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| 4 | Sent me a paragraph wishing me a happy birthday 3 weeks after she rejected me. What did she want?Some people like being nice. | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 02:24 PM |
| 4 | What are good purposeful questions for dates?Trying to split the difference between the 2 approaches I see so far (1 approach being giving you specific questions and the other approach being giving you shit for trying to think of questions): FORD is the best way to come up with something to break the ice. People always like talking about: Family Occupation Recreation Dreams Once you break the ice, be a really active listener. That means dont interrupt, dont jump to conclusions, dont plan on what youre gonna say while they say stuff, make e… | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Do you guys consider that "leading someone on"?"I have done all the things girlfriends do for a guy that I know who wants me to be his girlfriend. Is that leading him on?" Ya, duh | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 09:06 PM |
| 10 | Do you guys consider that "leading someone on"?I think either you're cruel, stupid, or flaming the thread. There's no way that this is a serious inquiry, lmao | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 08:31 PM |
| 13 | Do you guys consider that "leading someone on"?For the future, you will avoid conflicts like this by having upfront, direct communications. He was upfront about his intentions, you should have been upfront as well. You knew he had romantic expectations and your actions (treating yourselves like a couple) were consistent with his expectations. It sucks to have someone tell you later that they were just using you. What did you expect? If someone manipulated you and later told you that they knew from the beginning that your expections didn't li… | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | bouta approach this library employeeand the decency to stop when feelings are not reciprocated. He isn't saying that clues/hints aren't the best way to measure if feelings are reciprocated. Rather, being direct and actually asking someone out is. He isn't saying that a person should persist even if the other person expressly says no. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce a milf if you are a teenGo up to one and say, "mother do you want another?" | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Any questions about seduction? 19FIf you're really a psychic, what am I thinking about? | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Bisexual ex-girlfriend and I are on a 'break'. Should I seek out other women in the meantime, or refrain from that and wait for her to decide if she wants to get back with me?Why? If you want to be a doormat, go for it. YOLO. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Bisexual ex-girlfriend and I are on a 'break'. Should I seek out other women in the meantime, or refrain from that and wait for her to decide if she wants to get back with me?Yeah, you're totally right. You should choose the option that makes you a doormat. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Bisexual ex-girlfriend and I are on a 'break'. Should I seek out other women in the meantime, or refrain from that and wait for her to decide if she wants to get back with me?You're acting like there's a wide range of decisions to be made. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 05:51 PM |
| -1 | Bisexual ex-girlfriend and I are on a 'break'. Should I seek out other women in the meantime, or refrain from that and wait for her to decide if she wants to get back with me?My friend Ross slept with another woman while they were on a break and it haunted his relationship with his future wife Rachel for years to come. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Quit obsessingObsession is a coping mechanism that's sort of akin to addiction. It fills a void and gives you an allusion of control. I also think that, in moderation, it's pretty healthy. But, like any coping mechanism, you can go too far. You have to realize that it's a delusion. In other words, you like the idea of her, not her per se. Honestly, obsession is sort of like an itch. Trying to ignore it sometimes makes it worse, but going too far might actually just tear new wounds. Instead, you want to dist… | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Why did she block me?You insulted her. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Trying to re salvage this bumble matchShe's probably married | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 06:22 PM |
| -3 | Pro tip: Delete tinder and use bumbleI would rate you as a 4/10. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Might be having sex soon for the first time... Help?You have to kiss each region for exactly 1.8 seconds. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:42 PM |
| 2 | I need advice. I'm an "attractive guy" that really struggles with inner game.This will sound silly but I am being serious. How much restful sleep do you get? When I started to force myself to get 8 hours a day, my depressive symptoms decreased a lot, including persistent negative inner voice. IMO psychiatrists over diagnose and their tools for diagnosis are so primative. You should still keep up with seeing your psychiatrist, but you should throw in good sleep. It might help. | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says she talks about you a lot ?She only indicated volume, not quality. She could be talking smack about you. | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 06:08 AM |
| 1 | I often make an emotional connection with girls I work withEverybody makes emotional connections with co-workers. It's just the way people are wired. To me, it sounds like you are more or less crushing on the idea of her being your gf than her. You deal with it by coming to grips with the idea of you being single and working on your own loneliness. Don't make it weird for her. Go get other hobbies and do things that you enjoy to fill up the time you're otherwise spending daydreaming. | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected badly but at least I triedOne thing worth mentioning is that you shouldn't take it personally. There's a million and one reasons that could explain her decision. Not all of which are aimed at you personally. She could of felt awkward and on the spot. Remember that everyone's default is to say no. She could be a really busy person. She could have a boyfriend. She could be subject to a "no dating customers" policy. I don't know. The point is that you shouldn't take it personally because there could be something going on in… | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 01:57 PM |
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