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| 35 | he has abs and attends uni, so because of this he believes he should be drowning in attractive women. proceeds to whine for several paragraphsDon't forget the ED post also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 03:05 AM |
| 130 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.Thank you! I saw that comment and had cringy second-hand embarrassment for that man. If you're a man browsing the comments, if a woman is super tight, you have yet to turn her on, and you should probably take it very personally and do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 04:24 AM |
| 22 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.What the actual fuck 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:10 PM |
| 146 | Saw this little gem on Instagram today...."Why don't women just tell me she just wasn't that into me, but instead ghosted me". This is why 🙄 Crying about their feelings being hurt when we are just avoiding abuse! Yes, this happens to us 80% of the time if we politely tell men we aren't interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:36 PM |
| 116 | 97% of modern birds do not have penises because of female bird choice!I love it! "Female birds can just fly the hell away from an asshole male bird and not mate." It definitely made my day better thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 30 | Why waiting makes senseThis doesn't apply to men. I saw a post of a man married to his wife for 30 years saying he just never really felt that in love with her, but it wasn't until something better came around for him did he decide to mention that to his wife. He let that woman waste 30 years! Thinking she was married to a man that loved her only to find out it was "meh," and he just hung around feeling like that towards her for 30 years... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:39 PM |
| 25 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...If he's in relationship period, just say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 12:27 PM |
| 12 | This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable.I love how outs himself about knowing nothing about the vagina; let's put soap in her vagina to give her yeast and UTI infections 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 8 | do men just turn into complete POS when they hit 50 or is it that generation?I saw that post and had to leave Reddit for the rest of the day. Depressing that a man will manipulate a woman for 32 years and pretend to love her until something "better" comes along. 🙄 Truly sad, disgusting, and heartbreaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 36 | Men lack selfawarenessThe manipulation to keep her down so she won't wake up from the nightmare of marriage he is subjecting her to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 4 | I have no wordsThis is why there's a series called "snapped" 😠 what a pos man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 5 | Here's your reminder to drop any guy who does not take your feelings or your sexual satisfaction seriouslyOh god! I'm so sorry. I've been there and done that, sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:51 AM |
| 12 | Here's your reminder to drop any guy who does not take your feelings or your sexual satisfaction seriouslyMy favorite line ever 🙄 "I don't know." Nothing kills the romance and my feelings toward a partner more than that line flopping out of their mouth. Here's an idea! Stop being lazy and WANT to learn. Wanting to learn versus learning to avoid an unhappy partner makes a huge difference! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:37 AM |
| 11 | Scrotes are literally cancer. Always get the Pap smear.HPV is transmitted through skin-to-skin contact, meaning condoms will not always keep you safe it's like 30 to 40% protection from HPV and Herpes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:47 AM |
| 24 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎FDS also helped me dump an ex that didn't care about our relationship. Now im way happier 🥰 Thanks, ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:53 AM |
| 167 | When my LVM ex was toxic to me but was charming to others. He made everyone believe I was a lying, manipulative bitch but guess what, the truth finally came out and he begged me to not "destroy his reputation"💁🏻♀️I believed something was wrong with me and that I was an awful person because that's how my ex and his family made me feel. I, however, realized that having sex with me while I was crying was abuse. It was okay to shame me and tell everyone about my failures, but he did no wrong. I hope for his wife's sake; he treats her better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:04 PM |
| 10 | Drinks = drunk enough for sex with a random girl, movie and cuddle = sex with a random girl, but dinner is too much of a risk in this “current climate” 😒🙄How old was this guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 06:04 PM |
| 37 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️They don't even do that! I saw a comment on r/tinder. If they.found the person ugly that matched back, he will go out of his way to "fuck with them". To humiliate, mock, and abuse. It's so disgusting. I had to stop reading the comments. If you want to lose complete faith in human decency, head to the Tinder comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 12 | So many bitter men over the age of 24I talked to a 31-year-old, and he starts on a rant about women being whales, gold diggers, or whores. I instant blocked, but it was just sad to know he's going to try and prey on someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 10:52 PM |
