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women are disgusted by being approached by 'most' dudes. the fact that some will focus and obsess on 'old dudes' is telling. it's like saying 'beards are gross' some (many) women believe that - but then it's like - don't date guys with beards? don't go online and complain about guys with beards approaching you? would you make it a point to exclaim how 'gross' beards are to everyone and how other women shouldn't date men with beards? you could swap beard with any other 'group' and it would be sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:13 PM
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would you rather have 2 lottery tickets with a 5% chance of either being a winner or ... 100 lottery tickets with each having a 10% chance of being a winner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:08 PM
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if you get 100 matches within a week (which most women can do easily) that still leaves over 20 'acceptable' guys to choose from to date in a given week and probably at least 3 'exceptions' options. again - in a week. compare that to the average man who gets, maybe 2-3 matches in a month. are you implying these two scenarios are remotely similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:06 PM
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I really don't understand the need for many people to say that "we both have our same challenges" of course we do, but one side has far more challenges and they are far more difficult to navigate. not getting a single match and "filtering out the bad matches out of hundreds" are not remotely equivalent in terms of the effort required and the negative effects on self esteem and mental health. I believe men have advantages in many (most) aspects of modern life, but it would be nice for women to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:03 PM
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unfortunately it's very huge. the old rp sub turned into a trump circle jerk in 2016 and it was just nauseating. by then anything useful I could learn from RP was already learned so I bailed as it morphed into a pseudo-religious cult after that. I lean heavily rp in terms of the 'forbidden truths' it reveals about the courting process and female sexuality, but socially it's otherwise a shitshow of Ben Shapiro, Tim Pool and Steven Crowder types who believe they are "edgy" but are just cringe and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:55 PM
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That's awesome and I really think the best any parent can do. If you want to watch how the "helicopter mom" story ends, watch the episode "Archangel" of the show Black Mirror. That episode absolutely nailed the consequences of a lot of these "oh no! not my daughter!" attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:41 PM
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precisely. this is what some men miss with 'chad chasing' often women I see going after a stereotypical chad go after him because how obtaining him makes her feel about herself (and also how she's seen by the rest of her peers) as much as chad's primal physical attractiveness (though that is a huge part of it) but this explains women's propensity to be 'groupies' - they feel 'special' because the rock star chose her over the other girls (that night). men do not think like this, hence no male gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:02 PM
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*doesn't not apply after 3 drinks Otherwise, you're definitely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:59 PM
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aying "she's hot" doesn't mean I'd actually wanna fuck her if I get the chance. it 100% does for me, and I'd say it like does for most men (not all) Basically a hot woman is hot unless she really does something bad to fuck it up. A hot man, can easily become un-hot if he so much as sneezes weird in front of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:55 PM
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Because of men's naturally higher drive and desire for sex, cultivate as many options as possible (as women do) so you never have to be stuck with a woman who treats you like shit just to maintain access to sex. To the fullest extent possible, maximize your physical and social attractiveness through lifting, developing attractive skills(fixing cars, playing guitar, etc) and any other means (doing stand up, learn how to make people laugh at will, how to express opinions - even if controversial - …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:49 PM
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i've noticed that those young women fall into a few different categories: their mom got left by their dad for a much younger woman they got burned by an older guy already they are looking for any excuse to hate on men of any age Outside of that, far and away the most common responses here are from older women who "learned their lesson" by dating older guys when young, and now are older and for a variety of reasons hate the notion of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:39 PM
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great analogy. i wonder how many of these 'i'd never let my daughter do X' types actually think things through in terms of creating a taboo that the daughter becomes compulsively curious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:38 PM
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honest question is an older guy who is an artist living in the city and not rich, but happy with his creative work and lifestyle a "loser"? if said guy meets women of all ages in his craft / profession / social circles, should he deliberately avoid dating younger women even if most women his own age look down on his chosen path in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:29 PM
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for clarification - how old are you (how big were the gaps) and were you just 'friends' with these men or did you actually have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:26 PM
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They start acting out at work, shitting on men online, they start drinking more and it actually gets kinda sad you know, it's funny - now that instagram is over 10 years old, i've started to notice something. very attractive women in their mid-late 30's posting a combination of sexualized photos of themselves, along with tons of 'men suck' memes (defence of amber heard is a big one for these types lately) what's crazy is that, almost invariably, you can scroll through their post history, and i w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:22 PM
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it has been touched on in this thread, but my belief is that, while women can become attracted to a man based on how he makes her feel, they generally get 'horny' based on a the way a man makes her feel about herself. i kind of think this is why there is a misconception about women's tendency to cite 'personality' and other non-visual factors in their attraction cues. women, like men, also seem to just 'get horny' with no rhyme or reason and that can lead to the phenomenon where they fuck guys t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:11 PM
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