Hayden9955 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Bald is a blessing		Hayden9955	/r/seduction	20/03/16 06:33 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I need help being less of a dick to women. Just dont go too far. The best people in the world are assholes because itshows you dont put up with all the social bullshit. But dont be cruel (Don't be racist, put down a person with a disability, yell at yo grandma).	/r/seduction	22/04/16 09:16 PM
1	Everything's so much easier for me abroad... Ha- I'm in LA and it does feel that way sometimes. Planning to go to Turkey in the near future as a cousin told me about its wonders. Send me a pm if you wanna meet up in LA sometime.	/r/seduction	20/04/16 07:07 PM
0	What do you do with girls if you have no money? Open mic night at a coffee shop- read her one of your poems or sing her one of your songs.	/r/seduction	19/04/16 04:18 AM
2	Stop Acting Aloof Around Girls You missed OP's point entirely dude. He's not saying you should be clingy or needy- its a call to action. Establishing a connection in person by being vulnerable works. Texting doesn't. Stop being so presumptuous and putting words in people's mouths.	/r/seduction	18/04/16 05:13 PM
-1	What happened to PUA scene and this sub-reddit? Stop being a whiny ass bitch. Posts like these are what makes Seddit suck sometimes. If you can't see the positive then leave.	/r/seduction	16/04/16 11:01 PM
3	Here is a recommended place to meet attractive women Finally- someone who gets it. Dancing is the most alpha male thing ever! You can always go in with the mindset "no matter who shows up tonight its gonna be fun".	/r/seduction	16/04/16 10:56 PM
0	How To Bag Married Co-worker I would flirt with her and then authoritatively whisper in her ear "I'm gonna fuck you in the bathroom". Fuck captain save-a-ho up here.	/r/seduction	16/04/16 12:15 AM
1	How to respond to "so what kind of girls do you prefere/like?" This is great. LOL these white knights afraid of polarization. "I will defend m'lady from even thinking about sex".	/r/seduction	14/04/16 06:39 PM
0	How to respond to "so what kind of girls do you prefere/like?" I would say "girls who make out with their friends just cause" and then kiss her with confidence. Even if she's like "uhhhhh no way" you've got her where you want her- showing that you wouldn't mind a non-chalant casual thing but that you're not gonna go through the beta male hoop jumping formalities.	/r/seduction	14/04/16 06:35 PM
1	Is it justifiable for RSD or other companies to charge 3,000 dollars for a bootcamp? Why don't you just go out and meet women? It doesn't cost a dime. I cannot respect someone who runs or attends a bootcamp. 3,000 dollars is like 50-60 decent hooker blowjobs. Fuck anyone here promoting a "bootcamp"- they're scum.	/r/seduction	14/04/16 06:24 PM
6	What is neediness and vulnerability Being vulnerable is sharing with people on a human level without expecting something in return. I remember talking to a group of girls about my battles with depression and my ensuing coping mechanisms like alcohol and anti-depressants. I wasn't looking for validation or approval or anything like that. I just wanted to show that I am someone who has been hurt, and if you've been hurt that's ok because im here with you. They couldn't fix my problems and I couldn't fix theirs. It was a human moment…	/r/seduction	14/04/16 03:20 AM
1	What is the most important pick up advice in your opinion? Interact with women everyday. Be yoself confidently. Just ask her out/kiss her/make a move. Anything more than that is really just situational and subjective.	/r/seduction	10/04/16 06:14 AM
2	Is being short is a really big deal ? I used to think that because I am 187 cm, that I had it bad because I was lanky and so much taller than almost all women. I was envious of my friends in the 170s. Obviously, that was the stupidest thing ever. Its all in your head.	/r/seduction	10/04/16 06:10 AM
1	Does race matter when you are picking up girls? Any lady worth your time isn't gonna care about your race.	/r/seduction	10/04/16 06:07 AM
3	You can tell who is getting laid a lot on this sub by how judgmental they are about women. Skilled PUAs have more experience, more success and less resentment about women. Thanks for this post and keep telling it how it is.	/r/seduction	10/04/16 06:04 AM
1	How do you approach a 10? If you treat homeless people like that, it explains why you can't get laid. You've let society dictate what your and other people's worth is. Good luck with that.	/r/seduction	09/04/16 04:49 AM
1	How do you approach a 10? Stop rating people and assigning people imaginary values. Talk to her the same way you talk to a homeless guy on the street.	/r/seduction	07/04/16 03:43 AM