| 31 | Ladies, you heard straight from the wolf’s mouthHonestly, we are all here because most men are psychopaths that have used, abused, and sometimes discarded us like objects. Without FDS, I don't think I could've seen how little my ex gave a fuck about me. It helped me stop lying to myself and making excuses for a man that treated me like garbage. I want to say most guys are not like this, but that's not true at all. MOST, and I mean most, are like this, and that's a hard pill to swallow at the end of the day. Stay fabulous, ladies, and keep str… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 07:14 AM |
| 8 | Recently got banned from r/unpopularopinion because “misandry is just as bad as misogyny”I don't know if anyone saw a gif recently of a man beating up his "friend" for asking his girlfriend for nudes. The sheer anger and violence made me cry for the guy being beaten. Never have I seen a woman brutally beat or kill someone because they lost self-control. It's not equality; it's the promotion of violence if you think you should be able to hit back. Are we in elementary school? This isn't an eye for an eye. See a therapist and learn to act like a grown-ass man, and walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:43 AM |
| 138 | Everyone’s on their phones everyone can shoot you a five second textI feel bad, but I'm horrible at texting. My ADD doesn't help. Half the time, I've misplaced my phone. It's something I have been working on though 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 20 | The audacity of this LVM to ask me to take him on a date.. OLD is full of them.Yeah, not a trophy husband material. I don't want to be cheated out of my 30 dollars! It's not like we are looking for potential partners or love, but ill be damn sure I don't spend 15 dollars on a man that doesn't text me back afterwards. I at least deserve sex or an explanation! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:55 AM |
| 21 | Ugh. 30, the new 15.I wish the second they pull this bullshit; we could throw the whole man away. Nobody wants to hear anything about your dick or needs for gratification. We don't care! We want genuine companionship! Not to be used like your pre-heated hot dog roller. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:38 AM |
| 6 | LVM from r/steroids throwing a fit because we don't believe in casual sex. The audacity of these idiots.I love posts that show, that yes their head can and will go farther up their own ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:14 PM |
| 13 | 30-year-old man child wakes up at 4 pm. Blocked 🤷🏻♀️I had this same experience. It's hard not to feel sad and discouraged that this is 90% of the dating pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:13 AM |
| 7 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERGod, I remember supporting my ex and working night shifts. He really wanted to take me to work that night with MY car. I said I'd be fine and went with my gut and drove myself to work. He had the girl pick him up that night. He was the kind of guy that wore sheep's clothing really well. I'm so glad I was able to leave that abusive cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 6 | A reminder for all the ladies having a hard time blocking and deleting. You don’t owe those men an explanation. They showed you who they are.I'm pissed. I just saw a comment section asking how a man handles not having sex because his wife has cancer. "That must be so difficult." Jesus, what about his partner facing death, but at the end of the day, she's still gotta worry about his penis. Life is short. I hope women with cancer dump the garbage people in their life, beat cancer, and end up happier. I also hope karma deals with the sex-driven good for nothing ex-husbands. I hope women in any situation where sex is more valued than you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 21 | Need some adviceI have a male best friend, but I respect his girlfriend. I don't text him every day, and I always try to ask about her. We are long distance friendship It's not as common for opposite sex friendships. Until she's comfortable with me her boundaries and concerns come before my need to rant to my best friend. I'm happy to do this, because I hope to have them both as life long friend's. I would trust your gut. Being a female, I am hyper aware of how I would feel if my boyfriend was best-friend's wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:49 AM |
| 17 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Yes! Queen! Yes! We have heard it all! It's nice to share a space with women with similar experiences, and without men becoming defensive. The first thing we'd hear is how invalid our experience is, and our feelings. Tip toeing around men is sadly taught to young girls, because males tend to throw tantrums, become violent, or sexual harass you. The rage and hatred that most men snap to is exhausting, and disheartening. We deal with abuse all the time. MOST men are not great individuals. I watche… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:44 AM |
