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It's good at educating the bluepillers. I think it's refreshing to have women showing there true intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:59 PM
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are you kidding me? I'm just reposting something a WOMAN posted how is it incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:57 PM
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Cope. Money is most important or second most important next to looks, she has unlimited access to men and can find a "charming" one who has more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:16 PM
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Ugly men just expect our looks match, the problem is women don't date there looks match they date above it. Dating below will always be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:32 AM
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love, companionship, support,sex and family All those things provide validation, you are misunderstanding, validation is not just an ego boost. Validation provides positive feelings that you are valid as a person which is important to mental health. Generally that's wrong, if you are an ugly man you are fucked unless you have money, this is why incels exist. Ugly women can date above them, men cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:20 PM
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Well when most women date "men beneath them" they are usually expecting a loyal beta servant as opposed to chad who can't be tamed, this ugo should be grateful just to be in your presence, then you are shocked when he is, generally, the same as other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:12 PM
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A lot of women do that though, they've done experiments increasing a mans wage and the same women who wouldn't be interested suddenly were open to dating him. The amount of men women find good looking is only around 20%, so women basically have no choice but to settle. Every woman in America wants 6'0+, only 14% of men are 6'0+, A LOT of people are gonna lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:30 PM
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This is the problem that most men have, we lack good friends so we rely on women for validation, it's a toxic way to operate. I've always struggled to find real male friends. Maybe try moving to a different country with friendlier people than the west and restarting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:14 PM
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Ok. Not all. It's still possible to find regular, beta, ugly guys who would make good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:08 PM
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What you need is validation. Do you have a close group of real friends who understand and support you emotionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:06 PM
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Yes obviosuly because ugly men are treated like shit in society thus are more likely to have bad traits, it's the same with ugly women btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:02 PM
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Is it that hard to understand? gym is a cope. Genetics are what's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:59 PM
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The memes write themselves, shortcels will love this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:47 PM
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It can be framed in a way to look less bad but ultimately you can't escape being broke as an instant -3 or -2 on your value. "I work in retail" Instant dismissal. "i'm saving up for classes in the evening" Potential. Can be risked if he looks good enough. "I'm trying to break through as an artist" I doubt this would fly with most women tbh, maybe some specific women who are into artsy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:45 PM
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As if most men have any choice Also no, a desperate lonley man will be grateful to have someone validate him. How you gonna be bitter about soemthing you can never have? it's ethier ugly women or back to being alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:39 PM
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Well i'm already an ugly man, so it'd be like my life is now. Except people would care about and support me, I could have sex whenever I wanted with ugly or even average guys. I could also have relationships if I choose with complete ease. Being an ugly women would be like be waking up looking like Chris Hemsworth in terms of the difference in the quallity of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:37 PM
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Ok, what about a passionate, driven, motivated writer who makes pitiful money from blog posts, articles ect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:34 PM
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truly believe that having a low income isn't a deal breaker Facts prove this to be incorrect for most women but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:28 PM
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Wait I'm confused at your point, you agree money is important thus yes this guy will struggle due to being broke. Fact. Him being "anti-social" or boring is not relevant to the conversation. You can make plenty of money whilst being boring and anti-social and still date women easily. Infact many people who make good money are boring people. It's really not relevant. You can also be motivated, passionate and broke i.e most artists. LMS - looks, money, status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:25 PM
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Nah women and men are equally superficial as a rule, the difference is women have unlimited options and men have few and when you have less options you will be less superficial of course. This is all really basic stuff and just how people work yet every woman on here thinks they are the special snowflake who goes against all the data
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:17 PM
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you're not fooling anyone. No woman gets with a guy based on personality alone, personality is a dime a dozen especially for women who automatically have high social value and access to as many guy friends as they desire. Not only that but this relationship would turn to a shit a lot quicker if he didn't work, he has extended the life span by working. "I just love him for who he is" ok, relationships are still transactional and based upon looks, money, status. Many men lose there job and there "…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:12 PM
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The statistics prove women care about money men earns way more. You date because you want looks, money or status. Not because of personallity. Personality matters if you have one of those other things in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:04 PM
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Ok cool but generally money is the most important thing in relationships. Anecdotes are misleading when we have the data on it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:56 PM
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You're fucked if you do fucked if you don't, there's no winning in this world for men unless we are rich or good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:51 PM
