Headstaffmember Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Sex Circus		Headstaffmember	/r/seduction	26/10/12 04:33 AM
2	Healthy motivation		Headstaffmember	/r/seduction	27/10/12 05:31 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Sex Circus Oh and I took all your advice with goal setting. Turns out that my goals with women flow a lot easier when I resolve my goals around myself and my own progress, and I studied Eben Pagan's (David DeAngelo) Leading You, Me & We	/r/seduction	02/11/12 04:57 AM
1	Sex Circus Never mind, I've sorted it out. Basically they are more open when I say "How about we all just give each other some space", because I have other options and now it's a matter of me testing the waters	/r/seduction	02/11/12 04:55 AM
1	Sex Circus The goal would be to get a continuous response to my open sexuality but to also establish a structured relationship based on it. Two Buddhist girlfriends	/r/seduction	29/10/12 07:56 AM
2	Loved by everyone in a group setting, absolutely ignored afterwards... What am I doing wrong? It's because you aren't setting the frame and are just entertaining a frame that others already have. There's no way through this except set your own frames I see the dancing monkey and the idea of giving value change into other things all the time Experiment with different social contexts and master the art of change. Some questions can't be answered, only experienced I wouldn't be too let down by this experience if you learn something from it	/r/seduction	29/10/12 04:55 AM
3	Being Comfortable with Silence [Discussion] Silence will become a shit test if you take advantage of it too much	/r/seduction	29/10/12 02:31 AM
1	"...But I'll try." People have said the same thing about affirmations, that the mind can't help but label them as paradox because normal thinking is based on a particular level of agreement with presentation that we always fall back on, but I tried anyway. I would go beyond that and say that people like to address their particular class no matter where that class stands "But I'll try" is something that I couldn't agree with more, but could we try changing it to something like "Here's my view"?	/r/seduction	28/10/12 01:31 AM
2	I'm social, funny, confident, friends with LOTS of people who all like me. Why do I not get invited to things? I was in a band as a teenager, made heaps of friends through being in that band, then kept those friends after our band broke up, then eventually they didn't invite me to things. I had to invite myself and I had no problem with that, because the girls were still excited to see me. I had a combined birthday party with another guy, everyone called it his birthday party, but I was the one who got a lap dance. As time went on I learnt how to pick out individuals in the groups who I had common intere…	/r/seduction	28/10/12 12:38 AM
2	26 years old, never had a girlfriend, never been out, never approached, need some help/motivation Dude, it's just your mindset. I think this is a good opportunity to say that people have potential to say the right things as a result of what they hold in mind. Sharing is caring	/r/seduction	27/10/12 05:06 AM
1	Sex Circus I agree. I have done a complete study of Buddhism and actually want to maintain that state of reality. The shit they've said to me sexually is too private to share, but one of them I haven't done the deed with because she has a guy who she sees regularly who's more than an FWB. I like rethinking without thinking back, if that makes sense	/r/seduction	26/10/12 11:29 PM
1	What are some good 'canned' openers? That's gold I might try that one	/r/seduction	26/10/12 11:14 PM
1	What are some good 'canned' openers? I tried an experiment with using Style's openers and negs just so that the chick would tell me how to do it differently, now I end up just saying things like "Where did all my peeps go?" ("Uhhh, why are you asking me?". "Good question. How are you?") or "How did you know I was gonna walk up to you saying 'this now'?" ("I didn't". "What do you do now?"...). Things that if they don't work you can get good at not giving a shit and moving on, but I've found that later on in conversation I can talk t…	/r/seduction	26/10/12 10:55 PM
1	I can't find the desire to speak to most girls I see when out I went through the same situation as you and eventually they started talking to me instead	/r/seduction	26/10/12 10:29 PM
1	Sex Circus Any one liners for presenting this? I know two chicks who are Buddhist, which is the religion I'm into and they don't know each other and I have tried presenting it to each of them. One laughed and the other one was blank. Is this a good sign if both of them have been EXTREMELY open to sex with me individually? I used to be completely open about my sexuality before I would get FWBs, but I want something more structured	/r/seduction	26/10/12 09:31 PM
1	[Inner Game] If you want confidence, you need to accept yourself as-is right here and right now. It doesn't seem like it, but it's how you move forward. Maybe it's just that people who agree with this are their own teacher. IMO people never really know what's around the corner, so for me it's also about going through different stages and processes. I have found in my own experience that if you write your OWN guidelines they're a lot easier to follow and you can be more flexible with what you do about it. Writing my own book on my own self-improvement was a huge learning curve for me, and I did end up writing that I already had the power, and med…	/r/seduction	26/10/12 05:48 AM
1	Anyone have any tips or tricks for initiating kino immediately after meeting someone new? Once I'm locked in I say that I'm not taking it to the next step of getting her number until she impresses me, then I go off and talk to other people, then when I sit back down by her I slap my hand on my knee. Works pretty much every time. I have found also that if you sit leaning right back with your legs together and stretched out that if you motion a come hither and say "don't worry about it" that she either laughs, moves in closer, or says "what do you mean?", to which again you say "don't …	/r/seduction	26/10/12 04:19 AM
1	Social Proof can turn you into a God. Here's an interesting story. I made friends with the female bartender at one of my regular bars because I was already friends with the male bartender. She now introduces me to all the guys she knows who are regulars, and those guys ask me if I want to come to other bars with them, then I pick up chicks when I'm hanging out with the other guys just by taking them to another bar that I play music at. I live in a very small town so I look for as much social variety as possible just to keep myself e…	/r/seduction	26/10/12 04:09 AM