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In addition to all the childhood strife, we get to look forward to shouldering all the responsibility of elder care when our parents need it. I remember my mother taking in our grandmother when she got dementia, even though her brother lived closer and had a larger house with extra rooms and more financial resources. My mother was a single mom and I shared a room with my grandma. As a 12 year old I made sure she was ok when I got home because my mom would still br at work. My mom's brother was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:40 PM
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My friend is like this. She has endometriosis and has a shorter window for having her own biological children. She 100% settled for a "decent guy" who is obviously mysoginist. She is pregnant now and I am super happy for her, but hoping she divorces soon. She can come live with me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:36 PM
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I'm going to let you know right now, /r/feminism isn't really interested in educating people on their opinions. I think there's an /r/askafeminist that might be more helpful.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 10:16 PM
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That's assuming Men's Rights and Feminism have opposite goals, rather than focusing on resolving inequalities on one side or the other. We don't need to have the position that Men's Rights wants to hurt women, or feminism wants to hurt men.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 10:15 PM
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There needs to be some current poll on feminism so we can have some data, but most feminists I know don't deny that men have problems.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 10:13 PM
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Important article, but why is this in Men's Rights?
/r/MensRights04/06/14 10:09 PM
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This has NOTHING to do with Men's Rights.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 10:02 PM
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That's what I would have done, but maybe she wanted to take credit in the project. I'm obviously just speculating.
/r/MensRights24/08/13 04:14 PM
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The point was to contribute to a collage of unairbrushed images of vulvas so people could see what variety exists. Wanting to contribute to that project doesn't mean you want friends to know which vulva was yours, and what your intimate parts look like.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 06:07 PM
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The point was to protest a specific Australian censorship law. Porn mags have to airbrush labia out of an image to publish it. There was a surge in labiaplasty, perhaps due to people only being exposed to images of vulvas with no labia.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 06:03 PM
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The censorship rules for porn in her country that remove labia probably.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:52 PM
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Ask him if he planned to abduct children and let him go haha.
/r/MensRights02/05/13 09:50 PM
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Me?
/r/MensRights02/05/13 09:43 PM
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I could do research! Good idea!
/r/MensRights02/05/13 02:16 AM
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Good point. Getting in cars with strangers is a bad idea, and children should be taught not to do it. That doesn't mean that a guy who offers, and then drives away, is a child abductor.
/r/MensRights01/05/13 10:10 PM
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Wow! Thanks, I'm going to write to him right away!
/r/MensRights01/05/13 10:02 PM
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I might consider a legal profession, but I don't think that's where my skill set would fall to be honest. I'm definitely not going to waste my time and money getting a PhD in women's studies hah. My original plan was to be a psychotherapist and work with kids and adolescents, so that's still an option! The only problem there is I wouldn't be able to influence legal decisions unless called upon, which is why I was thinking there might be a niche in social work. I can never be a male psychiatrist …
/r/MensRights01/05/13 09:58 PM
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Shoot. FATHERS not father's.
/r/MensRights01/05/13 09:49 PM
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This is amazing advice and I'd like to add onto it. Look around your area for support groups for men seeking custody. They will probably already have access to resources that can help you, as well as provide you with support as you go through this. As Gregory said, you are NOT alone. You sound like a great dad, and your son is lucky to have you.
/r/MensRights01/05/13 09:40 PM
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I'd just like to point out, the road the children were walking is an extremely busy road. He may just be a concerned citizen. Why are we assuming he is an abductor, when he is probably just from a generation where people cared about kids' safety. (hint the answer is because he's a man!)
/r/MensRights01/05/13 09:36 PM
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This happens all the time because there is no requirement to get a father's permission before putting a child for adoption. It varies by state, but typically all that is required is a notice in the newspaper that runs for about a week that "Baby X " or whatever will be adopted. Don't read this adds? Didn't know she was pregnant? Dis you move? Tough luck. On a better note, many people who work in the adoption agencies are tracking down father's themselves. I know one personally who has helped a f…
/r/MensRights26/04/13 01:32 PM
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...you think people need to be explicitly told or experience that accusing someone of a serious crime has consequences?
/r/MensRights26/04/13 03:40 AM
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Is going after stupid people worth it? Maybe, they vote too.
