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| 3 | Call 1-800- unpicked todayLost it when i realized she even got the Sarah McLachlan soundtrack right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Where's the lie?Ikr. Then she says “a disgusto barfo recipe”. So good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 7 | It do be like thatUnfortunately it doesn’t have so much to do with the thickness of the heel itself, but the fact that when you’re wearing heels, you’re spending an extended amount of time “off-balance”. I had actually never heard of it affecting feet. I had heard about it messing up your back, knees, lower leg muscles... If Kathpoes is a dancer, all these things are incredibly important. Here’s an article, because I feel like I’m not expressing myself well rn https://www.hackensackmeridianhealth.org/HealthU/2019… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:04 AM |
| 5 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Something extremely similar happened to my friend this year. I’m glad you’re here. She wouldn’t be open to FDS at all, I feel. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Women who are not similarly women-centered will take you for granted.I’ve been this manic friend. Very similar to what you describe, and in my case it was a cycle. I think you’re doing the right thing, to be honest. Let her come to you if and when she’s ready and more healthy, but other than that you have to take care of your own health and life first, especially since you did try to put in effort at first. It might take her years to “snap out of it” and it’s not necessary for more than one person to be wasting years from her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 3 | The trope of the broody, mysterious, damaged, bad boy who deep down just needs to be loved by a woman and he’ll be saved needs to die.The better solution is to start teaching kids critical thinking and better reasoning skills. Yes! Media studies or whatever they call it now needs to be much more widespread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:59 AM |
| 2 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!Giving them a taste of their own medicine. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 20 | FDS is for any womanSelf-respect is not just for people who are very attractive. Your time is valuable no matter what you look like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:29 AM |
| 8 | Since I left my abusive ex, I’ve lived in an all female household and I’ve unlearned so many harmful habits. Like I've learned it’s ok to have opinions on movies, books, and even activities. I’m making choices and participating in things I never would have considered otherwise.Extremely true and a huge signal to me that I’m not a HVW yet. I still have to unlearn my people-pleasing habits. I find it can be so subtle sometimes. I’ll catch myself listening to a guy and laughing and smiling at everything he says and this moment of realization will just come—“WHY?” There’s a fine line between being polite and sociable and fawning, but it’s there and it’s important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 5 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't.Alas, though he emerged victorious from the jungle, Tarzan was no match for his mum’s unfinished basement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 3 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't.Damn this is too real. “I love cooking and i’m good at it” = congealed sausages and pasta | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 3 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Holy shit. LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020Thank you for introducing me to this band! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:16 AM |
| 24 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.I’m not sure if i agree. The context of every family varies so much from one to another. You can have households at the same income level and the same neighbourhood with different results. One daughter gets raised by a SAH dad, she’s an only child, randomly suffers very little comments throughout life related to her being female — so she doesn’t relate to anything mentioning sexism, feminism etc. and finds feminists annoying. doesn’t understand it at all. Then next door you can have a daughter r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:18 AM |
| 3 | To counter the video I just had to endure, so GLAD to see sane women thriving!!Stupid little boy. So much potential, but potential is just that. This hits me especially hard. I feel this was my lesson this year. Went through something incredibly stupid and then found out about FDS a little while after. Potential is not reality. Potential is a dream, a puff of smoke. Those of us who have been daydreaming heavily all our lives need wake-up calls like FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:36 AM |
| 5 | This touched my soul. I'm hoping you ladies love it, too: "Ask Polly: Why Don’t the Men I Date Ever Truly Love Me?"I’m deeply sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:53 AM |
| 18 | A sermon I’d attendInstant classic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:31 AM |
