HaroldtheTrashPanda Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Update, 2 years post divorce Teach your kids not to be anything like her. She is a POS	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 04:09 AM
7	If youre getting divorced because your wife walked out or cheated on you do you keep this private? Not this best idea, because she’ll usually create the narrative. Its usually not flattering to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/25 02:35 PM
8	Divorced Men, My wife cheat, we divorced, She’s happy, I’m sad. What is your advice? Control what you can control. Feeling sad improves nothing about your situation. Therapy. Gym therapy. Diet. Self improvement. Etc.. all puts you in a better position than before you did it. One day after you string enough personal improvement victories together. Might feel a little better. Then down the line a lot. Its about valuing yourself and what you’re doing.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/25 10:29 PM
10	Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are? I think the process is very similar in devastation. Seen enough stories where the cheaters are just as heartless and cruel as women in our stories. They do tend to heal better because of the ease of dating.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/24 10:18 PM
1	Wife wanting a divorce Good chance there is an emotional affair situation going on or a bad friend influence in her ear. Enemies to the marriage that have been subverting your relationship quietly.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/24 09:05 PM
8	Will she ever regret or have any remorse for what she did? There is self respect and dignity in allowing someone else to continue to have their health put at risk and be made a victim and fool? Please, respect and dignity is to rise to the occasion and let two immoral idiots face consequences.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 08:01 AM
6	Will she ever regret or have any remorse for what she did? Did you tell the other spouse?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 03:03 AM
2	My mom passed away two weeks ago. Feeling the need to share with my ex. As a homage to your mom; don’t tell the cheater. Let her find out on her own and feel guilt on her own. If thats possible. Cheaters have an amazing ability to rationalize away. As one guy stated, he did not get the response he thought. Your mom didn’t want her to hurt you. Don’t open up communication and give her the chance.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/23 07:30 AM
1	She's Not Yours, Its Just Your Turn Legal aspects will have to change.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/23 12:54 AM
1	My wife and I were soulmates and I'm still madly in love with her even after a year apart. Check out codependency books. As someone else said; you idolized her too much. Built up the romantic notions to the nth degree	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/23 07:34 AM
2	STBXW character assassination with kids before divorce Go through a password review. Seen women erase evidence from digital sources. They guess the password.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/23 02:41 PM
2	Wife probably planning an affair this weekend This. If in an at fault state, hire a PI asap.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/23 09:11 PM
16	STBXW claims I ruined her life, career and any chance of us being friends This. She is a tumor. Get her out of your life. Sight of her will only make you miserable.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/22 08:02 PM
12	My cold approach story! Or at least these 2 people did…	/r/seduction	13/07/22 02:51 AM
1	I am probably going to permanently give up on dating. It just isn't in the cards for me. Maybe in the next life. Maybe go for a below average girl that would be happy to have the quirks and all?	/r/seduction	30/06/22 03:21 AM
2	Why are men disgusted by women's natural bodies? Guys will literally f anything. You’ll find a whole lot more body acceptance from men sexually than the other side.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 02:24 AM
2	Wife wants a divorce but... Sorry man. Yeah, she probably regrets pissing away her meal ticket to some degree. Or maybe she is unsure of the other guy. You deserve better	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/22 07:55 PM
3	Wife wants a divorce but... Any hint of infidelity? She could be regretting her choice?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/22 07:51 PM
5	Would you tell your kids why? If they are both mature mentally, why not. Your wife chose him over an intact family. They need to know why everything will be different. Just be a bit more gentle than what i wrote.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/22 09:24 PM
2	Need some advice from some wise men With your schedule, you saved yourself from discovering an affair later on in life. She is a spoiled brat it sounds like. She was going down the wayward path. Did what you had to….	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/22 09:08 PM
1	How do y’all feel about ever getting married again? Wasn’t worried about that. Was thinking about a pre-nup equivalent for cohabitating to protect the father against crazy courts. Like a planned parenting agreement.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/22 10:01 PM
2	How do y’all feel about ever getting married again? Is there any cohabitating agreement to protect the guy if kids enter the picture?	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/22 06:46 PM