/r/MensRights26/04/13 03:38 AM
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This is from this website about domestic violence in the military. If the abuser is a civilian, the military has no control over the matter. In most cases, all the military can do is turn the information over the civilian authorities. Installation commanders do have the power to bar civilians from military installations, and will exercise that power to protect military members from abusive civilian spouses, if necessary. Almost everything else in the article focuses on proceedings if the abuser …
/r/MensRights17/04/13 03:25 AM
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Your title is the least disturbing part of this situation.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 03:07 AM
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I'm egalitarian. I support feminism as long as it doesn't infringe upon the rights of others, and no further. I'm a Men's Rights Activist as well, and educate people about the right's that men face. I'm finishing my degree to work with adoption agencies and social service agencies to protect paternity rights and ensure that as few children as possible are adopted without their father's consent and that as few children as possible get separated from their fathers. Get off your high horse thinking…
/r/MensRights17/04/13 02:59 AM
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I think the technology is out there. Maybe we should organize something to send a message to companies that the demand is out there and it is in their financial interest to produce male birth control.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 04:38 AM
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Having more options doesn't mean more control as far as prevention when looking at the effectiveness of condoms. All you need is that one option, and you have control. Once pregnant, that's another story.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 04:36 AM
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I think the more "equal" way of dealing with this would be allow a man to opt out financially. Other people mention that the burden of the child would then fall on taxpayers. I guess we would have to decide as a society what we value more, allowing a father to opt out and pay for the child collectively, or forcing father's to pay child support, or coming up with a better plan (hopefully this one!).
/r/MensRights13/04/13 04:19 AM
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The choice right now is unfortunately just condoms, or vasectomies. Male birth control will hopefully be coming soon.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 04:15 AM
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You can sign the agreement, but it won't hold up in court.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 04:12 AM
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Feminists would LOVE this. They wouldn't need the father to support the child.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 04:11 AM
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Those are just additional methods to choose from. It doesn't take away that men can always choose to use a condom and prevent pregnancy (not considering condom failure, which is another issue).
/r/MensRights13/04/13 04:08 AM
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Brilliant.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 04:04 AM
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The point that really hit home for me was "in each of these cases, the man was perceived as guilty." I think this is a more important issue than what people initially claim, that the woman isn't actually a danger to the man. The underlying issue is the idea we have that women must be justified if they are acting in aggression. Logically speaking, since when is the victim of violence the guilty one?
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:59 AM
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Some people think rape jokes are funny, regardless of gender. Personally I wouldn't make a rape joke because it makes light of violence against people, but I don't get mad if people think they're funny. When it is a joke like this that is making fun of an individual's circumstance I think it's downright disgusting.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:52 AM
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Especially considering this just happened to the poor guy. Personally, I'm not a huge fan of this type of humor, but it's sick to use his experience and the details to make light of what happened to him. It's sick.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:51 AM
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I completely agree with you if you are to focus on criticizing the people and constructs that are holding up the inequalities of our system. This is different than your original statement, which related to "whiteknighting" and criticizing women with no context. I'm 100% in support of picking apart faulty ideas and calling out the people who believe and perpetuate them. Good job jumping to call someone trying to have a discussion with you a troll, though.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:47 AM
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Sorry I focused in on the wrong word. Criticizing females is also not the central issue of Men's Rights, IMO. I can see that in certain cases it might fall under some of the issues. The focus of Men's Rights is on identifying and changing ways that men are systematically oppressed by our culture and laws. For example, unequal treatment with sex abuse, unequal child custody rights, unequal access to shelters, etc. The right to criticize whoever you want is important, but criticizing specifically …
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:37 AM
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Unfortunately this is true. If /r/mensrights stuck to talking about actual issues that men are facing in society, like child custody issues, it would have a lot more respect. I think the average Men's Rights supporter is serious about men's rights, but there are a few bad apples who post things like, "A girl in my class kicked a boy! All women are vile!" (exaggerated to make a point).