| 2 | How does dating multiple people work?Love this. Well said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 3 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.i kept rereading that part to make sure I understood. What kind of ogre is she living with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???It is absolutely an addiction — and so can internet or social media be. Plenty of writing and research exists on the topic, but I still get laughed at when I assert this. I also don’t get taken seriously when I say that past a certain age, I find gaming unattractive. I find it childish. I’m a millenial, have struggled with addiction including the ones I mentioned and am working on myself — but people just laugh it off. As though I’m exaggerating. It’s just so ingrained in society so nobody sees … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Holidays make it easy to spot LVM. Thank goodness my pick me days of cooking a full thanksgiving meal so a LVM can drink, watch football, and nap are over.Ironic since what he’s doing now is definitely “doing it wrong” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Holidays make it easy to spot LVM. Thank goodness my pick me days of cooking a full thanksgiving meal so a LVM can drink, watch football, and nap are over.”the people cooking get angry when you ask” gee hmmmm hmpfh I wonder why | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:50 PM |
| 2 | We need more mothers like thisHonestly i’m glad you’re here reporting anything you see as well. I report so much weird shit I see here. Sometimes I feel bad because I think maybe i’m being too strict but... no. FDS is a strict place. So i’d rather the mods decide on anything that remotely sets off alarm bells in my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:31 PM |
| 17 | Vogue promoting FWB and age gap relationships to a probably 90% female audience - yikes.They’ve hardly changed. Perhaps they’re even worse now because they try to be woke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:36 AM |
| 12 | Why do older men think they’re just as attractive or more attractive than younger men? Why do they they think they can pull 20 year olds forever?LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 15 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.This needs to be in the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:52 AM |
| 3 | found while browsing tinder as a WOMAN looking for WOMEN exclusively 🤢 🤮Ladies, your comments are killing me. I’m just scrolling and wheezing here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 24 | I got married, queens! ❤Congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:10 PM |
| 6 | As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only.I love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | On a thread about facefucking... the last response is especially horrifyingIt’s interesting. Personally, I’ve found that... the internet... has had an effect on everyone, regardless of generation. But I guess there’s definitely something to be said with what someone grew up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:23 PM |
| 2 | On a thread about facefucking... the last response is especially horrifyingPlease share what this magic age range is :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Never ever, ever, ever.LOL. LOVE IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Damn right. Music is the best. 🎼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I relate to what you’re saying. It can be incredibly frustrating, and personally I think it’s even more so for tomboys. I’m a tomboy too — well, most of the time. ;) You will not only “learn to cope“ but learn instead to just love being you and doing what you like. Read the handbook and the books suggested in the reading list — pick out what applies to you and leave the rest (ie I’m reading a book from the list and the author says something like “men like french manicures” and i’m like “i don’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Being a LVM is a lifestyle choice.I hear you. And in the end... we don’t need to waste time analyzing this guy. ;) But just fyi — remember that addiction can be addiction TO anything. It’s more a description of what’s happened in your brain. It can be substances of any kind or behaviour of any kind. I recommend reading more about it, it can be pretty interesting and help in multiple ways even if you don’t suffer from it yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Me @ my ex who always needed homework help😘👍 between the one burly guy turning purple and yelling a time sheet and the other throwing a chair, it has to be shared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Being a LVM is a lifestyle choice.I’ve seen it happen to myself as well as others, so in a way it’s a bias of mine to just see it everywhere. But it’s incredible how it doesn’t matter exactly what it is you’re addicted to — heroin, video games, social media, corn pops, licking windows, making piles of books on your floor, doing squats idgaf — the pattern, 99.999% of the time, resembles this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 7 | Being a LVM is a lifestyle choice.🤔 I wonder if he developed an addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Me @ my ex who always needed homework helphttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3y0bQYDA9Vw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:00 AM |
| 8 | My soulmate married someone else. Am I wasting my life waiting for him?Agreed. The whole concept has to do with it going both ways, it being a mutual thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 01:26 AM |
| 25 | Warning from a woman in the military.Just chiming in that the Canadian military also has the same issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 01:21 AM |
| 4 | What sex/hook up experience helped catalyze your FDS ideals?MOTORBOATING THE PUSS I’M 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:39 AM |
