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| 12 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home? | Rant | HawkThua01 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 01:52 AM |
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| 2 | What was the event that led to your divorce? Was it preventative?This choice already made but not by me ratger society and the system.Therapy not affordable(£40/$60 a session)no family to move back to...so shafted financially i won't be out of it for at least 10 yrs. Can't afford basics most of the time due high costs of living (living alone even more expensive) and obviously Childsupport based on tge income when I had a decent job I lost due made homeless when my abusive ex locked me out of my own house...so tell me I made this choice BS more pls. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 04:18 PM |
| 5 | What was the event that led to your divorce? Was it preventative?Married to the wrong person who crulely used out my inexperience regarding relationship.Never had Gf before and since than either...looks not gonna happen either | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Ok to go through life as a single dad?Men Going On Their Own | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Wife wants a divorceYep...prob but you do not leave your house.This is relationships nowdays.She upset or find soneone and broke you....no worries the other guy prob leave her after a while and fall between two chair King. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Ok to go through life as a single dad?I'm 36 divorced 4 or 5 yrs....Yes it is absolutely OK but....first you have to made your mind up and it wo t be easy...there will be rough time when you will be longing for that intimate connection...That one person you can share joy or tear also Holidays,Birthdays will be awful at first than you will slowly use to get it... Good luck on your journey bro Chk out MGOTW | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 06:38 AM |
| 0 | Dating is a nightmareYou guys actually getting dates?Don't know what I'm doing wrong but it's been 4 or 5 yrs since divorce and not even manage to get a date....I must be the problem but I can't figure it out on my own(or infact I did but there is nothing I can do about it and if mention it why I would be called loser or incel or fuck knows what they call nowdays man can't get a date or any sort of connection whit people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 06:27 AM |
| 1 | It wasn’t an accidentIt doesn't matter in the end because a,Nothing happens after death B,There is actually soul and that learn based on experience so it a lesson We will never know all we know it does not matter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 04:34 PM |
| 4 | It wasn’t an accidentIf there is God would not put me there in the first place.Would you let someone go starving homless freezing and abadoned if you live him? Nope.... I'm happy you find some delusion help process the trauma but I'm a realistic person and try to stay sane.. Not imagen something put me there to be here but each of their own. I kill my pain whit screaming loud music and riding fast on my bike hoping I will hit a pothole over 80+ so the pain goes away forever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | 36M, how is datingI'm 36.Non existent....Noone see me and noone wants to connect either. I'm on loads of dating apps.Literally noone...I'm lonely but not desperate so realized I have no value in the eyes of women. Here is the main thing women see me as red flag -have kid(Most women think you look for stepmom or can't dealt either the fact they not No1 or can't really tolerate other women children) -strain finances(obviusly paying CM and paying back legal fees) They look for a man can provide financial security=yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Did anyone end up being Happy their Wife Divorced them?Sucks when you ralized you lived a lie for 10 yrs.My sleep lasted 8 yrs than one day when she hit me so hard my ear was ringing for hours I realized this women never loved me.She loved the fact I'm able to make her a baby and buy house...once these qere on place full blown abuse....I'm not happy to have less time whit my kid and not happy lost my house and made homeless whitout family or support circle. But happy when I come back to my wee one bedroom rent its finally peace here and my happy pla… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Dating appsI find tatts attractive but yeah you perfectly described online dating. If you ain't least 7/8 as a man on these apps just forget them they ain't made for us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 11:21 AM |
| 0 | I think I’m too picky/ hypocriticalI do t know a lot of 20s own their houses....least not from my gen either..maybe I'm the one who not functioning properly | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 02:02 AM |
