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| 13 | I really hate how society perceives sons victimized by maternal incestThe people covering it up are those who make misinformed claims like "female pedophiles/rapists are incredibly rare," "not all men are abusers, but abusers are almost always men," "men can stop rape," etc. Anyone perpetuating the idea that sexual violence is a gendered issue caused by men, that women and girls suffer from. Such people often cover up, overlook, or actively downplay the prevalence and severity of female-perpetrated sexual violence, as abuse by women does not fit the narrative that… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/25 07:35 AM |
| 2 | I need to rant about this twitter stuff I saw… involves child abuse.. sick child abuse 🤮I'm pretty sure I've seen the post of that degenerate grinding on a toddler. I haven't come across that Zimbabwe one with the 16yo boy and 33 yo woman, but it's absolutely disgusting how many similar videos there are on the surface web (Twitter, YouTube, Facebook) involving women molesting children. Always I report them. Often nothing's done (the video isn't even removed years later). And there are always disgusting perverts getting off to it in the comments. This is the real rape culture in soc… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/25 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Enabling women committing pedophiliaPlenty of 14-year-old girls want to have sex with adult men too. What children think they want vs. what the actually experience is like is day vs. night. I'm 34M and lost my virginity to an adult woman when I was a child. It's something I'm traumatized by to this day, regardless of whatever childish fantasies people may have about what it would be like. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/25 04:52 AM |
| 5 | #MenToo @TheRealMenToo Male victims of sexual abuse remain hidden, ignored, dismissed, misunderstood, ridiculed and above all else, neglected. Boys and men are less likely to be identified as victims, less likely to recognise they have been abused, less likely to disclose and less likely to..All of the widespread, high-profile cases...were male on male. Yes, because abuse committed by men gets taken seriously and gets a lot of attention. Abuse committed by women doesn't become high-profile because people dismiss it as "isolated incidents" therefore not worthy of widespread social discourse. There are different numbers because they're different studies asking different people from different sample pools. But notably, even the lowest finding (28%) is a significant portion, let alone t… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/25 06:41 PM |
| 6 | #MenToo @TheRealMenToo Male victims of sexual abuse remain hidden, ignored, dismissed, misunderstood, ridiculed and above all else, neglected. Boys and men are less likely to be identified as victims, less likely to recognise they have been abused, less likely to disclose and less likely to..If you think that justifies male victims being ignored, by that same logic measures about suicide prevention should restrict the target population to only men who commit suicide. There's no valid reason that when people decide to only focus on certain victims, it's always only focusing on females at the expense of males. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/25 05:21 PM |
| 5 | #MenToo @TheRealMenToo Male victims of sexual abuse remain hidden, ignored, dismissed, misunderstood, ridiculed and above all else, neglected. Boys and men are less likely to be identified as victims, less likely to recognise they have been abused, less likely to disclose and less likely to..I do know the percentages, and a lot of male victims were assaulted by women. The survey estimated that nearly 4.5 million men in the US had at some time in their lives been forced to penetrate another person, and crucially, that in 79.2 per cent of cases the perpetrator forcing the sexual act was a woman. Another survey the researchers looked at was the National Crime Victimisation Survey, pooling the data from 2010 to 2013. This showed that female perpetrators (without a male accomplice) were … | /r/MensRights | 07/09/25 05:17 PM |
| 10 | #MenToo @TheRealMenToo Male victims of sexual abuse remain hidden, ignored, dismissed, misunderstood, ridiculed and above all else, neglected. Boys and men are less likely to be identified as victims, less likely to recognise they have been abused, less likely to disclose and less likely to..Thank you for sharing. There's still too little awareness about male victims, and too much of the ignorant perception that it's either too rare or too insignificant to matter. The discourse surrounding abuse (especially DV/IPV and sexual violence) still overwhelmingly perpetuates the false narrative that it's specifically a women's issue that men are responsible for. No wonder male victims are less likely to disclose or be recognized as victims in a society that sees "male" and "abuser" as intri… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/25 04:22 AM |
| 4 | Is "Women And Children" a Misandrist Term?No, not "one" radical feminist. Radical feminist TERF's as a whole. The entire community of them constantly harp about protecting "women and children" from predatory males. Have you ever noticed men's grievances are always with one specific woman No, because this is objectively false. Prioritizing the safety of women over men is an issue with the entire system. It's perpetuated both by traditional conservatives and feminists, both of which downplay male victimhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:12 AM |
| 19 | Whats with the word incel being associated with being a misogynist, especially by women?The issue is that "incel" is often used as an insult against men who aren't by definition incels at all. When you see some guys making misogynists remarks online, a bunch of women are calling that guy an incel. Do they genuienly think that only guys that respect women get to sleep with women? It's not a question of whether self-professed incels are misogynistic. It's a question of whether it makes sense to call any dude who says something perceived as misogynistic online an "incel" as if the ter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 02:43 AM |
| 8 | Whats with the word incel being associated with being a misogynist, especially by women?But the inverse is not true. There are plenty of misogynists who are not incels, thus "incel" is not synonymous with "misogynist," as misogynists may not be incels, There are plenty of disrespectful jerks with 10 kids with almost as many different women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 02:37 AM |
| 19 | When you change your mind about being an organ donor but instead of being honest with yourself, you need a reason to convince yourself, and as always, MEN are the answer.Exactly. It's one thing for a few fringe misandric morons like her to exist. There are always going to be weirdoes with toxic beliefs. But the upvotes show that this apparently isn't even too radical of a mentality for many people. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/25 02:19 AM |
| 8 | When you change your mind about being an organ donor but instead of being honest with yourself, you need a reason to convince yourself, and as always, MEN are the answer.If this user wants to disengage with systems built mostly by men, she already failed by using electronic devices, posting on the internet, and living in an industrial society in general. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/25 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Is "Women And Children" a Misandrist Term?The most recent times I've seen "women and children" grouped together as a demographic needing special protection was not by men. It was by radical feminist TERF's on X saying how transwomen are threats to the safety of "women and children", and how "women and children need to be protected by the (supposedly) fetishistic trans-identifying males posing as women in order to invade safe spaces." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Is "Women And Children" a Misandrist Term?True, though the point remains that women are grouped together with children as needing/deserving special protection. Hence why there's no "men and children first" or "protect the men and children." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 02:04 AM |
| 5 | Is "Women And Children" a Misandrist Term?Yes. Both misandric in its male disposability implications, and misogynistic in its infantilization of women, as if they're more similar to children than to adult men. The idea of linking "women and children" has always seemed as ridiculous to me as linking "men and children" together. I can understand putting children in a separate group needing protection. But grown adults have the same agency, regardless of gender. It's especially irritating to me because that grouping together of "women and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 01:58 AM |
| 54 | Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online?As a gay dude who follows tons of thirst trap guys on Instagram, X, TikTok, this behavior is not specific to men. Judging by the countless comments I always see on these guys shirtless videos from women saying things like "my boyfriend/husband wonders why he keeps hearing this song playing from my phone on repeat 😏" It's not complicated: men and women like looking at people who they find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:43 PM |
| 18 | A man being asocial, doesn't automatically make a man socially awkward or a loser.The difference between guys like him and "creepy incel losers" is that 1. he was attractive 2. he didn't act like he cared about what others thought. It could have made him across as a "cool mysterious lone wolf" versus an insecure and desperate weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 07:12 AM |
| 25 | Woman proposes a discriminatory law against men for the actions of 1 man... yet apparently women are the ones most hard done byeveryone suffers because of a man's behavior No, that one man is to blame for the harm he caused those children. He's not to blame for the sexist response of banning male workers in general from changing diapers. It's so idiotic to assume the behavior of that one man has anything to do with the behavior of any other man. No one would be suspicious towards all mother's just due to one mother's abusive behavior. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 07/07/25 06:57 AM |
| 5 | People are more likely to believe myths that minimize or dismiss male victims of intimate partner violence when they also endorse sexist beliefs about menEndorsement of these myths did not significantly differ between men and women in this sample, which the authors note is somewhat surprising. Previous research has shown that men tend to score higher than women on scales measuring sexism and victim-blaming attitudes, but in this case, both genders endorsed myths at similar levels. I'm not surprised at all by this. As much as people like to claim that men are the ones fueling sexism, that a society ruled by women would be fair and just, etc. I've … | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 06:43 AM |
| 7 | People are more likely to believe myths that minimize or dismiss male victims of intimate partner violence when they also endorse sexist beliefs about menThe title there begins with the objectively false statement: "Intimate partner violence overwhelmingly affects women..." Ironic, considering the whole topic of the article is why male victims are minimized. A big part of why they are minimized is due to the ignorant belief that they're extremely rare. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 06:31 AM |
| 111 | Seeing this stuff is really hurtful"Why is there no compassion for men?" Because too often they're seen as utilities at best, or horrible abusive monsters at worst. There's no place for concern about men's feelings or male issues when even a "good man" is seen as someone who's treats himself as a disposable sacrifice for the benefit of women and children, and the men who complain about this system are "whiney misogynists." | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/05/25 06:19 AM |
| 18 | Victim of acid attack 'plotted by his ex-partner who teamed up with a gang' dies in hospital six weeks after horrorBut the lives of men like him don't matter within the narrative that acid attacks are "gender violence fueled by misogyny and patriarchy." | /r/MensRights | 10/05/25 06:11 AM |
| 22 | Victim of acid attack 'plotted by his ex-partner who teamed up with a gang' dies in hospital six weeks after horrorThat's the biggest difference between female-on-male violence and male-on-female violence. When a man is violent towards a woman, he's just seen as an evil abuser, and the circumstances don't matter. When a woman is violence towards a man, it's always "but what did he do to provoke her?" This is partly why so many ignorant morons still believe that female abusers are rare/non-existent. Because even when women do things like this, their violence isn't seen as "abuse." People will still assume tha… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/25 06:09 AM |
| 13 | “Boys will be boys”I can't speak for those boys in your school, but as a man who was a gender non-conforming boy, all the bullying and harassment just taught me to hate society and social norms in general. It definitely didn't make me want to be more stereotypically "manly." | /r/MensRights | 10/05/25 06:05 AM |
| 31 | “Boys will be boys”The only time I've ever heard anyone using "boys will be boys" as an excuse has always been about trivial things. A kid getting his nice new outfit dirty by playing in the mud, or a man spending money on some stereotypically masculine gadget. The only time I've ever heard it in reference to sexual assault was when feminists claim it's used to downplay sexual assault. I've never in my life actually heard it used to justify sexual assault, or any other genuinely harmful behavior. Not to mention, t… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/25 06:00 AM |
| 48 | Misandrist thinks guy is insecure because he didn’t like her saying “man hating” thingsThe whole "men shouldn't get offended by misandry, and if you do it must because because YOU'RE the problem and that's why you feel called-out," is such bullshit reasoning. By that logic, no one should feel offended by sexist, racist, or otherwise prejudice things said against their demographic, because "I'm not talking about you specifically. Why are you offended??" | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/05/25 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Remember... Misandry isn't real, doesn't existThe disturbing thing is that there are actually many threads like this. I came across one entirely on accident while searching for something unrelated, and one of the results was "recommend books where women commit vile acts against men" | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/04/25 01:12 AM |
| 27 | Poland's minister of equality: the current goverment has no plan of equalizing the retirement age for men and women.Good point about women's in-group bias and men's lack of one. It's why, regardless of who has been in power, men are still generally treated as disposable tools. Both men and women in general expect men to be the ones drafted into war, the ones paying the bills, the ones working dangerous jobs, the ones risking themselves to protect women and children. Both men and women tend to prioritize female victims of abuse or violence over male victims. Despite the myth of "this society is a patriarchy ru… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 01:40 AM |
| 4 | [Q4M] What do YOU consider reasonable expectations and standards for women to have for their male partner?Same. My partner and I have been together for years and we still have separate places. That was a must for me, because I'm too much of a control freak to have someone else living in my house. It's been working out perfectly for us. Compatibility really is the most important thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 01:18 AM |
| 13 | [Q4M] What do YOU consider reasonable expectations and standards for women to have for their male partner?Intact parent household sounds unreasonable to me, as people can't choose their parents or the household they were born into. But, you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] What do YOU consider reasonable expectations and standards for women to have for their male partner?Reasonable standards would be expecting as much as I can offer. I have my own place, I have my own car, I have a job where I can support myself, I clean my own house, I cook my own food. I'm flexible on if he has other talents, so long we have enough in common to be able to enjoy our time together. This is all hypothetical, as I already have a partner. Coincidentally, he is a man so I don't have to imagine what standards I would have for choosing a male partner. We're on the same level in terms … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why are men’s standards “normal” but women’s “gold digging”online, especially in red pill spaces, any woman who's just asking for a man who can support himself is asking for too much apparently. I'm not sure what kind of spaces you're in, but even online I have not seen men demanding that the woman make more money than him, let alone expecting her to support him because he can't support himself. Even the men who say they refuse to ever spend money on a woman don't generally expect that she pays both her own bills and also his. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Why are men’s standards “normal” but women’s “gold digging”From what I see, men do get a lot of flack for having supposedly "unrealistic beauty standards." Men who date much younger women are seen as "creepy, dirty old men." And I'm always hearing how "men aren't entitled to sex from women," so a man expecting sexual availability from a woman is not a universally socially acceptable standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 12:42 AM |
| 190 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?Exactly this. The only "men's issues" spaces that are tolerated are the self-flagellating feminist ones that purport that men's main issue is men themselves and other men, and that women are not responsible for any social ills. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 05:45 AM |
| 12 | Being gay is misogynistAs a gay man, I certainly do find women like her to be inferior and gross. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/04/25 05:41 AM |
| 10 | Being gay is misogynistExactly. Not to mention that significant amount of likes her post received. Unfortunately, apparently a lot of women think that way, and I've witnessed this mentality too for years. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/04/25 05:39 AM |
| 12 | Rose McGowan Was Right: Women Can't Lean on the Gay Rights Movement AnymoreAnd why should they? The gay rights movement is about the rights of gay people, and is a separate thing from the women's rights movement. As a gay man, I'm quite annoyed when people conflate the two, as if my being a gay man must mean that I'm a diehard feminist. As if the issues uniquely faced by gay men are actually somehow the byproduct of misogyny and women's issues. Many of the issues, violence, and prejudices gay men face stem specifically from misandry. Presuming gay men are predators is … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/04/25 05:34 AM |
| 6 | "Men are soft now"Fair enough, so this meme is typical tradcon male disposability | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/03/25 05:39 AM |
| 29 | "Men are soft now"Doesn't that meme promote the "toxic masculinity" feminists complain about and blame men for? Isn't saying that men ought to be stoic warmongering brutes who aren't in touch with their emotions "toxic masculinity?" Funny how women are so quick to perpetuate that same "toxic masculinity" when they're trying to shame men for saying things they don't like. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/03/25 04:29 AM |
| 3 | As a man, I get turned off if a woman displays too much interest early on.I'm not sure there's anything to debate, it's just a matter of preference. I know some guys who like women who "play hard to get" and even some who like women who seem outwardly hostile towards them. Personally, my biggest turn-off is someone who doesn't seem to like me, and one of my biggest turn-ons is someone who likes me enough that it's visibly obvious and I don't have to guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 03:53 AM |
| 57 | UK: Misogyny identified as breeding ground for extremism in UK, says leaked report | UK security and counter-terrorism. OP: Men's rights gets a mention.The fact that they group together MRA's, PUA's, incels, and MGTOW's shows how ignorant these people are. MGTOW's and incels are complete opposites, the former for self-fulfillment independent of women, and the latter obsessed with getting a girlfriend and female approval. And PUA's are entirely unrelated to advocating for men's issues. This just shows that they see any group related to men as automatically dangerous and misogynistic. To them, men who advocate for male abuse victims, protecting b… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/25 01:25 PM |
| 14 | Just as women can choose whether or not to have a child, men should also have a choice?Maybe, idk, if you don’t want to make a family with a specific girl or you’re with someone that doesn’t want a family… wrap it up? Keep it in your pants? Don’t have sex with her or be with her in general if you don’t want kids? The same can be said to women. Yet where I live, they're allowed to have sex freely with a man who they don't want kids or to make a family with, without being forced to become a parent if she gets pregnant from it. Men should have the same freedom. Also you just address … | /r/MensRights | 29/01/25 01:07 PM |
| 43 | Just as women can choose whether or not to have a child, men should also have a choice?I think about this when people complain about "deadbeat dads" and absent fathers. How often is that because he never wanted a child to begin with, but unlike women didn't have the option of abortion and so was forced into parenthood. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/25 12:58 PM |
| 61 | Prisons are for men..... only"Stop putting women in prison" has been a feminist talking point for ages. One of many things to keep in mind when they claim feminism is just about equality, and when they whine about men supposedly not being held accountable and male offenders too rarely ending up in jail. Apparently they either believe female offenders don't deserve jail, or that female offenders don't exist. Either way, they're wrong and they're disgusting hypocrites. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/01/25 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Society doesn’t value my life so neither do I.Women don't hate you, the algorithm may have been feeding you horrible content because that's what it does, once it detects that something keeps you watching I wish this were true, but unfortunately misandry is indeed common enough where I come across it even when I deliberately try to avoid that content. E.g. I literally just created a brand new Instagram account because I wanted one solely for food recipes. I opened up reels to see if I could find some videos to start tailoring my feed. At thi… | /r/MensRights | 20/01/25 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Society doesn’t value my life so neither do I.I completely empathize with how you're feeling, I felt that way for a long time. I try to avoid misandry, or anything that will trigger my PTSD, but it's so ubiquitous in society that I inevitably come across it regardless. Society as a whole does not value men or boys, does not care about male victims or males' issues, but this is why you need to value yourself. Screw what other people deem your worth is. The opinions of misandric people are irrelevant. The only thing that matters is your opini… | /r/MensRights | 20/01/25 06:44 AM |
| 28 | Another Female Teacher Arrested For Raping Students (Including Middle Schooler) Bribing Them With MoneyRight, they make is sound like she was merely soliciting consenting prostitutes, "paying them to have sex with her." She was raping them, and a common tactic that pedophiles use to groom or silence their victims is giving them gifts or money. This was not a transaction--like the article and many comments there imply. This is simply another serial child rapist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/11/24 06:47 PM |
| 25 | Another Female Teacher Arrested For Raping Students (Including Middle Schooler) Bribing Them With MoneyIn the comments, expect plenty of the typical "where were teachers like that when I was in school??" comments from disgusting morons who are so desperate for female affection that they idealize child rape. Also a top comment is "so-called 'male victims' only come forward for money." Interesting how these idiots love to claim that boys raped by women never complain about it. Then when the male victims do indeed complain about it, these idiots just say "it doesn't count because he must have just w… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 04:29 PM |
| 66 | Another Female Teacher Arrested For Raping Students (Including Middle Schooler) Bribing Them With MoneyIn the comments, expect plenty of the typical "where were teachers like that when I was in school??" comments from disgusting morons who are so desperate for female affection that they idealize child rape. Also a top comment is "so-called 'male victims' only come forward for money." Interesting how these idiots love to claim that boys raped by women never complain about it. Then when the male victims do indeed complain about it, these idiots just say "it doesn't count because he must have just w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/11/24 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Nine female educators at Cité-des-Prairies youth rehabilitation centre are accused of sexual intercourse with at least five minor residents. [institutional sex abuse, teacher, social worker]Very unfortunate that getting harassed is the common response to speaking out about abuse perpetrated by female predators. Even worse for the victims who already went through the abuse, only for society to rub salt in the wounds. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/24 07:39 AM |
| 23 | Nine female educators at Cité-des-Prairies youth rehabilitation centre are accused of sexual intercourse with at least five minor residents. [institutional sex abuse, teacher, social worker]Shit like that is partly why so many people are (willfully) ignorant about the reality of female sexual abusers, pretending that they're too "rare" to be a serious concern. This is far from the first time I've seen discussions about female abusers get silenced with "stop trying to make women look bad." I see that those mods deleted it on the grounds of "prejudice" claiming that it was "negative commentary about all residents of any province." Not a single thing in this article targets all reside… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/24 06:58 AM |
| 13 | Nine female educators at Cité-des-Prairies youth rehabilitation centre are accused of sexual intercourse with at least five minor residents. [institutional sex abuse, teacher, social worker]I know how much it fucks you up to be preyed on by someone in a position of power, especially when there's nowhere to escape to. In my case it was my mother when I was a child so I had nowhere to go, but for these boys the center was their residence so they were also stuck. I truly hope all these women are brought to justice, and that the victims get the support they need. Sadly this is doubtful, considering that things like this are rarely taken seriously. Women like this usually face few conse… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/24 06:48 AM |
| 9 | MensLib mod comment on a post where i share my experiences of child-abuse, sexual harassment and assault by women. I followed every subreddit rule in making that post, yet both the comment-section is locked and the post unlisted from public view.Interesting that people were far more supportive on r/aspergers than on the r/menslib subreddit that's supposed to be specifically about supporting men. That's the issue with feminist-centered "male advocacy." The feminist narrative itself is gynocentric, meaning that it can at best only support men's issues so long that support doesn't involve criticizing bad behavior by women. Thus they're perfectly comfortable going on about how men are negatively affected by other men's bad behavior, e.g. "t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/09/24 12:47 PM |
| 7 | Woman, 43, who exchanged more than 4,700 messages with an 11-year-old on the app Discord to entice him to have sex, has been charged by federal criminal complaint with enticement of a minor to engage in sexual activity. [grooming]Does it include female predators? A lot of the "catch a predator" things only target male predators and pretend women like this don't exist. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/24 10:48 PM |
| 8 | Double Standard in VulgarityI agree, except for "if he is hot, there's no problem." I've seen very attractive men shamed for dressing scantily, showing a lot of his chest or wearing tight pants. People saying he's vain or over-compensating, or even that he's just a creep. There's so much more criticism about what men "shouldn't wear," and there's a much narrower margin for what's socially acceptable for men to wear, regardless of what he looks like. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/24 10:46 PM |
| 7 | Double Standard in VulgaritySame in every country I've lived in, and both men and women perpetuate the problem. Both shame men who dress in revealing clothes, while saying women should be allowed to wear whatever they want. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/24 10:40 PM |
| – | Jordan Peterson tells young men to sacrifice themselves and endure. Young men should suck it up. It is my belief that men have the right to opt out of a society that discriminates against them.Genital integrity laws (i.e. forced "circumcision" against boys being legal while it's outlawed against girls.) Selective service in many countries forces men and only men to fight in wars. In many places, sexual violence laws are written so that only men can be convicted. In general, any discourse related to abuse (domestic violence, rape) has a false narrative that marginalizes male victims, especially of female abusers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 09:55 PM |
| – | Jordan Peterson tells young men to sacrifice themselves and endure. Young men should suck it up. It is my belief that men have the right to opt out of a society that discriminates against them.Every man should live how he wants to as an individual rather than conforming to social expectations. The whole concept of "men shirking responsibilities" implies men inherently owe women something. Men owe women as much as women owe men. And feminists are always reminding us that women owe men nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 09:50 PM |
| 10 | Rape victims double standardJust saw a case of a woman raping a 14-year-old boy, where a bunch of men were saying ignorant, rape apologist stuff like "I wish that happened to me! That's every boy's dream." As much as a hate women who rape children, I hate people who defend it almost just as much. As a man who was raped by women when I was a young boy, any desperate loser who says "boys enjoy it and aren't traumatized" can go jump in front of a semi truck. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/24 09:36 PM |
| 6 | Stereotyping and hate against men is too muchEveryone knows women are more likely to date a man for money than the other way around. This is just a part of the trend to try to shame men for things women were stereotypically shamed for. Same with when people say "men are actually more overly-emotional and illogical than women." "Women are actually better leaders than men are." Etc. Basically, it used to be that men had negative stereotypes associated with them (e.g. being seen as violent, abusive, incompetent with childcare,) and women had … | /r/MensRights | 24/08/24 05:47 AM |
| 12 | Do Men Truly Have Institutional Power?Usually when they talk about "institutional power" they look at things like most CEO's or politicians being men. The problem is that this doesn't benefit the average man. Most politicians being men doesn't change the fact that most men are screwed if they're falsely accused. Most men have no social support or legal protection if they're the victims of abuse by women. Males have no legal protection from infant genital mutilation, and males are the only ones required to register for the draft. The… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 03:55 AM |
| 15 | Misandry hurts women, tooFeminists often make the assertion that men and society in general are misogynistic, and for no reason other than their hated of women, or their fear of losing power, or the influence of other misogynistic men, or "male privilege". Though realistically there is evidence that actual misogyny (as in actual hatred of women, not just a man disagreeing with or criticizing a woman, and therefore being called a "misogynistic incel") stems from past mistreatment. E.g. there are studies (pg. 30) that hav… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/06/24 09:25 PM |
| 20 | Their true colors always come out. They're not just misandrist, they're homophobic too.Yes, the best case scenario is that some of these misandrists will wake up once they have a son. (And be subsequently attacked for being a "pick me" or a "toxic boy mom.") Another unfortunate possibility, however, is that if she does have a son, she'll hate him too. There are, sadly, misandric women who have sons, who they then use as an outlet for their pent-up hatred against males. That was the case with my own mother, and the sons in these situations have no escape since mothers--especially s… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/06/24 01:32 AM |
| 35 | Their true colors always come out. They're not just misandrist, they're homophobic too.The majority of feminists HATE men...They are proud of their misandry Exactly this. If you check out that Twitter thread, you'll see dozens of Tweets and hundreds of upvotes on those Tweets, literally gloating about how much they hate men. Celebrating male suicide and suffering. Meanwhile claiming that men don't suffer from misandry and that males' issues aren't real. I'm a gay man, and I've seen plenty of other gay men who are feminists and more supportive of women's issues than men's issues. T… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/06/24 11:39 PM |
| 17 | Their true colors always come out. They're not just misandrist, they're homophobic too.No surprise. Being a lesbian doesn't necessarily mean being supportive of gay men. There are plenty of people (lesbians, straight men, bisexual women, etc.) who love lesbians but are hateful towards gay men. Most homophobia is really specifically gayphobia and stems from misandry. There are even countries where the laws themselves are harsher against gay men than lesbian women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/06/24 11:27 PM |
| 33 | Their true colors always come out. They're not just misandrist, they're homophobic too.How ironic that the people claiming misandry doesn't exist are always the ones who most thoroughly prove it's existence. For context, that entire Twitter thread (and the thread that it's responding to) is a bunch of openly proud man-haters saying things like "misandry doesn't exist, but I wish it did." "Men have no problems in the real world." "I hope more men kill themselves and suffer from misandry." And most of those Tweets have either dozens or hundreds of upvotes, so it's not just a few fri… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/06/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Getting raped as a guy is not important?You have to realize how retarded it is to assume the countless men in this thread or subreddit in general who have expressed their trauma from being raped by a woman must all be gay or "beta." Are you genuinely that dumb, or do you just think it's cool to act like "men are so tough they brush off rape and eat nails with milk for breakfast" | /r/MensRights | 21/06/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Getting raped as a guy is not important?guys are generally less negatively effected by sexuall experiences...generally aren't emotionally traumatized by it Speak for yourself. Other guys traumatized by being raped, including plenty in this thread. It's less that men aren't traumatized, and more that those of us who are are shamed into silence by ignorant morons who say "you must have low-T if you're traumatized by busting a nut." | /r/MensRights | 20/06/24 01:36 AM |
| 17 | Misandry DOES KillEven if men often did commit suicide due to alcohol, drugs, and crime, that wouldn't mean misandry does not play a role. Most people who develop addictions and substance abuse problems do so because they're already struggling to begin with. Hence why it's so common among child abuse victims. One should still investigate why so many men are turning to drugs and alcohol, rather than assuming men are just born inclined to self-destruct. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/05/24 06:26 PM |
| 57 | Society discovered loneliness epidemic just when women felt lonely for the first timeRight that's another area where there's a huge empathy gap. When women go on about how harmed and fearful they are due to a man/men abusing them in the past, it's treated as a tragedy that men need to work to improve. If a man says anything about how harmed and fearful he is due to a woman/women abusing him in the past, he's mocked and treated like he's "part of the problem." Men who talk about being abused by women must be "misogynists trying to make women look bad." | /r/MensRights | 27/05/24 10:01 PM |
| 41 | Why isn't this movement more mainstream in society?Partly because addressing men's issues, male victims, etc. goes against all mainstream thought. Both feminism and tradcon ideology tends to marginalize male suffering. Feminists say men are privileged oppressors, so any issues they face are either trivial or self-inflicted. Tradcons say men's duty is to be the tanks of society and so should shrug off any abuse instead of "whining" about it. "Women and children first." Males often are marginalized in society, which is exactly why efforts to addre… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/24 08:59 PM |
| 209 | Society discovered loneliness epidemic just when women felt lonely for the first timeExactly. Similar to how when older middle-aged women complain about men her age preferring younger women, people attack men as being "creeps." When fat women complain about being invisible to men, people attack men for having "unrealistic standards" for women's bodies. Conversely when any kind of man complains about not getting attention from women for any reason, then he's just a pathetic incel loser. People sympathize with female loneliness in a way they don't with male loneliness. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/24 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Thought you guys would appreciate these picsI especially appreciate the 3rd one, about it disregarding people's issues due to "privilege." That's my biggest gripe with it. If it were actually about supporting women, female victims, women's rights that would be one thing. But the way that it often marginalizes men's issues; shames those who speak out as being "incels" or "pick-me's;" and worst of all silences male victims (especially of female abusers) as being inconsequentially rare and a deflection from "the main issue" exposes that they… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/24 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Fellas , why get annoyed at the bear question ?I would agree that it's just retarded, if it weren't for how many people use it and its answer as if it's genuine proof that men are just so horrible that we "all need to do better to make things safer for women!" I've seen literally thousands of women and also men trying to argue that women's irrational answer to that idiotic question goes to show--not necessarily that men are literally more dangerous than bears--but that men are extremely dangerous and that we supposedly live in a society that… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/24 05:37 PM |
| 11 | Choosing between Men and Bears reveals the Bias in official statistics on violence victimsExactly. It's absurd the amount of people I've seen trying to prove that men are more dangerous by saying "this many women were attacked by men, but only a few have been attacked by bears!" Even ChatGPT uses that idiotic reasoning to try to justify why a woman should choose a bear over a man. Even though, by that same illogic, children are safer with bears than with their own mothers, because many mothers abuse and murder their children but very few bears have attacked children. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/24 05:31 PM |
| 12 | Men are "biologically hardwired" to be pedos.And yet I still see so many people claim that there's a "double standard" against older women in age gap relationships. People who whine about "why is it seen as weird when the woman is older than the man, but everyone's okay when the man is older than the woman??" It's the complete opposite. A woman would never be called a pedophile or seen as a creep for being with a man in his 20's. It's always only older males who are seen as predators for dating younger. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/05/24 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Men are "biologically hardwired" to be pedos.They'll lie and say female predators either don't exist or are "like 0.000000% of all pedophiles!" Or they'll say "it's different because women fall in love with the boy, it's not about sex or age." | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/05/24 05:15 PM |
| 10 | "I don't give a shit about men's pronlems."And yet they expect men to not only care about women's problems, but to take responsibility for other men so that "all men should work together to make the world a better and safer place for women." Things like OP are why I'm not persuaded when people try to shame men with how men need to "do better" and "it's men's fault that women are afraid of them." Women in general do nothing for men whether it's in regards to male loneliness, male suicide, male victims. Often their first response to men br… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/05/24 05:10 PM |
| 34 | Being Okay with Being Treated the Same Way Racists Treat Black People"Most creeps cosplay a nice guy at some point" including the guys who like to shit on other guys and go on about how horrible and dangerous men are. Anyway not trusting people by default is one thing; I certainly don't trust women by default either. The issue is people acting as if violence and abuse is something specific to male-perpetrators. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/05/24 04:50 PM |
| 68 | 30 men have died while attempting to leave Ukraine to avoid fighting in warAlso no surprise the amount of Fox News commenters saying "draft dodgers" deserve to die. Many tradcons devalue men as much as radfems. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/24 04:40 PM |
| 39 | I take issue with the phrase "Women can be abusive too"Reminds me of how I saw a comment on the Sheree Spencer case, calling it "an extreme example of reverse abuse." There's no such thing as "reverse abuse," it's just abuse and sadly it's not some exceptional isolated event when it's a woman doing it. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/24 01:36 AM |
| 8 | anything happens to a guy's just considered funnyI also really hate that "it's okay because he was a bad guy" argument used to justify abuse against men. Firstly it's often not even true, because it's not uncommon for women to play the "Battered Woman Syndrome" card even when it's a lie. Secondly, it's still a double standard. No one would cheer on a man mutilating his wife's genitals, even if it's a proven fact that she was abusive towards him. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/04/24 01:08 AM |
| 8 | anything happens to a guy's just considered funnyIt's so ignorant when people pretend false accusations don't ruin men's lives. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/04/24 01:03 AM |
| 1 | No one cares if you were raped as a man...unless you u joke about itI had a similar experience in a Social Problems class I attended at university. One of the students gave a presentation on "rape culture," of course only focusing on male-on-female rape. And when it was pointed out that rape and rape culture also involves male victims, her response was something like "but that's so rare, only a tiny percentage of rape is against men." No one who actually cares about sexual abuse and helping victims would suddenly become entirely unempathetic as soon as it's a wo… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/24 06:40 AM |
| 144 | Woman (46) Who Raped 14-Year-Old Boy Allowed Anonymity, Given 18 Month Sentence, Somehow Has "No Sexual Interest In Children"A few things to note: Not only was it rape by virtue of his age, but also because it was literally forced. Rape apologists love to downplay female child rapists by acting like "it wasn't rape because he was definitely willing!" And yet, firstly, if it involves an adult woman and a child, it is always rape regardless of if he was "willing." Secondly, he wasn't even willing in this case. And yet she still gets a pass, so clearly boys supposedly being "willing" is just an excuse. Even when a boy or… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/24 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Whilst a world with one less sick fuck is always a better one, two wrongs don’t make a right and this comments section is filled with misandryYeah that's my main issue with this. The fact that the attitude of "pedophiles should be castrated/killed/otherwise physically assaulted" only ever extends to male child molesters. Often people have the entirely opposite perspective, and even support women molesting young boys, saying ignorant bullshit like "it's every boys dream come true!" And even those who don't support female molesters are still never as vitriolic towards them. They'll say she deserves to go to jail, but never say she deser… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/03/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Whilst a world with one less sick fuck is always a better one, two wrongs don’t make a right and this comments section is filled with misandryPeople widely support killing *male* child molesters. Female child molesters often get a pass and almost always get more leniency. Many times the same people who want to hang male child molesters fully support young boys being molested by adult women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/03/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Whilst a world with one less sick fuck is always a better one, two wrongs don’t make a right and this comments section is filled with misandryYeah, it's similar to how there are many cases where a woman will murder her husband. Then, after she gets caught, claim that he was abusing her. Even when there's no evidence, people are quick to believe it because too many think a woman wouldn't be violent without a good cause. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/03/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Whilst a world with one less sick fuck is always a better one, two wrongs don’t make a right and this comments section is filled with misandrybeing a man isn’t why she did it Until female child rapists also get physically assaulted the way male ones do, then his being a man does contribute to it. If he were a woman, this almost certainly would not have happened. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/03/24 03:34 AM |
| 14 | Daniel Sloss comic “women’s biggest fear is not getting raped, mine is wi-fi”a lot of young men will be pressured into believing that they have no major issues facing them That's the really sad thing. I've known too many males who are suffering from social problems, who live in dangerous environments, who have experienced terrible things, rape, abuse, etc. And yet have said that they're hesitant to say anything about it and speak out because they "don't want to take away from what women go through." Everyone has the right to speak out and all abuse and social problems sh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/03/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Daniel Sloss comic “women’s biggest fear is not getting raped, mine is wi-fi”True, and he also doesn't speak for the general male population. He only speaks for himself. There are countless other men who have been raped and/or who have fears and problems in their lives that are equally as serious. Not only can he not speak to any woman's experience, he can't speak to any man's experience except for his own. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/03/24 03:17 PM |
| 21 | Daniel Sloss comic “women’s biggest fear is not getting raped, mine is wi-fi”As a man who has been raped, I absolutely hate that idiotic narrative of "women fear rape, men fear [insert trivial BS]" here. Good for him if he hasn't been raped, but then he should shut the fuck up before making ignorant generalizations about other men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/03/24 03:04 PM |
| 4 | My brother in law was forced to get a circumcision at age 17 by his mother. The women I speak to don't see this as sexual abuse. His penis was damaged and he still is humiliated to this day.Hence why I said "parents shouldn't even have the authority." Where did I say this is an issue perpetuated only by mothers? | /r/MensRights | 29/02/24 02:29 PM |
| 10 | My brother in law was forced to get a circumcision at age 17 by his mother. The women I speak to don't see this as sexual abuse. His penis was damaged and he still is humiliated to this day.The same way a mother can abuse her 17-year-old son in any other way. 17-year-olds aren't independent adults and still are subject to the decisions of their parents. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 10:39 PM |
| 6 | My brother in law was forced to get a circumcision at age 17 by his mother. The women I speak to don't see this as sexual abuse. His penis was damaged and he still is humiliated to this day.Young boys are already being mutilated at their parents' behest on the regular in the US, and the reason is irrelevant. "Circumcisions" are performed on baby boys any time a parent asks for it. There does not need to be a medical reason, and I've seen many posts of parents gloating about having their sons circumcised to get rid of "ugly" foreskin and so it will be sexually more attractive. This is not only a believable but unfortunately common story. The only thing usual is his age, but any mino… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Woman who sent photos of herself assaulting her baby to child's father avoids jailIt's genuinely horrifying the amount of abuse mothers can get away with behind closed doors, and when the child has no one else to rely on. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 10:32 PM |
| 13 | "YO this guy is posting in MensRights and Incel HAHAHAHAHA don’t waste your time"There's a huge double standard regarding sex tourism. How older men who go into relatively poor countries to get with the desperate young women are seen as exploitative creeps. But when older women do the same thing to poor desperate men, it's seen either as empowering, as or the young men are exploiting the older women. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 10:30 PM |
| 9 | "YO this guy is posting in MensRights and Incel HAHAHAHAHA don’t waste your time"Same. Also a gay man, and it's disappointing how common misandry is among other gay men. I just saw a video on Instagram today from a gay man talking about how he idolizes strong women and made a "joke" (hopefully) about how misandry is great. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 10:27 PM |
| 9 | Is "The Future Is Female" Hate Speech?It is, as is the fact that it's treated like a positive thing. Why should it be celebrated if the future were female? Aren't feminists supposed to be for equality? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/02/24 09:00 PM |
| 5 | "YO this guy is posting in MensRights and Incel HAHAHAHAHA don’t waste your time"Seen this, as well as time when someone will bring up a valid men's issue, but will immediately be shut down because "you sound like a crazy MRA." Sometimes even when the person is not an MRA and does not generally talk about males' issues. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Woman who sent photos of herself assaulting her baby to child's father avoids jail>Maxwell's lawyer, Margot Perling, told the court her client was struggling as a new mum and had been crying out for help. Disgusting and yet far too common for female offenders to avoid jail because people are more concerned about her well-being than that of the victims who are supposed to be being protected by the criminal justice system. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 08:53 PM |
| 15 | My brother in law was forced to get a circumcision at age 17 by his mother. The women I speak to don't see this as sexual abuse. His penis was damaged and he still is humiliated to this day.Parents shouldn't even have the authority to force circumcisions onto their children, at any age. It's disgusting that this sexual abuse and physical assault is legally sanctioned. One of many examples of why it's nonsense when people say that males have "all the rights" and that their bodies aren't controlled by other people like females' supposedly are. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do women defend guilty women ?Because too many of them "support women's rights and women's wrongs." And sadly it's not just women; society in general, both men and women, contribute to the downplaying of predatory women, and giving them a pass for abusive behavior. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Ridiculous double standardFemale anatomy is just more complex than male anatomy And yet too many people are still so mystified by the foreskin that they believe cutting it off their sons just after birth is the only way to avoid the daunting task of caring for it properly. (In spite of the fact that the majority of men across the planet are intact and don't have the issues that are supposedly prevented by "circumcision.") | /r/MensRights | 15/02/24 06:26 PM |
| 49 | Guys Opinion about this last statement?I truly hate that mentality of "men are so privileged that men's issues aren't even worth seriously discussing." Unfortunately, both the left and the right marginalize the issues of men and boys, albeit often in different ways. Both downplay male victims of abuse, either because they should "man up, and it's just 'different' when it happens to a guy" or because "male privilege, and besides men cause all their own problems via patriarchy." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/02/24 05:59 PM |
| 55 | Can men be catcalled [16 M]Yes, anyone can catcall and can be catcalled. In spite of what some sexist people claim, an action doesn't become more or less wrong depending on the sex of the one committing it. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Why are antisocial behaviors such as destroying a man's property, spreading rumors, or physical assault dismissed when the perpetrator is a female?Because people always assume he did something to deserve it, usually cheating. Which is another double standard, since a man becoming violent with a woman isn't seen as justified just because she cheated. Meanwhile women have been praised for literally castrating cheating men. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Why are antisocial behaviors such as destroying a man's property, spreading rumors, or physical assault dismissed when the perpetrator is a female?It's less that men commit more violence which causes people to demonize them more, and more that men are demonized more which causes them to be arrested, convicted, and imprisoned disproportionately more. Innumerable times women are not even arrested let alone imprisoned for acts of violence a man would be for, so statistics on violent crimes are heavily skewed. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sonsStill you avoid addressing how someone can simultaneously be a consenting adult making independent decisions about his sex life, while also being someone whose decisions about his sex life are being managed by his mother. Address that point, and stop deflecting. And no, I'm not mocking the men, I'm mocking the idea that they are supposedly independent adults giving full consent for something they are evidently not in control of and apparently don't have the developmental wherewithal to decide wi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/24 08:36 AM |
| 1 | I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sonsIt’s like saying a woman cannot consent to anything amatory initiated by a man. No, that's a fallacious false equivalency. The relationship between a man and a woman is not analogous to the relationship between a parent and a offspring. Adult grooming is meaningless moral panic It's not "adult grooming" unless he met his mother as adult. Otherwise the grooming occurred starting at birth and throughout his entire childhood, till now. Claiming that impact is nullified as soon as he becomes an adul… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/24 08:19 AM |
| 3 | I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sonsYes, which is also unethical. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/24 07:50 AM |
| 1 | I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sonsI did read that, which reiterates that it's being arranged by his mother. I.e. he's not the one arranging it, but is following the orders of an authority figure. The fact that Alice Little calls it consensual means absolutely nothing. Children are literally groomed from birth to obey what their mothers tell them to do, and that conditioning doesn't magically disappear the second someone is of legal age. The fact is, if a man wants to have sex he can decide that on his own. If it's someone else--… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/24 01:53 AM |
| 3 | I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sonsthe idea that the social and psychological pressure for young men to get sex negates their consent is infantilizing nonsense. These "men" are literally having their mommies making arrangements for who they have sex with. What full-grown, mentally healthy, independent adult has his mother choose who he has sex with? Regardless of their legal ages, they are evidently not making their own decisions. It's their mothers who are infantilizing them, by being such an overbearing helicopter parents that … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sonsThe exploitation is from the mothers choosing it for their clueless sons. Meaning he's not choosing it for himself independently and with full awareness. He's going along with something he doesn't understand at the behest of an authoritarian figure. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/02/24 08:10 PM |
| 16 | I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sonsFrom someone who's first sexual experience was being exploited by an older woman, no it's not better than being a virgin. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/02/24 04:23 PM |
| 3 | I work in a brothel — moms pay me to deflower their clueless virgin sonsExactly. Even here there's this mentality of "it's helpful for a boy's first sexual experience to be with an older experienced woman" while it's seen as predatory for a girl's first sexual experience to be with an older experienced man. This kind of thinking contributes to why male victims of sexual abuse, boys raped by female teachers, etc. tend to be marginalized. Too many people just see it as "lucky boy." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/02/24 04:22 PM |
| 8 | Why are only men called out for spending money on themselves and never women?No women are fully functioning adults with as much agency as men. They absolutely need to be called out for and held accountable for any irrational behavior. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Why are only men called out for spending money on themselves and never women?It's probably partially related to how men's worth is measured by what he contributes, while women's worth is perceived as inherent. A woman can spend however much time and money on whatever hobbies she wants because she doesn't owe society or anyone else anything. Whereas men are seen as valuable only if he contributes in some way, e.g. by financially supporting a woman and children. So men who instead prioritize spending their time and money on themselves are seen as "losers." | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 07:44 PM |
| 11 | Government guidelines on teaching children sexual consent advise starting early and using plain language (with arbitrary focus on protecting "women and children")Exactly. It's so ironic how feminists say that they oppose lumping women with children, blaming the patriarchy for infantilizing women. But suddenly when it comes to protecting people from sexual abuse, women are as vulnerable as children incapable of being sexual predators. While apparently men are as vulnerable as tanks not needing protection. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/24 07:06 PM |
| 7 | Government guidelines on teaching children sexual consent advise starting early and using plain language (with arbitrary focus on protecting "women and children")actively challenge harmful and persistent myths and misconceptions such as the notion that men are entitled to sex, that male aggression is normal, or that women often lie about sexual assault. All the while perpetuating harmful and persistent myths and misconceptions such as the notion that only men need to taught about consent, and that female sexual abusers are too rare to be worth addressing. The whole narrative of "protect women and girls from male aggression" is so damaging for guys who ar… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/24 06:57 PM |
| 17 | Left-wingers seem to have a double standard for male victims of sexual abuse.True and I hate when people say that kind of thing. I've heard variations of "men can't understand the fear women have of being raped" and "males aren't traumatized by sexual abuse by women" from both left-wing and right-wing men and women. As a man who is still coping with the PTSD I have from abuse that happened years ago by women, I know that anyone who claims "men can't know what it's like" are full of shit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/24 03:35 AM |
| 15 | Left-wingers seem to have a double standard for male victims of sexual abuse.This is a very common thing and not even just from customers. I worked in several low-end restaurants in my late-teens/early-twenties, and at most of them there was at least one creepy woman. At one of the pizzerias I worked at, the manager was a married woman in her 30's who enjoyed "flirting" with this high-school boys who worked there. The grossest thing was when one of the boys (17-years-old) was eating something and had food on his mouth, and I overheard the manager telling him she wants to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/24 03:27 AM |
