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Yes, I see a problem in you changing your current state for future plans. Do not make yourself completely dependable until you are actually married. And stay in the present moment. I personally also think that women should maintain some level of financial independence because you can never ever know what awaits you in the future. Let the past few years be a lesson for you, and I am not suggesting he might leave you, but ANYTHING can happen, he may lose all his money and job, he may ... I hope no…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 04:23 PM
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I am 30 now, and my face changed a lot from when I was 22. Not anything dramatic, but just to let you know, you will still be changing. I live in a place where literally every 2nd girl has done a nose job, everyone is hairy so they spend thousands of dollars and endure a lot of pain to remove that hair permanently. I have even tried lip fillers just to know what's like to have a bit puffy lips. So, honestly, natural beauty and femininity is amazing if you have it, but if you don't, what are you …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 05:03 PM
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Being nice to the people you love usually has a positive effect on your own mood as well. It's a shame not many people understand this. Nothing in the world is more important than enjoying and appreciating the small moments with loved ones.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 04:43 AM
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I have no idea what you are going through, but I know that anxiety can come from living in the past or the future. Right now you are prioritizing the thoughts of the past plans and the future scenarios over the present moment. So, you get scared and anxiety kicks in. Try stopping yourself when you go there, bring yourself back to the present moment, and ground yourself there. Don't let your mind wander off, discipline it like you are its teacher. One day at a time. You will worry about the futur…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/21 02:26 AM
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I'm not a Catholic or very religious, but I come from a culture that also highly values virginity. I don't value it much, it's a personal choice, but I respect yours. And since I have encountered many people back home thinking like you, here's what I think from loooong conversations with them: If it's a gift you want to give to someone, then it's a gift, not a trade. If the condition of you giving the gift is to get one back, then it's trade. Do you want trade or you want to follow your values r…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 08:59 AM
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Ya no, I don't agree with it and I think it's not the truth. It may be a cultural difference, but in my environment, women stick to their men even when they become poor or ugly or fat, till the very end. But love is very romanticized in my country and it doesn't go around the hookup culture like in some Western countries, i.e. serious relationships mostly don't start with a hookup. Add to this women's upbringing, of how we should work hard not to allow ourselves be used, because men want to use …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/20 10:24 AM
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I mean, it's hard to take rejection and bitterness often leads to finding external excuses and putting blame on others, There should be balance in everything.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 09:18 AM
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Hmmm, I know I am probs writing this in the wrong sub, I don't consider myself a follower of any of the pills, so hope I won't get banned. BUT, when I love a man, I will go ANYWHERE in the world for him. And I will also make sure I learn my lessons and do my best to let myself fall in love with responsible, intelligent, and hard working men. Love does exist, although it depends on each person's understanding of love. So, if some ppl think love is resources, then yes, for them, love is resources …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 10:03 PM
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Ya, I know everything you are saying, all accurate.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 06:08 PM
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Exactly, and while women get told that ALL MEN WANT IS SEX, and that they will use her and then leave her without marrying her, women develop a traumatic approach to sex as something bad, as if she is being used in it, and is not even supposed to get pleasure from it. Broken lives, but strong families :D Most importantly, everything looks good from the outside.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 02:41 PM
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Sure, I come from a culture that considers a girl's virginity a vital criterion for marriage (Madonna-whore complex). It's the standard conservative jazz .. "purity," "virginity makes you a saint," "virginity means a girl is smart cause she didn't sleep with anyone and is waiting for a quality guy who will marry her," etc. This makes the girls reject any sexual advances, even with a boyfriend or a fiance, UNTIL they are married. They wait and wait, then they get married, go to honeymoon, he says…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 07:34 PM
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I see what you are saying but I actually meant patience after the first time. And since virgins can't be vetting guys every time .. cause next time they will not be a virgin, it's extremely high stakes anyways. Not worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 02:40 PM
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I am sorry I didn't read the whole thing but not every guy treats a virgin girl with patience ... some of them do it for the first month, and then start complaining and whining that she is not adventurous or flexible or skilled enough. They create the problem and then they feel bad because of it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 12:59 PM
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it's not that it's creepy, it's just suspicious. Like, what are you hiding? It's ok if you don't have Instagram, but why not have Facebook, or Linkedin, or anything that will connect you to the world. If I meet someone that doesn't have social media, i never really say wtf or wow you have to have instagram, but i just resist trusting the person until i know what their deal really is. Most often, the person does have social media but is not telling you because they have a gf or a bunch of other c…
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:54 AM
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I think the whole point of feminism, or what it should be at least, is to give you the option to be what you want to be. And if that's being more feminine, focusing on family life, or your house, then that should be okay! I repeat, feminism shouldn't be about making women more manly, it's about giving the women that WANT to be more "manly" the right to be so. We should embrace all kinds of diversity, including those who prefer classic femininity. So, I say don't give a damn about what today's so…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 09:20 PM
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that's why I say healthy and intelligent people ... in my understanding, those are the people who know what they REALLY want and what they are prepared to compromise on for it (people usually come with a package), whether they are long-term virgins or people with high N counts. It doesn't always work out for everyone, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:05 AM