4	How do I figure out what type of seducer I am and use it to my advantage? By trial and error. Talk to women every night and see what works and what doesn't. There is no legit internet test that will give you an answer.	/r/seduction	07/04/16 03:38 AM
1	I'm in my early 30s where is the best place to meet women? You can go to most church groups, whatever your religion is.	/r/seduction	07/04/16 03:37 AM
2	Is there any way for a fat guy to have a chance on a hookup website. You can be fat and get laid, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. The internet is a waste of time though. Go to events and places with a purpose other than hooking up like volunteering or a church group. The women there are more interesting and way less concerned about looks.	/r/seduction	29/03/16 05:22 PM
1	If, during my 'seduction training' I meet girls who are excellent future gf material, but I am not willing to commit yet.... how to best keep them in a 'holding pattern' of not quite friends, in order to maximise chances of a relationship at some point in the future? This is a dumb idea man. If you see a girl and you want her to be your lady, make it so. Don't pussy-foot around like a dumbass.	/r/seduction	29/03/16 05:17 PM
1	What do you find attractive in a girl? Smart and funny. Anti-materialistic. Strong morals and family values. Nice. Likes to read. Tall. Christian but not in a judgemental way. Believes in a higher purpose. I'm sitting in a Starbucks and these girls are gossiping and talking shit about a girl who just walked in who looks like she's going through chemo therapy. A woman who would never do that is extremely attractive.	/r/seduction	29/03/16 05:12 PM
1	Getting fit & getting girls? Get some exercise everyday and be healthy, but don't worry about it too much. Go out more- once a month is not enough. Try something besides bars and clubs. Be passionate about medicine. Wear your clothes with confidence.	/r/seduction	29/03/16 05:04 PM
2	It’s about repetition, not technique This is the best seddit post I've seen in a while. Nicely done.	/r/seduction	26/03/16 09:21 PM
3	I've found why so many late bloomers feel this pain and feeling of having missed out in terms of women and the social realm. Problem is, I don't know what the legitimate cure is so lets see who in here does..... Dude- you are right on. OP is an example of why this sub sucks most of the time. The most successful people in this life have dealt with immense failure and rejection. Its not dogma- its a fact.	/r/seduction	24/03/16 11:44 PM
2	I've found why so many late bloomers feel this pain and feeling of having missed out in terms of women and the social realm. Problem is, I don't know what the legitimate cure is so lets see who in here does..... Every second of your life matters. Being at the bottom of the barrel builds character. You're not saying anything and this is an idiotic post.	/r/seduction	24/03/16 11:28 PM
1	I know how to improve my looks, but how do I improve my personality? Have as many experiences as possible. Traveling outside the country has made me a more complex, wise, genuinely interesting person. Lots of failure and not always getting what I want has given me a certain charm. You can't fake a great personality- you're going to have to be bold and take some risks.	/r/seduction	24/03/16 04:36 PM
1	I have a few girls in nyc who want to see me, but i don't have a place to stay. I just met them through daygame, but they wanna go on a date. How do I get them to let me stay at their place so that I can go see them? Drive there and sleep in your car in a nice part of Queens or Manhattan. Get a free YMCA guest pass to shower. Can't tell you how many times I've done this.	/r/seduction	22/03/16 11:29 PM
1	Where to Day Game in Pasadena? I'm in LA and I get out that way sometimes. Let me know if you ever need a wing/wanna wing.	/r/seduction	22/03/16 11:24 PM
-3	Bald is a blessing It cuts your pool down way way way less than you think. And a combover drains your pool :)	/r/seduction	20/03/16 10:44 PM
-37	Bald is a blessing It's actually a scientific fact ;) ;) ;)	/r/seduction	20/03/16 09:10 PM
-8	Bald is a blessing I'm just trying to get people started. Once you have a buzz cut a razor doesn't seem that far out.	/r/seduction	20/03/16 08:56 PM
-12	Bald is a blessing Whatever you say baby boy! Just pray you never have to experience a rainy, windy, or dusty day :) Glad its working for you though	/r/seduction	20/03/16 08:12 PM
1	I'm in my early 30s where is the best place to meet women? A lot of churches have 18-35 groups that are great for meeting people.	/r/seduction	20/03/16 06:06 PM
