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| 1 | Walkaway Wife... How to find peace?Yeah. To us both. People keep saying that I should move to Texas or Florida or some other random state, California or whatever, for the next stage of my career. They keep telling me it's just a year. And then I mentioned how long it's been since wife and I have lived in the same place and they get real quiet. I asked them the last time they spent more than a few weeks apart. But it's not time for us to be bitter. It is time for me to shower and get ready to go into work tomorrow. Good night and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Walkaway Wife... How to find peace?Yeah go ahead and vent. I look at your situation and it doesn't look like mine. Mine is very difficult and very complicated because I work in a field where when or if one of my colleagues committed suicide, everyone else would be punished with more work. My wife lives somewhere else because if I brought her to where I'm stuck she'd be alone and miserable. I haven't lived with her in 7 years. I hate it but that's what you do in this kind of marriage. I can't believe the two of you stayed together… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Surviving the cost of divorce with two young kids. How did you do it guys?What's the point of having a kid for most men? You say that marriage is a waste of money and children are as well. Going through your advice sounds like two things. The first thing is to get 100% custody to get back at your ex while simultaneously spending as little money on them as possible. Similarly, if she gets custody, the man should give up all the responsibilities both emotional and financial. At that point, what's the point of wasting your time with children if they're a financial drain … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Alimony & Attorney Fee. Need adviceThat's good right? Denying financial information to the wife leads her in a bind so that the husband's control means he dictates how much money she gets. After all, coercion is what you're going for. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Walkaway Wife... How to find peace?No, that's not the real problem. Not helping out was a symptom of the real problem: working too much. It sounds like you unilaterally decided that you didn't want to put her into the situation of working more. Unless I misunderstanding, you never asked her straight out what she wanted and whether she'd be willing/ able to pick up more. You clearly resent her for not working as much but it sounds like you never gave her the option. It appears you decided what was best for her. Well, it turns out … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Walkaway Wife... How to find peace?When you had the conversation about asking her to work more so you could work less, or having you work less and accepting a change in living style so you'd work less, how did she respond? How much was she willing to trade with you for your happiness and the stability of your family? I mean this when you sat down and had a conscious and thoughtful conversation about work hours and not assumptions and backhand comments by both of you.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 11:38 PM |
| 1 | daughter prefers momHow does setting the bar and stuff work if the daughter ends up being gay? No, you can't blame being gay and divorced. It's a thing. A real thing. How does being that strong masculine presence and showing what a man should treat a woman like work when she won't be treated by a guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Walkaway Wife... How to find peace?Why didn't you do it before? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/24 10:11 AM |
| 0 | Am I the only one that finds it hard to trust women with my feelings ever again?I meant time on the video games. I'm not even finished with act 1 and I'm 31 hours into bg3. I'm an ex-wow raider and that could take me 20 hours a week at my top. You don't buy fishing equipment and then only go out intermittently with your children. You are understating how much time you spent on your own hobbies and left her alone with the kids. People are historically bad at recounting that. You will need to convince the judge that you will have time for 50/50 custody. How many hours will th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that finds it hard to trust women with my feelings ever again?You still haven't answered my question. Why did you not visit her once in the month she was away from you because of the death of her father? Her lawyer may argue that she is far from a flight risk because she has moved to be among family as opposed to with her husband who didn't care enough about her family to go to a funeral. You are a pilot. You fish. You play video games. That's a lot of time-consuming, expensive hobbies. How much time did you spend doing those while she was the primary care… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/24 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that finds it hard to trust women with my feelings ever again?In the united states, unless there is a custody agreement in place, it is not illegal to take your children to another state. You two are still married after all. you said she went to visit her family because her father died. How many times have you visited her and her family during the death of her father? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 03:42 AM |
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