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Mom for emotional support, Dad for wisdom. Often the conversation involves both. I'm blessed to have two amazing parents that listen and counsel given their many years going through life together.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 03:17 PM
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The Guardian is a left wing rag. I'm not surprised they smuggled in that paragraph at the end to sway their readers. Can't have any women looking bad, after all. The husband needs his head checked as well for urging the court not to imprison her and also continuing to live with his attempted murderer while they go through the divorce.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 09:17 AM
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Nah this is a girl who abused her boyfriend (caught on video in an elevator hitting him) and eventually stabbed him to death but claimed 'self-defense'. She's gnarly looking without the makeup and filters and even uglier on the inside.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 03:29 AM
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I appreciate the post but it's not a problem with the supply curve of older men due to early mortality, it's a problem with the demand curve (of women) due to infertility and their inability to physically attract men as they age.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 03:38 PM
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I appreciate the post but it's not a problem with the supply curve of older men due to early mortality, it's a problem with the demand curve (of women) due to infertility and their inability to physically attract men as they age.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 03:33 PM
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It's a colloquial term for men who travel overseas to find a mate/wife due to the dearth of quality women in the West. I've dated a lot of non-American women and the difference in quality between them and their American counterparts is night and day if you are looking for someone who understands traditional gender roles.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 10:43 AM
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Fortunately for me, the girl told the HR manager, who knew me & worked with me for ~15 years. She brought me in, because she needed my help at the store. She (manager) asked me what happened, I told her (what I said), she told me to get back to work & she'd take care of it. About 6 weeks later, this girl that said I made her uncomfortable was acting friendly to me. My manager then told me, this girl seems to like the attention/stir up shit. Worked out ok for me. That time. For all of the (legiti…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 10:11 AM
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I understand "monkey branching", "hypergamy", "light switch effect", and all of the other RP concepts better than most men; but thank you. That means women who are initiating divorce are more often than not cheating before they initiate. That doesn't mean it is a freaking 9 to 1 ratio. That's just hyperbolic stats made up on the spot. Women leave for all sorts of frivolous reasons -- infidelity, boredom, finances, talked into it by harridan friends, etc. They've been sold an "independent woman b…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 10:03 PM
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I think part of this is due to the disastrous and unnecessary lockdown policies. It tossed relatively unhappy couples into confined spaces for months on end when their previous escape from each other was their respective places of employment. Throw in children having to be watched over while being homeschooled over Zoom or another app, and the stress levels when through the roof. Lots of divorces were expedited due to this pandemic response.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 09:40 PM
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You're correct and being unfairly downvoted. Cheating is roughly symmetrical with men and women in relationships. Just because women ditch their husband and file for divorce in 70% to 80% of all divorces, that does not mean they are cheating 90% of the time; or somehow cheat in a 90 to 10 ratio compared to men. That's absurd on it's face. That being said, women probably overwhelmingly dominate men in categories like "ditched my partner due to boredom", or "left partner due to them not making eno…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 09:22 PM
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Outside the U.S. lol
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 12:13 AM
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​ I am unsure whether to view this as her trying to save face, or as serious misrepresentation that could have implications for our relationship. "What a tangled web we weave;When first we practice to deceive." Speaking from my own sister's experience, her husband came out of a horrible first marriage. His wife got an unbelievably generous divorce package with many years of alimony (to the point where she could live in Costa Rica off his income + a part time job, and date men much younger.) Duri…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 06:56 PM
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I'm assuming this guy was in a sexless marriage with a chonker wife that let herself go. He was starved for touch and intimacy. That's incredibly important to a lot of men, so I'll allow him to do a victory lap now after getting his freedom and satisfying his biological needs with attractive women. He went the "real relationship" route through marriage and it turned out to be a disaster. Whatever works for him may not work for you; it doesn't necessarily make him shallow.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 02:56 AM
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The kids are all closing in on 18, so she's trying to bilk him for the highest possible child support payments each month until that revenue stream dries up. This is all after he already paid her 1 million tax free (in the prenup she signed), along with offering $30,000 per month to rent a new house, all moving expenses covered, he is going to cover all of the children's major expenses, and he also offered $38,000 a month in child support. She rejected the offer and has bunkered down in the hous…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 02:51 AM
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The movie where the dying grandmother -- instead of thinking of her loving husband and children/grandchildren as she departs this mortal coil -- thinks of the Chad street urchin who blew her back out in a 1911 Renault AX Limousine.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 12:38 AM
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Yea man; it's crazy. American women are utterly rotund these days. The 170.6 stat is for all women 20+ years and up, aggregated; but the age brackets are broken down here: Ages 20-39: 167.6 pounds Ages 40-59: 176.4 pounds Ages 60 and up: 166.5 pounds It also changes across racial gaps. For instance last I checked, the average Black woman's weight was 184 lbs. It's one of the reasons why more and more men aren't even choosing to date American women. Too fat, too feminist, too masculine. Better to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/23 12:31 AM
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It's true man; I'm not making it up. The same demographic of women in the 1960's averaged anywhere from 130lbs to 140lbs. Both men and women have put on substantial weight since then (while only gaining about an inch of height). Women though, have put on more weight nominally and as a percentage. They're fast approaching Zeppelin status, since a 5 foot 4 female frame can barely support 170lbs; whereas men are typically taller and have far more muscle mass. The whole concept of societal shaming f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/23 12:23 AM
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"Average Weight. Not skinny." Friendly reminder to men that the average woman in the U.S weighs 170.6lbs at 5 foot 4. Average ain't what it used to be; although it's better than her writing "Curvy" in her bio fwiw.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/23 07:34 PM
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Talking to multiple people when you're trying to find a date is perfectly normal. I agree with you but I'll just clarify for others that are downvoting you -- "It's normal for women and above average men." Average men and below get so few hits on dating apps that the concept of 'talking' to multiple women (meaning going on dates) concurrently is utterly foreign to a lot of them; so they immediately think this girl is up to no good. The concept of "Well she is the only person I'm talking to; why …
/r/MensRights28/05/23 12:57 PM
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It sounds to me that something was really wrong because a woman doesn’t just break up the family unit, and divorce a handsome good man worth so much money for nothing. This actually happens rather frequently. Just talk to the good men on this board who have been utterly crushed by a woman who blew up their family on a whim. Trust me, there are thousands here that have told their story; and an untold amount yet to tell theirs. It's tempting to say "Well, the husband must have done something to de…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 08:08 PM
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"Who hurt you?"
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 02:41 AM
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The data clearly show that women pursue and obtain advanced degrees more than men since 2011. They get over 50% of the PhD's per year, and over 60% of all Master's per year. The main problem is they go into low paying careers that simply don't scale well (Arts/Humanities, Social Sciences, Public Admin, etc), compared to men who largely go into STEM by a large margin. Moreover, as you mentioned, women are more risk averse than men; so they tend to stick with stable/safe jobs and have difficulty n…
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 07:55 PM
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I understand this completely and have sympathy for you. I went through a terrible breakup and the dreams were relentless and vivid. One thing I heard is that consistently dreaming about a specific person/issue is a clear sign that you have unresolved emotional trauma. I know this isn't an earth shattering revelation, but it helped me frame the problem differently. It's basically your brain telling you "You need to address this at some point so we can move on. Until then, I'm going to keep this s…
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 04:01 PM
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Or, you could pay directly, out of court, for those who were never married. But good luck keeping that arrangement for 18 years. This type of situation always makes me think of Eddy Curry, former NBA player. This dude was absolutely fleeced by the child support system and his evil ex-wife. If I understand his statements correctly, he had to pay his wife twice because he was paying her cash at one point. Since those agreed upon cash payments to her didn't go "through the state", it was as if he n…
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/23 09:38 PM
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"Hey I just wanted to say that I appreciate the conversation but I am going to pursue other dating opportunities. Good luck in the future.", or even a simple "I'm not feeling a connection" are not 'creating drama, conflict, and confrontation'.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 11:52 PM
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Not to answer for him but we tend to think of evolution as strictly biological in nature. We evolved eyes, learned to walk upright, etc. It's vital to broaden that mindset though to evolutionary psychology if one wants to understand women. There are mountains of evo-psych research that explain convincingly why they do what they do regarding inter-sexual dynamics. Once you learn female behavior patterns, dating becomes 'easy' in the sense you can see through the lies, manipulation, scheming, and …
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 09:16 PM
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She looks on par with what most White women look like (in terms of facial aging) in their early 30's after children. We easily forget that White women in general age horribly compared to non-White women once they hit their 30's. Their hair becomes brittle and dry so they chop it off. Their skin gets wrinkles that Asian and African women don't get until their late 40's. It's really rough on them since so many guys want them in their 20's. They truly are the candle that burns twice as bright but h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/23 04:17 PM
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**Her yelling at you because you didn't pick up her 3 bastard children exactly when school ended: "i'M jUsT fEiStY aNd SaSsY"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/23 11:16 AM
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What do they think we are? They think a man is a pack mule to carry their baggage through life to ease the burden of their poor choices. If that 'beast of burden' second guesses why he is getting a potential raw deal by dating an ungrateful and argumentative 30+ year old, they will try to body shame (hairline, 'small dick energy', etc) him back in line. This chick knows full well her clock is ticking much louder and faster than the guy's that passed on committing to her. The word "cope" is overu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/23 07:39 AM
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Exactly. Look at how she operated during the marriage itself. Past behavior is an indicator of future behavior. During the marriage, she looked after herself exclusively, even at the expense of their child who was tossed into daycare during those "tender years" that the government insists the Mother is most important. There's no reason to think she is suddenly going to have a conscience now that she can really set herself up financially for the foreseeable future.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 04:07 PM
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I also learned who was really my true friends and found out how my family members supported me There's good quote my father told me a long time ago which still resonates. "In times of prosperity; your friends know you. In times of adversity; you know your friends."
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 09:12 AM
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Finally, if it really is the case you are ordered to pay nearly two decades of half your salary to an ex, I would seriously consider moving countries. You will have been ordered, essentially, to a debtor's prison. I don't think that is going to happen, but, I'd at least be thinking about it. And better get real familiar with cryptocurrency, cold storage, etc. More men that have been wrecked by an unjust divorce need to deeply consider this option these days. When an lying ex-wife has weaponized …
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/23 06:07 PM
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You married a lemon. It happens. She's not fulfilling the responsibilities of a wife. She is conflict avoidant (and rather nasty and mean to you IMO). Leave now or learn to be miserable until you die with a mountain of regret on your chest by not having a family and legacy. You'll have this regret because you chose to stand-by a woman who wouldn't stand-by you when things got tough
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 02:59 PM
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You're not unemployed if you move in with her. Your new profession is: "stay at home roommate"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/23 06:05 PM
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now the "nice guy" gets all the leftovers. leftover kids, leftover sex drive, leftover emotions from being pumped and dumped, leftover trauma. He gets her leftover mom body as well -- complete with stretch marks, varicose veins, dry/brittle hair, and crows feet. What a deal!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/23 06:03 PM
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But then last month i had plans of going on a trips with my close friends, she didnt talk to me the entire time. Even when i was there and tried talking with her over the phone, it felt like i was talking to a dead person. No emotions. Your wife is a manipulative person. I don't say this with any glee, I truly feel bad for you. That's a tough position to be in. She saw you were having fun without her and especially after her protestations. That was unacceptable to her so she was going to make it…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 08:21 PM
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Have you thought about looking abroad for a wife? I'm not talking about some mail-order nonsense, but traveling overseas and working there. I'm not a "passport bro" type guy (women are still women), but there is a marked difference between Western women non-Western. Awkwardness from your autism could be blunted by the language gap.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 11:58 PM
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It means he is either a smooth brain chud, or his grasp of English is not very good.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 02:37 AM
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https://youtu.be/v2687RHEhGI This man was generous enough to upload it to YT as an audiobook, since it is so difficult to find in print (there's a copy on ebay right now for 1,400 dollars lol). I listened to this version during the first leg of my trip down south for vacation after a pretty rough breakup. It can be a bitter pill to swallow compared to other, more tepid books, but I think that's because it hits closest to the target.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/23 12:33 AM
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If you guys really want to snap out of any enchantment regarding relationships, read: The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar. Written by a woman in 1971 who broke code and basically just "tells it like it is" by revealing how cold and calculating women can be regarding relationships and their treatment of men. There are audiobooks of it on Youtube since it can be difficult to find it print these days.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/23 03:35 AM
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You don't have a right to touch people at work that don't want to be touched. That crosses a barrier that is beyond "shooting your shot" by asking them out. "Well I only rubbed her shoulder flirtatiously once and I have a right to do that." sounds absurd on its face, which it is.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 09:46 PM
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Agreed. He's not going to win people over by ranting in his responses and casually throwing around inflammatory words like misandry and "fucking ridiculous". Like, we get it, he's passionate about this subject. We all are. Just try having more tact and not drop down to their level, despite the urge to want to mirror their behavior. Some good questions to ask oneself after interactions like this are: Is this person more or less likely going to believe I'm just an angry "incel" after reading my re…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 10:49 PM
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I dug through his post history and he is a recovering alcoholic. I'll try to give him benefit of the doubt. Not defending him but I've had friends and family with substance issues and it is horrible how it changed otherwise good people, even through recovery. Hope he finds peace some day.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/23 06:55 PM
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lol yea i think he meant to reply to my post below. I'll take what I can get though.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 11:45 PM
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Coffee or tea in a public place that isn't super crowded. Sit for a bit and talk but then go for a walk with your drinks, weather permitting. If she doesn't want to go for the walk, she isn't in to you (and likewise, if you aren't into her then skip the walk). I wouldn't do a fun/exciting activity until the 2nd or 3rd date. Some guys are adamant to only pay for yourself on the 1st date. Me personally, I will generally pick up her drink. It's not simping, it's not extravagant peacocking either. T…
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 01:33 AM
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You learned a valuable lesson about Reddit. Your arguments and motives will instantly be questioned (or outright rejected) based on the subreddits you engage in. This place is more tribal than 15th century North America. These people (and mods especially) are not interested in reading the other side, "weighing and considering" opposing viewpoints, or having their preconceived notions questioned or scrutinized. They often operate in their emotions, and their knee-jerk autonomic response is to loo…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 02:19 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you, albeit never married. The problem is I really want children, and the statistics all show that the optimal environment to raise children in is a stable 2-parent household. Any pre-arranged co-parenting in separate domiciles is by definition a sub-optimal environment for your children and arguably a disservice to them. Obviously I'm not recommending signing a marriage license (will never, ever do that unless my wife has serious money), but it seems that at a minimum th…
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 07:58 PM
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Family is important, and prior to marriage she owes more to her family than you. This is something that American men really need to internalize before dating foreign women. I can speak from my personal experience having worked at a large university for a decade now and been in many relationships/'situationships' with foreign women ranging from Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, Korean, Filipino, Nigerian, and even a Tanzanian. The importance of their dedication to their family is something you just …
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 03:03 AM
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Agreed. You can do almost anything to a woman, except bore them. This guy has a routine with his wife, and routines can be boring. Normally I call the women out for being unreasonable or henpecking, but I think this guy could salvage things by breaking the routines by going out more/doing more exciting activities.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 12:42 AM
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Don't get all worked up, it's called assortative mating and numerical ranking is just a way of explaining the phenomenon.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 04:12 AM
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It sounds like he is still in med. school, probably MS-4 with match coming up in March. Either way, he needs to pull the plug immediately. If I was him, I wouldn't want this parasite touching any of my meager PGY-1 salary once residency starts, let alone taking huge chunks of my "doctor money" once I became an attending physician.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/23 03:45 PM
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Women evolved over thousands and thousands of years to handle conflict differently than men. They could not win in a physical confrontation, so they instead evolved to rely on extreme forms of manipulation, scheming, cattiness, reputation destruction, and passive aggressiveness to a degree most men cannot even fathom doing. We can't understand it because if another man did it to us, it would turn into a physical fight very quickly. Women were obviously shielded from those consequences, so they t…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/23 02:40 PM
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Maybe threat of divorce becomes a wake up call, but probably not. It won't be a wake up call. Any woman who is content to siphon energy and resources from her plow horse husband for 14+ years (and react aggressively any time he asks her to contribute) will be more than happy to financially obliterate him in a divorce if he tries to give her an ultimatum. The fact she is a SAHM and he is a software engineer means he is on the hook to support this parasite for quite a while. She'll take that deal …
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 12:31 AM
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You sound like you have serious co-dependency issues. You need a strong support network of friends and family. If you do not have this, then I strongly suggest going into some sort of therapy. People who have co-dependency issues are juicy targets for manipulation from bad actors. Your ex strikes me as trying to do exactly that -- manipulate you because she knows your dependent side will give her the benefit of the doubt no matter how poorly she treats you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 12:15 AM
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When I was agreeing with her initial points she was so happy to talk tome. The second I added some other points to her feminist dogma she had acomplete fucking melt down. We talked for a good 5 minutes or so seemedlike a good happy convo then It went from her being cool to completelysnapping within 60 seconds of me adding context to “power dynamics.” This is why engaging in political discussion with complete strangers while drinking alcohol is a bad idea. On the entire spectrum of outcomes with …
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:18 PM
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Common law marriage statutes are only in 8 states in the entire U.S. So long as you don't live in one of those, you can cohabitate without being considered married.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 05:49 AM
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It doesn't matter if you document expenses; the assets purchased during marriage are communal property. Let's say you buy a car flat out with your money only for 50k while married. She didn't put a dime into it. You 2 divorce? She has 50% equity in that vehicle and you have to buy her out to keep the car. Welcome to marriage. This is why the high earner gets screwed by that legally binding contract. You put most of the money into the relationship yet the lower earner gets cash and prizes when th…
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 04:06 AM
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We age way better than women do. The saying "Men age like wine; women age like milk." is true so long as you take care of yourself. This gives us a longer window to mature and date before settling down. Women on the other hand have to make some tough decisions before they hit the dreaded "wall". They get a smaller window of opportunity and so many of them waste it these days. If they wait until they get to my current age (late 30s), they start to look like a dried apple and most of their fertili…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 03:48 AM
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Vasectomy has higher efficacy and sex is way better without a condom imo. Moreover, a woman can sperm jack you by rooting through the trash to find the used condom and then inseminate herself (this has happened to more men than I thought). Condoms can also break or be tampered with as well.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 12:02 AM
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I'm not trying to be harsh and I'm very sorry this is happening to you, but you have a fundamental misunderstanding of female nature. Which is OK. Every man that eventually dates women gets a harsh wakeup call at some point. I was fortunate to get burned in my early 20's by dating and getting friendzoned by them where I one day woke up said: "Wait a second....this is not at all how women are depicted in popular culture. In fact, there is a huge asymmetry between what they say they want (the nice…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 05:33 PM
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My wife is super high needs. . This pretty much answers the question. You entered into a long term legally binding contract with a person that wants to make sure your time is benefitting her at all times. Did she display these attributes during dating? Unfortunately, red flags tend to get substantially worse after marriage, not better. Once the ink is dry on the contract, people have no incentive to improve their poor behaviors. I've experienced this with girlfriends in the past. It's starts out…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 03:08 PM
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Not with a custody agreement on the horizon. With 50/50, many of those arrangements mean the two of them have to live within a reasonable distance of each other (to make weekly or bi-weekly handoffs feasible). Only way he can move most likely is if he gives up majority custody to her. This happened to my sister. She got an amazing job offer out of state. She could not accept it because it would violate the custody agreement and the company would not let her work remotely. She is stuck tethered t…
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 11:34 PM
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You're basically protected since you're in a non-common law marriage state. If you don't sign a marriage license, she cannot touch your retirement money, get alimony/spousal support, etc. If you guys live together a while and then split up, things could get murky in terms of assets (who owns/who paid for what? Who gets to keep which things?), but it's miles better than her taking you to the cleaners financially through divorce. If you want to have kids then definitely look into cohabitation with…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 09:06 PM
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In fairness, it is also heavily promoted by conservative focus groups like PragerU and others. I say this as someone that is fairly conservative in their views as well. They have their famous "Married men make more money" youtube video which has been completely ratio'd and downvoted to hell by people that understand that married men make more money because they have to to support their family. They don't get to enjoy that extra money. It all goes towards provisioning for their wife and kids. If …
/r/MensRights07/01/23 07:37 PM
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Try not projecting your perversions into the minds of others. Try not projecting your childhood trauma onto others. If this guy fantasizes about sleeping with a female guard, that's his prerogative and doesn't need to be policed by you.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:25 AM
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For all we know, the sexual activity they provided probably saved some male inmate from getting raped instead.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:22 AM
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The great line by Melvin Udall (played by Jack Nicholson) from As Good as it Gets encapsulates this issue perfectly. Receptionist: "How do you write women so well?" Melvin Udall: "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability."
