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| 1 | I'm still not over itYou’re allowed to still be hurting, your feelings are valid, even if it’s been a while. I hear how much you miss her. It is not easy to face the truth recently that dating was more about avoiding loneliness than building love- and it takes strength to decide to take a step back and do the inner work. It sounds like you have desire for relationship in the future but your heart isn’t ready. Having said that, I believe you can work through grief and loss of ex and still move forward. You mentioned … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/25 05:53 PM |
| 7 | I am starting to lose hopeI hear the hopelessness, and frustration that you are feeling with separation. It sounds like you are trying to move through the grief but it’s weighing you down. I hear that you are beating yourself from not moving fast enough to be healed- as you mentioned you are doing everything to heal. I don’t doubt that you are trying everything. It sounds like you have used work as places of distraction and most recently, getting into MS program. Sometimes nothing can fill that emptiness and pain of losi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Still hurts, wth?Your welcome. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Looks like im joining the club I never wanted to be a part of…im heartbroken and not sure I’ll ever trust another woman again.It sounds like you are experiencing a lot of confusion on whether she had physically intimate with another person. You mentioned that you will be meeting with her again to talk, I hope you get the clarity that you need. It sounds like trusting your gut too would be important. I hear how much energy and effort you put into your marriage- the two of you were even going to couple’s therapy. You were trying to keep it together and keep family going – with paying bills, maintaining household and givi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 10:03 AM |
| 4 | Feeling lonely and heartbrokenIt’s devastating to have a 20 year relationship end. I hear how painful, and lost you feel. It sounds like you have lost a part of yourself and the loss of the hopes of future of your family together. You mentioned going through final stages of divorce and changing household are huge changes and adjustment to this new normal. It’s understandable you are feeling lost- you are the in between of your old life (grieving) and trying to create this new life. The in between phase feels unstable, feels … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 08:34 AM |
| 7 | Still hurts, wth?It is okay to acknowledge that you are hurt by your ex being in a serious relationship. Be kind to yourself and validate that is real for you. The relationship dynamics have changed and it makes it real that she has officially moved on. Whatever hope or possibility for a future or reconciliation is closed. As much as you mentioned you don’t love or even like your ex, you might still be attached to them. Often it is hidden or subtle- you might not realize that you are still attached to her in som… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 07:49 AM |
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