| 5 | What sex/hook up experience helped catalyze your FDS ideals?That’s repulsive. They really expose themselves and how little they think of others when they pull shit like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Tell me why you don't chase anyone anymore.Thank you for posting. I relate to what you’ve written. There are some friends I’ve stopped “chasing” because of the way they responded when i was experiencing grief. It’s a strange sort of hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Men unloading unprocessed trauma on women: is therapy? 🥺👉👈I've heard that one too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Men unloading unprocessed trauma on women: is therapy? 🥺👉👈The number of comments from dudes telling her that she should realize that dating is hard for men is astounding So dating is easy for women? So something being difficult is an excuse to have a meltdown on someone? jfc people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:48 PM |
| 6 | Men unloading unprocessed trauma on women: is therapy? 🥺👉👈They hardly ever want therapy, especially if they have girlfriends and female friends they can unload on. They might mention they tried it once for a while and then once you're in the "mask falling off" stage and you tell them they need to start going again you get shit like "idk I didn't feel like it helped much". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 10 | Men unloading unprocessed trauma on women: is therapy? 🥺👉👈Tbh I think many of them believe it's something we like doing (listening to the troubles of others) I don't do this because I like it and it makes me feel good. I do this when I care about someone and want to make them feel better. If they do it every time they talk to me, they're taking advantage of my kindness. They are taking my offer to listen for granted. I don't put up with that anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:28 PM |
| 8 | Uh, sure guy. Men are victims more than women 🙄🙄I still don’t get it 😬 guess it’s time to look into a Statistics for Dummies book lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:48 AM |
| 16 | Dinner Date ConvertI love this... I think i’m going to print it out and use it for personal inspiration for my own growth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:37 PM |
| 86 | Imagine, your country found your gender so worthless when you were born, your peers were left in ditches to die. Now there's a surge in single lonely men in China & it's your fault for not settling. Oh and a red pill moron is making an example out of you. 😡Some kidnap women and girls from other countries, who do not speak their language, and forcibly marry them. It’s crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020But you’re the one who put your new knowledge to use. 👏🌟you’re awesome. I’m glad you’re okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:23 PM |
| 6 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeIt’s one of mine too! Thank you. I’m about to read it again, actually. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:14 PM |
| 25 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeI liked that you mentioned that. Maybe I wouldn‘t have said it exactly the way you did, but I see those comments here too from young women who have yet to purge “i have to be an instagram facetuned 19 year-old to get a HVM” too and I think it’s good that you mentioned it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:00 PM |
| 9 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Imagine if women grew up believing that men cum from having their balls slapped. 😂😂😂 you got me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:40 PM |
| 7 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”And they portray that objectification as liberating. They portray it as "healthy and wholesome". It's twisted. Thanks for posting this, by the way, I've felt like this for quite some time but didn't know how to express it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Yep, and they've done this for thousands of years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Exactly! There's so much knowledge out there at our disposal. And you don't even have to tell anybody you read it or practiced on your hand or a pillow or whatever it took. A SIMPLE HOW-TO ON HOW TO BE A GOOD LOVER Research, read, study these books and websites. No porn, no onlyfans. We're looking for facts, not a performance. With your newfound knowledge, take your lady to bed. Go very slow. Listen to how she reacts. Ask her "do you like that? How's that" softly, LIKE FIVE TIMES MAX. Do not bad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Interesting! Can you please DM me more about this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Also... there are books written on this topic. There's a wealth of information out there, not on onlyfans, not in porn. Women's pleasure existed before social media/the internet. Dumb as shit for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Yeah. The related attitude that a woman is going to waste because she isn’t getting fucked is something I also hate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:03 AM |
| 9 | Discussing feminism with men who don't want to understand is a total waste of timeNo Scrubs is THE anthem for FDS to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!BAHAHA great picture! Even now, though. I’d group every guy you named into a category of his own, not even in those two groupings! (And my own tastes are so particular, I don’t find any of them attractive in the romantic sense.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:26 AM |
