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Finally a prompt that’s engaging on this sub. What we are now noticing is that a lot of “relationships” are getting too difficult to hide. Everyone understands women have a “price” and soon enough they will be openly pricing themselves. Very similar to how women have non negotiables on their dating profiles ex “no car, swipe left” “kids? Skip me” What I’m more concerned with is what happens after that…
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:10 PM
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This is why it’s crucial to pick who you listen to carefully. Fresh and fit and the likes are mostly entertainment for me but you got a couple smaller channels that’s all about the self improvement. Considering my goals, women are an after thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:34 AM
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Now I get where you were coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:20 AM
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Question for you since you are a gay man, what even compelled you to look into the rabbit hole? Curiosity? If so have you watch vids or a couple clips? Not trolling at all btw and last question, what would a gay manosphere look like to you? I always think “Do gays not need these spaces cause it’s just not as difficult as man to woman or is the demand not there?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:06 AM
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I mean you still could’ve took a piss and had her wait. Something as simple as “man I really gotta go brb” “I’m gonna take a leak (then you come out the bathroom) hope you weren’t waiting long” bam your right back into set.
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:19 PM
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Ok. I see now. Your coming for the point where you guys are completely strangers. Then ofc it’s super weird (not to mention I’d be scared of getting robbed.) what I’m saying is if you have be talking for a short while. This is completely acceptable. Sets the tone before the date where it’s the first, second, or third. I guess we could agree to disagree.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:34 PM
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Not necessarily cuz w this. You can frame it how you want. This is something best suited for the first time y’all fuck. Or, if you know her blueprint and she’s a shy girl. Some reassurance especially when it doesn’t seem forced goes a long way.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:10 PM
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Another good tip; I want to try this soon. Is to get her to come over to your house before y’all go out. Have her chill for a bit while your in the shower, getting dressed, or running to the store etc. This makes her more comfortable being in your house/room so when it’s time to close it’s like butter. Now if she “happens” to leave something at your house…too easy bro.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:38 PM
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Like having too broad of a palate isn’t a problem.
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:34 PM
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Solid piece. A lot of guys should read and re read this to the point they internalize it. I say that because every few weeks it’s the same questions being posted on this subreddit. A good chunk of these questions were answered via this story. Good job bro
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:36 AM
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No.
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:22 AM
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I don’t wanna be mean but man you suck. You’d have a hard time tryna game a hooker even if you paid her! Back to the drawing board! “Call me daddy”
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:36 PM
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Dude your a man most likely in North America. Imagine u bringing this case to court…I would just take the L and move on/learn from this.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:08 PM
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Yea these things are what I’m starting to not like about reddit. I come here outta curiosity to talk to different ppl and hopefully come to a solution or talk about an idea.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:43 PM
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I already commented but imagine ur gaming a chick and she’s gaming you simultaneously, sounds like it would be freaking terrible or amazing no in between 😂
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:49 PM
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I see it as the ball being in your court. If u want to per-sue it go for it. Just remember this boyfriend thing MIGHT be a problem on the back end. In this situation you’ll be the alpha seed while the boyfriend is the beta need.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:29 PM
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Ima push pull guy due to my personality. I always would neg women before I even knew what that was.
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:00 PM
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Very common, I hate it! “Yo miss! My man’s wanna talk to you” like bro wtf. That’s a terrible assist.
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:46 PM
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I’m actually really surprised you approached at work,and it seems like ur up there in terms of professionalism. You said she doesn’t work with you or anything so I’d just say keep her away from your work I guess🤷🏾‍♂️ other than that, good job thinking on ur feet.
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:45 PM
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Now I’m guessing it’s something sexual😂.
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:33 PM
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I get where your coming from but these things will be discovered on a date. What I told OP was a “sniff” test. Literally just to hang out with the girl and “screen” her. Make sure she’s not crazy and that she’s compatible with you (surface level). What your talking about comes up later and is valid, but you also did say you want to know now. I find it hard for you to be like this and guys stick around; as per your comment you don’t seem pleasant to even be around.
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:41 PM
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Idk if ur being serious but what I said was drinks as in hitting a bar, he isn’t your father. He doesn’t have to clothe, bathe, or feed you per say. Your comment kinda sound like the chick to go out with him for 2+ dates and “sorry I don’t feel a connection” after letting the man pay for surf and turfs. 😂
