Headhongular Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Seddit... What was the hardest decision you've had to make in your journey?	Headhongular	/r/seduction	03/12/13 08:08 AM
1	Working on my 100 sets, lots of boyfriends, need some big advice for signs on these.	Headhongular	/r/seduction	20/08/13 08:44 PM
1	Help with first date, picking a good date for kino	Headhongular	/r/seduction	30/08/13 08:56 AM
1	Bit my lip while trying to kiss her	Headhongular	/r/seduction	04/06/13 06:16 PM
1	[FR] Talked to a group of three girls, got out with the target's number. Now she tells me she has a bf?	Headhongular	/r/seduction	17/08/13 09:30 PM
1	Kissing signs, how too and how to know if it was enjoyed?(M/19)	Headhongular	/r/seduction	10/04/13 04:19 PM
0	She's getting back together with he ex	Headhongular	/r/seduction	15/05/13 08:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Italian man, 70, hires escort and finds it was son’s girlfriend Of cooourse it's the room mates fault. The girl had noooothing to do with it. In fact she toootally deserves a meme for herself. "Takes care of your lonely, emotionally destroyed dead beat room mate while you're at work and can't attend to him"	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/14 08:47 PM
1	AskHamsters goes into epic hamster mode and tries to rationalize why it is that female erotica centers around Red Pill men and rape fantasies. Highlights include "women like being ravished not raped" and "women have fantasies about consensual non-consensual sex but not rape." Subconscious hamster logic: "Would I make money off having his baby?" Yes = ravishment No = rape	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/14 08:39 PM
1	I am short, fat, ugly, and 19. Help me lose my virginity within the next 3 months. Get a job that constantly forces you to be social. Go to the gym. Browse MFA. Starting looking at people you see walking around and think of what you would say to them if you approached. It can't be simple, look for something that sets them apart from the person next to them. Eventually, if you do it enough, you can very easily pick an interesting and unique topic to bring up with anyone you meet. Observe, learn to not give a fuck, meditate, don't jerk it so much and realize that every negative …	/r/seduction	15/02/14 10:30 AM
1	Example of max level PUA. Worth the read. No seriously I can't stress this enough, fucking read it. What I've taken from reading through that is just, love people and love to approach and talk to people. Women are people, even the gorgeous ones. If you can have a love for life (internal game), a love for people (more of an external representation of your love), then you will be successful with women. Women want someone who has an abundance of love in their lives, not someone who wishes they had an abundance of love in their life and seeks this love from others. AA, all this other stuff isn't a…	/r/seduction	07/02/14 10:22 AM
2	How to pick up cute cashier girls? I'm a Barista, you don't get paid to smile, but your day sure goes a hell of a lot better if you do.	/r/seduction	14/01/14 07:17 AM
1	Had to write this for those who are struggling Thank you so much for this post man. My 2 month goal is to have all this stuff read and watched, but also to have more and higher quality women in my life.	/r/seduction	18/12/13 09:58 PM
1	Had to write this for those who are struggling I don't see what being your own hero has to do with the media...	/r/seduction	18/12/13 09:56 PM
29	ONEITIS: When Oneitis Is Just A Symptom Liked the article, absolutly hated the first line though. In fact all you do need is love, the love for yourself.	/r/seduction	15/12/13 04:01 PM
2	Seddit... What was the hardest decision you've had to make in your journey? Awesome, thank you. I'm in the midst of making a tough decision right now. Hearing some stories is really helpful.	/r/seduction	03/12/13 03:39 PM
1	Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no game Oh man... I occasionally throw those out there, but I'm never serious about it. I'm an attractive guy, but game is still something that takes a lot of practice. I am amazed that people would ever take that seriously. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, if you don't come off as confident about it, you aren't going to get very far.	/r/seduction	11/09/13 01:33 AM
1	Rebuilding Attraction I feel like it's possible, but only if both people have changed a significant amount over time. If the break up was in highschool or early college, then it's possible due to the amount that both people have likely changed. Pretty much if you are both very different people from the first time, yes, but this sounds like a cheesy love story, I would just go talk to one of the other millions of girls like her.	/r/seduction	01/09/13 04:29 PM
1	How can you tell the difference between a girl being a poor conversationalist and her being generally disinterested? If she isn't asking questions, she's not interested. If she asks shitty questions, she's doing her best and you should commend her for it. If she is a shitty conversationalist, you can make her better by praising the question slightly. If she gets at all excited about you saying something along the lines of, "that's a great question!" Then she's interested and is trying, but if she seems to not care, then she doesn't value you, so you shouldn't waste the time on her. If she's being cold and you …	/r/seduction	31/08/13 08:19 AM
