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Marriage/ChildrenHateBeingAMan2/r/MensRights18/04/22 11:05 PM
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CMVHateBeingAMan2/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:57 AM
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Except it works for womne; not so much for Men because Women are more shallow and looks-status-money hypergamy and play with Men,s emotions and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:55 PM
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Would get friendly with male friends / acquaintances and ask; guaranteed yes since Men would love a woman who believes in equality. Or more likely I'll chicken out and hint. If that does not work I'll create a dating profile online and pick of the 1000s of offers I get. Filter out the fuckbois / chad and focus on good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:16 PM
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Yeah. Some people do manage to get true young love. Or it is a beta-buck situation. Or it is older people before Tinder and wide spread dual aitng became a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:14 PM
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good parts of being a man? Not having to be pregnant. IDK. Lot of it is sticking your head in the sand I feel red pill If by RP you mean work on yourself and don't simp well I am already doing both and alwasy have been
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:25 PM
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gotta let some stuff go or you’re going to have a stroke. WDYM. Try being 26 and never having been loved and seeing no hope; despite all you put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:13 PM
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If you’re not getting the result you want, can you try something different? Ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:04 PM
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Maybe try and find something else to live for. How? I want a family. and love and a partner and all that. There is nothing else to live for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:04 PM
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What their lives are like. Like how accurate is the incel descreptor of a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:02 PM
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Yeah. How dare men ask for what they put in and want a fair deal. Men have to be perfect and be contesnt with trash for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:35 PM
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Example number 2 of Women being out of touch. Had a co-worker (F36) of mine (M26) say that people who cannot find dates are those who don't really wnat them. I told her that it is BS - I've been looking for a GF for 6 years and couldn't find one. She had trouble accepting that as a reality, and I am not sure she completely accepted it. A woman in a fucking suicide hotline had the same remarks. She could not comprehend the idea of not being able to find a significant other. She was like «I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:34 PM
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Women are so out of touch it's insane. I (M26) was venting to a friend (F23) a while back about being unable to find love and she was like : «just go on Tinder / Bumble, look at your likes and messages, and start there. Even if they are not your type or meet your standards, just go out with them. All it does it costs you one extra meal» So yeah. Wow! I tried to explain to her that Men do not get offers like that unless they are super hot but she just did not seem to get it. It is telling how she…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:31 PM
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BS. It is the reverse. Men still provide, pay for dates, initiate, and have jobs. Women no longer have domestic skills and stay pure untill marriage. In fact Men are now held ot higher body standards with gym culture being a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:27 PM
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That's from men themselves though Yeah way to victim blame... yeah I want a virgin cause I did not sleep around and believe in committment and believe in somoene who believes that as well. Not that complicated. Yes I agree that those who want to uphold themale provider role are not fighting for men, regardless of what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:08 PM
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They get DMed by women in the way Stacy’s get DMed by men The way women get DMed by Men. FIFY. Even average looking women have a line up of offers. Shows how rigged life is against Men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:49 PM
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Men are still told to be manly. Right. Women have been freed from gender obligations; Men are still held to them. That is the problem. Feminists want that too. They agree that we don't have it yet. Well yeah. Cause women have been freed from obligations while retianing privileges. Men have lost privileges but are sitll held to obligation No one does without a lot of work. I mean I bring a lot to the table and I just want what i put in. But people keep trying to tell me to be happy with less. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:48 PM
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All the time. I just want an equal but since the system is rigged men are systemically opressed into taking loosing deals and are not allowed to have standards. I am an educated professional of average looks who is good with kids and has not slept with anyone (due to wanting a special someone). Just want a fellow educated professional who has not slept around. Seems like a fair ask but apparently its too much just based on how rigged it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:31 PM
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Anyone have experience with Chad's and what their lives are like? I am acquainted with many Stacies and I can tell you right now they pretty much live in heaven, as long as they are upper middle class or higher as well (which most of them are from my experience). Don't know any Chad's though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:29 PM
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You couldn't "Be chased, values for existing, marry up, have a line up of offers, have the relationship cater around me, etc." in the previously male world either. No. But if i were a woman I could have that in this current female privileged world. Like honestly I just want an equal. A fellow educated professional who has not slept around, whom i get along with, and wants an egalitarian relationship. Someone who has skills that are equal to or can compliment mine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:27 PM
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I babysit for fun and housework takes like 2 hours tops a day. STAHM are chilling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:26 PM
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But what you actually want is a partner who has no expectations but meets all you requirements. No i want a fair deal actually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:14 PM
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You can very find someone that doesn't expect those things, Where you just don't want to put in the effort. Way to victim blame from your position of privilege "Yeah you can totally find an employer who pays you fairly and doesn't overwork you and reflects personal time"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:21 PM
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Carrots, right? Not sticks Both. Equality is paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:13 PM