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:31 AM
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I think the downvotes might be because his response isn't the reason that reddit in general seems to look down on /r/mensrights. That might be why female feminists don't like it, but as for reddit as a whole I think it is something else.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:26 AM
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I think you are missing the point of Men's Rights if you think the point is to condemn females.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:25 AM
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I'm sorry no one looks out for you. Get better friends.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:10 AM
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I think you should just yell at her to stop. It seems like you tried being nice. No one has the right to touch you. She's violating your space, you don't owe her any politeness at this point.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:08 AM
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If you heard the beginning of the video, it seemed like he was adressing some men in particular that had raised objection to the cosplay is not consent movement who felt attacked. I'm assuming at the end he was addressing these same men, pointing out that they weren't being blamed for this after sharing his female as perpetrator examples. Also, it does sound like he may have been drugged by his experience of blacking out. It could have been alcohol, but he doesn't mention that. It's really not a…
/r/MensRights13/04/13 03:07 AM
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I don't think this should happen systematically based on gender, but on an individual need basis. Again, we are talking about averages when we talk about how boys vs. girls learn. It would be extremely harmful to generalize what boys and girls need and tailor education specifically in this way because of the fact that some boys will learn more like girls and girls like boys. Your point is very good, though, that equal treatment may do more harm than good on an individual level.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 12:50 AM
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It doesn't. He's making a huge leap of logic, considering he doesn't know the mother or father at all.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 12:41 AM
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My brother and I were raised by our mother. Even though my father did have legitimate anger issues and was physically abusive, she always reminded us that he loved us very much and made sure we saw him all the time. She taught us about humanity, and the good and bad that exists in everyone. There are shitty parents, male and female, who teach black and white lessons about gender.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 12:40 AM
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Just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean they are a feminist brigadier. Some people think there are better ways of enhancing men's rights than pointing out that women can be pieces of shit, which should be obvious considering women are people too, and all people can potentially be pieces of shit. I can't believe this even needs to be stated.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 12:38 AM
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I didn't even realize that was a joke.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 07:41 AM
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I think good news sources try to remain vague to protect the privacy of the victim.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 07:38 AM
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Do you think that feminists think it is okay to demand that the man always pays? Do most feminists think it is ok to slap a man? I've never heard a feminist claim these things.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 07:30 AM
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There's nothing wrong with checking someone out, but I can support that objectification is wrong. Objectification takes away a person's humanity, making it easier to look down on them. Checking someone out or finding someone attractive is NOT objectification.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 07:26 AM
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It might be that the examples chosen in the image aren't in line with "feminism" in general, but more common in the general female population.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 07:17 AM
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I'd also reconsider the language in the objectification point. There are better representations of objectification than checking someone out.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 07:10 AM
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So the moment the egg and sperm join, they suddenly create something you call human, and causing it to not implant in the uterus or removing it from the uterus at that time is murdering a human being? But those same two cells with the same potential for life are not deaths of a human being because of their proximity to one another?
/r/MensRights05/04/13 01:36 AM
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Definitely! But this article doesn't suggest doing that. It just says two women failed.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 06:28 PM
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And before fertilization you have all of those eggs and sperm. It's not like all those unused eggs and sperms are equal to deaths of humans.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 11:13 PM
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I took it as celebrating their happiness. He's so happy he's crying, she sees his response and is so happy she's laughing.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 11:00 PM
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Thank you for being rational.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:54 PM
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What does this have to do with the rights of men?
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:52 PM
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Or she will like him, reflect on how much more she likes being with him, and no longer wonder what else is out there since she is more experienced. The possibilities!
/r/MensRights10/12/12 06:53 PM
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Oh gosh, he "hooked up with her a few times a few years back." She's nuts. If I hear "do you understand" even one time today I'm going to freak out. At least she put it out there how crazy she is. I felt like I was reading a joke looking at this, but creepyPMS aren't jokes. Why do some parents spoil their daughters rotten and teach them to be little princesses like this? I imagine her whining to her daddy for new shoes and a friggin pony daily.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 01:43 PM
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I completely agree with you. Did you know that the creep shot in the linked post was an upskirt? That changes the legality of it in many places.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 01:32 PM
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I hate reading posts like these. They give the community and movement a bad name. As you said, there are real issues to talk about and actually work on. I feel like OP was trying to create some controversy for upvotes.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 01:29 PM
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OP was downvoted because it wasn't relevant to the topic. The OP of the twox post mentioned she IMAGINED doing these things reflecting back on an incident after an upskirt photo was taken. Pro-marx left out the imagined part for his comment, and made a statement that no sane person would disagree with. I don't think the downvote was disagreement, but rather because it wasn't adding to the conversation about upskirt photos.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 04:59 AM
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UMass Amherst had an equivalent. I'm trying to find it now. I'll update you! Edit: I think it was this group, Phallacies .