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LMS is what women care about. He could be the most antisocial clown in the world and still date if he had enough of one of those three things. When you reach late 20's and increasing every year from there money becomes more and more important as women start trying to lock down betas. Being broke as a man is like an automatic -3, you need hella looks or status to compensate for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:50 PM
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"he shouldn't expect women who want middle class lifestyle" Whilst I agree, your broader prescriptions are kinda stupid. He DOES work he just doesn't want a career, not everyone wants to be a slave to capitalism, a "good" life is not just the bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:43 PM
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The dude clearly said he didn't want a career, why would he change to please a woman? he might but he shouldn't. Not worth it in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:41 PM
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Yeah, all the starving artists failed rappers, musicians and writers are swimming in pussy, oh wait no they're not. Status only works if you end up successful since success = status. It does help, if the woman is already attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 01:57 AM
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You're delusional. Talent alone means almost nothing. Looks, money, status. This is what women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:29 PM
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I'm ugly and ugly men can't date, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:28 PM
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Dumbest comment i've seen yet, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:32 PM
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Humour is the most overrated thing in history. They only care if they are already attracted. There's studies women find more attractive men funnier. Talent = status Controlling a room = dominance Both covered in the redpill, redpill is mostly a cope with a few truths such as the obvious, money, status, being masculine but it's 80% looks 20% everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:30 PM
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From what I see women date down if they run out of options at any point past 30+ and it usually results in misery for both. They go for ugly guys because of money or for some reason they think we are easier to control and will be in awe of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 05:27 PM
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I'd rather they be honest then pretend to care about anything other than looks and money for the most part, of course they're not actually being honest to the men they meet so its still bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 04:50 PM
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Biological wall? toxic masculinity is a man made structure which can be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 10:13 PM
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Yes, thats my point, why would I teach my son to be emotional when it would make his life objectively worse. I want men to be allowed to be soft without having to live worse lives..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:43 PM
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That's the thing what almost no one realises, you need to change the entire system not individual behaviour, a man in touch with his emotions will get him less respect, less women, less chance of financial success. Why would anyone give that advice? I'd love to live in a non toxic world where men were allowed to act however we want but we don't and probably never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:49 PM
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I specified later some of them have legal oppression but not always. Look do you think gay people aren't oppressed anymore because they have equal rights on paper? It's way more than that, the most painful elements of oppression come from the society and the culture itself. Changing these elements take a lot longer and have slowly gotten better. The same cannot be said for heightism and lookism since people like you don't take these issues seriously. These two things have existed since the US's …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 08:32 PM
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No, that's a very narrow definition of oppression, no one is currently subjected by authoritarian power in the US or any developed western country. Yet, racism, sexism, heightism, weightism, transphobia, still exist. Some of them have some elements of subjugation by the government but most have none. Oppression can refer to ..a less overtly malicious pattern of subjugation. In some countries there is actual law against short men and short people in general such as in China where there are limits…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 08:05 PM
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You're kidding right? heightism is a very known form of oppression that mostly men suffer from. So "but black people have it worse" is not really relevant. Short men are defiantly oppressed all over the world that is not OK. It's not like you even need studies to understand how short men are oppressed but just in case you're unaware.. Short men get paid less on average, get promoted less, get less respect generally, are often the joke of their "friend group", harder to do jobs such as actor or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:31 PM
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I never fell into the conservative sections of the redpill, that shit is just cringe. So is all the redpill tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:03 PM
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"more exaggerated online" "don't think as many women think like that" Based on what? you replied so quickly and clearly didn't look at a single study. I don't know why people say this. Do you think a short man will do any better in a bar or club? absolutely not it will be even more brutal being towered over by everyone there including the women in their heels. Within a friend group? again height puts a short male at a big disadvantage in comparison to her other orbiters and this "flaw" will need…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:57 PM
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sigh... https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/comments/a3o2up/the_ultimate_heightpill_compilation/?utm_content=title&utm_medium=post_embed&utm_name=c0cc8067967f4da6aa044b06c4e24051&utm_source=embedly&utm_term=a3o2up Here is the data showing short men struggle way more to get into relationships, marry later than their tall counterparts and that women are also more likely to be unsatisfied with short male partners. also a bunch of other things in there about general height discrimination.. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:44 PM
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Online is real life, online shows us what women want. They don't put 6'0 in the bio then go in real life 5'6 is fine. Your opinion is based on almost nothing and it goes against the facts and more importantly the experiences of short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:33 PM
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Chad can't lose bro, maybe for a 7/10. yeah you need money or it's over, but a 9/10 chad will never be short of options. It's cope to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:18 AM
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You say that now, then you turn 30 and suddenly you want a man with money.. they tend to be educated, better get used to pretending you like them soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:08 AM
