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| 2 | Need suggestion. Going through separation. No kids.I know you still love her and want to fight for the marriage, but everything she’s doing points to someone who has already emotionally checked out. When a spouse moves out, refuses counseling, says separation improves their life, unfollows you on social media, and removes the marriage status, that’s not a pause — that’s a transition. And yes, you should be aware of a hard truth: when someone detaches this completely, there’s often another person in the picture. Not always, but often. Emotional r… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/26 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Need suggestion. Going through separation. No kids.Your wife hasn’t just “taken space” — she’s already emotionally exited the marriage. When someone moves out, refuses counseling, changes their social media status, and says separation makes them feel better, that’s not a temporary break. That’s a decision. You can want the marriage, but you can’t rebuild it alone. Her trauma, the past fights, and her career stress may all be real — but none of that changes the fact that she’s choosing distance over repair. If she won’t participate in counseling,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/26 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do I constantly imagine how great her life Is?Your mind keeps replaying a story that hurts you, when you know nothing about her life anymore. That’s a very human reflex when you’re lonely and still healing. A better move is to treat those thoughts like noise rather than truth and redirect your attention to something concrete in your own life. You don’t have to pretend you’re fine, but you do have to stop giving your imagination free rein to beat you up. Break the loop by adding structure to your days, reconnecting with people who actually e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/26 09:03 PM |
| 6 | Ex wife has a new boyfriend that has moved in with herSomeday remind your son that the new man can try to win them over win money. He can buy them cars, he can give him houses. He can play daddy. He can never be a real father. That spot and love is.taken for ever. He can never give them their genes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.If she won't ask for you back, why does.she keep calling? Just curious. Thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/25 11:54 AM |
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