0	What can everyone start doing right now to improve themselves instantly? LMFAO- yeah, because starving musicians never get laid. "Oh, I would never sleep with that lead singer because I bet he's on food stamps and sleeps in his van- I'm gonna go with middle manager Dave because he's finnancialy responsible". Sit down beta boy bitch and don't speak out of turn.	/r/seduction	16/03/16 08:24 PM
0	What can everyone start doing right now to improve themselves instantly? Shave your head. It helps you give way less fucks. Visit a national park. It will help you see the simple beauty in life and how we are all just animals who eat, fuck, and shit. Start doing yoga. It clears your mind. And finally- if you don't jump out of bed everyday to go to work then quit your job. Just walk the fuck out or better yet just stop showing up. You'll find a way to make money doing what you love, even if it's not a lot. And if not, being homeless is an incredible life lesson. This …	/r/seduction	15/03/16 09:21 PM
50	Why a man's courageousness is more attractive than his confidence... Fuck these shit talkers- your post is right on dude. Seddit is oversaturated with guys who insist on playing it safe by taking calculated risks- I've been downvoted countless times by telling dudes that they should quit their shitty jobs and move to a new city if they wanna grow as a person and get laid. Meanwhile a comment like "just start going to the gym and then maybe a nightclub" is the top post. Keep being bold.	/r/seduction	12/03/16 07:32 PM
4	What things can guys in their 20s work on right now so that as they get older, they are put themselves in a favorable position to do well with women? Travel as much as possible. Live in big cities with at least 10 million people (Chicago, LA, NYC, London, Paris, Tokyo, Seoul, Buenos Aires). Don't stay in the same place you grew up in. Don't be afraid of packing up and starting over- every man needs to do that at least once (I'm 25 and I've done it 5 times). It is seriously insane how many 50 year olds out there have never left the country (and for some, their home state). These guys are stuck with a wife who shits on them and treats them wors…	/r/seduction	12/03/16 07:13 PM
1	I'm a tall, confident, handsome guy, that has absolutely no clue how to approach. Your attitude about your looks is why you're stuck. By all means be confident, but you're not entitled to anything just because you're 6'4 and "handsome". I used to think that because I was tall and handsome, straight up 10's were gonna be begging me for threesomes. That never happened. Looks are a very thin layer on the cake- in the end they're a conversation starter at best but really don't make much of a difference. My advice would be to focus on your game by being outgoing- don't try to inti…	/r/seduction	11/03/16 05:05 PM
4	What is the one thing that you changed that you noticed get you more attention with both girls and guys? Shaving your head is the ultimate fuck what everyone thinks move. Any women worth our time is gonna be turned on by it because it takes fucking confidence to do. Even if you aren't balding I recommend it (and if you are balding and not shaving your head then what the fuck are you doing?)	/r/seduction	10/03/16 07:49 PM
1	What is the one thing that you changed that you noticed get you more attention with both girls and guys? Talking to everyone and being exceptionally outgoing. Doing yoga because it made me proud of my body, whatever it's imperfections. Just saying what I think instead of wanting to please people.	/r/seduction	10/03/16 02:51 PM
2	Should i keep texting her after arranging a date ? No.	/r/seduction	09/03/16 11:42 PM
3	What do I need to do to move beyond kissing with an Asian girlfriend? Dude- do not take advantage of her while she's drunk. If you want to have sex with her make sure she is completely sober and completely turned on. But fuck off with that "drunken golden opportunity" shit.	/r/seduction	09/03/16 05:44 PM
3	Don't get the number. A stunning realization I had after years in the game. Good post. If you want to be successful with Plan A then fuck Plan B.	/r/seduction	09/03/16 05:41 PM
1	Where are the guys with everything stacked against them? I am balding so I buzzed my hair. I was (and am still a little bit) overweight so I started working out. I was clinically depressed so I got help and starting taking medication. I lived in a boring city with nothing to do so I moved to a megalopolis where I never run out of things to do. I didn't have any social circle so I made it a priority to meet people 7 days a week. If you want something it's not going to be easy. But for fuck's sake- DO SOMETHING. Stop sitting on your ass and acting like …	/r/seduction	09/03/16 05:34 PM