| 13 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!So true. That cliché about “in the eye of the beholder” is pretty accurate. Crazy the amount of times I’ve disagreed with others on what I consider beautiful/who I consider attractive, or have witnessed other disagree among themselves. Societal pressure and culture accounts for some of what we consider beautiful, but I feel like many people grow out of it to a certain extent, especially as they grow themselves and learn to be more secure in their own tastes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:26 PM |
| 24 | If he gets it in 1920, he has no excuse in 2020.Love the quote. He was definitely a disaster of a NVM but I can still appreciate whatever “good” he was able to produce. Loads of artists I admire unfortunately fall into this category. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:19 PM |
| 10 | Of course there are people in the comments saying things like “why shouldn’t a woman propose to a man?“Although I don’t think I entirely agree with you, I think I get what you’re trying to say. In a healthy relationship, a couple regularly checks and discusses where they’re going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Are we getting the message through?Like lets be real, allowing girls to alter their uniforms to be more revealing isn't really a win in my eyes. These girls have been brainwashed to compete for the male gaze and are pursuing shorter skirts as a result, and surprise surprise the boys are in on it. Bingo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Are we getting the message through?I completely agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 6 | "It's wrong to expect men to provide for you! Men are under so much pressure to provide, it's not faaaair! pAtRiArChy hUrTs mEn tOo!"Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 7 | Are we getting the message through?What does this have to do with FDS? And what message do you mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:19 AM |
| 9 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.Your story just gave me a flashback of when one of my coworkers in retail had a stalker customer and when she finally lied and said “i have a fiancé” to get him to stop he threw a temper tantrum and ruined a bunch of displays/half an aisle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 12 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.Re: your dad’s dumb comment. They just don’t get it, do they? My mother was followed while out jogging. She was chubby and in her fifties. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:21 PM |
| 8 | Story of my 1 year life transformation thanks to all of you amazing ladiesThis is so good, I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:13 AM |
| 26 | FDS is anti polyamoryFDS focuses on maximum female benefit in relationships. It is not focused on whether something should be illegal or not. It’s personal development and dating advice, not activism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Where is the lie though???? I think you mean libfem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Asian Standard for men vs. Western Standard in movies and TV.I’m sorry, but I don’t agree at all. Just because you saw it in a drama/daytime show/romantic movie doesn’t make it true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 20 | Question - can you have male friends?Exactly. I feel like you answered your own question, StudentNo. “This has happened three times now and makes me think I should not have male friends, as males simply cannot see a female as just a friend.” You can be friendly/civil but i’ve found that trying to be actual friends and confiding in each other is a useless effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:56 AM |
| 4 | The gender of humorSAME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Thought I found a HVM, then I told him no to hanging out on weekend, explained I’m only comfortable socializing about three times a week to keep my social battery happy...Thank you! Something was bothering me about “rebellion” and I couldn’t put my finger on it 🔥🔥🔥💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:03 AM |
| 9 | Cracks me up EVERY time.Thank you for posting this. Read some comments here and was like LADIES... most men are LVM. That applies WORLDWIDE! Don’t be fooled by pop stars, come on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Tbh I read “someone who can take my sarcasm” on dating apps as “imma be an asshole to you. Accept that” Is it just me?On Line Dating :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:28 AM |
| 0 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?All i’m trying to say is (1) everyone has their little weird beliefs or lapses in critical thinking, whether it’s astrology or something else (2) things that were a part of culture for a long time tend to take a long time to go away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:35 AM |
| 0 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Everyone has their blind spots/little beliefs and superstitions that make no sense. Astrology is just a big one because it’s been propagated by popular culture worldwide for so long. It was also considered part of science for many centuries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:25 AM |
| 3 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Exactly what i was thinking as i’m going through this thread 😂😂 i’m like ”every sign is getting mentioned...” LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:04 AM |
| 5 | "Men age like fine wine" Sean Penn, 59, and Leila George, 28 just got married. There are no words.LMAO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:11 PM |
