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| 3 | The truth hurtsIsn’t Pete Davidson proof that not every woman wants to fuck a Chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Women are blatant Homophobes and Racists but will pass it off as a Male TraitDid he say that? If so he’s probably erasing his history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Nah, I don’t. I’ve never had enormous problems attracting women. If you’re decent looking and fit, a lot of women will overlook the height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Nope. Houston, Texas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.I am usually. I’m only about 5’5” - 5’6” and 150 lbs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:08 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.At least half seem to be over 6’ where I live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:51 PM |
| 7 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Is it really only 10%? I’m part of a singles group and the vast majority of guys are tall or tallish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Women in a nutshellCan’t blame them for being attracted to attractive people. They just don’t want each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Was this post necessary? SO WHAT if a fat chick fucks or dates an attractive guy, only to get used, but complains about it later? Just ignore it! It’s not like you’d want them anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?overeducated I’m kinda curious, could you provide more clarity on this? Like someone who has a PhD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 3 | My thoughts on gender differences in dating and sexMen - get your leadership and masculinity on, acknowledge your responsibility to lead people and your own power. I agree this is attractive to most women, but isn’t realistic for most men. Maybe this needs more clarification… leadership in what exactly? In any environment that has hierarchies, whether it’s work, social circles, clubs… there’s always going to be more followers than leaders. Can’t have “all chiefs and no indians” as the saying goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t?I’m talking about in terms of just maintaining and/or growing a population of people, you need far fewer men to do this. One man (in theory) can provide millions of sperm to countless women. A woman only has 1 womb, and once she’s pregnant, that’s 9 months where she can’t procreate any further. On a farm raising livestock, you only need one “breeding bull”, but many many cows to maintain your population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t?Because you need women a lot more than men to maintain a society. 2 or 3 elite men can impregnate hundreds of women, and your population could probably recover from a disaster in a generation or 2. In terms of the law of supply and demand, you simply don’t need that many men for society to survive. But if you have 2 or 3 women, and hundreds of men, your population would recover much more slowly since women are pregnant for 9 months out of the year. So what do you do with that surplus of men? Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 05:12 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?I wouldn’t say they want sex to feel validated, but because it’s pleasurable and the most basic instinct is to reproduce and pass on our genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?What was the context of them insulting your size? Were you in an argument and they were just looking to rile you up? And how many women is this? 1/3 of the women you’ve been with is how many women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 02:00 PM |
| 3 | How has the obesity epidemic affected the sexual market place and marriage?That’s ultimately what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 03:31 PM |
| 9 | How has the obesity epidemic affected the sexual market place and marriage?I’m a part of several singles groups on Facebook, I’ve noticed way more skinny shaming on social media in general. Basically, there’s a lot of virtue signaling that a “real man/woman” is supposed to be thick, big, etc (skinny is viewed as weak, un-masculine, undesirable, etc.). I live in Houston, Texas for reference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | As a male that went throug all stages of looks (fat, thin, average, bald, handsome) i can pretty much say blackpill is bullsh#t. Women date with only one thing in mind...“Everyone else is the problem, not me!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Male gets raped by female, it's 'Wow, awesome luck bro' instead of acknowledging he's a victimYou can be blackmailed into have sex with someone you wouldn’t otherwise wanted to have sex with. “Have sex with me or _________” (fill in the blank with some type of threat). Or she drugs you. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | The rise in male sexlessness is cause by a combination of factorsIf you’re a guy looking to have more sex, you’re just going to have to put yourself out there in social situations where you’ll meet and talk to women in person, like the old days. I know people who rarely go out and just play video games all the time, they don’t invest in their fashion, fitness, health, looks, etc to attract a woman, then wonder why they’re lonely. Are some men more attractive than others? Obviously. But do the best with what you got, and keep your standards realistic. If you’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himI would consider them both average, I wouldn’t date the girl the though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 09:33 PM |
