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| 1 | How did you all deal with betrayal?Exactly! It changes everything and my future partners as I’m planning to recycle them every six months before they start getting ideas cause let’s face it you guys don’t even know me and I’m annoying….. lol now imagine this after your wife left you started finding paperwork heading around the house original copies of the family trust, Wills. Original EPA’s all technically into a travel folder that was packed the week before after I went back in my Cctv and watched it also contained some of our m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How did you all deal with betrayal?Well done! It’s an absolutely disastrous outcome however you know you deserve better. Respect should have been earned before they even said the first I love you. Respect is probably the foundation for every strong relationship. I can hear it in your words you will be ok. I wish you all Luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 12:05 AM |
| 5 | In middle of silver bullet, could use support or adviceMate DM me just been through similar but Worse. Coming out the back end now. I can definitely advise you speak sy | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 06:58 AM |
| 1 | In need of some probably basic adviceNope If there early teens the last thing they want is that conversation. I’m in a similar position however I’m not fussed I’m over it. I’ve had multiple partners since break up and surely she has too. Not my business no space in my head for it. I completed a parenting through separation course recently and what stood out is the Guilt children feel in this situation. They feel if they are having fun with mum and her next Meltdown they are Betraying me and Vice versa. They need to be comfortable t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 05:03 AM |
| 1 | 34 yrs old w/ 2 yr old son married 2.5 years considering divorceNo you don’t she made her decision and stepped across that line it will never be the same the Respect for you and the family as a whole is Gone. She is obviously not the same person who promised In sickness and in health, for better or worse…. Those words have meaning and significance to you. I know this because they did for me too, my wife struggled with work stress, ADHD and Perimenopause. 2yrs ago it was the toughest time for our Family, I made the decision normal life stops then. Myself and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 07:18 PM |
| 2 | How did you all deal with betrayal?By understanding my true worth I honestly believe I’m worth 3-4 of my Ex and my kids are all worth Elon musk money and one is very annoying! Still wouldn’t trade him for a million of his Mum though. The day I realised that I no longer could be hurt by her childish spiteful behaviour. Value yourself more than you value her | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 11:45 PM |
| 9 | 34 yrs old w/ 2 yr old son married 2.5 years considering divorceYou owe it to your son to try your hardest. Counselling, therapy etc exhaust all options before making a permanent decision. His mental health and future depends on it ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Really struggling with regretGood remember it! Your welcome | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Really struggling with regretInsta reels mate my algorithms are running the opposite | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 10:30 PM |
| 11 | Really struggling with regretMate she walked on first day of couples counselling because she was probably being asked to accept accountability for her part. You have both probably made many mistakes that’s a give in. But you stayed at the counselling because it was worth fighting for to you. When you get in a room with a qualified neutral person there’s no place to hide or shift the Blame because you will be exposed. You’re worth more than that and you owe it to yourself and your son to rebuild better and stronger starting … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 10:29 PM |
| 2 | HOW DO I LET GO?You let Go Mate Simple. Hold on to something that deserves your…. You. Bob Marley said “ we are all going to be hurt. It’s about finding the one worth hurting for” ❤️ Fuck it do what I Do just get stupid for a whole week once a month. Blow it out and get blown it resets me for the Battle of Daily life these days 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 08:21 AM |
| 3 | HOW DO I LET GO?Sorry hit post too early and got distracted with life!! My sons are actually priceless to me. One is actually the biggest pain in the ass and I still wouldn’t trade him for Elon Musk money. Honest truth, now number 2 is the key for me I hate that bullshit saying “until you learn to love yourself” it’s absolutely garbage waffle…….it made me sick to hear people roll it out! 🤢. Until it wasn’t. Feb 10 2026 I finally understood it. It’s completely real and the key to survival, thriving and healing. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Separation... (update)Until it wasn’t. Feb 10 2026 I finally understood it. It’s completely real and the key to survival, thriving and healing. When we finally realise Men and Women, Finally realise and truly believe we are worth so much more than what we place on our own existence. Then we will always accept far less than we deserve, we will make exceptions for disrespect and boundary crossing. Then the boundary starts to erode and tested destroying trust and Respect. Because Trust and respect is the basis of a soli… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Separation... (update)I hate that bullshit saying “until you learn to love yourself” it’s absolutely garbage waffle…….it made me sick to hear people roll it out! 🤢 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 07:59 AM |
| 2 | HOW DO I LET GO?I Hear you and still going through the most selfish spiteful 23yr relationship split. We have 3 sons absolutely amazing children who will have had to wear the mental scars for life. Because one wasn’t flexible in expectation of respectful communication and refused to put myself and my wants before the children’s welfare and future. 5 months ago as it was falling apart around us I realised 2 things. 1- I’ve been blessed I came from nothing to a very successful Business. Then it Hit…. I’d give it … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 04:12 AM |
| 1 | How do judges view false restraining orders?Going through the worst case of this at the moment, My wife had medical issues and a high stress job amazing relationship until then. Never confrontational or argumentative then this version turned up after a visit with her Estranged Mother. Next minute I has a TPO and allegations that are absolutely false and misleading the judge granted this based on the evidence at hand……all word of mouth no criminal history no history of abuse no cautions or even reports. She asked for me not to challenge I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/26 11:10 AM |
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