| 0 | I think I’m too picky/ hypocriticalEach coin has two sides.Although we all had our far share of trauma...For me the ones who say "own house car job." Is the red flag because automatic assume she get the house off from Babydaddy...like I'm 36 work two jobs and can't afford to buy one...yes I lost mine during divorce and been shafted whit only 5% of my equity. Than how all these women by 28 own a RR and a 3 bedroom house because sure its not a 9-5 job.. Maybe a due see a therapist but it's getting way too common so there is definit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Dating Culture in the U.S. is Broken; Seeking Honest OpinionsI ride bike so I've got my helmet...don't know looks like but look at China for example where they control the population did not end up to well. I work two jobs so I can upkeep whit bills debts and Childsupport...no even have time to date at this point...so just work my two job ride my bike and enjoy my time whit my kid. At least I feel alive when he is around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Dating Culture in the U.S. is Broken; Seeking Honest OpinionsEnglish girl fetishies US guys.Im Eastern European....not so preferred tho im white tall and slim. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Dating Culture in the U.S. is Broken; Seeking Honest OpinionsYep...36...nothing since divorce..lucky for me sexwork is legal in the UK...so least can satisfy one of my needs...but yeah lack of connection is hard..How am I going to teach my kid for happy relationships or any help him once his bigger... It's crazy...anyway 10 yrs time there will be loads of us going to be alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Why would you recommend against marriage?But you still here bruv for an another day.Thats tells me you are a good person no matter what.Once we up at the gate the judgments comes and hope she pays for it dearly...just like my ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Getting out there…You talk to them? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Why would you recommend against marriage?Why is it pushed?Easy...so they can destroy one more man and make one more fatherless children who the system can control pretty much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 04:05 AM |
| 7 | Why would you recommend against marriage?No...I would not remarry ever again. Why?Why would I wanna lose half of my everything again? Lucky for us single dads whose make median income no women look at us as potential partner exact the reason love is transactional...as single dad who pay CS and Alimony clearly has less financial value so you get no love anyway. So don't ever get married bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 04:03 AM |
| 2 | DatingSome people just late boomer.Its fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Dating4 yrs trying to get a date...half a year after we split...still nothing | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who have daughters have trouble finding a new partner (gf and wife) ?It doesn't matter what gender your kids are. Women exactly know you fucked financially and they also know kids comes first so they will be always 2nd place in your priorities... If you find a date let me know...4 yrs out and not even had one match on apps.. Finding a date as single dad is mission impossible | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Lucky you.In my position its not possible at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Fck u talking abt?Jail for what and who needs visa? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/24 01:20 AM |
| 3 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Women are evil....there is nothing to stop em to do the same thing again isn't it? Have enough drama in my life beside being broke AF. Bro...noone wanted me before my evil ex...noone wanted me after especially so....thats pretty straightforward to me. Whatever women wants I have none of those qualities.End of story and really it's an uncomfortable topic for me(relationships) to talk about. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Got charged for my ebike....they won't let me in.Got a DBS record whit NI10. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?It's not up to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 10:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?I'm happy for you really.its long way to go....or apperently going nowhere.im fucked for life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 05:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?This.My abusive ex was handling my money...I had to fled away...it was physical at this point.Ypy know when you abused so long....xant explain..anyway she played the DV card.So free lawyer right away vs me whitout money or papers...took me months to get my papers back from her....thats how.. She played the can't buy you out but the kids needa to stay in the material home... and since she only work 16hrs...her earning capability way lower than mine card....so the judge thought im only 32 I can bu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Bought my house 2018. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Well as I said I made homeless means no equity...all my assest got transfered to her.... | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 03:50 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Not really...my rent is 3 times what was my mortgage payment....eitherway.its fucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?I would never leave my kid behind so no...also to enter Australian you need serious amount of money saved up.Its not that I don't wanna support my son. Its more like...how to accepting im broke for the rest of my life. High paying job?I make about £2200 a month...can't really do much more. I try living in a microcamper and tent whit my motorbike and ebike but ofc she use it as excuse to not to see my son as well. I'm sick of paying £900 a month to have an empty flat whit barely afford to top up … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 02:20 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Not in the UK..They want me to have 15% deposit which means at least £15k....than due I have to pay Childsupport automatically rejected. I'm almost 40... | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 02:08 AM |
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