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-5

It wasn't that she wanted me to use a rubber for head, it was that she just wanted me to fuck her. Without giving me head.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:32 AM
1

♂ Great post with very solid information about the friendzone.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:40 PM
4

You lose her. You keep her by actually being confident and realizing that you don't need her and, in fact, it's her that's losing you when you two part ways. Fake it til you make it. Eventually, you'll get results if you're doing it correctly and results breed genuine confidence.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:36 PM
1

Thanks for the insight guys. It's been clear from the jump that whatever we have(don't worry, I'm not going exclusive) is going to last a while so I basically gave her one last chance.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:08 PM
2

Start lifting and making improvements to yourself. Change your diet, attitude, and how you use your time for the better. Also, find constructive hobbies. You'll reap the rewards and be a stud in a year or two.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:19 AM
1

I don't, I am a dick. I just wasn't sure how to reply and wasn't sure how to describe how I wanted to reply.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:51 AM
1

So I should soft next her until she contacts me again and if I don't close next time, hard next her?
/r/askTRP02/03/15 10:49 PM
1

You don't have to be mean to not let people walk over you. But being nice because you feel you have to is also a bad thing. Basically, be nice because you want to be nice, not because you feel you have to be.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 12:23 AM
1

19 and in my main group of 8 guys, I'm probably #3 in terms of smv
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:35 AM
1

Had to rush it at the end but I edited it with a question
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:26 AM
2

If I notice I'm being negative in my thoughts I'll start to think about everything good in my life. Think about every little thing that you like about your life and you'll start to feel immensely better and get back on a positive thought process. Mine usually goes like: "I go to a decent university. I'm in a good fraternity at said school. Great friends. I like(but also hate) my body. I also have the means to be a great man. Now, it's obviously not going to be the same for you, but think about e…
/r/askTRP17/01/15 07:45 AM
1

Are you really advocating lifting like a bro because it gets more women? That defeats the whole purpose of lifting according to red pill, which should be to get healthy and fit for yourself, not women.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 06:21 AM
1

It was a newly made troll account "redpillisajoke" and basically said that the red pill doesn't work because it makes people racist.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 10:54 PM
1

Always trust your gut.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 06:57 AM
2

An ltr is serious after a few months?
/r/askTRP16/01/15 06:15 AM
22

You handled it terribly. Stop being so emotional and taking her so seriously. You really responded "I was busy and forgot, then again you never call me back". That's so cringeworthy and it screams of butthurt. Next time just keep ignoring her and doing your own thing.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:10 AM
1

Read the Sex God method. It wonderfully explains how to go about anal in long term relationships.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 04:05 AM
-4

Because lacking excellence means you're an underachiever who doesn't have any motivation.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:56 AM
1

He has nothing better to do so not responding to him at all is the better course of action. To help with your situation: search up amogs
/r/askTRP16/01/15 01:19 AM
2

One person that took and interpreted the red pill in one of the worst ways possible doesn't define it as a whole.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 12:12 AM
-6

How do you get that the female doesn't have any drive or dedication from the 4 descriptive things he provided? Black, female, 3.5, Stanford student. Sounds like you're just male hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:09 AM
1

This is the right view and it's completely different from not being able to stand a certain race. I don't tolerate bullshit or excuses at all but that doesn't make me hate a particular race because some of them have victim complexes.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 11:43 PM
0

Being racist isn't something to be proud of.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 10:56 PM
7

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time is now. No, it's never too late. You can always start going to the gym, start building self respect for yourself, and start building confidence. Get motivated, then get disciplined and better yourself.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 09:59 PM
6

I'd buy him or link him to a copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy and tell him he'd benefit greatly from reading it.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 09:53 PM
0

From the moment you were born, you've been taught to repress your sexuality. You've also been taught that every woman is a princess that wants to be respected and wants a nice guy. After however many years before you found trp, it's been so ridiculously long that you've been told these things that the information is basically ingrained into your mind. It's hard to rid your mind of things you've been taught since birth.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:48 AM
2

The way we were raised.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:35 AM
21

Why are you thinking of ltr when you haven't fucked her yet? This is the start of oneitis. How many plates do you currently have spinning?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 07:38 AM
6

Reread this post. Keep rereading it until you realize how ridiculously pathetic it is.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 07:35 AM
4

Wow this was really great post. It's true and it's the same hole I fell through. I thought to myself "why approach now when I'll have no success, I'll do it when my x is better" which leads to you never approaching. Then when you do approach and get rejected it hurts more because you should be the whole package. Great post man, I'd recommend making a topic about it to help those new to the pill that could possibly fall into this trap.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:54 AM
1

http://erudition.mohit.tripod.com/_Influence_People.pdf
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:50 AM
3

What's with all the people posting about plates and other guys? If she's a plate, why the fuck do you care if she's sleeping with other dudes? Also, she's not a plate if she's the only one you have.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 12:11 AM
1

