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I'm a PhD anthropologist also trained in human evolutionary biology. The one thing all humans crave is meaning and identity and connection. There have always been many people never married or having children. The red pill basic underlay ng ideas about human nature have been dismissed and fully proven wrong since 1890. It's a mythos nott n any way a real theory about anything.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 10:39 PM
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Have you considered feeding your mind healthier food. Read some feminist classics, read the direct refutations of these arguments. I have a PhD and I'm telling you, these arguments have huge logic flaws.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/26 11:15 PM
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Takes about three years to calm down...
/r/ExRedPill21/11/25 05:12 AM
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This seems like a fair summary of young men's sense of grievance. It's all sort of true in a general way, but in real life people actually just hook up with whoever is in their social circles. It's the lack of social connections that are isolating men, not market value competition in a universal open market. Though in an online dating app, yes market logic likely applies, but again, not always and not if you fit into niche categories.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 09:24 PM
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I'd suspect part of you believes whatever arguments about why women are inferior that first hooked you in. It's well known that facts do not dislodge cult like ideological beliefs. Look at the qanon family threads.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/25 07:30 PM
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I'm an actual PhD social scientist. This stat is from one online platforms stats about swiping. Dating apps are designed to initiate market logic by making dating like online shopping. Nothing about that reflects how real people socialize. One, most women do not have access to thousands of men, and most don't like online dating, they primarily date inside their circle of social connections, also true for men. The secret to lots of dates is a wide, robust social circle.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/25 12:20 AM
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I hear these stories and I just don't understand how these mens real life experiences are not more powerful than a media based ideology. I guess I can understand teenage virgins being swayed by it but not men with extensive life experience. You must have been the person in his life he was most close to and his best friend. Certainly it will be his loss. He will not find anyone who will fulfill his red pill fantasies and will only become increasingly lonely and bitter.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 12:41 AM
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I can see why like teenage boys would see it like that and there's some truth in it but it's an indirect cause. The hottest most popular girls date/ sex the biggest jerks... Because these boys are popular... With other boys... And yes lame human nature is to be attracted to status and power and the access to power a jerk guy can offer. Also may be true for women who seek high status men when older too. But they are not attracted to abuse they are attracted to access to power. And power comes fro…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/25 10:15 PM
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As an older woman who's been in abusive relationships, I'm telling you that you have no idea what these dynamics are like. My preference has always been leftist, sensitive, artistic men. Even with that preference, I've been shoved, smacked, stalked, bullied, sexually assaulted within relationships. These guys presented as nice and the women can't tell the difference until they are committed to them. I'm so sad and so tired of this internet brain rot so many young men seem to imbibe. And FYI, abu…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/25 03:40 AM
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Aw you used his own nonsense against him and confused the hell out of him. Nice!
/r/ExRedPill17/07/24 05:59 PM
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The origin story for so many of these men getting into redpill is they were cheated on or otherwise hurt and betrayed by a woman they were vulnerable with. That's called ..life. That has happened to almost everybody at one time or another. Rather than taking it as part of life, they take it as a narcissistic injury that requires revenge. This is an important sign of emotional immaturity, entitlement, and possible abusiveness no matter how sweet he is when he's happy.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/24 12:11 AM
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I have a PhD in anthropology, which studies human evolutionary biology. Calling a social and cultural phenomenon like dating ' natural selection' is intellectually nonsense, it's a fable or a myth like an origin story, and it is not in good intellectual company. It's the same pseudo objective rationality that goes into white supremacy thinking. It's just pure garbage. Difficulty dating is best subsumed under ' loneliness epidemic', the decline of public life, extended family, community social ne…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 05:51 PM
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Heartbreak gets treated like nothing, but it really is trauma in many cases. This is especially true if the person was lonely and depressed to start with then got relief and was happy for once. It's usually worst when you are young but it's still awful even if you're fifty. The first one is the worst. It might be true that it was less important to her than to you, and that is a real burn. And if you have attachment trauma in childhood, often triggers suicidal ideation. I don't think walking up t…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 02:08 AM
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I feel like so many young men take their heartbreak or their difficulty getting a girlfriend at all as a commentary about how they rank among other men. Women do not think of it that way. Women generally see a relationship as only about the dynamics between those two people. A real emotional focus on male hierarchy is typical for men, not women. But feeling lowly and unworthy is a mental health sign, and I'm sure it's roots go back to childhood.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 01:50 AM
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I have a background in sociology and I'd say the simple answer is size of social network. It's the same as looking for a good job. It's not who you are, it's who you know. The most common new connection is ' friend of a friend'. It's rarely about your individual qualities. How do ya think all the dumb ugly people get hooked up.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 06:01 PM
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Well you sound real sad and bitter. But actually most people are not on the invite list to the free sex party, so you have little reason to bitter about that. I'll say I do not understand why some guys get like that, I think they are under the misapprehension from the media that cheap sex is easy to find.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/24 01:26 AM
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Well people don't ever tell you that kind of thing. Also lots of it is not a plan or rational decision, women have all kinds of various psychological problems just like men do. They may be feeling self destructive, their father might be that kind of guy, who knows. But if your concern is not being socially connected/ hot looking and therefore not getting free cheap sex, well the majority of people, yeah more men than women, are in the same boat. Most people only date a few people ever and only h…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 02:45 AM
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I'm not super socially skillful, well I'm pretty old and had time to learn, but yeah with social experience it looks like common sense. I suspect a lot of guys just have little social skill and experience in general, and getting thrown in with girls who have lots of social skill and resources is like swimming with the sharks for them.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 12:35 AM