| 6 | "Men have abused women since time immemorial, it's time to compensate."the most commonly used definition of power is one completely based on the kind of power men have more often...However the power women have...is always completely ignored and not seen as a form of power at all. Exactly this. When people say "men had/have vastly more power than women," they always point to things like most politicians and CEO's being men. However politicians and CEO's have relatively little influence in the lives of individuals compared with the people they personally know around … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/12/23 06:46 PM |
| 14 | Tired Of The "Women And Children" NarrativeExactly. I've seen that countless times, where someone will acknowledge the existence of male victims, but then follow it up with "but this is very rare." They're not mentioning male victims to raise awareness for male victims. Just the opposite--they're doing it to stave of anyone asking about male victims. Like "yeah, yeah, we know they exist too. But they don't really matter, so stop talking about them, okay?" Almost any time female-on-male abuse is brought up, someone wants to interject with… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/23 06:19 PM |
| 26 | Tired Of The "Women And Children" NarrativeSaw that exact thing recently in a YouTube video about Unit 731. One of the first things the guy said was a warning about how "this story discusses violence against women and children." Even though like all war crimes, many of the victims of that entire tragedy were men. Not only does lumping together "women and children" marginalize male victims, it also implies that women and children are akin. Like women are equally are innocent and harmless and in need of protection as children. That kind of… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/23 03:48 PM |
| 4 | So, Blake Lively is a misandrist, apparently. Is it really getting this bad?Sure there's no way you could make something like that about women That's the whole point. Yes it's a dumb joke, but then why are "dumb jokes" only allowed when men are the victims? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/23 03:36 PM |
| 5 | So, Blake Lively is a misandrist, apparently. Is it really getting this bad?It would not be the same when the genders are reversed because maledom as a kink is not satirized nor shown in media like femdom is. Probably because it hits too close to common and real life sex crimes committed by men. It’s easier for the public to digest femdom because if the man is physically stronger it’s easier to imply that it’s consensual and he wants to be in that position. All of this actually just proves exactly why this ad is an issue. Real life sex crimes are also committed by women… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/23 03:34 PM |
| 7 | So, Blake Lively is a misandrist, apparently. Is it really getting this bad?The main discourse surrounding both those novels/films is that they romanticize abuse. "Still a better love story that Twilight" is a meme because Twilight is generally considered a horrible love story. 50 Shades of Grey has a 4.2 IMDB rating because of how many people were pissed off by it. The backlash against those pieces of media refutes the argument that that treatment of women is generally socially acceptable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/23 03:27 PM |
| 11 | So, Blake Lively is a misandrist, apparently. Is it really getting this bad?It's related to his recent stand-up that aired on Netflix where he made some joke about a waitress with a black eye. Heavily paraphrased: Person A: that looks bad, maybe they should put her in the back of the restaurant in the kitchen where she can't be seen. Person B: something tells me that if she could cook she wouldn't have that black eye. Since then there have been countless Tweets, YouTube videos, articles, etc. trying to cancel him for being a "misogynist" because of that joke. Up to you … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/23 08:01 AM |
| 12 | Study shows that women (even bisexual women) are extremely biphobic towards bisexual mensuggests that these women hold on to the view that while women occupy a wide spectrum of sexuality, men are either gay or straight. It's the hypocrisy for me. It's one thing if someone's exclusively heterosexual and only wants to be with someone who's also exclusively heterosexual. But any woman who swings both ways has no right to look down on a man for doing the same | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 10:57 PM |
| 52 | The situation vs what you hear aboutI've seen this time and again, where males are the majority of the victims of something, but it's treated like it's somehow a women's issue. Whether it's terrorism, infant genital mutilation, murders and violent crime in general. Male disposability is so normalized that most people either don't notice it, or try some mental gymnastics in order to justify or downplay it. E.g. "women have always been the primary victims of war." | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 10:48 PM |
| 18 | "All men are murderers and they should apologize" - After the murder of a young woman by the hand of the boyfriend, Italian media have blown up with unprecedented misandric hysteriaExactly. Reminds me of this true crime YouTube channel I watch occasionally, and I noticed a trend in the comments. This YouTuber covers both female and male criminal cases. Yet I've noticed that anytime a man murders a woman, there are so many comments saying things like "so many women go through things like this." "A lot of women don't feel safe around any man." "When it comes to abuse and violence, it's not all men, but it's always a man." Etc. etc. Even though many of the crimes this channel… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 10:39 PM |
| 23 | "All men are murderers and they should apologize" - After the murder of a young woman by the hand of the boyfriend, Italian media have blown up with unprecedented misandric hysteriaYes unfortunately, the gamma bias is a real phenomenon. As soon as an individual man does something terrible to a woman, people want to focus on how terrible men in general are, and how terrible women in general have it. "Male violence" and "misogyny" and "violence against men" etc. As if this one horrible man is indicative of a societal tolerance of male-on-female abuse. (Even though the fact that there's so much outrage about this case refutes this narrative. Because if male violence were a so… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 10:28 PM |
| 90 | So, Blake Lively is a misandrist, apparently. Is it really getting this bad?Particularly ironic in the wake of all the backlash against Matt Rife. Yet another example of the glaring double standard, how sexist jokes against men are "just a joke, lighten up guys!" but sexist jokes against women are "how dare you make light of such a terrible thing!" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/23 10:08 PM |
| 13 | "A real man is not afraid of being a feminist."I agree in theory, though in practice that's often not the case. The main issue that I personally have with feminism is it relies too heavily on the patriarchy theory, and therefore tends to subscribe to the "men are oppressors, women are victims" narrative. At best, some feminists may instead believe "men are oppressors, women and men are victims." But it's rare for feminists to acknowledge that both men and women contribute to perpetuating harmful gender norms that both men and women suffer fr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/11/23 11:38 PM |
| 16 | "A real man is not afraid of being a feminist."I agree. Unfortunately men get shamed from both the so-called liberal progressive and tradcon sides. I was just reading through a few "pro-male feminist" threads before this, and the common theme was "patriarchy hurts men too," "men suffer from other men's behavior," "these problems are caused by men," etc. Even when supposedly trying to help men, they still shame men and want to make sure that men feel responsible for everything wrong. One of the threads was a case about an old woman who groome… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/11/23 11:24 PM |
| 9 | Imagine a "Romantic Comedy" Based on a True Story about a Man's "Affair" with His 6th Grade Student (More Double Standards)I addressed that in the post, but to reiterate: 1. Lolita is fictional 2. people do take issue with the film adaptations 3. Humbert is clearly meant, as explicitly stated by the author, to be a terrible person; he's not a sympathetic character in any capacity All of these are the complete opposite in May December. As I mentioned, my issue isn't in there being a film about her. My issue is in how the film portrays her as a sympathetic character who had a "juicy, scandalous affair 😏 and now mean p… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/23 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Imagine a "Romantic Comedy" Based on a True Story about a Man's "Affair" with His 6th Grade Student (More Double Standards)I'm not surprised. I saw their 2018 interview "Strange Love" and that seemed to be the vibe. Even while everyone was trying to paint her in a positive light (even the title of the documentary "Strange Love" was biased,) she still let her true manipulative colors show | /r/MensRights | 23/10/23 01:19 PM |
| 8 | Imagine a "Romantic Comedy" Based on a True Story about a Man's "Affair" with His 6th Grade Student (More Double Standards)Good point about Antlers (2021). I felt similarly about The VVitch and the scene when the nude woman/woman kisses and implicitly rapes the younger brother Caleb. Everyone tells me "get over it, it's a horror film and it's meant to make you uncomfortable." But having gone through sexual abuse as a kid, honestly I can't bear to watch it, and I don't see why people love to include it, even for shock value. Especially since the boy ends up dying and the villains win, it just too closely parallels wh… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/23 01:15 PM |
| 54 | Imagine a "Romantic Comedy" Based on a True Story about a Man's "Affair" with His 6th Grade Student (More Double Standards)False comparison. Firstly, there are films that address dark subject matter in a comedic way without trivializing it, and this is not one of them. In dark comedies like Very Bad Things or American Psycho, the murderers are meant to be terrible people, and their crimes are meant to be awful. In this film, Gracie (Mary Kay) is meant to be sympathetic, and her rape of a child is meant to be seen as an affair that people unjustly attack her for. Secondly, Very Bad Things is a movie made more than 20… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/23 10:22 PM |
| 13 | 27 year old women sexually assaults and exposes herself to 13 year old boy when drunk and doesn't go to jail and she doesn't remember it happeningTrue. As many cases of women raping boys, abusing their partners, murdering their children, etc. that exist, there's still a strong narrative that violence and abuse are specifically things men perpetrate and that women are the primary victims of Doesn't help that when cases like this are publicized, the women almost always get away with it and have people defending them | /r/MensRights | 21/10/23 06:22 AM |
| 1 | UK: Mother, 38, who smashed a new TV and 'stabbed her boyfriend following a four-day white wine binge' avoids jail. OP: A man would have been jailed.Exactly, it is stupid. But unfortunately also very common for victims of domestic violence to not want to send their abusers to jail. There's a lot of psychological manipulation | /r/MensRights | 03/04/23 07:33 PM |
| 7 | UK: Mother, 38, who smashed a new TV and 'stabbed her boyfriend following a four-day white wine binge' avoids jail. OP: A man would have been jailed.True, though women are the most protected class of everyone | /r/MensRights | 03/04/23 05:35 PM |
| 17 | UK: Mother, 38, who smashed a new TV and 'stabbed her boyfriend following a four-day white wine binge' avoids jail. OP: A man would have been jailed.Exactly. She already has 22 previous offenses meaning she's gotten away with it before and has shown she'll keep doing it so long she keeps being given passes | /r/MensRights | 03/04/23 04:08 PM |
| 90 | UK: Mother, 38, who smashed a new TV and 'stabbed her boyfriend following a four-day white wine binge' avoids jail. OP: A man would have been jailed.Leadbetter had 22 previous offences on her record including disorderly behaviour, criminal damage and assault. Is she going to have to murder him before she starts being held accountable for her actions, or not even then? There is no bigger loss than losing your children. If she has the opportunity to have her children back to her it seems to me to be far more attractive than a bottle of wine. I truly hate the kinds of people who think a woman should be given a pass because she's a mother. "A ch… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/23 04:07 PM |
| 95 | Based Judge Jails Woman Who Raped Man, Says "there’s no distinction between male and female rape - the fact that a male is the victim doesn’t make it any less serious than the rape of a female victim"For real. I really wish this were the norm, and I hope that this gradually becomes more common. I know when I reported what happened to me when I was a boy 20 years ago, the only responses I got were variations of "women don't do things like that, you're fantasizing" and "every boy wishes that would happen, why are you whining?" Still now I see this attitude all to commonly. Even see people saying that men who accuse women of rape must be predators themselves, reversing the claims. But I'm glad … | /r/MensRights | 15/03/23 01:50 AM |
| 62 | Based Judge Jails Woman Who Raped Man, Says "there’s no distinction between male and female rape - the fact that a male is the victim doesn’t make it any less serious than the rape of a female victim"Far too many cases of women raping men and boys and getting no jail time; I was glad to see that in this case at least the judge and prosecutor stand up for the victim. Especially considering how difficult it must have been for the victim to come forward about this and give his impact statement. I would recommend reading the whole article if you can Unfortunately I still see so many people who like to say things like "being raped by a woman can't be that bad," "a guy would just get over it right… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/23 01:27 AM |
| 3 | The issue of men not utilising support services at the same rates of women being used as evidence that more focus needs to be on women.Right I know men not seeking help isn't needed, that's why I said gynocentrism also plays a significant role in why many resources focus specifically on women. Unfortunately even when men do seek out help, there isn't much sympathy or support offered. And then when they don't seek out help, people say "see? there's no need because men aren't looking for/using these services anyway" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/23 03:43 AM |
| 19 | The issue of men not utilising support services at the same rates of women being used as evidence that more focus needs to be on women.True, and unfortunately it becomes a vicious cycle Men who are suffering often don't utilize existing services. Which contributes to disproportionately more services being geared towards women. (Only contributes to this; it's not the only reason, as gynocentrism also plays a significant role in why many resources focus specifically on women in need) Then the lack of resources for men discourages them from seeking help, because they know there aren't many places to turn to. E.g. in most places th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/23 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a good quality essay about the "gay friend" phenomenon, treating gays as a women's accessory sidekick and the general emphasis of embracing feminity by men as a way of their obeisance.That sounds interesting, I haven't started watching that show yet. Thank you for the information, I'll have to check it out | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/23 07:46 PM |
| 7 | Looking for a good quality essay about the "gay friend" phenomenon, treating gays as a women's accessory sidekick and the general emphasis of embracing feminity by men as a way of their obeisance.I don't have any quality essays about this, unfortunately, but I'm glad to see this getting addressed. I'm a very feminine-presenting gay man, and I do find how we're represented in the media (the few times we are) very off-putting It is always either as a joke, or some incompetent sidekick there as a foil in order to make the strong female protagonist look cooler. Which really just perpetuates the sexist stereotype that being feminine must mean being weak and submissive It would be interesting … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/03/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | A 31-year-old woman sleeps with and gets pregnant by a 13-year-old boy... and faces zero jail time.A bullshit and baseless assumption, that boys turn out fine after being sexually abused by women. There's always some retard trying to claim "it's just different!" completely ignoring the negative psychological effects, including in this case according to the victim and his family | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 06:17 PM |
| 4 | A 31-year-old woman sleeps with and gets pregnant by a 13-year-old boy... and faces zero jail time.Thank you, I am doing a lot better now | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 09:02 AM |
| 4 | From short king spring to ‘short men are psychopaths’. When will the obsession with men’s height end? | Simon UsborneAs a gay dude, I know unfortunately you're right. Other gay guys are some of the worst where it comes to demanding that men fit this hypermasculine, tall, musuclar, conventionally attractive stereotype. Some will even act like you're not truly a gay man if you don't only like big, super butch hairy dudes, because gay men like *"real men!"* and short, slender guys aren't "real men" | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 08:16 AM |
| 2 | A 31-year-old woman sleeps with and gets pregnant by a 13-year-old boy... and faces zero jail time.Basically a bunch of deliberately obtuse, "well, we don't know it's because she's a woman!" They love to pretend double standards against male victims of sexual assault by women don't exist, while they perpetuate it themselves in how they treat sexual abuse as a "gendered crime" that men have the power to stop | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 07:51 AM |
| 2 | A 31-year-old woman sleeps with and gets pregnant by a 13-year-old boy... and faces zero jail time.the same exact thing happened to me 14 years ago, when I was 15 I was groomed by my 29 yo teacher...when I tried to speak out about it in the past it was feminists who supported me, unlike the men who thought it was funny or cool, or outright dismissed it I'm glad he found people who supported him, though my experience was very different. I do agree that I did also know guys who thought it was funny or cool, but the feminists women weren't any better--they also dismissed it, just in a different … | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 07:46 AM |
| 8 | A 31-year-old woman sleeps with and gets pregnant by a 13-year-old boy... and faces zero jail time.And it's basically a whole lot of them pretending there's no double standard and acting like "hur dur, well we don't really know why she got no jail time!" This absolute retard even claims It’s absolutely not in the interest of the child for the mother to be imprisoned. I can tell you from experience, it's not in the interest of the child to be raised by a child rapist. And also why is there no concern for the interest of the child victim who was raped? The fact that this comment got upvoted for… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 07:28 AM |
| 3 | A 31-year-old woman sleeps with and gets pregnant by a 13-year-old boy... and faces zero jail time.Absolutely disgusting. A man getting with a 13-year-old girl gets people calling for his castration, put in jail, likely beaten or killed there. While this woman gets no jail time, gets full custody, and gets sympathy from the "Criminal Justice System" | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 06:36 AM |
| 9 | "men aren't men anymore"Conservatives hold to strict gender roles due to it being traditional and "natural" in their view, while many on the modern "left" hold strict gender roles when many of them do things like - for example - act as though a cisgender man who acts in a feminine manner must secretly be a woman and should consider themselves as transgender 100% this. I'm a detrans male (MtFtM)--meaning born male, but I spent years of my life identifying as a transwoman. Looking back on it, one of the reasons trans ide… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/23 05:04 AM |
| 11 | "men aren't men anymore"doesn't that mean that a gay man (one born as a male) who acts in a very "stereotypically feminine" manner wouldn't be considered a man by that definition of gender? Exactly, and this is a big part of why "gender critical" and "LGB drop the T" people exist. People (especially gay and lesbian people) have fought for decades against regressive gender norms, against the idea that gay men aren't "real men," against women who date butch lesbians being told "you might as well date a man at that point,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/23 04:29 AM |
| 3 | "men aren't men anymore"gender is the behavioral component closely related to sex That makes gender sound like stereotypes and generalizations, then. Like a biological male who behaves in a manner typically associated with women isn't a "real man" Not that I disagree with how you explain gender. But that's partly why gender critical people exist. Gender theory does seem a bit regressive when it supposes that being a man or woman is based on acting/looking like what's typical of most men and women | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/23 04:12 AM |
| 1 | "men aren't men anymore"testosterone (eg body hair or an increased sex drive) would be objectively masculine Even that's a difference that tends to be blown out of proportion. It's a cultural norm that women shave their legs, armpits, etc. to be hairless. It's not biologically natural for most adult women to have no body hair There are generalizations (men are usually more horny, men are usually physically stronger, men are usually taller, etc.) But these traits are far from being either universal or exclusive to men. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/23 03:53 AM |
| 3 | "men aren't men anymore"I agree, and I believe the idea that a man must conform to conventional standards of stereotypical masculinity is not necessarily helpful for men's issues. Especially since some of these stereotypes can contribute to the marginalization of male victims (especially of sexual abuse or domestic violence from women, which guys are stereotypically not supposed to be bothered by) Some men are conventionally masculine and some are not, but no man should be shamed for not conforming to these gender role… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/23 03:33 AM |
| 4 | A row of boys lying on newsprint-covered tables howl in pain and grit their teeth as part of "circumcision season" in the Philippines beginsCircumcision can be done a day or 2 after birth where FGM isn’t until girls are well within the age of memory As you see from OP, It's also done to boys when they're old enough to remember as well. Not always, but then it's also not always done to girls when they're old enough to remember either. And anyway, if that's the issue, then it should be okay to cut off girls' prepuce so long they're infants and don't remember it, right? Not to mention, sexual abuse and mutilation doesn't become okay be… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 10:54 PM |
| 9 | A row of boys lying on newsprint-covered tables howl in pain and grit their teeth as part of "circumcision season" in the Philippines beginsThis may surprise you, but the reasons for both MGM and FGM are identical "Cleanliness." Where FGM is practiced, it's because they believe it's cleaner, the same as where MGM is practiced. Some people would rather cut off their children's body parts than clean them Cosmetics. One of the main reasons people circumcise boys is because they believe the natural penis is "ugly," hence the shaming about having an "anteater" or "elephant trunk" dick. Not for health reasons, but because some adults want… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 09:56 PM |
| 4 | A row of boys lying on newsprint-covered tables howl in pain and grit their teeth as part of "circumcision season" in the Philippines beginsExactly. Not to mention, many problems "caused by being intact" are actually due to avoidable mistreatment of the foreskin For example, some ignorant people try to forcibly retract the foreskin of a baby's penis, which causes injuries, which leads to infections. Then the doctors want to say "see? He got an infection because he's uncircumcised, he needs to be circumcised." When really there wouldn't have been any problems if he hadn't been forcibly retracted Or they won't be able to retract the f… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 09:19 PM |
| 8 | A row of boys lying on newsprint-covered tables howl in pain and grit their teeth as part of "circumcision season" in the Philippines beginsNobody circumcises baby girls. Maybe some small subcultures do, akin to the Chinese foot-binding or the ancient neck extension thing… but that’s not comparable to male circumcision which has been done for thousands of years across many cultures. Argumentum ad populum. Just because male genital mutilation is more common, doesn't make it any less of a violation | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Why should I care what men need/want narrativeIf you guys can think of many many other issues where women benefit but we do not get anything in return please add them. Legal protection of genital integrity, which in the US is extended to female children but not male children. DV shelters and social services, that are often exclusive to female victims in spite of the prevalence of male victims. Selective service being mandatory for adult males in the US but not women Not becoming violent when you find your partner cheating even though that's… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 07:22 PM |
| 4 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)So true, this entire list. And yet there are still so many people who claim "men don't have social issues on the basis of being male" | /r/MensRights | 07/05/22 01:17 AM |
| 26 | "What about the women??" Feminists mad that Johnny Depp case may challenge #BelieveWomen (I hope it does)You're exactly right. It's an issue of gynocentrism; when everything is only judged for its merit on the basis of how it affects women, then efforts that only/primarily help men are deemed worthless or even bad for "distracting from the important issue" Addressing male reproductive/paternity rights, male victims of women, etc. doesn't directly help women, which is the reason why some people are so troubled by it. One can see this in how people are treating it as an inherently bad thing if men us… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/05/22 10:33 PM |
| 3 | GeNdEr EqUaLiTyI definitely get that lol Gay guys can't avoid women's abuse entirely, but most of the times it happened to me was when I was a child living with my mother. Nowadays I rarely have to worry about rape, DV, or false accusations by a woman, who the Justice System will automatically side with | /r/MensRights | 24/04/22 02:13 AM |
| 23 | Amy Schumer says 'toxic masculinity' led to Will Smith slapping Chris Rock at Oscars OP: Some people are really dumb: there is no such thing as toxic masculinity."Toxic masculinity" from a woman who admitted to and joked about taking advantage of a drunk man. She's one of the last people who should be judging others as toxic Will Smith was in the wrong for hitting Chris Rock. But it's not about toxic masculinity and more about him wanting to regain favor with his wife who publicly shamed him as not being enough to make her happy, so she claims she had to go to her son's friend Or if this was "toxic masculinity," it's an example of how women can perpetuat… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 06:29 PM |
| 22 | 'How To Murder Your Husband' Author Is Accused Of Murdering Her HusbandSaw this article on Facebook, was mostly laugh reacts It seems like more often than not in cases of female-on-male violence, even murder, the reactions are people laughing about it The main argument people use to marginalize women abusing men is that women are weaker and so pose no real threat. But the fact that people don't take it seriously even when a woman murders a man, and so clearly was a threat, just shows it's ultimately about a lack of empathy | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 06:21 PM |
| 12 | Article about woman who tried to murder her newborn met only with "she needs help" commentsWhat's unique is that humans believe we should be above that. That we can control such hormonal urges. Yes because we should be and we can Male humans are uniquely expected not to rape people, in spite of hormonal urges and the fact that rape is normal throughout the animal kingdom. No one says "it's his hormones out of wack, with animals it's normal for the male to force the female if he senses she's in heat" when a man rapes a woman If male humans are expected to control themselves, why can't … | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 07:07 AM |
| 21 | United Kingdom: 'I didn't think you'd believe me': Men tell of feeling ashamed of being abused | ITV News: Seven years ago the Home Secretary was openly discriminating against man and boy victims. Today, agencies victim blame:Yeah, this article seems to take the stance of "men could get help if only they would be more open with what they're going through." It acts as if the difference between male and female victims is that men are more ashamed. However the biggest difference is not in the victims, but in how people respond to them. If men were as open as women are with their issues, they would get a lot of "male tears," "whiny man-children," and "stop trying to make everything about men!" It sounds like this project… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/22 01:51 PM |
| 7 | United Kingdom: 'I didn't think you'd believe me': Men tell of feeling ashamed of being abused | ITV News: Seven years ago the Home Secretary was openly discriminating against man and boy victims. Today, agencies victim blame:I wouldn't say it's victim-blaming to acknowledge the fact that social stigma often makes it difficult for male victims to report being abused by a woman. Though I do get where you're coming from with some of the language in this article; especially That's the biggest thing, when men call me that's what they say, I didn't think you would believe me. There's such bravado, they don't want to go to their mates. Calling it "bravado" can seem like the problem is with the men for not seeking help. Whe… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/22 01:36 PM |
| 16 | A girl sends a picture of their boobs and it’s ‘hot’ or ‘sexy’. A guys sends a picture of his penis and he’s labelled as a ‘pervert’ or ‘creep’Yes I agree. I've had bad experiences since I was really young with sexual harassment from women, so I'm definitely not of the mind that "it's okay when women do it because men always want that anyway" It should not be assumed that every man would be happy to get unsolicited nudes, boob pics, sext, or other sexual advances from any woman | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 05:08 PM |
| 106 | A girl sends a picture of their boobs and it’s ‘hot’ or ‘sexy’. A guys sends a picture of his penis and he’s labelled as a ‘pervert’ or ‘creep’There has been a study that showed that unsolicited flirty messages are treated very differently when they're from men and women. It's fairly well established that unwanted advances from women are automatically deemed less predatory than from men | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 03:17 PM |
| 8 | QuestionIt's not either/or; both false accusations and sexual assault are real issues that need to be dealt with. Especially since some false accusations are made against the person who is actually the victim There have been times when a woman will molest a teenage boy, then claim he was the one who raped her. Just assuming all accusations are true would in those cases lead to prosecuting a rape victim as if he is the rapist. Not to mention an obvious case like Johnny Depp, where first everyone attacked… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/22 07:06 AM |
| 10 | QuestionEven the example you gave is case in point why this sub exist. If a 16-year-old boy hit a woman for slapping his ass, it would not be considered self-defense; that woman would be treated like a victim, not charged with a crime None of the women who ever sexually abused me were charged with anything for what they did. Not my mother or her friends when I was a child. Not my supervisor when she threatened to demote me for not giving in to her advances. Not the woman at a club I went to a few years … | /r/MensRights | 31/01/22 06:57 AM |
| 12 | I'm not going to let a woman tell *me* that I'm not a 'real man'.Exactly. I hate it when anyone tells me (or any other man) that kind of thing. Usually when I hear it, it's to shame a man into something that's to his disadvantage E.g. to marginalize male victims of sexual abuse ("what kind of guy would complain about sex with a woman??") or domestic violence ("a real man should be able to take it and never hit back") Or it's used to try pressure men into the provider/protector role. Either from a traditionalist perspective ("men should pay for dates and bills… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/22 04:47 AM |
| 25 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.What feminists are demanding all men have to change? Unfortunately it's not a fake argument; many feminists judge and make demands of men as a whole. All those who say "men are trash." Those who say "men can stop rape," as if women don't rape and men as a demographic are responsible. Those who respond to "not all men" with "yes all men, yes all cis men" So really it's not uncommon for feminists to act like men as a demographic should be held accountable for the actions of the minority committing… | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 10 | "We explore gender differences in reported well-being around the world ... women have higher levels of well-being than men, with a few exceptions in low income countries"More men are victims of violent crimes...The statistics might say that, but I can assure you most women aren't open about the domestic violence they experienced because they're taught to be ashamed This is even more true for men than women. When a woman's violent towards her partner, it's assumed he did something to deserve it, or it's just treated as a joke It's a catch-22 for male victims. If he does defend himself against an abusive female partner, he's seen as a woman-beater (including by th… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/22 06:58 AM |
| 26 | Men are more selfish than women?according to a survey of dual-earner households, new fathers manage to carve out far more leisure time for themselves than do new mothers. This point claims that fathers being less involved in child-rearing/homemaking proves that men are more selfish than women. This is just as idiotic as claiming that mothers being less-involved in their jobs and career proves that women are more lazy than men. They specifically look at an area that women are typically more involved in. I could just as well con… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/22 05:14 AM |
| 9 | Judgments About Male Victims of Sexual Assault by Women: A 35-Year Replication StudyI love the "despite" part. As if our culture has shifted in any male-positive way during that time, rather than just shoveling all improvements, needed or not, toward women Proof that trickle-down empathy doesn't work, in spite of some people's claims that eliminating misogyny will also automatically eliminate misandry. People being more aware of and sympathetic towards female victims does not necessarily mean people will be any more sympathetic towards male victims | /r/MensRights | 14/01/22 04:23 AM |
| 18 | A Dangerous New Trend of ‘Anti-Male Bias’ Litigation Against Title IXBrodsky says their research found that at the heart of these cases was the plaintiffs’ broad equation of accused parties with male identity, despite how students accused of sexual misconduct aren’t always men. The difference, however, is that when it's a woman accused of sexual misconduct, she isn't typically presumed guilty the way men are Contrary to popular MRA talking points, men are statistically more likely to be victims of sexual harm than falsely accused of it. “People of all genders hur… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/22 04:16 AM |
| 12 | A Dangerous New Trend of ‘Anti-Male Bias’ Litigation Against Title IXFor those who don't want to give that idiotic website clicks, here is an archived version of that article https://archive.is/jVg9T | /r/MensRights | 14/01/22 04:02 AM |
| 8 | Is this scenario sexist?I would say that it's sexist because of the double standard. If they penalized everyone who makes comments about other people being hot or not, that would be one thing (still draconian, but not sexist.) But the fact that it's only an issue when a boy talks about a girl is unjustified That's my problem with when feminists say "men shouldn't make comments about women's bodies," "Why Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Comment On Women’s Bodies," "Here's Why Men Need To Stop Commenting On Women's Looks," e… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 05:44 PM |
| 13 | Is this scenario sexist?Exactly, they only like men who they can control to do their bidding. And they don't even "like" those men, they just find them useful. As soon as I've said something against the narrative, I've never had any feminist take my side because I'm a gay guy | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 05:27 PM |
| 21 | UN tried to spoil International Men's Day again. Made a poster to highlight our as always ignored issuesI also really fucking hate every time I hear the term "gender-based violence." Because it's always referring to violence that isn't actually gender-based at all (e.g. sexual abuse, domestic violence) and reframing it as if it's something that only happens to women caused by men | /r/MensRights | 19/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Is there any part of US or Western Culture that portrays women in unflattering ways. Is there any criticism of women as women the same way men are being criticized as men.Either you're misinterpreting or deliberately misconstruing what I said. My point is how women are *perceived as" helpless victims when they do wrong, but equal to/better than men when it comes to positive accomplishments I thought it was pretty clear but maybe it wasn't that the last paragraph is pointing out the double standard in how society perceives things, it's not what I believe. Maybe I should have started it "Society believes they're all helpless victims...etc. etc." | /r/MensRights | 19/11/21 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Is there any part of US or Western Culture that portrays women in unflattering ways. Is there any criticism of women as women the same way men are being criticized as men.Which is exactly the issue. The fact that to them, the term "rape" should be assumed to be referring to female victims and male perps by default They don't say "men can stop rape committed by men against women." They just say "men can stop rape" because to them the only kind of rape that exists/matters is when it's a man raping a woman TL;DR "Men can stop rape" is no more true than "woman can stop rape" | /r/MensRights | 19/11/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Is there any part of US or Western Culture that portrays women in unflattering ways. Is there any criticism of women as women the same way men are being criticized as men.True that's a pretty good example. Of course that's why the term is currently coming under attack for "misogyny" lol And of course even that is a very specific kind of woman, not women in general the way people disparage men in general | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 7 | Is there any part of US or Western Culture that portrays women in unflattering ways. Is there any criticism of women as women the same way men are being criticized as men.I'm talking about women raping people, you absolute moron. Men can't stop rape when a lot of times women are the one's committing the rape So you're the one being misandric assuming that the only role a woman can play in rape is the victim | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 11:14 PM |
| 8 | Is there any part of US or Western Culture that portrays women in unflattering ways. Is there any criticism of women as women the same way men are being criticized as men.How is acknowledging the fact that women play a role in society "generalizing"? | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 9 | Is there any part of US or Western Culture that portrays women in unflattering ways. Is there any criticism of women as women the same way men are being criticized as men.doing so requires understanding that a lot of our current problems are women's fault Exactly right. Even acknowledging that women are partly/equally responsible for society's problems is considered misogyny. It's all "men can stop rape." "Men need to be held accountable." "Men are trash, and so are you if you disagree" And if someone draws attention to the fact that women are also responsible for the role they play in society, people are so quick to downplay their agency They're all helpless vic… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 08:15 PM |
| 16 | Is there any part of US or Western Culture that portrays women in unflattering ways. Is there any criticism of women as women the same way men are being criticized as men.Not that I'm aware of. It's hardly common for even individual females to be portrayed unflattering, let alone for women as a group as to be criticized I actually just came across an article today on TV Tropes highlighting a similar issue. Whenever women are depicted, their bad behavior is automatically treated/perceived as less bad by virtue of it being women doing these bad things to men. So even if there were a part of culture showcasing women doing bad things, it probably wouldn't be depicted… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 07:57 PM |
| 10 | There’s More To The Story Than Just “Men Commit The Majority Of Violent Crimes”True, though a third thing to consider is that "men commit 80% of violent crimes" isn't even accurate. Men may be 80% of the people convicted or imprisoned for violent crimes. Though that statistic doesn't take into account how much more often women aren't prosecuted or even arrested for their acts of violence | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 07:44 PM |
| 6 | I was verbally abused for talking about my suicide attemptNot helping is one thing, but going out of their way to be a cunt about it and say he deserved to be cheated on etc. is another | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 07:36 PM |
| 11 | Women who kill aren’t always cowed victimsIt ought to go without saying that a literal murderer isn't necessarily the victim. Only with women do people assume this; imagine a man murdering his wife, and the general response being "poor guy, he must have suffered a lot to do this. His wife must have been a real bitch to provoke him into murdering her" | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 12:56 AM |
| 39 | Another Gillette-style advert aimed at perverting men's day calling all men rapists!!Society often turns a blind eye to men’s behaviour. This International Men’s Day, Mankind encourages you to educate & be aware of the behaviours that can be uncomfortable & downright wrong That's one of the most idiotic feminist narratives, that society turns a blind eye to men's behavior. It's literally the 180-degree opposite of the truth. Whatever bad behavior a man does, when a woman does it she's far more likely to get away with it | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 12:45 AM |
| 3 | 7 out of 8 charges dropped for a Doral middle school teacher, she was 8 months pregnant after allegedly having sex with a 15 y/o. Defense attorney claims there were no sufficient evidence. "It was a rumor mill".Right, or they're the kind of pathetic losers who would be like "where were women like this when I was a kid??" | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 05:45 AM |
| 4 | 7 out of 8 charges dropped for a Doral middle school teacher, she was 8 months pregnant after allegedly having sex with a 15 y/o. Defense attorney claims there were no sufficient evidence. "It was a rumor mill".Even if she never touched him and the messages/pictures were all there was (a dubious assumption, given the evidence), that already makes her not innocent | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 05:44 AM |
| 4 | 7 out of 8 charges dropped for a Doral middle school teacher, she was 8 months pregnant after allegedly having sex with a 15 y/o. Defense attorney claims there were no sufficient evidence. "It was a rumor mill".Or when women sexually abuse children, they don't get charged for it. Case in point, OP | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 05:42 AM |
| 4 | Misandry and gay menAs a gay man, I think the idea that feminists and gay men are "natural allies" is such BS. The vast majority of violence and hate against gay men stem from misandry. It's no coincidence that there's much more prejudice, violence, and laws against gay men than there is against lesbians. It parallels how there is much more prejudice, violence, and legal discrimination against straight men than straight women | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Domestic violence is serious, unless the victim is male!You're correct. Though there have been real cases of women castrating men, and invariably the general response is people agreeing with and laughing at it | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 05:30 AM |
| 11 | Men don't have problemsYou're doing the exact same thing you critisized: Generalizing "feminism" as a source of all problems I literally just said it's not just feminists that are the problem--I'll be the first to criticize misandric tradcon ideals. But feminists are often part of the problem. Now you're deliberately misconstruing what I said, pretending that means "feminism is the source of all problems" The term red pill has literally become synonymous with the most vile shit I've ever had the misfortune of reading … | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Men don't have problemsNot sure if this is the original, but it's the one I found with the most comments instagram[dot]com/p/CVya5_itw9r/ | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 12:13 AM |
| 17 | Men don't have problemsThere is then also a vast difference between "men" and "toxic masculinity" - that being something this subreddit should be much more aware of than it seems to be...Toxic masculinity is a mindset and societal expectation that is not to be blamed on any sex The problem is that whenever people do talk about toxic masculinity, they do often unilaterally blame men for it. So toxic masculinity is not something only men cause, and yet when it's discussed that's exactly how it's treated. So many times I… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 11:21 PM |
| 15 | Men don't have problemsMaybe this original post on Instagram was reported and removed as threatened because I couldn't find it, but I did search #MensHealthMonth and so far all the posts/comments have been positive and pro-male. So I'm hoping whatever account posted OP just has a lot of shitty followers | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 10:36 PM |
| 32 | Men don't have problemsNow you're just being a hypocrite. You say blaming women for this is anti-women, then you go on to do the same thing by acting like it's men and "toxic masculinity" at fault | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 10:19 PM |
| 40 | Men don't have problemsAnd yet you have not actually provided a reason why this subreddit is hated | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 10:15 PM |
| 79 | Men don't have problemsYou are making a bunch of very broad and baseless accusations. What about this post, or any other specific top, post is supposedly unreasonable? | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 10:14 PM |
| 5 | man jumps from second floor apartment after a woman shot him because he refused to give her oral sexWhat the Hell are you even talking about, you absolute clown? lol The fuck would give you the idea that I would say that we should ignore this? And it doesn't even happen to women more anyway, male victims are likely just as common they just don't get taken as seriously | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/07/21 03:37 AM |
| 5 | man jumps from second floor apartment after a woman shot him because he refused to give her oral sexFar from the first time I've heard about or witnessed women becoming dangerously violent when rejected by men Yet how many times have I heard people say "men don't have to fear being attacked by women for turning them down, the way women fear being attacked by men!" How many times have I heard people preach about "male sexual entitlement" and "teach men not to rape" | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/07/21 12:52 AM |
| 34 | TV Tropes: Men are the Expendable Gender. I love this website...so many incisive observationsI've spent a lot of time on TVTropes, they tend to have a fairly balanced perspective on things. They have other interesting pages regarding gender double standards in the media Female-on-male domestic violence Female-on-male rape The bubbling dad stereotype How men are always depicted as the ones to blame in relationships BDSM being depicted as abusive when it's a male dom but erotic or funny when it's a dominatrix | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 07:22 AM |
| 11 | TV Tropes: Men are the Expendable Gender. I love this website...so many incisive observationsExactly. So basically the only time female deaths are more common is in media where their deaths are meant to be particularly tragic and disturbing. Whenever a death is meant to be meaningless, or is meant to not affect the audience much, it's almost always a male character | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Society needs to stop letting little boys play with dolls, they can negatively impact their lives and society as a wholeBoys are not supposed to play with dolls, that is an imperative accepted in society more or less. So, if it will be known to other children, they will laugh at him This doesn't mean that boys should be taught not to play with dolls. This means children should be taught not to bully boys for playing with dolls Men and boys should be allowed to express themselves however they feel without being shamed to conform to stereotypes. Shaming a boy for playing with dolls is no better than shaming a guy f… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Woman sentenced to 64 to 102 years for raping multiple boys on multiple occasions. Notable for the severity of punishment.Not to mention that even in a case as extreme as this, most commenters on the article are blaming the boys and complaining about her sentence. One of the top comments on that article is 102 years? Unbelievable! Rehab community service, short jail term. Lose reachers license. Not 102 years So even though this cunt was sentenced appropriately, the fact that the majority of the general public (at least judging by the hundreds of comments on that article) is upset that this woman is getting a long j… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 06:57 AM |
| 5 | Woman sentenced to 64 to 102 years for raping multiple boys on multiple occasions. Notable for the severity of punishment.Exactly. That's a pertinent point in this specific case too, because I noticed that many upvoted comments on that article are saying things like "boys that age are sexually aggressive and would have wanted this to happen". This perspective that men and even male children are always the abusers is BS It's good that in this case she was brought to justice. But chances are she won't serve a significant portion of that time. And even now so many commenters on the article are complaining about her se… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 06:51 AM |
| 5 | Woman sentenced to 64 to 102 years for raping multiple boys on multiple occasions. Notable for the severity of punishment.Good on the sentence. But did anyone else notice how most of the top comments are how the sentence is "too long" and that boys aren't harmed by this? Kind of shows why female rapists rarely are brought to justice; when it does happen, people are upset | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 06:42 AM |
| 2 | UK: A feminist campaigner has been charged with a hate crime for posting allegedly homophobic and transphobic material on social media.You're right, it is. It's basically validating their self-loathing, like telling an anorexic "yes your body is the problem, and losing weight is the only way you can ever be happy" | /r/MensRights | 25/06/21 04:58 AM |
| 2 | UK: A feminist campaigner has been charged with a hate crime for posting allegedly homophobic and transphobic material on social media.Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminist; basically feminists who believe that transwomen don't count as women Which in itself isn't wrong. But because they're radical feminists, many hate men for being "oppressors". And they hate transwomen even more for being men who they see as trying to infiltrate women's spaces in order to prey upon them However, as another user mentioned, sometimes "TERF" is erroneously used as an insult against anyone who at all questions the narrative that trans people are 10… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/21 10:45 PM |
| 20 | To all the feminists who love recycling the ridiculous quote that men fear being laughed at by women while women fear being murdered by men, here is a little darling who laughed at and then murdered an Uber driver. And got only six years in jail for it.Another disgusting but expected case of male victims of women not getting justice in the CJS I really hate that "men only fear being laughed at" quote, and its ignorant implication that men don't face any real danger from women. I learned from an early age how bullshit that is, growing up with an abusive mother And the countless cases of women murdering, abusing, or raping men and boys clearly demonstrates that anyone who believes that women aren't a danger to men is a clown | /r/MensRights | 10/06/21 04:34 PM |
| 4 | UK: A feminist campaigner has been charged with a hate crime for posting allegedly homophobic and transphobic material on social media.Yeah that is true. There are definitely TERF's who are indeed misandric (e.g. the users of r/GenderCritical before it got shut down, who would frequently post about how men are naturally inclined to be oppressive rapists) On the other hand, I've been called a TERF before for being a detrans man and challenging the idea that the only "cure" for dysphoria is transitioning | /r/MensRights | 10/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 2 | UK: A feminist campaigner has been charged with a hate crime for posting allegedly homophobic and transphobic material on social media.At this point they're basically changing the definition of man and woman from meaning "human male / female" to meaning "whatever you consider yourself to be, regardless of physical reality" | /r/MensRights | 10/06/21 02:54 PM |
| 8 | UK: A feminist campaigner has been charged with a hate crime for posting allegedly homophobic and transphobic material on social media.I'm honestly not sure what this has to do with men's rights, or if OP is with or against the TERF Personally I have mixed feelings on the matter. Since detransitioning I've accepted that the difference between men and women is physiological, not a matter of personal feelings, identification, or cultural norms / stereotypes On the other hand, TERF's tend to take it a step farther and act like because transwomen are male, they like all men are detestable, perverted, predatory dangers to women TERF… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/21 02:52 PM |
| 16 | Dear femcels, men wanting equal rights doesn't equal misogyny. Please stop disguising yourselves and making people fighting for things different than yours the bad guys, thanks.Of course you use birth control if you don't want kids. The issue is that when someone tricks you by saying they're on the pill or damaging the condoms True. Not to mention that women can opt out of parenthood for any reason. She can knowingly have sex without a condom or any kind of birth control, and still get an abortion. Equality would mean that men should be able to opt out even when they're not raped or tricked into getting someone pregnant | /r/MensRights | 10/06/21 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Many women get frustrated when the men they flirt to don't get the hint. In today's age, many men do get the hint, but don't act on it because the consequences and stakes for misinterpreting it are much higher and severeTrue, if a guy is good-looking and / or takes care of his appearance, people assume he's an arrogant douche bag | /r/MensRights | 28/05/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Many women get frustrated when the men they flirt to don't get the hint. In today's age, many men do get the hint, but don't act on it because the consequences and stakes for misinterpreting it are much higher and severeI think it's hilarious when women take a man ignoring their advances as him being oblivious lol When it's more like "nah, I see you and am choosing to ignore" | /r/MensRights | 28/05/21 12:53 PM |
| 13 | I feel like boys/men have lost hope or just feel unneeded in this modern society. 24/7 "girls are better bombardment."That's true, I should have said masculine stereotypes rather than traits; it's the way society perceives masculinity rather than what it is. The most abusive people in my life were my mother and her female friends, and most were very conventionally feminine They used stereotypical femininity to get away with things, like playing the victim or pretending to be innocent | /r/MensRights | 07/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 167 | I feel like boys/men have lost hope or just feel unneeded in this modern society. 24/7 "girls are better bombardment."True, and it's been this way for a while. Certainly since I was a boy, and I'm 30 now As a kid, it was "girls rule, boys drool". "Sugar, spice, and everything nice" vs. "snips of snails and puppy-dogs' tails". As an adult, it's "men are pigs", "men are trash", and "the future is female" Male positivity and male empowerment isn't really a thing, and the only references to male power are usually negative (e.g. the patriarchy) Basically women are now associated with all the positive traits of femin… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/21 03:12 PM |
| 10 | 54.6% of sexual abuse victims under 18 are boys, yet they have no protection from sexual abuse when they turn 18.Sadly true. Already people hardly care when boys are raped, at least not when the rapist is a woman. And they care even less when it's a man who is raped | /r/MensRights | 07/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Mum who killed disabled son in lockdown sentenced with hospital order. No prison, and the article frames her as the victim.It is 100% discrimination. Because here people are saying "walk a mile in her shoes before judging and condemning!" But when a man commits any kind of crime--let alone murder--suddenly all that compassion vanishes | /r/MensRights | 12/02/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Hello! I'm a girl, attempting to write men in an accurate way, can anyone help?Some of us are writers! 😁 And either way, there's good insight even from non-writers. Though I am curious how this question would go over if posted on a writing a subreddit | /r/MensRights | 29/01/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Hello! I'm a girl, attempting to write men in an accurate way, can anyone help?You already got a lot of good advice here, but another thing to remember is that men are a diverse group of people, so there's no hard and fast rule. E.g. I've heard people tell female authors not to make male characters "too emotional" or sentimental, because "guys aren't like that". Which is nonsense, some guys are very sentimental and it's perfectly possible to write a male character like that believably Something that does really annoy me is when the male characters are all the same--usually… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/21 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released.I'm providing examples of how men rule. You're saying "nut uh!" Google the defense mechanism called "projection" I already explained how your whole claim about top positions being mostly men is due to men being the ones burdened with the social expectation of being the provider, and proved how it's women perpetuating this expectation And you're response was just "well it's the patriarchy!" Ignoring how the very definition of is completely at odds with the fact that it's women's social power that… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released.No, it's not just the word that's the issue. The issue is your baseless claim that society is controlled by men just because most politicians are men. Women control social norms at least as much as men do | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released.It's not about it being against their own self-interest, it's about it being an oxymoron. I already explained this and you're clearly not even reading the responses or refuting the points. You're just repeating the same debunked arguments | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released.You defined patriarchy as a society in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. Women being largely excluded from the power means they don't have enough power to make a significant impact on the norms in society However where it comes to men being burden to be the providers, that's not caused by patriarchy / men holding the power / women not having power. It's caused partly if not mostly by women's preferences. Men feel this pressure because they want to win over women, n… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released.It's not the patriarchy when women perpetuate this gender norm just as much as men do. Women have social power, and their stigma towards and shaming of low-income men (e.g. saying they have the jobs of "a manchild" and have no drive) does more to burden men to provide than random male politicians do | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released.More likely the reason why it's mostly been men becoming CEO's is because men historically have been and still are expected to be the breadwinners / providers (sometimes sole providers, esp. historically). When it's only men who have been pressured to work and make money, it's no surprise that there have been many more men who felt the need to pursue top high-paying positions compared with women A woman can choose to pursue a high-paying position if she wants to, but she doesn't have to. She can… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released.A whole bunch of you seem to be triggered by the word patriarchy. I'm using the word as it is defined: "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it." Even by that definition, this is not the patriarchy. You're pretending as if "political positions" = social power. The problem is that politicians don't control all of society. Most people's beliefs and ideas (e.g. the idea that women are less accountable) don't come from politicians telling … | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.Ad hominem attacks just show that you can't prove your point so you must resort to baseless and irrelevant insults. It's pathetic. Just accept that you have no idea what you're talking and leave, you've done nothing but embarrass yourself with your ignorance and irrationality this whole conversation | /r/MensRights | 14/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.The problem with people like you is that you can't admit when you know you're wrong, and do some mental gymnastics to try justify your hypocrisy The suffragettes, like feminists in general, were trying to get all the rights without any of the responsibilities. That's not equality. It's that simple | /r/MensRights | 14/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.the USA I can find no proof that failing to register bars you from voting Registering for selective service is literally a requirement for American men (and only men) when they turn 18. When I registered to vote, registering for selective service was automatic. Deliberately not registering for selective service not only bars a man from voting, but also from all other citizen rights that women automatically get, such as being eligible for federal aid or employment The historic differences were ma… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/20 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.For future reference, don't try to engage in a conversation about a topic that you have such a fundamental lack of understanding about. Men could vote only after they signed their body over to the government so that during wartime they could be forced to fight in the war (AKA selective service). The women's suffrage movement made it so that women could vote without having that responsibility Now that you know what selective service is, tell me how it's equality that women deserved the right to v… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/20 04:00 AM |