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:13 PM
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Lowkey, i would be interested to hear about y’all teaming up and winging each other.
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:52 PM
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They probably using you for free food lol. Try a “sniff test” take them out to a walk in the park or to grab a quick drink. The purpose here is to see if there’s a connection between y’all. If not, it’s all good. You barely spent any money on her and she can go elsewhere.
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:50 PM
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Go for it. It is fun because in that “building” it’s 2 clubs, the 1st floor club is more so dance focused (latin type dancing) and the one upstairs (the one i spend the most time at) is ur typical nightclub. Last time I went there, the crowd kept growing and growing to the point you had to squeeze past ppl to get anywhere but super funny.
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:54 PM
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No bro, I gotta check it out. You ever been to Bar 13? It’s a nightclub and there tends to be some of the NYU “early childhood” type chicks there.
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:40 PM
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Which bar was this? I need to pull up lol I’m in NYC too
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:34 PM
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I agree with the concept.
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:31 PM
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The only time I’ve seen/heard it was attractive was in movies lol
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:10 AM
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Most ppl in general are wearing earbuds, to the point where they might not even be visible. Approach anyway, just say ur opener and expect a “wait what?” From the chick. From there you can asses from her tone of voice how to control the situation (shit test, qualifying, friendly, actually doesn’t wanna talk, etc).
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:00 PM
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That’s nearly what a cold read is. Ex “You look like your from x country”
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:54 PM
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Resorts sound great in therory. Tons of girls going on vacation and some even hope to find ONS or vacation baes. Idk exactly about Maryland tbh. I’d say keep in mind, girls really don’t matter I’d choose my job over a chick any day
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:28 PM
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It’s possible bro, I’m born and raised in Brooklyn. Great thing about New York is that there’s so many ppl. Try gaming in different boroughs, I know Manhattan can get very competitive. I’d say try Queens first, so many different cultural backgrounds, your bound to find a girl that fancy’s you.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:51 PM
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Forget about the chick liking you or not. I’m more worried about her flapping her gums to her “girlfriends” and exposing your “deepest darkest secrets”. She stopped talking to you don’t talk to her or bother her cuz you already gave a ton of power away.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:47 PM
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Do y’all get “tired” while approaching? And does your stamina increase? For me, I’ll get socially tired.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:59 PM
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8 @ 22yrs old
/r/seduction19/02/22 03:08 PM
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There’s this guy on this sub. He seems pretty cool his name is something like u/5_7pickup. He’s Asian and in Vegas, literally just starting out his coaching career. I’d say search him up and try him out
/r/seduction19/02/22 03:07 PM
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This sounds so interesting, I’m more so interested in the women. How do they grasp subduction, is it different, is it easier or difficult? So many questions. OP you have to keep us updated when this thing comes out.
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:00 PM
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With great power…
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:13 PM
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I gotta add, not only is it not weird because they are coming to you. What’s even more powerful is that your getting social proof from one of their girlfriends. That helps a fuck ton especially at a gym where there are so many “creeps”
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:52 PM
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That’s a great way to fast track learning seduction today. Find out dilf and milf game, then your golden. No need to start jumping on trends just to fit in if you don’t want to.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:19 PM
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That’s actually a good point she’s already in a relationship that’s toxic and she works with you. Look for something else bro 😂. You can even see in his post, he tries to rationalize it ex. She’s nice to the kitchen staff which I view is a good trait.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:17 PM
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Good questions. I look like a chad somewhat and the guys looked like normal ppl, girls were looking at me and giving me looks (ofc I would look away cause I’m a big fat giant pussy😂🤦🏾‍♂️) one even asked “hey is everything alright?” I was just frustrated about not knowing how to escalate and feel comfortable. So when I look over to my new buddies and the girls are grinding on them, I’m my head i was like “I already fucked this up, now I gotta play catch up” if you were on the outside looking in y…
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:22 PM
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I appreciated the wisdom here. Boy did I learn somethings lol. So what’s your recommendation for getting out of a “slump”
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:08 AM
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I agree with your points and I appreciate it ofc. What I was experiencing was almost like writers block for writers. I felt so “stuck” like forgetting my fundamentals I was so overwhelmed. Looking back I wasn’t necessarily the odd man out but just seeing the guys I merged do better than me made me very self conscious and overthink. Even second thooughts of escalating on the dance floor. I’m just weird 😂.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:54 AM