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/23 12:02 AM
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Fwiw it's only 8 states in the entire US. The overwhelming majority do not have common law marriage statutes. Point still remains though largely. Don't ever sign a marriage license and make sure your state does not have common law statutes on cohabitation.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 06:42 AM
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I am an army brat. I grew up on numerous Post's from Fort Ord to Fort Bragg when my dad was instructing Green Berets at JFKSWC. Infidelity, O-Club Shenanigans, "Jody", everything -- were rampant; and this was prior to the internet where army wives actually had to work a bit to get some side dick. The phrase "trust but verify" is my standard anymore with any women. Sorry you're going through this divorce and best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 12:41 AM
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Out of all the wild dumbshit on that thread I at least understand that accusation. Cheaters, Thieves, etc all do this mental trick where they think everyone does what they are doing This mental trick is known as the defense mechanism of psychological projection. It's a malignant process where we project onto others our own negative traits in order to avoid recognizing them in our self. It's quite common and easy to spot in bad actors once you know how to. https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-a-p…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 08:56 PM
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Yea, cooking outside of the house is a male dominated field. Hard work, long hours. Pastry chefs on the other hand....
/r/MensRights21/12/22 01:46 AM
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This pretty much. Men compete ruthlessly with other men for female attention and validation to ensure their genetic offspring. Many of the men who are incapable of winning in that straight up competition will side with women in a dispute to win favor with them. Women on the other hand, while catty and competitive with other women (for the top men, mind you), tend to close ranks around each other and the sisterhood in a dispute.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 02:03 PM
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Winning what exactly? A lifetime supply of fleshlights and delusion? As opposed to a delusional lifetime commitment to 1 fleshlight (aka marriage)? A nagging fleshlight that can leave you at the drop of a hat for any reason and then destroy you financially on the way out. Sounds awesome, sign me up.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 12:52 AM
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There are only 8 states in the entire U.S. that have common law marriage statutes. So long as you don't live in one of those states, you are essentially in the clear to cohabitate with limited risk. If things don't work out, she doesn't magically have a claim on a % of your assets, 401k/retirement, etc (which a marriage contract opens you up to). If she is deadset on having a "wedding", then talk to her about a commitment ceremony but explain you are never signing another legally binding marriag…
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 12:26 AM
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I thought you military guys don't put up with this kind of behavior. The military is loaded with enlisted men like this that get run over by their "Dependapotamus" wife. Description here lol It has a high divorce rate compared to other professions. Tons of infidelity as well (Hi Jody).
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 02:48 AM
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He mentioned alimony though, and there are many, many pitfalls that can be avoided provided he doesn't sign a marriage contract. For example, his 401k and other retirement accounts. Those are considered marital property in many areas. He could have to pay his ex-wife through a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) a substantial portion of all money it accrued from the time of marriage. Had he not signed a marriage contract, she cannot touch his retirement. This doesn't even go into all of th…
/r/MensRights16/12/22 03:14 PM
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There are laws in many places that makes cohabitation equalified to marriage I can't speak for other countries, but this is not true in the U.S. Only 8 states in the entire country have common law marriage statutes. So long as you don't live in one of those states, you're fine to cohabitate and not ever be legally recognized as married.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 03:04 PM
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The ol' "Who hurt you?" rears its head again. Didn't see that coming. 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 01:53 AM
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I agree and I'm not trying to pile on someone who has trauma in their past. She is reacting like a cornered, abused dog that is being approached by innocent people trying to feed it. It's going to growl and bite them, even though they're just trying to help. What I can't forgive is her putting this innocent man on blast so she can get clout on social media. She can't accept this lone man's empathy in a drive-thru because he "isn't her blood" -- but she can accept empathy from millions of unrelat…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 06:52 PM
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https://www.cinemablend.com/television/britney-spears-cried-in-a-jack-in-the-box-drive-thru-and-is-furious-a-worker-told-her-its-gonna-be-ok Normally I forget to eat … I wait way too long and I'm too sensitive so if anything goes wrong at the house it's like the world has ended. So l got in my car yesterday and I cried ... I cried so damn hard… I saw Jack in The Box ... I've never ate there a day in my fucking life ... I was like HOLY SHIT and when I saw that big sign of pictures of the food. No…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 05:14 PM
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Apparently this is not just an issue in the US of A, it appears to be global, or at the very least very common. It doesn't just cross borders. It's also cross-temporal, going way back in time and was probably far more common in the past that we suspect as well, given the DNA evidence showing only 40% of men ever reproduced while 80% of women did. I guarantee you many of the remaining 60% of men were raising a kid that wasn't theirs -- completely unbeknownst to them. Women are going to solve thei…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:50 PM
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Notice no one ever says black men are incels, even if there are some...I doubt it's even women doing it. Feminism is a tool used by those who hate white men, to divide and conquer. In fairness, they put up with a host of stereotypes that are on the other side of the spectrum, like women automatically assuming they are virile, good in bed, well-endowed mandingos. Not saying its worse than the disgusting term of incel or that White men (and Whites in general) are not public enemy #1 of pinko commi…
/r/MensRights26/11/22 03:49 PM
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It's very interesting that you're certain a man who doesn't even show up to work sober must be conducting his divorce in a way that couldn't possibly give his kids a reason to be suspicious of him, or his wife a reason to be upset with him. It's very interesting that you write this as if you know him more than I do. Or as if you know him at all (which you don't). Maybe stay in your lane and don't try to assume things you have literally 0 information on other than what I wrote? So she tried to ma…
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:40 PM
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This is precisely why signing a legally binding marriage contract is a utter fool's errand these days. You're signing a contract on the hope that your wife will not do a 180 one day and leave you for any number of reasons, ranging from infidelity to just ambiguous 'unhappiness' cloaked as 'irreconcilable differences'. The economics practically incentivize her to break the deal; as she can get cash and prizes on the way out the door. You literally get to pay her to break your heart and ghost you.…
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:07 PM
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I understand better now. I read the thread as "Being a holocaust denier doesn't mean you should get banned", followed by you saying "It really does. If someone advocated violence, they should expect to be booted". He made multiple claims and I wasn't sure which one you were disagreeing with. Appreciate the clarification.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 02:24 PM
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Imagine the mental gymnastics it takes to conclude that "questioning a historical event" means "advocating violence".
/r/MensRights13/11/22 01:10 PM
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My point was that labor and production dynamics are being subordinated to political (and not market/economic) considerations first. That's practically at the center of the Soviet centrally planned economy. It's irrelevant if it has to do with identity or class. The issue is that productivity and merit are placed behind politics; and it's one of the major reasons the Soviet Union ultimately collapsed.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:27 AM
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Ultimately in the real world outside of these identity ideologies,business will hire people they can exploit, meaning the person that hasskills that makes the company money gets hired and promoted. Thecompany that plays into these identity wars will chase away talent, atleast people that clue into what is up. I used to think this way but if the social credit scores of ESG continue to grow in size and influence as a metric, then strictly merit based approaches to hiring will be almost impossible.…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 02:19 AM
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There's that ubiquitous White Male 'privilege' at work again.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 02:14 AM
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At the risk of throwing a wrench in the legitimate gripe of women being included in what should be a male only list -- GQ's "Men of the year" list has been including women for long time. Even the author was mistaken by thinking her non-binary status was a way to sneak her into a male listing; which the author admits below (probably to their dismay). ​ Just to head off this question at the pass, Emma D’Arcy is non-binary and uses they/them pronouns. At first, I figured that this was part of the r…
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:32 PM
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Even worse than being a dead man is being severely wounded. Not only are you unable to contribute, you're actively a drain on the resources they want.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 12:53 PM
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Because US men are mostly ignorant of how sexist the laws are and how horrid most women are about using them. Willful ignorance: because they don’t think that being strip-mined for resource acquisition could ever happen to them. Excellent points and I think projection is part of this dynamic. Avg. Man - " I would never even consider ending my relationship to financially wreck my wife so I can get cash and prizes on the way out. It is unconscionable to me to do something like that; so therefore m…
/r/MensRights30/10/22 08:50 PM
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You're doing the right thing by not signing that Faustian pact. It is truly an unconscionable contract if you are the breadwinner. One thing you may want to look into if she is insistent on marriage is a "private marriage" or "commitment ceremony". It is basically all of the pomp and circumstance of a marriage but without the legally binding certificate that can incentivize her to leave and doom your financial future. She gets her day with friends and family, you both take vows, exchange rings, …
/r/MensRights30/10/22 07:49 PM
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Calling Feminism a "giant disinformation campaign" to a "Genders Studies" Party Apparatchik? Dude... You need to learn how to be more discreet in these matters, as she has most of the power in this dynamic and can punish you/your grade for not drinking the koolaid. Now she is likely mobilized against you since you 'outed' yourself as someone whose immune system is rejecting their ideological pathogens. A better approach is to just play innocent but honest "I did some digging and the evidence I f…
/r/MensRights29/10/22 03:42 PM
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The lack of self-awareness on their part is staggering. The fact that men are willing to travel thousands of miles to find a feminine wife should be the first clue to them that they need to look in the mirror for why this dynamic exists. Is it that hard to not be fat and combative? Is that too much of an ask from men? Granted, I've been with enough Asian women to know that traveling overseas in the hope of finding a unicorn is a fool's errand for the most part. Women are women when the rubber hi…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:57 AM
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Fwiw He did not go to court and "win" the lawsuit for $25,000,000. He ended up settling out of court for less than that amount (he's not allowed to reveal the exact settlement number but it's over 8 figures). Still a huge number and a very symbolic win that showed how corrupt and evil universities can be in their treatment of men under Title IX. He is set for life so long as he doesn't spend like M.C. Hammer. He deserves it after going through this horrible process and calumny to clear his name.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 12:22 PM
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Do you think she has any moral obligation to return some/all of the money she received from the man who was not the father? Genuinely curious. This is outside of the legal aspect of things.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:43 AM
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I think it was Cristiano Ronaldo. Dude is way ahead of his time in terms of seeing what a financial death trap marriage is these days.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 01:33 AM
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Why the fuck are you being upvoted on this subreddit of all places??? For the same reason you are getting downvoted. There are still reasonable people on this subreddit that aren't oozing with bitterness and resentment. People that have a nuanced understanding of intersexual dynamics and know that just because one low tier group of men were dealt a shit genetic hand doesn't mean their converse in women don't suffer for the same reasons but in different ways. Mutual understanding goes a long way …
/r/MensRights01/10/22 10:43 PM
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What I'm saying and what that magazine cover shows, is that every woman is desirable to somebody. Hence there's no such thing as an undesirable woman. Being undesirable is exclusively a male problem. I know you're trying to show the real and vast difference between male and female sexual desirability, but using absolutes like this is 3rd grade reasoning and makes it difficult to take the argument seriously. Women have reproductive goals that go beyond simply getting pumped and dumped on a Friday…
/r/MensRights01/10/22 01:46 PM
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No problem. I should have expressed empathy in my original post, so please understand how sorry I am you're going through this. It's a chaotic situation and part of the reason she is keeping it that way may be to keep you off-balance. It's not going to be easy for you, her, or the children -- but understand that her ultimatum is worse than the alternative. To reiterate what I and others have said, she made a royal error in showing her hand by threatening to take the kids out of state. That right…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 10:14 PM
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I do truly love my wife but we have had some difficulties. 6 monthsafter we originally got married I found her having an affair. I washeartbroken but didn’t want to see our only child at the time grow upwithout a father in her life every night. At the risk of stating the obvious, you had your chance to evacuate on a life raft at the best time and instead tried to save a sinking ship. You also chose to have a second child with a woman who cheated on you during what should be the "honeymoon" phase…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 05:10 PM
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Sorry this is happening. I don't want to repeat what others have said but obviously the "leaving without telling you where I am going" is a major red flag. The dog situation stuck out to me though. The fact she lets it be aggressive toward you shows a complete lack of respect. I've been in long term relationships but never married, and that is 'tell' that things are closing in on the breaking point. I remember once my ex was close to checking out of the relationship, I brought up a situation in …
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 01:26 PM
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The student loan amount (300k) just screams medical debt though, most likely physician. Could be Dentist or Vet. Most high end IT workers do not have anywhere close to that student debt. I live in a smaller city with a top flight surgical dept. and 600k is roughly what general surgeons make per year once out of residency.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 01:09 PM
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My point is, if you’re basing your divorce/future-relationship onsomething as fickle as appearance and sex appeal, then do yourself afavor and stay single. I think he is turned off by her utter lack of effort to maintain her health and appearance. Getting fat and unattractive is simply a symptom of that lifestyle; especially for someone who is fully capable of doing that (no kids, drugs, medications, surgeries, etc). Asymmetries like this in relationships are toxic, and shaming the person who is…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 02:32 PM
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If she wants an exchange of rings, ceremony, or a commitment you can arrange that period but do not sign the government contract. The contract with the government is not a contract between you and your wife, it's a contract between you and the state. The purpose of that contract is to give her access to your resources during and after the marriage, there is 0 benefit to it to you. The bolded absolutely needs to be proposed more as a compromise in the current societal and legal climate. I get it …
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 02:12 PM
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Lol This is so true. There has been an explosion in STI's at nursing homes because it's like an Olympic village at a host city -- everyone is banging constantly. My grandfather was very good looking and fairly wealthy; but also had serious game with an infectious personality. The women there would openly hit on him with my grandma in his presence -- they were they brazen. When my grandma passed away before him, her body wasn't even cold and there were numerous women hitting him up to provide 'sy…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 02:01 PM
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This is straight up generalization and a very illogical, childish one. So you are telling us that others subs don't suffer from the same? Everyone elsewhere are angels? In fairness, "So what you're saying is..." followed by strawmen is not exactly a logical argument from you either. She made no assertion that everyone elsewhere are angels, or anything close to that kind of mischaracterization. I disagree with her completely but I'm trying to be charitable.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 06:42 PM
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"My sister and I will never accept a tramp like you into our lives. Andfor what you’ve done I will make sure everyone you know, knows of this.You do not deserve happiness, and you do not deserve love" Your post reads as if you cheated on your wife with your current GF. At least, that is what your daughter thinks. Is this what happened or did your ex-wife just plant that in her head? Regardless, as others have said, it's time for your daughter to understand negative consequences. We're hardwired …
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/22 05:05 PM
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It's not that she can't decide. It's more likely double-think in the Orwellian sense, which is a form of cognitive dissonance. Many hard-line Feminists engage in this type of manipulation: "To know and not to know, to be conscious of complete truthfulness while telling carefully constructed lies, to hold simultaneously two opinions which cancelled out, knowing them to be contradictory and believing in both of them, to use logic against logic, to repudiate morality while laying claim to it, to be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 04:10 PM