| 9 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.And especially since many studies have found that male rape is more under reported than female rape (Read: "Male Rape Myths: The Role of Gender", "The Invisible Boy: Revisioning the Victimization of Male Children", "Male Sexual Victimization Examining Men's Experiences of Rape") No surprise, considering how often the response to male victims is either "I wish that would happen to me" or "don't derail from the fact that rape is a women's issue" | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 09:08 PM |
| 34 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.You have a problem with "giving women the right to vote "? Are you daft, or are you deliberately misrepresenting what I said? What selective service have you had to register for that makes you entitled to vote but not your sister? The selective service that all men have to register for in order to vote but that women don't have to register for. Duh. Selective service is not something people are "entitled" to, it's a duty men are forced into. Do you literally not know what selective service is or… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 25 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.Women literally couldn’t vote. And men were literally forced to fight in wars where they would usually die or permanently crippled or traumatized. So what's your point? You're acting as if women not being able to vote was unquestionably worse than men being drafted; that is absurd | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 08:51 PM |
| 21 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.Interesting how when women say things like that--implying men are only good for sex, money, or children--it's considered "empowering" But when MGTOW's, say that men don't need women, or that they're only good for sex and children, it's considered "misogyny". Bunch of hypocritical cunts, some women are | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 08:05 PM |
| 26 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.It's funny how when people make jokes against women, it's misogyny and it causes violence But when people make jokes against men, "it's just a joke" and "men's fragile egos" and "if you're offended it's because it applies to you!" | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 07:59 PM |
| 32 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.Women weren't oppressed anymore than men were. Historically, they were usually expected to conform to their gender roles (getting married, having kids, being a homemaker, etc.) But likewise men were expected to conform to their gender roles (getting married; paying for everything from dates and expensive engagement rings, to the house and bills; being the protector and risking / giving his life in the case of an intruder, a sinking ship, a war) I think it's debatable to say that being made to st… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 58 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.Even in the old days feminism wasn't about equality. Just look at things like giving women the right to vote without having to register for selective service (like men had / have to). Feminism has always been about privileges without responsibilities | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 07:49 PM |
| 15 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.So she falsely equates MRA's with PUA's, neo-Nazis, and incels. She perpetuates the myth that false accusations against men are too inconsequential to seriously consider. She maintains the lie that sexual assault against males is a rare phenomenon. She pretends commentary about men hitting women back in self-defense is justifying undue violence against women And then she dares to wonder why many guys are (thankfully) starting to question the feminist narrative. Feminists are often full of lies, … | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 07:45 PM |
| 8 | The new female VP of USA can’t think of anyway the government controls a mans body legally. Let’s start with the military or even marriage"Can you think of any laws that give the government the power to make decisions about the male body?" Right selective service, but also the law allows for male infants to be "circumcised" without their consent In a country where people can have their genitals forcibly mutilated as children then be forced to sign up for the draft in order to have citizen rights, but only if they're male, she wants to pretend there's no way in which the government controls male bodies. What a colossal buffoon | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 03:08 PM |
| 3 | I know it’s kinda old but feminists are really getting offended about everything nowYeah, personally I use it for the sake of convenience. "Females" is easier than writing "women and girls" every time. They say that no one refers to men as males, but I use "males" in place of "men and boys" all the time Especially here, if I'm referring to some kind of issue that affects males of all ages (adult men and young boys), as oppose to specifically adult men (e.g. divorce issues) or specifically young boys (e.g. male infant genital mutilation) | /r/MensRights | 11/11/20 11:55 PM |
| 10 | I know it’s kinda old but feminists are really getting offended about everything nowreferring to biological sex and compiling gender identity vs. Gender identity that does not conform with biological sex But that's not at all what this is about. The feminists on that post aren't complaining because female is being used to refer to biological sex and ignores people's gender identity or whatever. They're complaining because they find using the term female to refer to women and girls dehumanizing and reducing females to their reproductive value I think the point of comparing it to… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/20 11:50 PM |
| 5 | I know it’s kinda old but feminists are really getting offended about everything nowPersonally, I usually say "females" or "males" when I'm referring to females or males of all ages For example, sometimes I'll say "males' issues" or "abuse against males" when I'm referring to men and boys of all ages, and not just either adult men or young boys. Same with females if I'm referring to both adult women and young girls | /r/MensRights | 11/11/20 11:41 PM |
| 54 | I was ordering at an Applebee's and a female employee flirted with me. When I told her I was gay, she deliberately spilled my soda and called me a fag. A kind patron recorded the thing and told the manager. The manager came by and apologized and said that the female employee will be fired.Thank goodness a patron recorded it and that the employee got fired. The last time I was sexually harassed at a workplace, it was by my supervisor. No one was both able or willing to fire her, and HR did nothing. Hopefully things are progressing recently | /r/MensRights | 01/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 4 | I was ordering at an Applebee's and a female employee flirted with me. When I told her I was gay, she deliberately spilled my soda and called me a fag. A kind patron recorded the thing and told the manager. The manager came by and apologized and said that the female employee will be fired.it doesn't seem like it was just rejection which made her act out, it was just homophobia It might not have just been rejection, but it probably wasn't just homophobia either. It could have been that if he were a straight guy, she would have kept bothering him, or asking why he wasn't interested, or insulted him in some other way than calling him "fag" | /r/MensRights | 01/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Pedophile gets 1 week in jail for her crimeAbsolutely, first and foremost the women who are actually the ones raping these boys need to be held accountable the most. Enablers are also part of the problem though | /r/MensRights | 30/10/20 07:48 PM |
| 7 | CHILDREN'S DOCTOR SAYS, "LET'S CUT A PENIS OFF."Exactly. Except that really the foreskin is more needed than the earlobe. A closer comparison would be like cutting off your eyelid | /r/MensRights | 30/10/20 10:54 AM |
| 9 | CHILDREN'S DOCTOR SAYS, "LET'S CUT A PENIS OFF."Firstly, why is genital mutilation more acceptable when it's carried out against babies? That's like saying "raping children 8 and up is wrong, but raping infants isn't so bad because they won't remember it" Secondly, MGM is also often carried out against older boys in the same places where it's carried out against older girls; it's usually done to boys there as a coming of age ceremony. Most of the places where it's done only against infants (e.g. like the US) are places where it's not done to … | /r/MensRights | 30/10/20 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Ex-flight attendant serves one week (of 18 month sentence) in jail for sex with 15-year-old"Low risk for reoffending" is, first of all, impossible to determine. No one can know whether or not she's going to reoffend. All that's known is that she evidently has no qualms against raping children. Before she did this, most probably would have said she had a low risk of offending in the first place, and yet evidently she did "offend" Second of all, even if somehow we were certain that she'll never rape again, the fact that she did it even once warrants longer than a fucking week in jail "L… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/20 01:41 PM |
| 15 | Ex-flight attendant serves one week (of 18 month sentence) in jail for sex with 15-year-oldEver notice how when men commit crimes, news articles always highlight their mugshots. But when women rape children, news articles use flattering pictures from their personal social media instead of their mugshots? | /r/MensRights | 25/10/20 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Feminists Complain about Misandry being Called out: "'Man-Bashing' Is the New, Trending Double Standard"Exactly. There are even highly upvoted comments on that article saying that it's women-bashing that's normalized. They're either incredibly dishonest or idiotic to say something like that, when the only kind of hateful sexist remarks treated as socially acceptable are those against men Even when I look for it, I can't find gender swapped versions of "men are pigs" or "men are trash" or "boys are stupid, throw rocks" or "men are like grapes, only good when they're beaten into wine" or however tha… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/20 05:09 AM |
| 6 | Feminists Complain about Misandry being Called out: "'Man-Bashing' Is the New, Trending Double Standard"This is the comment I wrote on there On top of all that, pushback against “man-bashing” requires quite a lot of woman-bashing. Rather than encouraging men to change their behavior and challenge other men who hold them back, it puts the onus on women to watch what they say. Saying that the response to man-bashing (and it is man-bashing to make prejudice generalizations against males) should be for men to change their behavior is like saying that the response to “women are worthless gold-digging w… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/20 03:26 AM |
| 8 | Feminists Complain about Misandry being Called out: "'Man-Bashing' Is the New, Trending Double Standard"Can someone tell me where this idea comes from? Where is this traditionalist cabal of MRAs who worship their fathers' seed It comes from feminists' ass. That, along with the idea that MRA's don't care about male victims or fathers rights, that all MRA's talk about is not getting laid, that MRA's want everything to be Victorian era traditional gender roles Anti-MRA's love to literally just make shit up about MRA's. Or conflate them with incels, PUA's, etc.. And people just buy it because none eve… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/20 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Statutory rape victim forced to pay child supportBold of you to bring up intelligent discourse when you literally tried to argue that child support has nothing to do with gender. Are you really that ignorant or are you just pretending to not be aware of the fact that only the female can choose to abort? A woman's not going to be forced to pay child support for a child she doesn't want, because if she doesn't want it she'll have an abortion or put it up for adoption. Conversely, if a man or boy is raped and doesn't want to be responsible for th… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/20 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Feminists Complain about Misandry being Called out: "'Man-Bashing' Is the New, Trending Double Standard"The girlfriend, poet Mary Karr, has also said that after she moved on, Wallace stalked her for years, that he threatened to shoot her husband and followed her five-year-old son home from school, and that he once threw a coffee table at her. For female writers or readers to defend him is a strange choice; according to his biographer, he referred to the women who came to his readings as “audience pussy.” In point of fact, David Foster Wallace seems like a perfect poster boy for this internet pheno… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/20 09:56 PM |
| 15 | Feminists Complain about Misandry being Called out: "'Man-Bashing' Is the New, Trending Double Standard"In case it's behind a paywall for you, here's the text for the next time that someone says "MRA's shouldn't be anti-feminists, feminists care about men's issues!" Not only do they not care about men's issues, but they literally get angry when people start to challenge prejudice against males ‘Man-Bashing’ Is the New, Trending Double Standard The internet has rebelled against man-bashing on social media — which brings us right back to the woman-bashing status quo Men of the world, rejoice: The ti… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/20 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Pro choice for menI believe men should be able to "abort" their end of the pregnancy, if he does so in time for her to choose an abortion. I get this argument. However part of the issue is that a man may not know about the existence of a child until the child is born, and by then it's too late A woman will always know when she is pregnant, and can then make a choice as to whether or not to kill it. On the other hand, if a woman is pregnant by a man and decides not to tell him about it until after the child is bor… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/20 11:31 PM |
| 2 | I was sexually assaulted by my teacher back when I was in middle school.That's really terrible. Definitely I know what it's like to be sexually abused and not really have many places to go to for support. When it was happening to me, the responses I got were either things like "boys can't be forced into sex", "why are you complaining about getting laid by an older woman?", or "it's not as bad for boys; girls get raped much more" Too many people have no idea and / or simply don't care at all where it comes to boys being raped. Especially when it's by women, because t… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 13 | "The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race."Lol I get that. But it's cunts like this woman who the world would be better off without | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 02:43 PM |
| 8 | Women want equality until the bill arrivesDid I ever call anything "toxic masculinity"? | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 02:33 PM |
| 22 | Women want equality until the bill arrivesSpeak for yourself. There are a lot of men who don't enjoy being expected to pay for everything, not being allowed to defend themselves against violent women, being marginalized when they're victims of abuse, and other gender norms like the one perpetuated by the women in this video that men are disadvantaged by | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 132 | Women want equality until the bill arrivesThat's why so many men grow up thinking that it's their obligation to pay for everything, it's sad how much brainwashing there is. When a man is valued only for being a provider and protector, some people like to call it "toxic masculinity" and say "the Patriarchy hurts men, too", and they pretend men's issues are caused by men But evidently, women are at least as responsible for perpetuating the gender norm that it's men's duty to pay. Same with the gender norm that a man should never hit a wom… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Women want equality until the bill arrivesDon't be a sucker, guys. So many women not only always expect the man to pay, but specifically go on dates just for free meals. Make sure she's there for your company or to get to know you, and go somewhere cheap and / or split the bill. Especially on the first few dates | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Women want equality until the bill arrivesthey always pay for the next. No definitely not always. There are plenty of women who date just for free meals, and sometimes never go on a next date because they already got what they want | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | I was told I am against feminism and that I am a MRA because I feel a loss of power. It’s true, I have lost the power to be equal in the courts and in society. I am trying to fix it.For real. That mom issues comment annoyed me because my mother was physically and sexually abusive, so I definitely do have issues with her. But why is that treated like some kind of character flaw? like "how pathetic of you to have had a shitty mother!" It's like if a girl is abused by her father, it's the father's fault for being a monster. But if a boy is abused by his mother, it's the son's fault for not being able to earn his mother's love | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 5 | I was told I am against feminism and that I am a MRA because I feel a loss of power. It’s true, I have lost the power to be equal in the courts and in society. I am trying to fix it.Usually in those same places, men have it pretty shitty as well. Men are expected to provide for their families, but all available jobs are dangerous and / or extremely low paying. Boys are made into child soldiers or sex dolls (e.g. the dancing boys of Pakistan) because predators have easier access to them since they're less protected. Partly due to sexist rape laws that lead to things like boys being punished for being raped because women raping children is not legislated against In general, y… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 12:36 AM |
| 0 | I was told I am against feminism and that I am a MRA because I feel a loss of power. It’s true, I have lost the power to be equal in the courts and in society. I am trying to fix it.Why is it when women want to have the same power as men, it's seen as honorable. But when men want the same power as women, it's seen as whiney, insecure, and oppressive? Feminists say "equality feels like oppression to the privileged", which is true. They just don't realize they're talking about themselves If women were treated like men are where it came to genital mutilation laws, rape laws, prison sentences, DV shelters and the lack thereof, selective service and voting rights, etc. they'd fe… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 12:24 AM |
| 32 | Willow Smith says she's 'proud' of mom Jada, 49, for talking about her 'entanglement' with August Alsina, 28: 'That's the real deal'For real. The double standard is such shit. So many people are making excuses is this case: "they were married, but separated!", "the guy she cheated with was young, but an adult". But when a man does the same thing, suddenly he's sleazy and there's no excuse I even saw a bunch of people getting bad at Leonardo DiCaprio for dating young models. Even though he's not even married and the women were not his kid's friends, or in any position where he'd have emotional influence over them. The same ca… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/20 01:15 AM |
| 11 | Willow Smith says she's 'proud' of mom Jada, 49, for talking about her 'entanglement' with August Alsina, 28: 'That's the real deal'Even then, what's there to be proud of? How is a middle-aged grown-ass woman screwing her kid's friend some kind of achievement worthy of praise? | /r/MensRights | 01/10/20 01:10 AM |
| 10 | Thank you allI feel the same way, I was really grateful and relieved when I was first learning about MRA's years ago. Before that, there wasn't really anywhere I could go to when I needed support. Nowhere that dealt with the kinds of issues I was having problems with There were no resources for male sexual abuse victims that I was aware of. Whenever rape was discussed or addressed, it was usually about female victims and always about male rapists. And nearly anyone I ever told about what happened to me react… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 20 | Rights that men don't have (but women have)As soon as I saw this post (40 minutes after it was posted) I was thinking that "I better archive the original before it inevitably gets deleted". But of course, the mods already deleted it...🙄 | /r/MensRights | 29/09/20 01:54 PM |
| 2 | As we all know, the body positivity movement is for women only.True lol Short guys in films are often either jokes or villains (or both, like Farquaad). Or, if an actor is short and his character isn't a joke or a villain, he's edited to appear tall on screen | /r/MensRights | 21/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | As we all know, the body positivity movement is for women only.It's both men and women who small dick shame, though personally I've seen it more from women. I've known of guys given mean nick names throughout school because of a rumor about their dick sizes. Not jokes by friends, but insults by people who genuinely disliked those guys and wanted to humiliate them Within adults, I haven't seen as much long term bullying about it, but more individual comments meant to be hurtful. E.g. I've heard it used against a man whose wife recently left him, something al… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/20 07:16 AM |
| 3 | As we all know, the body positivity movement is for women only.I don't know how it feels, though if it's anything like being short shamed, it sucks. I see some guys can laugh at themselves about small dick jokes, while others get really upset. Though how an individual reacts to being made fun of doesn't really determine if it's shaming or not Being mocked for supposedly having a small penis is shaming whether or not the person being mocked is offended. It's still clearly treated as a shameful thing to not "measure up", even if some individual guys don't fee… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/20 06:15 AM |
| 7 | As we all know, the body positivity movement is for women only.Short shaming ("if his height starts with 5'- ugh", "he has to be taller than me in 5 inch heels", etc.) is pretty common. Especially online, but even in real life women want men more tall than them than men on average actually are Small penis jokes, particularly things like "he's probably compensating for other areas he lacks in wink, wink" are things people say a lot even in real life (like if a guy is really flashy or drives a big car). It's an easy target because men can't usually disprove i… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/20 03:04 AM |
| 90 | As we all know, the body positivity movement is for women only.Yeah. I saw a lot of "men need to stop whining about being body-shamed when women have it way worse". When literally there's not a single area in which women are body shamed worse than men It's perfectly socially acceptable to make fat guys the butt of jokes, to make small penis jokes, to say short men are useless. But any comment about a woman's body is labeled misogynistic | /r/MensRights | 19/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 12 | Women abuses boy. It’s a romp. Man abuses girl. He’s a vile child groomer paedo.No, we don't just have to "deal with it". People just accepting and enabling gynocentrism / male disposability is what allows it to continue. Regardless of how things supposedly were in "tribes", this type of bullshit has no place in modern society. And if more men realized this, maybe they wouldn't be so quick to give perverted cunts like that a pass | /r/MensRights | 19/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 6 | In a male toilet standTrue, I'm going to correct that | /r/MensRights | 16/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 2 | So disgusting. Blaming rape on men and implying that all boys need to be educated and women won’t be safe otherwise...It's only "outlandishly high" when you subscribe to the false narrative that rape is a women's issue, or that when men are raped it's just by other dudes. You've not heard of this information, because how much effort have you honestly put into researching the accounts of male sexual abuse victims i have never heard of a single man ive known to be raped by a woman This already shows how little thought you've given the matter before. Obviously the men you know not telling you they'd been raped doe… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/20 07:15 PM |
| 7 | So disgusting. Blaming rape on men and implying that all boys need to be educated and women won’t be safe otherwise...Rape against men or by women is not an "outlier". It is a significant portion of the sexual violence (male victims being almost half), and it should be treated as such. Not treated as something so insignificant that it's not apart of the discourse of sexual violence Interesting how men make up a larger portion of rape victims than women do murder victims (about 20-25% of murder victims are female internationally). And yet people don't generally treat murder as a men's issues. Yet somehow sexual … | /r/MensRights | 16/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 5 | So disgusting. Blaming rape on men and implying that all boys need to be educated and women won’t be safe otherwise...playing devils advocate to derail the conversation If you consider advocating for men "playing devil's advocate" or acknowledging male victims and female perpetrators "derailing", then you're exhibiting exactly the kind of problem some people have with feminist thinking Both your comment and the OP displays this "male = rapist, female = victim" mentality to the point where pro-men is synonymous to you with "pro-rapists" | /r/MensRights | 16/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 31 | In a male toilet standUnfortunately, that's very true. If systemic sexism exists, Systemic sexism against men exists, and this is one very clear example of it. Because it's not just a problem of some individual women abusing some men; it's a problem of the government itself enabling it In many places, discrimination against males is written into the laws themselves. E.g. rape laws not including male victims or female perpetrators, genital mutilation laws excluding boy infants, men having to register for the draft in … | /r/MensRights | 16/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 32 | In a male toilet standIn the US, male victims with female perpetrators are over 70% of non-reciprocal DV cases (cases where it's just one partner abusing the other, rather than both abusing each other) | /r/MensRights | 16/09/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Homophobia against Gay Men is Due to Misandry, Not MisogynyDon't make up ridiculous strawmen. Acknowledging that people's hatred for gay men parallels the same hatred for men in general is firstly not saying "men are just universally oppressed from day 1", nor is it mutually exclusive from religion playing a role You're basically just saying "don't blame something potentially misandric on misandry, because that's like feminists". Who cares what feminists do. If there is evidence it's partly driven by misandry (which there is), that should be acknowledge… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Homophobia against Gay Men is Due to Misandry, Not Misogynybut to try and reduce everything to misogyny and misandry is not just blatantly wrong, but also takes attention away from the actual issues that gay people face by turning it into a mens rights or feminist thing. You have not yet explained how it's blatantly wrong to say that gay men suffering the most is in some way due to misandry. I'm not saying it's solely misandry (obviously homophobia plays a role, hence why it's illegal to be a gay man in some places), but it does play a role in why gay m… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Homophobia against Gay Men is Due to Misandry, Not MisogynyCertainly people should keep their hands to themselves. But that has nothing to do with gay men, so it makes no sense to respond that way to a post about gay men Again it's like saying "men are not trash", and someone responding "but men need to stop raping people". Like okay, yes everyone needs to stop raping people, but what's that to do with men not being trash | /r/MensRights | 15/09/20 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Homophobia against Gay Men is Due to Misandry, Not MisogynyAnd I've never had a gay man sexually assault me, or harass me for how I was dressed You shouldn't hate anyone based on a category because every "category" has people who do shitty things | /r/MensRights | 14/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Homophobia against Gay Men is Due to Misandry, Not MisogynyThat's like the women who are like "I hate men because I've had too many men in my life sexually harass me". Yeah that's terrible, but that says nothing about men in general I've had instances in my life where women wouldn't take no for an answer. I've had instances in my life where straight men would harass me for wearing nail polish. Bad behavior isn't specific to a demographic | /r/MensRights | 14/09/20 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Homophobia against Gay Men is Due to Misandry, Not MisogynyThe thing is, not one of those situations have anything to do with being a gay man. Those aren't "things that gay men do", those are things that some people do Not taking no for an answer is something women do to men all the time (and vice versa). Letting it "all hang out" in public is something women do all the time, with their booty shorts and cleavage. And not just in parades either PDA definitely has nothing to do with orientation. Forcing one's orientation or sexual relations into everythin… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 10 | Homophobia against Gay Men is Due to Misandry, Not Misogynywoman-like = weakness = bad, which is misogyny Except that it isn't the case that feminity is seen as bad or inherently more offensive than masculinity. If it really were about misogyny, girly women would be the most hated people because they're both literally female and also feminine. However not only is femininity is not shamed in women, generally feminine women are seen as more appealing than butch women are If it really were about "woman-like = bad", the kind of men who are most disgusted by… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/20 10:25 PM |
| 11 | Homophobia against Gay Men is Due to Misandry, Not MisogynyAny expression of femininity is looked down on in our society. So it's not the fact that these men aren't acting manly, but rather that they are acting feminine that causes so much disgust. That's something I discussed as well in one of the links, basically I think males are more restricted than females in terms of socially acceptable characteristics. But this isn't because of patriarchy or because people hate femininity | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | 30 months is a disgustingly low numberHer husband's the same age as she is; it says she's now 20 and he's 21. They both got married young, she's not some kind of victim of child marriage | /r/MensRights | 14/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think of this? Series about a female teachers affair with a male highschool studentExplores the story behind the mugshot of a female high school teacher caught in an affair with her male student, revealing the complexities and consequences of these illegal relationships. So it hasn't come out yet. But considering the language--"caught in an affair", "revealing the complexities"--it's presumably going to be the typical "it's not abuse! It's a complicated romance that society unfairly legislates" The worst consequences are going to be shown to be for the teacher, making it seem … | /r/MensRights | 14/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | "Toxic masculinity" is thinly veiled misandry and we should stop using the term.It's not a strawman, there have been countless examples of feminists dismissing discussions about male victims as "derailing". There have been women's groups, twice, fighting rape laws in India being made gender neutral. There are feminists like Mary Koss saying men raped by women shouldn't be called "rape victims" but people "force to penetrate", which led to the CDC's underrepresenting the number of male rape victims There were feminists silencing discussions of males' issues in their attempts… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/20 06:36 PM |
| 2 | "Toxic masculinity" is thinly veiled misandry and we should stop using the term.Especially since a lot of times the term is used to describe behavior that's not even inherently related to masculinity (e.g. feminists will call rape, sexual entitlement, domestic violence a byproduct of "toxic masculinity". Of course, thereby ignoring women who commit these same crimes) And even when "toxic masculinity" is used to describe things harmful towards males (e.g. feminists will say that shaming boys for crying, ridiculing men who are raped is a result of the "toxic masculinity", say… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/20 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Actor was removed from his role as a transwoman because transpeople got upset. They demanded that a transwoman should play a transwoman. Even though suitable transwoman actress was not found in the beginning of the production. (Article in Finnish)Even if the argument is "transwomen are women", there have been cisfemale characters played by cismale actors, and cismale characters played by cisfemale actresses. So there's no reason transfemale characters can't be played by cismale actors | /r/MensRights | 12/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 2 | 45% of human trafficking victims are male but they are treated like criminals instead of victims ! from 529 shelter beds only 2 are for boys !How are you trying to make this about homosexuality when a lot of the perpetrators are female. You sound like one of those stupid feminists who, when rape against males is brought up, your response is "well it's mostly rape by other men" completely ignoring how large a portion is committed by women against men and boys not everyone who rapes boys is gay. Some rape boys because young boys remind them of women. And since women are sometimes better protected, boys are easier to abuse (e.g. the danc… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 5 | God this app sometimesThough a guy isn't fucking up by being under 6'2". Considering that the comment was a response shaming men for being "too short", the "perfect the way you are" idea seems to have more to do with unchangeable physical characteristics rather than every single aspect to a person's being | /r/MensRights | 07/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 2 | God this app sometimesBut the topic is height. And where it comes to height, as well as many other physical traits, self-improvement has nothing to do with it. A man is what he is and he can't change his genetics, so it's best to love oneself instead of feeling not good enough about things he can't change | /r/MensRights | 07/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 2 | God this app sometimesAnd yet people pretend it's women who society holds to unrealistic standards. This kind of mentality--that all women, even average mediocre ones, are beautiful queens while only a small minority of exceptionally attractive men are acknowledged--is common place Here it's stated explicitly. But it's implicit in things like how Body Positivity is all about embracing the idea that fat women are beautiful, and now there are more fat female models and female mannequins. Whereas there's no similar effo… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/20 11:00 PM |
| 8 | After missing out two times in the final interviews(of engineering jobs) during my senior year due to diversity quota, this boils my bloodBut one shouldn't have to pretend to be something he's not in order to get the rights he's owed to begin with It reminds me of this Texas case where a boy was demanded that he had to either cut his hair or be a transgirl because of the sexist dress code that legislated the hair styles for boys but not for girls | /r/MensRights | 07/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | After missing out two times in the final interviews(of engineering jobs) during my senior year due to diversity quota, this boils my bloodlol For real though The whole idea of Mulan (and the myriad other stories of similar plots) is that "society was so oppressive of women that in order for women to accomplish things and get taken seriously, they had to pretend to be men to get into spaces women were kept out of" But in modern society, there are many rights, opportunities, spaces, resources that women have that men don't. I can see men pretending to be women in order to avoid discrimination. Of course when men do it, it's not seen… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 8 | After missing out two times in the final interviews(of engineering jobs) during my senior year due to diversity quota, this boils my bloodThe biggest factor keeping women out of stem is the socialization that they shouldn’t be in it. Except that it's literally the opposite and has been for years if not decades. All kinds of scholarships and campaigns specifically for getting women into the STEM (needless to say, there're no similar efforts to get men into female-dominated fields) No one's socializing girls to not pursue STEM; girls are choosing not to pursue STEM and everyone's trying to socialize them into doing it by giving them… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/20 03:05 PM |
| 16 | Someone needs to say itEspecially considering that most of the times men are not allowed to defend themselves from women's violence. People like to say men are physically stronger and therefore women's violence isn't threatening to them But firstly, it's not always true that women are weaker. Secondly, even a weaker person can hurt a stronger person (e.g. being kicked in the nuts by a woman would debilitate most men no matter how strong) Thirdly, physical strength only means so much when men can't defend themselves ag… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 16 | Reddit is usually against this stance, but it's absolutely true: being pro-male rights usually does not mean you are anti-female rights, but being pro-female rights usually means you're anti-male rights.Same, and I don't even prefer women sexually lol "Incel" is just this mindless insult anti-MRA's use because they have no argument Like because I don't think men should have to sign up for the draft in order to vote because I think male infants also have a right to genital integrity because I think male victims of rape and DV should have just as much support and resources because I think men shouldn't be sentenced to longer time in prison just for being men because I think men should have the sa… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/20 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Reddit is usually against this stance, but it's absolutely true: being pro-male rights usually does not mean you are anti-female rights, but being pro-female rights usually means you're anti-male rights.Or changing rape and domestic abuse laws to include male victims is also a case of inclusion, and I don't think that many feminists would be against it. Feminists have actively fought against gender neutral rape laws. E.g. twice in India there were attempts to make rape laws gender neutral to include male victims. And both times "women's rights" groups attacked it on the basis of it "taking attention away from women who are raped" | /r/MensRights | 28/08/20 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Reddit is usually against this stance, but it's absolutely true: being pro-male rights usually does not mean you are anti-female rights, but being pro-female rights usually means you're anti-male rights.That is nice idea, and maybe you personally believe everyone should have equal rights. But too often whenever males' issues are brought up, feminists are some of the first to marginalize them. They're some of the first to perpetuate the "women are oppressed victims, men are privileged oppressors" narrative They're some of the first to derail MRA's with "but women have it harder, so men and even male victims need to sit down and shut up and make sure women / female victims get the spotlight." The… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?Yeah that makes sense, it is unfortunately a very common mindset for them to say "men have no idea what women go through", as if they have any idea what men go through | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?Yep, I just sent it. Forewarning, the thread will make you lose faith in humanity | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?Yeah, that's the issue. One clown is one thing, but this is the whole damn Barnum and Bailey. There's definitely a problem when this many people in society advocate for and try to justify blatant misandry | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 05:16 PM |
| 8 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?True, that's an issue with "I obviously don't mean all men". Like even still, why not just "bad people", "abusers", "rapists", etc.? Because they likely either don't believe women can be abusive, or they'll make excuses for abusive women | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?Sadly, I wouldn't be surprised if it's that many morons. If you go to the thread, there are a lot of comments from a lot of users agreeing with her, being like "the men complaining just prove the point!", and "I'm a man and I agree" | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?Sadly, it's not just the screenshot, the thread itself has 318k+ likes as of this moment. You can go to Twitter and search something like "hate all men is my boyfriend offended" in the search box and this cunt's Tweet is the first result. You can see the likes and the rest of the thread there | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?It's not, I just went to the thread and it now has even more likes. Also a fair amount of people calling her out, though | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 05:07 PM |
| 14 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?There are probably some misandric feminists who do want "boyfriends" who are basically just servants who do their dirty work for them. Just think of how many women have literally manipulated their "lovers" to commit murder for them | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?They're trying to create a double bind. You either agree that men are shit, or your disagree which just proves that men are shit. The only thing more idiotic than that logic is that hundreds of thousands of morons like the Tweet | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?The thread has some people calling her out, but a lot of "all the men saying she's wrong just proves the point!" Which is a retarded argument. By that logic: this woman and all her supporters are morons, and if they disagree it's only because they're too stupid to see how much of a moron they are Also a lot of "I'm a man and I agree" / "my boyfriend or dad also hates men", as if that somehow makes "I hate all men" not misandric. All that means is that there are men who are also misandric. Duh. W… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 04:59 PM |
| 38 | Perhaps not as severe as many other issues on here, but this has 224,000 likes on Twitter. What are your thoughts on this?That's exactly what she did in the thread. One of her comments is ok discard the “all” i still stand by what i said lol Thing is, whether she means literally "all men" or just "men in general", either way she's a misandric cunt because she's generalizing men based on the behavior of the small minority who abuse people | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 04:42 PM |
| 18 | Why Male Survivors Still Feel Left Out of #MeTooAlex is telling me about the emotional fallout he experienced after repeated sexual violence at the hands of another student during his sophomore year at boarding school. Despite being a victim of sexual violence, when I ask Alex about the #MeToo movement, he says..."I definitely didn't think it was for me. Women have been oppressed for so long that the #MeToo movement felt more like a recognition by society of all the atrocious things women have experienced. As a male, I tell myself that it's n… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/20 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Being a feminine straight man can be roughI can relate, to some degree. Except that I'm bisexual and due to past traumatic sexual experiences with women, I tend to avoid them as partners On the other hand, it seems I'm also more feminine, and I identified as trans when I was younger. I liked wearing "girl" clothes, nail polish, long hair. Additionally, for health reasons I was slow to develop, and I didn't get big or grow facial hair even when I was older Didn't help that I had a lot of bad experiences as a child that were aggravated if… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/08/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I wish I could be a woman. Especially an attractive, rich woman with a Western upbringingYeah, it was definitely like being attacked on in fronts sometimes. No support and just a lot of either "what boy wouldn't enjoy that" or "stop derailing from women raped my men". Male advocacy groups were the exception, which is what led me to them initially So thank you so much for your encouragement, it really means a lot. I hope you're taking care of yourself as well, man | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/20 12:09 PM |
| 20 | The Double Standards are AstoundingShe’s saying it’s a completely healthy thing to do especially for women. She says that she wants to be secured if something happened to me or if I started abusing her. Even by that logic, why would it be "especially for women"? If a man is being abused by his wife and he wants a divorce, she could end up screwing him over by taking half his money and / or alimony. And if there are kids, they'll be stuck with the abusive woman and the husband will be stuck paying child support Abused men have so … | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 05:27 AM |
| 14 | She slides him HARD multiple times and then the one recording says “don’t touch her”I know that if he had hit her back, there would have been negative repercussions for him. But man, I really wish he had, because cunts like her are just going to keep doing shit like this when they know that they'll never face any consequences for it. Someone needs to show her consequences | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 04:19 AM |
| 18 | I wish I could be a woman. Especially an attractive, rich woman with a Western upbringingI don't hate being a man, I hate the way society treats men. But as a detransitioner, I get where you're coming from. I spent most of my life literally wishing I had been born a girl, for various reasons It started with sexual abuse when I was very young, by people who specifically targetted boys and made me realize that if I had been born a girl they wouldn't have even been interested in me. Obviously, not that girls aren't also abused, but in my particular circumstance it was very unsafe to be… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/20 04:10 AM |
| 6 | Equal pay for unequal work.Right, but that's the conventional "wisdom", or at least the stereotype. Though in fact many studies have shown that women have lower pain tolerance, but facts have nothing to do with female supremacist | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 17 | Equal pay for unequal work.They're literally treating being female as a handicap or illness that one needs to take time off for | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 09:48 PM |
| 7 | Equal pay for unequal work.I definitely have heard a lot of "women are stronger than men because they have a higher pain tolerance, a man could never handle periods or giving birth!" There's even this whole Guys try period pain and labor simulator to try to accentuate that point | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 09:47 PM |
| 8 | Equal pay for unequal work.It doesn't really make sense though. There are plenty of women whose periods are not so bad that they're debilitating. I've worked with enough women who have not mysteriously called off every month More to the point, if someone isn't physically capable of doing a job, why should that person be paid the same as someone who is? | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 09:36 PM |
| 10 | Equal pay for unequal work.I'm curious, does that include all women, including females who do not have periods? E.g. post-menopausal women, women who have had hysterectomies, transmen who no longer get periods because of HRT or hysterectomies, etc.? Why should every female get period leave, even though not every female gets periods, let alone ones bad enough to be debilitating? From what I understand, periods so bad that a woman can't even function is relatively rare. And I know of all the women I've worked with, they hav… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Violence is the end game for many feminists.Yeah backpedaling possible. It would only make sense as sarcasm if she were making fun of women who get mad when men hit back. I don't know anything about that Tweeter to say with any certainty | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Violence is the end game for many feminists.Thanks for sharing this, I wondered if she was being sarcastic so it's good to have it confirmed | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Violence is the end game for many feminists.I don't know for sure, but it's possible this is sarcasm. I went to the original Tweet by Gentle_Ezenwanyi and a lot of the commenters seemed to think she was being sarcastic and were commenting other jokes. Some of her other Tweets are also jokes There definitely are people who get outraged when men hit back or defend themselves. But I'm not sure if this is an example of that, or if this is making fun of those types of people Edit: it is the latter | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Violence is the end game for many feminists.I don't know for sure, but it's possible. I went to the original Tweet by Gentle_Ezenwanyi and a lot of the commenters seemed to think she was being sarcastic and were commenting other jokes. Some of her other Tweets are also jokes | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Violence is the end game for many feminists.a man should never strike his wife. If she hits him. It's time to get out of the marriage. Yes he should get out of the marriage, but that doesn't mean he should never strike his wife because there are situations where it's dangerous / impossible to just walk away from. If she's actively going after and attacking him, he has the right to defend himself using whatever means necessary (including striking her if he has to) A man should only hit the same times that a woman should hit, and that is se… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 04:28 PM |
| 32 | The Harsh truth about Will and JadaYeah...situations like this make me glad I'm bi, so I can just date dudes instead But seriously though, I hear people say things like "men are such pigs, they'll cheat even when they have a beautiful, loyal woman!" And act like "when women cheat, it's because her husband is shit and isn't emotionally attentive towards her" This just goes to show that even when they have handsome, loyal, hardworking husbands, some women are also pigs and cheat without appreciating what they have. It's too bad Wil… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 59 | The Harsh truth about Will and JadaEven without the age gap or potential power imbalance of being a friend's trusted parent who claims to be trying to help you, cheating men in general are seen as the scum of the Earth Look at how much hate Tiger Wood got, and how people applauded his wife beating him with a golf club because he cheated. Imagine how people would react if Will had even slapped Jada, let alone beat her with a weapon | /r/MensRights | 10/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 13 | The Harsh truth about Will and JadaIt's not like it's his fault he was cheated on, so I don't see why he's the one who should be insulted. The cheating cunt is Jada, she's the one who deserves the judgment and insults It's like no matter the circumstances, the man is the one blamed and shamed. If he cheats on his wife, he's a cheating bastard and poor her. If he's cheated on by his wife, he's a cuck loser who couldn't keep his woman | /r/MensRights | 10/08/20 06:19 PM |
| 13 | Wait, your worth as an employee is only as valuable as the income you help the business earn. That’s crazy.Yeah that's the issue with when some say "MRA's are just like feminists, except feminists favor women while MRA's favor men" Generally, MRA's favor equality. It just happens to be that in this society it's often male issues that are the ones being perpetuated. And also the ones being overlooked, since discrimination against males (unlike against females) is socially acceptable | /r/MensRights | 08/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl uses “gender theory” to push restrictive stereotypes about “cis het men”Just the first results about cis het are descriptive, not derogatory. There's also some discussion about it https://www.reddit.com/r/OutOfTheLoop/comments/5h2u5m/what_is_a_cishet_and_why_is_it_bad/ http://queerdictionary.blogspot.com/2014/09/definition-of-cishet.html?m=1#:~:text=Cishet%2C%20used%20as%20both%20an,people%20of%20the%20opposite%20sex. https://lgbtqexperiment.com/2019/04/06/what-is-the-intent-behind-cishet-and-does-it-matter/amp/ https://heckinunicorn.com/blogs/heckin-unicorn-blog/un… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Girl uses “gender theory” to push restrictive stereotypes about “cis het men”Their sexuality is neither important nor necessary for describing them in any situation where sexuality is not concerned, which is most. Except that in this context, sexuality is concerned. It doesn't matter if it's not concerned in "most" situations. OP is referring to cis straight men because she believes men shouldn't be spoiled by women, specifically. Excluding men who date men, or TIF. She's an idiot, but not for using a descriptive term In China, do you think they'd ever refer to someone a… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl uses “gender theory” to push restrictive stereotypes about “cis het men”No she isn't trying to other straight cis men. She's referring to them specifically, the same way people refer to brown-eyed people or right-handed people or any other demographic, regardless of how common they are The same way you did just now by saying "other straight non-transgender men" instead of "other normal men". You don't even agree with you, your just being obtuse and question begging since you have no case | /r/MensRights | 07/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl uses “gender theory” to push restrictive stereotypes about “cis het men”In this context she's specifically talking about cit het men as opposed to homo, bi, asexual, or trans men, so it does make sense. She's stupid for thinking heterosexual men don't deserve to be spoiled, but her use of the term isn't incorrect It's like if I were to say "right-handers are arrogant and think they're better than everyone". It would make sense to say "right-handers" and not "normal people" because it's not clear what demographic is being referred to by "normal people". There are tho… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Girl uses “gender theory” to push restrictive stereotypes about “cis het men”Actually brown eyes is about 80% of the human population, so that is the "normal" eye color You're not getting it, unless you really think a trait being "normal" means it shouldn't have a term to describe it. What individual trait doesn't have a term and is just described as "normal". Being right-handed has a term; even being sane has a term. Even though those are the overwhelming majority (more than 85%) of people Why should heterosexual not have a term. Especially since it translates to being … | /r/MensRights | 07/08/20 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Girl uses “gender theory” to push restrictive stereotypes about “cis het men”Again, by that logic green eyes should have descriptors and the others shouldn't because green eyes is 2%, less than even non-straight people | /r/MensRights | 07/08/20 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl uses “gender theory” to push restrictive stereotypes about “cis het men”Saying someone is cisgender or heterosexual doesn't "other" them, it's just a description. Just saying "normal" doesn't describe anything because it's too vague to have a specific meaning Acting like language to describe cisgender or heterosexual people shouldn't exist because they're "normal" and the "biological default" is like saying that descriptions of brown-eyed or blue-eyed people shouldn't exist because they're the majority so we should just call them normal people. Whereas green-eyed pe… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/20 10:51 PM |
| 11 | Originally on a covid thread. Blocked my username because it's an alt.Interesting how people instant downvote when a men's issue or disadvantage is brought up. Like they don't even want to hear it, even when it's a perfectly reasonable point, because it causes too much cognitive dissonance with their bullshit "female oppression / male privilege" narrative | /r/MensRights | 31/07/20 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHExcept that any time male victims are brought up at all in any context, it's accused of being "whataboutism". Standalone posts about male victims / issues are removed due to not being relevant to feminism. It's deliberately set up to be a double bind: They claim that simply saying "men face issues too and I want to discuss that" is derailing At the same time, they say that male victims is something feminists already address. Meaning there should already be significant discussions about male vict… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Glad to see this.Too bad this was removed. This is partly why issues like this are rarely if ever discussed: because when someone brings it up, others want to shut it down. The mods didn't even bother attempting to give and explanation for the removal I wish I knew what the original post said. But at least on the bright side, there are still a lot of good comments | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:37 PM |
| 11 | Why isn't everyone caring about false allegations of rape and domestic abuse?That is true, I wish it were more common for men to care about other men's well-being. Both women and men tend to be very gynocentric, hence why fighting for the rights of men and boys will probably always be an uphill battle | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:26 PM |
