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DebateHazelnutLattte/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:19 PM
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I am not surprised to see this. Sometimes it’s shocking to hear about people who are SA’d by multiple family members at separate points in their childhood but the genetic component can easily explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:50 AM
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That’s nice however I’m talking about this from the perspective of long term relationships and marriage. I don’t count casual sex as a marker of success in life because it goes against my values. Plus the majority of people can go out and find someone to sleep with if they really wanted to. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:48 AM
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I hope you can find God. Please pray for guidance. I pray that you have the confidence to tell this person how you feel and not overreact if you don’t get the end result you expect. She’s a human with normal human behaviours not an object to be analysed and studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:27 AM
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So every woman that gives a perspective that is different from yours is a sex worker or talking about sex work. Interesting. This is why I stopped reading this subreddit. Some of you need to seek genuine happiness outside of women and relationships. Or if that fails become a passport bro or do something to change your life cause this response is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:18 AM
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Sorry if that doesn’t fit your reality of relationships and life but relationships always involve sacrifice no matter what. Age is definitely a part of that. Has nothing to do with sex work or trafficking. A 20 year old marrying a 50 year old will 100% become a caregiver at an early age and will have to give up their healthy years to do that. That’s less likely to happen when a young person dates someone within their age bracket. It can happen but it’s statistically less likely. Whether that fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:06 AM
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He hasn’t even asked her out yet is talking about taking himself off the market for her lmao. I don’t believe for one minute that she sees the situation how he sees it. He gave himself away too easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:00 AM
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This is why so many women avoid holding casual conversation with men in public nowadays. She’s being friendly, nice and a bit flirty and you’re already talking about taking yourself off the market. Crazy. Jumping from 0 to 100 without a date yet. Relax. This is creepy. Plus when did 5ft9 become super tall that she’d struggle to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:57 AM
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It’s because many women have actually had experiences with older men while in their teens and early 20s and notice all the age based manipulation later on. “You’re so mature” and “we have so much in common despite our ages” makes me cringe in horror. If someone young wants to date an older person go ahead. But at least get something of value in return otherwise you’re wasting time. The younger person is always making a sacrifice when dealing with someone much older.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:43 AM
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There’s no hate. I actually believe that men should actively be looking for their future wives and dating married if that’s what they want. But most don’t and they usually travel to live out degen, perverted lifestyles that put vulnerable, impoverished, desperate women at risk. The intention is negative and you can tell by how they talk about women in their home country. But nowadays many of the ladies who date these men know the game and are tricking on passport bros so it’s not that easy or ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:21 AM
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The fact that he brought up something irrelevant to prove a point, proves your point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:05 AM
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This! If more men had this mindset they’d be better. The reality is that most MGTOW men are living in a revenge fever dream riddled with anger. They’re obsessed with women. If you’re genuinely not happy with the behaviour of women you should remove yourself from the dating pool entirely. Many women who are unhappy with men do this with ease.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 08:35 AM
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What about people who get married and divorced? Grass isn’t always greener. Plus your aunt can still marry. My grandma met someone in her late 70s and he was in his 80s. Why don’t you support your aunt in meeting a man that’s is in a similar situation? It’s actually much more common for men to feel despair at being single than women. Especially as they age. So it shouldn’t be impossible if she puts effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:53 PM
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I’ve noticed this pattern too. Most men only want kids if they’ve met a great person to have them with. Otherwise the urge isn’t there. This response is from the fact that a lot of men on Reddit haven’t had that experience yet. I do think there are just people who do want kids for whatever reason but Reddit has a massive skew.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:20 AM
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Interesting viewpoint! Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:57 PM
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This! Legit blaming women for issues other men create.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:50 PM
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I’ve noticed this pattern which is why I made this post. Never had this issue when I’ve posted similar content as a woman on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:50 PM
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Why do men treat other men so badly then argue with women about being ignore and feeling subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:27 PM
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What’s a 304. Sounds stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:50 AM
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If you remove societal expectations and morality, I genuinely believe many men in their 50s would date a 20 yo. Only men who have high emotional intelligence would understand why this is weird even if you are able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:00 AM
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Or maybe it’s hard to quantify people’s looks based on top 5% or 15% etc. everyone’s idea of attractiveness is different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:44 AM
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This isn’t true. Do you even know any women? Getting dates paid for is mostly about dating strategy not how attractive the woman is. An average looking woman in corporate that surrounds herself with high achieving men is more likely to go on nice dates than an above average hospital worker with lower dating standards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:42 AM
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lol @ “the son”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:57 AM
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No I wish I could find a man that has feelings for me and the love will be mutual :( I’m starting to give up on finding love
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:11 PM
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Many men have options and don’t talk about women like objects. But anywayyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:25 PM
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It’s definitely sex tourism. I lurk on their subreddit and it’s 100% reminiscent of men who pay for sexual encounters. They talk about women like they’re selecting food off a supermarket shelf. There are also certain demographics of men that are more likely to pay for sex that are much more active there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:48 AM
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I want to see it too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:26 AM
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10000% it seems like men seem to forget this when men having kids older it’s the main reason for the increase in health issues for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:09 AM
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It’s possible for someone in their late 30s and 40s to have kids safely. I have seen it many times. Even with their partners being older.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:59 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:29 AM
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It varies. Sometimes I do sometimes I don’t. But he was ahead, made eye contact and did a gesture first. Then asked me if I was on the phone to avoid interrupting 🥺 It felt genuine and I’m sure if I didn’t want to talk or didn’t want to exchange numbers he would’ve been fine with it. A big issue is that too many men go in with ulterior motives and it puts women off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:39 AM
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I was walking to my town to run errands and he walked past me and commented on my hair. I had my headphones in but wasn’t playing anything. We then chatted about hair for a bit then other stuff for a mile or so. I don’t get approached in my local area often (because of the area not me) and looked very undressed so was a bit surprised. He’s probably the most in common I’ve ever had with a man before and we also want the same things for the future. I only do that walk once a month or so and I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:05 AM
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I was recently approached in real life and we’re really really getting along now. But it’s early days. I don’t mind men cold approaching but it’s best to talk and see if we get along first and have things in common before you ask me for my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:39 AM
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A big part of this is because it’s harder for men to pass as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:07 PM
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I agree. I think I may have crossed paths with a red pill guy in real life and was totally perplexed by the judgement and assumptions he made about me. Plus he was constantly mentioning his exes and talked about money all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:03 PM
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Do you know what motivated your ex to become RP? Did he ever really explain why? I always think it's important for women to know what their partner is using to guide their values and principals.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 03:45 PM
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So sorry to hear you went through this. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share this story. There are a few things I also want to add in terms of keeping young women safe: 1) Avoid older men. There's really no logical reason for a 35 year old to be dating a teenager. Most 25 year olds would find it weird to date a 19 year old let alone a 35 year old. These men are often motivated by sexual perversion and lack a morals. He'd probably go younger if it was legal. Women need to stop thinking …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 03:36 PM
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