Heartbreakr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Tinder: Been using it for months, 0 matches. From a woman's perspective: You have potentially good features and hair, but you just aren't taking advantage of them! These suggestions have been brought up by others already, but I want to stress: 1) Most importantly, you've GOT to lose weight — like I said, you have nice features, but nice features don't count for shit when you're carrying 40 extra pounds. Feel free to PM me if you want advice on diet. 2) Get fashionable frames. 3) Get a nicer haircut — your current hair screams "lowest possi…	/r/seduction	01/02/16 01:42 AM
1	how is this first message Make an attempt to type with proper capitalization and punctuation. It might not matter to all women, but it sure as hell matters to me if a guy can't be bothered to throw in a few capital letters. Kinda instantly makes me think less of him. Might be superficial, but that's how it is. Other than that, the content of your message sounds just fine to me.	/r/seduction	14/02/15 03:33 PM
2	Seduction in a small town? I like your attitude and I hope you're right.	/r/seduction	13/10/14 10:20 PM
1	Seduction in a small town? Quality women are hard to find in large towns — the chances of finding even one in a town of 5000 is basically nil.	/r/seduction	13/10/14 09:12 PM
5	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." Also chiming in to confirm. My last boyfriend used to say stuff exactly like this all the time and eventually I heard it so many times I started to believe it. So I dumped him. :( He had a lot of genuinely great qualities and sometimes I think I might not have left him if he hadn't beat it into my head that he was a chump that didn't deserve me.	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:02 PM
7	What to do when someone says.."Who is this guy?" I would probably throw up if someone said this to me.	/r/seduction	10/03/12 04:44 PM
3	FB convo with japanese girl, think it went well I don't see the point of trying to use the seduction techniques that are taught here on someone who doesn't speak fluent English. The subtleties and nuances of flirtatious, witty banter all go out the window when there's a language/cultural barrier like this. It's obvious from this conversation that all attempts at fun, teasing humor are totally lost on this girl. "Please say more clearly?" Come on. Let me guess: you're a guy who fetishizes Asian women, right?	/r/seduction	29/09/11 07:23 AM
2	Years ago (as a "nice guy") I saw this and thought Henry Rollins was a dick. I watched it just now, and he's pretty much spot-on. Ick.	/r/seduction	19/08/11 02:03 AM
11	Years ago (as a "nice guy") I saw this and thought Henry Rollins was a dick. I watched it just now, and he's pretty much spot-on. Just chiming in with a woman's perspective: everytime I've seen a video of Rollins he's come off as a whiny, bitter, defensive, overly-sensitive prick. Total turn off. The only thing I have even a little respect for is the fact that he has high standards. So what. That should be a given. His delivery is douchey and the exact opposite of what you guys would refer to as "alpha." I would never be attracted to a man with an attitude as shitty as his. I really, really hope none of you guys see him as…	/r/seduction	18/08/11 08:27 PM
8	Dealing with a babyface? Exude, actually.	/r/seduction	31/07/11 06:00 PM
-1	How is wearing rings or necklaces as a guy perceived in seduction? I probably wouldn't notice if a guy was wearing a single, subtle ring -- but a necklace of any sort is an instant turn-off. I can't imagine ever being attracted to the sort of guy who would wear a necklace.	/r/seduction	30/07/11 05:34 AM
1	Grooming body hair (chest, back) I would be pretty turned off by a dude who removes his body hair. It's a feminine thing to do, and feminine traits are not attractive in a guy. Women who are grossed out by hair are probably high-maintenance bitches who you shouldn't want to date anyway.	/r/seduction	29/05/11 06:56 PM
1	Text game: the importance of 'pinging' FABIO: I'm the most awesome person in this grocery store. Tell your friends. FABIO: Just wanted to remind you that I'm awesome. Tell your friends. Just so you're aware, this is seriously irritating and I would instantly lose attraction if a guy said something like that to me. The only people who say shit like "I'm awesome" are the exact opposite.	/r/seduction	25/04/11 10:38 PM
6	Am I doing it right? No.	/r/seduction	24/12/10 05:16 AM
7	After the second date, she tells me this You did what now?	/r/seduction	02/12/10 06:20 PM
4	Texting game, is this effective or bad? I can't believe you actually sent that. You basically freaked out on her and acted like she has some kind of obligation to drop everything and see your lame ass the instant you send her a one-word text. She's just trying to hang out with her friend dude. You need to chill the fuck out. Please do not follow this up with something "witty" because your "wit" is seemingly nonexistent.	/r/seduction	22/11/10 10:19 PM
3	A girl that I was/am seeing send me this text You're a fucking creep.	/r/seduction	20/11/10 12:48 AM