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| 1 | How can I smoothly initiate a make out session?Just look at her and then her lips and go in for it. She’ll let you know with her body language if it’s cool | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How to transition from good friends to a couple?From my experience, once you become "good friends" the girl loses interest in being with you romantically. BUT, this is not always the case. Not enough context to tell of course. I would recommend just telling her you have a crush on her and that you are into her but don't want that to get in the way if she doesn't feel the same. Make your feelings obvious but letting her know it's okay if she doesn't like you back. Makes it easier for her to be more comfortable staying just friends with you. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How can I smoothly initiate a make out session?You can fuck her but you can't just stick your tongue in her mouth? Hold her tight when you go for your normal-beta peck you call a kiss and just make out. If she pulls away you'll know. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Can someone please tell me what's going on with me?My last ex was exactly this girl. It was hard as fuck to leave her after almost a year of dating but I knew it was a toxic relationship. We tried a friends with benefits type thing but like with most, it didn't work out for me. We even lived in the same town and she would accuse me of cheating when I was out with the boys and would even send selfies sometimes lol(this was apart of the toxicity). It hurt when I completely let her off because she begged me to stay but I knew I deserved a better re… | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Not having any luck, but not really sure why.It sounds like you have everything needed except the confidence. Like another reply, maybe it's something "self-defeating" or maybe just not the assertiveness to go out and get the girl you go after? Like maybe taking it slow because you think you'll fuck up because you're so used to "women don't date me". I have been with my current gf for a little more than a year and a half and I made it super obvious what I wanted from the very start. Super obvious flirty compliments and asking to on little … | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 07:16 PM |
| 3 | How do you become a magnet (I guess) when you've had no experience so far?When I was single, I found that saying hi is the hard part. This is because it seems so freaking random and weird. Being a naturally shy-guy, this will be even harder. What helped me though was this saying a friend told me, "when you meet someone, they don't know who you are and most likely will never know if you don't say something" I took this saying in many ways. One: When you meet someone, you can literally be anyone. Be confidant, be shy, be some rich billionaire. They have no clue. I think… | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 28 | Girlfriend lied to me about where she was and who she was with...is this the end?If you know for sure that she cheated on you, as in kissing etc. leave her while it’s still a fresh relationship. You sound like you could find someone better anyways. If she didn’t and it was purely just hanging around this other dude, I would put my foot down while she’s crying. It may be a little bit of an emotional manipulation, but it’s better this way for her to understand how serious you are. Say that lying is your absolute deal breaker and if she plans on staying with you, there has to b… | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Zero-to-hero success stories for some motivation?If I were you, I would most likely send a friends request. From what you’re telling me, it sounds like you guys were probably around each other’s general area enough growing up that she’ll probably recognize you and that’s a good thing. Similar childhood things are always good lol. And for the timing, any time to be honest will be fine. Send the request in the middle of the day at least though. You could say something like this, “Sorry if this is weird, but I was back in “insert town name” for t… | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 04:21 AM |
| 6 | Zero-to-hero success stories for some motivation?I’m close to your age range. 22 now and have an amazing girlfriend. I used to be like you. I sucked at talking to girls and I would say I still do today. I’m pretty introverted still too. But my gf and me have that in common so it’s nice. I’ve really grown more extroverted and confident over the years but that’s mainly to trial and error and not putting that much emotional connection to having a gf or not. My one piece of advice to anyone who is trying to get out of that hole of being too shy or… | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | I make out with girls constantly, but getting laid seems too hardJust casually ask after if she would like to come by your place for a bit before taking her home/order an Uber | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 09:59 PM |
| 4 | What to do when a girl asks for a creative date as the first date.Seriously, two outcomes are possible here. She seriously means it or is just saying that to say no without saying no. But be prepared for both. Rejection is all apart of the dating world. Try something like going hiking or going to a museum or some popular tourist attraction in town that you know would be interesting to see but at the same time you could just walk and talk. | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 09:55 PM |
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