/r/MensRights19/11/12 04:46 AM
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It's pretty obvious to me that he doesn't know what men's right's issues are. I am willing to bet if he had a conversation about some of the legal issues that men face his eyes would open. The issues of women's rights and men's rights don't have to be either/or and I don't understand why people have such a hard time understanding this. Wanting equal rights for men doesn't mean putting women back into the kitchen.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 04:22 AM
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Just pointing out you misquoted. She said "I IMAGINED myself walking up to him...". She can imagine anything she wants after being violated. Imaging revenge isn't the same as hurting someone. If she was trying to do this, or advocating hurting people I would totally agree with you. Fantasy revenge against someone who took a picture of underneath your clothing is fine.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 04:16 AM
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There are! It's a blood test, but it is a couple thousand dollars and I can almost guarantee not covered by insurance.
/r/MensRights01/11/12 12:12 AM
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Maybe they wouldn't get overtime, but their regular hourly wage? I'm really only familiar with hourly pay employment, so I'm not sure if this applies.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 07:22 PM
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I think the suggestion to remain on the clock is a great one. Get paid for sitting there!
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:34 PM
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My manager is like this so methodically. It's like it's the core of his being to protect women from all harm, whether they want it or not. It's so hard to have a meaningful conversation with him about it because 1.) he's my boss and 2.) I think he bases all his morality around his whiteknightsmenship.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:32 PM
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This happens where I work (retail), but it's the manager who insists because he believes women aren't safe alone. I am in charge of the registers, and at night he will make a man stand with me to keep me safe. Women also aren't allowed to collect carriages in the parking lot. I protest when he insists on these things because first of all, like you, we are in an extremely safe area. Secondly, it isn't the job of the men to protect me. Third, I am in no more danger being outside than the 17 year o…
/r/MensRights16/10/12 05:28 PM
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I think you're exactly right.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 05:00 PM
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:-( guys this sub was made a few days ago by the same people who modded r/creepshots. It's just to stir up controversy. It's working?
/r/MensRights15/10/12 04:59 PM
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A week ago at my university. Rarely enough that I took notice when I saw her.
/r/MensRights04/10/12 10:02 PM
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Even if she's only talking about women, you created this thread telling people the issues at hand were 1.) Women wanting to dress how they want and 2.) Women complaining about being looked at. That's not what the articles are talking about, and now that's not what you're talking about either. I hope you provide more accurate criticisms in the future. There was a lot you could have taken issue with, and it's too bad you had to make something up instead.
/r/MensRights26/09/12 03:56 PM
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No matter how a person dresses, it is going to annoy someone. I don't think it is worth worrying about. People should dress in a way that is pleasing and comfortable to themselves.
/r/MensRights26/09/12 03:36 PM
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Hah! Best not to take debating guidance from children.
/r/MensRights26/09/12 01:02 AM
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No, and it's down so I can't check it out. You're right that it ignores men, but your original claim was that the articles seemed to contradict one another. I don't believe that's the case, although you could have other valid complaints about them (such as they ignore that men face the same issues).
/r/MensRights26/09/12 12:34 AM
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It's usually only the youngsters who tease about penis size and the like during discussions.
/r/MensRights26/09/12 12:32 AM
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Are you 12?
/r/MensRights25/09/12 09:27 PM
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The second article isn't about looking. It's about photographing, including in non-public places.
/r/MensRights25/09/12 09:23 PM
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What if I say I am only attracted to thin people, and I really don't like an overweight body. I would actually prefer it if fat people could dress more modest. It would be wrong to legislate it but it would be nice if overweight people would just do it as an act of common decency. Messed up, no?
/r/MensRights25/09/12 09:21 PM
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The second article isn't just about being looked at. It's about being photographed without one's knowledge, including in private settings.
/r/MensRights25/09/12 09:13 PM
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Maybe he just doesn't feel like it.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 07:43 PM
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Well, I laughed at the 3 hail marys.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 04:11 PM
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Yeah I don't want to be a martyr, but I'll definitely be having a different kind of discussion when I meet activists from now on.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 03:41 PM
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The subreddit /sex got me thinking of sex in a healthier way in general. I read some articles about differing libidos which made me realize it was more common. What really got me was some discussions on here about coercion and sex, and also a story about one man's personal account of when his girlfriend yelled at him while camping for not wanting to have sex, I wish I could find it. He gave in basically to make her stop. I felt like I was her, harming my boyfriend in a similar way. Edit: spellin…
/r/MensRights04/08/12 02:09 AM
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Getting rid of that misconception has changed my life. I can't fathom how I actually believed that, when in all other ways I understood the diversity of human needs, thoughts, desires etc. That belief causes women to either think there is something wrong with herself or the man, and if a man believes it he feels that he is weird or inadequate. Thanks for sharing with me!