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I was celibate for ~3 years before my last girlfriend, not because I didn't have options but because the options sucked Sucked? What guy wouldn't want an in-debt, overweight single mom with tattoos that goes through a case of White Claw every weekend? Your standards are unrealistically high. /s
/r/MensRights03/09/22 05:16 PM
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I think a major part also is the fact that once you have children, you have succeeded in passing on your genetics. It's 'problem solved' from an evolutionary standpoint so the desire to continue with more sex is particularly diminished for women. This makes us men (who are biologically programmed to keep banging away and spreading our seed) sexually frustrated in monogamous marriages with an unwilling partner.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 12:49 AM
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If you prefer to 'lose nobly' in a rigged legal system designed to extort money from hard working people and redistribute it to people like your wife, then that is your decision. I personally would plan for a contingency if the legal proceedings were that grossly unjust and unfair. The cost of living in many nice areas around the world is so low that you would still be living a very good lifestyle even with an early 401k cash out penalty. I understand your reservations though.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/22 01:59 AM
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In some parts of the country, you could live like royalty on that kind of allowance. That's precisely what my brother-in-law's ex-wife did to him after she cheated and left him. She was getting roughly 60k a year in alimony and lived in Costa Rica on his dime, working part time as a teacher, maybe 15 to 20 hours a week. She had a boyfriend in his 20's that moved in with her as a boy-toy type thing. With less than 1 year left on the alimony, what do you know? She tried to hit up my brother-in-law…
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/22 10:34 PM
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The ideas as I've heard them are: -"If you aren't part of the solution,you're part of the problem." Meaning there's no point talking to you,your already wrong. -"if you don't have a ____, then you don't have anopinion, or your opinion doesn't count." From feminists it is usually abody part that is only related to being female.-"you don't understand because you're a man." To add to this, these are just logical fallacies at their core. "If you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the probl…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:21 PM
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Women are no strangers to cognitive dissonance. Breaking their own rules is just part of their mental firmware.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 04:44 PM
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It's not even close in terms of degree and method. No one likes being rejected, but women face that prospect far less often since men do most of the approaching and are generally starved for attention from the opposite sex. So it is generally a shock to women when a man rejects their advances and they can take it more personally. Moreover, while men tend to act out their aggression physically when pushed to a certain point; women rely far more on "reputation destruction" and are not above lying …
/r/MensRights17/08/22 11:23 PM
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creepy krē′pē adjective Of or producing a sensation of uneasiness or fear, as of things crawling on one's skin. 2. Annoyingly unpleasant; repulsive. Crawly; having or producing a sensation like that caused by insects creeping on the skin. I'm not trying to get bogged down in semantics -- but my point was "creepy" to women in this scenario means they are turned off by the man in a sexual way and find him repulsive. That doesn't mean he has to be ugly. I agree that "creepy" can apply to even attra…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 01:35 AM
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Ngl, I was half expecting her to write "I also have herpes 💦. Don't judge 🤣😅💯😜, but figured I'd be open about it."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/22 01:36 AM
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I agree with you that context is what matters here. Treating a neutral bystander one way compared to another person who is sexually interested in you another way is simply applying two different standards. It's not the same thing as a "double standard" because the circumstances and people are totally different. Moreover, the term "creepy" here is just a stand-in for "repulsive". We all have standards we apply to every day people around us, and those standards can modulate when we perceive someon…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 12:13 AM
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"There is currently no evidence that any women, anywhere are getting any sort of benefits from accusing men of rape or sexual assault, whether it was false or not". This is demonstrably false if one takes a look at family law and divorce proceedings. False DV and SA accusations are known colloquially as the "silver bullet" against men to get them thrown out of a joint household and have their children taken from them. https://quillette.com/2019/04/16/divorce-and-the-silver-bullet/ ​ It goes like…
/r/MensRights31/07/22 06:51 PM
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I didn't get much from the article outside of "women take care of kids, men don't" which doesn't really seem like a valid argument, but I don't have much to counter it with. They act as if the full custody of children is forced on them , by some autocratic judge. Women are the ones practically demanding (and being rewarded) custody the overwhelming majority of the time. Children are expensive Children are quite expensive to a demographic that have poor spending habits as a population group. Chil…
/r/MensRights31/07/22 03:09 PM
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I do love her and care about her and she's not a bad person, (though I guess she did dupe me into thinking I had a kid). .... she's still coasting by, not able to keep jobs for long periods or contribute financially. She struggles with with depression and anxiety and that has led to sporadic prescription medication abuse. "One of these is not like the other." Your wife sounds like a duplicitous, selfish, and unfocused / relatively lazy human being. She lied to you about the most important thing …
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/22 01:13 AM
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Not really a cope -- We're talking probabilities here and the odds don't favor your statement. He described her at essentially a lazy, indebted, free rider that now wants to take half his money, retirement, and house. She's already 32 and female attractiveness tends to plummet right after that, staying thin is more difficult, and the stress of living on her own without him providing all of the things he used to will add up. I've seen this happen so many times. Odds are she will get her back blow…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/22 01:31 PM
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The courts don't care about who paid for what with money earned during the marriage. She is entitled to half of things accrued after you signed on the line. Welcome to the unconscionable contract of a marriage license. The high earner gets the privilege of paying the under-achiever on their way out. She can even get half the retirement money you accrued during the marriage. My own sister took a chunk of her ex-husband's 401k and they were only married less than 2 years lol. As others have said, …
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/22 02:16 AM
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I eventually went on 1 date and it went well, secured a 2nd date. Then the next morning she decided not to go future with anything and said she thinks I have not healed from my ex. The she blocked me on everything. Either this woman is Bipolar, or you spent an inordinate amount of time talking about your ex/previous relationship during the date. Just some friendly advice -- anyone (man or woman) complaining about their ex on a first date is throwing up a huge red flag. Women especially want to k…
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 05:10 PM
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You now see romantic love for what it really is. Relationships are simply a form of transaction. Men trade their time, resources and freedom in exchange for validation and sex. The problem is, the more committed you become the more you have to pay. This is something I was fortunate enough to learn early on in my dating through experience and then my exposure to "Red Pill" knowledge in 2015/2016. I am fairly Libertarian with a brain that tends to do a cost/benefit analysis of significant life dec…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 12:19 AM
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OK, then buy her a big rock. American women are obsessed with rocks and my observation is that it’s an important success/status marker. But there’s no need to be married. Exactly this. Get a nice ring she can show off to all her jealous single 50 year old friends, and even have a "commitment ceremony" but not sign any legally binding contract. This is exactly what lgbt couples did prior to gay marriage being legalized, and it protected thousands of them from financial ruin. Unfortunately, they w…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 09:20 PM
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Testosterone may give 'dumb bastard brain' in terms of risk-taking, but it helps the left and right brain hemispheres communicate in the corpus callosum of the brain. Nearly all geniuses are male Yep, that "dumb bastard brain" that is responsible for 90%+ of all inventions and advances in science, medicine, and technology ever (and that's a low estimate), that have improved the lives of women beyond measure (of which they try to handwave away with "well it's because of oppression that women didn…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:11 PM
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I had realized before the end I was just a means to a life she wanted.. with the one exception of not being super successful and rich that she always hung over me This is unfortunately something that takes most men far too long to conceptualize and then experience until it's too late. Underneath all those giddy feelings of love and "happily ever after" is biological programming that is entirely transactional in nature -- particularly from the female end. Resource provisioning and protection are …
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 01:43 PM
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1973 Roe majority opinion by 7 men - "Yessssss, these men have the right to guarantee our access to kill unborn children!!!!!" 2022 Dobbs majority opinion by 4 men and 1 woman -- "You have no authority to make this decision!!! No uterus, no opinion!!!" Cognitive dissonance is a powerful thing in ideology; and probably a necessary condition.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 02:32 PM
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Sounds like a lot of naivete in your statements, but I was hoping this wouldn't devolve into snipes. Best regards.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:54 PM
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Would you trust someone who made no statements of commitment in one form or another? I wouldn't, but people need to understand that a marriage contract is not simply a "statement of commitment". It is so much more than that. It's a business contract to manage and divide current (and future) assets in the event of a divorce. It has destroyed countless men (and some women) whom if they could go back in time and never sign it, they would in a heart beat. My own personal view is I am fine with long …
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:27 PM
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I give it two years max and she’ll be telling you that she was confused and really wishes that you would take her back "Hey stranger..." Only this time she'll be 30 lbs heavier and on SSRI's/Benzo's (if she isn't already) when she wants to reconcile in an attempt to get more of his retirement.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 02:19 PM
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Mandating the signing of a legally binding contract implies a deep mistrust of your partner, and not a show of confidence. People need to understand that a marriage license is a business contract. It has zilch to do with love, fidelity, vows, etc. It's all about asset management and some will/healthcare/tax questions. More and more men are figuring out what a horrible mistake it is to sign on that line.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 01:57 PM
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"As is backed up by data, women have meaningful relationships and connections to other women in their lives more than men do" I suppose women-to-women relationships undergirded by mutual suspicion, cattiness, and jealousy are "meaningful" in the technical sense of the word. I'll grant she has a point there. ​ Women no longer need men to survive This has been done to death, but it's worth repeating that while they don't necessarily need a husband in their life; they need men more than ever to sur…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 04:35 AM
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When they divorce the judge will throw it out because of distress. Duress* , but you're exactly right. That voids most contracts so you have to make sure it's signed in a sober and judicious environment, with both parties having legal representation present. A smart thing to do is have it signed well before the wedding also -- even before an engagement ring is given tbh. Check out the story of Steven Jackson (NBA, not NFL), and how is fiancee tried to get him to ditch his prenup requirement. He …
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:15 PM
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It's not just that one movie, feels like media is always trying to keep males down, For anyone that has watched this season of "The Boys" (especially the finale), you can see what happens when female writers and directors steer the messaging of a show. Every strong male character has some sort of underlying pathology or trauma. Abusive father (Butcher), lack of parents (Homelander), unrealistic expectations from childhood father (Soldier Boy), witnessed their parents get killed and is on SSRI's …
/r/MensRights09/07/22 02:56 PM
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It's a circus. 90% of them are obese... The new euphemism for that is "curvy" (lol). They almost all use filters too to try and hide the wrinkles, jowls, and crows feet from years of partying and burning the candle at both ends. It's basically dumpster diving and rooting through trash to find any decent women in online dating apps once they get over a certain age.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/22 02:16 AM
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So you misunderstood him and you're now arguing against a position I never took. Thank you for confirming what I suspected.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 05:11 PM
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He wrote "I gave up on expecting reasonableness and decency from most modern women" Modern women =/= all women, and the qualifier most modern women is an even smaller subset of women in general. Yet you wrote (possibly in bad faith) "No, it is hate. He gave up reasonableness and decency on an entire gender. " Was this intentionally disingenuous or did you just misunderstand his statement?
/r/MensRights02/07/22 04:16 PM
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Agreed, the odds favor she has been having an affair. Many times, if a woman up and says "I don't love you, I want out of the marriage" and there isn't another man in the picture -- it's usually several years in the marriage, possibly even after kids and she is bored or "unfulfilled" and thinks she can upgrade before she hits her late 30's and the door is slammed shut on that prospect. But to want a divorce within months of getting married, at 23? Almost certainly another dude is in the picture …
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/22 12:29 AM
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It'd be a nice way to recoup some of that 600k she walked off with after cheating on him.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 09:35 PM
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So the positive reinforcement is the positive feedback loop that makes him dig for new outrages and polarizing opinions. In fairness to BB, this business model is endemic to almost all social commentary content creators, no matter their political leaning. It's one of the reasons we are balkanizing as a society and becoming less trusting.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 12:01 AM
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As others have said, do not engage any further. She is hitting you up because she wants to use you for something. Let her find some other dupe to fall into that manipulation. You went through that once already and it nearly broke you. You should know better than to willingly endure that again. Also, something to ask yourself: Would you even be considering this if you were in a relationship right now with another person that cared about you and vice versa? I bet you wouldn't even think twice abou…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 10:06 PM
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Facts. I've seen this happen to so many divorced women. They nuke their family and think they can branch swing to a better option -- not understanding that most men want young, childless, and fertile females; not older, with children, and approaching menopause females. They think just because men will sleep with them on dating apps that they can land a new husband from the husband store -- like buying candy on a shelf. They invariably end up single, overweight, and drunk most weekends wondering …
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 03:02 AM
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it's the opposite of a meritocracy Didn't you get the memo? Meritocracy is just a tool of the white male patriarchal institutionalized systemic power structure meant to hold down women, BIPOCs, LGBTQIA+, and other minority groups yet to be fabricated. Forget the fact that society benefits overall the most when the most competent people in their respective fields of expertise rise to the top through merit. Forget the fact that, when hiring, if your primary goal is anything other than merit and pr…
/r/MensRights07/06/22 11:20 PM
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Others? While Title IX is one of the most insidious statutes to infect universities regarding intersexual dynamics, kangaroo courts, lack of due process, legal representation, etc -- one of the overlooked parts of it is how it has obliterated male collegiate sports teams. The "proportionality clause" ended hundreds of male sports programs in order to keep them level with female programs. In the meantime, college football teams are essentially subsidizing female sports (and many male) teams acros…
/r/MensRights05/06/22 05:54 PM
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Agreed. This happens with many groups though. The larger they get, there will eventually be a "regression to the mean" and the quality of posts will diminish. The timing of it also signals to ideologically possessed Reddit authorities that it is time to drop the hammer. The "wrongthink" hits critical mass at a certain point and cannot be abided. It happened with TRP as well. Granted, they were 'quarantined' -- but if that choice of word doesn't give people pause as to how Reddit views opposing p…
/r/MensRights05/06/22 05:22 PM
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MGTOW is objectively harmless to people in their immediate vicinity, yes. It is an existential threat to a gynocentric welfare state that absolutely depends on men being duped into marrying, having kids, and paying more into a system rigged against them than taking out of it. That is precisely why it is constantly attacked and shamed. They cannot afford to let it spread, no matter how beneficial it is to men who partake in it. Once you understand this dynamic, the attacks, the group think, the b…
/r/MensRights05/06/22 05:12 PM
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This is mostly due to government encouraging and subsidizing everyone to get a degree in the first place. The labor market is a market after all, and is subject to supply and demand. If the supply of bachelor's degrees is greater than the need for them, the value of those degrees will necessarily decrease. This also applies to the jobs themselves. If too many people enter a given field (the legal field is a prime example of this), then wages will decrease or stagnate and the value of that profes…
/r/MensRights03/06/22 10:07 PM
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The OP denied the role on men in raising children and placed the blame squarely on the women that raised them. It doesn’t appear to be any responsibility on men at all. The quote from the image shows: "Women are very much at fault here too buddy." Emphasis on "too". That means both parties are to blame. You either completely missed that, or you're deliberately mischaracterizing what he wrote in bad faith. Which is it?