| 24 | I just commented on a recent post of this sub about how i got circumcised recently and how it sucks and can't believe its the norm for many countries be it religious reasons or not and literally after minutes i get thisThat's really terrible. I'm so sorry that you went through that, and I'm sorry to every other boy or man who's had to go through that terrible procedure Honestly r/FemaleDatingStrategy in general is shit, so it's no surprise that they banned you. They're a misandric subreddit, so they don't want anyone raising awareness about a males' issues there. Like so many others, the only thing they focus on is how things affect females | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHI think they mean how many partners one has had. Basically they're pretending MRA's are the same as incels or PUA's, only focused on getting laid by women I've literally never seen a single post here along the lines of "hey guys, make sure you're banging tons of chicks". Just the opposite, as that kind of mentality (that a man's worth is tied to how much pussy he gets) is part of what contributes to the marginalization of female-on-male sexual violence But of course, since a feminist post says i… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHPretty much all attacks on MRA's is the strawman fallacy Feminists misrepresent themselves (pretending to be for equality and to care about male victims), and they misrepresent MRA's (pretending that they don't care about male victims or any other serious issue), and then they use these misrepresentations to attack each other | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHThe stickied comment says that they'll remove all comments that acknowledge male victims or male issues. Which is ironic considering that OP claims that feminists already care about these things It's basically Egalitarian: We should have a movement that addresses males' issues Feminist: No need! Feminism already addresses males' issues :) Any men's movement is just misogyny Egalitarian: Alright, so let's talk about MGM, male rape victims, false accusations-- Feminist: No, that's derailing! Femin… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHAnytime someone equates MRA's with incels and PUA's, you know you're dealing with a completely ignorant fool | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHThey say they care about rape done to all genders. And yet whenever someone discusses male victims of rape, feminists attack them for "derailing" | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:03 PM |
| 6 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHKind of hard to work with feminists when they automatically ban and delete anyone who disagrees | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:01 PM |
| 10 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHmost of what they say is not true or fair They lie and contradict themselves in that very post. OP says that feminists care about all victims (implicitly including men), and yet the stickied comment says that talking about male victims is derailing | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHNo, that is not a valid medical reason to routinely circumcise healthy baby boys. If it were only boys with phimosis who were circumcised, that would be one thing But it's not, and it's not beneficial to cut off a boy's healthy foreskin because some boys have phimosis. That reasoning is the same as "it's beneficial to cut off all women's breasts, because it reduces the chances of women developing breast cancer" Except that phimosis is far less common than breast cancer, so actually routinely cut… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 11:51 AM |
| 11 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHIt's so ironic that the OP argues that feminists care about all rape and domestic violence victims. And yet the moderators themselves made a stickied comment saying that they'll remove comments about male victims | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Again, with this nonsense argument. Feminist policies have worked against male rape victims and abuse (look up the Duluth model) when MRAs bring up these topics, feminists protest them. Feminists only talk about nonsensical things such as the wage gap MYTHIt's right about exactly one thing: feminists do only care about female genital mutilation and not also male genital mutilation The rest of that image is bullshit. Especially allegedly caring about all rape victims, because I can't tell you how many times feminists have retorted with "but like 99% of rape and violent crimes are committed by men" or "most rape victims are women, men don't understand what it's like to fear rape" when someone brings up male victims or female perpetrators | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Just accept the realitySo basically, blind auditions when they think that advantages women Gender quotas when they think that advantages women And yet feminists are supposedly for "equality" and "fairness" | /r/MensRights | 22/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Hope this gains traction.Does anyone know who that guy is at the end? | /r/MensRights | 21/07/20 03:45 PM |
| 3 | It was never about equality...It's so hideously ironic that the post is basically "feminism is just about equality, you obnoxious assholes!" Yet someone gets his comment removed for pointing out men's issues that, if feminists were indeed about equality, they should have no problems with "We're all for equality. No, not that kind of equality!" | /r/MensRights | 19/07/20 10:08 PM |
| 9 | This is what happens when you teach boys to respect girls, but never teach girls to respect boys. As if girls are born perfect ! Teaching respect should be gender neutral.The surprising thing is this has 361k likes. That's not even surprising to me. It's a reflection of how prevalent misandry is in society; unfortunate, but not surprising Yes there are alot of sexual abusers. But that's not all men. It's also not just men. Women rape men, commit domestic violence, sexually abuse young boys, etc. But God forbid you acknowledge that women can be pieces of shit, then suddenly you're being misogynistic | /r/MensRights | 18/07/20 10:43 PM |
| 26 | Another day, another example of hypocrisyHis wife is the one who cheated, why should he just go after the guy? I don't get the kind of men more angry at the other guy than the whore who betrayed him | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 09:25 PM |
| 11 | There are two types of females: girls and womenCalling herself a "queen" is like someone calling oneself "beautiful" or "a good catch". It just comes across as narcissistic lol The healthiest relationships are give and take, both looking to please the other. If she's just pleasing herself, and she just expects you to please her, and neither of you are concerned about your needs at all... That's a relationship that you need to bounce from | /r/MensRights | 11/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 8 | Apparently, "Claiming to be 'a man raped by a woman' is mocking REAL rape victims." because women don't rape men / boys, and when they do it doesn't matterThank you for sharing this, it's very helpful | /r/MensRights | 10/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 60 | 24f teacher had relations with a 14m student...this is a comment...Seriously. All these people who are like "but boys fantasize about hot older women!" as if that makes it okay. Do they think girls don't? They must have never heard of Wattpad, it's infested with teen-authored male-teacher / female-student "romance" A lot of kids fantasize about older people because they see them as cool and are flattered by the attention. It's certainly not just boys. And even when it is boys, it certainly does make it okay for the adult to take advantage of the situation | /r/MensRights | 10/07/20 09:33 PM |
| 268 | 24f teacher had relations with a 14m student...this is a comment...Men are able to exercise more control and power This is a baseless, empty claim. Like when people say male-on-female abuse is automatically more serious because of "social power imbalances". Firstly, the victim was a boy, not a man. Secondly, how did he have more control? If it means physical strength, that's not relevant in the case of statutory rape, because the issue is psychological manipulation, not physical force. There's absolutely no evidence that men are better at grooming girls than wo… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Female getting away with conduct that a male would be crucified for. When the victim reported it to his superior he was laughed at..Yeah, that's true, I've had posts deleted for having a woman's user name in the image even though she posted publicly. It is a stupid rule, especially in this case when the woman is a known predator | /r/MensRights | 10/07/20 09:18 PM |
| 39 | Apparently, "Claiming to be 'a man raped by a woman' is mocking REAL rape victims." because women don't rape men / boys, and when they do it doesn't matterThis is what I got yesterday from some coward who messaged me privately. I don't even know who this random moron is, as it never wrote any public comments on any of my posts or replies, but based on its last sentence it might have gone around harassing other MRA's and / or male rape victims It wouldn't be worth pointing out, except that for me it's not the first time I've gotten messages or responses like this (either online or IRL). Over the years, I've found that unfortunately it comes with th… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Female getting away with conduct that a male would be crucified for. When the victim reported it to his superior he was laughed at..Unfortunately it seems like you have to blur out the names, according to Rule 6 | /r/MensRights | 10/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 8 | Enough is enough!This was satisfying, but I only hope he didn't get charged with anything afterwards The world could do with more guys showing that abuse by women won't be quietly accepted. There are still so many who think punching or slapping guys when they're angry is just a normal, acceptable thing to do and "he must have deserved it" anyway. Sometimes responding in kind is the only way to send a clear message Don't teach sons to never hit a girl; teach them to defend themselves against bullies and abusers | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/06/20 12:52 PM |
| 13 | Enough is enough!lol Dude that's literally what they say though. They say this encouraging "violence against women", as if a man defending himself against an abusive female aggressor is the same as a man mindlessly abusing a woman for no reason | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/06/20 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Pakistan is progressive as always.Ironically, from a country supposedly rife with Patriarchy and misogyny | /r/MensRights | 05/06/20 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Pakistan is progressive as always.I'm not sure how posting this picture in any way supports the people who made it, it's not like it's linking to their website or giving them clicks or money | /r/MensRights | 05/06/20 12:33 PM |
| 14 | A personal anecdoteIt's great that your friend showed you the text, he's a real bro. Unfortunately, I know too many guys who will throw other guys under the bus for even a chance with a woman. Good on him for having his priorities straight, and good on you for getting out. It's risky to let your guard down I don't know if you've spent much time on r/FemaleDatingStrategy, but if you read what the women there say you'll get a look into how patient and manipulative those people are. They're very good at putting up a … | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/05/20 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Get accused for being an incel because some person on r/Minecraft was being annoying and moaning about assuming gendersIncel is basically a meaningless term at this point. It's no longer about men who get angry at women because of an inability to form relationships with them, and it's become a catchall ad hominem attack towards anyone who disagrees with anything a feminist says | /r/MensRights | 24/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 9 | “But what about teh menz”Just from the meme, it's clear that was made by a moronic feminist who knows nothing about men's rights. Unlike with feminists, it's not all about Oppression Olympic with us. Whether false accusations are a "bigger" social problem is irrelevant. The facts are that it is a social problem, it ruins innocent people's lives, thus it needs to be addressed It's stupid to act like acknowledging that false accusations are a problem must mean treating rape like it's unimportant. Both false accusations as… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Anyone raised by a feminist mother?Lol well it's more that I wasn't able to, I wish I could have. I was prepubescent and not nearly strong enough to fight her during those times. All I could do was struggle sometimes, but that would just make the punishments worse. So as pathetic as it is, I would usually go along with what she wanted because there didn't seem to be other choices | /r/MensRights | 06/05/20 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Korean feminism crazyI'm glad at least the assault didn't actually happen. On the other hand, someone produced those images so the boy was still abused by somebody which is incredibly unfortunate. As is the fact that her claims were glorified at all FemaleDatingStrategy is horrible. They're like everything radfems claim men are: manipulative abusers who use the opposite sex for their own ends. Of course that person refused to acknowledge how many radfems condone boys being abused. Because only men are the rapists an… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/20 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Anyone raised by a feminist mother?I don't know what the police did with it, I guess they still have it but as far as I know they haven't tried to contact me since then I no longer live there though | /r/MensRights | 05/05/20 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Anyone raised by a feminist mother?I like to avoid thinking about the details of it as often as I can, so I'll link to this old post about it here. Basically it's like I said, she believed a boy's body is literally an extension of his mother's and therefore it was her right to do with him whatever she wanted. And she practiced these beliefs She believed males were inherently inferior because they didn't have cunts to push babies out of. She believed men were inherently more predatory because even when women were predators (like h… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/20 01:46 PM |
| 8 | Korean feminism crazyDude, Korean feminists are as disgusting. Just like in every other country. I made a post about the feminist Korean group Womad some time back. Basically a woman had raped a boy, and everyone on Womad was posting how lolicon (liking underaged girl children) is bad and criminal, but shotacon (liking underaged boy children) is good and a matter of sexual preference. Here's the article about it So apparently looking at a woman's pictures (even if it isn't pornographic) is wrong, but literally rapin… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/20 01:36 PM |
| 6 | Korean feminism crazyYou're right, I made a post about Womad some time back, and basically how a woman had raped an Australian boy, and everyone on Womad was posting how lolicon (liking underaged girl children) is bad and criminal, but shotacon (liking underaged boy children) is good and a matter of sexual preference. Here's the article about it | /r/MensRights | 05/05/20 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Korean feminism crazyA lot of times men are brainwashed by their mothers from birth into putting women's needs and feelings first. It's not all men's fault, don't underestimate the power and influence women have in society | /r/MensRights | 05/05/20 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Korean feminism crazySo basically men are criminalized, not based on their actions, but based on a woman's feelings More of that patriarchy rearing its ugly head, I guess /s | /r/MensRights | 05/05/20 01:25 PM |
| 8 | Anyone raised by a feminist mother?It's difficult to say My mother was a self-proclaimed feminist, but she was a radical feminist. I mean radical to the point where even most other feminists would see her as hateful, (and would probably say "she wasn't a real feminist!") Additionally, she was also physically and sexually abusive, and would say things like a boy's body is literally an extension of his mother's and therefore it was her right to do with him whatever she wanted. She believed women subjugating boys from a young age wa… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/20 01:22 PM |
| 13 | Some of the people here aren't really for Mens RightsBy "men should show emotions" what many of them really mean is "men should empathize with whatever it is women are feeling". If she's angry and thinks men are trash, he should be angry with her and think men are trash. If she's sad and indignant that she feels overlooked in the workplace because of her sex, he should be sad and indignant that she feels overlooked If he's sad because he can no longer see his children, or if he's angry because he was falsely accused, or if he's indignant because h… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/20 01:48 PM |
| 12 | Some of the people here aren't really for Mens RightsOP: *criticizes r/MensRights for allegedly blaming only women for social problems* Also OP: *blames only men for social problems* Most people here tend to acknowledge that misandry and sexism in general is something both men and women are guilty of and responsible for. People are just as annoyed by man-hating men as they are by man-hating women. So I don't know where OP's getting the idea that this sub blames women for everything But either way, it's pretty hypocritical to say blaming women is w… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/20 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Some of the people here aren't really for Mens RightsMost people here don't "shit on" or solely blame women. Most people here call out men who perpetuate sexism, as well. There are at least as many comments / posts criticizing White Knights, man-hating male feminists, men who give women Pussy Passes, etc. as there are comments / posts criticizing women when they do it. Acknowledging that women are also part of the problem is not misogynistic. You seem to imply that women are not responsible, that they play little to no part in shaping society, tha… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/20 01:35 PM |
| 5 | Why are more men dying from coronavirus than women? Here’s what the experts sayThe article mentions washing hands and not smoking, so only if you think those things make a man into a "soy boy" | /r/MensRights | 29/03/20 08:55 AM |
| 9 | Why are more men dying from coronavirus than women? Here’s what the experts sayGood information to know. I hope we all continue to be vigilant for the sake of the men, who are particularly vulnerable Unrelated to the article directly, notice how on TwoXChromosomes the top comment on the post for this article is basically "women have stronger immune systems. WOOT!" Interesting how when men die more from illnesses and women die less, it's empowering and the resilience of women should be celebrated. Yet when illnesses have a worse impact on women or are more likely to affect … | /r/MensRights | 29/03/20 08:49 AM |
| 18 | Let's highlight some good todayMaybe I'm being too cynical, but this doesn't really seem like the most pro-male message. It seems more like "men are good because of what they can do for women", "men are good because they're providers and protectors". A single, childless man who doesn't fight in war or have a life-threatening job in order to be an ally to women is just a valuable as a person | /r/MensRights | 29/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 34 | Let's highlight some good todayYes, I feel similarly. While I understand that people are glad to see some positivity towards men, as opposed to the typical "men are trash" BS, what this woman is saying isn't exactly positivity towards men in general It's positivity towards the male disposability mentality of "men are valuable as long as they're protecting women". It's like if a man were to make a post Women give birth to our children Women clean our houses Women cook our food Women make amazing mothers Women make amazing wive… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/20 04:20 PM |
| 17 | Let's highlight some good todayMore significant than birth, most of the times it's women who raise these men, and as such arguably have a significant influence on the kinds of people they grow up to be | /r/MensRights | 29/02/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | A Madison County teacher and assistant coach was arrested on charges of having sex with a student, the authorities announced today.Where does it say he was 18? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 21 | A Madison County teacher and assistant coach was arrested on charges of having sex with a student, the authorities announced today.Perhaps she got into the career specifically to target kids, considering she couldn't be around them for even a year before raping one. Good thing she was caught early, though she deserves for more than for her career to be ruined | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/02/20 04:03 PM |
| 6 | A Madison County teacher and assistant coach was arrested on charges of having sex with a student, the authorities announced today.It's a legal way of phrasing it, because there are different charges (or no charges) depending on whether or not the student was 19+ or below the age of 19. Hence the significance of being below 19 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/02/20 04:01 PM |
| 11 | If countries/universities are giving out tampons for free, I think a case could be made for men’s razorsAbout tampons, in my opinion it should be treated similar to toilet paper: small amounts available for free in public bathrooms,but whole boxes / rolls ought to be purchased I hadn't thought of the parallel between tampons and razors, but it is a good point | /r/MensRights | 29/02/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Couple of answers from a post about Steve Harvey’s book (link in comments)Such a typical feminist tactic to use a single case of a violent men as evidence that men, as a group, are "not nice" to women. If this one man beating his girlfriend to death sets the bar for men in general, then the bar for women is lower than dirt because there are countless cases of women abusing or murdering their boyfriends, husbands, children, etc. Also the whole "women are complicated / complex" adage is just meaningless archaic nonsense, like saying females are the "fairer sex". It also… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/20 03:27 PM |
| 23 | Rape. It's called rape.True though maybe I'm being too optimistic, but sexual assault is certainly a Hell of an improvement from "tryst", "affair", "sexual relationship", etc. or any of the other terms often used to marginalize women raping boys Also it's good to see her being given the maximum sentence, having to register, and being banned from teaching for life. It's truly a relief when the justice system works, because too often they're given things like probation or even not losing their teaching license. This is … | /r/MensRights | 13/02/20 03:30 PM |
| 15 | Convicted pedophile released because no longer identifies as a man. Civil commitment requires proving the offender has the sexual libido of a man.Ironically, this case of a male rapist exhibits the Pussy Pass aptly. The ruling is really saying a woman who commits literally the exact same crime as a man (since it's literally the same person) is no longer a threat because he's now "a woman" In the comments and in other posts about this, there are a lot of trans activists saying "he's not a real transwoman", and TERFs saying "he's a predatory male like most other trans-indentified men". I think both miss the point, because whether or not thi… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/20 09:58 PM |
| 33 | Misandrist mom abusing her 5 year old son. Step father powerless to stop it.Said the father was "an abusive dick", yeah the fuck right Considering how abusive this mother is both towards her son and towards her new wife, the father was probably a regular man who she alienated from his child so that she would have full custody and be able to brainwash and groom him as much as she wants to. I hope OP gets some good advice and manages to get that poor boy away from his mother before she can harm him much more Maybe with OP being female, the posters on r/relationship_advice… | /r/MensRights | 27/01/20 01:35 PM |
| 29 | Kobe Bryant can’t escape the MeToo mob even now.Any public figure is worth remembering in their totality even if that public figure is beloved Except that the charges were dropped in the alleged rape case. So why exactly should we remember him as a rapist when he was not convicted of being one? That folks are responding with rage and threats toward me speaks volumes about the pressure people come under to stay silent in these cases Well yes, it is better to stay silent than to continue to slander someone in cases of dubious allegations. So sh… | /r/MensRights | 27/01/20 01:19 PM |
| 11 | I’m 16 and I’m forced to hold the door and let my sister sit down on the subway and I have to stand up? It’s stupid that I have to do all this extra shit because it’s gentlemen like I don’t care at all about itOP said "forced" so that implies that the other person automatically expects it. It's stupid for people to expect males to be considerate, while not also expecting females to be considerate. And it's stupid for people to be expected to be considerate specifically to women and not to people in general | /r/MensRights | 01/01/20 08:18 PM |
| 9 | Anyone notice the media uses other groups to demonize MRA's?Yes, I always hear people equate MRA's and incels, alt-right, "women should stay in the kitchen" nonsense. Most have not the slightest what most MRA's actually believe | /r/MensRights | 31/12/19 06:56 PM |
| 8 | Men can’t be raped by women. God i hate this sub...Basically because female victims and women who play the victim alike get sympathy. Whereas male victims and men who play the victim get scorn. So there's no benefit to a man for him to falsely accuse someone of rape Real male rape victims whose rapists admit to the crime aren't given much support. Let alone men who are false accusers. A woman can ruin a man's life with a false accusation if she wants to. A man falsely (or truthfully) accuses a woman, and he'll be laughed at So men get raped at a… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/19 06:47 PM |
| 4 | What counts as progress for feminists: being able to hate women as much as they hate menExactly. OP says her Tweet was in reference to women defending Johnny Depp from the accusations against him from Amber Heard, despite that there's plenty of evidence indicating that Heard's actually the abuser | /r/MensRights | 29/12/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | What counts as progress for feminists: being able to hate women as much as they hate menEvolving, from just hating men to hating both. Doesn't that imply feminism starts with hating men to begin with? This is the problem with when feminists say "feminism isn't about hating men!". It depends on who you ask, because evidently there are feminists for whom feminism is indeed about hating men (and eventually also hating women who disagree with them) | /r/MensRights | 29/12/19 06:17 PM |
| 119 | Two-tiered justice system in the UK- Men are sent to prison for being homeless and asking for food, while women are exempt from many crimes, including assault and theft.No prison for stabbing partner No prison for attacking with bottle No prison for stealing thousands from charity No prison for stabbing in chest No prison for sexually assaulting children for 10 years That type of shit pisses me off, especially as someone who was abused by women when I was younger and only got out of it because my mother died and I was sent to live with my dad. Victims of violent women can't trust the Justice System to come through for them; I wouldn't blame any one of them for … | /r/MensRights | 29/12/19 06:14 PM |
| 7 | I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy".That's just plain ignorance to call the men's rights movement "far right". What part of wanting men to have equal parental rights, equal reproductive rights, equal genital integrity rights, equal voting rights, equal protection from domestic abuse and sexual violence, etc. have anything to do with the "far right"? Seriously, all anti-MRA's are either intellectually dishonest, or downright stupid and know really nothing about MRA's | /r/MensRights | 28/12/19 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy".To be fair, I don't know if those mods necessarily reflect Sanders's view on men's rights or not | /r/MensRights | 28/12/19 02:30 PM |
| 16 | Why men's issues will never be taken seriouslyWhat rights do men not have: reproductive rights parental rights genital integrity rights the right to not be arrested when victimized by domestic violence the right to legal justice if sexually abused by the opposite sex the right to vote without signing one's body over to the government | /r/MensRights | 27/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 22 | This is seen as acceptable, comments show the hypocrisy towards woman's rights.What's genuinely stupid is people who dismiss the men's rights movement without even knowing what it's about, without knowing the issues it addresses, without knowing what most MRA's think or believe, etc.. People who take for granted that there's such a thing as "male privilege" while ignoring the myriad of issues that males deal with on the basis of their sex are either ignorant or are deliberately marginalizing these problems Either way, anti-MRA people are stupid, as is the fact that that po… | /r/MensRights | 26/12/19 09:43 PM |
| 16 | If she lies about being on the pill can it be considered sexual assault?? Canadian court rules that a man not wearing a condom after agreeing he would committed sexual assault.It should be considered sexual assault the same way it is in this case Especially since if a woman lies about being on the pill and gets pregnant, the man has no reproductive rights; he'll be forced to support the child. Conversely if a man lies about keeping his condom on and pregnancy results, the woman has all the reproductive rights; she can have an abortion and not be forced to parent the child So the consequences to a man for a woman lying about being on the pill are arguably worse than, o… | /r/MensRights | 26/12/19 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Globally, gay men are disliked more than lesbian women across 23 countries. The endorsement of traditional gender roles was associated with anti-gay attitudes in every Western country studied, but in China and India, this was reversed. Those endorsing gender norms were most positive towards gays.I think it's partly because there are a lot more negative ideas about men and especially male sexuality than women. Men are / male sexuality is often seen as abusive, predatory, pedophilic, dirty, and degrading Hence why many think men can't be trusted alone with children. Why behavior seen as fine or even empowering by women is seen as objectifying, creepy, or rapey by men. Why women who have sex with many men are seen as giving something valuable away, whereas men who have sex with many women … | /r/MensRights | 26/12/19 06:09 PM |
| 21 | Mother breaks down her son’s infant circumcision experienceShe said she realizes how cruel she was to get him mutilated without anesthetics. But she still says "lol" and "elephant trunk", and acts like the only problem with "circumcision" is the pain She's even more cruel than she's letting on. Without anesthetics, it's even more disgusting and barbaric; but even with anesthetics, it's still disgusting and barbaric. It's still permanently disfiguring a child's genitals without his consent. People like this should lose custody of their child and have the… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 07:01 PM |
| 23 | Mother breaks down her son’s infant circumcision experienceExactly. And regardless, he'll live the rest of his life permanently disfigured. There are increasingly more men coming out about wanting to "undo" their "circumcision", but once it's done it can't be put back to exactly as it was before | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Caroline Flack 'hit boyfriend Lewis Burton over the head with a LAMP while he slept after reading "cheating" text messages on his phone in bloody attack' police likened to a 'horror movie'For real. I hate it when people say some "female violence isn't really a threat to men" bullshit, as if there haven't already been countless cases of women severely harming or killing men through the use of weapons and objects | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Caroline Flack 'hit boyfriend Lewis Burton over the head with a LAMP while he slept after reading "cheating" text messages on his phone in bloody attack' police likened to a 'horror movie'She's probably going to claim she had been "abused" by him and "lived in such terror" that she only felt safe enough "defend herself" when he was asleep and helpless. And sadly, some fools with be retarded enough to buy it and perceive her as the true victim | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 06:30 PM |
| 5 | You're not helping, Obama – just reinforcing myths about men v womenIt seems to basically be saying "women aren't better than men because of biology. They're better than men because they're raised to serve others and they're held to higher standards.". I think yes to the first sentence, and no to the second. Women are not better than men because of biology. Women are also not better than men because they're held to higher standards Women are not better than men, period. When women do have power, they also sometimes abuse it like men sometimes do (e.g. mothers ab… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/12/19 01:42 AM |
| 6 | A Man can impregnate each and every woman alive all by himself. In theory, the world could still be salvaged if every man died except just 1. Does this make man more "valuable" or more "dispensable"?Men are not dispensable. There need to be as many men as women, because every infant needs a father While one man can impregnate many women, he can't then care for / protect / raise dozens--let alone billions--of infants on his own. So only a few of the children would get both a father and a mother, and the rest would be raised by single mothers without any external male influence at all Consider how kids turn out without father-figures in their lives, and it becomes very clear that men have mor… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/19 07:55 PM |
| 27 | Men are showing up to The Wing and women are pissed | Feminists: "Men can't have their own spaces, that's misogyny! What do you mean women can't have their own spaces, that's misogyny too!"Of course. Women in men's spaces are "brave", and men's spaces need to change to accommodate then Men in women's spaces are "entitled invaders" who need to leave. Fuck them, another of the many double standards against men | /r/MensRights | 18/12/19 03:40 AM |
| 6 | FDS is a subreddit for actual lunatics: Reverse the gendersI think the biggest issue is that it's not just some fringe mentally ill lunatics. It's a post with hundreds of upvotes on a popular subreddit with tens of thousands of members where the whole focus is encouraging manipulative, sexist, and one-sided behavior This sub is about optimizing the female dating experience. We don’t want to hear "both sides"... All comments and posts, should be focused on how the woman can derive maximum benefit for herself, and herself only It's not surprising, though,… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/19 11:31 PM |
| 37 | UK: Married mother of two 33 "had sex with" boy 13 Tyldesley near Wigan in 1993. Avoids a custodial sentence.Sentencing Higgins Judge Andrew Hatton told her: 'There was a very significant age disparity but the complainant whilst naive was a consenting participant. If this dumb cunt doesn't understand the meaning of "age of consent", he shouldn't be a judge. A 13-year-old does not "consent" to sex with an adult He believed he was being taken advantage of and the problems in his life are attributed to this offending. That's because he was and they are. But notice that even when the victim comes forward, … | /r/PussyPass | 13/12/19 03:03 PM |
| 19 | UK: Married mother of two 33 had sex with boy 13 Tyldesley near Wigan in 1993. Avoids a custodial sentence.Sentencing Higgins Judge Andrew Hatton told her: 'There was a very significant age disparity but the complainant whilst naive was a consenting participant. If this dumb cunt doesn't understand the meaning of "age of consent", he shouldn't be a judge. A 13-year-old does not "consent" to sex with an adult He believed he was being taken advantage of and the problems in his life are attributed to this offending. That's because he was and they are. But notice that even when the victim comes forward, … | /r/MensRights | 13/12/19 02:58 PM |
| 11 | Because men don't suffer from domestic abuseFeminists always try to make everything into a women's issue. That's one of their tactics. They'll talk about the statistics of violence against women and be like "see how much there is?? This is why we need feminism!" Deliberately ignoring that there's at least as much violence against men. And if you mention it, you're "derailing" from the "important" issues | /r/MensRights | 13/12/19 04:07 AM |
| 6 | Because men don't suffer from domestic abuseA man's ex-wife isn't really his responsibility, though. She's a grown ass woman, so she ought to be taking responsibility for herself, not leeching of a hard working man. That's what a lot of men are "complaining" about. Men are unfairly given all the responsibility, even for other grown adults who should be responsible for themselves, but aren't held responsible because they're female | /r/MensRights | 13/12/19 03:54 AM |
| 41 | Rant: Anyone hates how you are automatically discredited because you are a dude?Same, I never heard of her until this post. I would beinterested in knowing if there's real conflict, or if it's just another case of feminists baselessly assuming "men are scared of strong women!" for clout | /r/MensRights | 12/12/19 04:52 PM |
| -1 | A father teaching his son how to be a good man apparently makes him an asshole who is brainwashing his son.There needs to be a little more context to make an accurate judgement. Like what do you mean by "teaching his son how to be a good man"? What does OP mean by "website teaches things that lean towards the more traditional image of a man"? There are a lot of tradcon ideas about masculinity that are not helpful to men. Like that it's men's duty to sacrifice themselves for women. Or that a man who's the victim of abuse is less of a man for not being able to protect himself. Or that any man who doesn… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/19 12:57 AM |
| 10 | Depressed and angry about my circumcision.Good for you, but that's irrelevant. Evidently other men do suffer from it and that's enough of a reason to ban the practice for infants. No unnecessary permanently mutilating procedure should be forced upon a child. "Maybe he'll grow up and like it!" is not a justification. If you weren't circumcised, you could choose to have it done now as an adult--though realistically you probably would not want it done, like most intact men don't want it done. When someone is circumcised, he can't have it u… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/19 12:55 AM |
| 1 | If this was a male that wrote this there would be protests and #MeToo callsI hope after she breaks up with him, her next boyfriend is an abusive psycho who beats her. That's the kind of man she deserves, they'd make a good match | /r/MensRights | 19/11/19 02:12 PM |
| 13 | Swedish view on the International mens day.International Men's Day is an organization that, in the name of equality, believes that men are oppressed and discriminated against in society. The research shows that it is just the opposite What "research" is he talking about? There is significant evidence that men are discriminated against in society. Male privilege is an unfounded assumption that people need to stop taking for granted instead of chasing male role models, we should question our morbid need to constantly divide the world into … | /r/MensRights | 18/11/19 04:28 PM |
| 14 | The 5 No'sBecause reproduction is unfortunately one of the many areas where women have rights and men have responsibilities | /r/MensRights | 18/11/19 04:22 PM |
| 45 | Same behavior problems hinder boys more than girlsOwens found, to her surprise, that boys were more likely to be suspended, expelled, or held back a year than girls, even when they had the same behavior problems. Lol "to her surprise". Clearly she hasn't seen the prison sentence disparity. Men get harsher punishments than women, how is it surprising that boys get harsher punishments than girls? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/19 01:29 PM |
| 4 | How do I protect my son?encourage her behavior. If you give a person enough rope they will hang themselves. No, because by that point the son could be dead, defeating the whole purpose of trying to protect him. There have been cases like that, where a mother's abusive behavior was constantly brought up but constantly dismissed by courts and CPS, until finally she ended up murdering the boy. Then people were like "there were all these red flags!" It's too risky to just wait until she proves herself guilty. If he's going… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/19 06:16 PM |
| 4 | How do I protect my son?I'd say post this to r/legaladvice, but I'm not sure how reliable they are. I heard that they tend to be somewhat anti-male and have a tendency to defend females in every situation. But I don't know for myself, so you can still check them out and see if you can find anything helpful Other than that, I would suggest recording as much as you can: take pictures of his injuries, save messages she sends you, record anytime she's saying or doing something crazy or abusive. Other than that, it's diffic… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/19 06:06 PM |
| 67 | We should just let feminists decide what “actual men’s issues” are, because they care more about men than men care about themselves. Or something.Exactly. Any fool can write the words feminists care about men But when in reality all their efforts go to farther perpetuating the "men are the oppressive perpetrators; women are the innocent victims who need more resources and protection" narrative, it's pretty clear what they actually care about | /r/MensRights | 12/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 100 | We should just let feminists decide what “actual men’s issues” are, because they care more about men than men care about themselves. Or something.they don't know anything about feminists or feminist ideology Exactly. They also don't know anything about MRA's. One of the top Tweets is Feminism expands the definition of masculinity and creates new opportunities and roles for men - while the MRAs' solution to gender "equality" is to reverse the clock 100 years. which shows how little they know about MRA's. Most of the problems discussed by MRA's are things like male disposability (e.g. drafts and selective service); genital mutilation; fathe… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/19 05:51 PM |
| 98 | We should just let feminists decide what “actual men’s issues” are, because they care more about men than men care about themselves. Or something.Sure, feminists care. That's why all their effort goes to perpetuating ideas like #BelieveHer; "men can stop rape"; "stop violence against women and girls"; and generally the narrative of male privilege, female oppression, male-perpetrator-female-victim, and "men are to blame for all social ills" Feminists do not give a shit about males' rights. The only time feminists ever mention men's rights is to mock it: "misandry isn't real!", "men already have all the rights", etc. to downplay it: "maybe … | /r/MensRights | 12/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | If he didnt want it he wouldnt dress that way happyI was under the impression that leaving the house in a bra/panties would be considered public indecency. It's only public indecency if a person exposes genitals. In some places, even that's not enough and it even needs to be proven that the exposure was done specifically for sexual gratification. There's absolutely no law against wearing just underwear in public so long the genitals and breasts are not completely exposed. There isn't even a legal definition for what "underwear" is in the first p… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/19 03:50 PM |
| 11 | If he didnt want it he wouldnt dress that way happyIt's not illegal for women to wear panties as pants in public, though. Where are you getting that they can't do this? It's only not allowed for a woman to be completely bare on the bottom or (in some places) to show her nipples. But a woman can wear just panties and a bra in public if she wants to, completely legally Additionally the booty shorts a lot of women wear in public are a lot higher and a lot more revealing than boxers. There's no point saying "but boxers are underwear" if the whole po… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/19 12:19 PM |
| 66 | Animal?Yeah, no thanks. I'd rather not sit on a disgusting public toilet seat Considering the fact that peeing while standing up is not actually unhygienic in the first place, this is not even practical. The only reason for shit like this is to try to control male behavior Also, how is it "animalistic" to stand on two legs to pee? There are plenty of animals that squat to pee, like female and neutered dogs, so I could say squatting to pee is being an animal | /r/MensRights | 06/11/19 03:37 PM |
| 52 | USVI "Humane" Society "jokes" about castrating your husband like a dog.I hate people like that. It all stems from the misandric idea that physical violence against men is an acceptable response to cheating, hence why when women commit domestic abuse against men a lot of responses are "good for her, women don't do that for no reason! He must have done something to deserve it" Abuse isn't a justifiable response to cheating. Unless it's also okay for men to blowtorch their wives' cunts when she cheats | /r/MensRights | 04/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 8 | Woman who forced ex into sex at machete-point sent to psychiatric hospitalThis seems to be partly because people think rape is a man thing, so if a woman rapes someone it must be because she "suffering" from some kind of psychosis. Men are demonized, women are diagnosed | /r/MensRights | 03/11/19 04:20 PM |
| 13 | Who the hell puts a laughing reaction to a rape?"Who the Hell does?" Unfortunately, the majority of the general public, based on the reactions. It's disgusting how something seen as one of the most horrible crimes, aside from murder, is suddenly seen as funny when a man is the victim and the rapist is female | /r/MensRights | 01/11/19 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Do feminists always make fairly gender-neutral relatinoship issues all about misogyny?Yes, basically. They try to twist everything into being misogynistic. I just saw this happen recently where this meme was posted. My first thought was that it was a dumb joke about how women season food properly while men overseason food, playing off the "men don't cook / men can't keep house" stereotype But no, apparently the message is somehow "boys are quirky and girls are wimpy". Not that that isn't a possible interpretation, but there's no more evidence of that than the former. But everyone… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/19 05:19 PM |
| 20 | Chuck Berry's forced circumcision at age 17 probably contributed to his bizarre sexual fetishes late in lifeCould be, I wouldn't be surprised if his attitude towards women was distorted after being abused and mutilated as a boy by the perverted women in his life People tend to assume that when men sexually degrade women it stems from a "misogynistic" society or some inherent predatory drive in males. But more often than people realize, it's from some past trauma | /r/MensRights | 28/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | God Help Us All. (r/FemaleDatingStrategy)Exactly. The self-entitlement that a woman like that would think she deserves a man to provide for her, let alone a rich man. Like what is she even offering besides her evidently shitty personality? | /r/MensRights | 28/10/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | God Help Us All. (r/FemaleDatingStrategy)Some men aren't even aware of that subreddit or the fact that so many women think that way. It could be helpful for men to see what one of the most popular women's dating advice forums has to say, so they'll know what kind of behavior to watch out for | /r/MensRights | 28/10/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | God Help Us All. (r/FemaleDatingStrategy)There's no way to tell by looking at them, but a good way to weed out the shitty women is by insisting on splitting the bill, at least at first. A gold digging whore will flee from that | /r/MensRights | 28/10/19 04:24 PM |
| 27 | Anyone notice the constant misandry on Twitter?Yes, and it's not just Twitter. Misandry is an issue with society in general women are just HORRIBLE towards men in this society, and somehow they get away with it. Part of the problem is gynocentrism. Misogyny is seen as a horrible thing. Misandry is seen as funny, as a non-issue, or as "payback". If one believes in "male privilege", then one believes that men are automatically socially advantaged above women, so mistreating or degrading men is seen as "evening the playing field" If one believe… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/19 01:30 AM |
| 5 | I think that young men aren't "shedding toxic masculinity" or "traditional male values" but instead embracing the old idea of what it is to be a man (self-sacrificing etc) - perhaps unfortunately because it can be too much of a burden for many of usNinety-one per cent of the men agreed that a man should help other people...The UBC study, which consisted of males between ages 15-29, also “found that the most strongly endorsed masculine value is selflessness.” The idea that men should be selfless--particularly towards women and girls--is both a traditional and also modern ideal. I think part of why gynocentrism is so prevalent and why the issue of misandry is so marginalized is because both people with conventional ideas about gender and als… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/19 02:19 PM |
| 8 | ‘Boys Are Stupid; Girls Are Awesome’ – Most TV Shows & Movies TodayThis is so true. And this part: I wonder whether you’ve noticed a character that can be found in practically every movie made today? I call her the ‘all-conquering female.’ Almost without exception, she is underestimated by men and then proves herself more intelligent, cleverer, more courageous, and more skilled than any man. partly explains why some people are irritated by many female heroines. It's not "misogyny" or "men just can't stand strong women!" It's the fact that often female heroines … | /r/MensRights | 25/10/19 01:57 PM |
| 30 | Some people still don’t understand that arousal does not imply consentI truly hate people like that. Even infant boys can get erections. Erections aren't proof of consent nor even arousal. Additionally, he was fucking 11-years-old; whether he was "interested" or not is 100% irrelevant. Whoever wrote this is probably an aspiring child rapist looking for an excuse On the bright side, I'm glad the cunt got 20 years. Though it's probably too optimistic to think she'll actually serve that whole sentence | /r/MensRights | 23/10/19 08:55 PM |
| 16 | Just a friendly reminder that all men don't feel guilty about using women and playing with their emotions.Female Dating Strategy. A sub with 20,600 subscribers (acquired in less than 1 year), for anyone who thinks "but only so few women are like this, that it's not worth mentioning! This is just a lone crazy woman." No, a lot of women are like this, and all their other posts and sidebar is the same kind of thing: shitty cunts overvaluing themselves, and projecting their own shitty behavior onto men | /r/MensRights | 21/10/19 02:46 PM |
| 15 | Just a friendly reminder that all men don't feel guilty about using women and playing with their emotions.Females like this is why I always use the shit test of splitting the bill on the first few dates at least. It doesn't matter how much money either of us make, or how big or small the bill is. It's not even just a matter of me saving money. There are too many self-entitled females whose only interest in men is their money. Those kinds of women are not worth the price of a cup of coffee even Imagine a man saying the only thing of value a woman can add to a man's life is sex, and "block her the fir… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/19 02:39 PM |
| 19 | Just a friendly reminder that all men don't feel guilty about using women and playing with their emotions.Indeed. Considering that her measure for men adding value to her life is his money, then she clearly only sees men as an ATM machine | /r/MensRights | 21/10/19 02:32 PM |
| 21 | Study Shows Men Still Feel Judged When They Talk About Their Feelings.Especially when they're feelings that don't fit with the status quo. God forbid a man express feeling discriminated against in any area in current society. Then his feelings are just those of a "whiny incel who can't get laid and is afraid of losing his privilege!" and suddenly his feelings aren't important | /r/MensRights | 21/10/19 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Can I avoid child support if the mother was abusive?The best course of action would be to break up with her immediately and no longer engage in sexual intercourse with her at all. If she does get pregnant, keeps the child, and breaks up with you, it's almost a guarantee she will get custody of the child and you will pay child support Child support has a strict liability standard, meaning the biological father will have to pay even if the mother was abusive towards him and / or the child even if she lied about being on the pill even if she stole h… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/19 02:20 PM |
| 77 | The future is female? Really? I found this t-shirt that probably is going to cause some uproar.Part of the problem is that so many people scoff at the concept of misandry. They believe males are so "privileged" that prejudice or hatred against them is a non-issue. To them, hating men is hating the powerful oppressor class; therefore discrimination against men is seen as "evening the playing field", "turning the tables", or even "equality" | /r/MensRights | 19/10/19 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Getting past the "mens problems are mens fault" view most women have.Then it's not even a "patriarchy" by the feminist definition, which is a society run by men and for men Additionally, I would say it's not only men who perpetuate ideas like "women should be primary caregivers". Women do it, too, when they deliberately try to alienate fathers from their children. Or when they only date / marry men who make more money than they do, making him primary breadwinner, by default making her primary caregiver | /r/MensRights | 19/10/19 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Getting past the "mens problems are mens fault" view most women have.it's because of the patriarchy (caused by men) that women are seen as primary care givers and often get sole custody. The problem is a lot of people like to conflate "the patriarchy" with "conventional gender roles". They are not synonymous, because men are not the only ones perpetuating conventional gender roles. Women also perpetuate them when they refuse to date a man who makes less money than she does or who doesn't pay the bills or pay on dates. And if the man is the primary breadwinner (wh… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/19 08:46 PM |
| 16 | We all agree cheating is bad. Dont act like only men do it. And don't act like we hold less value than you. So much for "equality"Considering that pretty much every study or survey on the matter has shown that cheating is about 50/50 (though some have found that men cheat more, while others have found that women cheat more), this idiotic "men are cheating pigs" stereotype needs to die And imagine having the audacity to say that men overestimate their market value, when she's the one who doesn't have enough market value to not be cheated on. But for real, she just sounds like a salty bitch, becoming bitter with men in gener… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/19 03:11 PM |
| 12 | How domestic abuse against men is seenFor those missing context, that's from Against Men's Rights. Which, as their name implies, call acknowledging female-on-male abuse "propaganda" | /r/MensRights | 13/10/19 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Banned from r/SandersforPresident because I pointed out that Cardi B is a rapistWhat's most annoying is that they deleted all the comments calling her out for her genuinely disgusting and illegal behavior. So all that's left is comments saying "they are just sexually frustrated incel haters". So anyone who sees will just think that all the deleted comments were unwarranted attacks and not know any of the valid points brought up So the misrepresentation of MRA's continues. Seriously everyone, look at the deleted comments | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Banned from r/SandersforPresident because I pointed out that Cardi B is a rapistIf I ever spend too much time here, I'm always reminded by other subreddits of how controversial and subversive talking about men's rights, female abusers, etc. is. Sadly there are very few places where one can even have a thoughtful conversion about female rapists and male victims Any mention about double standards against men or in favor of criminal women are automatically dismissed as "whiney incels and can't get laid". That's the extent of most people's intellectual engagement on the matter | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 10 | Perharps it is selfish to demand perfection from men while you yourself are mediocre. Im pretty confident that a lot of the women who demand the perfect man dont try hard to make themselves the perfect woman as well.For real. The kind of woman who will meet a decent man, but turn him down because he's not over 5'9" or because he's had hoes or because he doesn't have a "good dick" is a shallow lowlife She probably does measure men on superficial things like that. Then gets mad if he turns out to have a bad character, and then she complains about "why are there no good men??" | /r/MensRights | 10/10/19 04:27 PM |
| 110 | Perharps it is selfish to demand perfection from men while you yourself are mediocre. Im pretty confident that a lot of the women who demand the perfect man dont try hard to make themselves the perfect woman as well.I'm sure black hawtie and her hundreds of thousands of likes aren't hypocrites, and they would all be perfectly fine with a man posting No female has all five: A tight pussy that smells good No drama An intact hymen A weight below 125 Ability to care about you for reasons other than your giving her money | /r/MensRights | 10/10/19 04:18 PM |
| 12 | She is literally a sexual offender yet people still upvote this trash of a story. Just imagine if the genders were reversed.But you're missing the most important factor. Which is that everything seen as bad, predatory, offensive, inappropriate, and inexcusable when done by men is seen as good, empowering, funny, and cute when done by women Especially sexual abuse. Seriously, anything involving sexual abuse are some of the biggest misandric double standards. It's night and day the way male predators and female predators are treated. As well as male victims and female victims | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 07:42 PM |
| 17 | Banned from an abuse sub (that I post in following my history of abuse). This is why men dont speak out.I hate how fucktards want to act like being an MRA somehow equates not knowing about abuse, let alone abuse against men. Any MRA probably knows lightyears more about abuse against men than any feminist, because feminist don't bother to learn about abuse against men. They just pretend it doesn't exist since it doesn't fit their narrative of "violence against women and girls is incomparably worse" | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 05:06 PM |
| 13 | Male MPs Receive the Most Online AbuseMales in general receive the most abuse in general. They're most of the murder victims, the victims of stranger violence, the victims of DV, the victims of violence by men or women, even the victims of sexual violence when prison rates are included So male MP's receiving the most abuse online is unfortunate, but to be expected sadly | /r/MensRights | 07/10/19 09:18 PM |
| 19 | Yeah alright, cause women don’t kill men.Shit like this is why feminists are either complete morons or intellectually dishonest at best. How much more often do women interact with men than men interact with sharks? This is like saying ~22 people die from pitbull attacks in one year, and there's a push to ban pit bulls. ~1.25 million people die from road crashes in one year, and... | /r/MensRights | 03/10/19 06:06 PM |
| 16 | Barclays executive, 51, who beat abusive wife, 49, to death with a crowbar 'deserved a MEDAL' for putting up with her, says victim's own MOTHER at murder trialEven still, what do you think are the chances he'll get leniency due to the "Battered Husband Syndrome"? | /r/MensRights | 03/10/19 05:39 PM |
| 24 | Oh Boy!"Imagine knowing a woman who can cater to all your sexual desires without asking for money" But for real, that Kaelo's response belongs on r/MurderedByWords. Imagine being so self-entitled that you think you deserve a man giving you money just for existing, without you contributing anything in exchange | /r/MensRights | 02/10/19 02:43 PM |
| 21 | The old boys don't hit girls no matter what, no with extra encouraging girl on guy violenceThat tends to be the stance on violence in general: males hitting females is monstrous an inexcusable (many even say they shouldn't do it in self-defense); females hitting males is empowering and should be encouraged (many just assume she must have had a good reason, he must have deserved it, etc.) I'll do the opposite of what she says: sons definitely need to be taught that hitting a woman in self-defense is not wrong. He has to learn to defend himself from women, because no one else is going t… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/19 02:36 PM |
| 9 | Very trueYeah, that "real men take whatever and don't complain about it!" mentality is definitely tradcon A feminist seeing this list would say something like "but these are all infinitely worse for girls because we live in a Patriarchy where all males are automatically privileged because of their gender!" | /r/MensRights | 29/09/19 08:47 AM |
| 39 | Very trueIndeed. Which is one reason it annoys me so much to see people who are overly-protective of their daughters, and concerned about defending girls from guys "trying to take advantage of them". The then same people have zero concerns about keeping their son's safe from abusive girlfriends, or protecting boys from women trying to take advantage of them This "he'll be fine, he's a boy. But girls need to be looked out for" attitude is very negligent and it's dismissive of these kinds of struggles that… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/19 08:42 AM |