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They are just setting themselves up for failure and a reason to be mad about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:54 PM
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can i ask where are you from? And I agree with you, some men think women have the superpower to see how special a man is in 1-3 dates without having many failed experiences in the past. We are geniuses like that :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:53 PM
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You will definitely need to prove to her that you are that special for her. And that takes way more than a few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:50 PM
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Many women with low N counts that I know will not only make a guy wait for months, but will also test him out to see if cares for her, if he is this and that, if he is a gentleman (and this includes paying for dates), if he is honest, if he is after a relationship and not just casual sex before they sleep with him. People here sometimes forget that low N count women also have a ton of filters man have to go through, but very often men WILL confuse that with the woman using them. (Not talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:48 PM
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Lol, where I live, both those stereotypes are still in use.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:42 PM
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so it's really a self-validation thing. They want to see in the woman's behavior that they were so great that this 30-year-old, beautiful and sexy virgin woman wanted them, and only them so much that she gave in after the 1st (or possibly 3rd) date ... and also paid for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:39 PM
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I agree with you, first I came here and got very angry about certain posts, and then I went to the female dating subs and saw what some women are writing and ... oh man... all the same crap. Healthy and intelligent people will always find each other, and people looking for men to use for meals and men looking for women to be virgin porn stars will keep meeting each other... the cycle never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:36 PM
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I don't understand what you want to say, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:09 PM
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That is bs. Feminism is huge for a reason. Women can be housewives, career women, single, married, nerdy, shy, sporty, tomboyish, etc, etc. No. Feminism is very new. We will see its real effect on women's upbringing only in the next generation. ​ If they hate makeup, they do not have to wear it. Yes, they don't. But women are pressured to be pretty. And not every woman is born naturally pretty. The amount of fakeness makeup adds to a woman's life is indescribable, to a point where you are no lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:51 PM
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I didn't say it was your opinion, just shared mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:15 PM
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then why do they have good enough wifi to be able to post here! Someone cut it off!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:03 PM
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While women are loved for who they are. I guarantee you that women are not loved for who they are. They are loved ONLY when they act like a lady, dress well, look pretty, know how to cook, can have babies, have low N count or are virgins YET somehow know how to pick and choose men (based on what skill, I wonder), bla bla bla. Men have more opportunities to be who they want to be, then women who are constantly corrected on their behavior from childhood. Man, some women are not even wearing their …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:59 PM
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very well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:56 PM
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To be fair though, so do women. Many have the unrealistic expectation that every man must find your shoe, bring it back, fight an army, waltz with you, then slay a dragon, and only then have sex with you. It's the responsibility and function of every adult to differentiate between real life and fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:55 PM
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i am just curious, do you really believe that the people on both sides of that discussion are somehow sane and have common sense before you posted this? Have you read so much of it here that you are actually now thinking that most men and women think that way? My impression is that people posting that shit here are bitter for some reason, and they are just venting and feeding their negative emotions, it's bizarre, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:51 PM
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I did not confirm your point. Don't misrepresent what I said. Otherwise, you are just proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:01 PM
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How broad are you generalizing? All women are not like that, there are cultures where the woman will stand by her man's side no matter what happens (the West is not the entire world). I have been in a situation where a man's financial situation hasn't affected my commitment. What DOES affect commitment is a lack of ambition and willingness to fix things, in both women and men who are lazy to improve their life. Another major drawback that may affect a woman's commitment is the hurt male ego when…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:22 PM
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I don't know about the media but I see a lot of women like that around me, they do help their men and support them through financial troubles so maybe it's just your circle of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:26 AM
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Did you just invent the wheel? Women are physically weaker than men?! Damn right we would be just as physically violent as men if we had the physical power.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:53 PM
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I mean, men in packs are also scary :D no one should ever take an initiative having their pack by their side. That's very predatory. I mean you can definitely read some of the seduction subs here, just be careful not to feed your insecurities with some of the things men say there. Remember to stay human and enjoy whatever comes your way.
/r/seduction01/12/19 11:53 PM
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True!
/r/seduction01/12/19 10:29 PM
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not everyone obviously, but some of the very "inexperienced" men will stare to study me, observe what I do, and what my reaction will be when I look at them and we have eye contact. But then again, I don't live in Western society so the culture is playing a big role here.
/r/seduction01/12/19 10:28 PM
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It definitely would! I would be doing it all the time, in fact, I love taking the initiative! BUT ... since guys are not used to it YET, they usually give you a weird look ... like, this chick psycho or what? :D so adhering to the indirect ways is safer for the guys you don't know.