3	F-closed, sex was disappointing, need advice Buy your parents a dinner and a one night stay at a hotel, worked for me in highschool... Did have to drop some money, but so worth it. Also they pretty much knew what was up, so they were glad to pay a little. Just make it a rally kind gesture that's masks the, "Please gtfo so I can sex in peace.	/r/seduction	31/08/13 08:04 AM
2	Friends throwing me off my game Ask one of them to wing for you, or try and wing for one of them. You will learn a ton. Have them challenge you and help you grow. You have friends who are good, ask them to teach you a little, they are naturals, but they can still tell you what you are doing wrong.	/r/seduction	30/08/13 04:05 PM
27	Why is it hard to talk to my guy friends? Growing up?	/r/seduction	21/08/13 05:32 AM
1	How do you approach a girl by her parents? You must be fun at parties	/r/seduction	19/08/13 02:11 AM
1	How do you approach a girl by her parents? When I was at that age range I always talked to the adults first. Adults and parents are the ultimate social proof, if you want to get in their daughters pants you have to be on good terms with her parents in this situation. Ask them about their ethnicity, this works well for me because it automatically engages the parents, grandparents and eventually daughter into the conversation. Once the family is obviously enjoying your presence single out the one who has been least responsive and talk to t…	/r/seduction	18/08/13 06:06 PM
2	A great response to "Why are you looking at me like that?" When holding eye contact. [Intermediate Mid-game] Just be better looking, duh	/r/seduction	17/08/13 03:27 PM
1	How do you get motivated to keep going when you've failed so much in the past? Well if you compare the average rate at which a person obtains social skills, via interactions with other people, is a lot higher than the rate at which you, the gamer, are gaining then you can say you are at a negative compared to other peoples social skills. Social skills are not starting at zero and then going up, it's not a linear scale, it's a multidimensional one like most things that have to do with humans. There is no defined ZERO or starting point for social skills, everything is determ…	/r/seduction	12/08/13 08:09 AM
2	How do you get motivated to keep going when you've failed so much in the past? The same way you get motivated to do anything, stop thinking about it and just do it. The results after a couple months will be reason enough to continue, but you have to work hard, give this shit your all and the results will happen.	/r/seduction	10/08/13 04:35 AM
3	How do you get motivated to keep going when you've failed so much in the past? It's too bad those references are the exact reason why I have had little success with women in the past >.<	/r/seduction	10/08/13 04:33 AM
2	Always leave a girl better than when you found her. Sometimes we forget that. ... I guess we have to spell it out sometimes. OP was in college, so was the Gf. OP is no longer in college, the Gf is. OP probably wasn't intending on keeping some sort of distance relationship going, so he decided being a graduated bachelor. Also, she may not be better off without him than she was with him, but she is still ending off better than she started. When you leave someone, their situation does get slightly worse, but it's better than where they started.	/r/seduction	02/08/13 06:07 PM
31	Do you always have to be the one setting up a date? While texting, can you put the responsibility on the girl? "I don't actively pursue spending time with people who don't actively pursue spending time with me." Thank you!	/r/seduction	19/07/13 05:14 AM
2	[FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-Close Oh, but I am. http://i.imgur.com/Ov7OY1Z.jpg	/r/seduction	08/07/13 08:58 AM
7	[FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-Close Or body acceptance subreddit xD	/r/seduction	08/07/13 08:51 AM
0	[FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-Close But I'm not ugly, it was just hypothetical.	/r/seduction	08/07/13 08:50 AM
3	[FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-Close what happens if you're ugly?	/r/seduction	08/07/13 05:10 AM
3	How to Hold Conversation Like a Man \| Nick Sparks I enjoyed it... He carries his same conversational skills he might use with women into this. Makes it personal, makes it interesting, makes it fun. Would you prefer to just get a summary? Then why not just go straight to the comments?	/r/seduction	30/06/13 06:26 AM
1	I am the prize. Seems all too common just before summer...	/r/seduction	18/06/13 06:09 PM
1	[FR] I (25M) #-closed a HB9 bartender (32F)...trying to get to day 2 I feel like this just proves how the game changes after 30.	/r/seduction	18/06/13 06:05 PM
4	A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders. Twist, she thinks the nail is you!	/r/seduction	14/06/13 03:01 PM
0	Why is it that men have to do all the changing? Why don't we see women trying to be act more like how men want? I honestly think they have to be, it's a natural filter that only the best guys can pick up on and get through. Once you get a girl into a healthy relationship that changes A LOT. It is rather evolutionary, girls are usually more emotional than guys, when thought is lead by emotion it doesn't make as much sense. However I think social expectations should not be ignored. This idea of social and biological differences between men and women could start a rather lengthy debate.	/r/seduction	04/06/13 05:27 AM
