is looking for a long term relationship is better off slowing things down to ensure he is in it for the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?Way back in day all you needed was to secure a wife at a young age (18-22) and pretty much you accomplished your goal. That's just wrong. Men had and still have far more ambitions than just getting a wife. Personally, the view of winning at dating is a child like orientation. It's how I viewed relationships when I was 14. I view relationships as a partnership with a clear goal, the eventual formation of a family. I don't think of myself any less of a man if I don't have the sexual experience or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | The vast majority of people absolutely do use relationships for personal development and growth, intentionally or unintentionallyHe sounds like a basement dweller who see women as a trophy of some sort. Sadly a lot of guys think the way he does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:05 PM |
| 10 | What is the right amount of dates do you think a woman should wait before having sex with you?If I were a girl and I was being pursued by men I would wait as long as I'm comfortable. If a guy walks away because you don't give it up early, he wasn't really interested in you for the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is mental illness in a partner an immediate dealbreaker for you?It's a case by case basis. Everyone should have their limits, if the frequency of disturbance as a result of the mental illness rearing its head is too high for my taste then I would walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Are women simply too attractive for most men these daysNo one is arguing that women didn't get attention in the absence of the internet. I am arguing that the internet has dramatically increased the attention that they get, obviously with great implications. Stop arguing for the sake of arguing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Are women simply too attractive for most men these daysYou're right, the internet has shot up the amount of attention these girls get and at their prime these girls think they're the queen or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Are women simply too attractive for most men these daysNope. The myth of every girl chasing the top guy is just a myth. Also even if every 10, 9, and 8 guys (attractiveness) died today, a new hierarchy would he established with the 7s on top and women would flock to the 7s. Basically I'm what saying is that there isn't an objective measurement of a man or woman's attractiveness, it's all relative to what is on the market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Some Notes From The FieldI'm sure they're real to an extent but the way it's written seems a bit exaggerated. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think any guy will lose interest if a girl says she's interested in sex. If she is too easy then he might lose interest but prior to intercourse he'll have plenty interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDepends how young the kid is. I would say after 13-14 you're kinda with the kid forever but if before that age then you can slowly fade away from their lives, never abruptly because that can be hard on the kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot even a little true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Some Notes From The FieldGreat read, if I didn't know any better I would think these stories are real. Also sounds like you've got a lot of free time on your hands, are you in college? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.Worst case scenario it's split custody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.Yeah right. I would kill the judge that takes my kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 10:06 PM |
| 9 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.I agree but having kids under a two parent household is infinitely better than not having one. I've seen divorces up close and personal, my brother got one. It's extremely stressful for everyone. I still would rather raise a family than chase new ass all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 15 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.I'll take the risk if it means I am rewarded with 4 healthy loving kids I can cherish till my deathbed. Chasing ass all day is exhausting and gives little long term reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:46 PM |
| 19 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.There's more value in raising a family than chasing ass endlessly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Her n and infidelity (revised)All men know this, it's in their genes. Every man prefers a virgin woman to a woman who sleeps around, its encoded in our genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI read a book "why women have sex" by David Buss that stated somewhere around 15% of kids are born from an affair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:59 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNever understood why suggesting a paternity test is met with so much vitriol either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireBullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireClingy does not equal love, it's obsessive infatuation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Introverts and extrovertsNot true by any means. Women want a man with options not a guy who has exercised options, many guys confuse this fact. The only difference between a virgin who has options he has chosen to not exercise and a guy who has exercised a lot of options is sexual experience. If given an option, I would wager that most women would prefer the guy who has many options but chooses to not exercise because he is less likely to cheat. Idk what kind of women you talk to, but the women I've spoken to and have k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:30 AM |
| 4 | Introverts and extrovertsThat's not because of his sexual inexperience, that's because virgin men tend to lack social skills. If he's confident and has social skills she wouldn't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?Just saying, introversion is not synonymous with shyness, so you can't use shy as a replacement for the word introverted as you just did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:29 AM |
| 0 | Introverts and extrovertsGirls don't out a lot of value on sexual experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Introverts and extrovertsDo you have similar goals, values, interests? Then sure, it can work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Guys that are “emotionally unavoidable” aren’t to every girl but, to that specific person.There are a lot of girls that are attractive enough to sleep with but men wouldn't date for various reasons. I personally can't find it within me to hook up with girls I wouldn't wife because I want to get my deck wet (unless I wouldn't see her again). If a guy has a lot of options he's going to contemplate hooking up with the easy ones while courting the high value one, that's just life. If girls don't want to be treated like a hookup then stop giving it out so easy, the real ones will stick ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?Introversion is not synonymous with shyness, shyness is about anxiety and fear, introversion is a personality trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?If you don't like it just tell them you don't like it, not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 02:56 AM |
| 42 | Escalation Techniques Which Could Save One Years.And people wonder why this subreddit is seen as a joke. My man lost his virginity and is now giving tips and recommendations, unbelievable. I truly am at lost for words. Bro, you stuck your dick in a vagina, there is nothing accomplishing about it, it's not worthy of a speech. If you have to give tips and speeches after losing your virginity it's no surprise it took you so long. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | The Average Modern Day Western Female is Worthless: From a self made multimillionaire's perspectiveWere you an international student? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | "If You Want To Break Up With Me, That's Fine"Great story, you should write larger novels. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/20 01:08 AM |
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