| 11 | Sneak attacksI am imagining a 50 year old man licking your face and it’s killing me 😂 what was going on in that brain of his? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Reminder: LVM don't like it when you have a support systemWas this guy a pure lunatic? Because he sounds like a pure lunatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Most shocking responses from r/seduction I've seen👏 well said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:36 PM |
| 9 | There’s no other reason🎶BAAAARB THE BUILDER🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:24 PM |
| 52 | Anyone else watching the Indian Matchmaker show on Netflix. Wasn’t sure how to “flair” this one!I adored Ankita the entrepreneur. She concluded she was happy focusing on herself and her job. And her dad was clearly a HVM who loved her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:08 AM |
| 6 | Gigi Engle and Suzannah Weiss wrote back to back articles in Men’s Health on how to choke us out. “Feminist” writers pandering and promoting sexualized violence to men has got to stop.Ikr. is vanilla sex now the most extreme of all? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:53 AM |
| 3 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you thisPretty much the same for me! I read the first few chapters and I was like 😲🧠💥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:53 AM |
| 5 | BasicallyI’m loving this. Happy for you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Men stop putting in an effort, and then are perplexed when you’re no longer cheery, feminine and enthusiastic about sex.Loved reading this! 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:13 PM |
| 25 | BasicallyWhere did you meet this rare gem? 😂 I’m overhauling my own habits and am looking for others who are barely on the internet/TV/smartphone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Are men really biologically hardwired to want to look at other women?Part of the beauty of being human is not being subservient to every single biological urge we have. 👆👆👆👆👆👆👆 YES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:46 AM |
| 6 | Grown Ass Men Ending Marriages Over Porn & Anime Women.he's losing me and my family that were a HUGE support system to him, more than they should've been Yet he didn't work to maintain, improve, or keep those relationships. He took it for granted. You don't need this in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:01 AM |
| 26 | LVM and shaving- Keeping it trimmed is the way to go, imo. “Natural, but neater” is what I like for both me and others, male or female. - I find it looks strange for adults to be completely bare down there. People are free to do it, but it’s not my thing. Nor is full untrimmed growth though. It’s all up to taste and yes, I think being a porn addict in the year 2020 does very much affect one‘s tastes. - Whenever I hear or read someone go “completely bare because I hate the hairs in my mouth”, I find it hard to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 11 | What's YOUR Worst LVM Story?Holy moly. Reading this was like watching a thriller. Every time I started a new sentence I was telling myself “it can’t get worse” but it did 😂 thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 06:33 AM |
| 8 | Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.”The thing is, i’m sure there are plenty of other activities that help surgeons develop better hand-eye coordination besides video games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Look how far you’ve come!!! 🔥Amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:25 PM |
| 6 | Can you pay my bills?This entire record is amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:20 PM |
| 2 | cool story broTHAT LAST ONE 😂 🔥🔥🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:57 PM |
| 22 | Not to spill your secrets to menThis is interesting. I have a few questions I'd like some opinions on. Is it ever safe to talk about these things? Say you think he's a HVM and you've been with him for 2-3 years. Edit: For example, what you mentioned, being a virgin. Two years later, you admit that he was your first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Attacking and abusing women who share their stories of rape and abuse here on this sub is unacceptable and you will be bannedI agree. I apologize that my comment was unclear. I don't think this place is to "hate men" at all. I just think people are joining without informing themselves of what this place actually is, and then posting their shitty posts/comments. They probably hear about it in the first place from some guy complaining about it and then come here and can't be arsed to inform themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:05 AM |
| 16 | Attacking and abusing women who share their stories of rape and abuse here on this sub is unacceptable and you will be bannedYes, I think people are just coming here as a place to post 'general man-hate memes', whether these memes are actually FDS or not. But it's their loss. It's made clear by the mods that the handbook is required reading and that if you give the impression of not having it read it, you will be banned. This is written all over the place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 12:40 AM |