| -1 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialShe could be familiar with this community or red pill jargon, and took what you said as an insult lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:03 PM |
| 41 | just about as funny as the other things posted here. also slightly true in a wayBased on some of the responses this definitely hit a nerve lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:09 AM |
| 4 | The Queen of FDSI mean, couldn’t the same apply to ugly guys/incels? J/s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:57 AM |
| 0 | I got slapped by a girl and laughed upon and couldn't do anything.r/pussypassdenied | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 10:47 PM |
| 2 | I got slapped by a girl and laughed upon and couldn't do anything.It is a charger | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong for a woman to want to wait before having sex/stay a virgin now?Nobody is 100% consistent in all facets of their life, so those people judging others for their sexual choices can probably be judged in another criteria that they’re not 100% consistent in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 11:31 AM |
| 6 | Is it wrong for a woman to want to wait before having sex/stay a virgin now?People can have sex with whoever they want, whenever they want. If a person wants to make certain people wait while having a one night stand with others, it’s nobody’s business but their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 07:20 PM |
| 10 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageFrom what I have seen and experienced, women are very solution focused Well that counters a very common thing women say when they don’t necessarily want a solution to a problem, they just want someone to listen or vent to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 10 | What makes a man desireable?It certainly does to the vast vast majority of women. The women that truly don’t care at all are literally a needle in a hay stack. My singles group actually had a poll for the women asking what the preferred size is… the vast majority said 6-8” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 05:23 PM |
| 15 | What makes a man desireable?I’m part of a decent sized singles group in a large city - Houston, and here are the trends I see a huge portion of women (maybe most?) wanting in a man… Physically: At minimum taller than them, but many prefer just tall. Good size dick too. The vast majority don’t seem to like skinny men at all… you either have to be burly like a bear, muscular, or a dad bod. You’d be surprised how much skinny shaming I see from both men and women - maybe it’s a Texas thing? Beards and tattoos are definitely po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 23 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."Funny, I always hear women say they do that stuff for themselves and not for a man…. So which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:28 AM |
| 3 | How do I deal with my feminist sister ?If your sister is constantly complaining about all the men she’s dated, sounds like she’s the common denominator in her problems. If she’s always smelling shit, she might want to look under her own shoe. She probably has a toxic personality | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How do you/women check guys out in public and what are the things you check out?What if you’re someone who just doesn’t care that much about shoes? Maybe to a limited degree you can make certain inferences about a person, which may or may not be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How do you/women check guys out in public and what are the things you check out?Like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 4 | "You don't need a relationship to be happy" is BS because happily married people of PPD aren't willing to rely on it with their own livesI tend to agree with you, but for different reasons. Most people have the same general emotional needs to feel fulfillment in life, and if one of those needs isn’t being met, it’s difficult to feel fulfilled (happy). Look at Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. Toward the base, the first 2 are physiological and safety needs, but after that the next one is “love and belongingness” which includes close intimate relationships. These are the most important of the emotional needs, and when not met people wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 07:26 PM |
| 5 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.It’s not about entertaining her. It’s about not being BORING and having good social skills. Men don’t like boring women either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"The truth is that men have always been lazy, poor, manipulative, insensitive, cheap, etc... it's just that women now have the freedom to find this out for themselves in our Darwinian system of dating where every Jack and Jill meet each other through their own inclinations rather than through parental guidance. Also you: Sir, I think you took my post with too much spice. It's meant to be light and humorous Uh, really? Or someone called out your BS and you’re trying to save face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 05:17 PM |
| – | I think it’s true- the more successful you are as a woman, the more you expect for men. It’s easier to just stay singleSo… stay single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | I watched Black Widow and it’s a great example of how feminism in movies has destroyed the male imageI completely agree, you can have a great female lead that’s badass that isn’t blatantly portraying all men negatively. Charlize Theron in Mad Max or Wonder Woman also come to mind. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/21 05:07 PM |
