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Hey now, don’t knock attendees your grandparent’s age. Attendees your grandparent’s age often have grandsons. Grandsons who are single, who they would love to set up with that lovely young woman they met at church
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/24 02:09 AM
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Go to church, even if it’s all just older people. Make sure to casually mention being single Many of those old folks will have grandsons who are single, and would jump at the chance to set him up with that lovely young woman they’ve gotten to know at church
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 06:22 AM
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Go to church, even if it’s only older people Every last one of them will have single sons or grandsons who they’d love to set you up with
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 02:15 AM
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I hear you, but as the avoidant one in our relationship I still thought it was an insightful read
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 05:28 AM
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You have an anxious-avoidant dynamic, you’re anxious and he’s avoidant My wife and I are the same To start with, get and read this book pronto: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment Trust me when I say, there’s a ton going on underneath the hood, and the two of you have no idea any of this exists That’s how it was for my wife and I Shedding light on those under-the-hood processes will put you light-years ahead on this
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 06:00 PM
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Around normal men, that’s great strategy Around engineering students, they’ll often be so scared of being the guy who mistakes friendliness for flirting that they’ll write off any and all flirting as just her being friendly Except for the ones who she really wants to avoid, who will do the opposite I say, having been in their shoes 15 years ago
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 05:48 AM
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A blind date Our parents were coworkers back in the day. They met up again one day, and discovered that their kids were in the same city on the other side of the country We met up at their urging, continued meeting up, and the rest as they say is history
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 07:03 AM
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Churches are kind of a good news, bad news situation Bad news: a lot of churches are predominantly older people Good news: a lot of those older people have sons or grandsons who are single, and they wish would find a girl
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 10:17 PM
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A lot of men get nothing in their 20ies other than hostility and rejection, so in their 30ies they likely have a huge chip on their shoulder and gave up. Or they discover younger women will date them now, and due to that shoulder chip they feel no obligation to date women their own age
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/22 06:21 PM
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100%. I’ve been around awhile, I was on TRP starting in 2013 when I was in my mid-20s 1 has always been true 2 has definitely held true for me, as I’ve entered my 30s and got married 3 has been my observation too. It got a lot worse after The_Donald got shut down and a lot of guys looked for alternatives on Reddit
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 02:38 PM
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You and your boyfriend have a negative cycle, as you described in the title My wife and I have a similar cycle, where I get triggered by her emotions and display a freeze response, and this triggers her anxiety, she gets triggered, I get triggered by her triggered-ness and freeze even more, she gets more triggered, I get more triggered. You get the idea. We're working on that Step 1 is for both of us to recognize when we're in that cycle, stop, breathe, and try to figure out a way out. Triggers …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 09:27 PM
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To add to what /u/santarosa2020 said, don't discount volunteer work or other venues that mostly have older women. Those older women frequently have sons who are single, who they wish would find a girl, and may be eager to set you two up. Which is roughly how my spouse and I met.
/r/RedPillWives05/01/22 11:26 PM
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I've been here since 2013. And while it has been a pleasure, this isn't the end. Hundreds of thousands of young men have been red-pilled here, in the last 6 years. As a result, these young men have stopped flailing aimlessly, stopped serving the feminine imperative, focused on themselves, and begun building themselves. Their businesses, their brands, their bodies, everything. In the coming decades, men whose eyes were opened here will rise. They will be generals, senators, CEOs, presidents. In 3…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 01:35 AM
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I've been here since early on (was one of original 5000 subscribers, on my previous account) In the early days, there was still a lot of "discovery" happening w/ respect to TRP theory. It was possible to have an experience and write a FR/rant about it, and have it be "new". Made for interesting discussions, back in the day. An honest FR or rant can still be useful for the writer, in terms of getting blunt feedback, and for new guys. But as you've noticed, numerous pages of TRP are clogged with b…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 09:29 PM
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I'm still discovering what it means to be a man Doesn't matter. Just do your best, and he will be light-years ahead of where he would've been. He's a kid. You don't have to tell him anything, yet. Just be there. History is made by those who show up
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:09 AM