/r/MensRights31/05/22 01:00 PM
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This has been a common theme across so many conflicts, unfortunately. "Rich man's war, poor man's fight". The U.S. did this in the Civil War with the Conscription Act of 1863. Only you could buy yourself out of the draft for $300 dollars. Adjusted for inflation, that would be almost $10,000 in today's dollars. During Vietnam, while buying yourself out of the draft was not legal, you could get college deferments until you turned 26 and were no longer eligible for the draft. Some wealthier sons wo…
/r/MensRights31/05/22 02:49 AM
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Very much this. She got a free bottle of wine (albeit cheap), for what, exactly? Showing up? Not only that but she essentially gave him the cold shoulder at the end of the date while walking away with the gift. Gifts come later when a connection is established. Then they show appreciation of the person you are with. Like you said, gifts before that point come off as needy and supplicating.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/22 06:35 PM
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"Male led or coordinated" is the better phrase. "Domination" (outside of being historically and factually incorrect) is terrible persuasion because domination currently carries the negative connotation of "control against their will". People generally don't use the word "dominate" in a positive light. Ideally you want a state of deference to authority figures, not domination and submission -- however technically correct those terms might be to some.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:45 PM
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Everytime I tell women this shit they don't believe me Women are fairly solipsistic, unfortunately. They don't believe you because, in their mind, if it didn't happen to them or someone they know, then it doesn't exist. This is especially true when it comes to data that portrays women in a bad light. Their typical response is "Well, I'm not like that.". Or "what kind of women are you dating?" With the clear implication it's your fault. It's frustrating to try and have a dialogue with people like…
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 08:55 AM
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Ahh, yes. "Gaslighting" being used incorrectly. Classic Reddit.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 08:30 AM
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Yep; it's a huge loss. The amount of women publicly rejoicing at the news and gleefully dancing on his grave was extremely disconcerting. It's just more evidence of the state of modern Western women and how far they've fallen. The irony is that their reactions to his death taught us more about them than any of his shows did. Regardless, Rip Kevin.
/r/MensRights22/05/22 11:20 PM
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Ya at first I tried to ask her to show me proof and then she told me that by denying her accusations of abuse I was gaslighting. This argument on her part is known as a Kafka Trap. It's a form of manipulation through fallacious reasoning. You lob an accusation at someone and when they deny it, you use their denial as evidence of their guilt. It's incredibly underhanded and in bad faith. "You are gaslighting me!" "No I am not. Where is your proof?" "You deny it? That's exactly what a gaslighting …
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/22 11:38 AM
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It's to keep your attention by being mesmerized. It's like a bonfire, you can't help but look at it. Make no mistake, the guy was a very good salesman and towards the end had perfected his craft as a YouTuber (becoming a millionaire shortly after this video went viral). He understood the concept of "branding" very well. He even exploited the algorithm every night by pausing his show and playing obnoxious music until people got the likes up above 40%.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/22 10:37 AM
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Because of the double standard between men and women regarding accountability. The former are expected to uphold it; the latter routinely lack it.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 02:20 AM
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I just read this and listened to it on Gad Saad's YT channel. What a disgusting miscarriage of "justice" this man has endured. His entire life ruined due to a consenting sexual partner (a female who slept around with all kinds of men in her professional life) becoming jealous and feeling scorned. Of course in the end she is rewarded with her own lab as an assistant professor at MIT, while this brilliant man cannot get a job in the U.S. without man-hating woke automatons protesting his hiring. Th…
/r/MensRights20/05/22 01:49 AM
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He was actually 53 years old, born in March 1969. He was a cancer survivor as well. A myocardial infarction is a relatively rare cause of death for men under 60. When it happens in that age group, there are usually other factors in play play like drug/alcohol use, smoking / obesity (clearly not a problem for him), or even diabetes. We'll have to wait for the autopsy and toxicology report. Regardless, Rip.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 08:26 AM
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Not being able to say sorry. Shitting on your bed . Don't kink-shame me.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 07:11 AM
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I think his (hyperbolic) point more was that the best dynamic for a relationship is when she wants you more than you want her. This minimizes situations that are written about on this forum.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 09:53 AM
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As if their grandmothers would want to trade places with them even if they had the chance. Those 40+ hour work weeks at dead end corporate jobs made possible by a steady diet of SSRI's and anxiety meds just to get through the day without having an emotional breakdown. What a modern paradise their grandmothers missed out on.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 02:13 AM
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Obviously both genders deserve support -- but that's not the purpose of this forum given the huge asymmetry between the support and exposure women's issues get compared to men. I am typically loathe to accuse someone of "concern trolling" (it's too often used to dismiss legitimate criticism of groups) -- but your post comes really close. You're young though so I'll assume your question was asked in good faith.
/r/MensRights24/04/22 09:22 AM
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I'd never marry in this state again. Fixed that for you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 11:25 PM
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This is largely a function of the supply/demand curves on these apps. The supply of women is low, and the demand is high. More specifically on these apps -- the supply of attractive women (i.e. not fat, over 30 with children) is even lower; and the demand for them is through the roof. Moreover, the ratio of men to women is like 7:1 last I saw. I remember going on a hike with one of the more attractive girls I've dated in my life. Her phone was blowing up throughout the hike on the app and she pu…
/r/MensRights19/04/22 12:49 PM
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It's important to understand that many sub-reddits (especially those left wing and political in nature) operate under a siege mentality. They are constantly paranoid of outsiders and the "other" coming in to dispute their narrative. They will question the motives of anyone coming to 'discuss', because discussion leads to introspection, and introspection can lead to discomfort and holes in the official narrative forming. So they end up banning people often to keep the narrative going and their po…
/r/MensRights19/04/22 12:07 PM
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LMAO Me asserting one side does it proportionally more does not mean the other side does not do it LMAO. Unless you want to assert Reddit is 50/50 left-right? Good luck with that.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 11:50 AM
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It's important to understand that many sub-reddits (especially left wing and political in nature) operate under a siege mentality. They are constantly paranoid of outsiders and the "other" coming in to dispute their narrative. They will question of the motives of anyone coming to 'discuss', because discussion leads to introspection, and introspection can lead to discomfort if your views are challenged. So they end up banning people left and right to keep the narrative going and their position co…
/r/MensRights17/04/22 11:20 PM
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I’m sure this woman was in her late 20’s at least You called it -- 29 on the dot, and also comes from a relatively wealthy family. The stories practically write themselves anymore. She blew her 20's living the club/rave life in urban areas and pursuing low-paying art type jobs. God knows how many men have ran through her by this point. The wall is here though and the doors are closing. Gotta cash in what few chips she has left and lock in a provider. She tried it with me since I was always nice …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 02:14 PM
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I had my first experience with this as a man in January. I asked out a girl I've known for a couple years (an acquaintance), who normally isn't my type. I typically date professional women in healthcare. She was Bohemian, artsy, but very physically attractive. After some texting back and forth to set stuff up, she didn't get back to my one text after 3 days. I thought she was ghosting me but she finally responded and apologized, saying she was helping a friend that was going through a mental hea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 01:26 PM
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It's a comedy show with a heavy dose of sarcasm. It's not intended to be a serious interview for the most part.
/r/MensRights17/04/22 01:35 AM
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My assumption would be cost and wait times. States vary in costs for filing fees, average attorney fees, and minimum residency waiting periods. Blue states like California and New York are prohibitively expensive in so many domains, so it would not surprise me that there is a strong financial disincentive to get divorced in those states. Whereas Red states are cheaper on average with lower cost of living and less overbearing state government laws.
/r/MensRights17/04/22 01:29 AM
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Greek Mythology One of several loathsome, voracious monsters with the head and trunk of a woman and the tail, wings, and talons of a bird. Also a shrewish, nagging woman.
/r/MensRights16/04/22 01:59 PM
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Harpo - "Sacre Bleu, where is me Mama?!?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/22 08:15 PM
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In addition to No More Mr. Nice Guy, if you really want a book that will blow your mind -- read "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar (a woman, brave enough to expose the truth and of course was called a "fascist", received death threats and other nasty things by feminists which continue to this day). There are audio copies on YT since it's hard to find in print. You'll never look at intersexual dynamics the same again. Just try not to take it too emotionally. Internalize the info and then use i…
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 04:52 PM
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People respond to incentives and disincentives. When there is a drastic shift in the incentives to divorce vs the incentive to stay married, there will be a commensurate shift in the marriage rate. Calling people "insane" is not helpful when it comes to discussions like this. I'm going to be charitable to curious-abt-consult and assume he doesn't mean every single woman on the planet, because we know that isn't true just by looking at the data. So if he's honest about looking at the data, he can…
/r/MensRights13/04/22 04:11 PM
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"But men do it too" is not a contribution to posts like this. No one is saying men don't exhibit this same behavior. They're saying women do it significantly more, proportionally speaking. This is not a surprise to people who understand the psychology differences between men and women regarding aggression (men are more physically aggressive, women more reputationally destructive). Throw a bunch of women together and the manipulation/cattiness will compound.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 02:22 PM
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Child support was created back when women had little job prospects. It was hard for a single mother to make a living. Now that's not the case. Women work just as much as men "It doesn't matter if they work just as much as men when they only make 78 cents per dollar that every man makes." I can't stress the sarcasm enough regarding the wage gap myth, so I'm literally ending with this sentence.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 01:07 PM
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Prior sexual intercourse partners. A woman with a "high body count" is someone who has slept with many men; without using more crass (but equally applicable) terms like "slut", etc. There's data that shows women with 10+ sexual partners are the most likely demographic to divorce. It could be difficulty in them being able to 'pair bond', or just getting bored of their husband and cheating on him. Bottom line is -- we as men have an evolved instinct that finds loose women repulsive on some level, …
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 06:33 AM
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Interesting -- Without arguing the point that the original patents (from men) for mechanical dishwashers happened 30 years prior to Cochrane's device, she came from a line of male engineers and had a other mechanical engineers to help with her creation. I can still concede that point. Interestingly, to this day less than 18% of patent holders are female; and many of their inventions are focused on jewelry and apparel. This seems to correlate with the biological sex differences in interest.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 03:14 PM
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The argument of ‘men invented everything so be grateful to us’ is logically unsound. That wasn't my argument, so I'm not going to quote the rest of your fallacious rant. To help you out: When I argue that men are not a uniformly oppressive group towards women by citing a small portion of their myriad contributions to female comfort and life improvement; and you automatically knee jerk assume I argued all men invented everything and should receive gratitude -- You're the one being logically unsou…
/r/MensRights08/04/22 06:48 AM
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They see today and its all they can wrap their head around. You can pump milk whenever or use formula so the baby can be fed by whoever , you throw dishes in a machine and come back a few hours later to take them out , same with clothes. You have vacuums and electric mops to clean. You can buy pre made food from anywhere for really cheap prices and either have it ready to eat from a fast food place or microwave it. And all of these creature comforts and labor saving devices to make women's lives…
/r/MensRights07/04/22 10:35 PM
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My advice: don't wear ur heart on ur sleeve. U were too needy and that nugged her. Women need rock hard confident men not jelly back boys shitting in their pants due to anxiety. Very true. Women are walking blobs of pent up chaos and anxiety themselves. They typically want a man to lean on for support, not the other way around. ​ OP: Everyday I'd have the same thoughts "she's too pretty for me", "how many guys has she been with?", 'Is she really over her ex?", etc. See, this is a problem right h…
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 03:47 PM
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So a man gets cheated on, his heart ripped out not once but twice? Now he has to be a financial slave and pay 18 years of child support to a fraudster? That’s just batshit crazy I'm going to let you in on a little secret. The government cares not whose heart was broken in this dynamic. They care about who foots the bill to keep the machine rolling along. With the data on single mothers, we know women are utterly incapable of doing this on a population level; so it will fall to the usual beaten p…
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 12:41 PM
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First thing you need to do is psychologically reframe the purpose of university. Don't look at it as a place to study what you like. You need to treat it as an investment with an expected return (ROI). This is especially true if you are financing it with borrowed money -- because then it isn't just time and effort you are investing (opportunity cost), but debt with compounding interest as well. You've admitted the job prospects for your major are not good, so why are you still studying it? Your …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 11:13 PM
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It's only in 8 states in the US. The other 42 have no common law statutes. It's quite rare -- but worth knowing if you want to cohabitate long term. Colorado. Iowa. Kansas. Montana. New Hampshire. South Carolina. Texas. Utah.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 04:17 PM
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There is also some ingrained human psychology at work here too, for those who know the risks but ignore them anyways. It's called optimism bias. For example, a story I saw about the men getting ready to invade Normandy in 1944; and their CO said "Men, only half of you may make it off the beach today alive". Each guy looked at the person next to them and thought "Boy, sucks to be you."
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 04:12 PM
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There is nothing you can't do with your partner without being married. It is a business contract, not a relationship "vow". You are forming a 50/50 partnership with someone, and unless she earns 51% or more of your combined income, you are absolutely going to get the short end of the stick. You can still live together, love each other, have kids together, travel, do all of the things, but in today's society where women are equals and are able to earn and provide for themselves, the archaic notio…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 04:04 PM
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Suddenly they’re free and making $400k a year and have no idea of what to do with all that money. Oh they know what to do with it. They'll lease a sports car or two, cheat on their wife/husband, get divorce raped and become addicted to opiates/benzos. Then they either lose their license to practice or switch career paths due to burnout.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:44 AM
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If the path of least resistance was an issue back then, just wait for AP classes to disappear entirely in the name of "equity". It's happening everywhere. Culturally responsive teaching is obliterating standards. This will necessarily cause a degradation in the quality of future students and the subsequent institutions they take over as professionals. My medical school abolished the honor council and the Alpha Omega Alpha Honor Society (AOA) in the name of equity. They were considered tools of "…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:40 AM
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Tupac. Google the story and her still (romantically) missing him decades later.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 08:04 AM
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It is never acceptable to strike a comedian who is simply doing his job. The whole point of a comedian is to make jokes that can be offensive. Just think of it this way --- every joke a comedian makes is offensive to someone, somewhere. You go to their show knowing that something they say might not resonate with you, or it may flat out offend you by poking fun of someone or something you value. That's the cost of doing business with them. You can't hypocritically sit and laugh at their jokes whe…
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 11:38 PM
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This woman couldn't dedicate herself and settle on a career path to save her life --- bouncing around different employment fields....never fully 'satisfied'. What makes you think she would have viewed her marriage to you any differently? Most women are difficult to satisfy long term. Some are impossible to satisfy. You made the right choice by recognizing the red flags and severing contact when she made the classic "I'm not ready to settle down" tell with her comment of wanting to be "alone" but…
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/22 12:17 AM
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I agree there is no way she is 28. Granted, having a child can put some serious wear and tear on a body that only goes to the gym "sometimes". I just wouldn't go as far as 40+ with this one. I'd say she is between 32-38. In appearance, White women are truly a candle that burns twice as bright, but half as long. They are the envy of so many women in their 20's and then fall right off a freaking cliff when they hit their 30's and have kids. They start to look like a dried apple when Black and Asia…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 02:04 PM
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There's more red flags in your post than a Communist parade. I honestly don't know what other circumstantial evidence you need at this point. The only thing left at this point is to literally catch her in the act. Contact a lawyer and prepare as best you can.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 02:28 AM
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https://tenor.com/view/superman-joke-gif-7319521
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 06:38 PM
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It's not just the calculated risks either. There is a clear asymmetry in the benefits of each. Businesses can be value added, profitable, and appreciate over time. Modern wives are largely costly and depreciate (physically) over time. Many men tend to think they will find a soul mate that will age gracefully and mature with them as they go through ever phase of life together. It's a rather low percentage of marriages that end up as paragons.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 12:46 AM
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FWIW - It only exists in 8 states in the US. There is no Common Law marriage for the vast majority of states. But it's still a good idea to look up whether you're in one of them, agreed there.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 12:24 AM
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My current girlfriend has said that by this I am ‘punishing her’ for my ex-wife’s behaviour… which is a hell of a thing to unpack. This is where you tell her "if you really loved me, then you wouldn't need a signed contract to stay --- You would stay of your own volition."