| 35 | Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men doI’m a guy and I definitely agree with this as I’ve seen it play out in real life. Attractive people are the prize, as they can afford to be as picky as they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 02:16 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Don’t date a huge portion of the female population, really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:43 PM |
| 15 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Women who lose interest in a guy for simply not paying her half of a first date is the equivalent to a guy losing interest in a woman for not putting out on the first date. Why is it socially acceptable for women to make demands of the man’s wallet under the guise of “tradition” but the guy can’t make demands of the woman’s body without being viewed as sleezy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?When she asked if she was the most attractive woman in her extended friendship group it was pretty hard to say "no" Why would she feel the need to ask this in the first place? What would comparison to her friends accomplish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.Im 5’5-5’6 AND bald, and have no college degree. I haven’t had a lot of problems attracting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 04:11 AM |
| 12 | Dating subs on reddit are extremely gynocentric and create unhealthy and unrealistic viewpoints on datingthe problem with dating subs is its a bunch of men and women fighting about who has it harder dating So, this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Why do we push for legalizing prostitution yet denigrate the men who patronize prostitutes?To play devil’s advocate, there’s a difference between thinking something shouldn’t be criminalized vs encouraging the behavior. I would never encourage any woman to be a prostitute, but if she decides to be one I wouldn’t want her in jail for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 04:39 PM |
| 75 | Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get OlderFrom my experience, tall athletic men will always be popular with women. But a lot of women also like men of specific niches as well. Hell, just go to a goth/80’s club in a major city, you’ll see plenty of non-traditional guys with non-traditional women. Just go out in public, you’ll see average looking men with average women everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Men who have higher standarts, are more attractiveMen who have plenty of options (physically attractive and/or wealthy) can afford to have standards. If a guy is a 350 pound neck beard, or a short scrawny guy with bad teeth, him having standards won’t make him any more sexually appealing to a woman. If anything, women would consider him entitled and say he can’t afford to be picky. If OP disagrees, go on a date with a guy you’re physically repulsed by, but has high standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 11:05 PM |
| 8 | Do women actually sexually assault & harass men as much as men to women?“Lol lucky guy getting some play” “He prolly likes it or he’s gay” I like the poetry there lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy and Equality are incompatible in the Dating MarketSo if I don’t make a lot of money and I date a girl with big boobs, is that hypergamy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 4 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doMakes me realize how unfair sex is for women. when you first have sex with a guy and you are gauging his skill Most women don’t have to be concerned with having their bedroom skills critiqued to the same level as a guy. Guys have way more pressure on them in this aspect. Women basically have to just show up, be hygienic, and not act like a starfish in bed to be considered sufficient by most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 10:27 PM |
| 25 | CMV: Only men can change the messed up dating market by having higher standardsAs a guy, this is the most realistic answer. A lot of women would rather just die alone than settle with an average guy. On a long enough timeline, if this trend continues, I wonder if it will cure the overpopulation problem since fewer men will be siring offspring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Sex is higher pressure for menWomen have pressure as well, but it’s really about the confidence of the individual that determines the pressure they feel - feeling less/low pressure = more confidence (or not giving a fuck what the other person thinks). Things women worry about: Her vagina smelling. If she’s “loose”. How her body looks. Keep in mind if a guy gets performance anxiety and can’t get it up, there’s a decent chance she’ll mistake it for you not being attracted to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | It’s better for the man to ask you on a date, asking a man increases the likelihood that he’s settling.All this to say, that if I wasn't with him, I would 100% rather be single And that’s perfectly okay if a woman wants to be single rather than chase after a guy because they’re the pickier sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 03:17 PM |
| 3 | It’s better for the man to ask you on a date, asking a man increases the likelihood that he’s settling.The only thing I agreed with in your comment was the first sentence. Since women are generally pickier than men, they should do the chasing. A lot of attractive women complain about undesirable men in their DM’s… then fine, go chase after the men you want then. Comparing us to lions is a false equivalence. When a new male takes over a pride, he kills the offspring of the old male so he won’t pass on his genes. This would be the equivalent to men killing off their step-kids to end the lineage of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 12:56 PM |