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Stop looking so deep into it lol. It might it might not either way still approach. Who knows you might fuck your fwb and sleep the rest of the day. 😂🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:53 PM
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Bro that’s what I’m telling you. The ball is in her court, hopefully the sperm cells (if any) die on the way to the ovaries. 🤷🏾‍♂️. At best all you can do is chase her down and persuade her to take the plan B don’t forget the effectiveness drops in accordance to weight of the woman and days after possible conception.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:10 AM
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You fucked up by saying we shouldn’t see each-other anymore. You just gave her all the power. Now it’s gonna look low value to hit her up and say take a plan B. But considering the circumstances I would still do it. Another thing, if you ejaculated and didn’t pee after that’s when the chances of pregnancy are higher so as it stands now the chances of her getting pregnant is low. Still try to communicate with her about taking that plan B.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:03 AM
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It’s was something like what I stated above then Some cold reads. She ended telling me she’s a “doctor” and her patient is a club promoter that invited her to the club. And this continued and this is when she started to cool out. Maybe she was nervous even tho she’s late 20s early 30s
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:27 PM
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Remember Southern culture is way more accepting of casual conversations. NYC there’s a lot of hustle and bustle
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:30 PM
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Yea if I had to guess your vibe is super off bud. Make sure you understand social cues and try to increase your social intelligence. It seems your super new so make sure your looking out for good iois and then approach. Hopefully that helps
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:20 PM
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Welcome to NYC my friend lol. There probably finding it odd from the way you come off. Make sure your confident, fun, and vibey. Nyc is one of the best places to game so don’t take this opportunity for granted.
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:10 PM
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OP seems to actually be a woman. In all fairness most dudes here no nothing about these apps, if u want us to rate you we can do that easy. I saw some of you pics, your body seems attractive. That’s all I got for you.
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:46 PM
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What area we talking about. I’m born and raised in nyc and just started approaching so I might be able to help
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:06 PM
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Everyone’s been in a similar position, where logistics may have posed a problem. But I gotta say dude, ur situation wasn’t even that bad lol. You said it urself. You could’ve run ahead of her and signaled take out ur earbuds etc or even match her speed and start opening anyway cmon bro
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:08 PM
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I think it’s OP’s comeback—> possible situations. “You here to hit on girls?” “No I came here to suck dick” 😂😂😂
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:59 PM
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If she doesn’t respond well to it, it maybe that she wants to just be friends. However it also maybe a shit test. Understand the difference between the two and it will be easier to move forward. Try to keep an out eye for things that she may say that makes you a friend ex “yea xon is a cool friend” “xon is so adorabl” etc
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:06 PM
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Appreciate it. I’m a social person / class comedian type guy so that’s nothing. I just need to figure out why I blank out when talking to chicks. Because with the “doctor” girl I thought of some good game on the train ride home smh.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:50 PM
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Appreciate it. I’m a social person / class comedian type guy so that’s nothing. I just need to figure out why I blank out when talking to chicks. Because with the “doctor” girl I thought of some good game on the train ride home
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:49 PM
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Please stop. This might come off as tone deaf but don’t get too involved w babymommas. Plate them and have fun but taking her and her kids out on the 4th date!? You said ur self you have a great job physique etc. your finna be a great resource for her and her kids lol don’t be surprised when the “I need my own space” comes up.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:48 PM
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You have to make the interactions man to woman. This is how you show intent. Ex “lol your cute” “so tell me about yourself” think up of some direct things to say. Because even if you try to show intent and it’s too soft, you start to slip into the friendzone.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:30 PM
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Op said prospective not protective…
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:21 PM
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Agreed an also weight out your options. Yes urban and dense areas increase chances of running into hotter chicks duh. But do you wanna move to LA or NYC or more affordable Texas (Houston, Dallas, San Antonio) , Florida etc
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:17 PM
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Agreed an also weight out you options. Yeas urban and dense area increase chances of running into hotter chicks duh. But do you wanna move to LA or NYC or more affordable Texas (Houston, Dallas, San Antonio) , Florida etc
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:16 PM
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Stop what your doing right now. This is never the way to go bro. Read through this sub some more and watch some pick up vids on YouTube. You didn’t take the risk of escalating while she was into you so this is the result you get. Next time man up and escalate (appropriately ofc)
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:57 PM