| 178 | cool story broHmmm. This one ain't working for me. I can't put my finger on it. - All of these are positive stereotypes, I feel, because they're associated with men? And are seen as "wow look at how capable men are, able to do all these useful manly things! So strong! So clever!" - Whereas "shut up and make me a sandwich" or "get back to the kitchen" is pretty much the only one used against women and is used in the tone of "this is the ONLY thing you're good for". - So many men don't know how to do these thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 11:57 PM |
| 17 | They start young...It's funny, I was thinking again last night about similarly conflicting things with my male family members, stuff that's happened there, family history. Not the same situation as yours, of course. But similar in the "This is a problem with no solution. This is just how things happened and are. How do I deal?" way. Have you tried any counselling and therapy for yourself (ie. talking to a professional about how to deal with this)? What sort of "self-help" research and reading have you done? Have y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:19 PM |
| 11 | Tinder LVM strike again with their terrible pick-up linesHoly shit this sounds very similar to at least two men I've met recently. It's sad. Like get off the internet and get a personality, my friend edit: realized there was more than one person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:03 PM |
| 65 | They start young...I'm so sorry. That's horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:55 PM |
| 18 | Love yourself ladiesYeah, I agree. That, and all I could think was "but I don't like toxic men with good dick at all. Which means I should hate myself?" 🤔 lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Another day, another “I wasted my life waiting for him to propose” post. We need a Forever Girlfriend flair 🤦🏻♀️The "but how can you know for sure?" reply always kills me a little. The same way that a person who wants kids knows for sure, friend. Not that hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | That should go really well.Everyone's comments are killing me, you're all hilarious 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:32 PM |
| 3 | That should go really well.If only I had a billion dollars so I could fill every seat with a TIM. And then two seats for you and me so we could watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | That should go really well.Oh my god this made me yell from laughter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The dangers of a "hoe phase"Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:08 PM |
| 12 | The dangers of a "hoe phase"men can’t get tested for herpes which is incurable I didn't know this. Now I'm like "should I ever have sex with a man again?" LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 01:10 AM |
| 11 | The dangers of a "hoe phase"It's so weird to me. I feel like it should be the main concern. Yet the "it only happens to other people" attitude prevails | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 01:08 AM |
| 11 | The dangers of a "hoe phase"I found out what I liked through education/research/voracious reading and solitary experimentation, NOT through sex with others. Learn to give yourself pleasure and you win--knowledge really is power! All this casual sex and "sex positivity" stuff is bullshit imho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 01:04 AM |
| 4 | Glamour publishes “kink” manual and almost 100% of the Kinks described in are centered around normalizing Degradation, Objectification, Infantilization, and Abuse. Why is kink synonymous with abuse or disassociation with our bodies? Female sexuality is more than this and we deserve better.Agreed, tbh I find all fashion/women's mags to be shit. Can't believe the shit that's peddled to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:36 AM |
| 6 | The importance of having a rostermen only understand consequence love it, thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | When he hits you with the “wyd?” at 11pmPREACH. 👌👌💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:51 PM |
| 27 | Ladies, please raise your expectationsIt almost sounds like he thought this was romantic LOL. Like no, friend, she can't hear the soundtrack playing in your head or see the movie montage you're dreaming of as you have your little realization and rush up the stairs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:27 AM |
| 18 | If he meets the most basic adult human requirement, he deserves the world 🥰🤢Someone else in another thread said "the bar is in hell" and I think that's fantastic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | “Vent to me about trashy men you’ve met. Talk to me about racism oh I’m white and moderate btw. Ok now can i get into your pants?”Same, I'm pretty centrist, but as with everything we can't take people's word for it I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 12:11 AM |
| 3 | I had a phone screen with a LVM — always ask if he has kidsHis approach is to try to trick her with charm and then later reveal the shitshow that is his pathetic life. I need this framed so I remember it. I fall into this trap all the time, whether it be for romantic relationships or friendships. Most recently happened last month. The entire process happens so fast in hindsight too... I’m too old to be this gullible, smh at myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 06:11 PM |
| 29 | Incels/Mgtows in a nutshellThey hate pretty men, too. The insecurity is surreal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: men/women who are willing to meet while in this pandemic are TRASH. -not my convo-Maybe it's hard to type much when you've only got one hand free. This made my day. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 04:51 PM |
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