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 12:17 AM
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If you lower the contrast in the photo (which was conveniently taken with a light source behind her), you can see the heavy wrinkles/wear and tear. I guess we should be thankful she is in the small percentage of 40+ year old single moms that isn't at least 30 lbs overweight; but as always, their photos are a carefully produced work of fiction in some way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 03:06 PM
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A better way to ensure that it doesn't get passed is for political infighting to take place from people that lack a baseline level of maturity and mutual understanding. People that might, as you plainly stated, potentially sabotage any sort of group cohesion because they don't want their political enemies to be 'happy'.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/22 02:20 PM
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Good luck with this new phase of your life. Not sure what your MOS is but certainly the career path you chose will keep you busy and your mind off of what happened. Just remember never to get legally married again. Divorce rates and infidelity are very high compared to other professions; and there's no shortage of women who want to marry an E-4 to get the sweet government cheese of housing allowances, tricare, or even a greencard/citizenship if she is foreign. I grew up as an army brat and saw s…
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/22 08:56 PM
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I work in medicine and this is absolutely true. The nurses sleep with everyone. They sleep with doctors, PA's, residents, and even medical students that are rotating through their clinic. They're also completely used up and bitter by the time they hit early 30's since no one wants to wife them up. Then they're overweight and busting out of their scrubs that fit them well 5 years ago, wondering where all the good men have gone. The only field I think that exceeds nurses for female promiscuity is …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 08:11 PM
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Sorry this has happened to you. You're getting a crash course in female nature that isn't really taught to men much anymore. We typically get smacked in the mouth by it and most of us never see it coming. Moreover, you're trying to analyze her female actions through your own male frame; which is why it seems so confusing and traumatic. Women are different than men when it comes to breakups, "moving on", processing heartache, etc. Many can flip a switch (either intentionally or unintentionally) a…
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/22 02:56 AM
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One thing you need to understand, and its often hard to fully internalize is that once she decided she was done with you (and probably could do better) is that NOTHING you could do would make her change her mind to like you again like she once did.....When asked she'll say you didn't do this, or didn't do that to X degree or amount, but that's her finding a justification, not an actual criteria. This was a hard lesson I learned in my 20's just in long term dating. When a woman has made up her mi…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 06:34 PM
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"Who hurt you?"
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 06:05 PM
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White women are bad about combativeness and hating men, but BW amplify it to 11. What in the hell happened? I know plenty of older BW I would have happily dated if they were not over 50 but all the younger ones feel like they have not only ate the poisonous feminism man hating kool-aid but overdosed on it. I think the most likely cause has been the destruction of the Black family (which we can thank the welfare state and prisons for doing; of which the former was far more catastrophic). Prior to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 02:42 AM
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Back in the 90s with the Satanic panic and pearl clutching all the hyper conservative religious did, it pushed people to the "freedom" side of the equation. Now, the people controlling the "freedom" side of things are more authoritarian and totalitarian elitists than anything out of a dictator's wet dream, and there's a slow pendulum swing back to the other side. Well said. I am in my mid 30s and I was watching old CNN Crossfire clips on Youtube. One was an interview of Frank Zappa (arguing abou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 06:03 PM
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This is precisely why high value Black men are 'swirling' more these days and dating outside of their community. The combativeness of BW can be off the freaking charts. You think those texts are bad? Wait until you get into an argument with one behind closed doors. Throw in an average body weight of 187 lbs (!) and it's no surprise they are at the bottom of the dating pool. And this is coming from someone who finds Black women physically quite attractive and has dated them. The tradeoff is just …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 05:34 PM
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Men are biologically programmed to be the most attracted to women at their peak beauty and fertility (early to mid 20's). Labeling that innate desire as 'creepy' is increasingly a tactic of older women to shame men into not dating their chief competition. At 38, I personally wouldn't date a girl 18-21ish, but I won't judge a couple for being in a legal, consensual, mutually beneficial relationship. At some point we have to determine women are adults and can make decisions on their own. At 18+ th…
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/22 02:19 PM
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Chadrozzi and Tyronucci wouldn't marry her; so now she's determined to enhance diplomatic relations with foreign males.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 02:01 PM
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Very good point. She may be a 7.5 relative to other 34 year old women. Compared to a 24 year old though? She probably looks like a worn out catcher's mitt. EVEN IF we're generous and she is a 7.5 in absolute terms, I'm still not going to date a woman in her mid-30's. They often bring a whole host of other issues not related to their appearance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 01:46 PM
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Exactly. The OP is a prime example of psychological projection. "Why are men so callous to other men?!?!?!" then proceeds to exhibit that exact behavior.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 05:53 PM
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9 to 5, no weekends, 10 company holidays....Profit share, 5% match 401k fully vested day one of employment, full medical/dental/eye/short/long term, maternity/paternity leave....Salary is ultra competitive. I left a VP position to join this org as a lowly programmer. r/antiwork -- "This sounds like slavery."
/r/MensRights06/03/22 03:28 AM
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I can't help but think that photo is from the front and we're looking at a catfishing dude with a beard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 08:47 PM
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Exactly. We're following our instincts every time we rub one off to p0rn, even though it's completely suboptimal from an evolutionary standpoint. Our instincts can't quite tell the difference. Same applies to bagging one of these post-wall Karen's (or 'Karime' since she is Spanish).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 08:40 PM
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Lol same here, my mom is 72 and looks slightly better than this woman. It's amazing how evolution has primed women to peak in their early 20's and then they fall off a cliff visually within 10-15 years of that. It's literally nature saying "You need to reproduce now while you look the best; because soon enough that candle is going to burn out and not only will it be more difficult to attract a mate, it will be much more difficult to conceive and birth a child. Don't waste your best years".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 02:42 PM
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"Women are more loyal to a company than men, they don't follow the biggest pay cheque and companies are starting to wake up to that and to develop and look after those kind of women. And they will have got where they are in their careers by juggling far fewer balls on the way up." TIL - Women preferring to wallow in predictable, mid-range, monotonous, intellectually stultifying paper pushing jobs for decades at the same company instead of climbing the professional ladder like men do = They are m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 02:37 PM
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Yep, and you better believe every single guy she has dated since him has been weighed against his gold standard. She will accept no less than the Alpha that wouldn't commit to her; and she'll be lonely and surrounded by cats in 7 years because of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:07 AM
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Totally agree. I should have clarified that the wall 'approaching' is from her frame of reference and not ours; hence the panic on her part and the laughter on ours. Any informed man that's dated women understands full well she blew past the wall a few years ago and it's now in her rear view mirror -- she just doesn't know it yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 12:50 AM
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April — height: 5 ft 5 in, bust size: 32E ... Ms GB mission: 'to empower other women never to give up' — turned 33 on Sunday. Bingo -- approaching The Wall at escape velocity. Impact in 3, 2, 1... ​ 'I want someone who respects me, who supports me, who's kind — just a nice person — and has your best interests at heart. But it's hard to find nice guys — so hard. They're all such a nightmare.' It's not hard to find nice guys. It's hard to find hyper successful, good looking Alpha's that also have …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 09:14 PM
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Sorry to see this. My sister did something very similar to her now ex-husband. She swore to him that she would not touch any of his 401k. In her eyes, it was his money and it just wouldn't be right. Well, two things happened. Her ex became a raging lunatic during the divorce proceeding -- sending all kinds of abusive voicemails, texts, and emails over the course of months. He sent 64 text messages in one night over a disagreement, calling her every name in the book. His alcoholism (one of the re…
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/22 12:39 AM
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Like her day job of posting heavily filtered raunchy material, even her 'despair' is performative in nature to generate clicks and revenue. Also The irony of indirectly asking "Where are all the good men?" when you rake in $162,000 a month in views from a demographic that is 99% male, is palpable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 10:01 AM
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It's honestly safe to say that many of the platform issues of the feminist movement the past 60 years have been undergirded by false statistics and/or outright lies. People on that side of the political spectrum often believe in the notion of the Plato's "Noble Lie". i.e. in order to advance a political agenda that is good for social harmony in their eyes, it is noble to lie about it. The 1/4 sexual assault statistic? People playing fast and loose with the definition of sexual assault to inflate…
/r/MensRights27/02/22 06:56 PM
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I think he meant 'wrong' in terms of prudential values. In other words, it wasn't prudent on her part; and it was the 'wrong' choice if she was putting any thought towards her and her (potential) children's future well-being. Like you said though, that is not really what Tinder is for. It's a giant surplus egg-plant market and she picked the bigger one in this instance. There's certainly nothing wrong in that if we view it through that frame.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 05:44 PM
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I wrote "Average American Female" in the post in the very first sentence. I thought it would be easy to infer I was talking about Black Americans later in the post. But yes it doesn't include all Blacks in the US. I dated a Nigerian and, briefly, a Tanzanian computer science Grad student with an amazing figure and they took care of themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 09:21 PM
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The difference is that men don't walk around with labored breathing and a pot-belly talking about how attractive they are, how they are "beautiful at any size", and that if you don't find them attractive then something is wrong with you and not them --- hence this subreddit. It's true both have gained a lot of weight since the 70's. However, women surpassed men in terms of having a higher average body mass index (BMI) in 2010. They've also gained more weight as a percentage compared to men from …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 01:58 PM
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The average American female weighs 170.6 lbs, at 5 foot 4. It's important to note that this is a demographic that has far less muscle mass than men do. It is ridiculous how rotund they have gotten the past 25 years. They should not weigh that much. I primarily date Asian women in part because their culture still values a healthy diet and appearance. Meanwhile, obesity is more and more accepted in White culture, and downright glorified in Black culture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 01:47 AM
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Exactly; right out of the gate she made it clear it was not an interview for her to understand or weigh and consider his viewpoints. It was a futile attempt at a live hit-piece. I loved the part where he simply flat out said something along the lines of "You don't even have a formulated opinion. You just regurgitate talking points because you've been programmed to do so."
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 09:53 PM
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Remember though, she is a package deal. The lucky simp gets to rescue her and the two spawn she brings from Chad or Tyrone. "My kids come first and THEY ARE MY WORLD."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 02:54 PM
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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake." --- Napoleon
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 07:07 PM
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I have to agree. I dated a 1st generation Nigerian (Yoruba) for a good year. She was so nice and not combative at all. She was like a complete inversion of AA women. Very Christian and academic focused. I also dated a Tanzanian girl for a couple months but we were not compatible sexually. She was also pushing for commitment right off the rip, and very spiritual/Christian. Unbelievable body -- easily a 9 in terms of the women I've slept with. African women have some of the most amazing figures th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 11:19 PM
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That is a rough looking 22 if it's accurate. You think she looks rough in that picture -- just wait until you see her in person when there are no snapchat filters to smooth out her skin (which she most certainly used in her profile pic).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 02:42 AM
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good 'bouncer dynamic' write up That was a great summation of the "Bouncer Dynamic". I would just add one thing: The transactional component There are girls (especially under drinking age) that will do...'favors'....for the door guy just so he lets them into the bar/club. A shameless door guy will leverage his power in that role to let girls into the club (only the hot ones), but at a price. It happened more often than people would think where I frequented. A prime example of quid pro quo in rea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 01:21 AM
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As usual, the first two photos are a façade from snapchat filters; which are getting out of control on dating apps. I swear to God, 80% of dating profiles of 29+ year old women these days use filters to de-age their wrinkly jowls and crows-feet. At least by the 3rd photo she let's us see what is behind the mask. I'd be willing to bet she's lying about her age as well. I know women age far worse than men do, but that is a hard 38 years if I've ever seen it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 04:12 PM
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I said I believe the concept of white privilege is racist. If we're going to rail against the concept of 'diversity hires' as racist, then we should be consistent when it's applied to other groups, right?
/r/MensRights05/02/22 04:42 PM
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That’s why a man needs to get himself in the best financial position possible, with prenups, before he gets married. A divorce can still do a lot of damage, but the blow will be weakened. The best financial position possible is to not sign a binding legal contract with negative financial consequences in the first place. "Remember, best block, no be there." - Mr. Miyagi Outside of putting her on your health insurance and filing taxes jointly, there are literally zero benefits to the primary earne…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 02:57 PM
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I agree that assuming individuals have been conferred benefits based solely on their race is racist (i.e. 'white privilege', and in this case 'diversity hires').
/r/MensRights05/02/22 02:19 PM
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I think there is a likelihood her race was one of the necessary conditions for employment; albeit not a sufficient condition for employment. In other words, she wasn't hired because she is a minority (i.e. a 'diversity hire'). However, ceterus paribus, a white male probably would not have been hired for that position. I only write this as someone who worked in academia with far more experience than most people outside that sphere. This happens all the time in hiring and with increasing frequency…
/r/MensRights05/02/22 01:54 PM
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Didn’t get many mutual matches and one I did get (who was super cool and I really liked) agreed to go on a date then strung me a long for a week before revealing that they were actually seeing someone. She either moved really fast or was seeing someone when attending the event but it wasn’t serious enough yet to not “date other people” I'd say about a 70% chance it was the latter scenario. Don't leave out the chance she was actually in a committed relationship with a dude at the time but was dip…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:54 PM
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Conservative/Catholic and "doesn't want" kids either. What does this combative woman actually offer a man of the same demographic? Her useless MBA from 2011?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:34 PM
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I already wrote in the post that 42 out of 50 states do not have common-law marriage statutes. Yet you think those states would spontaneously (and illegally) recognize a cohabitating couple as legally married under a non-existent statute? I'm not trying to be rude but that doesn't make any sense. There are thousands upon thousands of live-in couples to this day that are in that very same relationship dynamic and are not considered common-law married. It's actually a growing trend due to marriage…
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 02:27 PM
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Have you considered a private marriage ala something non-contractual? Making it clear to her that you can cohabitate, call her your wife, do almost everything a 'married' couple can do, etc; but there will be no contract that legally puts you and your assets at risk. You could even have a commitment ceremony so she gets her special day, take vows, and exchange rings. However, you two would remain distinct entities legally. After explaining your reasoning, if she says "you need to legally marry m…
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 03:20 AM
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Love Colttaine's stuff. As a man, once you get into your mid to late 30's and look at the women you grew up with; the asymmetry between what you and they look like is staggering (provided you took care of yourself). Attractive women are truly candles that burn twice as bright but half as long. The first thing that starts to show typically is their skin. Collagen fibrils start to deteriorate in late 20's. Their skin is less soft to the touch and dries up quicker. It's not as taut and sags in cert…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 02:59 AM
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All the naive guys looking at her profile and saying: "Hmmm, she says she is average. That can't be too big, right?" without doing their research to see the average female weight by race in in the U.S: Asian: 132 lbs Hispanic: 169 lbs White: 170 lbs Black: 187 lbs I just saw she also has children (what a surprise), and a masters degree. So pretty much guaranteed to be in significant student loan debt, and on some sort of state welfare/subsidy and child support from Darnell/Pookie/Ray-Ray. Alrigh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 05:14 AM
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Opens her legs willingly for philanderers, dusties/crusties, and a future convicted felon -- but you, Mr. Good Man, have to wife her up before she spreads her smelly roast-beef curtains. Also, enjoy being a Step Dad to victims of child molestation and abuse. I'm sure there won't be any trust issues in that dynamic when you come in as Daddy #5.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 02:30 AM
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That piston is looking for something real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 07:47 PM
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Jesus that's terrifying. I had a close friend get an out of state girlfriend pregnant when he was 21 years old. His father (who owned a construction company and similarly had his life radically changed due to children) 'wisely' settled with the girl in court with a lump sum payment. He made absolutely sure his son would not have to be on the hook from 22 to 40ish years old. I have no idea if he did it as a gift or if my friend ever had to pay some of it back. I just know it he was extremely luck…
/r/MensRights28/01/22 05:23 PM
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Women hate being in charge. Exactly. This is a demographic that regularly finds it difficult and painful to be burdened with making the call on what to have for dinner, let alone making truly impactful decisions in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 03:39 AM
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I remember being a clueless freshman and not understanding why most of my female classmates were dating older guys. Same lol. I remember being 14/15 yrs old in HS and the absolute hottest girls in my class were dating juniors and seniors. Of course I was super jealous at the time and totally befuddled. Just one year prior in middle school, Meghan (we'll call her) was dating a relatively popular guy in our class in 8th grade while we were in Middle School. As soon as we got into High School -- sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 02:55 AM
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"Down to earth" "My children come first. They are my WORLD. If you can't handle that, swipe left!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 09:14 AM
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You felt weird because that's precisely what you should feel in that situation from an evolutionary standpoint. Men typically do not want to parentally invest in offspring that are not genetically theirs. We have strong kin relations and prefer to propagate and support our own genetic line. It's the same reason if you saw your kid and another unrelated kid drowning simultaneously, you would save your kid first if only one could be saved. Women otoh will do what they can to secure provisioning an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 09:09 AM
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Don't confuse the fact that step fathers abuse their non-biological children more than biological fathers do as making it some how "likely" it will happen. Abuse is still relatively rare but more likely in that dynamic than any other parent/child dynamic. I believe it's called the Cinderella effect. It should be clarified as well that it isn't necessarily"sexual abuse", it's more physical harm. This happens in the animal kingdom as well; for instance male lions immediately kill the cubs in a pri…
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/22 01:46 AM
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If Ursula from "The Little Mermaid" was on Tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 08:04 PM
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Everyone arguing and I'm just laughing watching the OP constantly edit his post to "clarify", when he should just admit it was a dumb analogy and take the L.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:45 PM
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They have no life experience, they've never done anything, never gone anywhere, and will never accomplish anything. And they will continue to stubbornly blame a specific segment of society for why they did not accomplish anything substantive in life; instead of looking inward. Bitter resentment + ideological possession + a lack of self awareness is a bad combination and often the necessary preconditions for lefty Reddit mod status.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 08:30 AM
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What’s the typically age range you date while you are in mid-30s? I agree with your assessment that women tend to hit a sort of wall looks-wise as the get older and it doesn’t help that we live in a culture that encourages bad habits - drinking and smoking. I would assume that you try to casually date girls probably a decade younger than you. Also, if you are avoiding getting married again, i would assume you are avoiding commitment. How do you these girls you date handle that notion? Is it impl…
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/22 05:11 PM
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There were red flags when dating, but I’ll be honest here man. I was 27, she was a 23-year-old grad student with the best body I have ever seen in my life and my perfect preference of looks. I was absolutely, completely, and totally infatuated by her looks. I was so happy and proud to show off this hottie I had landed. It was a point of pride. She was 10 million miles out of my league, looks-wise, and that kept me trapped for a long time. It’s shallow and insane and I won’t do it again. Her look…
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/22 04:14 AM
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Is she looking for the bailout ..or the next hookup? "Yes" As always, i feel sorry for her future kid, having to suffer because of the mother's poor choices but it is what it is. As do I. The child -- if a boy -- will more than likely grow up without a positive male role model and have a higher chance of becoming another professional laggard and/or crime statistic. If a girl, she will more than likely follow the same path of her mother and continue the destructive cycle of single motherhood whic…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 11:44 PM
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war" - Hillary Clinton, 1998 *face palm*
/r/MensRights22/01/22 07:55 PM
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It's also called "baby hair", and I'm wondering who has more -- her or the kid she is holding lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 01:40 AM
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Either the standards need to be lowered for all, or they need to stop patronizing women by putting them. In jobs they cant do. The new 'standard' is equity. Medical schools started becoming majority female about 4-5 years ago. You wouldn't believe the extra slack under-represented minorities are getting now in terms of admission standards and remedial tutoring from MS-1 through MS-4. Half the classes are getting rid of "honors/high pass/satisfactory/fail" grading scales and switching to "pass/fa…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:25 AM
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I agree that you are sacrificing a good chunk of freedom when you cohabitate. The more important question regarding cohabitation is -- do you plan on having children? Part of being a parent is sacrificing some of your own freedom to raise your children in the best possible environment. Granted, all of this is dependent on if you and your wife get along and raise the kids in a peaceful environment and are not fighting every week. If that is the case -- then yes, absolutely live apart to not subje…
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 05:31 PM
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This is exactly true, regardless of what that dismissive troll that I just blocked says. There's a relatively callous saying in medicine "Women get sick, men die". Women overwhelmingly use the health system far more for routine checkups, while men typically wait until they actually get sick or God forbid a serious illness to finally get seen. There's many reasons for this but most likely it is a combination of evolved higher risk tolerances + societal pressures encouraging them to 'tough it out'…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 04:48 PM
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Ease up on the snark, this isn't a women's board so less feminine energy is encouraged. There's studies by the Cleveland Clinic (Sept. 2019) and CDC that have fairly eye opening data on disparities in healthcare maintenance screenings between men and women. I also work in medical education and no one disputes this data that I know. The more important questions are why men fall behind.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 04:37 PM
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I'll add the modifier that it can be hard for an average guy if he doesn't understand female nature and he operates under a scarcity mindset . Once he addresses those issues, it's far less difficult. Of course, by learning female nature, you eventually realize having a girlfriend isn't even worth the headache half of the time. The curse of knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 12:47 PM
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Fwiw, only 8 states out of 50 still have common law marriage. The overwhelming majority of states allow you to cohabitate without any sort of mythical contract spawning out of nowhere. It's still a valid point you brought up though. Every man should do their research first on where they live and never sign a marriage contract in the first place.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/22 11:47 AM
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Getting married is something I want If you want long term commitment and a family, you can do that without putting yourself at an undue financial risk. There is no need in this day and age to sign a marriage license when you can simply have a commitment ceremony and cohabitate. The marriage license is a contract that gives your spouse legal claim to half of what you purchase with your own money after marriage. This is more than just assets like houses and cars; but investments like 50% of money …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 11:28 PM
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Same, although I have to admit it wasn't all sunshine and rainbows back in 2016 for me. There were so many cringey "Field Reports" with dudes obviously lying and using corny language like "Met an HB9 last night, used push/pull and amused mastery. Got the first night lay, etc". It was so PUA heavy back then. It seems to have become more esoteric since JBP, which is good and bad. It's expanded from male sexual strategy to male life strategy (albeit you can argue the overlap between those two).