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Only if the wind is in your favor when you use it, which isn't something you can control. If it's not, you'll end up macing yourself.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 02:41 AM
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What /u/wantonton said. Sometimes you have to slap guys upside the head a little, to get them to come to their senses. Fundamentally, I can't tell someone how to stop being a loser...I can point them in the right direction (the sidebar), but I can't solve their problems and give them a set of steps on how to "become alpha". First thing an EC has to do is get people's head on straight. And digging through your comment history a bit, I would have to agree with them. Until you can get your head on …
/r/askTRP17/12/17 10:37 PM
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Not an EC, but I've been on TRP since 2013. and are more interested in calling people retards, or losers, or blue pill cucks, rather than actually helping them. Blunt truth: for most of those lost boys, that's exactly what they need to hear. It's what they are, and it shows when they try to argue with the advice ECs give them. It was exactly what I needed to hear, once upon a time. The first step in solving a problem is admitting you have one. If you're a pathetic loser looking for help, your fi…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 09:54 PM
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Especially if he's made those same mistakes in the not-to-distant past
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:19 AM
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DON'T post relationship advice unless you are a master! I definitely get the idea, and agree with it, but: there's this thing called the Dunning-Kruger effect In the field of psychology, the Dunning–Kruger effect is a cognitive bias wherein persons of low ability suffer from illusory superiority, mistakenly assessing their cognitive ability as greater than it is. The corollary to the Dunning–Kruger effect indicates that persons of high ability tend to underestimate their relative competence, and…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:07 AM
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Several reasons, among others Historically, alpha genes didn't necessarily mean surviving and reproducing. A skinnyfat beta who had high disease resistance would beat out an alpha who didn't, for example. You get half your genes from your mother. All else being equal, many of the genes which make a woman more attractive will make a man less so, and vice versa. Height, face structure, testosterone level, and so on. If your mom fucks an alpha but you got her genes in the wrong places, you'd still …
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:10 PM
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Three basic reasons, I think. We're mostly male. Men lean right compared to women, regardless of TRP affiliation. Among other things, we focus on undoing the evils brought about by modern feminism. While "anti-feminist" =/= "conservative" in the strictest sense, you're not going to see a lot of anti-feminist liberals. Some of the concepts on the sidebar, Donald Trump exemplifies. I could write a thesis about holding frame, with respect to Trump and the 2016 campaign.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 05:05 AM
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I wrote this several years ago on my old account. You might find it helpful.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 08:14 PM
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+1 for Toastmasters. Made a massive difference for me. They also have ways for letting you take baby steps, which OP might find beneficial
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 04:13 AM
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Dalrock is on the TRP sidebar, and always worth reading. Advice to a woman in her 30s looking to marry.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 03:45 AM
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No answers beyond what others have posted...that said, is that your GF posting over in RPW as alice_of_underland94? Your stories sound similar
/r/askTRP09/01/17 01:56 PM
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Have you asked your SO what he thinks?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 12:55 AM
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I haven't tried it but I heard there's an app that is like an alarm but it only wakes you up when you're in light sleep, so that it's not so groggy and a drag when your alarm goes off. Sleep as Android, if you're an Android user. It uses the accelerometer to measure when you're moving around, which is an indication of light sleep. It will also record your light and deep sleep cycles
/r/askTRP21/10/16 12:49 AM
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but make up with it for caffeine Your wording makes it look like you're doing that right now. Trust me, that is not a viable strategy. I've been there. You will constantly struggle to drum up the willpower to get anything useful done. Your caffeine inhalation will make it difficult to get to sleep at a reasonable hour, perpetuating a vicious cycle. I'm planning to move my workouts from morning to night so I can sleep in 2 more hours and be better rested for my days Now you're getting somewhere, …
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:10 PM
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Do you get enough sleep? If not, start dropping priorities until you do. Once you're getting actual rest, everything else becomes a hell of a lot easier.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 08:50 PM
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To add, since I didn't really give any advice yesterday. Yes, you should absolutely focus on changing who you are. You've come to the right place for it. Don't lie, don't hide it. At the same time, you don't necessarily need to tell him right away Start by making his life better. RPW has 1001 tips on how this can be accomplished. Cook for him. Do his laundry. Blowjobs, frequently. Always tell the truth. You get the idea. When he finds out (and he will, eventually), he'll have a tradeoff to make.…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 08:32 PM