-1	What would be your advice to college grads who want to enjoy the rest of their 20s and not end up another depressed miserable statistic? Live in LA, Chicago, NYC, London, Buenos Aires, Paris, or Seoul. Fuck your current city/town. Be your own boss and follow your own dream. Unless you jump out of bed right now (and you're posting here on seddit, so believe me- you job sucks) fuck your current job. If you don't have the balls to pack up and start over, you don't have what it takes to be a ladies man. When you get to your new city be exceptionally outgoing and get everyone's number and Facebook. Go to hiking groups, expat groups, c…	/r/seduction	08/03/16 06:43 PM
5	If you're struggling in college, calm down and don't act like this is about as good as it gets for guys, it really isn't and the ceiling is much higher as an adult! So true. When you're an adult and out of college you can still pick up at colleges. Any college you want really. And you give way less fucks and aren't into that "big man on campus" BS.	/r/seduction	06/03/16 11:52 PM
-1	29 M here, looking to try out a paid dating site. I've always used the free ones and want to know the differences and what to expect Just use that money for a hooker- Paying for online dating is as beta as you can get. Get off your ass and move to NYC- getting laid takes effort- stop expecting it to happen sitting in front of your computer.	/r/seduction	06/03/16 11:16 PM
-1	Do you risk getting banned from venues if you approach "too much"? You sound like a tool.	/r/seduction	06/03/16 11:12 PM
-1	Do you risk getting banned from venues if you approach "too much"? Who gives a fuck? There are millions of venues out there. You should try to get banned by approaching too much- it would be a badge of honor.	/r/seduction	06/03/16 07:20 PM
2	31 year old virgin, interested in changing that. I'm not a doctor and this is NOT medical advice but my answer is anti-depressants. I was a natural with women until around 19-20, and then I fell into a spiral of negativity after I started losing my hair. Fast forward 5 years and I started taking anti-depressants. Now it's like I'm the best version of myself 100% of the time. They affect people differently and you have to find the right one, but it's fucking science and they totally work. Anyone who tries to shame people into not taking them is…	/r/seduction	05/03/16 06:17 PM
2	31 year old virgin, interested in changing that. Fear is irrational in the modern world. You don't have to suffer anymore. But whatever you do, just remember- being unhappy is lamest thing a person can do. You wanna know an unspoken truth? About 90% of people are absolutely fucking miserable (and that's a conservative estimate, I personally think it's closer to 95%). So what I'm saying is this- do what no one else is doing and be happy all the time. Get medical help if you need it. Stop being scared. I am never unhappy for more than 5 minutes …	/r/seduction	05/03/16 02:15 AM
3	31 year old virgin, interested in changing that. Interact with women 7 days/nights a week. Not just bars- classes, hiking meetups, religous groups, anything really. Just talk to girls and get their numbers- it's as simple as that. You're closer than you realize- stop thinking it's impossible because the truth is this- guys with all sorts of disadvantages get laid all the time. I have overcome depression, baldness, homelessness, and being overweight- embrace your imperfections and don't let people tell you what you're worth. And don't feel bad …	/r/seduction	02/03/16 05:32 PM
1	I can't cold approach. I hate it, and sarging for hours just brings my depression to the surface. Seddit, what are some tips for building a big social circle and mastering social circle game? Get that shit out of your head. Go to a social activity (church, yoga class, sport league, etc) every night of the week. Talk to everyone, smile, don't gossip, try to get everyone's number, be positive and invite them to do stuff. You'll end up getting rejected a ton, but that's just how it goes. It's all about numbers. The more you put yourself out there, the closer you get to your goal.	/r/seduction	29/02/16 02:40 AM
7	First night out at a club... got rejected by everyone. I feel crushed... is this normal? Do you work out? The first time you do cardio, lifting, yoga, etc you are sore as fuck. You might go to bed thinking "what the fuck did I just do today". But you workout the next day, still hurting from the day before, and you're a little less sore. You learn to stretch properly, what works, and timing. Apply that to game.	/r/seduction	27/02/16 05:40 PM
1	I actually started dating/meeting women when I stopped frequenting this subreddit... Yeah, I know what you mean. Half of the posts are "I wanna start getting laid but I don't want to take any chances or do anything really". It's good for getting started though. But yeah, I skim it for about 2 minutes every 3 days or so.	/r/seduction	27/02/16 01:23 AM