/r/MensRights04/08/12 01:50 AM
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Yeah, I'm definitely not going to do that.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 01:16 AM
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I said they were not idiotic, but you have a point of view that is heavily shaped by a tragic experience. In many ways you are better qualified to comment than others, but you will also have a more emotional and powerful response. I am not questioning your intelligence, not saying you're wrong, I just don't agree with every little point you make. I DO believe in emotional abuse, and I believe I was on the verge of it. I'm not sure you and I can reach a complete understanding, but if you want to …
/r/MensRights03/08/12 11:27 PM
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I will because I was using their definition of rape when I came to the conclusion that I may have raped.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 11:16 PM
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I will do this. I am a college student and have many friends interested in activism. I will bring up these points and tell them about this sub.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 11:13 PM
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I'm not rationalizing. I'm explaining to you because you don't know us. Honestly, I don't believe that what I did deserves jail unless in caused him trauma and me being in jail would bring him a feeling of justice. I made him feel like if he didn't have sex with me then my feelings would be hurt(they were) and I was persistent in asking. I questioned him about if he was really attracted to me, because I didn't understand that men could find a woman attractive and not want to sleep with her. I ma…
/r/MensRights03/08/12 11:11 PM
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The only thing we disagree on is that I should turn myself in to the law. I believe that is between he and I. I'm absolutely not saying what I did isn't bad because of how things are now, and I do think it's a big deal. If after my conversation with him, he said, "I would feel better if we went to court and let them work it out," then I would be willing to. Until that point and based on our situation, I won't.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 10:50 PM
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Exactly what my problem was. I had the misconception that men by default wanted sex at all times, and that it would make them feel better about anything else going on in their lives. I wish someone had said what you said to me when I was younger. All I heard was "if men see your legs they are having orgies in their heads, what they want above all else is sex." I believed this type of thing to be true. I don't think this at all anymore, and I'm no longer emotional about when he doesn't want sex a…
/r/MensRights03/08/12 10:15 PM
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Thank you so much, this is so insightful. It's been half a year since I've cried in front of him, and I'm going to do things like take a walk if I get too emotional again. I don't anticipate this happening, though, since I totally understand his point of view. I am going to take every bit of your advice, and I appreciate the time you took to respond. Edit: I don't think most of these comments are idiotic, although obviously I don't agree with some. People here are speaking through their own expe…
/r/MensRights03/08/12 10:05 PM
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Look, this issue hits really close to home for you. I value your opinion very much because you've gone through this. I'm even going to take some of your advice. But you don't know me, you don't know him. You know a couple paragraphs that I shared. I only sleep with him when HE asks. I do nothing to initiate. I ask him if he is still enjoying it. He sometimes decides mid sex that he doesn't want to anymore, and asks if I can finish him orally instead. I am enthusiastic to do this and don't push t…
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:59 PM
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Thank you for this advice! I do think apologizing for the pressure is a good way to open the conversation with him. Hopefully he will tell me how he felt and he and I can be more clear about what happened and how it is influencing us now. I apologized once for how I acted, but this approach you suggest can actually allow him room to express himself.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:46 PM
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Thanks for being clear on your definition. I was only aware that he was uncomfortable with sex at the time, I learned his history in pieces after.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:42 PM
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It was reading other men's perspectives that made me able to gain empathy for him and understand the truth of our situation. I absolutely feel bad for him and for what I did. It's not just the word rape, it's the emotion behind it that I caused him to feel that I'm sorry for. I'm sorry that I put him in a position where his boundaries weren't respected, that I was selfish and pushy, and that I caused him to feel guilt simply for expressing what he wasn't comfortable with. I agree with how horren…
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:39 PM
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So I should discredit his feelings on this?
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:31 PM
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I'm not going to the police, even if that is the moral thing to do. Aside from my selfish reasons for wanting to continue my education, career, and relationship, it would also hurt him. We are buying our first home together (his idea) and this would possibly cause him to become homeless. He would feel betrayed that I took time from building our life together to go through a legal process that he doesn't agree with.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:27 PM
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Was that to turn myself in to the law?