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If a high-value man hears a tattooed woman say that "the past doesn't matter" and "a large partner count is not that bad", he will immediately assume several things: She's a gigantic whore Her looks are fading, and she's looking to lock in her "beta bucks" She's going to get fat and make his life miserable once she has a ring. Downstream, she's likely to put him through hell via divorce, child support, alimony, etc. The past DOES matter. A woman who tries to pretend that the past doesn't matter …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:00 AM
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OP, understand something: if you take this advice to heart, most high-value men are going to run like hell. Over on TRP, this comment would be the very definition of "the hamster" in action
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 12:43 AM
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God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference. Religious or not, words to live by. You can't change America. You can't change anyone else. You can only change yourself. If what others are doing (or not doing) is driving you crazy, it's you that needs to change. You can't change them. Let it go
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:20 AM
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Dude, rules are "no examples from fiction or lyrics." That only applies to posts, not comments
/r/askTRP16/08/16 09:15 PM
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If OP wants examples on how an "alpha" midget would carry himself, Dinklage provides a lot of material in Game of Thrones. Exhibit A
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:26 PM
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Dalrock is always worth reading. Advice to a woman in her 30s looking to marry.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 04:47 PM
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Guidelines Start reading the TRP sidebar Keep reading the TRP sidebar Don't stop reading the TRP sidebar Yes, you're short. I get it. It sucks, but it's not the end of the world. While I'm not short, I know guys who are and are still slaying it. Read the sidebar. Read the entire sidebar. 95% of what a new guy needs is the same for everyone, short or tall.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:13 PM
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A lot of people get on a health food kick, and try to force themselves to eat non-filling food that tastes (in my opinion) like sawdust. The thing is, it is very, very difficult to force yourself to eat things that you hate. Your mind says "it's healthy", your heart says "fuck, that tastes like shit", and 12 hours later your asshole says "what the hell were you thinking". Short answer: experiment a lot. Research healthy foods. If you don't like them, play with your food. Find a way to prepare so…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:51 AM
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If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the outcome of 1000 battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy, nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle. Sun Tzu, The Art of War. Do you understand yourself? Why do you, personally, enjoy video games? Whether it's redpill or bluepill depends on why. Are you addicted to the virtual thrill or adventure, similar to how men get addicted to virtual sex…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 07:45 PM
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Do the two of you hang out at all? Do coffee? Skype? Don't know what your relationship is like, but you don't have to bring up RPW straight away. Get to know her first, find out how and why she married your dad and go from there
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 01:30 AM
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I honestly can't imagine her fundamentally disagreeing with anything here...judging from your description, she's already living the RPW life. As for how to broach, to me it seems simple...she's happy. She managed to attract your dad. Your dad is obviously happy with her. You'd like to have what she has, in good time. How does she do it? Worst case scenario, you bring up RPW and she thinks you're just going through a phase
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 12:29 AM
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Also, how do I find friends that I can talk about this with? Your stepmom seems like a good place to start
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 07:33 PM
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Key phrase out of this tome: but it was some sort of progress from the past me Absolutely. Rome didn't build itself in a day, neither will you. Carry on. You're doing fine. So long as "some sort of progress" remains true, you'll be on the right track. SORRY FOR THE LONG POST TRP rule: Never apologize for shit that requires no apology. You clearly put some effort into this, it's reasonably well-written, no major spelling, grammar, or punctuation errors, and it's formatted correctly. Good job. One…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 12:44 AM
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If he's constantly seeking validation the way he describes, I highly doubt he's actually fucking her
/r/askTRP05/08/16 11:23 AM
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You owe her nothing, and you've already established yourself as a "friend" in her mind, nothing more. Bite the bullet, delete her from your Snapchat, un-follow her on Facebook, Twitter, and whatever else you use, and stop texting her. If she views you as a useful idiot (which is likely) and tries to bring you back into her orbit, don't follow. Sometimes the only cure for one-itis is to remove yourself from the person causing it, especially when you're early on in swallowing the pill.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 02:49 AM
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What is true of kings is true of "alphas"
