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| 3 | Dealing with missing “things” not the relationshipDivorce finance sub, check it out. It’s helpful | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/24 03:15 PM |
| 6 | What’s a good passive-aggressive xmas gift for the STBX?I got mine a t- shirt, with a picture of Santa, that says, “ I do it for the Ho’s”. Ha I think it’s hilarious & fitting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | What is one line or quote you can share to help fellow divorced men?“I do know one thing though……BITCHES, they come, they go” | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 05:04 AM |
| 9 | Is my wife cheating?Ngl, I think she fucked “John” , probably more than once. It’s an emotional affair, for sure | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | [MI] Wife and I are splittingCheck out Reddits Divorce finance sub Great information there | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdThat’s just dumb. Children have the ability/potential to greatly ENHANCE life. Felonies do not (unless you’re into the darker side of it, I suppose) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:34 AM |
| 5 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdAll of that sounds like an absolute reflection of the women you choose. Single mothers vary greatly as do their parenting & co-parenting styles. You choose shitty single moms, and I won’t deny there are plenty out there. But there’s also single moms who are badass women, who co-parent well with their exes and enforce discipline. There are bad apples in every bunch but, you can’t deny the good ones are there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdYou limit yourself and your “options” with your mindset. Maybe think of the glass of water as not half empty or full but as refillable Open your mind and happiness will follow regardless of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdWhy do you consider your options limited ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdWhat good is impact if it’s not meaningful? Rage bait? To hurt other people you don’t know? To hurt the feelings of women that haven’t hurt you? How seriously disappointing it is that you choose to represent men so poorly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdI’ve never known any military member that didn’t consider his fellow members brothers. (I won’t even begin to digress & unpack the psychological aspects behind your feelings or lack there of) Regardless of parental urges, Do you appreciate the need for the survival of man kind? Even if you are super anti- all children. No one is forcing you to date a woman with children. I’m sure the feeling is mutual. What made you feel pressured about dating a single mom enough to completely dismiss their valu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdSuch an idiotic comment. You assume all women give birth vaginally, which is simply untrue. “Blown out pussy” is such a crude and vile statement. I can’t imagine any “pussy” would see value in a person with such a lack of vocabulary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdCongratulations. I was a military wife for many years and am well aware of what that entails. And I’ve STILL had to help more than one veteran on multiple occasions because my knowledge as a mother is VALUABLE. And you’re wrong again, you can absolutely bond over children that aren’t yours biologically. People bond through shared experiences. If you are present for a situation, there’s potential to bond over it. Have you never been around when one of your battle buddies kids did something awesom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdKids don’t complicate, they challenge- they challenge us to be better than ever before. Thank you for further proving my point Your value seems to be much lower than any single parent’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdAgain, you can not fathom the kind of Macguyver shit because you don’t have the life experience to understand BECAUSE you don’t have children. Does that take away from your value? Parents, in general, are better at scheduling and more creative with it. They will find time to bond as a couple the same way they find time for all the other stuff children shouldn’t be around for. Kids have bedtimes for a reason. They sleep more hours because they’re growing and need more than adults. Also, both pare… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdAlso, does beauty have “value”? Physically beautiful women that some smart man wanted to knock up so they’d have beautiful offspring? The attractiveness attribution is a major part of interpersonal communication and relationships. Beauty gets you far in life and is definitely considered valuable according to men . Emotional beauty is valuable to most humans. There is no adequate scale to measure a persons value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdYour comment is erroneous, close minded, rude and foolishly judgmental. Everyone’s situation is different and needs to assessed individually. If anything, I’d argue the opposite, What value does a child-less woman bring to the table ? Moms know all sorts of shit that comes in handy. You couldn’t even fathom the kinds of problems you are called on to solve as a mother. Kids are always coming up with new and exciting ways to need help. Ha Everything from cooking, cleaning, stain removal, personal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdThat’s just untrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if divorce is the right moveThat’s not normal after having a baby, Especially two years later. She doesn’t get a free pass to act like a bitch towards you just because she had a child. She definitely shouldn’t resent the child. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Telling My StorySo sorry that you’ve gone through this, I feel for all of the men who get screwed in divorce and admire the strength it took for you to tell your story. It’s awful how terrible and manipulative some women are during divorce. The court system is so biased and your ex- wife should definitely pay for what she’s done to you. I hope you find the vindication owed to you. I think you have a potential movement on your hands. I’m a woman but you have my support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 02:37 AM |