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 05:57 PM
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She wouldn't be his baby mama if he was a broke ditch digger, almost certainly. Securing the bag was a necessary condition, and she has admitted this on multiple occasions. He was young, dumb, and full of cum, but with a huge bank account.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/21 07:23 PM
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I think high quality sperm is not necessarily the primary motivating factor for women sperm-jacking professional athletes. They want to secure the bag with child support payments first in the event the relationship doesn't materialize or fails after marriage. For example, I doubt Brittany Renner thought for a second she was getting "high quality sperm" from that goofy looking chump, PJ Washington. She wanted the guaranteed monthly child support paychecks for the next 18 years, and even bragged a…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/21 02:25 AM
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Whore-angutan's can branch swing better than even rhesus monkeys. It's their specialty.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 10:58 AM
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While I don't disagree with you per say, there is an old saying. "The quickest way to get over a man, is to get under another." On average, women have far more opportunities (and a quicker turn around) to find a new mate than men do after a relationship ends. Hell, they often have men actively pursuing them while they have a boyfriend (or simply waiting on deck). One of the few times this doesn't apply is if the woman is significantly unattractive, but even comparing an unattractive woman to an …
/r/MensRights04/11/21 04:27 AM
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The data set for your position is your own limited life experiences with women. Someone has a different position from you, so you conclude they are from another planet. Makes sense.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 04:09 AM
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The wage gap is a fabricated lie, yes. Just wanted to clarify that the military is not typically considered a "higher paying job". The pay is quite low/average depending on rank, while the benefits are great. In fact, just looking at it from that perspective would make one think it is attractive for females to want to work in. However, once you throw in the grueling physical demand, the dangers from training and potential combat, and the rigorous work schedule/hours; suddenly the job becomes kry…
/r/MensRights26/10/21 05:46 AM
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The professor is worried because a mating crisis means a likely subsequent drop below population replacement levels. That will have drastically negative effects on Ponzi scheme government programs that require a growing population to fund current/future beneficiaries.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 10:01 AM
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By and large, there are 2 types of people that do tedious and repetitive unskilled labor. People that aren't capable of doing better (disabled, low IQ, etc). People that aren't willing to do better, for whatever reason. Like you said, you do not want to end up in your 50's in the latter category. I've worked in kitchens, grocery stores, landscaping, and other jobs that had "lifer's" and they were some of the most miserable people you could imagine. It wasn't just the work that made them miserabl…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 05:03 PM
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It makes sense once you understand how and why most men ended up there. It's not a movement that actively recruits, and 'Going your own way' doesn't mean you're disappearing from society and never complaining about anything ever again. Rather, most men found it after getting a dose of reality from average female behavior (in an intersexual dynamic way). It could have been a bad breakup, a messy divorce that she initiated, subsequent financial problems due to the divorce, losing custody of their …
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:38 AM
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I don't think this is terrible advice. The only potential downside is that she will eventually seek attention elsewhere, outside the marriage.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 12:37 PM
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I’m sure I’m not the only one who, when came to the realization of the lies, looked back at their childhood and asked- why did my parents teach me this? The simple answer is: They didn't know any better, and they did the best they could with the information they had available to them. At least, that is the dynamic in my family. Moreover, I won't disdain the people who sacrificed so much to make my life what it is today. Even with the information we all have access to now, my Dad is not going to …
/r/MGTOW202/08/21 01:17 AM
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No mention of the near 100,000 people that died of drug overdoses in 2020, which was an increase of over 30% from 2019. Turns out shutting down businesses, forcing people into solitude, and giving them free money has drastic consequences. But remember people, we had to go into a COVID (99.8% survival rate) lockdown because "iT's NoT WoRtH oNe LiFe tO rEoPeN tHe EcOnOmY."
/r/MGTOW202/08/21 12:13 AM
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I dont want to hate on women, this is a key factor for me. That's the most important lesson to take forward with you and I'm glad you acknowledged it. Trust me, you do not want to live in a state of bitterness and resentment. That's how woke dogmatists and other lefties live their lives --- perpetually offended and always looking to blame someone or some group of people for why the world isn't lined up according to their vision for it. Just accept the world for what it is, understand the constra…
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 06:22 PM
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I think anyone who broadcasts this type of life and isn't in the 1099 club or independently wealthy is taking a huge risk. Just look at the search results on Google for the phrase 'MGTOW'. It is page after page of calumny and dishonest hit pieces. People are lazy and will just go with what search engines and the media tell them to think. I can't expect anyone who works for an employer (most of the people here) to brag about their female-free lifestyle or knowledge of female nature because with t…
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 06:06 PM
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"Send 0.5 Eth to this address and I'll send you 2 full Eth next week. Hurry while this offer lasts"
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 05:37 PM
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Luckily in the U.S., only 7 or 8 states out of 50 I believe have Common Law marriage. It's not nearly as prevalent as people think it is. However, as you alluded to -- there are all sorts of other complications when you cohabitate with a woman; of which losing your freedom, peace of mind, and privacy are chief among them. The only way I would ever do it is if I wanted to have children and start a family, but I'll never sign that marriage contract.
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 05:35 PM
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There's also the third scenario where they realize they can't lock you down and then ditch you when the next guy comes around. That is how most of my flings have gone, even though I was fairly clear about where I saw things going.
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 05:31 PM
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There's still a chance she'll land a lonely cuck provider who has never been with a woman. One sniff of her cooter and she'll move in with him in no time and he'll be wearing a T-Shirt that says: I'm not the Step-Dad; I'm the Dad who STEPPED UP . Years of misery will follow until she cheats and leaves him out of boredom and 'irreconcilable differences'.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 05:04 PM
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We don't know the details about this case or their marriage. This could have been a long episode of abuse on his part and she finally decided to end it, and he reacted the same way he had been treating her for years (threats of force). There could be previous allegations or police reports against him for all we know. There's also the chance she is cold hearted and dropped him at the worst time because she was 'unsatisfied' and/or cheating on him. The point is, we don't know and more digging shou…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 11:58 PM
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As women are prone to do -- there is something major she is omitting in her story that she is unaware of, or she doesn't want us to know. My guess is she is either insufferably boring to talk to, or she is fat/ugly and played fast and loose with her photos (heavy filters, listed her body type as 'average' or 'curvy' but pictures only from the neck up, old pictures when she wasn't a chonker, etc). I'd go with the latter because men will continue to date a boring girl if they see a chance to get s…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 11:42 PM
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African American Women. Statistically; they are half as likely to get married, and twice as likely to get divorced. 70% single mother rate, 80% are overweight/obese (the girls in this drawing are far too thin to be an accurate representation). They have the highest enrollment on welfare and subsidies of any major demographic. To top it off, they have completely lost the feminine and supportive nature their grandmothers and great grandmother's had. Instead, they LARP as combative men with a nasty…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 11:17 PM
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Yep. And for all the shit we heard about Trump only being rich because his dad gave him a business loan when he was young, there's never a peep about this Bumble chick coming from a wealthy family. She's always shown as a self-made millionaire.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 03:28 PM
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"Feminism liberated women from the natural dignity of their sex and turned them into inferior men." -- Francis Parker Yockey There's a reason female action heroes are often naturally off-putting to many people. No matter how much they show a woman 'kicking ass', it just looks like a skinny/weak person LARPing as a male badass. The bottom line is: showing an inferior version of something will typically not generate the same amount of interest/enthusiasm as exists for the superior thing it emulate…
/r/MGTOW29/07/21 11:29 PM
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it would be nice if she used that education for something good, instead she disowned her father and cucked the prince of England. She also refused to accept the reality that being a princess is more than just being rich and socializing with other rich heads of state and VIP's. It's a job with important obligations and expectations. Hundreds of years of tradition in that role came before her. She didn't even want to learn how to curtsy! In other words, she wanted all of the benefits of being a pr…
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 11:12 PM
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Clean up vomit 6 times for a BJ *My kid getting ipecac syrup and a glass of saltwater with her meal for the 6th time that week* Kid: "Daddy, please; no more." Me: "Here comes the airplane!!!!"
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 10:47 PM
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You won't have the 'freedom' to do much of anything once you are blacklisted for promoting 'hate' by a consortium of Big Tech companies. The plan is being put in motion as we speak to expand the GIFCT to include groups that engage in the amorphous (and always expanding) definition of 'Hate'. Yes; that will include groups that understand female nature and the horrible imbalance in marriage laws. https://www.reuters.com/technology/exclusive-facebook-tech-giants-target-manifestos-militias-database-…
/r/MGTOW227/07/21 11:36 PM
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It's a language or vernacular known as Womanese. So many of them are on dating apps that their profiles start to look like carbon copies after a while. It's easy to translate once you've dated enough. Here are some below: "I'm tired of games. I'm looking for something real**."** Translation - I'm too old to compete with younger girls for bad boys. I need a beta provider to lockdown and support me and my (future) children. "I'm new to online dating and just here for friends." Translation - This i…
/r/MGTOW226/07/21 09:34 PM
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While you were technically the 'side dick' -- take satisfaction in the fact that you were probably her top choice in the dick equation. That's why she gave you as much rope as she did. You gave her tingles that the other guy probably did not do as much, so by extension you were given extra slack to see if she could mold you into exactly what she wanted. Once she realized you would not break, she audibled and settled for the backup guy because her top choice did not pan out. Believe me. Women do …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/21 02:48 PM
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What's strange is that I'm now repulsed by all the women. Swiped for a few days. There's not even one I would hook-up with, let alone date. I log onto my old (invisible) Match account just for fun occasionally. Now that I'm in my mid-30's, the search algorithm gives me women primarily around my age. I mutter to myself as I look eat each photo from left to right: "Fat, fat, single mom, fat, single mom and fat, ugly, fat, ohhh this one is really pretty actually *clicks on profile and it is regurgi…
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 03:11 AM
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In fairness to women, it's rare to see them randomly helping out homeless men in capricious acts of kindness, but primarily due to safety concerns IMO. They aren't going to risk getting accosted by a homeless vagrant that can easily overpower them, and I won't blame them for that. I know plenty of women who are involved in charitable work; particularly in church environments to help homeless people. That being said, women (when compared to men) generally do put themselves and their children firs…
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 01:51 AM
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Signed. I've been watching Kevin Samuels since he had 80k subscribers. His audience used to target younger men; as he was one of hundreds of 'male improvement' channnels that saturate YT. It did not gain much traction unfortunately. His channel exploded in popularity when he began starching women on live broadcasts and revealing to people their incredible delusion, insanely high standards, and their own inflated sense of self-worth. There are 30+ yr old women he interviews that claim they are an…
/r/MGTOW225/07/21 07:06 PM
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This. Compound the problem if they have children and drink a lot/take head meds. Her: "I still have baby weight that I'm working on losing." Me: "Ahhhhhh, right. How old is your kid again?" Her: "6 years old" Lol.
/r/MGTOW225/07/21 05:52 PM
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I'd say no older than 30. IMO She looks incredible if she is 35. She looks part Asian so that probably helps. A 35 yr old white women would have way more crow's feet and even jowls. Probably 30 extra lbs in weight too.
/r/MGTOW225/07/21 05:17 PM
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I mentioned that businesses are moving out of California into Texas/Florida because the taxes are too high in CA and it was becoming too expensive to do business there. A coworker (an obese, single mom, 40+ yrs old, perennial welfare recipient and part time worker) responded: "I personally would love to move to California because of their social services. Because I want to make sure that my taxes are going to good causes like social services". My jaw dropped; I could barely respond. It takes a l…
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 04:17 PM
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And for some odd reason Jewish guys had a particular weakness. Never got that. I can only speak for myself (I'm not Jewish but I've dated a lot of Chinese, Koreans, and 1 Vietnamese girl), that there is an allure to their femininity, neotenous features, and general intelligence. For Jewish guys who don't have a strong in-group preference for Jewish/Westernized chonker women, but still want a better chance at genetically superior offspring in terms of IQ, they naturally migrate to East Asian wome…
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 04:04 PM
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Because they are naive fools who believe in that "good old days" nonsense. It's generally the old guys(a lot of them are on this sub) or the married ones who believe in that cliche. Oh yeah, and tradcons, specially christians. To be fair, infidelity was less common in the 'good old days', but that's only because the opportunities to cheat were less frequent and the consequences of getting caught were far worse. Modify two things (increased opportunity and diminished consequences), and women will…
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 03:17 AM
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"Enjoy this 6 carat diamond ring, Mai Ling. I got it from dumping the Akash Coin I pumped during the Bull run." 3 years from now she will be in court with her lawyers claiming the coins he was rewarded through staking during the marriage (that were purchased and staked before the marriage) are communal property and she is entitled to 50%. Also lol, another Jewish guy with yellow fever. Rip
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 02:55 AM
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Dumbo and Babar (the Chad/Tyrone of the Animal Kingdom) tag team Becky with the good hair.