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 01:09 AM
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It was originally started by /u/pk_atheist. Look through his posts, and you can get a good look at the early days of this sub and the transition to RPS
/r/askTRP01/08/16 02:17 PM
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That I can do. This was a much more measured response than I typically get from an 18-year-old
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 03:02 AM
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This account has been here 3 months, doesn't mean I've only been here for 3 months. 3 months ago, you told askTRP that you were a high school virgin. Either you were shitposting for attention (like the people you rail against here), or you've only been swallowing the pill for a few months...you're either a liar, a hypocrite, or a shitposter. Thing is, there is nothing wrong with asking stupid questions on askTRP (as long as you're reasonably sincere). You ask a stupid newbie question, I give a f…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:44 AM
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Sleep well If you lack the motivation for anything else, focus exclusively on this. When I lack motivation, 9 times out of 10 I got less than 7 hours of sleep the night before. Motivating yourself is borderline impossible if you're tired and sleepy.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 09:38 PM
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Short answer, no. But because the men we remember are disproportionately alpha, it will seem that way
/r/askTRP01/06/16 09:20 PM
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The sad point is that a beta gets laid from time to time and thinks its because of his good behaviour. That was the biggest frustration of my late teens - early 20s. By dumb luck, I would have these moments where I was clearly doing something right, but then I could never duplicate it...I could never put my finger on what, exactly, I had done that made a girl tick. Until I found TRP. I could write a book of all the experiences that suddenly made sense, after I came here.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:37 PM
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Trp.red It's on the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:10 AM
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Also someone who earned the respect of a lot of people, like Niccolò Machiavelli. Again, any contemporaries? You'll need to qualify that some more. Hilary Clinton has the respect of a lot of flabby people, but I doubt she's high on your list. I sure as fuck hope not, anyway. Keep in mind also that many people, Machiavelli among them, don't earn that level of respect until long after they're dead. It often takes decades for someone's legacy to be understood.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:09 AM
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Samson is an excellent example of a "natural alpha" with a blue-pill mindset, regardless of whether it's a myth. Strong dude, endowed with supernatural muscle. Falls for a hot enemy chick and marries her. Hot enemy chick nags him to death and shit tests him like crazy. If you loved me, you would tell me the secret of your strength. Over and over again. Samson finally gives in, and she betrays him for it with no regrets.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:02 AM
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I hear you, because #11 doesn't jive well with the concept of pre-selection. If the desirable see me being undesired by the undesirable, I can't see that ending well. You want the undesirable to desire you, but to think you're so far out of their league that they never make a move. Edit "Unapproachable". That's the word I'm thinking of. You want to be unapproachable, not undesirable
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 01:14 AM
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Why does TRP acknowledge gender differences, but it hides behind some PC idea that all races are equal? Because racial differences are nothing more than random static compared to gender differences. Genetically, you have more in common with this guy, this guy, or this guy than you do with your own sister. The genetic difference between a man and a woman is 15 times greater than between any two men or any two women. Source
/r/askTRP01/05/16 09:35 PM
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You may be right. Either way, I'd like to see one of these threads always visible on the TRP front page...I wouldn't want 5 different NSQ threads at once, but I also wouldn't want a weekly thread to get buried and forgotten until the next one. If one NSQ thread is always visible, I think it would clean up a lot of junk.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 08:42 PM
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Not a question, I would just suggest that AutoMod post this thread daily.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 04:46 AM
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When the blindfold first comes off, everyone appears to be evil, calculating, manipulative, or just a plain old-fashioned imbecile. Was I more cynical initially? Absolutely. But fast forward a year from removing the blindfold and calming down from the initial shock. Most people aren't idiots. They bought into the same lies I did, are far more invested than I am due to their age, and are probably not capable of removing the blinders. I could be cynical, but that could just as easily have been me.…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:25 PM
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Yes, sometimes. They get lied to about how the world works, same as we do. A man can buy into the blue pill for decades, open his eyes, and still turn his life around...for women, not so much.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 02:24 AM
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You will get no responses, I would expect. I've seen RPer's who did, but none that would condone doing so. More in the vein of "I was dumbass, don't be like me."