| 12 | "How DARE you defend your right to keep your body parts!"Someone needs to tell this rotten fish smelling cunt "no dick, no opinion". Only the person who's penis is on the line is the one who should have any say in whether or not it gets mutilated I bet this hypocritical bitch would be defending herself from someone trying to trim her beef curtains | /r/MensRights | 25/09/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Woman teacher sleeps with ale student, faces max 3 years. BUT with roles reversed most males would face 15-20. BY NO MEANS AM I SAYING ANYTHING TO SUPPORT SEX OFFENDERS. But equality means more than pay and opportunities. It means equal sentencing, and equal consequences.So even the max is basically nothing. I hate it when these cunts are already guaranteed a Pussy Pass. How is what's seen as the worst crime suddenly a joke just because the child rapist has a twat and the victim is a boy? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/19 08:19 PM |
| 4 | "It's obvious the guy was the abuser"Radfems, and that sub in particular, always do that. Literally any time there is an abusive girlfriend, an abusive mother, an abusive female, their response is to downplay her abuse, blame the man, blame Patriarchy in general, or pretend the story is fake Women are innocent victims and men are to blame for every social ill, according to them. No matter what the situation is, they'll always twist it to fit this narrative | /r/MensRights | 20/09/19 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Flaming hot take: because teenage boys tend to be less mature than girls their age, they are MORE negatively affected when they have sex with an adultBasically that. Feminists always talk about the supposed "power imbalance between males and females" as if males are automatically in powerful positions over females just by being male Hence why they often say things like "yes, sometimes women do rape men / sometimes women do rape boys / sometimes women do abuse their boyfriends / etc.. But it's different because the social and historical basis is different" That's one of the many issues with Patriarchy Theory. Its frame of reference is that "ma… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/19 12:42 AM |
| 13 | Flaming hot take: because teenage boys tend to be less mature than girls their age, they are MORE negatively affected when they have sex with an adultPretty much, physically and psychologically males start developing later and at a slower rate, but then continue developing for a longer time. So it's ironic when people say "he was 14, not a little child!" and at the same time "she was just 17, that guy's a pedophile!" People like to argue that young boys are too grown to be taken advantage of, and that they somehow "know exactly what they're doing". While girls the same age or even older are perceived as ingénues | /r/MensRights | 20/09/19 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Give women free stuff and you get to be a "provider." #Congrats!Right, there are women on both sides. Some there saying things like But a woman should be ready to pay, even if the man insists on picking up the check for both of them. At least on the first date, to signify that she isn’t just going to be using him the whole relationship. Cause there are woman who use their men like an atm and it’s gross. And some saying things like those who refuse and die in the ditch over a coffee and muffin are generally arseholes and should be avoided. and I love it when … | /r/MensRights | 16/09/19 03:44 PM |
| 139 | Give women free stuff and you get to be a "provider." #Congrats!In my opinion, if you can't cook him good meals, satisfy him in bed, and give him as many children as he wants, you have no business being in a relationship Why is it bad to shame women for not fulfilling their stereotypical gender roles, but fine to shame men for not fulfilling their stereotypical gender roles? That's always how it is, the onus is always only ever placed on the man, and the "you should be liberated of conventional roles!" is always only ever said to the woman Men don't have to … | /r/MensRights | 16/09/19 03:37 PM |
| 20 | Saudi princess had plumber beaten and ‘forced to kiss her feet'"If there were more women in positions of power, there would be more compassion, more fairness, less war, less violence and abuse, etc.!" /s She got a Pussy Pass, of course | /r/MensRights | 14/09/19 08:03 PM |
| 7 | Men's rights? Isn't that a bit like white lives matter?Right. There are tons more prejudice and negative stereotypes against Black people as a demographic in society than there is against females. Especially in certain areas, like the criminal justice system, where Black men are treated the worst, White men are treated a close second worse, then there's a big gap, and then there are women who are relatively coddled compared with men of any ethnicity Black, White, and other ethnicity men get a lot more shit than women. The biggest disparity in privil… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/09/19 06:29 PM |
| 14 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"Right, this isn't even a field where women are less than 50%. Perhaps she wants the field to be 100% female | /r/MensRights | 13/09/19 06:05 PM |
| 19 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"If she wants more female writers specifically, rather than more talented writers regardless of sex, then she's being sexist | /r/MensRights | 13/09/19 06:00 PM |
| 27 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"Why are male majorities unquestionable while the same is not true of female majorities. The same is true of female majorities. No one questions the majority of nurses, childcare workers, or high-paid models being women. No one's saying "hire more men for those positions" like they're saying "hire more women" for mainly male positions | /r/MensRights | 13/09/19 05:59 PM |
| 13 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"Unfortunately she has a few followers so thinks she's some sort of messiah Personally, that's my main issue with these kinds of people. If it were just one isolated moron, that would one thing. But the fact that thousands of people follow and agree with their stupidity is especially unfortunate | /r/MensRights | 13/09/19 05:53 PM |
| 14 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"Another one for anytime someone says "feminism is literally about equality!" No, it's literally about female advancement, including when it's unfair, unequal, and sexist / misandric | /r/MensRights | 13/09/19 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Feminists don't care about boys bodily autonomyRight, they focus plenty on men, if by focusing you mean demonizing and blaming for every social ill | /r/MensRights | 11/09/19 03:23 PM |
| 19 | Feminists don't care about boys bodily autonomyThat's an insult to the mentally ill. These women aren't ill, they're just malicious | /r/MensRights | 11/09/19 03:22 PM |
| 5 | My mum made me so angry today.The struggle of poor mothers who who abuse and cripple their children. Now they "have to live for the rest of their lives" with crippled children! /s | /r/MensRights | 11/09/19 03:21 PM |
| 15 | My mum made me so angry today.lol "Single moms struggle way more". At least single moms aren't going to have the police called on them when they go on vacation and stay in a hotel room with their son | /r/MensRights | 11/09/19 03:07 PM |
| 16 | Feminists don't care about boys bodily autonomyYou can see this cunt's dishonestly by how she starts off by merely saying she doesn't focus on men and boy's issues (implying that maybe she cares about the issues, but they're just not what she's focusing on). Then she later admits that she blatantly doesn't care one way or another about boys being mutilated That's the thing about feminists: they act like "feminism is about being pro-women, not about hating men!" But when it comes down to it, for a lot of them it's not "all issues matter, I'm … | /r/MensRights | 11/09/19 03:03 PM |
| 22 | Amber Heard Worried She Will Be 'Demonized' In Johnny Depp Lawsuit, Wants Details Kept PrivateHe was demonized by her false accusations, and she was fine with that She's "demonized" (AKA rightly called out on) by her own abusive behavior, and suddenly there's a problem | /r/MensRights | 11/09/19 02:52 PM |
| 121 | Kinda thought this was the right place for this?It should be so intuitive that men are worth saving. But the way they're treated as disposable by society and their issues always take a back burner to women's, this is a really important message to spread | /r/MensRights | 10/09/19 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Boys can be whoever they wantAnd a useful lesson for a child to learn is to not live his life conforming to what other people want. If you think bullies are always going to be invincible, then at some point he's going to have to learn how to stand up for himself against them, or otherwise be a doormat the rest of his life | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Boys can be whoever they wantWearing conventionally "feminine" clothes doesn't mean being transgender | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Imagine the uproar if the baby aborted for the same reason was a girlProbably real. There's a whole thread on Gender Critical about this with many people expressing similar sentiments. The are plenty of radfems who hate boys this much | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 06:28 PM |
| 61 | This is what we're taught in canadian public school.That's the problem with feminists, they say there's male privilege without ever providing evidence or questioning the validity of the claim. They just take for granted that it's true, and demand that everyone else does, as well. Otherwise he's a "whiney misogynist with a hurt ego, afraid of losing his power over women!" supposedly | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Imagine the uproar if the baby aborted for the same reason was a girlIkr. She didn't need to say that, it's not like anyone would have mistaken her for a sane person | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Boys can be whoever they wantI don't get that argument "you shouldn't allow your son to wear [such-and-such] because he'll be bullied for it. It's for his own good that you don't let him". It's for his own good that you teach him that if someone bullies him for something, he should pander to what the bullies want? There are people who will bully kids for all kinds of things. If a boy is being bullied for reading all the time or having some other nerdy hobby, should his parents tell him "now don't read / enjoy your hobbies a… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 04:46 AM |
| 4 | As man, neither me nor any other man I have ever known has gone through anything traumatizing as a child!Because they were convinced that uncut penises are tiny Intact penises are smaller than penises that have had a large portion cut off. Promutilation logic, right there | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 01:17 AM |
| 22 | As man, neither me nor any other man I have ever known has gone through anything traumatizing as a child!The same can be said about many young boys abused by adult women as children. By the time they're old enough to recognize how wrong it was, people are like "why are you only whining now?" Except that with boys, even when they come out about what happened while they're still young and soon after it happened, even then people don't give a shit. They're just like "why's that pussy complaining? Lucky boy should be greatful!" People don't care about boys' trauma either years later or at the time of i… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 01:13 AM |
| 17 | 'Women can be as sexual as they like - but heaven help any man who responds'Right. It's similar to legalizing people being prostitutes, but making it illegal to hire a prostitute | /r/MensRights | 08/09/19 05:32 PM |
| 8 | Even children are working with the patriarchyThe fact that that got so many likes says a lot about the intelligence of feminists. What exactly does this prove? I could easily make a picture like this and pretend it means boys are more compassionate and helpful than girls | /r/MensRights | 08/09/19 05:28 PM |
| 15 | I got sexually harassed yesterday and I got next to no support from anyone so here I amshe said “Its you, I love me a fine ass white boy.” and this was my first time in a situation like this so i was just kinda chuckling uncomfortably and said thanks. Than she said “I especially like em tall and sexy like you.” Things like this happen all the time, in my experience and based on what I hear from other guys. The problem is that the only time it's talked about it when it's feminists complaining that "women and girls get unwanted comments from men all the time" as if it's something th… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/19 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Even children are working with the patriarchyFacebook post, not Tweet, but yes it's completely idiotic | /r/MensRights | 08/09/19 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Have you seen John Wick 3 and the male body count ?It only shocks people if it’s female characters who are killed which in a lot of cases they are spared even if they are the bad guy in it Exactly. In the first place, evil female characters are rare, especially compared with how many female heroines there are In the second place, even when there is an evil female character she often ends up turning to the good side she's evil but depicted in a glamorized way, like a desirable femme fatale (she'll likely be a Karma Houdini, because the audience i… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/19 04:46 AM |
| 3 | We man need thisI don't think many people deny that men are generally physically stronger (except for the completely moronic radfems who say women are physically superior because they give birth or something). It's what people do with this knowledge that makes the difference E.g. some say "men are stronger, which makes them superior to women" (honestly, I rarely if ever hear this one unironically) A lot more say "men are stronger, which makes them all dangerous and threatening" or "men are stronger, which makes… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/19 06:07 PM |
| 70 | Woman takes boy to get circumcised against his parents' wishes, is convicted of causing grievous bodily harm, but gets no jail timeEverything about this case is horrible. The fact that she got a Pussy Pass for messing with and permanently disfiguring this child's genitals The fact that the only reason this is considered illegal in the first place is because she didn't get the parents' consent, and so it's perfectly legal in general for parents to force unnecessary, invasive, cosmetic surgery onto a child's genitals And yet some people still claim systemic misandry, or even misandry in general, doesn't exist in society | /r/MensRights | 06/09/19 03:29 PM |
| 14 | Woman takes boy to get circumcised against his parents' wishes, is convicted of causing grievous bodily harm, but gets no jail timeFirstly, it's called soap and water Secondly, females get smegma, as well. So I suppose by your "logic" we should be cutting of infants girls' labia, too, to prevent pussy cheese | /r/MensRights | 06/09/19 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you think men are supposed to be manly and women are supposed to be feminine? If men and women didn’t be this way, what would happen?Men and women should be allowed to be however they feel inclined to, not forced to conform to some people's ideals of how they should act or shamed for not doing so In this area, men often get the short end of the stick. Because men and boys who are conventionally "masculine" are shamed for not showing emotion; for liking guns or toy guns; for being more active and not enjoying sitting still; etc.. But then men and boys who are conventionally "feminine" are shamed for crying or showing a lot of … | /r/MensRights | 05/09/19 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Another example of why Menslib is for spineless pussies. They are too afraid to talk about one of the most important men's issueseven the self-proclaimed 'sane' ones throw temper tantrums when they realise I'm not going to grovel at their feet I've noticed that as well. Even the more "moderate" ones and the ones who seem reasonable at first aren't willing to carry on a fruitful discussion for long unless you say that women have it worse It's like the best they can do is "men have some issues, but women's are way worse". As soon as you say that there are a lot of areas where males are disadvantaged the same as or more than… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Another example of why Menslib is for spineless pussies. They are too afraid to talk about one of the most important men's issuesthey don’t like people suggesting that men have it worse than women in certain ways They don't even like people suggesting that men have it equally as bad as women in some ways. You better say "women have it worse", or they'll accuse you of being a "misogynistic whiny manchild with a hurt ego" | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 06:45 PM |
| 10 | Another example of why Menslib is for spineless pussies. They are too afraid to talk about one of the most important men's issuesmale feminist got demons in their closets that's why they project so hard. For real. Any time there's a man who says "all men are trash", you know he's talking about himself, and possibly any shitty company he keeps. Because any regular man with regular male friends knows the men-perpetuate-rape-culture stereotype is bullshit | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 06:43 PM |
| 20 | Another example of why Menslib is for spineless pussies. They are too afraid to talk about one of the most important men's issuesRight, it was basically just created so feminists can say "why do you need MRA's when feminists are already addressing men's issues, e.g. MensLib??" | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 06:34 PM |
| 15 | Another example of why Menslib is for spineless pussies. They are too afraid to talk about one of the most important men's issuesThis is one of the many examples of why I hate it when people say Feminists are just about equality! Feminism is for men, too! If you really care about men's rights, you'll join a men's rights group like MensLib! MensLib isn't toxic! Men's Lib is extremely toxic. They're the typical man-hating feminists, made more insidious by the front they put up claiming to care about men. They only reason they exist is so feminists can be like "see? Feminism is the only thing needed for men, not MRA's!" But … | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Men apparently get coddled and put on a pedestal, atleast according to this guy.Looking at that guy's Twitter, every one of his Tweets are Whiteknight bullshit: "women, what's the worst experience you've had with a man?" "Women never get attention when they're raped!" Definitely a typical, misandric, not-like-other-guys type. Who really is like so many other guys | /r/MensRights | 02/09/19 05:04 PM |
| 22 | Men apparently get coddled and put on a pedestal, atleast according to this guy.Times when "boys will be boys is actually used": A boy plays in the mud and gets his clothes dirty, or does some other childish, stereotypically boyish, but completely innocuous thing. His parents laugh and say "boys will be boys" Feminists try to make a point and say "people use 'boys will be boys' to excuse men raping, murdering, assaulting, or otherwise harming women!" Times when "boys will be boys is not used": To actually excuse men raping, murdering, assaulting, or otherwise harming women … | /r/MensRights | 02/09/19 04:52 PM |
| 15 | on a video about a female pedophile stalking a young boy at an amusement parkI'd bet a year's salary, considering he specifically said "teenage boys" and "older girls" instead of just "teenagers" and "older people". I'm 100% sure he's one of those cunts who's pro-child rape for a female perpetrator, but would go on a witchhunt against a college-aged man dating a highschool girl, and his only argument would be "it's just different!" | /r/MensRights | 01/09/19 08:17 PM |
| 3 | [Support] My brother's wife has been physically abusing him and dropped this gem. She's trying to use guilt to get him to come back to her and trying to guilt me as well. Any legal tips or advice? Could this be used as evidence?An abuser is someone who abuses, so yeah the cunt's an abuser. And she's the one ruining the marriage and the family, not the people holding her accountable for her disgusting behavior Unrepentant people like this belong in a cell, end of discussion. Your brother needs to never go back to that person, and I hope you collect as much evidence as possible. A restraining order may be needed if she's trying to get close to him again | /r/MensRights | 31/08/19 10:46 PM |
| 3 | I found this on Bad Men’s Anatomy. It’s terrifying, isn’t it?This stupidity wouldn't be worth acknowledging, if it weren't for the hundreds of notes. I can just as well say that female gamers play video games to distract them from the urge to abuse children That statement is no less valid than that Tumblr post, and has just as much supporting evidence. Ironic that it's tagged "#misogyny", while displaying misandry. The most misandric cunts are the ones who deny the existence of misandry the most | /r/MensRights | 30/08/19 05:34 AM |
| 12 | Blind recruitment trial to boost gender equality making things worse, study reveals - ABC News (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)That was the first thing I noticed, that they call equality and fairness "making things worse" if it doesn't advantage women. It's despicable, and yet there are so many who blindly assert "feminism is just about equality!" and "MRA's are just a bunch of misogynists!" So long they believe in Patriarchy Theory, they'll always be the enemies of men, and of fairness in general | /r/MensRights | 29/08/19 06:51 PM |
| 5 | I usually try to look at things if genders were reversed... HmmmmJust another of the thousands of examples of the "men sexually objectifying women is bad; women sexually objectifying men is empowering" double standard | /r/MensRights | 27/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 18 | I keep trying to convince “never hit a woman” is a sexist argument, but no one listens. They say I’m being sexist. Am I?Sexism is prejudice on the basis of sex. Saying "never hit a woman" presumes that the sex of the person being hit is relevant in terms of whether or not a person should never be hit. This is sexist, so they're the ones being sexist. "Never hit someone" or "never hit someone, except in self-defense" is a fair and unsexist statement If they see it as sexist to say "hitting a man is as condemnable as hitting a woman", then not only are they sexist themselves, but they're confusing "sexism" with "no… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/19 12:24 AM |
| 9 | "A Gentleman should know how to make a Sandwitch, but a gentleman shouldn't have to make a sandwitch" said no women ever!Right. I think his behavior itself was just nice, but the premise that it's a man's duty to do that is sexist. Ideally, people should be nice to each other regardless of sex. Not just men doing things for women, unilaterally | /r/MensRights | 25/08/19 05:24 PM |
| 37 | "A Gentleman should know how to make a Sandwitch, but a gentleman shouldn't have to make a sandwitch" said no women ever!Exactly. That's why I'm not a gentleman; I'm an egalitarian. I don't care for conventional gender roles in the first place, but especially when they're applied selectively. These days, the responsibility to behave a certain way (changing a woman's tire, carrying her heavy things, paying on dates, buying expensive jewelry and gifts, etc.) is only ever on the man While saying anything about how a woman should behave is seen as sexist. Men should be as free from restrictions placed on their sex as … | /r/MensRights | 25/08/19 05:19 PM |
| 13 | Lesbian couple involved in bitter domestic dispute results in first ever crime in outer spaceThis is ironic, since "single-sex crews are best for cohesion and women are more likely to be co-operative", supposedly... More of the "fairer", "kinder" sex being fair and kind /s | /r/MensRights | 24/08/19 09:34 PM |
| 4 | So single mothers are the victims of their own actions? It is ok to lash out on their children?noelleian is on point, there's no justification to abuse a child or anyone else. By rarestsparkle's logic, I could just as well say Maybe some fathers leave because they become burnt out from putting up with a toxic woman You can make up some bullshit excuse for any bad behavior. Not to mention, some of the most toxic mothers deliberately alienate the father from the child, so they can't whine about an absent father when that is the case Some people just like to blame men for everything, and giv… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/19 02:05 PM |
| 26 | “Men aren’t dying at high enough rates”The fact that this cunt equates "not getting laid" with "producing nothing" and being "inferior" demonstrates the underlying issue with this mentality: the idea that a man not getting women's approval makes him inferior or useless With the world's population being what it is, there's nothing wrong with a man who doesn't have sex with a woman; we could do with fewer people reproducing. There have been plenty of single men throughout history who have created and produced great things for society, … | /r/MensRights | 22/08/19 02:04 AM |
| 32 | “Men aren’t dying at high enough rates”Incels can also be women Exactly. Look at how many women complaint about men supposedly having unrealistic standards, not liking fat women, not liking old women, etc.. There are plenty of bitter usually old unattractive women single women who hate men for having preferences The difference is that when women complain about men having "unrealistic" standards or not liking certain kinds of women, people empathize. When men complain about women, people call them Incels and loath them | /r/MensRights | 22/08/19 01:56 AM |
| 24 | How is it ok for a mother to mutilate her son just because she prefers to have sex with mutilated men?it was my choice as his mother As his mother, it should not be her choice. Being his mother doesn't mean having any natural right whatsoever over his body a majority of women like myself dont like tube socks Firstly, no: it's not a majority of women. It's a minority of women, as a minority of men in the world are cut. The majority are intact, and have no issues with women because of it Secondly, it's the most disgusting thing to mutilate a young boys genital just because some women prefer it tha… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Talk about toxic mothersNot surprising, I have a friend who had his identity stolen by his mother when she was on drugs. He was living with his grandmother because his mother didn't even want to take care of him, and only came around when she needed money or his personal information Some mothers see their children literally as their property. That's how my own mother was, also; she didn't take out any credit cards, but she was physically and sexually abusive and would justify it with "I gave birth to you" or "I gave yo… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Talk about toxic mothersIdentify theft is pretty common as it is, let alone by a mother who knows the child's social security number and all the other personal information needed to open a credit card | /r/MensRights | 19/08/19 06:11 PM |
| 12 | Poor lad, user in r/gendercritical admits to brainwashing her son into accepting abuseParagraph 2 : my son will probably become another abusive awful man. Me : huh? that's your reaction? Because her only concern is male-on-female violence She's fine with a girl abusing her son, so long he doesn't touch her She's fine with a man abusing her son, so long he learns from it to hate what "males do to girls/women" She's fine with her daughter becoming abusive like the female classmate, because she isn't a "male" Remember this post the next time someone says feminism is just about equal… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/19 06:08 PM |
| 25 | Poor lad, user in r/gendercritical admits to brainwashing her son into accepting abuseIronically, being abused is more likely to make him into an abuser. If he does become one, I hope he goes after his mother and that classmate first | /r/MensRights | 19/08/19 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Poor lad, user in r/gendercritical admits to brainwashing her son into accepting abuseNot surprising, considering feminists hate males. All of them, including their sons. Of course she's more worried about any potential woman who he might hurt than she is about his own well-being Ironically, if boys raised by feminists mothers do grow up to hate women because of the abuse they've experienced from them their whole lives, feminists will pretend that he hates women in spite of her parenting instead of because of it | /r/MensRights | 19/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 10 | Women on the internet: All men are horrible. Men: Not all, maybe afew. Women: You disagreed with my opinion, you are mansplaining. You are the problem.More importantly, almost 160,000 likes. Remember this the next time someone says "feminists are just about equality", "feminists don't hate men", "feminism is for men, too", "why do MRA's attack feminism? They should side with feminism if the really care about men!" Even average, non-radical feminists perpetuate this "men are evil" mentality They always try to justify it with "we don't mean every single man! If you can't see this, you're the problem". But no: saying "men are bad" means either ev… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/19 05:01 PM |
| 14 | Has anyone noticed this about the conception of ‘toxic masculinity’?Right. Potentially harmful conventional gender norms are only "toxic masculinity" when they harm women (e.g. a man being being hyperaggressive and violent) When they only harm men and benefit women (e.g. men whiteknighting for women, even when the woman's the one in the wrong), they're at worst "benevolent sexism" . But even though it's called "benevolent sexism", people--including feminists women--have no real issue with it or even approve of it. Because why would they have an issue with sexism… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/19 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Wtf are you kidding me?!?!Right. Not to mention, ruin an innocent man's life | /r/MensRights | 16/08/19 09:14 PM |
| 22 | Someone posted something blatantly out of place in r/happycryingdads. People were downvoting people who were in the right.Apparently there's no such thing as men's spaces. Seriously, anything specifically for men always allows women at some point ("happy father's day, single moms", Scouts previously known as Boy Scouts). But "women's spaces must be preserved" | /r/MensRights | 13/08/19 06:36 PM |
| 5 | The double standard in the responses to man who accused Katy Perry of sexually reading himIt's not just that, the top comment is accusing him of wanting attention, and most of the rest there are either accusing him of lying or saying he should have stayed quiet and talked to her privately So much for "believe the victim" and "abusers need to be held accountable!" Apparently this doesn't apply when it's a woman abusing a man. And remember, this isn't the first time this woman got away with sexual harassment | /r/PussyPass | 12/08/19 02:53 PM |
| 20 | An Instagram comment about a guy who accused Katy Perry of sexually harrasing him. The double standards are unreal.It's not just that, the top comment is accusing him of wanting attention, and most of the rest there are either accusing him of lying or saying he should have stayed quiet and talked to her privately So much for "believe the victim" and "abusers need to be held accountable!" Apparently this doesn't apply when it's a woman abusing a man. And remember, this isn't the first time this woman got away with sexual harassment | /r/MensRights | 12/08/19 02:47 PM |
| 8 | Men don't be so hard on yourselfTrue, that message really needs to be seen. Though part of the problem is that there are a lot of self-entitled women who think they're God's gift to men and will berate a man or ditch him over petty things like that, sometimes even when she doesn't offer much in return It can be hard for some guys not to feel like they have to be perfect when they're constantly told that even mediocre women are "out if his league". And when the whole courtship process is basically him doing everything to win he… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 11:59 PM |
| 26 | Aborting babies just because of their gender is a male.So these people don't even try to raise their boys properly, yes they are raising nutters because they are terrible parents. Right. If they did have a son who they regretted, abused him at least emotionally, showed him hatred his whole life, and then he did become a misogynistic monster, they'd blame the patriarchy as if their own misandry wasn't the cause of his problems | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Can we talk about the fact the National Domestic Violence Hotline (ndvh) uses and cites the Duluth Model as the "most accurate" way to describe an abusive relationship?They do say that abuse can happen to people of any gender, regardless of the pronouns used in the chart. But then how would replacing any of the pronouns work with the "USING MALE PRIVILEGE" hypothesis? If they really wanted to be inclusive, but still address the main issues of what cause domestic violence, they could have used a modified wheel that's gender neutral, like here. Or also included other wheels alongside the original for female-on-male violence and violence in gay, lesbian, bi relat… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 02:51 PM |
| 85 | Aborting babies just because of their gender is a male.This is the real face of radical feminism. And as they say, that's one of the largest, most active feminist subreddits. Remember this post the next time someone tells you feminism or especially radical feminism a valid and reasonable political theory | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 02:26 PM |
| 10 | I have a questionYes, it's discrimination. Even if it were a small thing, men deserve private spaces just as much as women do | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 02:21 PM |
| 19 | David Pakman justifies infant circumcisions by comparing them to vaccinesSuch a bullshit comparison Vaccines are proven to prevent diseases. Male genital mutilation is not. Even cut men will catch or spread diseases without a condom Vaccines are noninvasive; a prick of a needle, nothing removed. MGM removes a large, functioning part of the genitals There is an infinitely effective, less invasive way to prevent STD and infection than MGM: condoms, soap, water, cranberry supplements. There's no better way to prevent measles, mumps, etc. than vaccines Vaccines are given… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 9 | How is this even consent and why do we still have to register for the draft?if you want the right to have a say in this country you should also be willing to fight for those rights. Which should also apply to women who want the right to stay in the US | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 06:16 PM |
| 7 | How is this even consent and why do we still have to register for the draft?The same applies to men. Not all men are body builders | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 06:13 PM |
| 14 | Women's March Protester gets 5 days in jail after she sexually assaults a manIronic that she sexually assaults someone supposedly in protest of sexual assault. How much more blatant can the double standard get | /r/PussyPass | 06/08/19 12:16 AM |
| 6 | Woman found guilty of sexual assault after groping male reporter at a metoo rallyExactly, this belongs in r/PussyPass, too | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 12:12 AM |
| 15 | Female harasser gets what she deserves.That's wonderful! It's so great when men report and something's actually done about it. There are too many cases where it's not reported at all, it it is but everyone ignores it When I reported my supervisor to HR, they responded like Chloe did, and I felt too disheartened to take it up any farther. Especially when my supervisor threatened to demote if I didn't give in, and I thought it was better to leave than keep putting up with it. It's really good to see cases where justice actually comes t… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 12:10 AM |
| 10 | Casual sexual battery.You don't even need to do all that, just put a huge dildo in your pants Better yet, something sharp with the pointy end upwards. Then she'll never do it again and you'll be sparing a bunch of other guys her BS | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 12:01 AM |
| 58 | Casual sexual battery.A lot of women like to sit on men's laps without permission regardless of the reason. So her "it's because they're manspreading" is not only not a valid justification, it's probably just a bullshit excuse for her to sexually harass people It's like is a man were to be like "I don't like when women walk in the middle of the sidewalk instead of moving to the side, so I grab sidewalkhoggers' boobs when they walk past". And people being like "this dude's my new hero!" | /r/MensRights | 05/08/19 11:56 PM |
| 36 | Casual sexual battery.Or you could get out of the seat, let her sit down, then sit on top of her. And when she (or anyone else) inevitably becomes outraged, point out the double standard of why they weren't outraged when she did it. If you're going to be accused of sexual assault regardless, might as well make her suffer as well | /r/MensRights | 05/08/19 11:45 PM |
| 21 | This little gem was just put in the restroom this week. This is very refreshing .It's really great to see one about helping male victims, and not just about "helping men who are afraid of becoming abusive". I hope this kind of thing becomes more common as people are more aware of the problem | /r/MensRights | 05/08/19 11:39 PM |
| 18 | This woman needs to be locked upRight, or when a man gets raped and someone asked "why didn't he push her off? Why did he get an erection? Etc." | /r/MensRights | 05/08/19 03:28 PM |
| 26 | I find it funny that most of our posts bring up actual issues affecting our genderIt's particularly funny, since one of the first accusations anti-MRA's make about us is that "MRA's don't actually talk about issues affecting men. They don't care about men, they just hate women!" Like, do they actually bother to see what we talk about? I think most of their "experience" with MRA's comes from what they hear in anti-MRA articles and sources | /r/MensRights | 05/08/19 03:07 PM |
| 9 | Feminists do everything they can do label men rapists and remove guilt of wrong doing from women.Very true. The male = perpetrator; female = victim narrative means that if a man and woman do the exact same thing, the woman gets people making excuses for her and the man gets condemned for supposedly perpetuating Patriarchy and misogyny Neither the actual act committed nor the excuses made really matter. Even if a man does something relatively small (like "manspread"; or wear a shirt with scantily clad women on it), feminists will find some silly thing to complain about. Even if a woman does … | /r/MensRights | 04/08/19 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Lena Dunham Can't Keep Her Weird Advances Off Brad Pitt, Leaving the Twittersphere Seething over #ConsentI'm glad people are calling out the double standard, but it's a shame that she was ever taken seriously at all. She's shown herself multiples times now to be a sexual predator. And yet not only is she not held accountable or punished, she treated like she has some kind of authority to represent sexual abuse survivors. It's like Asia Argento all over again | /r/MensRights | 03/08/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | When a man is a hardened criminal he goes to jail, when a wife knowingly lives of his crimes she gets a reality showNo surprise that it's by Vice | /r/MensRights | 03/08/19 04:58 PM |
| 8 | Lena Dunham Can't Keep Her Weird Advances Off Brad Pitt, Leaving the Twittersphere Seething over #ConsentBut she's a woman, so to some people that automatically makes her qualified to speak for abuse survivors There are those who literally believe #yesallwomen experience sexual violence and that being sexually harassed is a universal part of being a woman, that women don't sexually abuse people, etc.. And so her womanhood alone negates her molestation of her sister, let alone her sexual harassment of Brad Pitt | /r/MensRights | 03/08/19 04:54 PM |
| 7 | TIFU by saying I was tired to my husband.Interesting how most of the comments (on the actual "TIFU by saying I was tired to my wife.") are either defending her behavior, telling him to appease her as if he was the one in the wrong, or assuming she was justified for some other reason I have a feeling if the post had been written like this, people would be talking about what an emotionally abusive, ungrateful, lazy husband he is | /r/MensRights | 02/08/19 04:35 PM |
| 6 | [Mini Rant] As a gay man...Ultimately feminists don't care about men's rights. And the rights of gay men are the rights of men, stemming from the same misandry. E.g. the stereotype that gay men are perverts trying to molest little boys is the same stereotype that straight men are perverts who cause "rape culture against women and girls" It's also noteworthy that feminists perpetuate this negative stereotype about gay men when they say things like "straight men understand consent when they go to a gay bar". Which has the m… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/19 10:20 PM |
| 41 | He has a right for this not to happen!No surprise that a woman who molested her younger sister would have no problem sexually harassing other people. This is what happens when a pervert faces no consequences for her actions; she goes on continuing the same kind of behavior | /r/MensRights | 31/07/19 09:19 PM |
| 9 | "If you want to do research on sex differences, you have to interpret any findings in such a way as to show that women are superior". Study finds people are more offended by and dismissive of male-favoring sex differences than by female-favoring sex differencesIt supports the observation some people make that when males are found to be better at something, people assume it's because males are being unfairly advantaged and privileged over females, or that the findings are sexist and can be explained away. And that when females are found to be better at something, people assume it's just because females are superior in that area (or they're underdogs rising against the odds) and there's nothing unfair about it It also reestablishes that women's female-b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/19 04:13 PM |
| 4 | I- I have no words for this. Absolutely horrible. (Sorry it’s reposted from snap it just came up and looked interesting)Except in this case it was entirely preventable, because it was an entirely unnecessary procedure in the first place. This wouldn't have happened, if he wasn't taken in to get mutilated from the start | /r/MensRights | 30/07/19 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Feminists show how much they hate men... Acid attacks on men? Don't matter at all, only those on women. Only women matter, ever.Another one of the thousands of examples to point to the next time someone claims "feminism is literally about equality! Why aren't MRA's just siding with feminists??" Why is Not only men but every person who attacks another person like this is a wild animal downvoted? True equality would be saying that everyone who does that is equally horrible. They object to this because their narrative is not equality. It's "men are horrible abusers, women are innocent victims, and acknowledging female abuse… | /r/MensRights | 30/07/19 05:23 AM |
| 5 | Join r/agaisntmensrights although it sounds bad they challenge our ideas and thats good.because we can debate them Bullshit, they block anyone who disagrees. I've already been blocked from there for commenting on post where they were angry that a woman who raped a man at knifepoint was being called out. All their responses were "what about when women get raped?", meanwhile condemning people for supposedly saying "what about the men?" Hypocrites with no self-awareness it might challenge something we've seen on here with a different side of the story. Except they don't actually make … | /r/MensRights | 29/07/19 10:15 PM |
| 10 | Woman cuts off her ex-husband's penis and testicles and flushes them down the toilet before telling him 'If I can't have it, no one else can'How is he the cuck? Do you know what that word actually means? The cuck ("cuckold") is the one who gets cheated on, so if anything the woman's the cuck, technically More importantly, I'm confused as to why you're insulting him at all. Whatever he did, it's no excuse for someone to mutilate his genitals | /r/MensRights | 29/07/19 12:21 PM |
| 11 | Have you ever been uncomfortably objectified by a woman and forced to "laugh it off" because you're male?My ass/crotch was getting grabbed every 2 or 3 times I went. I am from a massively conservative family, and don't like to be touched. Not that I should have to justify why I shouldn't be groped. IKR? It's crazy how if a man complains about some kind of sexual harassment, some people's first question is "what's the problem?", "Was she super ugly?", "Did you have a girlfriend at the time?", "Are you gay?", etc. as if every straight, single man must like being randomly touched by women | /r/MensRights | 28/07/19 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Have you ever been uncomfortably objectified by a woman and forced to "laugh it off" because you're male?It seems that those kinds of things are unfortunately pretty common in many men's experiences. I couldn't tell you exactly how many times there have been gross sexual comments, but fortunately only twice since I became an adult did things get physical Once was with a supervisor, who initially just made remarks but eventually it escalated to groping and threats when I tried to ignore her. Another time was this random drunk woman at a club. I reported the supervisor to HR, but it amounted to nothi… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/19 04:56 AM |
| 6 | Ok, real talk. What if Men Activist showed their private parts to little girls to inflict their views like these Feminist did?Although that requires intent to sexually gratify. Does it? Haven't there been men put on the sex offender registry for pissing in public? | /r/MensRights | 28/07/19 04:22 AM |
| 5 | People wildly upvoting the idea a woman should be allowed to bite a man’s nose off if he tries to kiss her, and defending it strongly in the comments. You couldn’t make this upIMO the double standard is the issue here. No one would be okay with a man biting a woman's nose off, or physically harming her in any way, if she kissed him without his consent | /r/MensRights | 26/07/19 09:30 PM |
| 2 | People wildly upvoting the idea a woman should be allowed to bite a man’s nose off if he tries to kiss her, and defending it strongly in the comments. You couldn’t make this upRight, that's what pisses me off about it. A woman biting a man's nose off for trying to kiss him is seen as fine by a lot of the people over there. Yet a man doing as much as slapping a woman who's sexually assaulting him in any way would be seen as unacceptable | /r/MensRights | 26/07/19 09:30 PM |
| 13 | People wildly upvoting the idea a woman should be allowed to bite a man’s nose off if he tries to kiss her, and defending it strongly in the comments. You couldn’t make this upWhat annoys me about this is the double standard. That a woman biting a man's nose off for trying to kiss her is seen as fine, but if a man does so much as slap a woman for trying to kiss him--let alone punch her or permanently mutilate her--no one would be defending him They'd say he should have just walked away or probably even "what kind of fag would get mad about a woman kissing him??" It's not just in this case. Usually when a woman physically harms a man in any way for whatever reason, eve… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/19 09:29 PM |
| 4 | UK: Married mother-of-two teaching assistant, 43, dubbed 'Mrs Robinson' faces jail for sexually grooming boy pupil, 15, after she bought new underwear and hired hotel room to spend night with himWhy do they like to call perverts like this "Mrs. Robinson"? Mrs. Robinson's character was with a young adult man, not an underaged child or adolescent like this. This woman's a sexual predator, not just a Mrs. Robinson "cougar". Also her husband is a POS for supporting her | /r/MensRights | 25/07/19 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Woman who sexually abused 14-year-old boy who she met through the internet is spared jail, fined $4,500Apparently online predators are only a serious concern when they're men | /r/PussyPass | 25/07/19 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Ricky Gervais Called ‘Transphobe’ For Defending Women Refusing To Wax Trans Woman's PenisAn interesting case, but how is it related to men's rights? If anything, it's being treated more like a women's issue Gervais defended the spa workers saying that it’s “real feminism” for women to choose who to wax or not Should a woman be forced by law to touch a penis she doesn’t want to touch? Forcing a woman to touch that when she has said “no “ is sexual abuse In fact, this case was just posted on Gender Critical | /r/MensRights | 23/07/19 01:16 AM |
| 13 | I wonder what would happen if the roles were reversed.This is one of the most annoying double standards. People like to defend things like this on the basis of "well he was cheating!", but cheating isn't an excuse for physical violence. Everyone recognizes this if a man beats up his wife for cheating on him; no one's going to be saying "10/10 headbutt", "Clean ass headbutt", "The headbutt was definitely a power move," etc. if a man did this like some people are there On the plus side, there are a decent amount of people calling out the double stand… | /r/MensRights | 22/07/19 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Janelle Monáe Wants to Ban Sex (Until All Men Support Women’s Rights)Firstly, this assumes banning sex only hurts men. Does she not realize most women like sex themselves, a lot like it more than a lot of men, there are men who don't care much (and some not at all) about sex with women? Why is she treating men and women as a monolith where it comes to sexuality? Secondly, how is she planning on enforcing this? I could just as well say "I'm banning men buying women things until every woman fights for men's rights". So there, now women have to change Thirdly, what … | /r/MensRights | 20/07/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | New Netflix series coming out to push #BelieveWomen with a story about a "false rape accuser" who was actually telling the truth. Because of course! False rape accusations almost NEVER happen, right? /sIt is something, and it's great I do wish more people would acknowledge that false accusations are often a gender issue rather than a racial one. Black men and White men get their lives ruined, but usually when it's talked about the stories about falsely accused White men get ignored so that people can pretend "it's because he's Black" rather than recognize that it's mostly because he's a man Hence why many men of all ethnicities have to deal with false rape accusations, women of any ethnicity r… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/19 01:55 AM |
| 20 | "If you dont like the idea of a gun being pulled on your daughter dont pull one on my son." Explicit language.It's a big double standard. People defend people threatening boys saying "he's just a a trying to protect his daughter!" But if that's okay dads and moms should be allowed to protect their sons in the exact say way. It's not as if boys don't also need protection from abusive women, or girls just trying to use them | /r/MensRights | 20/07/19 01:38 AM |
| 28 | Women can be just as badI'm really sorry that happened. It sucks that some pieces of shit ruined you guys' night. It's also unfortunate that they didn't get any consequences for what they did. Since she was physically sexually assaulting you, you would have been well within your rights to punch her or her friend in the face to get them to leave you alone an make sure they never did it again But unfortunately even if you had done that you would have been arrested and / or the white knights in the club would gang up on… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/19 01:23 AM |
| 2 | for this sub to be successful. i think there needs to be some form of open communication. even with viewpoints you may not like.Yes, it literally is true | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/07/19 01:22 AM |
| 59 | New Netflix series coming out to push #BelieveWomen with a story about a "false rape accuser" who was actually telling the truth. Because of course! False rape accusations almost NEVER happen, right? /sIt's a very one-sided narrative. On one hand, this is based on a true story, and there's nothing wrong with them making a film about it On the other, there are also at least thousands of true stories about men having their lives ruined by women's false accusations, tens of thousands of true stories about men and boys having their lives ruined by female rapists who then get treated lenient in the CJS, tens of thousands of true stories of men being abused by their wives / girlfriends but getting n… | /r/MensRights | 19/07/19 02:24 PM |
| 6 | Pretended to be a Woman on an alt account in a female supremacy subreddit and asked someone for their theory of why we need “female supremacy”. It’s quite shocking how people can be this delusional, sexist, and have that much hatred.Exactly. Though you're going beyond to all of duty to use logic to refute their claims. They're ideologues who hate men and believe women are better in every way, what the actual facts or evidence is doesn't mean anything to such delusional people language is a natural function of human biology and it may well be that women and girls have a bit more fluency on average - on the other hand language is not thought, nor is it reasoning. Additionally the same information that shows females are genera… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Boy speaks out about being sexually harassed by older women at work and points out the double standard. Many comments prove the point by perpetuating the double standardI'm banned from there, too. And I'm sure I never posted there because I hadn't even heard of it till that post. They must auto-ban subscribers to certain subreddits You're right, unfortunately a lot of people do treat acknowledging male victims like it's a bad thing. I guess partly because it challenges the concept of male privilege that a lot of ideologues are committed to | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/19 05:59 PM |
| 21 | Sexual assault case against Kevin Spacey dropped by prosecutorsEven if he did, his reputation is in shambles. I'm already seeing memes and jokes in popular culture about him supposedly being a "child rapist" People are always going to associate him with that. False accusations can ruin a man's life | /r/MensRights | 17/07/19 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Female teacher has sex with 13 year old male student. Her attorney paints her as the victim, putting all the blame on the 13 year old. “He was very aggressive and obsessed.” That’s something that pedophiles will claim all the time. Could you imagine the outrage if the genders were reversed?Right. And that's even if that claim were correct. Considering she took the initiative to send inappropriate pictures of herself to him and she was probably grooming other kids, it's more likely the boy wasn't pursuing or obsessed with her at all. She's just making things up to play the victim | /r/MensRights | 17/07/19 10:18 PM |
| 22 | Men get sexually harassed too and no one seems to careTo support his point, a lot of the comments are downplaying it. Saying things like they're just old women, women have it worse, it's really rare for women to rape men | /r/MensRights | 17/07/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | not a pedo?The point is that your saying 13-17 year old sexually developed girl or boy is not accurate. Most 13-year-olds are not sexually developed, so saying this is not pedophilia is inaccurate, and grouping 13-year-olds with 17-year-olds as if they generally have about the same amount of development is nonsense | /r/MensRights | 16/07/19 11:22 PM |
| 2 | person claims that mens rights aren’t being threatened even though men live an harder lifeTwo signs that you're dealing with a complete fool it claims males aren't disadvantage on the basis of sex, so there's no need for men's rights activism it uses terms like "meninism". If it doesn't even know that there's already discourse by MRA's, egalitarians, etc. about males' issues, it's probably entirely ignorant about what those issues are | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 09:20 PM |
| 10 | Does she even know what toxic masculinity is?So masculinity is "toxic" when men aren't using their masculinity to serve, protect, and support women. Typical self-entitled mentality | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 09:11 PM |
| 11 | Does she even know what toxic masculinity is?No it doesn't. She's a woman who wants men to protect and provide for her. That's like 99% of women | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 09:08 PM |
| 16 | Changed my mind about circumcision!Your parents should have had your balls cut off, too. That way it's one less thing to get cancer when you're older, one less thing to clean under, and you won't have remembered it happening. And who wants those ugly wrinkly things? You'd look so much better without it That's how dumb you sound | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | not a pedo?its not like the kid was 5 Do you think children begin puberty at 6 years old? Boys usually begin puberty between 12 - 16, so he still very well could have been prepubescent | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 09:02 PM |
| 4 | not a pedo?There is quite a big difference between somebody trying to have sex with a 13-17 year old sexually developed girl or boy and a 4 year old. There's also a difference between a 13-year-old and a 17-year-old. Most of 13-year-olds are prepubescent or just beginning puberty | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Benevolent sexism: A sneaky and dishonest rhetorical device.if you have a slave and this slave does something and you’re blamed for it, who’s the victim? Another inaccurate analogy. Women aren't to men what slaves are to masters. If a slave acted up, the slave was lynched, not the master. If women were like slaves, then the woman would be harshly punished for committing crimes You didn't see Black slaves getting away easily for the crimes, and White masters being punished more. Black people were punished more harshly, which is seen as a sign of oppressio… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/19 08:44 PM |
| 15 | Benevolent sexism: A sneaky and dishonest rhetorical device.I had a similar conversation with someone. This person claimed the typical "men are violent, women are oppressed, misandry doesn't exist", etc.. I responded that misandry does exist that and women are responsible for a signifiant amount of violence. Another person later messaged me acknowledging that women do sometimes abuse children, but that this is due to how women are "trapped in their roles as mothers" and so this is ultimately sexism against women People always only talk about how women … | /r/MensRights | 14/07/19 07:48 PM |
| 8 | Benevolent sexism: A sneaky and dishonest rhetorical device.My point was that women, by being infantilised and demoralised and having no responsibilities, not even of themselves, were the victims, and men being completely responsible for them - not asked to be by any woman - weren’t victims. Which is wrong. When men were punished for crimes that women committed, then indeed men were the victims Just as the bully who hurt their wrist punching the kid on the floor isn’t a victim This is a ludicrously inaccurate analogy. A more appropriate analogy would be … | /r/MensRights | 14/07/19 07:33 PM |
| 84 | This is why men have a hard time sharing feelings. Woman destroys her partner after finding out he was raped when he was a childNobody could be that awful. There are people who rape children, who murder their spouses for money, who murder their children out of spite to keep them from their children's father, and do all other kinds of awful things. Of course there are people awful enough to not have sympathy for men who are raped | /r/MensRights | 14/07/19 07:09 PM |
| 2 | The Double Standards of sentences for identical crimesThere's no such thing as a mother having "consensual" sex with her underage son. Children can't consent to sex, let alone to a parent, who raise him, an who he lives with and is entirely dependent on. This is a dumb conversation, because something so self-evident shouldn't have to be explained | /r/MensRights | 14/07/19 07:01 PM |
| 11 | Woman sentenced 20 years for rape - "I am a good person who made a mistake and regret it deeply""This was not between a young child and Brittany — this was a teenager," A 13-year-old is a teenager and also a young child. The two are not mutually exclusive. "Teenager" is not monolithic, there's a big difference between 13 and 19, even though they're both technically "teenagers" It is shocking to me how others are so quick to judge after hearing accusations and only one side of the story. This would be a good point if she were falsely accused. But it's known for a fact that she did it, so de… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/19 09:29 PM |
| 7 | for this sub to be successful. i think there needs to be some form of open communication. even with viewpoints you may not like.The main right wing viewpoint I tend to disagree with is the overemphasis on gender roles. A lot of males' issues (fathers' rights, male-only selective service, marginalization of female-on-male domestic and sexual violence) are the byproduct of traditional gender stereotypes as much as they are of feminist theory - Feminists say men are trash and can't be trusted around children; tradcons say mothers are better caregivers - Feminists say men are responsible for war so men should be the ones fig… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/19 09:18 PM |
| 109 | Sexism? Here's a Fine for you.It's like Rosa Parks being arrested for standing up against racism. If there were any doubt that women are the privileged class | /r/MensRights | 12/07/19 08:30 PM |
| 23 | BBC survey in Iraq gives the "wrong" result: More men than women are sexually assaulted. So time to make excuses and twist the results.These are surprising results, bearing in mind the dire state of women's rights in the country - article 41 of the Iraqi penal code even states that it is not illegal for a husband to beat his wife. It is also not illegal for wives to beat their husbands. Why are they trying to make a human issue into a women's issue? This is a tactic I see fairly often to try to give the impression of a prejudice against women that may not exist: someone will only focus on how something hurts women, but ignore t… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/19 05:22 PM |
| 33 | Woman designs chair to stop "manspreading", wins design award and praise in the media. Imagine a man designing a chair to stop men sitting comfortably, and winning an award....Perhaps in an alternate universe where feminists actually care about equality | /r/MensRights | 10/07/19 02:47 PM |