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Agreed but somethings women don’t even intentionally/maliciously do it. It’s an organic thing. OP just needs to wrap his head around that and his life would be much better lol. If you view it as malicious intent then the women start to look like snakes and 2faced etc.
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:50 PM
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OP you just made it creepy to cold approach. Look at what you typed, things like I don’t want to lead a girl on or just use her for sex. “I just wanna connect.” It’s that simple bro, when you approach a girl have that “I just wanna connect” as your framework when approaching. That should take most of the edge off.
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:40 PM
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I agree. He can use this to his infinite advantage lol. But it’s up to him on how he wants to play it. We need some more nuance on the friends. Is it like a “he’s such a player be careful girl😍” or is it a “don’t even try with him he’s dripping with stds”.
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:35 PM
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On the outside looking in. I think when she said she wanted to spend more time bathing. That was a cue for you to stay in the set a bit longer so you could increase “comfort”. It seemed like you got the “value” down pack. She showed iois and even a little handy lol. IMO if you stayed a bit longer and passed a couple shit test that would’ve been an easy F-close. Search value vs comfort for further help.
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:30 PM
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On the outside looking in. I think when she said she wanted to spend more time bathing. That was a cue for you to stay in the set a bit longer so you could increase “comfort”. It seemed like you got the “value” down pack. She showed iois and even a little handy lol. IMO if you stayed a bit longer and passed a couple shit test that would’ve been an easy F-close. Search value vs comfort for further help.
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:30 PM
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Yes I did. I number closed and then left, I didn’t add that lol
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:00 PM
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No worries nyc
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:59 PM
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We need more reports like this. Things that are working in real life situations. Happy for you especially coming out off a divorce.
/r/seduction05/02/22 02:54 PM
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I’m literally going thru your YT right now
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:01 PM
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So share some more stories. What u waiting for!? I also would like to hear more in depth with that train ride pull. How did you pull so effectively on a train? Etc
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:48 PM
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This sounds legendary. This is a story to share with you bros at a kickback or something 😂
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:46 PM
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I want to add, she may have lost interest because you took away too much comfort from her. Some girls in that situation would start to get competitive and try to get your attention as much as possible. However, other girls may feel low self esteem or even “it’s not worth it”
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:39 PM
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So I checked out the vid and from my interpretation it’s the triangular gaze. Look into the eyes deeply and then the lips. Pretty universal for man and woman to know that person who is doing the gaze is attracted to them. Your job is done. As a woman I can’t see any reason for you to “suduce” especially considering the type of man you said u wanted. You should show signs of interest which you already stated and that’s it. If the guy is too coward to escalate with you great you just weeded out a …
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:36 PM
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Bro back in HS I had my “own” staircase lol. In nyc especially in summer we like rooftop sex as well. Just don’t get caught by police
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:29 PM
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Easy solution, stop being gay. Lol! I’m jk 😂. I’d say since the teacher is super professional this would be a long game. Get the gamer tag after graduation and start to bond over the games, banter, etc. I honestly don’t know how the dynamic is for gay ppl but I’d try what’s preached on this sub. Open, escalate, hook, close etc. this is just gonna take 6mos-1year IMO. But, he may be into you already but due to his job he suppresses it. In that case it would be way easier.
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:23 PM
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Your already in better shape than most due to the nature of your work. Rejection, breaking the ice, social intelligence etc. so that’s really good and it’s gonna help. The one thing I would caution is always be closing. Too many guys just stay talking to the girl on the street or whenever, then she starts to lose interest in the man. Good luck and report back to us.
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:15 PM
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Getting it back is low percentage. I’d say focus on other girls and if girl #1 starts to show interest slowly give her some attention.
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:12 PM
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Lol I’m trying not to be rude
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:32 PM
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Wow! your shy, haven’t interacted with a female in over a year and still approached? Do you know how well your doing lol? There’s extroverted type guys that still won’t approach. Bro your doing good, I think ur mentally is the only thing that’s fucking you up right now. Try to be more confident mentally and I think one you break that barrier topics will come flying out your mind. (Question game, future plans, studies, make jokes) conversations are natural and fluid so take that with you.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:52 PM
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Mam I tried to ask a question and here you come with the smartness. Why? SMH have a nice day
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:46 PM