Stop feeling so sorry for yourself, holy shit this post really makes me want to kill myself. This is really the epitome of blue pill faggotry. This post actually makes me angry that men like you exist. Stop wallowing in self pity and grow a pair and maybe you'll obtain the confidence needed to pull decent looking chicks. The reason you don't right now is because they can sense you're an unconfident faggot that has nothing better to do than feel sorry for yourself.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 10:07 PM
1

Why the fuck do you care if she fucks other guys if it's been made very apparent that she isn't a woman of value? You're just gonna plate her(hopefully) so stop giving a shit if she fucks other guys.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 09:29 AM
1

Tell him to quit being a pussy that needs external validation.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 05:44 AM
2

Logic doesn't garner attraction with girls. That's why Agree and Amplify is the number one shit test buster. You agree to their claims and amplify it to absurdity so she realizes you don't take her seriously.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 05:44 AM
3

No. You played it fine not looking like a hurt puppy when their guys showed up. You made the best of the situation by chillin with your boys when there was no tail to obtain. Remember that not every night is about females. It's okay to make the choice that you'd rather have a bro night.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 05:42 AM
2

Ask yourself if they add any value whatsoever to your life and if they do, attempt to contact them through facebook, their phones, or whatever. Just message them and ask how they've been.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 04:44 AM
4

Stop giving a shit. You made a mistake, oh well, we all do. Just ignore your ex and her bf and continue improving yourself.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 04:21 AM
1

She didn't tell you why she couldn't attend nor did she set up another meet time. It's looking like she's not attracted enough to you. Drop her unless she does hit you back up for another meet, then it's up to your discretion if you want to do it or not.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 03:55 AM
5

Judging by your account post history, you're a troll but I'll still give advice in case other new members decide to search the word "virgin" and arrive here. Stop being a fucking bitch and go improve yourself. Girls don't like you because you're an unconfident, out of shape loser with no relevant hobbies. Get off your ass and get to the gym. If you need assistance with your diet or workout regime, search them on this sub and you'll find plenty of great advice. When you're in reasonably decent sh…
/r/askTRP13/01/15 03:53 AM
50

I have to use the "I don't smell pancakes yet" line. It's golden.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 03:38 AM
5

What the fuck do you mean you're 29 so your personality is solidifying? Your personality traits are never completely set in stone. Stop being a pussy and change. All three of these traits are what you make of them. It's all about how bad you want them. Stop being a bitch and backing down for no reason. Force yourself to man the fuck up and get it done.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 01:26 AM
3

Why does it matter? You should want to work out to be healthy. Do it for you, not women.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:20 PM
1

yeah she went really hard with this shit test im not sure how exactly i'd respond. maybe try to disagree and amplify with "no, you do. until its off, that is.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:48 AM
1

oh shit thats harsh. turn it into something sexual. im not sure what exactly but try something like "only after i take it off of you"
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:43 AM
1

I would do it. You can handle a lot more than you think you can if you're fully committed.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:14 AM
1

Don't be an asshole or a pushover, have hobbies, and join a Fraternity if you're going to college Generally, be a confident and social guy and people will flock to you.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 04:42 AM
5

Having female platonic friends can be a great thing for social proof and preselection. Just make sure that you aren't orbiting them and they do more for you than you do for them.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 04:17 AM
1

If he doesn't seem like a dick, try asking him to help you out. Tell him you saw how easy it was for him to lead the conversation and go up and talk to that girl and you'd like to be able to do that.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 04:15 AM
3

You can't really help somebody that doesn't want to be helped. I'd tell him to really think about marriage and if that's what he wants and advise him against it but you can't really do much else and still maintain this friendship.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:48 AM
1

I apologize for coming off so harsh but sometimes that's what you need to buckle down and get shit done. Keep on moving forward with the self improvement mindset and I guarantee you'll get better and better at separating yourself from this "disease"
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:35 AM
0

You're also speaking to someone with adhd, a made up disease basically describing a boys youthful behavior. Stop taking your meds, if you're able and man the fuck up. Always be conscious of what you're doing and focus as best as possible. It's obviously going to be hard at first since you've been taking and you're used to medication that helps your focus but I guarantee that you'll be able to do it if you're actively trying everyday.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 12:45 AM
2

You can. Try harder and stop making excuses. Or stay a loser. Your choice.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 12:19 AM
5

http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/askTRP11/01/15 11:54 PM
1

I don't think he's worried about her cheating, but more so bothered by the fact that she(and he) told them to stop but they keep doing it. I'd be upset too if I told someone, very clearly, to stop doing something and they did it again. Now, who knows if she actually did tell them to stop but that's a different story.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 11:39 PM
1

Most of the time it wouldn't be a terrible move. Depends on how you normally carry yourself. I'd do it.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 11:36 PM
1

Well it's always better to err on the side of asshole than nice guy if you're ever confused. But just know that there are limits, just try to find them.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 11:33 PM
5

Ask her out and if she declines, hard next. If she accepts, escalate as quickly as possible and if you don't at least get the kiss, hard next.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:46 AM
2