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:00 PM
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That just an example why i think there must be more "general" categories(or not at all). Bingo. There are no strict definitions for "Alpha" and "Beta" that everyone agrees on, which can be universally applied. I encourage you to read "The Misandry Bubble" on the TRP sidebar. 80's collage As diverse and imperfect as these characters were, they were all examples of masculinity. They represented different archetypes, from the father to the leader to the ladies man to the rugged outdoorsman to the p…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 06:13 PM
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Alpha mindset however shouldnt be dependent of how many people you know Alpha status and alpha mindset are closely related, but not the same thing. Your assessment of the mindset is correct, but Alpha status is absolutely (though not entirely) dependent on the people you know.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:33 AM
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This reads like a list of New Years resolutions. Unless you already have tons of spare time, or are willing to cut out other aspects of your life, you're never going to be able to keep at it. People can only do so much in one day. If you try to suddenly do 100 extra things without adjusting the rest of your daily life, you're going to fail. You'll find yourself pushing things off until "tomorrow", and deciding not to go out "just this one weekend". And suddenly, the summer is over. It's not a ba…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 11:11 PM
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There are two types of universities in the US...liberal/feminist and cuckservative. You're not going to get away from that. Being "red pill" in this process means going in with your eyes wide open. Nothing more. It would make life easier if red pill schools, universities, and businesses existed, but they don't. You'll go to a non-RP school, surrounded by non-RP people. After you graduate, you'll either work for the non-RP Man, or have non-RP employees working for you. Your neighbors, family, co-…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 11:06 PM
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Try it. Find a week where you don't have as much going on at work, and do the 5 hours. See how you feel, and take stock of how it affects your mood, ability to perform, and so on. If it works, great. Keep doing it. If not, stop, and figure something else out.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:03 PM
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The first human trials are planned for later this year. At this point, most of the science/engineering is worked out. It's red tape the rest of the way.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 01:16 AM
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Sun Tzu, The Art of War If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of one hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy, nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle. Making decisions is easy, once you know what you're dealing with. Which is why society makes a conscious effort to keep men in the dark.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 04:33 PM
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Or just too old. Basically this. Though they weren't at the time, we're all approaching 30 now
/r/askTRP17/03/16 04:48 AM
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Are you telling me that "those people" preferred Obama over Romney 4 years ago? Even the greatest puppet masters have their limits
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 02:14 AM
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I'm a longtime reader of his blog. Scott Adams has spent at least a little time here on TRP, based this post
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 02:12 AM
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There's phone versions as well. Also highly recommend
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 02:01 AM
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If that was true, Marco Rubio would be steamrolling Donald Trump, Hilary's emails wouldn't be mentioned, and Bernie Sanders would have come in 4th after Martin O'Malley and Jim Webb. There are always puppet masters, but even puppet masters have their limits.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 01:01 AM
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Now its limited to college kangaroo courts. I wouldn't go that far...seems to me there's ample examples of men getting fucked over in actual courts. Brian Banks comes to mind
/r/askTRP16/03/16 10:07 PM
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Sleep. Getting adequate sleep makes everything else 10x easier
/r/askTRP16/03/16 09:40 PM
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Yup, it will be so great when she pushes the idea that everyone should believe the accuser. True, but this is differs from the current situation how?