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From what I read and my humble interpretation. Your what’s known as a beta orbiter. She will keep you around because you make her feel good however chances of you 2 getting together are actually very slim. Basically think friendzone. My question is…you know what your doing and you do it again??? “That’s ur after sleep face…” etc. like it’s not rocket science and I have a hunch that even you know, in the act of doing it; that it’s low value type shit.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:45 PM
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Hey wanted to ask since you say ur a woman. What are u doing in this subreddit? Why would you need to seduce? Honest question not tryna be smart or anything.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:40 PM
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I agree but u have the ports to go and approach the town/city. And you also have groups of girls on a girlcation
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:31 PM
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Bro I’ve heard cruises are the way to go. Especially if you get to stop at ports
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:48 PM
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One of the work bros asked me “what’s wrong with you?” She just seems like bad news honestly. And abundance my friend 🧘🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:01 PM
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Bro did u hear what I just said lol. The only woman that would do that shit is bat shit crazy, which she is! 😂😂😂.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:57 PM
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This was in an office type environment
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:23 PM
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Not even. Those girls had bfs and baby daddy’s. He just played the “alpha seed” role.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:13 PM
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My 2 cents. I was asked this literally question from a chick, at work, my first time meeting her… it caught me so off guard. What I did was play it off as “yo this chick is crazy can I get some help” 😂 she laughed it off. Honestly it made her even more interested, She shakes her ass in front of me and shows me her pussy pics lol girls are crazy bro
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:31 PM
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I kid u not I thought this post was coming from a gay man lol. What game do you need as a woman? I’m asking because I can’t see where it would be necessary🤷🏾‍♂️. This sounds more of a confidence thing and how you view yourself.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:12 PM
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I’m happy your getting it cuz it seemed like your attractive enough for the girls to talk to you. With the right “strategy” you can def pull these women. My little cousin is 19 and had sex with 24-25 year old women. Even had a 3 sum with 2 25 year olds. (he got major help with that one lol).
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:03 PM
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I’ve heard of the “Question game” asking each other questions where both of you have to answer honestly. This gives you power to steer the convo where u want it to go. Never tried it but sounds effective 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:53 PM
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Notice what Jacob is trying to tell you. You already framed your interaction with the women as lower value men. Instead you should approach and steer the convo to dancing then get them to dance or if your confident enough straight up tell them “you girls look cute, let’s dance” etc etc
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:51 PM
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Very underrated post. This is almost like the fitness industry. You have ppl that wanna lose weight fast! They will go on a fad diet or even starve. If they are lucky they hit their weight goal and in 2 months gain all the weight back plus some. Understanding and limiting toxic ppl is the equivalent to learning how to eat and exercise. It’s more work but pays dividends in the long run.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:28 PM
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I agree with you, also when u double text it changes the dynamic. Now she may see you as lower in value and the guy would even start to pine for the woman. This is really bad. But if the invitation was the last text, what if she texted him back what should OP do in that situation?
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:22 PM
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I appreciate the compliment. I’m just trying to make sense of the scenario/story here. Personally that chick is done to me 🤷🏾‍♂️. If she reverts to being flirty and shit again I’d say play it cool and make her work for it. I know some girls love to chase it, if your able to play it like that do it if not…she can kick rocks
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:53 AM
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That’s not what the problem is. You feel like she was flirting, cool. Now your job is to find out if she was actually flirting and if she’s even into you a little bit. From there your able to “game” her. I honestly feel like she might’ve been interested but you going 0-100mph really blew it up. Take it as a lesson, get better and move on.
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:46 AM
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IMHO it sounds like u went from 0-100. Girl: “hey” You: “I like you!” Now it probably didn’t go that way but you startled her. Her immediate reaction was no. Now as to stay high value…she doesn’t matter. Stay on your purpose/grind and in that abundance mindset. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:40 AM
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I think this is awesome. Now start to develop a “strategy” to talk to girls even better.
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:35 AM
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This is what this sub is fucking about. Bros just tryna help bros I could cry right now 😂
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:34 PM
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Your asking us advice but it depends on your goal with this woman. She’s an adult and has helicopter parents still and you say your not going to set up a date. You wanna be penpals? You guys talk daily but where u wanna go from there?
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:08 PM
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Hate the term “bad texter” I don’t even think it’s real tbh lol. Besides that, girls are always on there phone. OP it’s either she’s not into that much or she’s SUPER busy (work/school). Either way you should be nexting this chick.
/r/seduction11/01/22 08:35 PM
17