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 02:43 AM
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This is an underrated comment. I'm learning a new language, and there is only so much you can learn by yourself with apps, reading, and videos. People who are confident they know enough of a language through self-teaching to navigate a conversation get a dose of reality the first time they enter an actual dialogue with a native speaker. In other words, you don't fully understand the back and forth exchange of anything until you do it with someone else. This applies to the transactional nature of…
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 02:12 AM
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My feeling is that people understand (even on a subconscious level by 'strong, independent women') that the optimal way to raise children that will benefit (and not hinder) society is a two-parent household with a couple that compliment each other's strengths and obviate each other's weaknesses. Society will praise people that take that path, and shame people (specially men) who choose not to. The disgusting and mutated form of 'marriage' in today's world does not mean there isn't a very potent …
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 09:50 PM
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Victor Davis Hanson has been writing and speaking about this recently. The Democratic Party used to be considered the "working class" party. You could count on them to represent people who had little to no political capital. Right now, it has morphed into a party of very rich White/Jewish people and minorities. 17 of the 20 richest counties in the country vote Blue. Almost all of the big tech leadership are left wing social engineers with pockets so deep they are untouchable. The political leade…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 09:18 PM
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Knives Out (2019) is one of the recent movies that had a clear underlying political message. I remember seeing the preview for this movie before going to see it in the theaters with my then-GF. It was sold a worthy follow up to the classic 'Clue' -- a 'who dunnit?' type comedy/thriller. I loved Clue and was excited to see Knives out. As you described; it turned out to be a giant anti-White/pro-Brown immigrant propaganda piece -- from start to finish. Almost every single white character in the mo…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 08:47 PM
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I noticed this sneaky pronoun shifting happened with my own mother. For instance, when my sisters or I did something bad/embarrassing growing up, my mom would yell at my dad with "Your daughter/son did x, y, z". When we did good things, it was either "my children" or "our children". Bottom line: She did not want to take any ownership or accountability for the bad things her children did. She shifted it onto my dad as if he was the reason we behaved poorly sometimes. She was more than happy to ta…
/r/MGTOW24/07/21 06:11 PM
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If we want to play marketers, lets dig even deeper. A big slice of Americana's urban gear buyer is the demographic of African-American women. 80% of them are overweight. 80% of those are clinically obese.*Combine that with the following Looking at expenditures, Black households spent an average of $639 on footwear in 2019, compared with $419 for all households, according to the Labor Department’s 2019 Consumer Expenditure Survey. When it came to women’s and girls’ clothing, Black households spen…
/r/MGTOW23/07/21 06:35 PM
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Wtf is Addidas thinking? Obese woman in high heels pretending to lift, just to appease the landwhales? Women prefer to be told comforting lies (you're beautiful at any size) rather than uncomfortable truths (you're fat and unattractive). They comprise 80% of consumer spending. Corporations will take a fat dump on the chest of every man in the country before they dare offend wahhmyn. The only way to stop this madness is for men to vote with their wallets (don't buy from woke companies), and vote …
/r/MGTOW23/07/21 06:21 PM
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Wait until the teen years. That's when the real stress comes. Getting ready for work this morning I was thinking back to when I was younger and the sheer mental hell my older sister put my parents through from age 14-18. She was sneaking out to go to parties, lost her V at 14 and contracted HPV, got into a huge argument with my mom and ran away with her boyfriend at 17 years old (only to call them begging to be let back in the house when he became abusive). Nowadays, she is a 40 yr old, overweig…
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 01:47 AM
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To be fair, the team that dumpstered them (Sweden) also signaled their virtue with a stunning and brave pre-game kneel at the same time the U.S. did. Still waiting on them to kneel for all of the female rape victims in Sweden due to immigration....
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 10:30 PM
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This is a very good point that flies past most feminist (and their allies) heads. Dr. Jordan Peterson (I know, 'tradcon') demonstrated very well in his clashes with feminist automatons that history is not a story of all (or most) men holding women down. Rather, a very, very small minority of men made it to the top of hierarchies throughout history and benefitted from any sort of 'privilege' over most men and women. The overwhelming majority of men were simply grinding away to survive, with their…
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 10:49 AM
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This is the part that angered me the most. People cheat. Women and Men -- it happens far more often in married couples than we care to admit as a society. But to cheat on your husband which makes him so distraught he needs counseling, and then essentially say: "You owe me 4 million dollars because your depression negatively affected our marital funds" is beyond evil. I don't even know where to start.
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 01:06 AM
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The 10 years later photo needs about 40 extra lbs on her with a full arm sleeve tattoo and 2 crying toddlers. "I'm done playing games; I'm looking for something REAL."
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 12:53 PM
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Let's not discount the fact that it looks highly likely this guy found out the hard way that his new job/career might not be what he envisioned it to be. He was a career student leading up to this point, and now he is an employee with new challenges to face in a more competitive environment. In other words, he found out his 'dream job' is a grind, and he doesn't have much left over in the tank when he gets home. Women are very good at picking up on things like morosity. It's important when it co…
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 12:24 PM
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First, chastity belts. Now, promiscuity belts.
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 01:05 AM
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This is true for a small percentage of good looking guys I think, but the majority of good looking men who wife up a chonker with a bad attitude are simply infected with a scarcity mindset. They are afraid of being alone and want to lock one down before it's too late. They also severely underrate their own SMV, and have no idea that they could do so much better.
/r/MGTOW17/07/21 05:55 PM
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They are simply not the type of women to go on dating apps in desperation for a mate. No offense man, but if you are looking for a high quality woman on a dating app, more power to you but they are not the best of their bracket. Exactly. Complaining about not finding a good mate on a dating app is like a fisherman complaining he can't find Bluefin Tuna in a Swamp. You're mostly going to find toxic Bowfin and alligators; the latter of which are out to hunt you. Dating apps are by definition a rep…
/r/MGTOW17/07/21 05:48 PM
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Exactly. People need to realize that the majority of normal society doesn't speak in internet tribal terms. Saying to a person that doesn't live on reddit 'I'm MGTOW' is equivalent to some lefty mook saying 'I'm a pansexual intersectional-ally'. The person you are talking to will look at you like you just grew a 3rd eye in your forehead. My recommendation is: Play the "I haven't found the right girl yet" until you hit your early 30's, then switch to 'I simply value my free time more than a relat…
/r/MGTOW17/07/21 05:24 PM
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I think he was being sarcastic; but yes there was enough stupidity to go around in that scenario. Husbands who violently try to fight off men whom their wife was voluntarily cheating on them with are operating out of a famine level scarcity mindset. Their caveman brain takes over and they honestly think that killing their competition is a reasonable course of action; when the smart thing to do is ditch the ho and move on; and the smartest thing to do is not get married in the first place.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 05:11 PM
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Never married, no kids and my spirit is decidedly uncrushed. But you know whose spirits are? Guys whose lives were destroyed by a wife who "changed her mind" and eviscerated their families. Marriage, gone. Family, gone. And those guys then get to pay 40% of their gross to an ex-wife so she can fuck other guys and teach his kids to hate him. Just wanted to co-sign this and also give appreciation for your other marriage post from 6 months back. I've seen men who are 60+, never married and childles…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 06:28 PM
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You forgot on her dating profile. Body Type: 'Curvy' Weighs 210 lbs
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 10:01 PM
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Lol yep. My dad is this way. A mountain once, the waves have pulverized him into sand over the years. He's former D-1 Athlete, 20 year career in the Army, Special Operations, Ranger, Psyops as well (He was an officer so he bounced around a lot). At his peak, no one messed with him. He now hides in the bathroom from my mom to get peace and quiet.
/r/MGTOW06/07/21 10:21 PM
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Yep. They hit 35, get the crows feet, cut their hair, and get bounced from most of their previous roles and replaced by younger, prettier women. The money starts to dry up and they don't want to live off of residuals. Then the #metoo accusations conveniently start when they approach their 40's and their popularity is waning. They need some relevance, attention, and a quick payday; so the lawsuits come.
/r/MGTOW05/07/21 06:53 PM
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Yep - the implication being a 6'3" guy shouldn't have to call the cops when a woman accosts him. He should just handle it himself.
/r/MGTOW05/07/21 06:43 PM
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To be fair, crypto is only partly associated with delayed gratification and libertarian decentralization at this point. Those are the people who got in early and made a ton of money if they stuck it out. There are many, many people who use it as a speculative asset to try and get rich quick, which runs contrary to any sort of forward thinking, long term goals, delayed gratification, etc. So many of them are over leveraged too, and have invested far more than they can afford to lose. In other wor…
/r/MGTOW05/07/21 02:37 PM
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It's amazing seeing these privileged women wearing nice clothes and walking around a safe environment without fear of imminent assault or disaster claiming just how bad it is to be in that environment. "It's not the most hospitable place" - Compared to what place??? They have zero gratitude, zero understanding of the costs and difficulties associated with creating and maintaining a society that lets them walk around and regurgitate their programmed responses. Outside of simply the nature of wome…
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 05:54 PM
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Not 'all' of the sex goes to them. It means that almost all women want to get with the top 20% of men, but it's statistically impossible for all of them to get their wish. Sexual relations simply don't scale like that. There are plenty of men who are 5/6/7's that get a good amount sex, even on apps. The rub is that they are typically not that girl's top choice, so the girl is apt to leave when a perceived better option comes around. That trend is definitely getting worse. The men who are 1/2/3/4…
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 03:59 PM
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This picture reminds me of a guy I haven't thought of in years. I'll never forget meeting a friend of a friend in central PA roughly 9 years ago at a picnic/bonfire. He was nice, but it seemed forced; like something was deeply on his chest/mind. I didn't know him at all but we were chatting over some beers about random stuff like sports, work, etc. Then out of no where he asked me if I wanted to buy a lawn mower. I thought it was odd -- I was in my late 20's with no house/lawn. I told him I did …
/r/MGTOW203/07/21 01:07 PM
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Yea; the well ran dry on that one -- pretty cringe. If this is even real, he comes off as a 14 year old. "lmao, something something, lmao, something, lmao."
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 10:27 AM
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As a concealed carry guy myself, this is the best post in this thread. I would just stress to people one thing. As your level of lethality increases, there must be a commensurate increase in restraint. Like you mentioned, it must truly be a weapon of last resort. Do not get a gun if you have anger issues, are a 'hot head' with a short fuse, or have other mental issues like depression.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 09:40 AM
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"I wish I could find a guy like you" is such a cliché of female unspoken rationalization. They say these things as if there's no way a man can see right through the BS. More and more men are learning to spot empty platitudes like this for what they are, thankfully. The RP, if anything, upgrades your decryption abilities to read the Enigma Code that women transmit. You can always stay one step ahead of them once you can read the messages for what they are. Case in point: My sister (single mom) re…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 04:44 PM
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And for some reason most HOT girls are incredibly boring and shallow. The reasons are obvious once you think about it, and we can put a lot of the blame on men for it. Very attractive women are some of the most privileged people on the planet because of the desire all men have for them. They are fawned over by men, favors are done and money is spent on them. Men will pretend to laugh at their dumb jokes just to have a shot at getting a taste. Average to below-average men try to nice-guy their wa…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 09:31 PM
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That was tough to watch... That is a weak young man. Completely paralyzed by fear and utterly incapable of protecting a loved one. He just shrieked like a woman and fell to the ground. I hate to say this (and I'm not one typically to blame the victim)....but the father failed in raising him. You don't do any favors for your children by raising them to be weak and helpless. I'm sure he's a good man who provides for his family and raised them to be cooperative, but being a father is more than just…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 02:47 AM
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"If it flies, floats, or fornicates; lease it."
/r/MGTOW10/03/21 07:15 PM
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While they don't provide anything directly to the fight itself, they are meeting a market demand in the end due to our nature. Voluntary mutual combat sports in particular are fever pitches of testosterone. The ring girls are a not-so-subtle reminder of why most men get in shape and become dangerous with martial prowess. The ring girls really tap into our instincts on protection and reproduction. That girl needs to enjoy and profit from her looks now, because in 15-20 years she is going to look …
/r/MGTOW05/03/21 11:30 AM
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The clip below is from 40 years ago, when Thomas Sowell exposed the sheer destruction the welfare state has had on the Black family. https://youtu.be/2GklCBvS-eI In the past, being a single mother was socially taboo and financially crippling. It was incredibly difficult to get by without a father paying the bills and raising/disciplining the child. Once the Govt. became a surrogate father by providing subsidies to single mothers, they no longer had as strong of an incentive to get married. And w…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 11:15 AM
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I feel like the leader in our relationship. I feel like she’s become obsessed with me and my life and is along for the ride. I make the dinner choices, I make the date choices, I choose films, I decide what we’re doing, I always have her in my flat (rarely go to hers as she lives with parents), and she just accepts it. Honestly, this feels really great that it’s hard to express in words. I was like that in my last relationship, but honestly it became laborious after a while. After sleeping with …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 02:09 PM
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My heart is heavy at this sad state of affairs. It is overwhelming. I feel like I am living in a fantasy/ nightmare world which is 50% The Truman Show and 50% Weekend At Bernies. Western society has taken leave of it’s senses. For now and for as long as I can I will hold my tongue on this sub when it comes to politics. I have been brooding over this as well. I could write an entire thesis on what is occurring and why (the loss of our shared ethnic and cultural identity, the loss of our shared un…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 02:36 PM
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Their profit model is built increasingly off of ad revenue from clicks. Their internal analytics show that clickbait and 'outrage' stories generate the most clicks. Combine this with their batshit crazy left-wing social justice politics, and their daily news cycle is nothing but victim narratives about Group X (women, minorities, lgbt), oppressed by Group Y (white men); resulting in Outcome Z (disparity). It's self-perpetuating. Now that Trump is gone, they are going to ramp up even more of thes…
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 06:58 PM
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"I'm not playing games anymore; I'm looking for a REEEEEEal relationship with a REEEEEEal man."
/r/MGTOW03/02/21 08:20 PM
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Sure thing. There's so many other things to go over for 'technical' clothing but pants are the most important since you will get the most use out of them; so I will focus on them below. Just bear in mind that the more features you want in technical clothing/pants, the higher the cost. So things like a gusseted crotch (for range of motion), DWR water resistance, stain resistance, 4 way stretch, antimicrobial fabric to reduce odor, etc. all add up in the end. If you're looking for higher end pants…
/r/MGTOW02/02/21 04:17 AM
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Stealth is wealth. Best case scenario is they are genuinely happy for you (which is rare, even amongst friends). A less optimal scenario is that it leads to bitterness and resentment on their part. The worst case scenario is that it can put a target on your back for sabotage/theft...or something more insidious --- like the long con of a woman trying to get you to marry her for your resources. Moreover, it's simply just in poor taste to talk money to others, especially when you have a lot of it a…
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 11:26 PM
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I would go a step further and say many of them are spending more per clothing item, but having a significantly smaller wardrobe. A growing trend in minimalism right now is spending relatively good money upfront for a "technical" wardrobe that can be worn in different environments. There are companies selling pants/chinos that have 4 way stretch cotton/nylon blends, DWR waterproofing, and a style/trim that works in the office, out on the town, or even hiking. I jumped on that bandwagon last year …
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 10:57 PM
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To be accurate, Obama got it 9 months into his first term in office, so his penchant for drone strikes and destabilizing middle eastern countries had not quite occurred yet. This makes his award even more laughable because he literally did nothing to deserve it. He was just a biracial man who talked a good game, got elected, and was handed the Nobel peace prize.
/r/MGTOW30/01/21 02:00 PM
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The ratio of men to women on these apps is heavily skewed. They have to make it as welcoming as possible for women, or the whole rotten structure will cave in when women no longer sign up. In other words, women are overly sensitive and lack accountability (as always) -- but they are becoming increasingly fat and unappealing to the male eye. They have to shift their business model to accommodate the fact that the average woman weighs more than 170 lbs, and men will simply have to settle for slump…
/r/MGTOW30/01/21 01:54 PM
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It's important to remember that Orwell was fiercely anti-imperialism/capitalism well before he wrote on the authoritarian takeovers of leftwing movements. You should read his writings on Burma and 'The Road to Wigan Pier', which was a lamentation on the brutal working conditions of capitalism (at that time), and the social decay it was bringing. He's one of those odd historical characters that many political groups continue to try and claim as their own, when I think he 'went his own way' in the…
/r/MGTOW30/01/21 01:25 PM
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Every note of female nature and entitlement is hit with the conversation. Men are not allowed by women (and society) to have standards; even reasonable ones like desiring youth/fertility. Women are largely unable to handle rejection in a mature way. They simply cannot taken an L, while most men learn to take L's early on in the dating world since it is their responsibility to approach and risk rejection. Delusion - Thinking that 27 is young for a woman in the dating world. It's not. Men of most …
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 06:33 PM
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Yep. Inserting the obligatory: "You can lose money chasing women; but you will never lose women chasing money."