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Have you taken a good long look at married people? How hot are they? Come on.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 10:13 PM
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That part is common sense. The rest is some weird mythos about the depraved nature of that mysterious monster, hive mind allwomen. People are nice. People are mean. Human life is complicated.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 10:11 PM
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I think there's a fundamentally mistaken idea many young guys have that getting a girlfriend is like working hard to get into college or like putting effort in at a job. And if they make effort to be a good citizen, then they should be rewarded with like a distribution of females. And they are lumping cheap sex, love, and marriage into one big ball of female attention that they think one secret can unlock.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 02:47 PM
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Ok but the whole issue is, you do not study some category of people and try to figure out what they want then confirm your personality to it. Think how cringe it would be if women did that. What if they pretended to like sports or pretended to be your friend or nervously asked you if they were attractive. That would sound like she's setting herself up for shame and rejection.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 02:42 PM
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Well the entire manosphere seems devoted to the idea that women are mysterious and fundamentally different from men, requiring special theories and ' 'harsh truth' pills not available to the masses to understand. So the idea they are people just like men seems worth repeating.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 02:49 AM
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Sure. But what it seems like redpill guys don't understand is that most actual relationships are because they like each other in the same way anybody likes anybody, like friends like each other. There's no special trick or secret. Women are just people.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 01:35 AM
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What women like and want in a man and who they are willing to have non committed sex with are two totally different subjects. Just like it can be with men. In terms of a hook up, looks is enough.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 01:04 AM
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Well old objectively very ugly married people have sex, so it's not really required that you look at them and think they look exciting. Its the sensation of touching someone more than looking at them. And ya know what, here's a very old saying. All cats are black in the dark.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 04:28 PM
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/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 06:08 AM
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Orange County was brutal. Extremely sexist and racist.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 06:08 AM
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I'm (F 53) thinking of my own high school days and frat party experiences. The most aggressive guys were high status over other guys and therefore high status in general. In 1985 in my high school, jocks rules the school, cat calling, ass grabbing, and intimidating the teachers. Openly sexually harassing younger female teachers. And yes, they hooked up more than low status guys. I don't see this in adult dating per se. I agree incels are obsessed with other men.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 01:14 AM
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I ( F) have to say these red pillers are observing a real social pattern in high school and college age hook- up culture: real assholes are popular, and by being popular and connected to other socially desirable resources, they do hook up more. I think we forget these are mostly very young men whose main reference is high school. Here's the twist. High status boys get high status primarily by dominating other boys and having attributes like athleticism or humor that are important in male hierarc…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 10:17 PM
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I'm always fascinated by these guys because it's like they are fundamentally missing something. Maybe it's that girls and women are just human and human relationships are hard. But...something else. I think most friend and work connections come from in your network. Somebody who knows somebody. I think they lack the basic social understanding that relationships usually come from other relationships, it's not one guy and one girl. Their lack of social understanding is reflected in their interest …
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 05:34 AM
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Well if I really wanted to know why men don't date me, I'd think men would have the most insight. Of course I'd want to hear about personality and inner values but I'd probably hear stuff I hated like act timid and get a push up bra. Point being, unpleasant advice from the gender I'm trying to date would seem most accurate. To extend the comparison, if I said, I don't want any man who mainly judges me by my boobs, I want a man who values personality, they'd mock me and say then go be lonely or d…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 03:21 AM
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I'm a PhD anthropologist who works with historical and cross cultural comparative data about gender and sexuality. What kind of pseudo science crap have these boys all got themselves into?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 08:35 PM
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There's a fundamentally wrong idea here that a woman is a prize for being good. Are your friends a prize for being good? No. Its a relationship. Because you like each other.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 09:35 PM
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I'm speaking here as a woman with autism who was very attractive looking in her youth: it's social skills. I could attract them, but my awkward social skills and lack of gamesmanship made for constant problems both in female friendship and in dating men. I see many men who may be nice but lack the ability to navigate the greater social awareness and relationship skills most women have.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 07:50 PM
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It's sounds like some kind of capitalist market metaphor wrongly applied to human relationships.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 12:59 AM
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I think he wants a real answer. It's because the idea derives from a sense of ownership of women, possession of her body, ideas, desires, choices, that was legally a reality for men within generational memory. Also, and related, the idea that a man who has sex with a woman is owning, taking, or violating her in a way that decreases her slavelike exchange value for other men. I would personally consider this sentiment a red flag and would not date a man expressing this attitude, because I would a…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:34 PM
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I never heard anything like this and I'm an adult woman with fifteen years of dating behind me. Ah well not that kind of dating, I mean where you know someone from your other friends and hang out and then get in a relationship. There's 'marriage market' dating it's true which can be gross, but lots of people are not into that scene at all. But main thing-- kid the world is full of assholes, and half the world is female.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 11:12 PM
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Yeah. This is trauma.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 07:35 PM
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Yeah. That last painful relationship was mommy.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 05:17 AM
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