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5'3, not white. It never began. He could be the first man to mars and white women would still never touch him. If he became the 1% one might reluctantly date him but she'd be settling and it would be dead bedroom the day after the wedding. The racepill is brutal, white women don't even see us as human. An ugly white guy approaches "ew no" a none white approaches, "seriously? are we even the same species" Every none white male not 9+ needs to get the fuck out. Except black people because there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:06 AM
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Weak men can't handle the blackpill. It's just facts like it or not. Life sucks if you weren't born a 8/10, simple as. When the sperm hit the egg it was OVER for 80% of men to ever have a fun dating life. also this vid is terrible corny gargabe, it's OVER, life is pointless. Stop coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:58 AM
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Men don't hit the wall. If you have middle class job and look decent you will mog other men your own age well into your 50's
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:55 AM
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also do women realise there are more men 5'8 and below in America than 6'0+, yet they act like 6'0 is a must have requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:53 AM
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If you are 5'8 and struggling you just unattrative and they use your height to be "nice" 5'8 is enough for a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:52 AM
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Duh, incels are not average, we are below a 5 meaning it's close to impossible to get sex in this modern era.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:50 AM
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Don't be silly and play this anecdote game. We can clearly see women choose dating partners using LMS. Every single guy who has sex is using LMS or the girl is drunk or the girl is ovulating and super horny. If an average guy spends 4 nights a week at a bar and makes online dating a part time job then, yes, he can have lots of sex. It's just numbers. Dating "advice" is really shitty. It's all very simple. If a girl finds you attractive, don't fuck it up, act confident, get sex. End.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:26 AM
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So you don't have any looks? you're below a 5 /10 and under 5'9?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:55 AM
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not me, i actually care about personallity, growin up I thought others did too, I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:33 AM
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Relationships are an exchange and women care about three things. Status, money and looks. It is usually possible to tell if a man has these things from a profile and I hate to break your childhood fantasies but women don't really care about your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:18 AM
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This is the most bluepilled post i've seen in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:30 AM
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Brutal. But true. I'm just coping tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:39 PM
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Brutal blackpill. Just destroy my last hope for having a dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:16 PM
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>the happiest marriages I've ever seen. Literally no such thing. Is there anything more cucked than being married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 05:18 PM
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Personality is not relevant here. Top 1% -High status celebrities Top 19% - aka Chad, 6'0+, handsome. Life on easy mode, what every man deep down wishes they were born as. 60% Average - Can get some girls sometimes but has to work hard, reliant on luck, can't rely on looks needs to play games, pass tests, show commitment. Usually sticks to long term relationships as it can take long time to find new women. Mostly out of the casual sex fun unless he dedicates his life to clubbing 3 nights a week …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 05:09 PM
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It takes enough work for a normie male to get just ONE girl that's the issue with it... average guys stick with the same girl because they are scared of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:40 PM
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The "hot guy" doesn't look 6'0, lmao at this unrealistic meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:35 PM
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you're a beta male virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:33 PM
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The wall is used everywhere exactly as you said it, women have no choice but to date average men because chad is gone or they are sick of being railed by chad and want a nice stable beta with a good job. You sound like a oldcel beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:31 PM
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The wall is more like 40, than 30. Men are so desperate these days they'll still throw themselves at a 30 year old woman. At 40, yeah it's game over and average men can FINALLY have the power. All when it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:28 PM
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I still remember when I was younger and online dating was considered for losers, it's amazing how quickly people change their tune. The issue with this is it basically means ugly men are completely fucked which is why you see the rise in the incels. All average- chad looking guys have to do is download Tinder and swipe, it might take days, maybe years but eventually they will all get girlfriends from it. Meanwhile, ugly guys like me who have been using online since it was taboo can't get matches…
/r/BlackPillScience03/05/19 01:12 AM
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Lets take Timmy, he is 5'9, average looking, white. He will get a couple matches a month and probably bitch about how terrible Tinder is. Which will give the impression it's useless for normal dudes. Yet over months or even years odd are high he will get a girlfriend from it. Many of my average friends have girlfriends from Tinder. It's only below average men who can never have success on the app no matter what. I've been swiping for years and go 1 date ever. It's the worst time ever to be an ug…
/r/BlackPillScience03/05/19 01:02 AM
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approaching in real life probably has a higher success rate but I doubt there's any data on this Bluepilled. I could sit at home and swipe through 100 girls whilst you fumble around awkwardly for 5 minutes with a girl who is not attracted to you in the first place. Cold approach is only for good looking guys. IF you are good looking it's worth it but then why would you, you could just have girls come to your house from tinder anyway. Even for average males and below it's just a waste of time, do…
/r/BlackPillScience03/05/19 12:58 AM
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Is there any idea or proof or hint; that chatting up a woman irl has a higher/lower change of success nowadays (then before) due to the big online factor now? The answer is no. A woman will only be receptive to you if she is initially attracted. So if you're attractive enough for cold approach to work, you're also attractive enough to sit at home and use tinder, so there's not really much point for anyone.