| 3 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Right! They get all bitchy too, because they can't be looked after like a child! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Right! I always hate getting trained by someone who pretends to know what their doing, and you find out on your own that they are full of themselves even tho they've worked there for years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:43 AM |
| 6 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Isn't this the truth my last manager was quick to give me a raise when I found out my drugged out male co-worker who slacks off was close to making the same wage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:42 AM |
| 44 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Most men are so lazy! If you go into the workforce with mostly male co-workers they are lazy at work and do a half ass job then expect to be treated like a king for all that "hard" work. They come home, and want you to live the parts of their life they don't want to put effort into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:43 PM |
| 15 | Make it make sense! Most of these LVM don’t have any “gold” anyways 😂They can't provide, but also want to be the woman in the relationship. Which is horrible because they can't even do the mental load, emotional support, and clean things properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:23 AM |
| 8 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."Also I bet he took a long time to reply as he was googling things he could say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:20 PM |
| 15 | Something I madeAll women at some point in their life, have had the same facial expression in the last frame when dealing with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:23 AM |
| 19 | This is so adorableWow, you're right it would be expected from us. I guess because I'm so conditioned I thought he was going above and beyond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:08 AM |
| 5 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?My favorite is the guys that swipe right on every girl, and show no effort, but cry about how dating is hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:34 PM |
| 16 | Current MoodI feel this to my core. I'll download tinder, and uninstall it the next day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:11 PM |
| 25 | Never give them all the answers! He could have consulted my profile for this. Back in my pick-me days I would have given him a list lol.Give into that low effort you'll be doing it forever. " Where do you want to go on a date?", "what do you want to do for your birthday?", "I don't know you decide." On and on until you realise you're in a relationship with yourself, because your living the parts of their life they don't want to put effort into. My favorite excuse from my ex was I don't know or how he wasn't creative enough to come up with anything. He loved to play dumb when it came to putting in any effort towards showing affec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 6 | Just blocked the first reddit scroteI've noticed this. A lot of people will use your comment history to make a snap judgement about you, and then proceed to dismiss or abuse you based on their summarization. I normally don't comment anywhere else because of this also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:54 PM |
| 5 | LVM PUA tactic: 'Dreadgame'. Make your wife/gf feel so insecure, unvalued and jealous 'so she will start giving bj's and sex, not to lose you'. What a bunch of 🤡 clownery🤪🤣The different ways men take advantage of women is so disgusting! Men cry about women taking advantage of them for their money. I wish that was the only thing we as women have to worry about when dating and marrying. Any woman putting up with this type of behavior deserves everything in the divorce, and more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:43 PM |
| 10 | I just have to share because I’m so proud of myself (story in comments)I'm sorry, I'm glad you got away from him. Honestly, I don't even think this asshole would file a missing persons report. He seems way to lazy to give any effort in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:19 PM |
| 51 | “I can’t think of a specific neg so I’m just going to keep it general.”" I need to make you feel small so I can easily manipulate you into thinking you need to prove yourself." The tactical mind games men try to play to get their way, what garbage. What's sad is it probably works at destroying the confidence of the naive, and vulnerable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:36 AM |
| 7 | Spot the guyCommunication doesn't do shit for men that play stupid to escape the actions of their lazy selfish ways. You can be so transparent, but at the end of the day a man that doesn't work hard to be a good partner through action is using you, because it's easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:51 PM |
| 27 | Men who have had “unclear” sexual situations are rapists.Isn't that the truth. I loved last semester my professor started class by bashing the me too movement. I was like seriously, and you're in a position of authority! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:43 AM |
| 12 | An entire thread of things men like and desire, but will pretend they don’t!Ugh, right! I've seen comments about them doing the dishes and expecting sex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:27 AM |