/r/askTRP16/03/16 09:36 PM
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I get your point, but It's not that simple. If that was how it worked, very few marriages would last past a woman's 40th birthday. By almost any measure, the husband will almost always have higher SMV by the time the couple is in their forties. Even then, it's still the wife who initiates the vast majority of divorces
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 02:17 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. Some men will be high value and attractive in 10 years, but are currently nervous around women. If you're looking for a man who's currently HV, then your analysis holds. But if you're looking for a man who's a good investment*, you'll likely run into some nervous stuttering. *A good investment = his SMV might be equal or lower than yours now, but will be substantially higher in 10 years. Compared to yours, and on an absolute scale.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 06:45 AM
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It's simple: if you were in your comfort zone, how many would you talk to? Add 5. That's how many you should talk to.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 06:48 AM
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Don't discount venues that have a lot of older folks, particularly older women. "But there's no men there!" Well, yes. But I guarantee half the women will have a son, grandson, or nephew who they think highly of, and is unmarried. And I absolutely guarantee that They will constantly be asking him about his wife prospects and/or where their grandchildren are, and They will be constantly on the lookout for a nice, cute girl to match him with. Your goal is to take RPW's advice to heart, so that (on…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 10:48 PM
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Not military, but am a DoD contractor and work directly with a lot of Navy and Air Force personnel. Some thoughts. If your bosses boss says something, fucking pay attention to it. "Why wait" isn't the issue. Not paying attention to what your BC said, that's an issue. Did your NCO or CC know what your BC had said about promoting you himself? If not, you should have run it by them first. If I'm your CC and I promote you, when my boss wanted to promote you himself, that makes me look bad too. Never…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 07:00 PM
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She cooks me all my meals, keeps the apartment clean and has decorated it amazingly. It's telling that sex isn't on that list. To be fair, she is managing to add more value than some women. Did I make a big mistake? I look up to people like Dan B, and in a few years I am going to be making big money ($300k plus). All I want to do in my dreams is have a bachelor pad and bang hot chicks. I miss my old life. So yeah, you probably made a mistake. But that doesn't automatically make divorce the answe…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 06:23 AM
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Look at the number of executive orders Obama used to circumvent the pesky congressional arm of the government. On a per-year basis, Obama has used fewer executive orders than any president since Grover Cleveland. Source
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 02:50 PM
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albeit jealous, possessive, overspending and demanding she is a pretty good house wife all around Have to ask...how is she a "pretty good housewife"? This sounds a lot like the Endowment Effect. In a nutshell, people tend to overvalue what they already have. Sounds like that's what you're doing.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 03:14 AM
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Your dad has no leverage to regulate your mom's behavior, unfortunately. On the other hand, you might, especially once you've moved out. If your relationship w/ your mom is something she places any value on, you have the ability to play hardball. If nothing else, you can make clear that if she puts him through divorce court abuse you will cut contact. "You will never meet your grandchildren" is probably a much more potent threat than anything your dad could come up with.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 06:11 PM
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If nothing else, mix cement with the water in your bucket at a 1-to-1 ratio by weight (1 pound of cement for every pound of water) Your buckets will be a hell of a lot heavier, and won't splash everywhere...and you'll pay maybe $0.05 a pound.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 03:07 AM
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Survival of the fittest applies to religions just as much as to species or individual organisms. You have random variation in "the rules", be that DNA or a religions's holy scrolls. You have competition with other individuals or religions, which determine which DNA or holy scrolls get passed on. Like living organisms, the religions which happen to stumble into the right set of rules (or DNA) are the ones that survive...and like living organisms, members of a religion might not know why it works …
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:46 PM
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To add to that, this light-up alarm clock has worked wonders for me: http://www.amazon.com/Philips-HF3520-Wake-Up-Colored-Simulation/dp/B0093162RM Basically, 15 minutes before the alarm goes it slowly starts lighting up...then when you're actually waking up, it's already fully lit. Expensive, but worth every penny.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 04:31 AM
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Not your problem Not your problem Not your problem Not your fucking problem
/r/askTRP17/01/16 10:48 PM
2

It's not my first time though. I have been trying for months Technically no, but elsewhere you said you've been on TRP for four months...you're still very new at all this, trust me. You've read the sidebar. Ok, great. You've been lifting and running. Very good. How much time have you actually spent focused on yourself? Are you picking up hobbies? Are you moving from "relatively good shape" to "excellent shape"? Do you have financial goals that you're working toward? Are you interesting to talk t…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:34 AM
