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| 6 | FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here?This community has really helped me examine my own internalized misogyny and pickme past. I knew my past behavior was based on a lot of insecurity (from family and other relationships) but I didn’t recognize that I was also groomed culturally to be a pickme. I identify myself as liberal but found myself confused in the last several years whenever topics of sex, kinks, etc would come up. If I’m liberal shouldn’t I feel comfortable with the idea of women sleeping around, posting nudes on social me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 8 | I highly recommend this book for those of you who struggle with infatuation, codependency or feeling ‘addicted’ to someone. It goes into the neuroscience of limerence (romantic obsession) and how to get rid of it.This was me to a “T” growing up. Always infatuated with one guy here and there for years at a time. I’d overanalyze our interactions to death looking for signs. I discovered through therapy I always felt “not good enough” due to experiences with my parents and this lead me to being really risk adverse. I’d chase after these guys (some who liked me and some who didn’t) who were just as avoidant and so I just stayed frozen in time in these relationships never having to make hard decisions about th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-I’mI had a “friend” that said this very same phrase to me for the same reason. I should have dumped her then but dumped her later when she continued to show what a bad friend she was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 5 | From a dating sub asking about the ‘perfect lady’ that men want to date.What’s with the pearl clutching over cussing? As if these same men aren’t going to call you an “ugly bitch” the minute you don’t return their interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.Exactly this. I had an ex who would punch holes in walls whenever he would be on the tail-end of a losing argument with me (usually when he was trying to control me). And guess what? It worked. I wouldn’t go anywhere when he would do that because it would scare me into place. I didn’t want to find out what would happen past that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:06 PM |
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