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you didn't get the real meaning from "self amusing", it means you do whatever you want (within reason), it's not about other people anymore, just go amuse yourself while interacting with girls, take your type of humor into consideration, and make a comedy out of life. you're free.
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:50 PM
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you should be self amused, if you're self amusing yourself throughout the interaction you are not worrying about being accepted or rejected, external validation will never fulfill you, just embody Bruce Lee "be water" philosophy, you should adapt, make it fun.
/r/seduction28/10/22 07:56 PM
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make assumptions on her vibe, clothes, anything, rather than go interview mode
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:10 PM
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I don't know if you would consider her a "brat", but i found these two videos give interesting advice on how to handle girls with an attitude https://youtu.be/NCW2US-x_lc https://youtu.be/edsrM13I-eM
/r/seduction27/10/22 01:08 AM
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you need to develop a charming opener, than you create a narrative around that opener, almost like you're narrating the exciting adventures you two are gonna experience together, all of that with witticisms, playful, flirty vibe. pro tip: build a opener with an assumption about her looks, while connecting with her personality. "your face gives off this vibe" but that's too simplified, make it a little bit more charming. also assume familiarity, I don't know how to give you an example cause I don…
/r/seduction22/10/22 07:16 PM
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dude, forget the right answers you're gonna get it, hide that shit immediately
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:01 AM
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just take action, I was in a dry spell, trying to find reasons to why I'm not doing good, suddenly I just had the urge to DM girls I used to know from high school, even girls I don't know, got a date. and a lot of girls texting me everyday. don't like texting? you saw I cute girl walking by? approach, learn how to do it properly and apply, approach, be charming, I got a girlfriend from daygame approach once. if you want something you should get it, just do it.
/r/seduction16/10/22 01:11 AM
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honest signalz youtube channel go from his oldest video until the newest, apply all his shit and also download his course "foolproof approach" you can find for free, just google it I would avoid old school pua stuff cause is not that effective, someone recommended vh1 pickup artist, shit is funny to watch but you won't get any fundamentals out of it
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:52 AM
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Don't send the guy to approach a group, it is very difficult If the girl is with a group of friends and he's interested, that's the way to approach, acknowledge the friends and playful ask for permission to flirt with her, is not difficult but it takes a lot of confidence rejection it will hurt you more than an indirect approach trying avoiding getting rejected comes from a scarcity mindset, is also hard for beginners to convey intention when approaching indirect, I would recommend indirect appr…
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:08 PM
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search on how to build social momentum first show intent - tell her why you approached, acknowledge her friends or other people in her group "hey guys, is it okay if I flirt with her for a minute or two?" make it relatable - "I was going into the starbucks, I saw you passing with your adorable look and had to say hi" you can comment on her clothes colors, style, the vibe they give off ask for name, hand shake say you gonna have a reunion or whatever with your friend in 20 minutes or half a hour …
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:08 AM
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how about asking for the time to 5 attractive women while having your phone in your hand, also say good morning/night to anyone who walks past you. You're trying to go from 0 to 100, a little warm up and you're good for your first approach
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:41 AM
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just binge watch Honest Signalz videos, then buy or pirate theirs foolproof approach and you won't need any luck. also watch this video made by them https://youtu.be/0hK3kiGY1PI
/r/seduction05/10/22 05:00 AM
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is it a possibility that you think he's attractive because he's inner game, social intelligence and confidence reflects outwards making you perceive him as more physically handsome that he really is? it sounded like an excuse cause your first point was him being tall
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:35 PM
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whatever fit your excuses
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:33 AM
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Vadim from Honest Signalz is a good example of this
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:13 AM
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any pratical tip on how to achieve this
/r/seduction24/09/22 04:31 AM
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20 seconds of courage?
/r/seduction24/09/22 02:08 AM
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"take it all the way in" I think it suits you perfectly
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:46 AM
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sexless virgin (smiley emoji)? okay...
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:10 AM
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please stop embarrassing yourself like that in front of all this sub members, we are here for discussing seduction, not your username
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:40 AM
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are you trying to offend me?
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:27 AM
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thank you, I'm proud of myself :)
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:03 AM
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your username
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:02 AM
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you're a repulsive
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:57 AM
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good thing you're reading not hearing
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:38 AM
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share her number with me, I'll analyze the situation and get back to you in 3 days
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:37 AM
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lmk if you find it
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:59 PM
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what a lOsEr bEtA mAl3
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:38 AM
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okay
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:58 PM
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sure dude go clean up your room, take the trash out or something getting butthurt over my post won't get you anywhere, bye boo
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:49 PM
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that's your own shitty interpretation buddy I said I enjoy being like that despite women liking or not, I'm still interested in knowing if that's something women crave for tho I'm not pretending to be anything and even if I were, guess what? none of your business i recommend you go twitter, it suits your bs drama vibe better
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:31 PM
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I can be whatever I want, keep your limiting beliefs to yourself
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:15 PM
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makes sense, thanks
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:10 PM
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it feels good, doesn't it?