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First, everyone falls the first time. Your experience is nothing out of the ordinary. Second, you've talked about your height, race, and clothes. How fit are you? How much do you weigh? Finally, the internet is littered with stories of girls dropping IOIs on dudes who didn't realize until years later...it's possible you're not yet capable of picking up on them
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:34 PM
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Basically, to "doxx" someone is to out them in real life...once a SJW knows who you are, he/she will try to get you fired from your job, expelled from your college, or worse...based on the offensive things you write, or even just the fact that you participate in a "misogynist" group such as TRP. This was pre-TRP, but Google "violentacrez" for one of the more infamous reddit cases
/r/askTRP16/01/16 07:14 AM
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I don't, but be fucking careful. If anyone messages you, vet them carefully...don't meet anyone IRL who hasn't been here awhile. I assume the term "doxx" means something to you? Don't get me wrong, being around like-minded guys is great...just be careful. If a throwaway messages you, treat it like it's from TBP or SRS
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:18 AM
11

Borderline personality disorder
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 04:57 AM
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Funny story. A buddy of mine is from Saudi Arabia. You know all those "patriarchal" rules they have? Turns out, the main proponents are not religious nuts, but older women. For older women, covering up from head to toe is a small price to pay if it means your husband never gets to ogle pretty young women. Women not driving? Makes affairs harder. Women always have a male relative with them in public? Ditto Picture every fundamentalist Muslim rule for women as an attempt by older women to restrict…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 09:39 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen TRP maxim: You don't ask fish how to catch other fish, you ask a successful fisherman In your case, we are the fish and the women over there are the successful fishermen. They can help you more than we can Edit: looked at your submission history, saw you already had a post at RPW removed by AutoModerator. Message the mods over there, and they'll probably reapprove
/r/askTRP03/01/16 04:28 PM
1

/u/Nikelu, listen to this guy
/r/askTRP01/01/16 10:06 PM
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If nothing else, at least break it up into shorter paragraphs, rather than one big block of text. Like so: Hi asktrp,I am a 20y old male,been embracing the rp light after my breakup with an oppresive relationship at july,having atm 3 frequent plates and another 4 hookups. So I do watch the world from a slight more red lens atm,but still needs to improve.Anyway,my question is this,how the fuck do people stay for such long in parties/night clubs and shit.I mean do they talk about something for 10 …
/r/askTRP01/01/16 04:58 PM
2

Ok, no real issues with your weight or age. Congratulations, you're already way ahead of the game. I'm a non-southerner who's dated a few black women. A feminine black woman can be hot as hell, if she can pull it off. But put rather bluntly: black women in the US tend to exhibit certain cultural traits that make them less attractive...ymmv, but if in your shoes I would look at these resting bitch face. A lot of black women have this, you look like you have it too. You don't want RBF to be what k…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 03:30 PM
1

Starting questions: how old are you, and what's your body mass index? All questions about male attraction start there...have to understand what you're working with before we can give advice.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 02:46 PM
2

Google "blue waffles" and be careful what you wish for
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 05:02 AM
1

+1. Made a massive difference for me as well
/r/askTRP18/12/15 10:46 PM
2

To quote Churchill: Success is not final, failure is not fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts. Get out ahead of the problem. Go to your adviser, tell him you're going to fail, and ask what your options are...conquer your fear of looking stupid, and do what you need to do. A BP boy will cower until a letter comes in from the university...at which point, it may already be too late. Get out in front of the problem, and you have more options. Get ahead of the problem Impress the higher-u…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 10:15 PM
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Ah, gotcha. Fair enough
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 12:51 AM
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Most either didn't want to take the course, or realized they couldn't pass it. The ones who tried were fighting against basic biology, trying to achieve strength and endurance tasks set to challenge exceedingly fit men. Similar thing happened to Kara Hultgreen. Got rushed through training and certification as an F-14 pilot for the Navy, under political pressure to get women into fighter pilot positions. She died several months after certification when she crashed on approach to the USS Abraham L…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:27 PM
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Check out the story of Dutee Chand. Chand is a young Indian woman who's a world-class sprinter, and has very high testosterone. No steroids, just a natural level that's much higher than average. What happens? She gets disqualified for having an "unfair advantage". So...you can DQ a woman who's natural testosterone is high for having an unfair advantage, but you can't say that men are stronger than women.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:22 PM
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Semi-related question: Bold and Determined recently had a glowing review of Ostarine, basically it's supposed to give you most of the benefits of a steroid without actually being a steroid (and all the negative side effects that come with) Question is, do you have any experience with this? Thinking about getting some, but a second opinion is always good.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:10 PM
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Two points to add: Listing all the "privileges" of the opposite sex worked extremely well for women, as a tactic against men. If your enemy is kicking your ass and you try to copy his tactics, you will lose. His tactics are geared toward his strengths and your weaknesses...if you copy him, you'll be using your weakest areas to try to fight his strongest areas. Your odds of success are negligible What are men's strongest areas in the fight against feminism? While I'm not certain, composing lists …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 09:23 PM