| 21 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Women do want different things in a guy but it's quite one dimensional. It's all about how he makes her feel and secondly how useful he is to her. So it’s 2 dimensional? I would argue that those things equally apply to what men want in a woman… how she makes him feel and how useful she is to him (whether it’s emotionally, intellectually, sexually, domestically, financially, etc.). Is a guy going to want to date a woman who makes him feel indifferent about her or like shit? Probably not. Is a guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance.Or a lot of men are just lazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? and less likely to have sex as demonstrated by 30% being celibate for a year Kinda hard to have sex without access to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 02:41 PM |
| 35 | CMV: If you believe it's fine that dating is not fair for men, you have to apply that to women tooLife isn’t fair. But everyone should treat others how they wish to be treated, and live up to the standards they expect from a potential partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 04:30 AM |
| 8 | What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives?Society doesn’t owe these guys anything. It’s up to them to make the best with what they have. This is simply natural selection, and unfortunately there will be a lot of people (men) not reproducing and passing on their genes. Just like all other species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 02:21 AM |
| 1 | There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusiveI’m 5’5”-5’6”, no college degree, and bald... but I don’t have a huge problem attracting women on OLD, although I face rejections sometimes. But I’m physically fit and decent looking (at least from what I’ve always been told). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Are we going strictly by face? Or everything as a whole? Because a guy could have a very handsome face, but be bald, could be physically fit, but only be 5’3”. Or he could have a “meh” face but have a perfect chiseled body and be 6’2”. Or do we average out all the components? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Study: Children of older fathers are less attractive. Maternal age has no effect on attractiveness.My dad was 37 when I was born, but I’m the youngest of 4 kids... so he started having kids in his early 20s. So I’m not sure if this technically means I’m ugly or not lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 11:49 PM |
| 6 | No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences.But wouldn't their bodies look disproportionate? Like only their legs will be longer but their arms and torso will still be short | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Would you be ok with a marriage where you both lived in different houses? Why or why not?If you both live next door to each other, or within a reasonable distance, I see a lot of pluses to this... especially if each person has different expectations of cleanliness. You wont spend too much time with that person to where you get sick of them, you still keep that sense of wonder and have your privacy/space when you need it. The only downside would be having to pay all your own bills and not having them split to save on costs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Would you date a woman taller than you? As a 5’5” male (without shoes)... yes, and I have. Is there a cut-off limit Maybe in extreme cases, but I try to keep an open mind in general. Is it a negative point in any way? If I was with a much taller woman, people might stare because it’s very uncommon... but at the same time people might assume I have something really good going for me if they see a much taller woman with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 4 | My english class is discussing gender issues and they’re feeding us propaganda.In my experience, actual feminists back me up. It’s everyday women who claim to want “equality” when it suites them, but then want the advantages that chivalry brings so they’re always in a win/win situation. But your overall point still stands, humans in general like equality until it’s an inconvenience. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/21 09:04 PM |
| 17 | My english class is discussing gender issues and they’re feeding us propaganda.Women love equality until it becomes an inconvenience. This is one thing most women are not consistent in. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Bald men are seen as more dominant, taller and stronger than men with hair. Women still heavily prefer men with hair. Which one would you choose and why?As a 5’5” bald male, I don’t know what to make of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 03:16 PM |
| 18 | TruthWho would’ve thought women in general were attracted to a wide variety of attractive men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who are considered 'Beta' are better off alone.What exactly is considered “beta” to begin with? Is it a shy personality? Having an unattractive face? No ambition? Lack of intelligence? No sense of humor? Having small physical stature? Most people are a mixed bag of pros and cons. Even a tall handsome guy can have have horrible social skills or be dumber than a box of rocks, or no ambition. Where as an average looking guy might be highly intelligent, charming, and ambitious. And that still doesn’t mean they’re going to be a kind or compassion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 02:00 AM |
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