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Because Men are socialized into putting the effort. Put yourself in the shoes of Men. Men are job seekers, women are employers. That is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:12 PM
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You're not oppressed Yes we are. Men are right now denied love because the system is riged due to societal conditioning. Read the viel of ignorance and put yourselves on the shows of the other sides?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:12 PM
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So if I would expect a man to ask me out, that’s oppression? Who makes him do that? Societal dynamics that makes men bear the transaciton costs, etc. While women can just sit around and get a line up of offers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:53 PM
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Most people would just quit in that situation. Spoken like someone from insane privilege. Mnay people tolerate abusive working conditons cuase they and their kids will end up homeless. Right now as a man your choices are be in an exploitative relationship or be alone without having love, sex, or a family. Just like many employees have to tolerate bad working conditions if they don<t want to die. Women are the employers and that is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:52 PM
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Soicalization. Socialize back into monogamy to end dual mating and hook up culture. Socialize women to accept that equality goes both ways and they have to be willing to rpovide and initiate. Socialize women proposing to men, etc. Honestly, read up on the veil of ignorance and learn to get some sypahty. You got to be born lucky by getting to be a woman; some of instead are cursed into being men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:50 PM
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Men would get to live life on easy mode and women would start having to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:38 PM
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You as an individual should not settle for anything you do not want. Well I want to be loved. My ideal would be to get the life of a woman. Be chased, values for existing, marry up, have a line up of offers, have the relationship cater around me, etc. But of course all I am asking for really is equality. But I cannot get that in this female privileged world. So I condemend into being alone or accepting a shit relationship. Loose-loose
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:36 PM
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"You don't have to cater to your employer's abuse" That is the problem, Women are like the employers meaning they uphold BS that Men, the job seekers need to follow. Why does one gender get to be the employer while the other the have to be the job seeker? The other option for Men is to be condemened to loneliness. AKA loose-losse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:34 PM
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A civilized society moves beyond biology. Do we go about robbing and raping?. No we socialize out of it. Stop hiding biology to hold up your privileges; it is a clear cop-out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:26 PM
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If a man wants a family, he has to let the woman hold all the cards Yes. And that is the problem that needs ot be solved
/r/MensRights19/04/22 04:25 PM
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Yes cause it is the elevation of women and the degredation of Men. Women can get a better deal by existing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:25 PM
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«so let's educate men to not fear rejection.» this for starters. Not telling women that equality goes both ways and they should start initating. Rather socializing Men to accept their gender role
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:10 PM
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I rather be a man in the first world than in the third world. I do not think being a provider is free either. The way i see it as that Women have been freed from gender roles, but sitll retain gender advantages. While Men have lost gender advantages but sitll retain gender obligations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:09 PM
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What will probably happen in your lifetime is 1) men being able to reproduce alone, with or without a partner and 2) advances in gender reassignment, so you could become hormonally and physically female. I hope this could happen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:42 PM
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And despite all that I'd rather be male than female. Why? Why would I want to be the opressed party No welfare. No safety net. No child support. No spousal support. No community support. No tax breaks. HowTF is that a good thing? Just me and the kids Well that is part of the problem. Hard ot have kids and keep them if you are a man
/r/MensRights19/04/22 03:38 PM
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What’s an acceptable body count for a woman and what is yours? 0 and 0. I had 6-8 chances I'd say so far but I turned them down What if all their sexual partners have been while they were in a commitment relationship? More open to that what if they just like sex and won’t commit to a guy who is bad at it, so they keep searching for someone who satisfies them EW no
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:13 PM
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ok done
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:11 PM
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Let's not pretend like women have advantages outside of dating. Men still have it made bro. How. Firstly reproduction and love is the most important thing in life. Women also have it easier when finding work - the second most important thing. The onyl advantage Men have is not getting pregnant Whoever initiates tends to punch up. How. Those who have to bear transaction costs will punch down to prevent rejeciton so those who get offers can select the best and punch up Women want love as much or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:11 PM
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Yep. It<s 1st vs 3rd world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:09 PM
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Ok. Except I want a family and love and sexual fullfillment. It is like saying workers can refuse jobs and stop allowing employers to exploit them. Most workers don,t have that power the way most Men don't. At the end of the day, a Man should have as easy of a life as a Woman when it comes to dating. Anything else is social inequity. Like I refuse a loosing deal as a leser of two evils. I have no good options because I was cursed into being a Man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:08 PM
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Exactly!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:06 PM
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Men believe it or not want I love, care, and ..dare I say suffer for a good woman and a family. Exactly. It is women who rather whore around with frat gusy in their 20s while Men are seeking LTR. But women project and victim blame Men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:06 PM
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hy are dating and sexual relationships so important to some men Why would anyone want to apartner, spouse, and kids so badly. Wanting to be love and reproduce is jsut a biologcal drive and societal condition. No biggie /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:05 PM
