Healingpickme Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Part 2. I blocked him, but he used someone else's phone to have the last word. Like I was going to let him 😘 Getting attention from men is not a badge of honor, most of them are not worth a penny.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 11:29 PM
3	had a bad coffee date, i’m glad his red flags were obvious That’s a big age gap, I would advice you date people your age, and even then you still want to vet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/22 02:11 AM
26	The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling. Your story is exactly mine. Developed pickme tendencies as a result of low self esteem and abandonment by my LV father. Had like terribly disgusting age gap relationships that were terribly abusive. I am trying to learn to forgive myself and hoping I can be like you someday. You are an inspiration.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 01:08 PM
3	Happy New year lasses, and REMEMBER Yes, told a guy who was 69 and used to pester me at 18 this. I had severe unchecked mental issues when I met him and was a 🤡 for even engaging with him. He didn’t want to get divorced cause it would ‘cause him to lose everything’ even though I was the person he loved most in the whole world. I wouldn’t have gotten with him anyway once I got the help I needed, but I always thought about how selfish and disgusting he was. Years later, the fossil aged scrote had the audacity to message me cause his…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 02:56 PM
40	I am responsible for allowing scrotes in my life Yes, I reached this point too. While my abusers were wrong and evil. I allowed them to do what they did and they couldn’t have done it without my permission. I also made excuses and ignored blatant red flags. In the words of Bryson Tiller ( He only fucked you over cause you let him) I am working on knowing what I want and don’t want and setting boundaries( not compromising on them ever) My experiences led me to understand the importance of protecting my peace. No man or person is worth more than…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/21 12:45 PM
9	My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior. That’s disgusting. A 70 year old man who wanted to be my mentor at 18 emotionally abused me, still recovering. Those men are disgusting pedos. Report his ass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/21 02:41 AM
18	A refusal to engage: How I came to terms with the reality of porn Yes, sexual discipline is extremely important. Men that have no sexual discipline are a very bad investment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/21 12:16 AM
39	Did you ever get this gut feeling? I had the gut feeling when I first saw the guy that will become my abuser. His face looked evil. His face was expressionless. I felt uneasy but ignored my intuition. Now, I am in therapy. Ladies, listen to your intuition.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 04:35 PM
10	Some LV men get a high just by flirting with women outside of their marriage Yeah, I know a 68 year old scrote who flirts with young women, including underage girls. His wife is a pickme so she does not care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/21 10:02 PM
92	How To Know Better That The Older Guy Isn't A Friend, He's Preying On You Girl please listen to this. As a depressed 19 year old student I fell into the lies of a 70 year old man who claimed to want to be ‘mentor’ and ‘friend’. I was incredibly naive and till this day am trying to fix the broken pieces. Do not give any man the benefit of the doubt. Protect yourself. Men do not care about you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 08:53 PM