| 0 | This might be the messiest thing you guys have ever read…I think it matters greatly if they know or don’t know. Do you think it’s a sin to unknowingly be involved in an affair? You can’t hold it against someone who doesn’t know, right? (Although, I’m sure it’s hard for the betrayed not to) | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/24 05:34 AM |
| 9 | This might be the messiest thing you guys have ever read…Ahhhhh yes, the “mentor/mentee” part is pretty bad. I must’ve glossed over that part | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/24 01:44 AM |
| 4 | This might be the messiest thing you guys have ever read…If the girlfriend knew that you were any kind of married (terrible or perfect ), she signed up for the hurt. Your wife sounds manipulative and vindictive. Who wants to be in a miserable marriage anyway? It would’ve crashed and burned, by the way you’ve made it sound. You shouldn’t feel THAT guilty. Everyone make mistakes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/24 01:43 AM |
| 4 | I wish…lol the other post was a woman being turned down by her husband for sex because he wasn’t feeling well. I’m a pretty big lingerie advocate though | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I wish…Weird. I was commenting on another post in a completely different sub! Sorry, I have no idea what glitch put it here. That’d never happened to me on Reddit before That trips me out | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I wish…Why not wear lingerie often? That way there’s not so much hope/pressure on this one SURPRISE instance, It wouldn’t hurt your feelings because you’d know it really was just a stomach problem | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/23 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Help getting attention from women? (serious)Become a teacher or work/volunteer at a school. It’s mostly women working there and they act like they’ve never seen a dick off campus or something, they act like school girls for pretty much ANY male co-workers/ student dad’s. Saw it first hand, year after year, while working at multiple schools | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Sex with exThat probably hurts her more than you think it does- the lack of affection after. Js, women experience sex much differently, it’s more invasive, physically (obviously) and emotionally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/23 11:58 AM |
| 5 | Fell in love with a young women while separated now my wife want us together and I am torn!How long has it been since the first night though? You had time to fill her in. You didn’t want to, maybe because you felt insecure ? That she wouldn’t continue knowing you were married? We all know WHY you lied and that doesn’t make you a bad person. But, being unsure is very telling, you don’t REALLY love the young, pretty one because if you did, you would’ve chosen her and continued the divorce. Lots of people are ready for married life by 27. If anything, 27 is when she is probably ready to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/23 09:28 PM |
| 21 | Fell in love with a young women while separated now my wife want us together and I am torn!“Like many girls I’ve been sleeping with “ “She doesn’t know I’m married twice” Leave the 27 year old alone and let her find someone better. You clearly don’t love her if you’re even torn about who to choose. She will move on and be fine, gorgeous women always are. But stringing her along is wrong and cruel. You are the bad guy because you haven’t been honest with either of them. Is money worth love? …….a lot of people think so ….. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/23 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Please helpWhat do you think she would do if you called her bluff ? Would she actually risk her kids not having you in their lives and them knowing she is the one who caused it? Having a healthy relationship with both parents is ideal and it blows my mind when people act so selfish regarding children. If she wants to act like a dumb bitch, you gotta strategize like a dumb bitch 🧐 Play chess, not checkers | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | My ex picked up the car at the mechanicRegardless, I’m really sorry for the toll the whole situation is putting on you. I’m sure that’s very draining and disheartening. Although things might seem bleak, it does get better and in time, your heart will heal and then you’ll fall into happiness greater than you can imagine (optimistically). I hope you find contentment Divorce is hard on most of us, but it’s better than staying in an unhappy/uncomfortable marriage | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 04:04 AM |
| -1 | My ex picked up the car at the mechanicIdk about “brilliant “, it was just a good move. My point was WHY is she acting this way if she wanted the divorce ? Does she resent you for also wanting the divorce ? You blew up her facade of a perfect life by leaving ? Or she’s just, always had mental problems ? Most women are reasonable until you piss us off or threaten our well being somehow, THEN the emotions can take over. If you can isolate the “why”, it’s easier to navigate the “how” | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 03:28 AM |