Definitely join a sports team. It will get you lifting and increase your confidence tremendously. Also, just realize that it's just high school and it doesn't really fucking matter. Just keep your grades up and you're set. Don't let any problems truly get to you.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:42 AM
1

I should either ignore it, and not respond at all. Or reply with something like "I love you too" or "Guess that makes me special" I realize that I need to get the meet and escalate as quickly as possible but that isn't possible until I go back to school in a little over a week The reason I'm being kind of hesitant on this is because this girl is a hard 9 and I don't want to fuck up. I know this is a terrible attitude to have and she's kinda on a pedestal but I'm working on it. The abundance ment…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 01:34 AM
1

I responded "No you don't" to which she replied "Yes I do! I don't lose" How should I reply here?
/r/askTRP11/01/15 12:44 AM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2r8jiw/fr_getting_subway_at_the_mall_leads_to_plate_your/
/r/askTRP11/01/15 12:37 AM
3

They aren't your friends if they aren't inviting you.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 12:36 AM
1

Yeah, I know haha. I just wanted to know how others responded to this and if mine were decent. The context was me beating her in a game and she said "I'm definitely accusing you of cheating." Me: I'll beat you in person when you're buying me dinner Her: I hate you. Haven't you ever heard of letting a girl win?
/r/askTRP11/01/15 12:35 AM
1

Just know that things are gonna get better IF, and only if, you put in the work to make them so. I also used to dwell on loneliness and felt like things would always stay like that. I really pitied and felt sorry for myself. Stop doing that and go put that energy to making yourself better. Know that only you have the power to get yourself to a better place and nobody else can do it for you. Get out there and become the accomplished man you want to be.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 07:11 AM
1

Thanks for the help. The reason I'm kinda reluctant is because the "Fine" made it seem like she doesn't really wanna go and how she completely ignored the "Don't act like you dont want to buy me dinner"
/r/askTRP10/01/15 03:46 AM
1

Should I escalate that suddenly? I've known her a while and she always thought I was cute but I've never been able to make a move so I think the attraction has fallen off.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 02:51 AM
7

Trust your gut. She's cheating on you. Edit: On the main sub there was a post saying something like: "If you have to worry about her cheating and you have any doubt, the relationship is already over".
/r/askTRP10/01/15 01:49 AM
3

The more girls you have, the less attached you'll become. Basically, have an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 08:01 PM
2

What if you move to a new place where you don't know anybody? What if all of your friends are out of town? There are plenty of reasons for going out alone.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:28 AM
7

If you want to have sex with a girl that also wants you, do it. You're not manipulating her. She wants you. She's a big girl and she knows that her actions have consequences. Knowing this, she's still actively pursuing you. TRP isn't about manipulating girls to have sex with you. It's about understanding reality and the game and becoming the best version of yourself. Once you better yourself, the girls with come.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 07:37 AM
4

How did you get to speaking to her for the close after you left the last time?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 07:24 AM
1

Said exactly this and received a picture of her smiling back with the caption "Hate you".(Snapchat) I'd say I passed with flying colors.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 01:30 AM
6

Stop masturbating everyday.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 12:12 AM
1

Believe it. I was in your situation a few months ago where the most attractive girl that's ever been into me(a hard 9) was very into me but I made the mistake you made and snapchatted her excessively. She lost interest and I refused to believe that was the reason but it was. I'm telling you bro, once a woman realizes she can get your validation(i.e: snapchat, text attention) for free, she'll lose all interest.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:50 AM
2

Those are just excuses they're using because they aren't attracted to you. You're making yourself far too available to them like you suggested in your post. Stop texting/snapchatting them everyday. Only do so when you're setting up a meet. I'm not sure what TRP's view is on snapchat but I believe it's okay to occasionally do it to build attraction, just not excessively. When you're bored and feel the urge to contact them, go do something productive to better yourself instead.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:05 AM
1

Yeah idk why I didn't play. I know I fucked up but this is the most attractive woman that's shown such blatant interest in me(thanks redpill) and I really want to fix it.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 04:14 AM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9XtjQ0Bq8Y
/r/askTRP25/09/14 08:39 PM
2

"Have fun" "You're right, we should fuck more" "You're not."
/r/askTRP06/09/14 04:30 PM
2

A fitness test women use to see if men are suitable partners. Basically just hold frame and remember agree and amplify and the pressure flip. Here are an example I've seen used here, only one though as I can't remember any others atm: "You know you're not getting lucky tonight" "It has nothing to do with luck"
/r/askTRP06/09/14 04:28 PM
5

I completely feel you. Back when I was pre-red pill, all I wanted was women but after learning how women really are and how to play the game I find it kind of boring. I think the solution is to just continue what you're doing. Keep improving yourself and doing what you want.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:17 PM
1

Women need to earn my patience They do. There's absolutely nothing wrong with this attitude. If I'm a high value person(which should be the goal for everyone here), I'm not going to give out my time, patience, and energy to every girl that thinks she deserves it just because she has a vagina. Even other men. Why would I give you MY time when you haven't done anything to prove you're worth it?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:11 PM
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