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:15 PM
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He is the one who tried to get the relationship. You don't have to believe, but I appreciate your perspective that this is something so serious that a relationship might not make it through. I believe ours will, though.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:13 PM
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Luckily he's been in therapy for a few years :)
/r/MensRights03/08/12 09:03 PM
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I'm trying to make things right, which I can't completely do. Reading this sub and some of the experiences men have gone through made me aware, and I am asking for advice. I am not facing punishment, and obviously this sub is not the place to come to elude it anyway.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 08:58 PM
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Sex aside, we have an awesome fulfilling relationship. Sex is on his terms for now, and although I would like a lot more, he initiates without me mentioning it. Most of the time we stick with other types of sex, like oral, that he loved right off the bat. Until he asks otherwise I'm going to let him do the initiating.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 08:54 PM
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No
/r/MensRights03/08/12 08:50 PM
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Some people would consider it rape because it involved coorsion and wasn't "enthusiastic consent". He also had told me before that when he had sex he always felt raped, I just thought it wouldn't feel that way with me. Thanks for the points of conversation, those sound perfect.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 08:48 PM
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He said no, I kept asking and didn't back off the first time. After that I would respond negatively when he said no. I'd cry (I felt repulsive), and ask him if he really wanted to be with me. I made our relationship contingent on him agreeing to have sex. I made a HUGE deal about it. I didn't yell or call him names, but I made him aware that it was because of him that I was crying and felt unwanted. It was abnormal and harsh.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 08:39 PM
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That wouldn't benefit either of us. I've been reformed by knowledge thanks to this subreddit much better than the US reform system could do. You're right though, it's my guilt that helps enforce that what I did was so wrong.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 08:33 PM
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Thanks for your reply. It's crazy how much time is spent teaching women to say no, but men are ignored. We tell them there's something wrong with them for saying no rather than responding honestly and only agreeing to what you're comfortable with.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 08:29 PM
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I think you and I agree on most issues, other than the fact that you blame feminists rather than society at large for these issues. You raise some really great points about health care being comparable to auto insurance. I wish our health care was more socialized in general, so the foundations of our beliefs may be too different to come to an easy agreement. I hope we can all speak up for abused men and raise awareness, because it's horrible that abused men are cast aside and neglected because t…
/r/MensRights28/07/12 01:04 AM
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I'm not sure to which privileges you're referring, but if it's healthcare I would hope there is equality as well. A lot of the things that are being debated with health care are female specific. Sadly the US hasn't made a male version of birth control available, and until they do this debate can't be equal. As for domestic violence legislature, I believe is should be written in gender neutral language to let anyone take advantage. I don't believe any of this is completely pertinent to the discus…
/r/MensRights24/07/12 12:36 AM
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Why do groups of people believe that women need to be protected more than men? From where do these attitudes come? I'm not saying that misogyny caused this decision to be made, but it's not insane to consider a cultural stereotype of women being weak, gentle, and sensitive has influenced this law. If it hadn't, what has?
/r/MensRights22/07/12 02:02 AM
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The same crime deserves the same penalty. Equality should be fought for in a way that benefits all people, though, rather than lowering the rights of one group. If the death penalty can be used, it cannot discriminate by gender. If it is determined that the death penalty is not the appropriate way to punish for violent crimes, it should not be used on only one gender. It's unbelievable that this could happen.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 01:58 AM
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According to comments there was a man living there as well, Joe Smith, who was the father of at least some of these children. Really sad story.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 02:12 PM
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Hah I meant the actual man. Now I'm imagining terrible bee hives running around in place of men. Not cool.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 03:01 AM
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Hmm.. I wish I knew what the feminist standards might be haha. You might end up with a race of buff, chippendale dancers! I actually can't piece together an image of what a stereotypical feminist would find ideal in her male offspring.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 02:57 AM
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I think the best purpose this can serve is to show that there are women who do support men's rights, although this is generally understood. As it's been said, no one can or should have to apologise for their gender.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 02:35 AM
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Cool idea! This really would solve a ton of problems. In your ideal world, would artificial wombs be the norm or only for cases when a woman would have wanted to abort but the man did not?
/r/MensRights04/07/12 02:28 AM
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