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I had this happen once and it was because the girl had been raped before and an emotional trigger set her off. Others have pointed out the trigger could be any number of things (e.g. prior rape, thinking of an ex, painful/uncomfortable sex, guilty over any number of things) Step 1: Let her know she has nothing to be embarrassed about with you, and either she can talk about it with you or not. This is most important. Step 2: Listen to her if she wants to talk about it, be a good friend and move t…
/r/seduction24/08/14 11:17 PM
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If you're that uneasy about it - Find a bar you can feel comfortable in (but one that does have it's fair share of a female customer base) and go there semi regularly. Go with friends and don't worry about girls at first, aside from being friendly with them. You're there to do 2 things initially Make that bar feel like your home turf... get comfortable with the surroundings. Make friends with the staff. Once you're comfortable with your surroundings, everything else becomes easier. And #2 is a b…
/r/seduction14/08/13 08:55 AM
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No, throwing back the 20 tequila shots during the date makes her think you're an alcoholic. If your date is judging you for being friendly with the bar staff, she's judging you for taking her to a bar to begin with. You've already lost.
/r/seduction01/06/13 10:29 AM
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Happy to hear of your success, but "out of your league" is all relative... Well done on building the right attraction to make "league" irrelevant. I am friends with many strippers, and have dated a few in the past. Allow me to offer some unsolicited advice, on the assumption you want to see this girl more than just one more time to fuck her; (yes these are broad generalizations, not applicable to all) Ignore the stereotypes, and "forget" where she works. Many of these girls are great and caring …
/r/seduction08/11/12 02:26 AM
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Self deprecating humor works very well if you're good at it. But if you're good at it, you're probably someone who uses it socially and can appreciate a good joke (told by others) at his own expense. If you do have that style sense of humor then it's all about 3 things; Be clear in tone that you're kidding and don't actually doubt yourself (you don't want to come off as lacking confidence) If you're highlighting a trivial flaw - Own it (this is stated elsewhere). Show your pride of it, or at lea…
/r/seduction09/03/12 01:21 PM
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Upvoted for the GTA Analogy Tip: Generally relationships don't end with you framing the girl for a crime, stealing from her, killing her, or finding out she's a cop, like they do in GTA. Hope this was helpful
/r/seduction09/03/12 05:08 AM
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slow clap I approve. If she can't take the double entendre of that and laugh, she isn't worth dating. With my original statement, it's hard for her to ignore the specific date (weekend), but here she can completely breeze over the "when we meet" statement and just reply with something like "haha maybe"... But it's cool, then you come back with "Well I should be able to have it ready by [day]. Are you free?"
/r/seduction04/03/12 11:05 PM
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Definitely understand. I did the online dating thing for a bit... understandably so, girls can be somewhat reserved on jumping into the meeting part since you could be a serial killer (none of them consider that that risk is technically applicable to both parties). I always found it was easiest, and least awkward to work in a "when we meet" type comment into witty banter (like my other comment here). This accomplishes a few things; It avoids the awkwardness of the "soooo...wanna meet?" message I…
/r/seduction04/03/12 11:00 PM
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Depends on the girl and interactions thus far. "Sounds kinda kinky" can be taken many different ways, including too forward or mind in the gutter. Besides, if she's trying to be dirty in the implication... not taking the bait is going to get in her head more than taking it will, provided you still continue to show interest in another way.
/r/seduction04/03/12 10:06 PM
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"So when we meet for coffee next weekend, I'll be sure to wear a cup, just in case." Witty reply, and transitions to discussing making plans to meet. Coffee or other meeting of your choice.
/r/seduction04/03/12 09:34 PM
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Hence the ಠ_ಠ at my own comment
/r/seduction01/03/12 04:58 AM
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Then you just neg her..."she's better in bed anyways" Get her being jealous of the little sister, wondering what's so great about it. Soon enough; threesome with sisters! Giggity ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:29 AM
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Definitely not on the first date... but I know from experience that some strippers are curious about the customer experience side of things. I was out with a stripper once, and went into a club cause she wanted a lapdance. She enjoyed the fuck out of it.
/r/seduction22/09/11 08:37 AM
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All the upvotes. Agree completely (I just posted a similar comment before finding this better one). Don't get offended or pushy with the "closed off" part. She may like you, but she's not prone to let many people in on all the details that connect private life and work life.
/r/seduction22/09/11 08:28 AM
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Some tips speaking from a bit of experience Don't get stuck in the "Customer zone" (think friend-zone). If she sees you as a regular, and as a cash cow, the urge to make a living trumps budding interest. She also likely associates "customers" with "creepshows", so you don't want that... and while we're on the subject, be aware that she might not open up right away because there's a ton of creepshows and alot of safety in keeping "real life" (friends, family, real name, facebook, etc.) separate f…
/r/seduction22/09/11 08:26 AM
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