/r/seduction01/12/19 10:26 PM
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this is very true.
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:19 PM
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Can I weigh in here? Sometimes I glance at men at the bar (only because I am scanning the area for friends and people I know). Those men are staring at me with the hope to catch a long glance, but what they get is usually an accidental eye contact (since they are already staring!), they decide to approach, some are very persistent, some are rude so it eventually ruins my night. So, here's a tip from me, one glance might not be enough, try to catch her looking at you 2 or more times.
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:19 PM
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yes, if i was a guy thinking that way though, I would be careful. Friendly advice from a woman, we've all been raised with idolized bullshit like if he is crazy enough for you he will wait until you are ready, if he loves you, he will do this and that, if he is the right one, he will come back bla bla bla. And most of us grow up and find out that life is more complicated than that. So a woman who is crazy enough for you to just get naked and get over the courting stage might be a male version of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:51 AM
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exactly, there you go, you can walk away, it's your right to want what you want, but you can't be bitter that the woman wants to take her time with you, just because at some point in her life she had casual sex. The original post is generally very dumb, and I see so much of it in this sub that I sometimes wonder if those guys have zoomed into their insecurity sooo much that they lost connection with the reality. Other than that, I agree with you, if you want it fast, and she is not giving it to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:39 PM
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I love this post. It's paranoia, constantly comparing yourself with your partner's exes and blaming your partner for your own insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:09 PM
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dude, you sound like a guy bargaining in some Middle Eastern market. Women have different priorities at different times in their lives, and they can change their priorities and go from casual sex to looking to settle down, and they will also change how quickly they will give up the goodies. You do it too, but in your case, "the goodies" is the commitment. So, no you are not entitled to getting sex as soon as others have, just like women are not fast-food restaurants giving out burgers that you "…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:12 PM
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If you had the option to land a sex goddess, you would be too busy with her and not be typing this here on Reddit, this post reeks of insecurity and anger. You are not forced to stay with a woman who doesn't sexually satisfy you, the society doesn't force it on you, or the women. There is no need to excessively label it as using women as sex holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:29 PM
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Ya, I don't think I would ever agree to that, but then again, I may be in the wrong sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 09:01 PM
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What if a woman has a high sex drive (or wants to improve their skills). Would you recommend them to enter relationships to have regular sex and keep the body count down, despite the fact that the relationship itself may not be a good one? What is the solution there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 10:38 AM
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Just out of curiosity, what is the acceptable max body count for a woman and a man for you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 07:43 AM
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I mean, the equality thing is understood differently by everyone, and unless we all have equality laws in all countries, it's going to remain a big mess. What I wonder is IF you really did like the girl for a relationship and, say, she already made plans with you for the second date, would you be okay paying for her dinner? Or it would still be a useless cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:28 PM
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this got me thinking, would you want to pay for the dinner on a first date if you were told/knew that you do have a chance of a relationship with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:23 PM
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The climate is different because it's not a personal, private emotion. We tend to act differently with romantic emotions. But I guess you are right, it's usually the other person that wants to tell everything they want to tell ... BUT, you do this a few times, then you regret doing it a couple of times, then you start thinking WHY you want to say what you want to say before actually saying it. Self-analysis will often help you exit with more dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 10:00 AM
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A lot of women are missing the point that knowing or not knowing are not really decisive factors for someone to care. Even if he knows, or even if he doesn't know, he will not care because he is not attached to you anymore, doesn't care, or he doesn't want to. Caring is not connected to knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:56 PM
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If you don't get a takeout, some other girl will! If I don't comment here, some other user will! man, this is complicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 11:38 PM
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I do the same thing, although I actually can't cook, but instead, I can sit all night and listen to a guy be emotional and express their insecurities and help them go through them and become better. For all other occasions, there's "takeouts."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 11:37 PM
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My flight mode activated just from reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:16 PM
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I am so curious where these stories come from. Could you share the country or region if it's not a lot to ask?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 07:48 PM
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Because it’s easier to bully a woman into submission and cripple her ability to be independent of men in society than it is to fight off competing males. This... just pushed ... so many nostalgic buttons. It's ringing Jingle Bells inside my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 01:41 AM
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Totally agree, just need to know that when going up to them :D
/r/seduction27/07/19 09:47 PM
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I recommend matthew hussey's videos for the quality game.
/r/seduction27/07/19 08:36 PM
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I feel like some men have self-esteem issues, ESPECIALLY when they are in the seduction environment, so you gotta think how making the first contact will chemically react to their self-esteem issue. They may like you, but they may also think what's wrong with you that you are talking to them (some of the self-loathing types, especially).
/r/seduction27/07/19 08:35 PM
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