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:09 PM
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I can't say, I've been using for almost one year with every tinder match, on other social medias and a few times when I was out on friends birthdays. Tried on lots of girls and it worked with most of them. is not about this exactly quote as much as you think, is about making statements, suppositions, cold reading her instead of killing the conversation by making boring questions
/r/seduction26/02/22 02:30 AM
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open with; "you got a face of someone who's always late for their appointments." if they answer you're wrong, they always on point "I hope so, cause if you late for our first date, your paying our bill" if they answer you're right, you go for I knew it -it were written all over your face, better not get late to our first date or your paying for our bill. it works for me
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:58 PM
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I've only used one of his "dark tactics" this one https://youtu.be/ER0S0wXURAw used on multiple girls, it worked with most girls, they starting texting me more, putting me on a pedestal like telling me I'm handsome and I'm not really, they start simping when you're taking hours-days to reply them, and I feel they become sexually open to you, like they are down to be submissive, open to your fetishs, etc.
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:51 AM
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https://youtu.be/vVgR2w9IxyQ https://youtu.be/ER0S0wXURAw https://youtu.be/Nuu470Wgwe8
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:26 AM
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https://youtu.be/1L9IR7tAE3c take his boldness and self amused vibe
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:20 AM
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you're welcomed, I'm Brazilian
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:09 PM
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get back here and watch the videos i linked, going to help
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:04 PM
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First of all, I learn all of that from Coach Kyle and Vadim from Honest Signalz, I recommend you look on their infields, courses, etc. This will only work along with masculine body language, voice tonality, eye contact and vibe your giving off, so comments are not as important part as non-verbal communication. it can be as simply as, "Excuse me girl with cute glasses who look like a hipster" again I'm a non english speaker and don't know if "hipster" has a negative connotation wherever you live,…
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:03 PM
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little to none, a few common questions throughout the entire interaction, after that make comments about her vibe, maybe observations on her clothes, assumptions & cold read on the vibe she's passing by or trying to guess what is her state/nationality. That way it won't feel like a interview, but don't overdue on the assumptions, be chill
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:03 PM
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while you're holding eye contact with a girl, it should be laser, meaning you won't flinch and be insecure about keeping the tension, I'm not saying op should stare her like a maniac on coke
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:01 AM
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Sure, I'm not saying he should hold eye contact for the entire time, I'm saying he needs to have a relaxed confident eye contact, no trembling eyes. if the girl is shy he should still have laser eye contact, just break more often What else can be misunderstood?
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:13 AM
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he's right if you really inexperienced and got no perspective in game, but if you're social calibrated and want to approach in a powerful, you can go approaching while imagining you're fucking the girl, the vibes Ok-You-1912 is saying will creep girls out when the guy is uncalibrated, but if you do this right the sexual vibe will reflect in your words whatever they may be and also in your eyes. search Tay social, he does exactly this.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:52 AM
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• Laser eye contact • Deep, low, relaxed voice • Baby steps escalation, handshakes, high fives, arms touching, maybe hugging if the interaction is going really well. just do all of that in a natural and slowly way • Get her logistics a soon as possible • In the first few minutes position yourself a little bit to the side while talking to her so you don't block her way • Sometimes say stuff like "I'll need to meet a friend in a few minutes", so she can see you won't be holding her forever and got…
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:44 AM
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search for Tay socials on youtube, just approach like him
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:23 PM
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I can send you a paid course that will help with that
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:02 AM
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RUN
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:42 AM
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this is was from another post I wrote, but I think it can be useful to you. ''About attracting girls, sounds like you're missing on some principles, is not what you talk about, is more like how you talk and the vibe you giving off. Like non-verbal communication, the girls are not waiting on you to be this phenomenal witty god who always say the right thing. They actually expecting great energy, presence and intent, I can also say most girls are expecting masculine polarity. intense eye contact w…
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:58 PM
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You should be watching californication
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:27 AM
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11- Every message u send her should bring you one step closer to get her in a date, so don't go talking about things that won't get you anywhere, but don't be thirsty about getting her on a date neither 12- If she doesn't respond you while you guys are arranging a meet up, just send "....?". You are entitled to a answer, she the one been weird there. 13- You gotta have patience, u cannot burn yourself by trying to get to know all about her through texting. Also, every text should have one propos…
/r/seduction12/02/21 09:56 AM
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1- Be flirty and do some teasing ( don't be shallow tho, you don't have to be 100% flirtatious, sometimes be direct and short, you can switch from one to another. When getting logistics for a date, cut the the teasing, be direct and short) AFTER SOME TIME TALKING WITH HER, SOMETIMES DON'T EVEN ASK BACK, KILL THE "how about you?". JUST ANSWER WHAT SHE ASKED AND GO DO SOMETHING ELSE 1.5- self amused mindset will help you with the flirty texts. Also be a little bit cocky. Just pretend the girl is a…
/r/seduction12/02/21 08:32 AM
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Why do you even care? Treat yourself like a king bro, don't give a fuck about those weak feelings, stop crushing girls, hit the gym or other self-development shit, girls will be crushing on you.
/r/seduction26/01/20 04:44 AM
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