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ou need to fix this thinking before you’ll find a decent partner. Right. Men just to accept their rightful place as ATMs and tools for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:04 PM
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Ah yes. Victim blaming 101. Men should just accept that it is their fault they have to ask and do the work and be reduced to ATMs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:03 PM
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hat's the cost of putting all childcare on the woman. I'd love to marry up and be the STAHD. Women don<t wnat to marry down though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:02 PM
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Really. Ask mlae victims of divorce court
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:02 PM
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feeling is called the patriarchy and that’s created by other men Ah yes victim blaming. Here is the thing. Women have been freed form gender roles. Men are still hedl to them - by women. Already in therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:01 PM
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Because men don't give a fuck about rings and gifts and all this shit. I do. I HATE that Men are expected to pay more. Waiting for the day where Men have an equal likelihood of being proposed to and getting showered with gift. Life must be amazing when you get to be a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:00 PM
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It's really not as simple for a man to find a woman as it is for a woman to find a man Yep. Employer-employee analogy. Women like employers have the upper hand and can use that to exploit men. Not to mention they have the legal power of divorce court with them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:59 PM
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Telling that she did not answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:58 PM
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you have to compromise in a partner. Just want a fair deal or example not slut-shame I did not sleep around and deserve that respect back. Not into being a beta-buck or whatever
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:58 PM
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It's like the "you can get a better job". No you cannot because employees have limited power. it is be employed or strave. The systemis rigged and women use it to extract winning deals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:57 PM
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While they also slept around when they were young and have shit domestic skills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:57 PM
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It's like the "you can get a better job". No you cannot because employees have limited power. it is be employed or strave
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:56 PM
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Exactly. It's like the "you can get a better job". No you cannot because employees have limited power. it is be employed or strave
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:56 PM
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all the women i ok. 5% of women may be good and actually believe in equality. I can believe that. Doesn"t change the fact that men are systemically opressed since there are so few good women that most Men end up with a shit woman or alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:55 PM
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This exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:54 PM
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By upholding traiditonal dating dynamics and gender roles on men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:54 PM
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Do you expect Men to make the first move? Pay for dates? Outearn you? Provide for you while you chill at home with the kids? Waste $10-$15K on a useless wedding ring? Propose to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:54 PM
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, it feels like first-world women are appropriating the suffering of women in third-world countries. It's like first-world women are riding the coat-tails of third-world women in order to call themselves oppressed. Exactly!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:51 PM
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inter relational research in the past I What has your research shown?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:51 PM
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Exactly. They focus on how most CEOs are Men but do not consider that most homeless people are also Men and Men are a lot more closer to being homeless than being a CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:50 PM
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By upholding traiditonal dating dynamics and gender roles on men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:50 PM
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Sorry but as a woman who experienced the tech industry, i Where affirmative action means jobs land on you. My Dad is an IT manager at a major bank, he has 100s of stories of how much eaiser Women have it when it comes to finding work and getting promoted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:49 PM
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America I actually live in Canada but close enough LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:48 PM
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Except Men and Women is a regular interaciton we are biologically programmed to desire and need. One gender having it made is a systemic issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:48 PM
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(yet men on here brag all the time about their “body count”). I am opposed to that. I believe in monogamy and life partnerhsips and opposs hook-ups. I even wrote that I had a few chances to hook up and I refused ou’re expecting an incredible woman to fall into your hands when you have self described yourself as average. I am asking for less than what I put in. REally says something that the same traits are considered average in Men but increidble in women
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:47 PM
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Like, could your attitude be the problem? Right. Men are just supposed to systemically accept their place as women's ATMs
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:46 PM
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Yeah. Men are not suppsoed to speak about systemic isues. They are supposed to just quietly accept their opression
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:45 PM
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Other than the occasional pregnancy; what suffering do women face on a regular basis that Men do not? I do not mean the 0.0001% chance you may get raped. I mean systemic issues the way Men face rigged dating dynamics
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:44 PM
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You clearly don’t care that women are struggling too, Oh no I only get 100 offers a week while Stacey get 1000. Boo-hoo. Meanwhile Men have to struggle to get even one date; and that date is likely to be shit. Women cannot comprehend the suffering of Men. Speaking with several women has confiremd this for me.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:43 PM
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Thanks! Really goes to show how problematic things are if people who do not know each other have the same lived experience
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:42 PM
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"Just become gay" is not a solution. Homosexuality is not a choice...