| 2 | My ex picked up the car at the mechanicThat was a smart move but it’s sad that she needs to do all that to prove w/e point she’s trying to. If there’s no cheating or DV, what’s she being a manipulative bitch for ? You have to be leaving SOMETHING out | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Don't know where or how to start...so just thank you!It’s worth it to post because of the clarity and insights you can only get from others who have little emotional involvement in your actual situation. But also, double check the writing on the TRO to make sure there’s nothing about disclosure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Please help me healWhy do you keep cheating? (Genuinely asking, not trying to be a bitch) If you were happy, then why cheat at all? That’s where the root of your problems are so, figure out the why and rebuild from there. Is it the childhood trauma? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | For those who have divorced multiple times, then successfully re-entered a relationship, what changed? What did you change?That’s great. Either way, I’m sure this has been really hard on you and I’m sorry she is putting you through this. I’m sure you’ll recover efficiently though! Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 05:40 PM |
| 3 | For those who have divorced multiple times, then successfully re-entered a relationship, what changed? What did you change?Then you are the one who goes on the birth certificate, it’s called assumed paternity You’re on the hook for child support too | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 12:14 AM |
| 13 | I just did my "new" budget. What's the fucking point?There’s subs on here about thrifty life hacks and stuff. It’s a great place to learn from other’s experience and probably has cool ideas for getting more use out of necessities. Quality women understand how shitty the economy is now and will help/work with you. (Plus, it’ll weed out any gold diggers!) A lot of women just want quality time and loyalty Things will get better. Don’t give up yet | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with unnecessary, humiliating and degrading discoveryWhy was it “humiliating and degrading “? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/23 10:34 PM |
| 6 | I have enough to sue...2 & 5 is still super young and very adaptable. They will be totally fine in a smaller house. Who is she to push you around? Why does she assume she runs how everything goes ? Unless she’s a lawyer, I think you should push back. You’re the Childrens father and don’t deserve to be screwed over or homeless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/23 06:02 PM |
| 3 | How much time between “Let’s get divorced” and “Let’s both go fuck other people asap?”I Think once divorce has been decided on, it’s neither is business what the other one does, unless they live together or something When it’s on, it’s on | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/23 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I need help.I know I’m not a man, but I always recommend Watching stand-up comedy to people going through a break up. It really helped me through All sorts of hard times. Sometimes we just need to remind our brains how to laugh and smile. It helps reestablish those connections in the brain, the happy ones | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/23 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Did anyone here have a relatively painless divorce?Same here. Didn’t ask for anything didn’t take any money, coparent well to this day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Tips on dating after divorceOf course. Good SINGLE dads are hot! Especially to women that are naturally nurturing, like teachers or single moms! It’s really not as limiting as people think | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 01:26 AM |
| 2 | What should I do?That’s rough and does sound like she’s on speed. Has she agreed to get off of the meds to save your marriage ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Is getting snipped over killIf you don’t want more kids, go for it BUT, it might make you less desirable to/for other women in the future, especially if you like them younger | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/23 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Men that cheated before they left, what’s happened to the woman now?It’s a tough position to be, for you. Send her to the adultery or the other woman sub (Or post this question there?) There’s a lot going on and although, there are exceptions, good relationships rarely come out of affairs. It’s NRE, maybe limerence, the excitement will be gone for him once he’s divorced and she will be hurt enough to (hopefully) learn the lesson. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/23 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Ex-wife is aging decades I'm the blink of an eye, feels like karmaHa^ cute | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/23 12:46 AM |
| 3 | I didn't win, but I don't think that I lost.At least you’re out ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Divorce was probably for the best. Why am I still suffering?“Argue for your limitations and you’ll keep them” | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I really could use some adviceWhy not keep trying? If you “love “ your wife, why not try to fix the shit vibe? Maybe you can turn it around | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/23 05:48 AM |
| 1 | It’s evil how fear can keep you from doing what’s best for you.Sounds worse than being lonely to me. With “friends” like that, who needs enemies? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point?Dude, you’re in your prime! It’s normal to want companionship. Why not date more selectively? Just keep your income to yourself for a while to weed out any gold diggers. My mom uses a dating site called “Silver singles “ and seems to enjoy it. Volunteering can also be incredibly fulfilling. You can put your knowledge/wisdom to mentor or coach That can hold you over until Grandkids come along | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/23 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Big “D” at 45 leaving nothingGood job but delete this asap & possibly the whole account. The longer something remains on your phone (texts, apps, etc ), the faster they can recover it. Good luck OP It sounds wonderful :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/23 07:33 AM |
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