| 11 | Disgusting poem says all men rape... written by a manExactly. Men and women rape people. The biggest difference is that only one of them is taken seriously It's really ignorant how even though in so many places rape is legally defined as something only men can do, people still look at conviction rates as an accurate measure of the prevalence of rate. Based on self-report studies, the number of female rapists goes up significantly | /r/MensRights | 09/07/19 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Disgusting poem says all men rape... written by a manI do kind of feel sorry for him. He was probably brought up and brainwashed into hating himself and other men by a misandric, radfem mother | /r/MensRights | 09/07/19 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Disgusting poem says all men rape... written by a manJust a pervert projecting his own perversions onto other men. A common tactic assholes use to make themselves feel like less assholes is to assume that everyone else is as bad as them By "we" he means "I", and all he's doing is admitting that he's a small-dicked rapist | /r/MensRights | 09/07/19 03:54 PM |
| 18 | Found this on r/FeminismRight, that's the difference. If a man is convicted of rape, at least he'll get punished. Women who are known to have lied about rape don't tend to get any punishment Though I suppose the same applies to women who are convicted of rape. I suppose in general, women just aren't held as accountable, whatever their crime | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 04:58 PM |
| 11 | Found this on r/FeminismI know it's trying say "people tell women these things to avoid being raped, so why is it wrong to tell men these things??" Ironically, when men are indeed more cautious about their interactions with women, in order to avoid false accusations, feminists attack them for that, as well, e.g. Mike Pence So no matter what men do, they're going to be attacked by feminists | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 04:54 PM |
| 23 | Men's rights don't need to be discussed...Males do have their sex discriminated against, quite a lot. This is a common issue I see with feminists: they seem to believe that because they're ignorant about men's issues, those issues must not exist | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 12 | How do you oppose the idea that male privilege exists?Yeah, but OVERALL men have it easier. This is a baseless assertion. And since it's the other peson making this claim, the onus is on the other person to support the claim. There is no evidence that men overall have it easier, because even if there were some areas where men have it easier, there are other areas when women have it easier and men have it harder In order for the person to prove that men have it easier OVERALL, it would have to compare every example of men having it worse and every e… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/19 09:47 PM |
| 23 | Single women get sympathy; Single men are seen as losersThey're either pitied, or praised for being "independent" and "not needing a man". It's a similar thing with sexuality: women using sex toys see praised for making men "obsolete". Men using sexed toys are perceived as losers who can't get a woman And men who simply aren't interested in getting with women, like MGTOW's, are automatically assumed to be misogynists | /r/MensRights | 06/07/19 08:19 PM |
| 10 | Study shows that people who identify as feminists are more likely to sacrifice men.“To sum that up: I don’t think the finding says anything specifically about how these women view men, but rather this is a means to an end: the effect is produced by their desire to counteract the implications of stereotypes,” she explained. This is such bullshit. For one, male disposability is the status quo, it isn't challenging stereotypes. It's perpetuating the same stereotype that both feminism and traditionalism has always had, that women deserve more protection and that the rights / lives… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/19 05:35 PM |
| 20 | Wife hacks off her husband's penis after he refused to have sex with her as punishment for her heavy drinkingI guess at least there's less mockery in that comment threat than I've come to expect from cases like this Nothing less than a life sentence is justice for these women, because she permanently ruined his life I'm always just hearing about how horrible men supposedly become if they're rejected by women; how women are afraid of being raped, murdered, or assaulted by men; how dangerous incel sexual terrorism is; etc.. But people need to recognize that sexually entitled women are just as capable of … | /r/MensRights | 05/07/19 05:11 PM |
| 25 | WholesomeIt's still a man raising kids who aren't his own. And that's an issue, how? Do you even know what "cuck" means? It's a man who lets his wife / GF have sex with other people while they're together. It has nothing to do with raising another person's kids Do you think all people who adopt children are "cucks"? That's really stupid. There are a lot of children who don't have good parents, people who want children but don't want a partner, people who want children but are infertile, etc.. There's no … | /r/MensRights | 03/07/19 03:06 AM |
| 24 | You’re Not HelpingMary Koss would disagree with that last person. I hear feminists claim all the time "it's not feminists who think women can't rape men, it's the Patriarchy!". But realistically, feminists will be the first people to say talking about female rapists is derailing, that men commit 99% (or some other ridiculously high proportion) of the world's violence, and otherwise downplay female abusers The fact that they consider sexual abuse "gender-based violence" (IOW, a subtype of violence against women)… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/19 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Would women be pissed if a tranny was elected the first “woman” President of the US?polite discourse is far better than shutting down ideas based on the using the wrong terms. Assume benevolence and engage with the idea. You're assuming anti-MRA's want to engage with the idea or have discourse, rather than look for any opportunity to attack | /r/MensRights | 29/06/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Would women be pissed if a tranny was elected the first “woman” President of the US?It really is an isolated incident when the only thing you can call out on this sub is some downvoted post This post is not why "no one likes men’s rights activists". MRA's are controversial, because discussing males' issues, period, is controversial. That's why you just sit around here waiting for some tiny thing to latch onto to | /r/MensRights | 29/06/19 07:03 AM |
| 6 | Maybe he shouldn't have pulled the race card, but these comments are atrociousYeah, Black, White, Latino, Asian, straight, gay, or whatever else, men in general are stereotyped as predators waiting for an opportunity. Though certainly big men even more so I could understand more if he had been walking behind her for a while, but she walked up to him, he clearly hadn't been paying attention to her. And she apparently just assumed "he's going to see me and decide 'well hey, there's a good target for tonight'"? | /r/MensRights | 28/06/19 09:27 PM |
| 10 | How does this sub generally feel about the documentary The Red Pill?Overall, I think it's great. Yes, it's pretty basic for someone like me and others who have been in the movement for several years. But that makes it perfect for moderates who don't know much about the movement and are just learning. I've recommended it to a lot of non-MRA's for that reason A lot of people know nothing about men's rights; scoff at the idea of it; buy into the typical "men are privileged, women are oppressed"; think that MRA's are misogynists afraid of losing privilege; etc.. Thi… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/19 09:14 AM |
| 31 | Comments on the 'girl rates' video: neutral. Comments on the 'guy rates' video: toxic. So sad, its the same content..I soon as I saw those videos in YouTube recommendations, I knew it was going to be like that. If anything, I'm surprised the comments against the man weren't more negative. But there was definitely a lot of "his personality sucks!", and even some people calling out the obvious double standard | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 09:16 PM |
| 12 | I Was Sexually Harassed By A Woman While My Dad Thought I was ExaggeratingYou, your mother, and corporate did the right thing. It's really great when cases like this are handled properly in the end, especially with the trouble you had to go through to get someone to pay attention and do something Your dad and anyone else saying you're "wimpy" or overreacting are totally in the wrong. If anything, it's more "pussy" to put up with abuse just because it's what's expected of you, and it's more manly to stand up for yourself even when people are shaming you for it | /r/MensRights | 25/06/19 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Holy crap, how can people be this insensitive?they're just going along with it because everyone else is True, because I notice that if ever there is a man who says something against this, in a thread where the rest are making these stupid kinds of comments, the rest will just gang on him. Saying he's jealous or a fag or a pussy or "easily offended" (like speaking against child rape is being a snowflake or something) It's like going into any other online pedophile community or forum, and saying something against it. There's hardly any point,… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/19 09:43 PM |
| 17 | Holy crap, how can people be this insensitive?Firstly, yes. As someone who actually was sexually abused by women when I was younger, I can say with certainty that it's not something that I wanted. And before you ask the inevitable retarded question, no they weren't all super ugly or fat women. That made zero difference There's a huge difference between having rape fantasies and actually being raped Secondly, "wanting it" is irrelevant. Children "want" a lot of things that aren't good for them. A lot of 13-year-old would probably think it'… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/19 09:35 PM |
| 14 | Suicidal MtF trans whom his liberal mother diagnosed him with gender dysphoria when he was a child. He is now suicidal as an adult female and realises his mother, parents and Professionals are the cause of this. He wants a normal life as a male, but that was stolen from him. This is a fathers issue.Likely by that time, he wouldn't have wanted to. The majority of dysphoric children don't become dysphoric adults. But "gender affirmation" and social transitioning can become a self-fulfilling prophecy to impressionable children If a child is told all the time from a young age that he was born in the wrong body, that he'll only be happy as a girl, etc. a lot of times he'll start to internalize this message. That's why it doesn't seem that even social transitioning or hormones should be the firs… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/19 06:12 PM |
| 9 | Suicidal MtF trans whom his liberal mother diagnosed him with gender dysphoria when he was a child. He is now suicidal as an adult female and realises his mother, parents and Professionals are the cause of this. He wants a normal life as a male, but that was stolen from him. This is a fathers issue.I have some past experience with dysphoria (along with a lot of other psychological issues due to previous abuse), but it is something that can be ameliorated. It's sad for me to see other children with parents who feed it instead of working to treat it Walt Heyer, a detransitioned transwoman, described it as people "manufacturing transgender children". He felt gender dysphoria partly due to childhood abuse, partly due to his grandmother praising and affirming him when he presented as a girl, an… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | FtM Transgender: How Testosterone made "him" less depressed, stoic, stable minded, less emotional, hasn't cried, better leader, easier to anger, less empathetic etc. This will come a surprise only to morons. Men's emotions are fine as they are. Stop trying to make them into pseudo-women.I felt dysphoria for a while when I was younger. There were a lot of different reasons for it, you probably don't want to know the whole situation. But I'm always interested in hearing the experiences of others with dysphoria. Having said that, what do you mean by i’m at least someone who doesn’t represent the male identity well and I don’t want to bring shame to that which I love. As in, what is "the male identity", and how would one represent it shamefully? One of the many reasons I was dyspho… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/19 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Fitness tests for female fire fighters could be reviewed because of lack of women, say HM inspectorsIt's ironic when things like this are done in the name of "equality". If they really cared about equality (and, more importantly fairness), then the test standards should be equal for everyone Equal numbers of fire fighters obtained through biased and unequal means is not true equality or fairness. It's artificial | /r/MensRights | 22/06/19 05:54 AM |
| 11 | Mainstream Media Depicts Teachers Raping Boys as a Joke on SNL (Saturday Night Live)The worst part is that it's not just fiction. When women sexually abuse boys in real life, the responses are pretty much the same | /r/MensRights | 22/06/19 05:52 AM |
| 39 | found from r/againstmensrights this is a very fucked up subreddit full of people attacking men and they need to be stopped. they were all hating on thisSo they're presenting facts that disagree with them, and trying to use it to argue that they're right and MRA's are wrong Irrational people always become angry when they're disproven. That whole subreddit it a bunch of misandric fools | /r/MensRights | 19/06/19 10:03 PM |
| 5 | “Sexual harassment is okay if you’re a fragile woman but not if you’re a strong man” -Telegraph (from Telegraphs Snapchat Discover Page today) The double standard has not only been acknowledged by them, BUT EMBRACED.Sexual harassment is always wrong, and anyone who does it is a "sex pest", regardless of sex. But even if someone wants to use power imbalance as an extenuating circumstance, that still doesn't make female-on-male sexual harassment any less problematic. Because in some ways, the power imbalance is against men when it comes to sexual harassment and physical violence Considering that an average woman can physically harm a man by kicking him in the nuts, or by wielding an object when he's unarmed… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/19 09:51 PM |
| 2 | “Sexual harassment is okay if you’re a fragile woman but not if you’re a strong man” -Telegraph (from Telegraphs Snapchat Discover Page today) The double standard has not only been acknowledged by them, BUT EMBRACED.It's behind a paywall for me | /r/MensRights | 19/06/19 09:36 PM |
| 30 | Why menslib is wrong, and why feminism is insufficient to address men's issues. (AKA, why we need the mens rights movement)Feminists claim that addressing patriarchy and gender roles will address said issues I've noticed that often when feminists say this, it's more a silencing tactic than anything. A person will present evidence beyond a reasonable doubt of males' issues, and the feminist will change tactics from ignoring and dismissing males' issues to saying "but feminist help with those issues, too!" In spite of the fact that feminists are often part of the cause of those issues E.g. I had a discussion with a … | /r/MensRights | 19/06/19 06:56 PM |
| 8 | Found on Pinterest.I'm so sick of hearing men talk over women! That's such a typical feminist tactic, to act like a rude but completely gender neutral behavior is male-specific. Same with "mainsplaining" (as if women are just as condescending about matters they thing they know more about), "manspreading" (as if women don't put their feet or bags on multiple seats), "manterrupting", etc. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/19 06:32 PM |
| 25 | It's ok to be maleThe title should have been "it's okay to be traditionally masculine"; she's talking about a certain type of man, not all men And of course she likes this type of man. Many women do, because they want someone to die in wars, take the dangerous jobs, confront the robber, pay on dates, etc. and she doesn't want it to be her | /r/MensRights | 17/06/19 06:20 PM |
| 13 | How is this remotely okay?It's seen as "okay" because fathers are devalued just like every other group of men are devalued and treated as disposable in society | /r/MensRights | 16/06/19 03:36 PM |
| 10 | How is this remotely okay?It's a " joke" playing off the serious misandry and devaluing of fathers in society. The latter part is very real and not a joke | /r/MensRights | 16/06/19 03:35 PM |
| 29 | How is this remotely okay?And a lot of them probably have unresolved daddy issues, and blame him for their irrational hatred of men | /r/MensRights | 16/06/19 03:31 PM |
| 36 | Mother’s Day is trending on TwitterPeople like to say "everyday is international men's day" on November 19, but it's more like the opposite. Every day is women's day in this gynocentric society. Even when it's mens day or father's day, people want to make it about women's hardships and single mothers | /r/MensRights | 16/06/19 03:24 PM |
| 2 | It’s easier to blame men than to see men as victimsAlso Why is it that the social discrepancies whereby men are disproportionately afflicted receive significantly less attention?..."well these are issues under men’s control". Perhaps that is true, to some degree The same can also be said of the contexts where women are disadvantaged there are many contexts where women are disadvantaged, such as the pattern of fewer female world leaders, CEOs, and full professors. This is to some degree because women have been less likely to go for higher degrees… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Yes, all men are perverts.Okay, cool. I made the post, and added a couple of things | /r/MensRights | 14/06/19 11:59 AM |
| 86 | Yes, all men are perverts.Honestly, I can; in public and esp. large crowds random females are the last thing on my mind. Like any other generalization, of course it's not universal But more to the point, it's not a gender-specific thing, either. Women do it, as well, and people adamantly defend their "right" to do so while attacking men for supposedly doing the same thing | /r/MensRights | 13/06/19 11:46 AM |
| 6 | German left-wing feminist Mithu Sanyal "explains why we need to include men in statistics around rape and sexual assault" - given her politics, am curious what people on this sub think about this videoI agree with the basic premise: that male victims need to be included, that people need to feel empathy for male victims, that male vulnerability needs to be acknowledged My only issue is that her premise seems a little gynocentric--basically how we can't expect men to feel sympathy for other people (IOW, women) if there's no sympathy for them. That male victims may get angry and lash out if they're not given proper support, which is bad for the people they lash out against Not that these aren… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/19 09:47 PM |
| 19 | Teenage boys are flooded with unrealistic beauty standards as wellRight. And probably the most significant standard (that's perpetuated by women IRL, and not just the media) is being really tall. Which is completely unattainable for the majority of men, with 14% in the US being 6 feet or taller | /r/MensRights | 11/06/19 02:27 PM |
| 7 | One in 30 young men were married as children. “It’s a rights violation. It creates a burden for boys to take on adult responsibilities and roles when they are still children themselves – like providing for a family,” says one of the authors of the UN reportNaturally, many the comments including the top are derailing the article and trying to refocus the attention on child brides. So typical; as rare as it already is for male victims to get attention, when it happens people's automatic response is "but what girls are going through is more important" | /r/MensRights | 09/06/19 07:53 PM |
| 9 | Feminists can't memeI've also noticed that every now and then, an anti-MRA lurks on this subreddit just to downvote every new post. I guess it's come back | /r/MensRights | 07/06/19 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Domestic abuse cuts both ways, and differently, for women and menWorking in the field of what is now called “intimate partner violence,” Lysova’s initial hope was to encourage better support for female victims of domestic violence in Russia, which is far behind most Western countries in offering services and shelters. But Lysova soon discovered many Russian men were also on the receiving end of a wide range of violence and abuse This reminds me of Erin Pizzey, who also began just by working with female victims, but in in her work with domestic violence learne… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/19 09:30 PM |
| 12 | The sad state of things these days abhors me to the bone.Here you can see all the comments, with the confessor as well as another person defending it. Also a couple of people on the crosspost fetishizing it. Not surprising, since female-on-male rape is often treated as either a joke or some erotic sexual fantasy The good thing is that at least in this case, the defenders are in the minority. The bad thing is that this man will likely never get any justice even if he were to try to report it; though it's probable he's been brainwashed into accepting th… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/19 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Why Men Struggle to Believe That They’ve Been Sexually Assaulted by a Woman - MEL MagazineIt’s ‘I got laid and I told my friends I didn’t want to, and they were like, ‘‘At least you got laid.’’ This is what happened when I made the bad decision of telling my school friends about my experiences. It wasn't even just baselessly assuming that I must have enjoyed it, but even when I told them that I didn't they were like "what kind of guy would complain about losing his virginity to a hot older woman?" (not that I even told them that she was hot, nor that it's relevant whether or not she … | /r/MensRights | 05/06/19 10:40 PM |
| 4 | UK: Police officer claims disabled man whose wife beat him up is not a 'long-term victim' of domestic abuse because he didn't cry when she spoke to him - leaving viewers outragedA lot of men are taught from birth that it's shameful to cry; if a man does cry in public, he's more likely to be perceived scornfully than sympathetically; and yet this officer wants to act like the only reason he wasn't crying must have been because he wasn't distressed by long-term abuse. Fuck her, of course this woman doesn't understand the male experience and expects them to respond the same way that she would. She doesn't get that even men who want to cry often have to force themselves not… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/19 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Often times it is forgotten that Men can be sexually assaulted too. I want to raise awareness for the Men in the world (and also help men/women) to understand that they can overcome the battle. I wrote my story in hopes to help others.It's really terrible what happened, but I'm glad for you that you were able to overcome it. I was also sexually abused when I was a child, and like with you the people who did know about it didn't do anything. My mother and many of her friends were the abusers, by father lived elsewhere during those times, so I didn't have any family to turn to. I eventually did bring myself to tell a couple of adults, but nothing came of it. They either didn't believe me or didn't care (one saying that mothers … | /r/MensRights | 04/06/19 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Reverse the roles.Just another of the million excuses women make up to abuse their boyfriends. It also disproves a couple of myths about violence against men: The myth that there's a "reason" women abuse men. People like to assume if a woman abuses a man "he must have cheated" or otherwise did something "to deserve it". This just shows there can be *no reason at all* for a woman to abuse a man except for her own amusement, and it's still seen as okay That "toxic ideals of masculinity" are only perpetuated by men … | /r/MensRights | 04/06/19 07:24 PM |
| 140 | Woman jailed 6.5 years for raping a young boy. Even though throughout his childhood, he repeatedly tried to tell the authorities what happened, but the investigation was not taken any furtherAdditionally, Parry's victim read an impact statement to Mold Crown Court, describing the effect on his childhood and education. He had years of counselling and difficulties with relationships as a result, the judge said. It shouldn't have taken so long for the authorities to finally do something about it. Goes to show that ignorance about sexual violence and the foolish assumption that female predators aren't dangerous that boys aren't harmed by sexual abuse by women extends to professionals an… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/06/19 06:41 AM |
| 35 | Woman jailed 6.5 years for raping a young boy. Even though throughout his childhood, he repeatedly tried to tell the authorities what happened, but the investigation was not taken any furtherAdditionally, Parry's victim read an impact statement to Mold Crown Court, describing the effect on his childhood and education. He had years of counselling and difficulties with relationships as a result, the judge said. It shouldn't have taken so long for the authorities to finally do something about it. Goes to show that ignorance about sexual violence and the foolish assumption that female predators aren't dangerous that boys aren't harmed by sexual abuse by women extends to professionals an… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/19 06:41 AM |
| 27 | Speaks the truth, gets post removed.And on the post, the mods didn't even bother to pretend to give a reason. Sometimes at least there will be a stickied comment with some kind of explanation. But this time, there's nothing If you haven't seen the actual post, it's here. What's the point of an unpopular opinion subreddit, if he mods delete unpopular opinions that they don't agree with? I guess it's a typical case of "free speech, as long as it agrees with me" | /r/MensRights | 30/05/19 04:47 PM |
| 12 | Male Disposability: 'Men...you can't kill 'em'They have it backwards: if a person's life's going to be short, it might as well be the wife's duty to make it as enjoyable as possible. But of course, women are people and men are utilities That's truly the mentality they have if their only concern is what happens with the woman after the man dies, and not the issue of men dying earlier, or having a better quality of life in general while they're alive And yet somehow we live in a misogynistic Patriarchy where men are privileged and women are o… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | First Time ever witnessing this behavior on my feedAnother stupid, irrational feminist being stupid and irrational. If "put men on curfew" is a logical response to an incident of a man murdering a woman, than "forbid women from being alone with children" is a logical response to incidents of mothers abusing or murdering their children It's the typical tendency to attribute an individual man's bad behavior on his being a male, so a man murdering a woman means all men should be punished. Whereas conversely women's bad behavior is downplayed and … | /r/MensRights | 29/05/19 02:30 AM |
| 112 | ‘Be an adult and take responsibility’. Just imagine saying that to a woman for an unplanned pregnancy. Is this equality? I do not think so"If you don't want to worry about unintended pregnancy, don't have sex" I wouldn't be surprised is the very same cunt who wrote this is outraged by the Georgia abortion law situation and pro-life people in general Not only is it a double standard, but it ignores the reality of women raping men or boys, in which case the victims are forced to worry about a pregnancy they neither intended nor caused. "Don't have sex" doesn't protect guys in those situations It's one of the many areas where mal… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 07:51 PM |
| 26 | Male model branded "disgusting" and "desperate" after posting a "degrading" nude photo with his girlfriend - with a lascivious caption addedSo many feminists claim to be for female sexual liberation, but all of a sudden become the most Puritan people on the planet as soon as that sexual liberation also involves consenting adult men I'm 100% sure that if this were two women, or if the genders were swapped in the pose and caption, feminists would have no issue with this. This misplaced outrage is just because they hate men--especially male sexuality, especially when the man is in a somewhat "dominant" position--and want to suppress … | /r/MensRights | 27/05/19 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Do you consider all anti-feminists and all anti-leftists to be our allies?No, why would that be the case? In fact, there are sometimes anti-male ideals on which both left feminists and tradcon anti-feminists tend to agree E.g. that male victims of domestic violence or sexual violence are less important. Feminists on the basis of "misogyny" and "patriarchy" and "women have it worse". Tradcons on the basis of "women are weaker, so men are / should be less at risk of injury" or "a man should be able to take it" or "it's men's duty to protect women; men shouldn't need pro… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Emmerdale: The myths around male sexual grooming explainedI'm glad that there's a show that tries to address the issue in an accurate manner. There are a lot of shows and films that depict woman / boy sexual abuse, but usually it's not depicted as abuse and instead as romantic or erotic. So it's nice to see media that challenges rather than reinforces myths about the nature and consequences of women grooming boys | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 02:36 PM |
| 15 | My man speaking some truthHow is this related to "incel posts"? And "Redpill crap" is a vague argument. What specifically is the issue with short men are as valuable as tall men? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 04:40 AM |
| 25 | My man speaking some truthNo, most of them actually do | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 04:38 AM |
| 5 | "The Truth about the Male Modeling Industry": less protection than female models, underpay, sexual harassment, eating disordersI saw this video today, and considered how there's not a lot of attention on men in this industry. Whenever there are discussions about sexual harassment or underpay, the focus is usually just about women and "female objectification". But evidently, these are not just women's issues | /r/MensRights | 21/05/19 06:14 PM |
| 25 | Female boss posted this.Feminists are delusional. If there's anyone who disagrees with them, they assume a man is a blame. It's partly why they have such an issue with non-feminist women, and assume they have "internalized misogyny" due to Patriarchal brainwashing. That way, a man is still to "blame" | /r/MensRights | 20/05/19 05:43 PM |
| 7 | Female boss posted this.elder *goddesses, shitlord! | /r/MensRights | 20/05/19 05:39 PM |
| 13 | Female boss posted this.It's a stupid comparison. The whole premise of pro-life people is that the unborn child's body is not the mother's body, so the "her body; her choice" argument accomplishes nothing. This is why the Abortion Debate goes no where: people are arguing against strawmen Not to mention, what does forcing all men to have vasectomies have to do with forcing women who get pregnant from unprotected sex to give birth? They're completely different issues. If anything, they're opposite issues: vasectomies f… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/19 05:38 PM |
| 21 | Lmao everyone is so triggered by the “sexist” Game of Thrones finale. Feminists’ comments about the show are disgusting and downright sexist towards MEN!Of course they hate it. It defies the ridiculous feminist fantasy that if women ruled, there would be peace and fairness on Earth. They're hypocrites and morons: "women can do everything a man can do, except evil", according to them What do you expect from the same people who accuse the show of "violence against women" when most of the violence was against men? | /r/MensRights | 20/05/19 04:39 PM |
| 17 | Psychologist admits that many men are afraid of their own wives. Somehow he proceeds to blame only men for it.When women are afraid of men "it's men's fault for being scary!" When men are afraid of women "it's men's fault for not accepting female anger!" | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 11:38 PM |
| 3 | This woman sexually assaulting a man on the subwayDid you just hear that it was scripted, or do you know who they are? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Woman caught kissing student on camera is allowed to stay in teaching. Despite the teacher admitting her motives were sexual, panel assumes they weren'tThe panel found that her actions were 'not of a sexual nature', even though the teacher, who sat on the pupil's lap before kissing him, admitted they were. All the typical excuses are made. She was dealing with "personal issues", she was drunk, it wasn't sexual, she's somehow a good role model. Things that are of course only extenuating circumstances when it's a female teacher involved. If anything, her being drunk around students makes it worse | /r/MensRights | 18/05/19 10:47 PM |
| 8 | Woman caught kissing student on camera is allowed to stay in teaching. Despite the teacher admitting her motives were sexual, panel assumes they weren'tThe panel found that her actions were 'not of a sexual nature', even though the teacher, who sat on the pupil's lap before kissing him, admitted they were. All the typical excuses are made. She was dealing with "personal issues", she was drunk, it wasn't sexual, she's somehow a good role model. Things that are of course only extenuating circumstances when it's a female teacher involved. If anything, her being drunk around students makes it worse | /r/PussyPass | 18/05/19 10:47 PM |
| 20 | Progress: newspaper calls it like it is: grand jury indicted Teacher Janet Kaye Barnes for rape and sexual battery on multiple minors. No mention of "relationships" with the boys.It's a step in the right direction. Let's see what her sentence actually turns out to be | /r/MensRights | 18/05/19 10:35 PM |
| 16 | Men Cause 100% of Unwanted Pregnancies – Can We Talk? – MediumOur conversation about abortion places the burden of responsibility on women Because for better or worse, women are the only ones who can choose an abortion. The day a man has any legal say in whether or not a woman gets an abortion, then we can talk. Until then, if it's supposedly entirely a woman's right, then is it entirely her responsibility The root problem of this moron's argument is that by "unwanted pregnancies", she means "pregnancies unwanted by the woman". She doesn't take into cons… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Will artificial wombs help to liberate men?The question is of equal parental and reproductive rights. You're projecting MGTOW and jerking off yourself | /r/MensRights | 18/05/19 02:48 PM |
| 28 | UK: Boys banned from school netball tournament because of ‘unfair competition’It's like while girls' options are growing, boys' are shrinking. And yet people want to act like males are privileged and that we live in a Patriarchy | /r/MensRights | 17/05/19 08:39 PM |
| 39 | UK: Boys banned from school netball tournament because of ‘unfair competition’If they're that concerned about the boys creaming the girls, why not have a separate boys and girls one, like with other sports? More and more, "for both sexes" or "just for girls" are becoming the only options | /r/MensRights | 17/05/19 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Man refused oral sex on date, woman shoots at him | Did he have the right to refuse, or is it him abusing her by denying sex?Cases like this are always ignored when people want to say "men don't have to fear being assaulted, raped, or murdered for turning down someone of the opposite sex like women do!" And when people try to claim that sexual entitlement is a male trait | /r/MensRights | 16/05/19 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Man refused oral sex on date, woman shoots at him | Did he have the right to refuse, or is it him abusing her by denying sex?"Is the sky blue?" "Is water wet?" "Do people have to right to turn down sex without being shot?" and other intriguing discussion questions | /r/MensRights | 16/05/19 08:21 PM |
| 19 | I absolutely hate seeing this stuff, it hurts."no man has ever had to worry about an unwanted pregnancy derailing his life and dreams" She needs to tell that to every man and boy who has been forced to pay child support for an unwanted child. Women like to say things like "men have no idea what it's like to be a woman or what women are going through", but evidently the same is true the other way around They have no idea what it's like for a man, either to be forced to pay child support or to be forced to allow his child to be killed | /r/MensRights | 16/05/19 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Unfortunately this is trueShe ignores the fact that not everyone who makes an accusation is a "rape victim" in the first place. Maybe all rape victims should be believed, but not all accusations are made by rape victims The whole reason for proof is to prove that the accuser is in fact a victim. These kinds of women don't give a shit about all the men who are falsely accused, who have their reputations ruined, who lose their jobs, and sometimes who are even lynched or murdered Meanwhile boys and men who actually are rape… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/19 08:08 PM |
| 11 | Women should not have the right to vote in countries where only men can be drafted.Right. The law is supposed to be equal regardless of a person's sex. It makes no sense that men's full citizenship (not just voting, but also things like applying for financial aid) is contingent on registering for the draft, but women's isn't It's also ironic how one of the first things people go to when talking about good things feminism has done is "they gave women the right to vote". And even people who say they're against third-wave feminism will say "but first-wave feminism was actually … | /r/MensRights | 16/05/19 07:50 PM |
| 15 | PSA: If your girlfriend withholds sex for #SexStrike, withhold your money from her.Probably something about "whiny men" being scared of "sexually liberated" women | /r/MensRights | 14/05/19 12:50 AM |
| 36 | PSA: If your girlfriend withholds sex for #SexStrike, withhold your money from her.Particularly ironic considering that withholding sex from a partner is apparently emotional abuse, and yet it's being used to supposedly combat a type of mistreatment of women | /r/MensRights | 14/05/19 12:49 AM |
| 19 | Woman WALKS FREE after her original 4 year sentence for raping a student is appealedThis is why so often women like this get a Pussy Pass: because the few times that they don't, people get upset and think that they're being punished too harshly | /r/MensRights | 11/05/19 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Woman WALKS FREE after her original 4 year sentence for raping a student is appealedThis is why so often women like this get a Pussy Pass: because the few times that they don't, people get upset and think that they're being punished too harshly | /r/PussyPass | 11/05/19 09:24 PM |
| 6 | An actual Twitter postIKR? But I know of so many feminists, especially radical feminists, who like to boast about, pretend to be, or equate themselves with witches. I think it's because they see witches, traditionally, as being women who men are scared of because of their supposed power I don't know if now they're using it as some kind of "empowering" metaphor, or if they really think any significant number of men are still scared of or believe in such things | /r/MensRights | 11/05/19 09:07 PM |
| 18 | Game of Thrones is going downhill because the writers are maleThe writers were always male, both of the books and the earlier seasons. If that were the issue, it would never have become popular in the first place. They're just being the typical delusional feminists, blaming men for every supposed issue even when it makes absolutely no sense | /r/MensRights | 07/05/19 11:10 PM |
| 20 | My mother’s response to this article. I’m red, she’s blue.When she gets old, put her into the crappiest, 1-star-rated, most urine-smelling nursing home you can find, and never visit. Maybe once send a card that says "they don't change your diaper enough? Too bad lol" For real, it's one thing for a parent to have done it while ignorantly thinking it was for the best and that the boy wouldn't mind (but even then, a parent has the responsibility to research any surgery before having it forced on a child) It's another to see the risks, hear that the vict… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Notice the FakeNews media going mental over bus driver who "raped" student? It was just underage sex, the kind female teachers avoid jail for all the time.I do believe this person should have gotten jail time. Though, as I was commuting a few days ago, the radio was on. I can't remember what station (one of those conservative ones), but I heard them going on about this case the entire 30 minutes. After each commercial break, they kept coming back to it, talking about how crazy it was, how this being his first offense shouldn't have mattered Naturally, they compared it with Brock Turner's case. It's very telling that out of the hundreds of cases … | /r/MensRights | 07/05/19 10:16 PM |
| 50 | Why does this sub hate circumcision?The same reason most people hate forcibly mutilating the genitals of young girls, despite that most women who had this happen to them also "don't see what's so bad about it" and even support continuing the practice Basically, "I'm okay with it" is a moot point No one should be forcibly mutilated for no valid reason, regardless if some men later get used to it, because they can't remember what it was like to be intact and have all their sensations. Others don't "get used to it", and those men can… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/19 08:27 PM |
| 2 | "I Was Sexually Assaulted by My Stepmom...When I began researching my trauma, I was frustrated by the lack of resources"Thank you so much for you encouragement. I am doing a lot better now, though it's still a work in progress | /r/MensRights | 05/05/19 05:38 PM |
| 10 | "I Was Sexually Assaulted by My Stepmom...When I began researching my trauma, I was frustrated by the lack of resources"It's always encouraging for me to see other men come forward about their experiences, and especially for it to be covered by such a big, mainstream publication. I can really empathize with so much of what he's describing; though for me it was my biological mother and her friends, the aftermath was very similar I hope a lot of other men can see his story and recognize that they're not alone, if they were also victims. And that other people in general will read it and realize that it does happen a… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/19 06:51 PM |
| 6 | First time I've seen a female teacher accused of rape in an article title. Maybe because her student was 10?Hopefully the truth comes out, and that if she is guilty she'll get a more proper sentence and that there will be less of the "lucky boy" mentality because of his age. But who knows? There are still women get get away with raping 8-11-year-old boys without much punishment, so it wouldn't even be shocking if she get only a couple of years, if anything | /r/MensRights | 04/05/19 06:31 PM |
| 8 | Boys are more likely to face corporal punishment than girlsIt's like nearly every other form of violence or punishment, then: more commonly and liberally used against men and boys. Hence why men are the majority of the homicide victims, why violence against men in the media is normalized, why men generally get longer prison sentences, etc. And yet in spite of these things, feminists continue to perpetuate the myth that men aren't held accountable the way women are, that violence against women is normalized, that girls are forced to be more docile, etc. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/19 11:32 PM |
| 15 | Double Standards (female perspective)There is almost NO backlash for mocking a man for having a small dick. Right, and if a man does try to cause backlash against such things, he'll just be accused of having a small dick, too, and will be even more shamed for complaining about small penis remarks genital preference is only acceptable when it comes to dicks. Even to the point where male children are forcibly mutilated to have a "better-looking dick" I think it's not just with dicks, but kind of with men in general. It's a similar … | /r/MensRights | 30/04/19 02:51 AM |
| 14 | Double Standards (female perspective)It's mostly a myth that a lot of men aren't sensitive to criticism or aren't insecure about their body. But it's something not usually talked about because that will just lead to even more shaming. If a guys already being shamed for having a small dick, for being too fat, for being too scrawny, etc., complaining about it would just make him seem even pathetic If it were actually the case that guys were less bothered by such criticisms, there wouldn't be such high rates of guys having eating diso… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/19 02:41 AM |
| 21 | Let it be said: Genocide usually means killing the maleCareful. You don't need to give feminists any more bad ideas. I can already see the Jezebel or Guardian article "Male Genocide the Answer to Getting Women into Parliament? History Says Yes" | /r/MensRights | 30/04/19 02:09 AM |
| 13 | Source??? Where the fuck is the source for these stats?Aside from the fact that those numbers are baseless, this post is also intellectually dishonest and misleading in another way Notice how he only compares males being falsely accused to females being sexually assaulted, in order to give the false impression that females have it harder, are more likely to be victimized, are in more need of protection, etc. Realistically, males are more likely to be murdered than females (both as adults and as children[page 57]), are more likely to be the victi… | /r/MensRights | 28/04/19 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Another man-hating ad that seeks to belittle menFortunately, the dislike ratio speaks where the comments can't | /r/MensRights | 28/04/19 08:25 PM |
| 13 | See the double standard yet?It's not men as a group who do that, either. Just certain individual men, just like there are certain individual women who murder their children, falsely accuse men of assault, murder their husbands / boyfriends then play the victim afterwards, etc. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/19 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Parents more uncomfortable with gender-nonconforming behaviors in boys, study finds more approval of daughters not adhering to societal norms than sonsIt's a shame so many prejudice hypocrites become parents | /r/MensRights | 26/04/19 04:13 AM |
| 12 | "We are constantly bombarded with a messaging that normalises violence and sexual violence against women on a scale that we simply don’t see with men." Imagine being so blind as to think thatExactly, it's the complete opposite of reality. I would argue that one of the most blatant gender double standards is how much more inconsequential violence and sexual assault against men is treated compared with vice versa The whole "violence against women is normalized" is one of the many ridiculous delusions a lot of feminists hold, in order to avoid cognitive dissonance and maintain their narrative that we live in a misogynistic Patriarchy that constantly victimizes women | /r/MensRights | 26/04/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Parents more uncomfortable with gender-nonconforming behaviors in boys, study finds more approval of daughters not adhering to societal norms than sonsChanging one's style, appearance, form of self-expression, etc. to suit other people's preferences is letting himself get pushed around. If a boy likes playing with dolls, avoiding it because some other kids shame him for it is weaker than standing up for himself. The latter is submitting to peer pressure, which is more wimpy than doing what he enjoys regardless of how others expect him to conform | /r/MensRights | 26/04/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | The Gender-Bending of Male StoriesThis is so true. Thank you for such a thorough analysis | /r/MensRights | 25/04/19 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Parents more uncomfortable with gender-nonconforming behaviors in boys, study finds more approval of daughters not adhering to societal norms than sonsMost of this is apparent from even a casual observation of society. Girls who like "boyish" clothes, who like roughhousing, who play with cars and toy guns are "tomboys", which is generally perceived as perfectly fine. Boys who like "girlish" clothes, who like makeup and nail polish, who play with dolls are "sissies", which is a slur It's not even just with children. Even in the adult world, there are more strict gender expectations for men. E.g. in a lot of workplaces, dress codes permit for wo… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/19 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys really believe straight men and gay men can be friends?How can a men’s rights group function if straight men themselves attack and murder other gay men? Men's rights is about all men, not just straight men. The issue of violence against gay men, hate laws that imprison gay men, etc. is as much as men's rights issues as violence against straight men, men in general getting longer prison sentences, etc. Stop trying to cause discord and divide where there isn't any | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys really believe straight men and gay men can be friends?You guys don’t see gay men as important. Except that some of "us guys" are openly gay or bi ourselves, so...You can shove your assumptions up your cunt | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 06:44 PM |
| 21 | A 'man tax' cafe that went out of business. Karma is taking its toll on the feminist world.sarcastically calling themselves “the evil, discriminatory, man-hating dykes who charge men more when didn’t you know the wage gap doesn’t even exist!?” They say it sarcastically, but every word of it is entirely accurate. How is it "fragile masculinity" for a person to not want to go to a cafe that deliberately discriminates against it and charges it more? Especially when there are millions of other options Handsome Her was surprised to learn “that it wasn’t only men’s rights activists target… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys really believe straight men and gay men can be friends?I'm also bi. For what it's worth, the most harassment I get is from women who are disgusted by the idea when they find out | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 06:40 PM |
| 4 | "The Mislabeling of 'Transgirls'" the problem with shaming and mislabeling boys who don't conformBeing traditional or not is a completely separate axis than being trans or cis or somewhere in between. This point is addressed in the article. The idea that being trans is not about being conventionally feminine is something that I hear often, and I agree. However, it's contradicted when children accepted as transgirls specifically say things like "I knew I was a girl because I liked pink, long hair, glitter," and other conventionally feminine things If being non-traditional is a completely sep… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 07:44 AM |
| 10 | Am I the only one sick of seeing these types of things pushed so hard? Why do men have to attributed their success to women? Men are cable of success and great things on their ownBecause to live a truly fulfilling life you better have a family That's simply not true at all. Not everyone's goal is having a family; not everyone's interested in women; not everyone's interested in monogamous relationships; not everyone's interested in raising children; not everyone's interested in settling down in one place; not everyone has the same life goals as you do What feminists say or don't say is irrelevant. The metric for whether or not something is true shouldn't be whether or not… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 05:15 AM |
| 28 | The Gender-Bending of Male StoriesAll these female casts of already made stories and talks of a female James Bond are actually just reinforcing the idea that women exist in relation to men That's a good point. I think the most likely reasons are: They're trying to prove a point: "women can do everything men can do but [supposedly] better!" So instead of simply making a story about a woman, making a good female character, they have to try to make it a competition against men. It's not enough to say "women can be good characters";… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Oh, boy...Except that female anatomy figures are shown in class. It's just that they're usually shown like this or this or this where the mammary glands aren't visible. To say women's biology was not shown in class is simply untrue. She's completely making up bullshit to try to invent "Patriarchy's oppression against women" where it doesn't exist | /r/MensRights | 23/04/19 08:20 PM |
| 78 | Male rape in the Harry Potter books and the bias against the male rape victimOne of the first results, when I searched for Tom Riddle's father, was this disgustingly sympathetic article "The sad history of Merope Gaunt". It all plays into the stereotype of: "men rape because they're terrible, selfish, monstrous abusers" "women rape [though that word is rarely used] because they're lonely and desperate and have had a troubled life" It's the same with how when a woman rapes a young boy student, often the angle is that "she was lonely, neglected by her husband, and fell in … | /r/MensRights | 23/04/19 08:09 PM |
| 10 | "The Mislabeling of 'Transgirls'" the problem with shaming and mislabeling boys who don't conformI wanted to share my opinion on the topic of transgenderism, or in this case of specifically very young children said to be transgirls because they "have always been gender nonconforming". Growing up as a boy who didn't conform to social norms, I used to get a lot of pressure both ways: People saying things like "you need to cut your hair"; "isn't that a girl's coat?"; etc. and generally trying to get me to be more conventionally masculine / less conventionally feminine People saying things like… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/19 07:57 PM |
| 45 | Men should not act like cannon fodder for women!a huge reason shitty women are enabled to get away with their trash behavior Exactly. The potential for a man to get hurt standing up for a random woman is one issue. But another is how often that random woman isn't even the victim I remember one of these social experiment videos where people white-knighted for a woman who was being pushed by a man, but what they missed (or maybe decided to ignore) is that she instigated the fight and he was defending himself. People who always assume the woman … | /r/MensRights | 21/04/19 08:30 PM |
| 9 | Charlize Theron Wants Somebody to "Grow a Pair" and Ask Her Out. Mmmmm that’s not sexist.Basically every incel ever: "I'm a great catch, how come nobody wants to date me?!" Maybe she should grow a pair and ask a man out. But of course that would require being brave enough to handle inevitable rejection | /r/MensRights | 20/04/19 04:59 PM |
| 15 | Egypt bans TV show for ‘incitement against men’Fair enough. If there were some show called "Damn Women" consisting entirely of men talking about how terrible women are based on their own personal experiences, it would never have aired in the first place It was and will be an entertainment programme featuring realistic cases of women artists, who have suffered from real problems with men The justification for things like this (as well as the #MenAreTrash bullshit) is always "but these are things women actually go through, maybe men should fix… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/19 03:32 PM |
| 47 | California mom, 41, will avoid jail for having sex with BOTH of her teenage daughters' boyfriends, aged 14 and 15, after plying them with alcohol and cigarsI think a big part of the problem is that even when people do acknowledge the double standard of women getting less jail, they try to justify it. Either with things like "but prison is hard for women, so we shouldn't put women in jail" or in cases like these specifically "those boys were having the time of their lives, what's the issue?" So unfortunately, even the double standard being glaringly blatant isn't enough. The bigger issue is for people to recognize women as genuine dangerous predator… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/19 05:57 PM |
| 76 | California mom, 41, will avoid jail for having sex with BOTH of her teenage daughters' boyfriends, aged 14 and 15, after plying them with alcohol and cigarsEven her Pussy Pass got a Pussy Pass | /r/MensRights | 16/04/19 05:34 PM |
| 24 | “Genital mutilation is absurd and unacceptable and should have strict consequences” “Yeah, welcome to the club”Genital mutilation in the US?? Unheard of! For real, I'm disappointed but not even shocked by the lack of self-awareness. It's disgusting that male genital mutilation is so normalized that it's not even considered in the discussion The responses to MGM and FGM are like night and day. But I guess that's typical with any kind of sexual abuse: it's monstrous when it's against women and girls. It's "lucky guy" or "what's the big deal?" or "it's actually good for him" when it's against men and boys | /r/MensRights | 14/04/19 01:45 PM |
| 14 | Reddit is waking up against the double standards of sentencing rapistsI'm glad those are the top comments. I know there's still a large subgroup of people--possibly the majority of the general public--who think things like this are a victimless crime (hence the light sentences and the calling rape "seducing" in the first place), but more and more it's seeming like challenging the double standard is becoming the norm Maybe it's just the groups and people I hang around vs. who and where I used to hand around. But just when I was younger and my father and I were goin… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/19 12:40 PM |
| 31 | Reddit is waking up against the double standards of sentencing rapistsThe only double standards women face in the court system are the ones that advantages them. It's amazing how out of touch with reality some people can be; I even get some who argue that women generally get longer sentences | /r/MensRights | 14/04/19 12:26 PM |
| 10 | This is how delusional all the “I’m circumcised and I’m fine” guys sound.Right, and like plastic surgery it should only be done on consenting adults, not on infants and children. It's atrocious how often young boys have basically cosmetic surgery forced on their genitals for the express purpose of looking better for women How often people will say it's good because "women will want to go down on him more", "his girlfriend will thank me", or even mothers saying "I don't like turtleneck dicks" like what her son's dick looks like should be any of her concern | /r/MensRights | 12/04/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | When will this end?Shit like this is part of why it's so irritating when ignorant people or feminists conflate MRA's and incels together. Fuck incels, because they're just as bad as feminists where it comes to marginalizing male rape victims esp. of female perpetrators Feminists will say "stop derailing! Men are 99.99% of the rapists and women have it way worse" because women raping men goes against their male-perpetrator, female victim narrative. Incels will say "doesn't matter, had sex. What kind of fag would … | /r/MensRights | 12/04/19 07:01 PM |
| 24 | Nurse who assists on infant circumcisions tells man to shut up when he says he feels hurt by having had this done to him.It's the opposite; many circumcised men choose to believe that they were not mutilated when they were. This is no different than telling a young girl who was raped and has PTSD from it that she's only imagining harm that did not happen, and that she deserves no sympathy. It's unfortunate that ignorant cunts like this are in health professions | /r/MensRights | 12/04/19 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Aaand the double standard continuesExactly. Who can hate a good cat stew? | /r/MensRights | 11/04/19 07:29 PM |
| 29 | Aaand the double standard continuesSo typical. Honestly, this is one of my main issues with women who say shit like how they don't like short men. It's not simply a matter of "people can have their own preferences". It's almost always a matter of "women can have their own preferences, but all men must accept all women exactly as they are" Sometimes it seems to be an attitude reflected in society in general. Women can be whatever they want; behave however they want; dress however they want; look however they want; not listen to … | /r/MensRights | 11/04/19 07:28 PM |
| 9 | The rhetoric in the first paragraph alone... Come on guys, we're better than this.There's no legitimate evidence and barely anything about humans in the first place. The whole thing is just a bunch of stupidity to try to shame men and control their behavior, similar to the "he must be compensating for something" idiocy people say when a man drives a big truck or a flashy car that the body requires too much energy to grow a beard or man bun and simultaneously growing the size of its gonads. That's the most retarded junk science I've ever read. If a man doesn't cut his hair, it… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/19 07:11 PM |
| 14 | yikesFeminism isn't about conversation. It's about, agree or you're literally Hitler. Some have even said that if you're not a feminist then you're a bigot While others will claim things like "feminism addresses men's issues, too" as an anti-MRA tactic ("why do we need MRA's, when feminism is already dealing with equality for everyone?") In spite of the fact that in reality, evidently very few feminists are willing to even have a conversation about it, let alone genuinely try to address it | /r/MensRights | 11/04/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Sexual abuse of boys and men is emerging as one of the most under-reported weapons of warThough most of the article is decent, of course it always has to go back to the typical "don't forget the women" thing And while females undoubtedly constitute the overwhelming majority of sexual violence in conflict overall, researchers believe that in some conflict-riddled countries, men make up more than a quarter of the survivors. The UN notes that sexual violence against males in armed conflict is common, but no accurate statistics are available. Considering the fact that the there are no c… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/19 09:42 PM |