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:41 PM
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How would refusing to be angry at injsutice solve it
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:41 PM
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It was night; I did not know when you'd approve this. It got 253 comments; please approve
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:40 PM
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This reads like classic feel good talk. "Don't be jealous; be happy. God is with you"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:09 AM
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Life in the first world is full of female privilege as a whole. Yes that is the problem Dating and Marriage are not special Uh. They kind of are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:08 AM
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Well it needs to be fixed. How can I embrace being inherently devalued and reduce to a resource? If that is the reality, of course I am going to hate being a man
/r/MensRights19/04/22 04:07 AM
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It only exists as long as you meet certain conditions. Only Women Well I guess that is the systemic issue that needs to be addressed. And why I hate the curse of being a Man
/r/MensRights19/04/22 03:04 AM
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if you take whining and this idea you're the victim into actual dates OK I'm not an idiot. I don't do that. I am careful with what I say in front of women I know. nt, but reflect on what is a need and what is a want Ok. So an educated professional is important to me. As is someone who hasn't slept around as I find that insulting to be the stable guy she settled for after she had her fun with the frat guys. As for good with kids, it would be nice if she had some skills but any skill can do really…
/r/MensRights19/04/22 03:03 AM
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Ok. Let's start from the top again. You want to help, what concerete actionable steps do you think I should take?
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:44 AM
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Look. I bring a lot to the table and deserve a fair deal. Not that complicated. The real issue is that Men are not able to get fair deals and many times have to settle for less due to a rigged system. As an educated professional who hasn't slept around and is good with kids I objectively bring a lot to the table and deserve an equal. Just because I am a man it does not mean I should be systemically reduced to an ATM. Pretty simple
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:40 AM
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I think it’s your personality that’s the issue, Right. "personality". What women alwasy use to deflect. Look. I wasn't like this intialliy. Again you are reversing cause and effect
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:38 AM
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That's not "gold digging" that's a very reasonable expectation, and has been around since the beginning of time. Yes it is an issue. Equality goes both ways. I am better with kids than her; I deserve better than someone who thinks that just because she is lucky enough to get to be a woman she has the right to leach of my labour. I should have equal oppurtunity to marry up and live of my partner's labour
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:37 AM
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don't make excuses when things don't go your way Except that lot of things are out of our control. Blaming yourself for outside forces is idiotic at best and harmful at worse If online dating isn't working out. try asking friends Literally nothing has worked
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:36 AM
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stop being a whiny bitch. "Yes. How dare anyone complain about their problems." F8ck you and your rudeness. People have the rent to complain and vent
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:34 AM
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Yeah no. I want love; not bimbos with nothing else to offer
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:33 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:09 AM
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but this won't help. It is a systemic issue that needs to be addressed plus, you want a woman who hasn't slept around? Yes. I want a fair deal. I deserve what I put in. I bring a lot to the table and deserve it Maybe you should stop vicitm blaming and realize that this is a systemic issue
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:09 AM
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What I am saying is when you are in your 30s the 20-somethings will be throwing themselves at you, IDK I have never heared of this happening. Other than with Gold Diggers.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:07 AM
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OYS?
/r/MensRights19/04/22 01:06 AM
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Can't stand the single life. I want a loving spouse and kids
/r/MensRights18/04/22 11:52 PM
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Why would I want to be with people who slept around and make less and are worse with kids? Don't want gold diggers
/r/MensRights18/04/22 11:52 PM
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«Just paint your skin white»
/r/MensRights18/04/22 11:43 PM
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