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not sure what asktrpwomen url is I don't think there is one. Would recommend messaging the mods at RPW, chances are they'll override AutoModerator and reapprove
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:22 AM
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/r/RedPillWomen. They can help you far more than we can, and some of them have been where you are
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:03 AM
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If nothing else, I'd have her start with Dalrock, particularly this post: Dalrock: Advice for a woman in her 30's looking to marry Dalrock is on the sidebar, his advice here is about as good as you're going to get
/r/askTRP15/11/15 09:48 PM
0

Fuck that's even worse. Black women tend to be so much louder and more obnoxious than white women. The cackle....shudders
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:05 AM
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Similar situation...a cadre of 40 to 60-year-old black women in a cubicle environment who all feed off each other. Solution: I spent $300 on Bose noise canceling ear buds. Worth every fucking penny.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 08:33 PM
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They want men to be desperate so they'll accept anything. I would too, if I looked like them. And if I was a woman
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:56 PM
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The first step in not fucking up your date? Go on three dates before, with other women. Completely fuck them up. Learn your lessons, and get on with your life. Fourth date, fourth woman, you'll do great
/r/askTRP05/11/15 03:46 AM
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There's another piece to this. Chubby chasers, or Captain Ahabs, do exist. They're the guys who legitimately find fat women more attractive...not many, but they exist. In the old days, the number of fatty fuckers and the number of fat women was roughly equal, and they would naturally seek each other out. Fat women were a niche market, but as long as they only went for chubby chasers they enjoyed a reasonable amount of SMV. Today? The supply and demand for both skinny and fat girls are completely…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 12:38 AM
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I was just like you, spamming those same petty questions, but I made the effort of reading the sidebar, recommended texts and doing my own research to figure out how I could improve myself. Here's the thing: AskTRP hasn't changed, you changed. Before, you were not capable of noticing the all the low-quality posts. After a few months of sidebar reading, you are. Congratulations, it means you're moving in the right direction Be careful about criticizing those coming up behind you for doing exactly…
/r/askTRP25/10/15 02:14 PM
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People who are experts know how to be concise, because they know which details matter and which don't. People who are novices don't. I would expect a novice to overwrite when asking a question. He doesn't understand yet which details are important and which aren't, so he includes them all I would also expect a veteran TRPer to be a able to summarize that writing in 1/3 the space...having been around, you understand what you do and don't need to include, and what will just confuse people. I fail …
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:50 AM
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Live in DC, enrolled part-time at University of Maryland. Let me know what you come up with
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 11:46 PM
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I have a Kindle that is with me everywhere I go. Anytime I have 5 minutes or more of downtime, I'm reading. Since I live in a major city and use public transit, it works really well. Between work and social life, I probably spend 1-2 hours a day commuting...waiting for the bus? Pull out the kindle. Riding the subway? Ditto. Works great for me, but YMMV
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:28 PM
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Have you analyzed the trade-offs? Let's assume you stopped coaching, or cut back enough that you could do the housework during the day without feeling like you're dying. Assuming no other financial changes, how long would it take for you to save enough for the down payment? If you cut back or stopped, what would you be saving money on? Maybe you cook more and don't eat out as much. Maybe you don't spend as much on your car and on gasoline. You get the idea You do your analysis, and conclude that…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 05:29 PM
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Social Science data typically doesn't become available until several years after the fact. Takes awhile to gather, organize, and verify before releasing it to the public.
/r/MensRights25/09/15 02:15 PM
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As higher percentages of the mainstream start adopting TRP and it's self improvement practices, is there going to be a point where RP men start opting out of SMV improvement due to competition? In the short term, maybe. In the long term, no. What happens to the women when men turn to TRP en masse? Step 1: their beta orbiters start to disappear. Step 2: the men who want marriage/kids etc. start to disappear. Note that steps 1 and 2 are mostly concurrent Step 3: the women start to panic, though th…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 09:00 PM
1

/r/geotrp might be of interest Ninja-edit: looks like it's a dead sub now. Still, check it out
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:08 PM
2

In my BP beta days, I actually signed up for one and spent around $100 screwing around on there. It was after a site admin did an AMA here Are they real? For the most part. A lot of them have a webcam that lets you see what you're actually getting. That said, a lot of women are seeking their BB...1500 emails is not at all unusual.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 10:28 AM
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Title aside, I think it works just fine as a FR
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 12:58 AM
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