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 06:06 PM
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This is by far the biggest point that goes right over women's (and leftist's in general) heads --- *MGTOW is not a movement* . It has no leader, no specified and dedicated aims per say (outside of risk management). It doesn't want to actively change society by forcing people to do what it wants; rather it wants to passively change it through voluntary withdrawal from parts of society that have a horrible risk to reward ratio. The opponents of it are releasing more and more videos on youtube call…
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 03:32 PM
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She was 36. She always dated alpha type bad boys and rode the CC throughout her teens and 20's. She was engaged to a different guy and cheated on him while they were living together. She ended up breaking off the engagement. Thankfully he never found out about the cheating. Once she hit the wall in her mid-30's and she couldn't attract the same caliber of men-- Surprise! -- She gets pregnant with a low value man, has their child, and marries him even though deep down she didn't want to. I first …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 12:34 PM
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Many people (men and women) behave this way because changing a viewpoint requires introspection, self-awareness, and sometimes the pain of admitting you might be wrong. Women in general struggle mightily with the bolded. Regarding herd mentality, there is interesting literature regarding 'War Brides' and how women go along with the pack as a survival mechanism. In other words, they can't physically defend themselves like most men are able to. Their only way to survive and continue their genetic …
/r/MGTOW13/01/21 12:02 AM
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Pro tip: Watching and observing your sister's behavior (especially if she is older than you) can Red Pill you well before you enter the dating market. I have 2 older sisters who are both divorced, overweight, nearing 40. Now that I am RP aware, I can see exactly how they operated and why each marriage ultimately failed. (They both initiated their divorces too, fwiw.) Particularly my oldest sister who just got divorced. Suddenly she is dropping little truth bombs that she kept secret all this tim…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 05:52 PM
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That one kills me lmao
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 02:12 AM
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Ohhh man that is the guy that made the divorce video a couple years ago. One of the classic "I focused on work to provide for my wife and kids and she left me" stories. He's getting more and more red pilled each year it seems.
/r/MGTOW27/12/20 12:36 PM
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This. Someone said something very poignant to me years ago regarding suicide. "Suicide doesn't take the pain away. It just transfers it to other people." Specifically, the people who loved you; especially children who depend on you. These kids are now going to grow up without a father, and may be traumatized by this for the rest of their own lives. This is why in the darkest of times you may be facing, you have to be honest with yourself in understanding what impact your suicide will have on the…
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 06:40 PM
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Pretty sure this guy is just doing this for attention and exposure so people will pay him to do speaking engagements and sign up for his amateur counseling sessions. Even if it is real and a cautionary tale regarding women, we need to be cognizant of the fact that he's just another player in the new online hustle economy; where attention and clicks are the currency of the realm.
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 04:21 PM
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These memes would resonate more if the people authoring them would work on improving their written English. I'm not trying to be pedantic, but when you are trying to make a nuanced point and you can't nail down your subject-verb agreements, then the audience may not take it as seriously as they should. BTW I am fully on point with the argument on the marker board. In fact, Milton Friedman and Thomas Sowell were dropping this truth bomb nearly 40 years ago on Donahue and William F. Buckley's "Fir…
/r/MGTOW02/11/20 08:22 PM
1

They definitely exist. It's just extremely rare for women to go into it. In fact, it's relatively rare for women to go into surgery in general, except for specialties that do surgery occasionally like OBGyn. Their biology dictates a lot of this decision making. Think of it in this timeline: Most med students graduate at 27 years old. Surgery residencies are typically 5 to 7 years. Those are prime baby making years for a woman, so if they leave residency to have a child it can delay things even m…
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 08:43 AM
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Let me get this straight: you're saying OP should have fucked this psycho?? This is literally the opposite of what he wrote. Read the last two paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 09:52 PM
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That is some SERIOUS TDS to make an out to lunch correlation such as that. Like what the fuck? I hear you. This is precisely why you should pretty much never discuss anything political with coworkers (even something innocuous like illegal immigration). Just think of it in terms of game-theory. Best case scenario: They go "Wow, I never thought of it that way. Thanks!" You change their mind and they think like you for the foreseeable future. Everyone kumbaya's and walks away; happily ever after. W…
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 10:39 PM
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I have systematically, 1 by 1, unsubscribed from almost every single default subreddit that I was forced into when I created my account. It is INSANE the amount of TDS that gets artificially upvoted there. News, Politics, 'nottheonion', you name it. Shit, even r/ART had a drawing of a diabolical Mitch McConnell today with 30k+ upvotes last time I looked before unsubscribing. A couple of weeks ago was a diabolical looking white 'Karen" with a black female holding a kitana ready to fight her off. …
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 10:33 PM
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Does anyone here actually feel "sucked into" this lifestyle? I think we all found our way here due to one thing or another, but we don't suck others into it. Exactly. People don't get sucked into red pill thinking. The way she put it makes it sound like there is some shady looking guy in an alley : \Pssst\** "Hey man, come here. I got this new drug called the 'Red Pill'. It explains female nature and after taking it you will become disenchanted by modern women, followed by anger, and then finall…
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 01:08 AM
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40% of female doctors and lawyers are not practicing 4 years after getting licensed I work in the medical arena. Not only do female doctors often leave the profession earlier than male doctors (mainly due to children or burnout), they generally work fewer hours while in the field. They also tend to go into lower paying specialties like Family Medicine and Pediatrics, and avoid the turbo salaried (but very difficult) fields like neurosurgery. I've literally never met a female neurosurgeon -- it's…
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 12:03 AM
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Yeah I pulled it from the front page of reddit today. Had 50k+ upvotes at the time.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 08:22 PM
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Took me a second to realize it was lamenting COVID lol.
/r/MGTOW19/10/20 12:14 PM
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Yeah, I'm in my 40s now and I think about all the hot girls I would have given my left nut for in my youth. They're just an astonishingly bad investment -- hot girls, that is. They depreciate rapidly over time, if you only value them for looks. Especially after children. Remember that hot fitness woman who had 4 kids but put in the work to stay fit , and posted "what's your excuse?" And it sent women into an apocalyptic rage? That type of woman is vanishingly rare. They have to put in so much ti…
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 09:59 PM
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no matter how much I miss the love of my youth, I’m not sure I would trade it for what I have gained within myself; and yet there are moments where this realization and power do not satisfy the pain that dream left behind. This is something almost all men have to contend with as we get older and more wise. As men, we are inherently problem solvers; and to solve problems means breaking them down into mechanical processes to see which parts failed, and then fix them. It unfortunately removes the m…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/20 02:56 PM
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There's a quote in this sphere of the internet that resonates with me to this day. "If you treat her like a celebrity; she'll treat you like a fan." You absolutely cannot pedestalize women. It doesn't build attraction. Quite the opposite, actually.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 01:42 PM
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I still remember when me and my group of friends met up with another friend we hadn't met for over a year. The last time we had met i had been beta. When we met up again, his first move was to try and disrespect me (he called me a name that previously used to rile me up and get a reaction out of me, precisely what he wanted). I smirked, and looked straight into his eyes without saying a word. Needless to say he deferred. And that set the tone of our relationship which to this date is now on my t…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/20 01:49 PM
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I think you are a flat out aggressive douche, and I would check you hard irl and set you straight. The fact that you just have to get the last word in your childish pissing contest speaks volumes about you.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 12:57 PM
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Let's see, 'babydick' 'hs girl', 'dumbass' 'dork', 'buzz off'. I think we're reaching the end of your vocabulary. The well is simply going to run dry. I'll save you the trouble of coming up with new ones. Thanks for playing; angry child.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 11:55 AM
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Oh man, it looks like I hurt his feelings. Sad. I've hit a point in my life where I start to read drivel like the above and I literally see incomprehensible gibberish. Just word vomit from a whining child. "gOt iT fUcK fAcE?". Ohhh man good one lmao. What's next? You're going to call me a cuck? Or a beta? I'll also butt in where and when I want to, thanks. "dOnT LeCtUrE tO mE" lmao.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 11:15 AM
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I play my role in society, dont lecture me or try to force your values on people. You're posting on a discussion board, man. He made his points clearly and concisely (which is more than I can say for some people here). This kind of umbrage adds nothing to the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 08:28 AM
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Facebook Reddit and YouTube have absolutely decimated the moderate Right's ability to organize online. I'm pretty sure the SPLC considers the MAGA hat a hate symbol and they worked overtime to get The_Donald banned before the election season, so all political discussion would happen under the supervision of the glue drinkers at я politics. Exactly. I mentioned to my father on a phone call the other day how so many right wing media personalities who were instrumental in getting then candidate Tru…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 12:41 AM
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Lol "I can merely show you the door, it's up to you to talk through it". Thanks for the trickle truth advice, Morpheus. I have some advice for you too. Ease up on the patronizing attitude. It's a shoddy way to try and make a point, especially when you're some random 3rd wheel jumping into a conversation that didn't involve you initially.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 01:22 AM
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This is fine but doesn't really get to what I was pointing out. The question was whether it was prudent or not to risk destroying your future to spread knowledge that many people will naturally reject like a transplanted organ. I understand that getting high enough status means you can eventually do that without consequences. However, getting to that level of status in the first place requires a tremendous amount of discretion. I've seen too many people obliterated from public and professional l…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 11:16 PM
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I think it's important to differentiate between freedom of speech/expression and freedom from the consequences of your speech. There's always been social and professional consequences for expressing yourself. 100 years ago, if you told people you were gay and supported gay marriage (and were sufficiently open about it), you could have easily been fired by your employer. In today's world, if you tell people the opposite (that you're against gays and gay marriage), the pendulum has swung so far th…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 03:51 PM
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Imagine being dumb enough to lose your job over articles you read on the internet because you can't keep your mouth shut regarding sensitive topics around people who are obviously offended by them. "You haven't reached true alpha status until a smoking crater is left where gainful employment once was".
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 09:49 AM
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The bottom line is that TRP knowledge, regardless of how true, is offensive to many people. People simply aren't prepared to hear it, even though it is verifiable. You will automatically be lumped in with misogynists, incels, creeps, etc. by many people if you walk around sharing TRP knowledge -- especially too much of it in one sitting. It's a great way to be ostracized from social groups. In other words; the truth is not a cudgel to be used against every problem people face. For instance, let'…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 07:25 PM
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Then girls just post a first bikini pic, some copy paste bio that every other girl has but she’ll get likes anyways. "Down to earth". "Fluent in sarcasm". "Work hard, play harder". "Looking for something 'real'". "I won't settle". "If you voted for Trump, swipe left!" They're universally uninteresting and repetitive. I swear the bios stay the same, and only the photos change.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 02:21 AM
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Do you take Whey protein ever? It's dairy. It's also a great way to supplement a healthy diet to make sure you're getting adequate protein/amino acids if lifting and strength training. I wouldn't be so quick to eliminate entire food subgroups unless you have some sort of underlying pathology or sensitivity to it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 08:10 AM
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"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit."
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 10:57 AM
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Being a sociopath (or like one) entails a lot more than simply being "selfish" or putting yourself first in decision making. Sociopaths are often pathological liars with a callous disregard for other people and an extreme lack of empathy. Even if they don't necessarily intend to hurt people around them, they inevitably end up doing so. It's a destructive personality disorder and I can't think of good reasons why anyone would want to be that, regardless of what letter in the Euclidean Alphabet th…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 09:54 AM
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Why would anyone want to be a benign sociopath; or even like one? It's ultimately a destructive personality disorder.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 12:39 PM
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Get it all out. This is crucial. Don’t let anything fester. If you need to talk to someone to get something off your chest, do it. It’s natural and healthy As someone who has been through numerous breakups (being the initiator and being on the receiving end - they both suck for different reasons), this is by far the most important part. You absolutely have to talk to someone about it, and if you can't, then express how you feel in another way like writing it down. You must not brood over it. It'…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 05:53 PM
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" So I was sort of third wheeling but being the Redpill alpha I am , I knew I could easily just pickup another girl at the bar so I wasn’t worried." ​ Who honestly writes like this? People at the top of a hierarchy don't need to announce their status, they exhibit it through action. It's insecure. " I flirted back with her just to see how far she would go.." ​ Look. Either agree to be a wing-man and help your buddy out, or don't. If he utterly screws his chances and goes down in flames, you pick…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 05:58 PM
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We learned that he doesn't handle criticism or rejection well; at all. The delete and block was a defense mechanism that triggered.....a disproportionate response to the offense committed. He missed a golden opportunity when she reached out after feeling horrible. ​ There's a push/pull method at work. He succeeded on the push, and then forgot about the pull and pushed again lol.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:47 PM
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Surprised no one has been triggered yet by "Touché" since "Like It or not, English is the common language here. Please stick with it.". ;)
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 10:30 AM
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Early Christianity was more Christians being persecuted and fed to Lions, but I see what you're trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 08:53 AM
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This statement makes little sense and is typical of bro-logic seen on bodybuilding.com forums. It's akin to saying a Doctor treating cancer is less effective unless he himself has had cancer.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 06:09 PM
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That's an amazing analogy (unexploded ordnance), made me lol
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:45 AM
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This is a great juxtaposition.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 06:52 PM
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It's a good video, but I think the guy in it may be taking the quote "step 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Don't be unattractive" out of context a bit. That saying is used often on RP posts, and I was under the impression it was typically meant more as a call to action, and not as a "I'm blaming society for my problems". In other words; focus on improving yourself physically, mentally, and professionally to accomplish Step 1 and Step 2. It makes picking up women so much easier.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 02:29 PM
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round round/ verb gerund or present participle: rounding alter (a number) to one less exact but more convenient for calculations
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:07 PM
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Well if you look to Hollywood for examples you'll see Lot of older men go for women much younger than them. I think guys are just doing what they see their favorite male celebrity foing (sic). I mean look st Johnny Depp he married Amber heard when she was 28 and he was like 50 at the time? The easy description of the above female's rationalization is that her "hamster" is in overdrive -- but this is classic projection. She even chose "Johnny Depp" (a huge heartthrob for women) as an example of a…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:26 PM
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I live through this every day at work in Academia (on the administrative side). I am literally surrounded by office harridans. The kind of women with no professional ambition other than to lock down a university job for 30+ years so they can do mindless data entry and get below average pay but sweet benefits (medical, dental, vision, tuition remission for their kids). Then they cash out with a huge retirement package due to generous university matching. I'm contemplating writing my first TRP pos…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:10 PM
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This is true. I generally agree with much of what Stefan says, but Joe Rogan took him to task on this and Stefan actually retracted his statements on Robin Williams. The problem is that Stefan rushed out and made hasty conclusions regarding why Robin killed himself before all the evidence came out about his life circumstances at the time (he was back to abusing substances, and he was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease).
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:59 AM
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Lol 18 year olds peaking physically? Not even close man. On average, males peak in muscular and skeletal density between 25 - 30 years old. This is why professional athletes tend to hit their prime at that age range, and tend to decline after 30. They get slower, weaker, are more prone to injury, etc. If the female Olympic team played college aged hockey players, they would get obliterated even worse.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 07:21 PM
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It's your challenge to stay in control of yourself. Control your body posture, breathing, gaze, smile, gestures. Be witty when wit is called for. Be logical when logic is called for. Be stoic when stoicism is called for. This is great advice and also a great write-up of a prime example of someone holding frame in a difficult position. Although I would add that the comedian was smart in employing good situational awareness (SA) in how he handled things. He's in a comedy club in a literal spotligh…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 04:40 PM
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"Why would I want this from my deadbeat dad?” the youngster said. “If he really cared, he’d be here.”> You can tell the mother has poisoned the children against him. This is an extremely common tactic in any divorce involving children, unfortunately. The point is, he does care. He cares about his future well being and ability to not live as a debt slave the rest of his life. The mother created this situation -- not him.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:45 PM
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Ummm Switzerland made it through consecutive World Wars relatively unscathed, while the nations that were actively involved suffered horrendously. An entire generation of young men wiped out and destruction on an unprecedented level. FYI You may not want to reference Switzerland if you are trying to criticize the policy of neutrality.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 02:25 PM
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This girl should consider herself lucky she didn't blow $90,000 in student loan money with compounding interest. I know several girls (and guys) that are in crippling debt because they spent their college loan money on hard partying. I remember standing in line at my college bookstore and listening to a girl behind me saying she "can't wait for her FAFSA refund check so she can go shopping for a new wardrobe."
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 03:26 PM
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