HardeeHarHar2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	If your wife returned what was said? So true. Therapists have pre-programmed ideas of what's wrong (often "men") and what will fix it (dump men).	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/23 02:42 AM
6	Prevalence of the Modern Walk Away Wife Yup. Keep your pimp hand strong.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/23 06:49 PM
3	Prevalence of the Modern Walk Away Wife Yup. Keep your pimp hand strong.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/23 06:49 PM
-1	My wife and I were soulmates and I'm still madly in love with her even after a year apart. You said she was "dumb". I imagine she knew your opinion.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/23 02:32 PM
2	My wife and I were soulmates and I'm still madly in love with her even after a year apart. Travel alone. Best way to face yourself and get over it. I wallowed for 18 years, did therapy, etc. Finally I went abroad alone. It helped me process.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/23 02:31 PM
1	Want a divorce but terrified of the unknown IDK, things could get a lot worse. It sounds like you have a family, and a wife that takes interest in you. What happened? Why do you not feel love for her? You could save yourself hassle by figuring out your own stuff, why you feel how you do, and fixing it if possible. Most repeat behavior patterns, so you might find yourself in the same situation with a new.partner, just poorer and less able to rely on those around you.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/23 06:48 PM
2	Am I screwed for the rest of my life? Nothing beats traveling alone to work out issues.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/23 01:08 PM
1	Am I screwed for the rest of my life? I don't have all the answers. I can say for me personally, the answers about what kind of relationship to be in come from how I feel inside/ how I react emotionally to a given situation. Sometimes the best you can do is the best you can do, even if it might not look ideal on paper or in someone else's eyes. As far as kids, I wound up having one via surrogacy outside the US. Fifty-five thousand dollars up front and no custody issues ever.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/23 01:05 PM
1	Thoughts on 6 y/o left home alone? Legally, probably not cool in this day and age. Functionally, depends on the maturity of the six year old. IMO, people don't allow kids to mature as much as they could.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/23 09:12 PM
1	Wife says she has “Outgrown our Marriage” The grass is greener	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/23 05:03 PM
1	I (33M) really want to start the process, but I haven’t because I don’t want to face that i’ll only see my daughter half the time. Is it ever worth staying for the kids? I read a study. If parents openly fight, staying together leads to worse outcomes for kids. If parents quietly disagree, even unhappily, kids do better when parents stay together.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 09:43 PM
1	Would you marry again wo a prenup? In the immortal words of George W., "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, uh..."	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 07:06 PM
2	now i see all women like evil All human beings act one way when they want something and differently when they don't care. Women have smaller bodies than men and survive by their wits, not physical brawn.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 06:56 PM
2	38m and 41f wife wants to be married 50% of the time. Need advice Disagree. Future earnings based on having MD could get included in a settlement. Splitting prior to having the degree could work in your favor.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 06:52 PM
2	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? "First responders" (police, fire, soldiers) in an archetypal way "protect our species survival" by (in principle) providing safety which could preserve women and the ability to create future generations. I never understood the admiration many people have for first responders, but it makes sense when mentally casting them in the role of "protecting species propagation" as opposed to "eating donuts and collecting a fat paycheck". People who most subscribe to a traditional view of men and women als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 12:10 PM