I’ve seen these “pranks”/ social experiments on social medias. I like how your using it and giving us the real deal on its efficacy. Edit: What songs you have used btw?
/r/seduction11/01/22 08:31 PM
1

I’ve seen you drop little nuggets of gold in r/seduction I agree with you and appreciate you as well.
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:51 AM
22

Bro your scared to do everything, what advice do you want? Ask yourself this question. Maybe reread what you just posted. I like to find solutions so best I can give you is start from the bottom (strength your mentality, get in the gym to gain confidence as well as better your diet)
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:52 AM
59

Only thing I’d add is most average women are delusional, as in they thing most men are the top 10%. That’s another thing we need to adapt to
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:47 AM
14

As per your edit: Just cause she stripped down in front you of during a FT call doesn’t mean your “in there” it may even mean she really does see you as a friend lol and you reinforced that by looking away. Honestly these are just my opinions but your operating like one of her “sis” or “besties” rather than a man she would want to be physical with 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:11 AM
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Sounds like ur in the friend zone frfr, I’d say “abundance” get more girls. It’s possible when she sees you being more busy (with other girls and focusing on your goals) she might be running after you. Don’t count on it tho
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:06 AM
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Agreed. I’m texting 10/10 times the girls job is to introduce us. Makes it much smoother and easier tbh
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:55 PM
2

Focus on bettering ur mental first it will pay dividends.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:18 PM
1

Even if the activities might be too much. Something as simple as sitting in the “quad” or the library can help a lot. Good luck bro
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:08 PM
3

Bro it’s literally right under your nose. Good, go and work on yourself but if u wanna meet early 20s women it’s gonna be college. Figure out ur introvert/ social circle problem but the opportunity is literally in ur face.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:56 PM
1

Why is this so special. I’m asking cuz I’m way outta the loop
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:47 AM
2

I can relate, big part of the reason I’m so gun shy when it comes to approaching. Not to mention I’m 6ft and muscular lol. All I can say is still approach! Especially if your getting signals from her. Keep it simple.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:58 AM
3

“I gotta show that I’m worthy of her first.” Someone get this guy a doctor!
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:07 AM
0