| 18 | Reddit feminists unironically paint all men as inherent murderers..."Sex dolls actually do as I say. And they don't falsely accuse us, castrate us, abuse us, rape us, poke holes in our condoms, or any other horrible thing women have done to men" Of course, that guy is a "loser misogynist" and this woman is "empowered" I hear that kind of "women have to fear being murdered by men!" so often, but do any of these morons know how uncommon that actually is? If someone's going to avoid men in order to avoid the incredibly unlikely chance that one of the men murder… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | April is sexual assault awareness and prevention month. The I ask campaign seeks to ensure people seek consent. Being a woman means never having to worry that you might rape someone being an odd way oThe idea that males automatically have more power or privilege is not only wrong, but destructive in that it gets in the way of acknowledging and addressing males issues. E.g. how people often deflect any discussion about them as "derailing", not important, supposedly already covered by feminism (despite that in practice feminists are some of the main perpetrators of the marginalization of males issues) Sexual consent and sexual violence is a particularly bad area where it comes to marginalizi… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/19 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Study finds that intimate partner violence against men is perceived as more acceptable and less abusive than IPV against women, and that people are less likely to intervene or report itProbably comes as a surprise to no one, but it's always good to have actual studies to back up claims. Especially since sometimes I've encountered people delusional / dishonest enough to argue that they never see the double standard, or even that violence against women is more glamorized and condoned in society | /r/MensRights | 09/04/19 02:22 PM |
| 61 | Weird encounter with woman in London bar last nightI'm glad about the dude's and bartender's responses. And I suppose it's better than nothing that the accuser apologized Woman: you are buying drinks for young girls Me: the one on the right is 5 years older than me, and is 41 years old. I don’t know how old the one on the left is, but she’s literally a grandmother. That's something I notice a lot in general. People say women should be treated like adults. And yet when it comes to victimhood, all of a sudden grown adult women are vulnerable, naiv… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/19 12:28 PM |
| 166 | “Please no hate, I already feel so bad..”The nurse doesn't seemed worried Why would she be? Considering those perverts were willing to cut of such a large part of the penis (the foreskin) in the first place, what's a bit more skin from the penis to them? Only a bit more damage was done than was already intended This is why it's so important that parents need to educate themselves about male genital cutting. This was entirely preventable | /r/MensRights | 07/04/19 12:18 PM |
| 7 | I was groped by Mrs Thatcher! Author Salman Rushdie claims the late Prime Minister 'pawed' at him during one meeting then spanked Christopher Hitchens with a rolled-up magazine. OP: He was talking about "touchy feely" politicians."But it doesn't matter because Trump and toxic masculinity! Stop derailing from the real problem!!' -Feminists | /r/MensRights | 07/04/19 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Don't fall into the trap of white knighting for women in non-feminist/patriarchal countriesTo add to what UsedToBeRadical said, boys may not be stoned (which realistically is rare for women these days, as well, though going to jail is too common). Boys do get punished for being raped, when it's acknowledged by the law at all. Which usually it isn't. Adult men aren't much better off, also not legally protected from rape In these kinds of places, rape laws where they exist are rarely enforced, neither for female victims nor especially male victims (who usually aren't covered by the laws… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/19 10:40 PM |
| 17 | It's nice to see awareness slowly growing that females can be sexual predators/pedophiles and trying to do something about it.The OP is bad enough, but the comments about his wife's other behavior--her dismissal of the possibility of female pedophiles her alienating him from his friends and family, etc.--show this is an even worse situation than that. The boy has a sexually abusive grandmother and he has a gaslighting, emotionally abusive wife. Hopefully he's able to get himself and his son out of that situation | /r/MensRights | 05/04/19 07:41 PM |
| 13 | It’s not domestic violence if it’s against menNo, it's not the same. Domestic violence by men against women gets taken seriously, and the victims have resources and support. Domestic violence by women against men gets marginalized, the victims are ignored, and the abusers are given passes and in this case congratulated. That's the difference How the fuck is some stupid cunt going to say women "cannot match the brutality of men", when women have literally murdered and hospitalized their partners? You can't get any more brutal than that. Sh… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/19 07:19 PM |
| 9 | Feminist Mothers: This is Charlize Theron’s SON. She has dressed him as a girl since shortly after she adopted him. At 5 it was announced he was transitioning, at 7 it was announced he was a girl. What the hell is going on with Hollywood?I think boys should be allowed to dress however they want, just like girls can dress "boyish" or "girly" and no one cares. So parents forcing their sons into anything (dresses or otherwise) is manipulative An issue with children this young being "transsexual" is that he can't make an informed decision on the matter. How can a 7-year-old be expected to know that he's a "girl in a boy's body", rather than that he's simply a boy who likes conventionally feminine things, or that he "feels like a gir… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/19 01:27 AM |
| 22 | Woman throws boiling oil on husband. There is no law to protect men from domestic violence in India. Women have multiple laws like 498A and domestic violence act which are most oftentimes misused for extortion.Not surprising coming from the same place where women can't rape men, according to the law These are both types of systemic sexism against men, and it's something I notice with almost all of these places considered to be the most misogynistic, the worst place for women to live, etc. (e.g. India, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, many Middle Eastern countries, etc.), they're also often pretty bad places for men and boys, as well The culture tends to function on these very regressive gender ideals: yes,… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/19 05:08 PM |
| 6 | Woman throws boiling oil on husband. There is no law to protect men from domestic violence in India. Women have multiple laws like 498A and domestic violence act which are most oftentimes misused for extortion.Right. People always talk about how bad things are for women in India, but completely ignore things like this | /r/MensRights | 02/04/19 04:49 PM |
| 12 | Woman throws boiling oil on husband. There is no law to protect men from domestic violence in India. Women have multiple laws like 498A and domestic violence act which are most oftentimes misused for extortion.It's also where women are incapable of raping or abusing men, according to the law. Let's not act like because things are bad for women there, things can't also be bad for men | /r/MensRights | 02/04/19 04:48 PM |
| 24 | Gay OB/GYN makes the most obnoxious tweet about Male genital mutilationIronically, I just saw this bumper sticker on someone's car today, and my first thought was about this "Women are in charge of their bodies", emphasis on the word women. Boys being violated in a permanent and most personal way by other people entirely without their consent is not only legal, but common and so socially acceptable that fucktards gloat about it "In America all people are equal" my ass | /r/MensRights | 01/04/19 09:17 PM |
| 677 | Cardi B advocates rape for a man that cheats on her.It seems to be a cultural issue in general this attitude that it's okay for women to "get back" at men (AKA assault them) just because he did something to make her mad He cheats on you? Destroy his property. "Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats!" He says something off-color / rude / insulting? Slap him in the face. It's always funny when women slap men, anyway! He does nothing at all? Hit him anyway. "You go girl!" And now this shit. No surprise, considering how much people already li… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/19 10:21 PM |
| 145 | Cardi B advocates rape for a man that cheats on her.It doesn't even matter. People always assume the man "deserves it" whenever a woman assaults him, regardless of what he did or didn't do He probably didn't even do anything significant. Considering she already admitted to drugging and robbing completely innocent men, who knows what she'd do to a man who simply said something she didn't like But either way, even if he did something wrong like cheat on her, she's still 100% wrong for using it as an excuse to rape somebody. When would rape be s… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/19 10:12 PM |
| 17 | Cardi B advocates rape for a man that cheats on her.Yeah, because there definitely aren't also stories about White or Latina women raping men or boys posted here all the fucking time /s That's like the feminists who say "fuck White men!" because some White man rapes somebody. White women, Black women, Latina women, Asian women, and any other ethnicity of women can be cunts, can rape a man / boy, and will likely get away with it. Of all the issues this bitch has, her being part Black isn't one of them | /r/MensRights | 31/03/19 10:06 PM |
| 162 | I guess forcing a child onto someone is fine, as long as it's a guy.The sad thing is he'll still be forced to pay child support for a child that he didn't choose to create What a disgusting woman. I feel badly for him, as well as the child(ren) she already has because if she's a manipulative cunt as a gf she's probably a manipulative cunt as a mother, as well I really hope wherever this was originally posted, someone showed this shit to whoever the guy is | /r/MensRights | 31/03/19 09:59 PM |
| 17 | The percentage of young men 18-30 having no sex at all has tripled in the last 10 years. A worrying trend.I really hope artificial wombs and egg from skin cells becomes a thing. That way giving up women doesn't have to mean giving up the joys of being a father for the men who are inclined to do so | /r/MensRights | 29/03/19 05:43 PM |
| 10 | Why is this even a question?She did something illegal. By law, she should be punished. It's the whole point of there being laws, not "mob mentality"--even if one ignores the moral aspect of her disgusting actions | /r/MensRights | 29/03/19 12:22 PM |
| 97 | Why is this even a question?Because too many cunts will answer / have been answering "no", or at least try to argue that it's an ambiguous situation with "extenuating circumstances". There are always supposedly "extenuating circumstances" when a woman commits a crime Despite that those circumstances apply just as much to male criminals: being in a bad marriage, having a troubled childhood, being under the influence at the time, having mental disorders, or in this case, expressing remorse after the fact, the crime happening… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/19 12:15 PM |
| 5 | Well well well. Men and women are even more different than we already knew.Upon reading the article, it does not show that men and women are more different than what we knew. Just that the differences that we already know about (e.g. females develop boobs, males develop testicles, men generally have more muscle mass, women generally have more fat, Parkinson's is generally more common in men, Multiple Sclerosis is generally more common in women), are due to genes As the author notes, it is helpful to know in terms of developing medicine and treatments for males and fe… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/19 11:51 PM |
| 70 | We’re getting so fucked lads. They have no idea what they’re talking about.Right? Imagine a guy Tweeting "my GF washes herself twice a day, but her pussy still always smells like fish! Think of how much cleaner it would be without those beef curtains where the bacteria develops" | /r/MensRights | 28/03/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | But if a girl 250+ and I tell her to strap on some shoulder pads and guard the left side then I’m the monsterAnother typical shallow cunt. I'm 5'3" so I know there are a ton of women like that. It's not only common, but socially acceptable as there's no "short acceptance" movement, despite that it's something a man can't control whereas weight is something a woman can control And yet people like to pretend that only men are shallow about physical appearance, and that specifically men have "unfair expectations" for women | /r/MensRights | 27/03/19 06:24 PM |
| 17 | All men are violent....sorry, all CIS men.Exactly right. It's a typical abuser's excuse: "I hit my boyfriend because it's the only thing he understands / because he won't listen otherwise!" | /r/MensRights | 25/03/19 09:47 PM |
| 25 | Found on a thread about #MenAreTrash. Disgusting, “Feminists don’t hate men!”If it was not the case there would be no #MeToo What a stupid line of reasoning. The existence of a movement meant to demonize men doesn't mean men deserve to be demonized. One can just as well argue "most Jews are inferior and greedy. If it was not the case, there would have been no Holocaust" Not all men nor most men are trash, but definitely him and all the other male and female retards in that thread are | /r/MensRights | 25/03/19 09:45 PM |
| 18 | I just feel so sorry for the men in her life.They're proof that everything anti-feminists say about feminists being man-hating female-supremacists is entirely based in reality All of their posts and comments are either how wonderful and flawless females are, how horrible and abusive males are, or both. And they're a large feminist community, too, not just a few hundred or thousand people on the fringe | /r/MensRights | 25/03/19 04:08 PM |
| 107 | All men are violent....sorry, all CIS men.The only way for the last part to make sense is if they're saying that transmen aren't actually men; so "transphobia" disguised as being "protrans" As with most other feminists bullshit, it's all just baseless claims. The vast majority of men aren't violent, and a significant portion of violence (esp. child abuse and DV) is committed by women She's just talking out of her ass, and getting hundreds of other retarded man-hating feminists unquestioningly agreeing with her because it fits their "mal… | /r/MensRights | 25/03/19 03:59 PM |
| 171 | Daycare worker arrested for restraining 7-year-old boy while her daughter hit him — but she says it was a self-defense lesson.It should go without saying, but if the person being hit is restrained, then it's no longer self-defense. What is she "protecting the girl" from, when the boy is incapable of being a threat to her? She's not teaching her self-defense; she's teaching her that it's okay to hit boys who won't / can't / aren't allowed to hit back, which is something to many women already believe to be true She's raising the next abusive cunt, and deserves to go to jail | /r/MensRights | 25/03/19 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Controversial post about masculinity but I think it's worth it to read it.It sounds mostly like he's against the traditional gender expectations placed on men, and on this point I agree. The idea that it's men's duty to be providers for and protectors of women contributes to a lot of males' issies E.g. the marginalization of male victims (because who cares what happens to him when his whole purpose is to sacrifice himself for women anyway? He should "man up" and stop being so weak); small dick shaming, short shaming or any other kind of shaming a man for not meeting w… | /r/MensRights | 25/03/19 01:09 AM |
| 4 | If women ran the world, there would be no more warsI'm sure it's just because of Patriarchy and male influence corrupting these poor innocent women's minds and therefore their behavior! /s Though for real, I actually had a feminist argue exactly this. When I showed her how Queens waged more wars (after she claimed that only men should be forcibly drafted because only men start wars), she said this was just because those women were being controlled by men, and that their ruling methods were not their own Yet somehow all of the Queens' positive ac… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/19 04:17 PM |
| 6 | If women ran the world, there would be no more warsEuropean Queens Waged More Wars Than Kings | /r/MensRights | 24/03/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Female on male rape UK, no justice.Yeah, I would be. Hit me up in my PM if you get something like that together. I'm doing better now, it was a while ago. But for me it was a bit like losing a part of myself: the open wounds could heal, but that missing piece will always be gone | /r/MensRights | 21/03/19 01:27 AM |
| 24 | The ever-widening definition of "sexual abuse" now includes internet comments, thanks to some thin-skinned female football player!I see women making all kinds of equally inappropriate thirst comments on the videos of attractive male YouTubers. So I expect these women to be prosecuted for sexual abuse just as adamantly... /s | /r/MensRights | 21/03/19 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Unpacking the moment a total stranger licked and kissed me on live TV | CBC NewsThat's so typical. Realistically, female-on-male sexual harassment is at least as bad and prevalent as vice versa. But as both men and women are indoctrinated to always view women as the worst victims and men as the worst perpetrators, people's bias is to automatically perceive what women go through as worse Sadly, it's almost obligatory; when a man mentions female-on-male sexual violence without explicitly saying "don't forget female victims have it worse!", he'll be accused of "derailing" and … | /r/MensRights | 20/03/19 08:40 PM |
| 7 | Female on male rape UK, no justice.There are have a few Change petitions to address this very thing. The fact that none of them were legally acknowledged and that people's response to even bringing it up is to ban you reflects the amount of good the legal system is to male victims I wish I could give you any kind of helpful legal advice, but I was sexually abused by women and dealt with the same legal negligence. The only semblance of justice I've ever gotten was from taking matters into my own hands and not depending on the syst… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/19 03:49 AM |
| 6 | Is this abuse? NSFWWhy is that even a question? For whatever good it would do, whoever took this should consider going to the police; at least there is video evidence. And anyway to do what he needs to to make sure she stays as far out of his life as possible | /r/MensRights | 20/03/19 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Brisbane woman jailed for nine years over husband's fatal stabbingHe was not behaving in a threatening manner...But from Katie I hear no remorse, except for herself. Nine years isn't justice for murdering someone. She's an abuser who apparently shows no remorse for her actions; why would 9 years in jail change that? What's also ironic is that in the side bar there are articles and services related to domestic violence, and every one of them is about men abusing women; even the headlines there that sound gender neutral still end up only being about female vic… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/19 09:52 AM |
| 16 | 'Humiliated' teenager took his own life after being molested by sex-crazed female teacher who is now serving 20 years for having sex with four minors | School told the teacher to stop raping kids 6 TIMES(!) before finally taking action against herAnd yet there are still so many comments saying things like Where were these sex-crazed female teachers when I was in high school!!?? What is it about these middle America sex crazed female teachers. Where were they in California when I was going thru middle and high school 50 years ago ? They would have been a dream come true to me and my peers Or things like how he must have had problems anyway, and the abuse had nothing to do with it Idiocy like that is why cunts like that woman get away with… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/19 09:47 AM |
| 13 | Even when poor the Mans forced to pay child support to his rich wife.And I've always heard the reason men tend to pay more child support and get less custody is because they generally make more money and work more often. But if that were the case, men poorer than their wives wouldn't be in these kinds of situation. More and more it's really seeming like the only consistency in court rulings is screwing over the man | /r/MensRights | 18/03/19 12:23 PM |
| 30 | Woman assaults man, cops are like, “what do you want us to do about it?”People say men who hit women in any situation are cowards, but really women who hit men are cowards because these women know that the police won't do anything about it. And that in the off chance that he does defend himself, an army ow White Knights (likely including the police) will come out to help her Male victims of female violence have no recourse, putting men at a serious disadvantage in such situations | /r/MensRights | 17/03/19 01:57 PM |
| 25 | Wife hires stripper to perform for husband, in front of children. Highly upvoted comments on /r/trashy/ subreddit agree that a man in the room with his shirt off, is 'creepy', 'weird', and possibly unsafe for children to be around. [NSFW image]So what it's her job? How is it okay to strip in front of children so long she's being paid for it? The woman's stripping in a deliberately sexy way, the man's chilling on the couch shirtless in a completely nonsexual way, and somehow he's the bigger creep As usual, it's always only the men people want to protect children from. This kind of thinking is why female child molesters get away with it so often: people don't ever see women as potential threats | /r/MensRights | 15/03/19 04:53 PM |
| 3 | r/MurderedByWords user is, as I think, f*cked in the head on gender roles/expectations. Is this *really* how people think? It's sincerely troubling that people could think this way.It has a point about the destructive behaviors enforced by traditional gender roles. Male disposability is perpetuated by traditional "ladies first" ideals as much as by feminist "males are privilege so they don't need any resources" ideals feeling obliged to pursue work and a career at the expense of time spent with family Not just at the expense of family time, but also at the expense of personal well-being. Too often men are expected to be packhorses for their family, or personal ATM's that's… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/19 02:08 AM |
| 15 | Been home with the kids for two days.It doesn't have to be the "short straw". I hope this way you and your children will develop a really close bond and you'll form important memories together My father was my primary caregiver until my parents separated, and then again after my mother died, and I was really grateful to him for raising me, teaching me all the things that he did, etc.. I hope your children will grow up to appreciate you, as well | /r/MensRights | 14/03/19 07:20 PM |
| 3 | And if he is hospitalized or worse, she'd probably be off the hookWorst thing is she's probably not even joking, as many cases as I've seen of women abusing or sometimes murdering their boyfriends and getting away with it | /r/MensRights | 14/03/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | the death of masculinityThere's evidence that infants are drawn to the need for comfort as much as if not more than the need for food. That being the case, it could be more comfortable for an infant to feed from something softer and able to cuddle with than just a plain hard bottle | /r/MensRights | 13/03/19 06:52 PM |
| 25 | "Try not to traumatise others with their suicide"Not to mention it's pure speculation that men use more brutal methods simply because "they don't care" about the well-being of the person who finds them It's more likely because someone who actually wants to successfully kill himself will try to use the most brutal method he can to make sure that he actually dies (e.g. shooting himself in the head) Whereas someone who's maybe on the fence about it or who's doing it more as a cry for help rather than because she actually 100% wants to die will us… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/19 06:46 PM |
| 13 | The future is female?The NASA administrator did not identify a specific person, but said women are at the forefront of the agency's upcoming plans... NASA will also have its first all-female spacewalk at the end of the month...NASA is committed to making sure we have a broad and diverse set of talent and we're looking forward to the first woman on the moon Interesting how "diverse" often seems to equate "all-female" to them. What exactly is diverse about all-female? Feminism "diverse" means no men; feminism "equalit… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/19 04:15 PM |
| 10 | Woman raped teen as man held him downHe reported it to his guardian and then to the police? No, no, that can't be right. It's every boy's dream to be raped by a woman, after all! Why would he complain to the police?? /s But for real, he was already failed by his guardian. Hopefully at least he gets some justice from the CJS. It's rare for male victims, but not impossible. Hopefully in this case, they actually do their jobs | /r/MensRights | 12/03/19 04:11 PM |
| 15 | Woman raped teen as man held him downPossibly one of those people who says things like "if that were my son, I'd give him a high-five!" on other stories of women raping young boys People like to say foolish things like boys don't report because they enjoy it / because they're not traumatized / etc.. But realistically, when boys don't report it's often because of shit like this: sometimes it seems like there's no point when often nothing's done about it, anyway | /r/MensRights | 12/03/19 04:07 PM |
| 48 | 'Why should I care about male suicide?' Feminist blogger sparks outrage for claiming she has NO concern for men who 'kill themselves because they can't cry'Not a surprise, neither her misandry nor her reducing male suicide to "because men can't cry", as if the only thing contributing to the epidemic is men not showing emotion through tears, rather than the various ways society is stacked against them Not to mention that the way she's using "men can't cry" is a victim-blaming accusation. For the men and boys who would feel better by crying but force themselves not to, the reason they don't is because too often they are shamed for doing so by women a… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/19 12:54 PM |
| 13 | Any examples of TV shows or movies where women hitting men was portrayed as okay but if men did the same it'll be unacceptable?This on TV Tropes, Double Standard: Abuse, Female on Male, is a start. You can also use the search box; some of the results are other media that includes the double standard not listed on the main page. Though of course there are countless more not even mentioned here. It could be worth it to start compiling a list every time you see it, if you get that kind of argument a lot Every now and then I'll come across a person claiming a similar thing like "I don't see people marginalize women hittin… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/19 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Male circumcision discussionIt's emotional but also factually correct. It is by definition mutilation of a child's genitals without his consent Rejecting this fact because it makes a person uncomfortable is destructive. Wallowing in shame is also not helpful What is helpful is to recognize that what you did is wrong, don't do it again to any future children, and spread the word so more parents will learn not to make the same mistakes | /r/MensRights | 11/03/19 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Male circumcision discussionAdditionally, religious significance doesn't even justify it, because the child may grow up to be a different religion than its parents. People who claim "religions reasons" apparently don't care about the child's religion any more than the do his bodily integrity It's also a BS argument because who justifies FGM due to "religion significance"? It's usually specifically boys' rights that are treated as less important than "religious rights" Any person can make up a religion and be like "accordin… | /r/MensRights | 11/03/19 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Male circumcision discussion...the hate was ridiculous for such a common practice and routine procedure.Circumcision is extremely common in the US, in fact it is the norm. Most people, especially men, don't even know there is a backlash against it as it is a normal custom. I understand why people can be against it. Taken at face value it does seem barbaric. But it shouldn't be taken at face value because it is a common place thing in America that people don't think twice about. I can't accept people telling me I am mutilat… | /r/MensRights | 11/03/19 08:50 PM |
| 3 | "We're still so far behind," says domestic abuse survivor as government pledges £500k to help male victimsIt may seen like that, but according to the statistics that's not even $1 per man Figures show 695,000 men were subjected to domestic abuse while 138,000 were sexually assaulted last year - with some people taking more than 30 years to report their experiences. However I am glad that the government is doing something, though. It is progress, at least. When my father and I were going through it at the hands on my mother, there wasn't even a conversation happening let alone any kind of funding | /r/MensRights | 11/03/19 08:25 PM |
| 21 | Incel as an insultThat always reminds me of this stupid short animation I saw a while back. At the time (and still now), the top comments were all praising and relating to the woman for "getting back" at / murdering the man, because she had a crush on him, yet it turned out he was promiscuous and wasn't interested in a romance with her But why is that okay? He didn't even know her and there was no reason that he had to be interested in her. Why is it seen as okay to shame men for being "womanizers" and "fuckboys"… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/19 11:12 PM |
| 143 | Incel as an insultThe sad thing is that's something both feminists and non-feminists (e.g tradcons) alike like to attack men for. "Virgin loser", "you just hate women because they don't want to touch you", "you need to get laid", etc. are insults I see from every political spectrum Besides it being petty, it has a lot of negative implications. It ties a man's worth to how much approval he gets from women, which is regressive and in complete opposition to male empowerment. It perpetuates the "doesn't matter; got l… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/19 11:01 PM |
| 15 | Men becoming 'increasing victims' of coercive control, legal experts claimas their partners threaten to restrict access to children This is one of the lowest things a person can do. It's an offense often overlooked in a society that perpetuates the mentality that fathers (like males in general) are disposable, and that it's a mother's right to do whatever she wants with a child But realistically, fathers overall love their children just as much as mothers do, and children need their fathers just as much as they need their mothers. And the mother destroying this bond o… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/19 10:46 PM |
| 23 | Saw this in the hospital today after taking my son in for a rash. Even the fact they acknowledge men are victims of DA is a great step. Well done the NHS. Australia could take a leaf from this book.That's really great to see, especially side by side (so no one would just see one poster and maybe not know about the other). I think the fact that domestic violence isn't just a man-on-woman crime is gradually becoming more common knowledge | /r/MensRights | 10/03/19 07:06 PM |
| 84 | Terry Crews may be out as feminism's token non-toxic male after making comments defending the role of paternal influences in raising healthy childrenAs sad as this is, I hope this helps him recognize the toxicity of that movement. It's not about equality; it's about perpetuating the "men are privileged trash, women are oppressed victims" narrative Hence "men need to take responsibility for toxic behavior" is good; "men are important in children's lives" is bad | /r/MensRights | 10/03/19 03:29 PM |
| 17 | Denise Lee: Details of 9000 texts she sent after failed Tinder dateBut "men don't have to fear women becoming aggressive after being rejected, like women have to fear from men!" or some such nonsense Seriously, when are people going to wake up to the fact that women are just as abusive as men? | /r/MensRights | 10/03/19 03:25 PM |
| 69 | Girl Scouts: "Research shows that girls learn best in an all-girl, girl-led, and girl-friendly environment" | Too bad there's no longer an all-boy Scouts, since it was forced to accept girls joining, so boys cannot have that same benefit.Everything for boys becomes for both, supposedly for the sake of "equality". Everything for girls stays for girls, supposedly for the sake of "female empowerment". It's what happens in a gynocentric society | /r/MensRights | 10/03/19 12:36 PM |
| 6 | Abusive quiz; for men only.Here's another gem on their page, under the heading "Online Domestic Abuse Counseling". What's also sad is that it's called "Men's Resource Center", which on the surface makes it sound like it provides resources for male victims Having been a victim of familial abuse in the past, I know how frustrating, disheartening, and infuriating it is to search desperately for help, and only come across services for women. I can only imagine how much worse it would be to come across something that finally… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/19 05:31 PM |
| 3 | So is this an anti-circumcision forum now?The right to a boy not having his genitals mutilated without his consent is apart of men's rights, so... | /r/MensRights | 09/03/19 01:23 PM |
| 8 | Teaching boys and girls they are equal in every way encourages domestic violence, Brazil's women's minister said Friday as she urged a return to chivalryboys will think 'since girls are equal they can handle being hit,'" If you can't take it, don't dish it out There should be equal rules for boys and girls when it comes to hitting. Neither boys nor girls should hit unprovoked. Both girls and boys have the right to hit back So fuck chivalry, as far as I'm concerned | /r/MensRights | 09/03/19 01:21 PM |
| 8 | We were talking International Womens Day in class and a kid asked "Whens International Mens Day" and she replied "Since the beginning of time.Disproportionate prison sentences for men; disadvantages and male students lagging in the education system; in many places rape and sexual assault laws disclude male victims and even more often female perpetrators; lack of reproductive rights for males, including for male rape victims; disproportionate health care funding I think most of the others is common knowledge, like that forced male infant circumcision is legal everywhere while FGM is not; that only males have to register for selective s… | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 08:13 PM |
| 12 | There is now a subreddit against us called r/againstmensrightsThere has been for a while. Being an activist for men's rights getting so much hate is part of why it's so important in the first place. It shouldn't be so controversial to address males' issues, but it is because much of society is misandric and treats men and boys as a disposable group | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 06:55 PM |
| 6 | This article about men’s day couldn’t be more sexistbut when the people who are lobbying for it are the ones promoting the most toxic aspects of the gender, you can see why Google isn’t gonna do a drawing of a group of stick figure dudes holding up “Rape culture doesn’t exist” signs Just typical strawmanning bullshit. There are a plethora of very important males' issues that need to be addressed (e.g. MGM being legal; disproportionate prison sentences for men; discrimination against men in family court; disadvantages for boys in the education sys… | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 06:39 PM |
| 6 | This article about men’s day couldn’t be more sexistI think the problem is the opposite. Males' issues don't get attention even on International Men's Day | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 06:32 PM |
| 14 | We were talking International Womens Day in class and a kid asked "Whens International Mens Day" and she replied "Since the beginning of time.That's such a typical response, with the presumption being "males are privileged and already have all the rights, have always had all the rights, so they don't need recognition" However considering the plethora of males' issues that do exist even in modem times, and mostly always have--e.g. MGM being legal; disproportionate prison sentences for men; discrimination against men in family court; disadvantages for boys in the education system; lack of domestic violence resources for abused men; sexu… | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 06:30 PM |
| 23 | Can’t wait for the men’s version of thisYou'll be waiting a long time, and I don't mean till November 19th | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 09:50 AM |
| 15 | Australian PM says he wants women to do better but not by dragging down men. People twist his words and freak.Of course feminists are upset by it, because they do want women to succeed at the expense of men. They don't want fairness; they want female supremacy | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 09:27 AM |
| 24 | This International Women's Day, It's Time For Men To Shut Up | Far left feminist politician gives full voice to her hatred for menWhat else is new? According to feminists, it's always time for men to shut up, international woman's day or otherwise And yet somehow at the same time, one of their silencing tactics against MRA's is "feminism is already for equality for everyone!" They're just a bunch of sexist, ignorant, dishonest hypocrites. I would just say fuck them in general, if their "females are oppressed, males are the oppressors" narrative didn't have so much influence in society. So it's important to acknowledge and … | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 09:23 AM |
| 21 | "Men ain't shit" = 3.9 THOUSAND likes! This, folks, is how the modern woman celebrates her sex.Yeah, so are "get back into the kitchen" and "rape jokes"; that doesn't stop feminists from being outraged about it. The double standard is not a joke | /r/MensRights | 08/03/19 12:12 AM |
| 16 | Sexism in my classI really hate those kinds of people. In the first place, they're assholes. And secondly, they perpetuate the stereotype about gay and bi men. There are enough people who genuinely hate us just for existing, and this kind of shit just fuels hostility It's foolish and ignorant for people to think either that straight men don't have struggles in general, or even that they don't have struggles specifically due to being men. It's annoying how too many other gay / bi men are so quick to side with femi… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/19 06:38 PM |
| 52 | I just don’t get the general disdain for men. Makes me sick. Why do some women think all men do is think about them?What's stupid is how they always act like "not all men" is an invalid argument. Like Grrrrr! How dare you challenge the Men Are Trash dogma?? Don't you know we're referring to men in general, not every individual male who's ever lived, you derailing, misogynist, neckbeard!! Do they not realize that hating people--whether it's an individual or a group of people in general--due to their demographic is the definition of sexism? They like to say things like "'not all men' misses the point and distra… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/19 06:17 PM |
| 28 | It's cool, men's lives don't matter.That's a typical feminist tactic: to make something sound like a "women's issue" by completely ignoring the male victims of it, like the 1 in 4 women are homeless thing Also they always like to push the idea that most violence against men is by other men, as if that invalidates the victims. As if because in some cases the victim and perpetrator are both men, they're both responsible for the "male violence", so the victim isn't as much a victim as a woman would be Depending on the violence, it's … | /r/MensRights | 07/03/19 02:45 PM |
| 20 | This is the stuff that gets me heated. Men are literally being blamed for everything, including female stupidity!That's not only false, but also rape apologia. She says 100% of unwanted pregnancies, meaning that when a woman rapes a man or boy and becomes pregnant without having intended to, it's still somehow his fault But even outside of cases of rape, a woman can take birth control or refuse to have sex with a man without a condom just as well as he can refuse to have sex with her without a condom. In fact, she has the additional option of birth control, and men don't It's really not even worth debating… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/19 08:33 PM |
| 19 | Woman suggests that male circumcision “was used” to give males more pleasure.with something that has never been proven one way of the other The existence of men who are unhappy with having been mutilated is proof enough that the barbaric practice should stop. Mutilated people can't be unmutilated. Conversely, intact people can later choose to be circumcised if they want to. Therefore the default should be to leave it alone Also being able to get pleasure after being mutilated doesn't mean it's better than being intact. That's like saying "I can see fine without eyelids… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/19 08:22 PM |
| 34 | Wow! Mental gymnastics make the man who works 6 days a week the bad guy! Simply stunning. Then posting online looking to be validated.She really thinks it's more important for her to go to the mall than care for her kid. I feel badly for her children and her fiance. In a perfect world, he would scram while he could and be allowed to take the kids with him I'm glad that at least people are calling this stupid mother out | /r/MensRights | 05/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | I was abused and my parents sided with the attacker.I'm really sorry that this happened. It's always "that bad" to be abused, especially by someone who you trusted or who you thought that you could trust. I was abused by my mother, so I can relate to being betrayed and abused by an authority figure you were supposed to trust, and also to having your family turn its back on you None of it had to happen. It "happens", because some people are POS's. You don't have to understand why people abuse; there's no justification for it. I wish I could do som… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/19 10:43 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed..Also as of this point the top two comments are someone joking about how it's a sexual fantasy of theirs, and another saying if a 15-year-old girl raped someone, that must mean she was sexually abused | /r/MensRights | 04/03/19 10:29 PM |
| 8 | One of the most violent girls I knew in my primary school barely got punishedUnfortunate, but not surprising. I'm really sorry about your situation; it's too common for male victims to get no justice and female perpetrators to get no punishment Things like this are why I always retaliate whenever I'm able to. I know, "you're just going to get yourself into trouble". But if I'm going to get into trouble anyway, and she's not going to be punished anyway, at least I get into trouble for actually doing something. And at least she faces some consequences; the authorities ca… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/19 10:11 PM |
| 9 | Hating men as a whole makes you a bigotRight. I don't understand why some people think that a good justification for "kill all men" or "men are trash" is something like: "Well, I don't mean every single individual man. Just men as a whole / in general!" as if hating an entire demographic as a whole, in general, is not prejudice, so long it doesn't include every single solitary male on the planet. That's exactly what prejudice is: hating people for their demographic If they mean that they hate rapists or abusers or whatever, then they… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/19 04:46 PM |
| 12 | One of the only short films about Female on male rape (Warning Graphic)Thanks for sharing, this was great and really needed. I love the wry title. It does a great job at deconstructing the idea and showing how inaccurate and disgusting it is to say things like that--along with "guys are always willing", "why is he complaining about getting laid??", "he got an erection, so he must have wanted it", etc.--in response to things like that It's really ignorant how so many people act like rape is suddenly less bad, or even good, just because the rapist is a woman / women.… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/19 03:14 PM |
| 22 | UK citizen calls for NSPCC to be defunded after it claims that infant circumcision is not child abuse.In the US, religious reasons is a very small proportion of why parents have their sons mutilated. Ignorance about alleged "hygiene benefits", HIV pseudo-science, tradition, and suiting the perverted preferences of women are much more widespread, so I don't see why the focus is on religion, esp. since the biggest religion in the US doesn't command it | /r/MensRights | 01/03/19 08:57 PM |
| 19 | The most recent episode of Brooklyn 99 is one of the most insensitive propaganda pieces I’ve seen in a while.The thing that annoys me about this kind of shit isn't that they're depicting things being difficult for female victims (because of course being a victims of sexual assault sucks, male or female), but when they depict as if her being female is what makes it difficult. As if sexual assault ans not being taken seriously as a victim is apart of "female oppression". Sexual assault is definitely not a women's issue; it's an issue both men and women suffer from. And where it comes to being silenced, I… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | man gets justice on teacher who preyed on his 13 year old sonFor real, for real. I can't understand how anyone with an actual son would say things like that. I think most of the people there saying things like "I'd give him a high five" are talking shit and don't actually have sons of their own. Most are probably desperate incels in the first place But who knows, there are some fathers who are actually pieces of shit like that, so it's good to see fathers like this | /r/MensRights | 01/03/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | man gets justice on teacher who preyed on his 13 year old sonI'm glad that he recorded it and that she was arrested, but I wouldn't say that he or his son got justice until she's been sentenced to a few decades behind bars The father did the right thing. It should go without saying, but apparently not considering that the top comment currently (as well as many others there) are all acting like there's nothing wrong with a woman raping a 6th-grader | /r/MensRights | 01/03/19 08:36 PM |
| 14 | Deadpool 2’s Terry Crews Accused of Misogyny After Comments on the Importance of FatherhoodRight. Basically it's good for him to say men are to blame for fatherlessness, and yet bad for him to say men are important to raising children. Feminism is all about beating men down and never about helping them up | /r/MensRights | 01/03/19 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Mom manipulates kids but they still love dadIt's good that in this case he has the opportunity to spend time with his dad and to recognize that the things he was taught weren't true Unfortunately, there are a lot of cases where the child is so brainwashed that it never comes to realize the truth. Where it either never has any interest in spending time with the dad because it already internalized the lies and so thinks "he's a terrible person, why would I want to see him?" Or it never gets the opportunity to spend time with him because the… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/19 08:01 PM |
| 12 | Perfect !Maybe by "independent" they simply mean that they want women to be independent from consequences or responsibility. Thus they're perfectly fine with women leeching off of their personal ATM--I mean their husbands / boyfriends | /r/MensRights | 28/02/19 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Reverse the roles and watch the world burnWomen would be so much prettier if they stopped eating so much So two can play at that game. Also even the name "TheTransformedHusband" sounds like the ultimate pussy-worshiping mangina. What does it even refer to, "transforming" himself to sate females' every whim? Fuck that, the moment a man starts caring too much about what women want, the moment he's destined to a miserable existence. No one can please everyone anyway, and it's pretty sad if that's even his ultimate goal Case in point, a lot… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/19 08:09 PM |
| 6 | "We need to change the way we see female sex offenders"I think it's a decent article overall. Though regarding Our inability to not objectify women (even as sexual offenders) compounded by the idea that boys are in a state of constant consent renders many reports akin to something out of a Carry On film. Maybe "objectification" is part of it, in that women are often perceived as passive and incapable of acting upon others (whether or not the necessarily equates being perceived as "objects"). Though I think another part is the Women are Wonderful eff… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/19 01:25 PM |
| 17 | If we don't cut tonsils out of a babies throat, though later in life they can cause health problems, Then why the FUCK do we let people cut babies foreskins??You're exactly right. That's partly why the "it's for medical / hygienic reasons!" is such a bullshit argument. People claim "male circumcision makes it easier to keep clean / it reduces HIV / reduces the chances of infection or phimosis". But there's no other body part that's routinely cut off by default, at birth in case of future problems years or decades down the road Those are especially BS reasons because the best way to keep clean is washing the best way to reduce HIV is condoms UTI and p… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/19 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Your daily dose of casual sexismRight, people's response to female-on-male violence is typically assuming that he did "to deserve it" and laughing, or not caring whether or not he did something to deserve it and still laughing | /r/MensRights | 25/02/19 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Giving minors hormones to make them more like a different sex is just as bad as gay conversion therapy.The situations when "transgirl" children are the most problematic is when it's because of things like "he likes girly things like sparkles; it makes sense that he's actually a girl." In that video he literally says "I felt like a girl because I like pink and long hair". If he thinks liking pink and long hair is what makes a person a girl and that a boy can't also like those things, that shows two things: he doesn't actually understand what male and female mean, in which case he's incapable of ma… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/19 07:50 PM |
| 29 | Is it still legal to mutilate the genitals of little boys in Alberta? Will kittens and puppies soon have more human rights in Alberta than little boys?Usually the hierarchy of empathy seems to be Girls Women Dogs Cats Boys Men People will sooner listen to the cries of a young boy being permanently mutilated, often because "women think it looks better", than an animal. And of course people give even less shits about violence towards adult men | /r/MensRights | 25/02/19 07:26 PM |
| 12 | Female teacher rapes boy 1 month after starting her job (the responses are the predictable rape apologizing)I think it's pretty clear why she went into teaching | /r/MensRights | 24/02/19 12:46 PM |
| 13 | Imagine if the genders were reversed. Yeah i can already hear sjws screaming about itPeople want to act like "it's just slapping, it's not big deal / it's not going to cause injury". But if that were the case, why is it only woman slapping men that's treated as funny but men slapping women treated as abuse? | /r/MensRights | 24/02/19 12:41 PM |
| 5 | It seems like this sub is against women more than it's *for men*?!"It's unfair how women are advantaged." with a common subtext "Women are bad." Acknowledging the unfairness of the advantages women have does not equate condemning women in general as being bad. What's bad is that women are given unfair advantages, and they're given these advantages by society in general--women and men alike E.g. when a woman abuses a man and people's first response is "he probably did something to deserve it", the female abusers as well as the men and women who victim blame are… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/19 02:34 AM |
| 13 | My wife says guys who post on here “have small wieners.” Am I in a safe relationship?Problem 1: she's shaming men who speak out about males' issues Problem 2: she's body-shaming men with small penises by treating it as something he should be ashamed about, despite that it's something he had no control over Conclusion: no, not a safe or healthy relationship. Sorry that you ended up with such a cunt | /r/MensRights | 22/02/19 02:28 AM |
| 7 | man ends up on sex offender registry because a girl lied about her age, even though the charges were droppedI'm having trouble with this one, she was twelve, I have trouble believing that she passed as 19. It wouldn't be the first time. If one didn't know better, this girl could probably pass for 19. Though she's 11 in this picture (this is melodyoficial3). So it's not unrealistic for a 12-year-old girl to look 19 Especially considering that he met her on a dating app, which are 18+, it wouldn't have been unreasonable for him to assume that everyone on that app is 18+. It's like if a person met someon… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/19 10:33 PM |
| 14 | man ends up on sex offender registry because a girl lied about her age, even though the charges were droppedThe article's trying so hard to make him sound like a monster. They're going on about the way he talked about her and what-not. Though one can be offended by that, it's not illegal to boast The part that's illegal is her age, which she lied about and which he probably didn't question, considering they met on a dating app, which are 18+ as it is. So while he may be crass, that doesn't make him a sexual predator | /r/MensRights | 20/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 16 | Guy loses job and house, is jailed and put on sex offenders register because a 12 year old girl lied about her ageSo he met her on an 18+ app, she lied about her age, they didn't even have sex, and he got 2.5 years in jail Female teachers meet little boys in their classrooms, are fully aware of their age, actually have sex, and mostly avoid jail altogether--getting things suspended sentences and probation--or get a few months at most That's the Criminal "Justice" System for you | /r/MensRights | 20/02/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | IKR?Right. Even if it were true, it would prove nothing. Of course, some would want it to interpret it as "women are superior / more thoughtful" Though it could just as well be interpreted to mean women use their brains to worry about unnecessary things more often (ruminating over the past, over-analyzing if this other woman's compliment on her blouse was really a compliment, etc.) women are more dense and need to use their brains more to solve problems. After all, one would expect a dumb person to … | /r/MensRights | 19/02/19 10:08 PM |
| 4 | IKR?It's similar to that "women are better multi-taskers" myth, spread despite that the brain cannot focus on several things at once Certain kinds of people will perpetuate any ridiculous nonsense if there's any chance it can help their "women are superior" / "the future is female" narrative | /r/MensRights | 19/02/19 09:53 PM |
| 4 | This is the domestic violence campaign we need, but will never get | A response to the Australian government's misandry.I agree. I haven't really heard "girls will be girls" much, but I hear all manner of other excuses for female-on-male violence. Such as "what did he do to deserve it?", "he probably cheated", "she couldn't have really injured him, what kind of guy can't take a hit from a girl?", "maybe next time he won't do [such-and-such]! lol" Or like you said, praising her with "you go, girl" and generally assuming it was either for a good reason, or--even if not--that it's funny and cute / empowering. You mi… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 11:02 PM |
| 9 | Abused By My Girlfriend: The Teenage Romance That Descended Into Terrible ViolenceIt's great that there's a documentary about his story. It's so important for people to see the fact that men can be abused by women the fact that it is dangerous and not just ultimately harmless (because I've heard a lot of people say things like "yeah, women can be violent towards men. But it's basically a non-issue because it doesn't hurt or cause injuries") the fact that the woman can manipulate the man into staying (so it's not as simple as "men usually have the money to just leave if it's r… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 09:59 PM |
| 9 | Children abused in CPS care in California. Past pattern of taking them from fit and willing fathers.I hate that kind of thing so much. A similar thing happened to me when I was younger and my parents separated. My mother got custody over my father for not much reason other than "5-years-old belong with their mother". Even though she had groomed my father before, (until he got old enough to leave her, and she lost interest in him, anyway). And she turned her attentions towards me once he left The most relieved I ever felt in my life was when I was 12 and my father finally regained custody. I kn… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/19 05:12 PM |
| 3 | A question about double standardsRight. When something is naturally all male, when the people doing the best at something happen to be male, then it's "female oppression" When something is all female, when the people doing the best are female (whether it's naturally or even when it's forced and due to an unfair biased towards women), then it's "female empowerment" | /r/MensRights | 16/02/19 03:21 PM |
| 3 | A question about double standardsBasically their mentality seems to be that men are already advantaged in every area. Therefore showing favoritism towards women is "balancing things out". Therefore equality Since their starting point is the baseless presumption of "male privilege", any amount of female privilege and female advancement is equality in their minds (even when it's in fact unfairly biased towards females), and any amount of advocating for males issues e.g. MGM being legal disproportionate prison sentences for men di… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/19 03:16 PM |
| 7 | #intactIt's unfortunate how many comments are shaming the boy for being angry or siding with the mother for having him cut. He has every right to be towards the person who allowed him to be permanently disfigured for no valid reason As to why he's suddenly angry when he wasn't before, it's probably because he started researching the issue himself. It's one of those things where the more a person learns about it, the more disgusting it becomes and the more a cut man realizes what he lost | /r/MensRights | 16/02/19 12:43 PM |
| 160 | The "Lorena" documentary is disturbing because it paints a woman who cut off a man's penis as a victim whose action was understandableThe Battered Woman defense is also a bit of a cop out. Not only is there no proof of it, but it's not something that would hold up in any other situation If a man took a blowtorch to his wife's vagina, no one would be coming to his defense regardless of what claims he makes about having been sexually abused by her. Even if people believe him, it wouldn't be seen as a valid defense Considering that fact that people also laugh when a woman castrates a man just because he wants to leave her, clearl… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/19 12:36 PM |
| 4 | Woman savagely cuts off man's penis while he was asleep. Guardian Feminists: "But maybe she is the real victim here?"Part of the issue is that if this were the other way around--an abused man taking a blowtorch to his abusive wife's vagina--a doubt if a single person would be like "maybe he's the real victim". They'd completely ignore the wife's own abusive behavior and condemn the husband just be virtue of the fact that he mutilated a female's genitals It's only when a woman castrates a man that suddenly people care if the mutilation victim had also done anything wrong. Basically female mutilation is seen as … | /r/MensRights | 15/02/19 08:07 PM |
| 11 | Stop bashing on cut dicks. Maybe?I certainly agree that one should not shame the cut man for being cut. It wasn't his fault that he was cut. But that doesn't change the fact that his penis is indeed mutilated and is not as good as a healthy intact penis Recognizing the damage that was done to him is not shaming him anymore than recognizing when a child who was raped has PTSD is shaming him for suffering effects from the abuse. It's both just acknowledging the horrible effects of the abuse: a mutilated penis that doesn't functio… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/19 06:33 AM |
| 12 | Colton Underwood Says He Was Touched Inappropriately at Event, Leaves Early - The comments on TMZ blames himHence why I don't buy the "men don't mind if they're sexually harassed" BS. It's not that men don't mind; just that when they admit that they do, everyone comes out shaming and condemning him for it. So mostly we keep it to ourselves because what's the point of otherwise? So it becomes a self-perpetuating issue: people say "men don't mind it" when he keeps it to himself; but then "well he's not a real man anyway" when he doesn't; leading men to keep it to themselves instead; leading to more "s… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/19 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Singapore parliament proposes a penal code to change rape laws to include male victims, and sexual assault laws to include female perpetratorsCurrently rape there is defined specifically as a crime only women can be victims of. If this passes, then a man will be considered a victim of rape if he is forcibly penetrated A man being forced to penetrate a woman with his penis would be considered sexual assault, where currently apparently this scenario isn't addressed by the law at all. So it would be an improvement from not criminalizing women forcibly mounting men, but still not at the point of just considering it rape and giving it th… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/19 12:36 AM |