| 48 | An entire thread of things men like and desire, but will pretend they don’t!We should make one about what we don't desire in men. Men that dress like cowboys, but have never been on a farm a day in their life. Guys that are in their 40's, but say early 30's that try and date 18-23 year olds. Pedophile mustaches Pubic hair beards. Guys that are into cars, but drive a busted ass beater. Men with a six pack, but tlk & txt lik dis. Continue at your convenience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:11 AM |
| 21 | Saying too bad he couldn't sleep with me is apparently a compliment 🙄Yep, low effort and a ditch all in hopes of a reward of sex. Which is so disgusting and pathetic, but I love the manipulation these guys spin on it. It's like how dare we not accept their feeble attempts to get their gruby hands on us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 18 | Why are we so hated?I always forget that it does have a bunch of porn even though my ex specifically used it as such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:09 AM |
| 23 | Can’t believe this is even a question. Just goes to show selfish men can really be.It's so gross that most men view having children as a chore that they shouldn't be inconvenienced by, and it's all on the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 29 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchRight?! I was thinking he needs to see a therapist, and maybe sign up for anger management. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:03 PM |
| 63 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchAgreed. I just want to know what makes this subreddit so awful? Like I said it's literally women supporting each other, and educating us on self love and not accepting the bare minimum of not be used for sex, maid service, and the mental load that's put on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 105 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchSomeone had posted a screenshot here of a post from ask men, and it was us showing support for the post. The mod edited the original post, and went into full blown nice guy after finding out FDS was supporting and agreeing with not dating during covid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:36 PM |
| 178 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchIt makes me sick to my stomach how fucking accurate this example is, but apparently we are crazy gold digging women that have no idea how hard life is for a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:30 PM |
| 424 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchI found it so absurd how the ask men Reddit mod literally lost his cookies when we supported a post. I was just flabbergasted at what they think these crazy high standards are? When all I've seen is women being taken for granted and abused taking it upon themselves to avoid terrible situations with men. Sorry you had to pay for a meal and she stopped talking to you? Like literally is that what they have to cry about?! It's so disheartening hearing the justifications for abusive, manipulative, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:29 AM |
| 31 | LVM on CMB with 1 Pic trying to call me fat. Thank goodness I am well trained in FDS.You should of asked for girth, length, height, and income. That would of sent him into a fit, it's okay for them to dish it out until the tables turn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:29 AM |
| 12 | Why do Men lack Emotional Depth ?I liked a comment that was about how all these men were empathic towards Will Smith's as they read into his facial expressions, but play stupid when it comes to applying that kind brain power at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:20 PM |
| 29 | Self Described Unicorn goes off on Tinder when I challenged his ego. Enjoy the lack of self awareness.A nice Yelp review also | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 11 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...Most also have the mindset of I'm not going to put any effort in, because she'll likely leave me. Which to me is like no shit Sherlock, she definitely wants to waste her life shouldering your burden of insecurities while you treat her like garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:25 PM |
| 44 | I used to give men the benefit of the doubt when they’d say this, thinking they were just insecure or ‘didn’t know.’ But I know. And this is not what I want. Byee 👋I use to say this to my ex because I wanted him to make a decision to want to spend time with me instead of playing videogames. I finally decided I deserved someone who will ask me to spend quality time together, instead of waiting around for affection I have to schedule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 23 | Most importantly, NEVER SETTLE LADIES!This! I wish I understood this while I was younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:34 PM |
| 25 | Exactly! It's not about being more "selective"; I'm literally sorting through trash!I hate the comments about women's inboxes being flooded with other guys messages, and how defeated they feel. The grass is definitely not greener it's full of turds that treat, and sees you as a fix all to their problems. It's soul sucking the amount of times a man has planned an entire relationship without my input or feelings being considered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 09:10 AM |
| 6 | The King of Scrote TownGuys like this also think penetrative sex is enough to give any woman an orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:49 PM |
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