Don’t even say sorry! Say “it is what it is”
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:45 PM
7

She probably was inexperienced and was too eager while deepthroating.
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:35 PM
7

Bro she told you “I have a date DONT text me around 7pm.” And your still wondering if she’s testing you!? Brother man, she lowkey disrespected your manhood. Your in the friend zone bud. Too much back and forth texting/calls
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:25 PM
1

Y’all already know the rules. “Don’t shit where you eat” but I’d say maybe too much texting is messing up your progress. Text to set up links/dates bro that’s the primary focus. Other than that keep things light flirty at work if your cool w that.
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:59 AM
2

And just mentally tbh. One of the best things I’ve ever done was starting working out at a young age. That self/mental aspect of it is well worth it.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:34 AM
1

Just cause you have to see her so often and you want to be sure she says yes. I’d play the longer game and feel things out before making a concrete move. Light flirting and such is fine but find out what she’s looking for and stuff since you guys are in the same group. Use it to ur advantage
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:32 AM
35

Just want to add to this, IME the smoke session especially after she knew what ur intentions were- is just an excuse to get next to you. To me it seems like she might be looking for dick. Play it cool and don’t fuck up lol.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:28 AM
1

The way u just broke it down made so much sense. Write more posts on this subreddit guy!
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:54 AM
2

I think this might be the case. I’m just wondering if she would spend that much time for validation just to fuck another guy? Thoughts?
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:37 PM
6

Hmm🤔 I can prolly do something w this, thanks bro!
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:09 PM
2

This woman might be using you for validation, sometimes they play these weird games
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:52 AM
1

I agree and still do this.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:59 PM
2

I’m in college as well, make a snap account or use IG. Those are the two most popular I’ve experienced.
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:40 PM
2

My only thing w this is how do you execute it? Because let’s say your just starting to text a girl. You don’t want here to lose interest by not texting her you know?
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:35 PM
2

I agree, I mean he’s already there. Everything’s going well. I think he’s overthinking a bit, just let things happen naturally.
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:19 PM
2

My thing w these are that, if u incorporated everything (depending on who u are) you wouldn’t be ur self anymore lol. You gotta find a middle ground and figure out what works for u.
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:06 PM
5

I think it’s kinda funny and quirky. I’d appreciate that since I have a sense of humor. Shout out to you putting in some effort.
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:01 PM
1

As someone who had a problem going in for the kill. Find a way to fucking do it bud.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:37 AM
1

Let’s go bro! 😂
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:48 PM
5

Remember this feeling and how much it sucks. Shooters fucking shoot! Let’s get the confidence up and do what u do best bro! LETS GO!!!!
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:48 AM
11

Good job champ ur a 24m living life. Forget about shawty and move on. Be a man!
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:25 AM
1

Seems like everyone’s talking about the “incest” thing. But I do wanna find out what he should do in this situation cuz I maybe in a situation like this. (Excluding family) Airbnb parties w friends/girls.
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:10 PM
3

She only wants validation is what it seems like.
/r/seduction28/08/21 01:05 AM
72

Not gonna lie bro I appreciate the work ur putting in tryna help guys out especially in my case, I gotta get out more. Shout out to you and wear condoms!
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:06 PM
156

My only question is how did u plan all of this!? You don’t have work/gym etc 😂 living like a modern day rockstar. Drinking every night( be careful)
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:58 PM
3

Bro u gotta give us an update or something. This is looking good imo
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:19 PM
1

Agreed. If the vibe was there (seems like it was) ask her to hang. Grab a bite somewhere she wanted to go already etc. keep it light hearted and there might be some attraction between y’all
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:22 AM
2

I always had a little mental barrier when it came to sex in the friend group. If my dick can’t get hard or my sex is wack then it’s screwed lol. Only time it happened I ended up performing well tho so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:57 AM
2

This is a vibe at most ages tbh.
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:15 AM
1

Pretty solid advice. I agree
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:19 AM
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