| 16 | There needs to be a small dick acceptance movement before I even begin to give a shit about Fat acceptance for women.It's good to see that at least there's some serious discussion in the comments there. Any time in the past that I've seen the matter brought up, it was usually shot down immediately with "OP has a small dick lol!" I think it will be a difficult thing to combat since it's a body image issue that only men have to deal with, and also because making fun of a person's alleged "small penis" is an easy, lazy go-to insult for people who want to humiliate a man And it creates a lose / lose situation fo… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/19 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Expert for La Verne school’s legal team says 12-year-old special needs student was willing participant in sexual abuseUnfortunately that disgusting "lucky boy" mentality extends beyond morons in various comments sections. Too often supposed professionals and experts are just as moronic. It's really a destructive mentality as so many rapists have been let off and so many children have not been given the support they need because of it For real, enablers aren't much better than the rapists themselves. This cunt who raped the boy deserves to spends decades in jail, but this expert should also be punished, at least… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/19 11:59 PM |
| 26 | Husband of woman who raped a 13-year-old boy stands by her; says "She’s the best, the best person I’ve ever known."If the best person he's known is a child rapist, then he keeps terrible company, including himself. Also notice how she's playing the victim, talking like she shouldn't go to jail because she fears for her safety. Oh well, bitch; shouldn't have raped a child And she says that she doesn't know how the assaults "happened" like it was some external thing that just happened out of thin air. The nasty pervert's not even taking responsibility for her own crimes | /r/PussyPass | 14/02/19 11:40 PM |
| 12 | Girl find his boyfriend unmanly and wants to distance herself after he "opened up" on rape he suffered at hands of his step brotherOn one hand, as of now there are 481 more upvotes than downvotes on OP and 63% of the votes have been upvotes, meaning about 1,166 of the people who saw the post agreed with the GF. Either that or they just upvoted so that it could be seen more, and hopefully it's the latter On the plus side, I'm glad so many comments there are supportive of the victim and condemning the GF in this case. The best is probably this one. It really encapsulates how shitty it is to see someone as less of a man for ha… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/19 07:08 PM |
| 14 | Girl find his boyfriend unmanly and wants to distance herself after he "opened up" on rape he suffered at hands of his step brotherIt's great to see male victims being taken seriously even outside of MRA places. I hope it eventually becomes a mainstream perspective | /r/MensRights | 14/02/19 06:17 PM |
| 45 | I can confirm the validity of this controversy after working in travel. Yet men are the "privileged" ones.It's really disturbing, both how quick people are to stereotype even perfectly innocent men as sexual predators, and how blind people are to actual female child molesters The "men can't be trusted with children / women are naturally nurturing" mentality is dangerous and harmful both for men and for children | /r/MensRights | 14/02/19 06:14 PM |
| 16 | Nice try Vice but your spin-doctoring and emotional blackmail won’t work. FAILIt's funny how many people I've encountered online who have said things like "you're literally a straight White male, your opinion on the matter is irrelevant". Which is foolish because I'm not even straight and am only part White (would have been considered Black in slavery days), and also am not conservative Dismissing a person's opinions based on his ethnicity and sex is prejudice Additionally so many feminists say "a man has no idea what it's like to be a woman!" But then accept the word of … | /r/MensRights | 14/02/19 05:05 PM |
| 10 | Men are victims of domestic violence tooOn one hand, I'm glad they called the cops instead of doing nothing. Part of why people don't believe female-on-male abuse happens is because it's underreported On the other, I'm concerned about what the outcome was. Too often the male victim is the one arrested, so I hope the bystanders went the extra mile and explained the situation to the cops. This video is good evidence of who the real aggressor is | /r/MensRights | 14/02/19 04:17 AM |
| 2 | EqualityFor real. It's not even equality, as a man has no control over his height by the time he's an adult. A woman can always work to lose weight. It's also not unhealthy to be short like it is to be obese | /r/MensRights | 13/02/19 09:45 PM |
| 20 | I like being circumcised. It’s cleaner too. Girls love it.Indeed, many cut men who say such things are either in denial because that's an easier option than coming to terms with the fact that they have been irreparably damaged by people who they were supposed to trust (doctors, parents) or don't know the extent of what they're living without. A person who could never see color or taste food from infancy can't fully appreciate what a shame it is to have those sensations taken away for no good reason. There's a reason the more a man knows about "circumci… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/19 06:05 AM |
| 9 | On a post about a teacher being sentenced for sexual assaultIt's a pretty popular mentality, hence why cunts like this so often get Pussy Passes. It's a bullshit argument though, because of course if it were the other way around and a 17-year-old "woman" had sex with her teacher, all of a sudden people would say "it's just different!" usually with no farther explanation. But if a 17-year-old girl is too immature to consent, there's no reason a 17-year-old boy wouldn't be also It's just the same old ignorant stereotypes that boys are sex-crazed perverts w… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/19 02:43 AM |
| 175 | Never gets old.That could probably be women, girls, and dogs are loved unconditionally and still be accurate Even boy children get their genitals mutilated against their will at birth because "women think it looks better". Or are sexually abused by female teachers or other women who are then given Pussy Passes because "why did he complain anyway??" And too many people don't care specifically because they're boys and not girls Male disposability is an issue for all men and boys in general, and it needs to be ch… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/19 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Sexual Assault of Men as ComedyExactly. Especially since most of the time if a man is raped, it is by a woman. It's ignoring a significant portion of male rape victims to only talk about male-perpetrators It's not much of a challenge for feminists to talk about male-on-male sexual violence because it's still a male perpetrator and so they can still (as this uploader does) make it about "the Patriarchy". This is probably why any time a feminist does talk about male victims, in usually in this context | /r/MensRights | 11/02/19 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Assault of Men as ComedyAt first I was glad to see this topic when I read the title of the video. Then I was skeptical when I saw who the uploader was because I know that YouTuber's a feminist and always tries to twist things to be about feminism and female oppression Unfortunately, I wasn't surprised. This kind of thing really shows the issue of feminism even when they pretend to address male victims: they always still try to twist things to fit their "female oppression; male privilege" narrative Both how female perpe… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Found this absurd comment on a post about 15 year old boy being raped by a womenWhat was the comment the first comment was in response to? I'm guessing something saying men raping people is worse, but I think it would make sense to include that one in the screenshot, as well | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 09:55 PM |
| 8 | Can't Believe She Thought She was In the Right - Recording This!That's like saying "this is why I hate White men" because one White man rapes somebody Parental alienation is something many single mothers of all ethnicities are guilty of. In this case it's a Black woman, but it's not as if there are plenty of other cases with White women doing the same shit | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 04:42 AM |
| 4 | Finally they are arresting women for abusing boys I juvunile detentionThe question is whether or not she'll be appropriately punished. There are countless cases in the news of women arrested for raping boys, but many of them end in things like probation or suspended sentences or community service "This case is disturbing and disgusting," Sheriff Troy Nehls said in a news release. "Here is a woman who completely took advantage of her position as a mentor to behave as a predator." I'm glad she's being called out as a predator, at least. There are a lot of cases of w… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Finally they are arresting women for abusing boys I juvunile detentionShe already confessed, there's no question as to whether or not she's innocent | /r/MensRights | 10/02/19 03:01 AM |
| 4 | Leftist MOB Strangely Absent After Men Get Abused RepeatedlyFunny thing is that feminists like to put on women-only music festivals supposedly to keep sexual harassers out. Who knew women sexual harass people at concerts, too?? 😲 | /r/MensRights | 09/02/19 02:34 PM |
| 8 | Young man is raped thanks to his girlfriend, and doesn't even recognize itI'm really glad that the comments there are so supportive in helping him to recognize the situation for what it is. The update says that he's splitting up with her, which is definitely for the best. This isn't even "dubious consent", it's fucking someone while he's unconscious And her reaction after he told her how uncomfortable he was with it is really telling. Even if she actually thought he'd be fine with it, when he told her that he wasn't she should have considered his feelings and apologiz… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/19 08:35 PM |
| 28 | Are you fucking kidding me? Banned from r/offmychest for participating in this amazing sub.The fact that they're conflating MRA's with incels already proves the ignorance of anti-MRA people. To them, anyone who speaks against the gynocentric status quo or who doesn't buy into the myth of male privilege might as well be Literally Hitler Thus MRA's are automatically associated with unsavory groups like incels, racists, homophobes, etc., that way haters can dismiss MRA's outright without considering their actual claims or ideas. I bet if you asked them what an MRA is and what they believ… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/19 01:36 AM |
| 2 | How can I convince my stepdad that men can get raped by women, too?Here's an article about the physical aspect of forced erections. In short: no, erections don't automatically mean that he's consenting or enjoying it And surely he knows a woman can overpower a man if she has a weapon. Though it can also happen if he's intoxicated, if she's simply stronger, or sometimes even if he's unable to fight back in fear of looking like the abuser himself Though it's not always physically overpowering: she could also coercion him with threats (especially if she's in a pos… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 3 | The double standards between male and female fictional charactersThere are all kinds of misandric double standards in the media, especially where it comes to violence and sexual violence. TVTropes tends to have a fairly neutral coverage of the double standards in the media. A lot of the ones about women are perceptions of women being weak and passive, and a lot of the ones about men are related to male disposability or men being stupid, bumbling perverts So ironically (or perhaps not) even the ones that are sexist against women (e.g. "women are weak and passi… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/19 09:59 PM |
| 16 | I feel really bad for the guyI am relieved at least by the comments calling out her behavior. It becomes really old to see people praising women for hitting men, even for the slightest or in this case imagined slights. Some of them are even playing the gender swap card It may have been an accident that you thought it was him, but it wasn’t him and you attacked him. Definitely won’t fly under self defense. What if the roles were reversed? What if they kicked you so hard and say broke your leg because they thought you groped … | /r/MensRights | 07/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 7 | "The minimising of the sexual assault of Black boys" (though it applies to all boys)One of the first things that comes to my mind anytime I hear about this issue is that film "Sweet Sweetback's Baadasssss Song", which is a main staple of the blaxploitation film genre. In it a pre-teen boy is raped by a hooker (though of course it's depicted as being proof of how badass he is); an issue aggravated by the fact that in real-life, the director got his own actual underaged son to have simulated sex with the woman for the scene. It's almost just like that old alleged tradition of fat… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/19 04:30 PM |
| 18 | Rebuttal to the BBC's video "FGM and male circumcision aren't the same" Male genital cutting is in fact often more severeEvery group that practices female genital cutting *also* practices male genital cutting. When within-group practices are compared, MC is often more severe. People like to say things like "girls have their whole clitoris cut off with dirty blades, but boys are only nicked in sterile environments". When in reality, the places where girls are cut at older ages and in unsanitary environments are the same places where boys are cut at older ages and in unsanitary environments Places where boys are cut… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/19 02:49 AM |
| 175 | Male genital mutilation is performed on newborns. GM on either gender is a horrible thing.It seems ironic that it's perceived as worse when the girls are infants. With boys, one of the excuses pro-cutters use to try to justify it is that the boys are only infants, so they won't remember it The responses to this case prove that that's just BS no one really believes. "The child's too young to remember it happening" is an excuse not used for any other form of abuse besides boys being mutilated One 2015 report by City, University of London estimated 137,000 women and girls in England hav… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Kansas judge calls girls, 13 and 14, the 'aggressor' in a child sex solicitation caseThat's a stupid non-answer. Explain how 'people should be as outraged when boys are blamed for being raped like these girls were blamed for being raped' is dangerously close to defending a child predator, or just fuck off and don't make baseless accusations | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 07:55 PM |
| 5 | The mentality behind the menslib crowdSome men are conventional and some are not, and neither should be forced to be something they're not I think men's rights is about advocating for the rights of men and boys, not necessarily trying to make everything go back to traditional gender roles. Additionally, a lot of males' issues perpetuated by feminists (e.g. that women's needs come first, that male victims aren't important, that men are disposable, etc.) are also perpetrated by traditional gender roles Againstmensrights are simply mis… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Kansas judge calls girls, 13 and 14, the 'aggressor' in a child sex solicitation caseHow is anything I said remotely close to defending a child predator? | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 02:31 PM |
| 13 | Kansas judge calls girls, 13 and 14, the 'aggressor' in a child sex solicitation caseI do find that the victims in this case, in particular, were more an aggressor than a participant in the criminal conduct Such a typical mentality with such atypical outraged reactions This kind of "the kids weren't the victims, after all they voluntarily met up with the adult" is a common thing to say about adults fucking teenagers, when it's a woman and a teen boy. Now that it's a man and teen girls it suddenly becomes a scandalous thing to say Of course what the judge said was wrong. I just w… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/19 01:05 PM |
| 9 | Woman not charged with rape for sexually assaulting a boy under 12-years-old, after he reported her and medical exams proved the assaultYou missed "not charged with rape". It's all lesser sex crimes than rape because in India woman cannot legally be charged with rape | /r/PussyPass | 05/02/19 12:40 AM |
| 68 | Woman not charged with rape for sexually assaulting a boy under 12-years-old, after he reported her and medical exams proved the assaultIt made me wonder what disgusting shit she did that was actually visible in a medical exam Either way, she's a piece of shit, but of course she still wants to play the victim with the "I was sexually assaulted, too" crap. If that shit was so bad, what would make her think it's okay to do to someone else? | /r/PussyPass | 04/02/19 06:20 PM |
| 79 | Woman not charged with rape for sexually assaulting a boy under 12-years-old, after he reported her and medical exams proved the assaultIt made me wonder what disgusting shit she did that was actually visible in a medical exam Either way, she's a piece of shit, but of course she still wants to play the victim with the "I was sexually assaulted, too" crap. If that shit was so bad, what would make her think it's okay to do to someone else? | /r/MensRights | 04/02/19 06:20 PM |
| 11 | The Guardian is asking for submission about Men's Issues.I think it could be worth submitting to. It wouldn't be the first time The Guardian has published an article addressing men's issues, for example: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jan/23/suicide-rates-men-gender-issue https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2001/aug/14/edinburghfestival2001.edinburghbookfestival2001?CMP=share_btn_fb https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/aug/25/male-circumcision-ceremonies-death-deformity-africa?CMP=share_btn_fb https://www.theguardian.com/society/2… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/19 05:31 PM |
| 4 | It's not wrong to judge a woman for having a lot of sexIt didn't really explain why. Just basically said that it's okay. If consenting adults practice safe sex and no one gets pregnant, there may not be concrete negative effects. (There can be emotional effects if a person becomes attached, but that applies to men and women) I don't think it's as consequential for men though. That point has not been adequately supported The potential consequences of unsafe sex for women is STD's and pregnancy, in which case she can usually choose to have an abortion… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/19 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Reddit sees post about MGM, instantly starts saying it's worse than FGM as an explination for why it's not ban.I hate seeing people say that. "It's not as bad" is a stupid argument by all accounts Not only is it false in the first place that FGM is incomparably worse, but that's also a moot point. Even if gouging out someone's eyes were worse than gouging out its ears, it wouldn't change that both are horrible and both should be banned Saying "male 'circumcision' shouldn't be banned because it isn't as bad as other harmful things" is idiotic. All unnecessary child mutilation should be banned On the brigh… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/19 11:25 PM |
| 296 | FeminismIt's ironic because people assume men are (or should be) unaffected by harassment and people say it's not that bad, and so people don't give male victims support, which in turn makes the harassment worse With men, it's not just that they get harassed, but also that they have no recourse. If he defends himself physically, he'll be perceived as a "woman-beating brute". If he reports her, likely he'll be laughed at and she'll get no real punishment | /r/MensRights | 02/02/19 04:24 PM |
| 9 | I was banned after posting this in mgtow.Everything about your comment is retarded It's an idiotic stereotype that gay dudes only ever spend time with straight guys to try to fuck them. It's no different than the people who stereotype straight men as being "only after one thing" and constantly looking for women to take advantage of "swearing off of women looks gay enough" Why the fuck would you care about what it looks like? The whole point of MGTOW is not caring what people think or what society expects If you're all "but what if peop… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/19 03:24 PM |
| 7 | I was banned after posting this in mgtow.That's a stupid thing to say, especially in this case. If you actually read the post, you'd see both why his sexuality is relevant in this situation ("I know I don't bear the same sacrifice that straight guys do separating themselves from women") and that OP is obviously not a feminist troll Dismissing any question like this as "this must be a troll" is lazy and presumptive. Banning someone for it really has no justification | /r/MensRights | 02/02/19 03:15 PM |
| 13 | I was banned after posting this in mgtow.The mods there hate gay men, which is kind of ironic when you think about it. Of course a gay man can be MGTOW: go his own away and reject society's and / or women's expectations of him. If anything, this is especially easy for a gay man who doesn't rely on women for romantic or sexual fulfillment, and who is already unintentionally defying expectations of men by being gay instead of wanting a wife or girlfriend to provide for I was banned as well for making this comment on this post. It's kind … | /r/MensRights | 02/02/19 03:02 PM |
| 12 | Call for options to keep women out of jailSame old same old. As always, every argument either applies to men in prison, as well, or is BS in the first place But the female prison population has been growing in recent years Maybe because finally female predators are finally just beginning to be punished appropriately, (though too often still not nearly as much or often as they should be). Maybe because women are committing more crimes. Either way, it's not something that sparing female criminals jail would "fix" | /r/MensRights | 01/02/19 07:36 PM |
| 18 | Male survivor who tried to start a conversation about sexual abuse against boys is shut down due to "derailing", (despite that he made a standalone Tweet). When is it safe to talk about male victims?Here are his Tweets about his own experiences with abuse, which are apparently why he wanted to discuss the issue | /r/MensRights | 01/02/19 06:00 AM |
| 16 | Srebrenica Massacre: The women were raped and the men were MURDERED. The author still tries to portray it as an act of misogyny.Gynocentrism is a prevalent problem. Whatever the situation is--women mostly raped and men mostly murdered, men mostly rape and women mostly murdered, and even when the large majority of the victims are men (e.g. homelessness, journalists deaths, homicide, etc.)--the focus is always on the female victims It doesn't matter to them if what's happening to the men is worse or if more men are suffering from it. If a woman's not a victim, it's automatically less important | /r/MensRights | 31/01/19 07:54 PM |
| 25 | JUST IN: Woman who sexually assaulted Infowars reporter has been arrested.At least there's that. I'm still expecting her to get a Pussy Pass (e.g. something without jail time or likely even a significant fee or community service), but we'll see. And perhaps it's an improvement that the police got involved at all. Too often law enforcers (police, DA, etc.) don't even take it seriously enough to arrest or to press charges She deserves to be punished. Not only did she sexually assault someone, but the way she gloated about it so remorselessly afterwards shows she's likel… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/19 03:55 AM |
| 2 | This might not belong here, but I thought it was slightly ironic.Yeah, I joined r/MGTOW2 soon after I was banned. It's definitely an improvement, with the fundamental MGTOW ideals without the prejudice | /r/MensRights | 31/01/19 03:43 AM |
| 25 | JUST IN: Woman who sexually assaulted Infowars reporter has been arrested.Women’s Marcher Sexually Assaults Male Reporter | /r/MensRights | 31/01/19 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Why did I even check r/feminism... Alongside posts like this, people's comments get deleted A LOT. Yeah, your movement is exactly about "equality"...One's inability to control erection is a health problem. Not everybody suffer from this condition This retard literally doesn't know simple anatomy. Erections are involuntary; it's not a health problem, it's the natural state of things With this ignorance, this fool, the people who upvoted its comment, and the mods for keeping the comment, are by extension victim blaming every male rape victim who's forced to penetrate by basically telling him "you should have been able to stop yourself from get… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | This might not belong here, but I thought it was slightly ironic.I was a member there for a while because personally I like the idea of going my own way regardless of social expectations put on men (from either women or other men). I'm not at all against the MGTOW mentality in general, but that particular subreddit is plain bigotry It used to be pretty good, I rarely saw hateful comments, and if I did they were downvoted. But the problem is that the mods themselves are hateful, and since they ban people who disagree with them, gradually the only people left a… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 03:50 PM |
| 10 | This might not belong here, but I thought it was slightly ironic.The mods at r/MGTOW are morons. I was banned for posting this comment on this post. Judging from what I've seen other people be banned for, they're literally the homophobic, misogynistic, generally bigoted assholes all MRA's or MGTOW's are stereotyped as being I'm actually both an MRA (as in an activists for men's rights) and MGTOW (as in a man not concerned about conforming to the social demands and expectations men are restricted to), and still I see that the mods on that subreddit are cunts T… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Sam Harris claims FGM "has nothing in common with the circumcision of boys"That analogy isn't accurate. "FGM" consists of a wide range of practices, many of which are less invasive than MGM. Anytime people talk about FGM, they always only talk about the worse situation (cutting off the entire clitoris or sewing the vagina shut), even though far more often it's piercing, labiaplasty, cutting off the clitoral hood, ranging from not as bad or the same as traditional male "circumcision" FGM is like cutting off sometimes 4 fingers but usually 1 or 2. MGM is like cutting of … | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 03:26 PM |
| 17 | Sam Harris claims FGM "has nothing in common with the circumcision of boys"It's simply not true that there's nothing in common The most important thing they have in common is that they're both forcibly and permanently damaging a child's healthy genitals, cutting them up without its consent. (And no: it's a myth that male infant "circumcision" is usually done for good reasons. And it's nothing like forcing a child to get vaccinated) For that reason alone MGM is a barbaric thing, even if it weren't as bad as FGM. However, it's also not true that they're not comparable. T… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 03:13 PM |
| 129 | #MeToo summed upNot to mention she was given a Pussy Pass, being told that she could be welcomed back to the #MeToo movement as a stronger ally, even after she sexually abused someone If she’s able to come back and really remedy with the community, I think it’s going to make her a stronger ally for the #MeToo movement Imagine any of the #MeToo leaders extending a similar olive branch to any of the men accused This whole situation shows not just what kind of person she is, but what kind of person too many femini… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 03:18 AM |
| 15 | I wanted a sexist diagram like the feminists have...Or you can tell them to fuck off and go whine and complain on their own time | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 04:11 AM |
| 223 | I wanted a sexist diagram like the feminists have...Very true, a woman has no right to dictate how a man must behave to be masculine. Likewise what individual men think masculinity is differs, and a man should not expect every other man to fit his personal idea of masculinity E.g. it's from both women and men that I hear things like "a real man never hits back against a woman", "a real man always picks up the checks", "a real man is always willing to sacrifice his life for a woman", "he should just shut up and take [some kind of abuse or injustic… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 04:09 AM |
| 14 | Sexual assault with impunity=female privilege/toxic femininityA woman can body slam a man for less than this, and be praised as a hero. I'm really curious (/s) how people would react if he had even slapped her in the face for doing this. The difference between women sexually harassing men is that men have no recourse. Not only will the police do nothing, but the victim's not allowed to do anything, either. Too often it's just treated like a joke I have seen a few popular r/Trashy posts recently regarding women sexually abusing men and boys. I hope it's a s… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/19 01:04 PM |
| 14 | "Why ageism hurts men more than women" (in the workplace)Apparently, older men in the workforce are more likely to be perceived as hostile, overly aggressive, selfish for refusing to step down. Whereas older women in the workforce are more likely to be perceived as maternal or caring, even when assertive, making people feel less threatened by them It's one of those double-edged swords where older women perhaps being taken less seriously as a leader in the workplace also advantages them in that they're less likely to be penalized. Same with vice vers… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/19 02:46 PM |
| 8 | I wrote to my local newspaper about the MRM and they published it!Good on you for writing it, and good on the newspaper company for publishing it. Too many people are hostile to MRA's, not for any legitimate reason but because the lies misandrists spread about them It will be helpful for more moderates to hear about what we actually stand for, and maybe consider investigating for themselves | /r/MensRights | 25/01/19 05:47 PM |
| 15 | I'm sure you can guess what a lot of the comments were.It's always about her with them They don't see their bias because to too many of them, gynocentrism is equality. They're starting with the false premise that males are privileged in all areas. Thus, they believe focusing on women will make things more "equal" by balancing out the alleged advantage men supposedly have (That's why they like to say bullshit like "but men already have all the rights, so we don't need to talk about them!" when someone brings up males' issues. Or "every day is interna… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/19 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Stop posting things painting all women as abusersAcknowledging the existence and danger of female abusers in a society that generally ignores or downplays their existence is not the same as painting all women as abusers | /r/MensRights | 25/01/19 04:51 AM |
| 61 | They keep upping the hypocrisyWhat a ridiculous lack of self-awareness. Though more likely it's not so much they're not aware of the hypocrisy as much as they try to defend it, with baseless claims like "misogyny is a much bigger problem" and the general "good when we do it; bad when you do it" mentality | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 08:26 PM |
| 11 | South Africa: Man Falsely Accused of Rape Was Murdered by Vigilantes"Vigilantism" in practice has always basically been about misandry, whatever their claims are about justice. Hence why they often go after innocent or not proven guilty men, but never go after the dozens of women who walk free after actually admitting to raping boys | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Unbearably fucked up post from your friends at r/againstmensrightsThat entire subreddit is basically a counterpoint to everyone who ever says feminism isn't about hating men, that it's about equality for everyone, that feminism is never to blame for any males' issues, etc.. The entire premise is attacking the rights of human males, so it's really not unexpected | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 04:26 AM |
| 23 | Woman, 34, cuts off her 67-year-old sex slave's genitals and kills him after abusing him for years'He went to the police a few times to report her, but he always went back to her. This kind of thing happens a lot with both male and female victims, where they'll keep going back to their abuser due to the emotional manipulation they've used to convince them to accept the abuse. It's like a type of Stockholm Syndrome, and is why clearly violent people need to be locked up, period. Even in cases where the victim's like "but I love her and I don't want her to be in jail" It's not only for the saf… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 04:13 AM |
| 4 | “CNN: Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says“ aka infidelity is ok only when she does it.Basically it's all either bullshit or things that could apply either way. And yet I doubt they're going to be publishing an article about how womanizer-husbands can be positive any time soon. The typical "good when she does it; bad when he does it" | /r/MensRights | 23/01/19 09:36 PM |
| 2 | 18yo woman Youtuber has a 13yo Boyfriend...Right. Though unfortunately it's not even just the feminiazi's. From the population in general and from all sides of the political spectrum, there tends to be a double standard in regards to child rape. News stories about women raping boys on both left wing sites like NYPost and New York Daily News and also right wing sites like Fox News and Breitbart tend to be filled with "lucky boy" type responses | /r/MensRights | 23/01/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | 18yo woman Youtuber has a 13yo Boyfriend...Was there supposed to be a video or something accompanying this title? Or at least give the name of the YouTuber? | /r/MensRights | 23/01/19 08:55 PM |
| 9 | Gillette Responds To Controversial Advert - “We're not saying all guys are bad. We're not trying to misrepresent any one individual. What we're saying is, as a collective group let's have a little less bad behavior and more good." Would they dare do this to any other group then?It's still sexist to call out only men as a collective group. In fact it's the definition of sexist to discriminate against a group of people due to their demographic, so I don't know why he thinks saying "I'm not saying individual men are bad; just that as a group men are bad" is much of an improvement Try saying "as a group, women are manipulative cunts. But I don't mean every individual woman!" and see how that goes over | /r/MensRights | 22/01/19 04:20 PM |
| 6 | human rights are men's rights alsoMens' rights are human rights, also. And yet the way people respond to "mens' rights" and "mens' rights activism", you'd think mens' rights is the equivalent of "rapists' rights" or "Nazis' rights" It's ridiculous how controversial it is to admit to being someone who wants to address males' issues. Just look at how much hate this subreddit or films like "The Red Pill" get due to things being taken out of context gross exaggerations (like a minuscule number of even mildly misogynistic comments th… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/19 04:01 PM |
| 36 | My university showing this pop up to every male student using a pc on campus.Why not also tell female students "did you know 43.6% of women admit to forcing people into sex?" whenever women logon? No, wait. That doesn't fit the "all men and men solely are responsible for rape" narrative | /r/MensRights | 22/01/19 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Any thoughts on this? It got locked.Sounds like they don't like their hypocrisy being pointed out to them. Clear signs of an intellectually dishonest person | /r/MensRights | 21/01/19 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Any thoughts on this? It got locked.The post and the comments are pretty much all (deliberately) missing the point. They just keep saying things like "it's just saying people should try not to be shit human beings! What's wrong with that??" When really it's not saying people should be decent. It's saying men specifically need to be taught to not be shit human beings. That's an entirely different message. If it were just about "people, stop being shitty and get better", then they would have shown men and women. Lord knows there's p… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/19 08:53 PM |
| 10 | It really scares me that 11k of people actually really stand by this. It kinda seems like a small beginning of the war on men...I wouldn't say it's either small nor a beginning There are too many areas where's males are disadvantaged, too many people who refuse to acknowledge this fact and cling to the myth of male privilege, and too many simply man-hating people who fight against males' rights just because they don't want things to get better for them People being against men's rights, attacking MRA's, being in denial about the issues is already a big problem. However, it's not the beginning of the problem as much as an… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/19 08:39 PM |
| 12 | What do you think the response would be if the genders were reversed?This particular author does seem to be a sexist cunt, because at the beginning it says In one form or another we've all encountered the seedy male stereotype who loves to deflower. Why is it seedy for men to do this, when the whole article is basically praising women who do? It's weird because on one had in general it seems that people expect women to be virgins and expect men to have experience (certainly men are more likely to be virgin-shamed than women). On the other, a man who specifically … | /r/MensRights | 21/01/19 08:28 PM |
| 42 | This is why feminists are hated by everyoneRemember this and the thousands of likes the next time a feminist claims that feminism is about equality and not about hating men, and that man-hating feminists are just a few insignificant people on the fringe with no influence | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 10:03 PM |
| 37 | This is why feminists are hated by everyoneIKR. I guess, at least he still has enough balls to make fun of her. I would have expected her husband to be cunt who follows everything she says. Maybe there's a chance he'll wake up one day and wonder what the fuck he's doing with that toxic bitch | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 09:59 PM |
| 22 | Drunk army woman sexual assaults male guard and gets let off with a reprimand simply because she is a womanHe didn't say he was "happy" about the decision at all. He said he was was very upset by it, but he was prepared to accept it because people told him that otherwise the case would follow him for the rest of his career Giving in because he knew nothing would come of pursuing it but farther punishment for himself is not at all the same as being happy about the outcome; it's choosing one "very upsetting" thing over something he believed to be more upsetting | /r/PussyPass | 20/01/19 07:13 PM |
| 6 | A punch for a slapShe hit him first, got what was coming to her, kept going after him a second time, got what was coming to her again. What will it take for her to learn to keep her damn hands to herself? I'm glad that he had enough self-respect to stand up for himself; it's always really sad to see boys just take it because they were brainwashed to "never hit a woman, no matter what". It's also nice that a throng of white knight didn't jump him at first. Hopefully it didn't happen after the video ended | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Just another example showing what feminists (or most of the women) want us to be: silent carriers, walking wallets, free security guards.Right, I think a man should just decide for himself what masculinity or a "real man" is. If a man wants to offer help, that's his prerogative. But a man who doesn't isn't less of a man. Of course a lot of women want to define "masculinity" by traits and stereotypes that benefit themselves (e.g. modern so-called chivalry) | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Male victim shares absolutely awful story of abuse and assault at the hands of girlfriend, and shows how men are told they aren't victims, but that they're abusers who use violence. This is why men don't reach out, or share, because they're told not to; not toxic masculinity.you can be both a victim and a perpetrator of abuse. Being an MRA does not equate being a perpetrator of abuse any more than being a feminist does | /r/MensRights | 18/01/19 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Male victim shares absolutely awful story of abuse and assault at the hands of girlfriend, and shows how men are told they aren't victims, but that they're abusers who use violence. This is why men don't reach out, or share, because they're told not to; not toxic masculinity.Yeah, the mods seem like the typical ignorant morons who are anti-MRA without having a clue what MRA's actually stand for or believe. At least they left the post up, though probably just because he made clear that he wasn't making a political statement It's annoying how there always have to be some "I'm not trying to attack women" disclaimers whenever a male victims tells his story, or else there will be people trying to shut him down | /r/MensRights | 18/01/19 09:25 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW Is WeirdI don't see why reproduction through artificial wombs is necessarily bad (if the children develop to be healthy). It would be the epitome of gender equality. Demonizing it as wrong or "bizarre" just because it's different than usual is an appeal to traditional fallacy. A couple of centuries ago, most of technology today would be considered "bizarre" Personally I don't understand "relationships" with sex robots because I don't see how one can have a "relationship" with inanimate objects. But if a… | /r/MensRights | 18/01/19 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Is a Serial-Killer Gang Murdering Young Men Across the U.S.? -- "Dozens of college-age men dead from 'accidental' drownings—but a team of retired detectives say the boys were drugged and killed by a shadowy gang with a sinister symbol."The motives for the murders range from gang initiation to hate crimes, Gannon said..."These kids are the best students. They’re the best athletes and they come from the best families...So why precisely do they hate them? Because maybe they're succeeding. Maybe it's the haves and the have-nots." If it were just about success and class, there's no reason there wouldn't be just as many female victims, too. There are plenty of smart, attractive female college students from wealthy families. Consider… | /r/MensRights | 18/01/19 08:55 PM |
| 18 | Schick's new home page! Go Schick!"being a man" is a spectrum, not a binary'. What does that mean? It sounds like it means there are diverse ways to me a man. A man can be someone who likes football and barbecuing, or someone who likes art and ballet, or anything in between. What's "gibberish" about it? | /r/MensRights | 18/01/19 05:30 PM |
| 35 | Just A Little More Context on the Riley Reid Rape Affair...So not just a rapist, but also perhaps a child rapist. I'm shocked. The fact that more than a year later she tells the same story makes it seem even more likely that she actually did it and wasn't just making a joke that one time And why wouldn't she brag about it? She knew there would be no consequences, either legally or socially. Because for the most part it's treated as either funny or erotic for a woman to rape a man or boy. And even when it is reported to the authorities, nothing comes of … | /r/MensRights | 17/01/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | "Sexual abuse of boys often overlooked by state laws, global study warns. In many cases, laws did not recognize boys as victims. Often it is bundled up into an issue of violence against women"Sexual violence laws is a serious and fairly widespread area of institutional sexism against males; the discrimination is literally written into the laws, and so many victims don't get justice because of it. This is partly the fault of categorizing rape as a type of "gendered violence" (AKA violence against women), therefore disregarding male victims by default. But part of it is social attitudes Even this article demonstrates this to some extent. E.g. Social stigma, macho stereotypes and homoph… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/19 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Buzzfeed Celeb thirst tweets videos are sexist.It's very typical of Buzzfeed and feminism in general to on one hand encourage women sexually objectifying men. And then in the next breath claim that women don't sexually objectify men, that it's a women issue, that only men feel sexually entitled and that women are socialized to hide their sexuality, etc. Either that or they'll just say "yeah, women do it. But it's just different!" Despite that they claim to be for equality and against treating people differently because of their sex. There's … | /r/MensRights | 17/01/19 08:46 AM |
| 4 | Male Child Sex Slave Rescued after 1 year - lured by Woman - Reverse the genders....National news.I didn't see anything about the woman being the one to lure him away in that particular article, but it is mentioned here. Evidently sexual predators can be either sex, but it's important to note this because people are generally far too trusting of women. Anytime a creepy pedophilic stranger is depicted in the media or PSA's, it's always a man, as if children don't have to worry about a woman luring them away | /r/MensRights | 16/01/19 04:07 AM |
| 176 | New "The Best Men Can Be" Gillette campaign gushes with hatred and contempt for men and boys. After 15 years as an MRA, it is the worst thing I have personally ever seen. I am without words.And to think that this is "pro-male" feminism. The people over at r/MensLib (a feminist subreddit supposedly for addressing men's issues) are of course in support of this advertisement The dislike number is nice; it means they probably lost at least 100,000 customers. Especially since there are so many razor brands that it's easy enough to switch to something else It it nice to see that so many people are getting tired of the whole "men need to take responsibility for sexual harassment, violence… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/19 01:55 AM |
| 30 | Banned from r/Menslib for a seemingly harmless post on the whole Gillette commercial.Of course. r/MensLib is exactly the target audience for something like that Gilette commercial. Just look at the current top post on the Gillette advertisement Both of them are these supposedly "pro-male" feminists whose version of "men's rights" is basically the idea that: no, not all men have to be bad. Some of them can be gynocentric feminists lapdogs instead! Apparently their idea of positive masculinity is a man who kisses women feet, unquestioningly believes every word they say, throws oth… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/19 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Brother (14) and older sister (16) have sex. Only the boy is arrested for committing incestIt says Malaysia | /r/PussyPass | 14/01/19 11:39 PM |
| 11 | Brother (14) and older sister (16) have sex. Only the boy is arrested for committing incestI can't find anything anywhere about the sister being charged, and if she were it would have been mentioned in the article or at least somewhere else online. It's pretty ridiculous how apparently the boy is the only one held accountable, considering she's the older sister. Unless he physically forced her, which there's no mentioning of, she as the one with more authority is more likely to have been the abuser It should have been both arrested, or neither, or just her. But of course instead it's … | /r/PussyPass | 14/01/19 11:37 PM |
| 43 | Brother (14) and older sister (16) have sex. Only the boy is arrested for committing incestI can't find anything anywhere about the sister being charged, and if she were it would have been mentioned in the article or at least somewhere else online. It's pretty ridiculous how apparently the boy is the only one held accountable, considering she's the older sister. Unless he physically forced her, which there's no mentioning of, she as the one with more authority is more likely to have been the abuser It should have been both arrested, or neither, or just her. But of course instead it's … | /r/MensRights | 14/01/19 11:37 PM |
| 122 | Pornstar thinks rape is funny and excusable...Maybe this is that "rape culture in pornography" that feminists are always talking about For real, it's pretty telling that a woman can openly laugh about a time that she literally raped a man and get virtually no backlash for it. It's so tolerated in society that even when one searches her name, nothing about it comes up Of course if it were a man confessing to having stuck his dick in some woman when she repeatedly told him no, it would have been a huge scandal | /r/MensRights | 14/01/19 01:50 PM |
| 8 | Pornstar thinks rape is funny and excusable...Theres absolutely no proof of anything ever happening thats illegal. Technically, a person confessing to committing a crime counts as legal evidence, so saying there's "absolutely no proof" of someone doing something illegal when someone admits to doing something illegal is kind of silly | /r/MensRights | 14/01/19 01:41 PM |
| 41 | Pornstar thinks rape is funny and excusable...I think you're right. If a guy were to try to assault me, if were to fight back and knock him out no one would give me shit about defending myself. Try hitting a woman who's assaulting you and see how well "but she was trying to rape me" holds up in court. Men aren't allowed to defend themselves against women the way they are against men Especially if she's trying to rape him compared with if she were trying to stab him or something. Because then people would be like "why would he be fighting a … | /r/MensRights | 14/01/19 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Pornstar thinks rape is funny and excusable...they are still jokes Except that she is not making a "rape joke"; she's talking about a real-life incident of rape. It's the difference between making dead baby jokes and literally murdering a child and laughing about it. She's not joking about some fictitious scenario of rape; she's laughing about an actual time that she raped someone | /r/MensRights | 14/01/19 01:22 PM |
| 9 | A woman grabbed my butt last night without my consentit’s making up for all of the times that men have done that to women By that logic, I can beat the crap out of or shoot any woman I want, and say it's making up for all the times that women have abused or murdered their sons It's bad enough that she did it without asking, but even worse that--instead of apologizing when she realized that you weren't okay with it like maybe she assumed you would be--she made up some BS to try to justify herself. Then again, even women just assuming guys would be … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/19 08:15 PM |
| 8 | The justice system will always favor women over menThat whole situation's really fucked. People like the say that female-on-male violence isn't a serious issue and that it's not dangerous--or not nearly as dangerous as male-on-female violence. But it's always seemed to be the opposite. Not only can women seriously injure men (especially with weapons, but even without), but male victims have no recourse: the police almost never side with them, there are no shelters or resources, and even self-defense can end up with him in jail The Criminal Jus… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/19 11:11 PM |
| 5 | REEEEEEEEProtest "violence against women" by basically sexually harassing everyone in the vicinity with indicent exposure / exhibitionism. These very same cunts would be throwing a fit if a make flashed his dick at them in public. Feminists' logic | /r/MensRights | 11/01/19 06:38 PM |
| 9 | Male country singers talk about how good they are to women, while female country singers talk about how terrible the men are.Exactly. Oftentimes a woman rejecting a man is seen as cute or empowering, whereas a man rejecting a woman is seen as arrogant Conversely, a man being pathetically devoted to a woman (even if she doesn't return the feelings) is seen as romantic, whereas a woman being pathetically devoted to a man is just seen as sad (especially if he doesn't return the feelings, in which case again he'll be perceived as an arrogant asshole) I think it's a reflection of gynocentrism: since women are perceived as … | /r/MensRights | 10/01/19 01:02 AM |
| 11 | Male country singers talk about how good they are to women, while female country singers talk about how terrible the men are.I don't think it's just country music. In general, there seem to be a lot more songs of women complaining about men, bashing men, boasting about some kind of violence or mistreatment towards men, etc. than vice versa Songs / music videos like "Before He Cheats", "Please Don't Leave Me", "Blank Space", "Ugly Heart", "Ex's and Oh's", and many others would either not exist or not be praised as cute, funny, empowering, etc. if the genders were reversed | /r/MensRights | 10/01/19 12:51 AM |
| 8 | The Orissa High Court has clarified that all women are exempt from paying court fees on the basis of their sexEven when they're the perpetrators of crimes, women are still being coddled as children or disabled people. I suppose that can be perceived as prejudice against women (likening them to children or disabled people. But also, it's not much of a "male privilege" to be punished more harshly simply because of being male. It certainly seems to be a case of institutionalized sexism that disadvantages men solely for their sex | /r/MensRights | 09/01/19 01:25 AM |
| 27 | Women who reject short men, fine. Man says he prefers younger women, outrage ensues.When a man has preferences (young women) and old hags get mad about it, "he's a misogynist" When a woman has preferences (tall men) and short men get mad about it, "he's an insecure, whiny virgin loser who wants to control women (therefore also a misogynist)" So as usual, the man is always the one blamed | /r/MensRights | 08/01/19 12:38 AM |
| 11 | I was banned from r/feminism for sharing an article revealing that men are discriminated against too. They then muted me from messaging them again.You should have expected nothing different. Feminism is gynocentric: it's goal is to give advantages to females in every area possible, whether or not they're worse of than males in those areas. It's not about equality. Even by definition it's the advocacy of women's rights, not the advocacy of the rights of whichever gender is disadvantaged in a particular area | /r/MensRights | 07/01/19 04:22 PM |
| 3 | PSA American Circumcision currently on Netflix, is a must watch.Too bad, but thanks for letting us know. Do you know where one can get the full message uncensored? | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 04:44 PM |
| 7 | Men and women are equal so...Good for him for standing up for his own rights. I hope he didn't end up with a criminal record for that. Hopefully since the video captured the whole thing, people will recognize that he was not the aggressor | /r/MensRights | 05/01/19 02:36 AM |
| 11 | Men are more disadvantaged than women in the UK, US and most of Europe, scientists claim | Metro NewsCurrent equality measures are generally biased to highlight women’s issues and thus are not really measures of gender equality...No existing measure of gender inequality fully captures the hardships that are disproportionately experienced by men and so they do not fully capture the extent to which any nation is promoting the well-being of all its citizens I think this should be obvious, but with "women's rights" and "feminism" so often being treated as synonymous with "human rights" and "gender … | /r/MensRights | 04/01/19 08:02 PM |
| 69 | Misandry has been extremely normalised these days.People dismiss things like this as just "jokes" and say "misandry isn't real". But all that's needed to prove that isn't true is to make some broad negative statement about females, and see the backlash and accusations of misogyny such a comment would receive | /r/MensRights | 04/01/19 07:23 PM |
| 28 | “Male Abortion” What do you think?It really shouldn't be as controversial of a topic as it is. Especially since the excuses made against it ("he should have kept it in his pants", "consider the best interest of the child", "he should have wrapped it up". etc.) are very similar to the excuses made against women getting abortion ("she should have kept her legs closed", "consider the best interest of the child", "she could have taken birth control", etc.) It's a matter of equality. If a woman can choose to opt out of parenthood a… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/19 07:21 PM |
| 13 | "Healthy relationship"? Swap the roles, would the man be considered "powerful" for "punishing" his wife this way? Would he live to tell the tale?And look how much hate Onion gets on the regular for his shenanigans | /r/MensRights | 03/01/19 12:48 PM |
| 4 | Ten times pop culture romanticised sexual harassment - BBC ThreeBesides that this article is all overly sensitive, Alt-J’s Breezeblocks definitely does not belong on this list. It's not supposed to be "romantic"; it's meant to be creepy. The upbeat melody deliberately contrasts with the disturbing lyrics (about a man obsessed with a woman) and the music video (about a woman obsessed with a man to the point where she kidnaps his wife, locks her away, then tries to kill him. Of course the author skips over the part about the abusive woman). Clearly this author… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/18 11:03 PM |
| 8 | Do any of you have mommy issues?I know that in general children tend to love their primary caregivers--usually their mothers--automatically, even if she's a selfish cunt who doesn't deserve it (which leads to a slew of other issues, such as society's tendency to overlook or give passes to bad mothers on the basis of their being mothers. But I won't get into all of that). But I'm not sure whether or not issues with mothers is more prevalent here than elsewhere So I am solely speaking for myself when I say that I did indeed ha… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/18 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you have mommy issues?I understand your premise is that men here probably don't usually have negative experiences with their mothers the way most feminists seem to have negative experiences with their fathers. But I think whether or not "mommy issues" are common here doesn't really change anything. In my bias opinion, someone having issues with his mother doesn't automatically mean that any claims he makes about males' issues are wrong or suspect It could just mean that because he doesn't have the mentality of "women… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/18 04:07 PM |
| 12 | Do any of you have mommy issues?Unfortunately, a lot of times this is true. An abusive mother can groom her child better than any other predator can groom a child, because a lot of times she's the first influence on the child's life; she spends the most time with him out of anyone; she can easily alienate him from anyone else (including his father, hence why parental alienation is such a widespread issue) so that she's the only person who he can rely on; and she can raise him to think that all of her abuse is completely normal… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/18 03:30 PM |
| 77 | Woman casually sexually assaults a man. If the roles were reversed, everyone would flip out.To think that the Georgia waitress who body slammed a man who touched her ass was getting praised as a hero, and yet even here so many people are opposed to the idea of a man hitting a woman back for straight-up sexually assaulting him. The double standards run deep If body slamming a man for grabbing a woman's ass is fair and just, there should have been no problem if a guy were to punch a woman in the face for grabbing his genitals. Women will continue to keep blatantly doing things like this … | /r/MensRights | 29/12/18 01:14 PM |
| 47 | Woman casually sexually assaults a man. If the roles were reversed, everyone would flip out.That's good to see. I hope it acknowledges both male and female abusers. Because I know that a lot of times when sexual abuse against men is discussed in the mainstream context, it's with the presumption that the abuser is male, and still doesn't do much against the stereotype that men can't be sexually abused by women | /r/MensRights | 29/12/18 01:00 PM |
| 8 | Woman casually sexually assaults a man. If the roles were reversed, everyone would flip out.Unprovoked violence isn't the answer. Considering she initiated the assault, any man would have been well within his rights to hit her | /r/MensRights | 29/12/18 12:57 PM |
| -7 | 9 Female Empowerment Quotes with Genders ReveresedGood thing you're acknowledging your sexism. I hope you work on changing it | /r/MensRights | 28/12/18 08:53 PM |
| 8 | 12 Years On - When Will America Wake Up To The Female Peadophile, Sex Offender or Rapist? "Delay in passing a Female Sexual Predator Act only continues to leave our children at risk from further female sexual predation."Right. I'm glad to see more men speaking up about this lately. Back when it happened to me, it's a topic that pretty much got zero serious attention The main thing that needs to change is the mentality of the general public, and from there the other changes (like the victims getting support; prosecutors and judges being more willing to punish these women justly) will follow. But of course, changing that mentality the hardest part Especially since aside from the stereotype being that it's a good … | /r/MensRights | 28/12/18 08:45 PM |
| 3 | /r/thebachelor calling a male contestant in high school "hot" or they are crushing hard on him or would "still bang"IKR? I don't get why some people make an issue about grown women perving after under aged kids. Like, so what there are online predators? /s And you're a moron if you can't see the problem, or the double standard | /r/MensRights | 28/12/18 08:29 PM |
| 4 | /r/thebachelor calling a male contestant in high school "hot" or they are crushing hard on him or would "still bang"Ironically, I was just watching a couple of YouTube videos about Danielle Cohn and Melody Oficial. Both of whom are underaged girls, but have mature bodies and regularly post deliberately sexualized pictures and videos of themselves Of course every YouTube video about them is basically just outrage towards the men who make comments about how attractive they are. Because evidently, men who are attracted to mature-looking girls are creepy predators who get shamed, and women who are attracted to ma… | /r/MensRights | 28/12/18 08:26 PM |
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