1	Why is it that men have to do all the changing? Why don't we see women trying to be act more like how men want? Apparently game changes a lot into your 30s, women start chasing more because they want to settle down. No experience, just what I've heard. Another thing... a lot of guys don't have to change, some of this stuff comes naturally to guys, but this thread helps those people who aren't naturals, but want to get better. One more thing! Look at the women guys tend to target in this thread. Most of the time they are high value targets based on, looks intelligence, etc. The goal is get get any guy to g…	/r/seduction	04/06/13 05:25 AM
1	She's getting back together with he ex I enjoyed that analogy, but semen aren't 20+ year old people. I just need to not give a fuck, but that takes time to learn.	/r/seduction	16/05/13 05:16 PM
1	She's getting back together with he ex Yeah, she sent it to me through a text, I'm ready to just drop it, but I feel bad because I have friends and sisters who have been through similar things, so I just gave her the advice I give everyone else. Whatever you do, move forward. I'll be fine, just hate knowing she might not be. Thanks though, you set up a great scenario for me to think about it.	/r/seduction	15/05/13 10:55 PM
1	She's getting back together with he ex I just really need to stop my attempts at saving people, they love to self destruct and I hate knowing it will happen. Already escalated like a mofo, but she and her previous bf were together for awhile so not really gonna work xD. Cutting off connection will be easy though, once I stop caring so much haha	/r/seduction	15/05/13 09:20 PM
1	She's getting back together with he ex agreed thanks	/r/seduction	15/05/13 09:14 PM
1	She's getting back together with he ex On what reasoning? I am prepared to, just like hearing your reasoning v. mine for moving on, perspectives for the future.	/r/seduction	15/05/13 09:04 PM
2	one more date, and then we're separated for the summer. what to do? Not on the mouth at the start, by all means kiss as much as you want on the date.	/r/seduction	09/05/13 08:33 PM
0	one more date, and then we're separated for the summer. what to do? Hug/kiss is totally cool. Cheek with a hug works great, if you aren't trying to bump this into a relationship (yet) don't escalate too much more. Leave an extremely positive impression, but not too much of a romantic one. Forget the flowers, maybe get her a cheap trinket to hold onto over summer at a souvenir shop while on the date. Flowers would be something I would bring on the return form summer date.	/r/seduction	09/05/13 07:31 PM
3	one more date, and then we're separated for the summer. what to do? 3 dates is not enough to start a long term relationship, keep it casual. I know it's hard to do, but it's for your sake and hers. Trying to drag someone into a relationship after 3 dates that will be strictly verbal and likely limit what you will be doing over summer with other females just doesn't seem necessary. Go on your 3rd date, but honestly I would aim for a daytime date that's going to include a lot of teasing, laughing and light hearted fun. Rushing things with this girl, especially if …	/r/seduction	09/05/13 07:06 AM
1	Does anyone else have game without having to talk a girls head off? Depends on the girl, but generally asking about her passions/hobbies/major work well for me with the college crowd. Get her to start yapping and just agree with her/make light jokes. Most of the right questions are somewhere in a TofuTofu post... Food can be a good topic, maybe ask her if she likes to dance, then ask her to dance :P everything i do at this stage is in the q/a or n a TofuTofu post.	/r/seduction	05/05/13 02:29 PM
1	okay, I kissed the girl. then what? Don't put it in your head that you have to have sex by the third date. It completely depends on the girl, I've had sex on the first date and I've had sex after 5+ dates, so stick with when you feel like it xD To answer your actual question, don't try and escalate too quickly, also you want to get her to say no, you want to have her pull your hands away, push the comfort zone. Kiss her and start feeling her lower back/legs area, sometimes I even go with both hands to these areas. Then keep escala…	/r/seduction	05/05/13 02:19 PM
1	Does anyone else have game without having to talk a girls head off? I let them do the talking, I just ask the right questions. At first you need to be direct and lure them in, also the time you should make your intentions known, then they just end up talking the whole time and I just crack jokes. Usually works out pretty well.	/r/seduction	04/05/13 07:41 PM
-1	FR: "Aren't you going to say hi?" I questioned him. He obviously asked some of his hot friends to go with him to the bar to boost his value. The combination of this and not being bad looking he seduced the op before he even did a thing, a true master XD	/r/seduction	11/04/13 12:43 AM
2	[FR] Concert, k-close /only/ I like the "need a new one" part, simple yet apparently effective. Props for going off on your own	/r/seduction	01/10/12 05:34 AM
1	Am I the only one that just FALLS FLAT when it comes to women that i genuinely like? Whenever I find a girl i genuinely like I screw it up by trying not to screw it up... Over think everything, keep assuming she doesn't like me, then I get nervous... Budapest makes a good point though	/r/seduction	01/10/12 04:50 AM