/r/BlackPillScience03/05/19 12:53 AM
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Body adds about half a point if that. Waste of time.
/r/BlackPillScience29/04/19 06:03 PM
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Why not? I was confident and used game.
/r/seduction24/04/19 02:40 AM
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Listen dude, I'm short and black and a nerd most women do not want me. No woman dreams of dating me. This is what makes pick up so hard for me. I'm a niche option but don't fit the BBC stereotype If I was average Joe, white, 5'9 and ok looking. It'd be easier to find mor "maybe" girls but often it's NO girls.
/r/seduction23/04/19 04:25 PM
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Ok, so every women you've ever approached you've had sex with? You're not special. There are tons of people who do this day in day out and don't have those results. Unless you are god or have made very few approches in life this is bs
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:01 AM
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My personal estimate Jaw line, zygomatic bone protrusion, hunter eyes, good hairline ect these things are most important and can't be changed
/r/seduction19/04/19 01:06 AM
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I'd say 80% genetics 20% haircut, clothes
/r/seduction19/04/19 12:54 AM
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Because when you find a girl who is ok with how you look you THEN need game
/r/seduction19/04/19 12:38 AM
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I'm just saying it's not all powerful, I've being tricked by con artists in the past. Reaching potential is fine but everyone should know the limits of game.
/r/seduction19/04/19 12:10 AM
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Not true, ethier you're trying really hard to sell your products or you delusional. Yes there is a sub Reddit for game, but what gets results is mostly just approaching many girls till one likes you
/r/seduction19/04/19 12:08 AM
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Not true bro Looks can't be overcome by game, it's a lie coach's tell you to sell a product. It's just about the numbers, game can increase your chances a bit that's it
/r/seduction19/04/19 12:02 AM
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Nah dude, I tried and failed. Reason being I'm below average in looks and height. I need to approach 5x more than the average guy and 10x more than the good looking guy. I don't have that kind of time or energy.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:45 PM
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Seems about right. I foolish bought into the fantasy I could turn around any girl with a few magical techniques.. not the case at all.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:44 PM
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All the RSD guys, keiza noble, bradicus, the girlchase website, mystery other random PUA YouTubers I should be slaying everything surely yet it's not happening.. seems like it's nothing but a numbers game
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:35 PM
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Yeah that's more in line with the truth. I was sold a fantasy when I first got into it. I'm not a person willing to alter my personality to any girl I meet, so I have game techniques that I use which suit me and they often don't work, as an unattractive guy I think that's the normal experience. Not this pipe dream people sell where you just have to get good and you can remove all a woman's preferences, likes and dislikes with a few secret super powers.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:19 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction18/04/19 10:00 PM
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As an ugly guy I'm 100% convinced game has sharp limits. I think this idea you can learn to get any girl or even most girls just by body language, eye contact and conversation techniques pretty ridiculous. Ethier that or I've never read the right material that would allow it to work. Ill gladly be the ugly guinea pig and test any material that can supposedly remove all of a woman's tastes and preferences.
/r/seduction18/04/19 09:58 PM
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You're luck you're good looking enough to get dates from Tinder If you don't want to do nightclubs you don't have to
/r/seduction18/04/19 09:51 PM
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How would I know where that would be? no girl has ever liked me
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:58 PM
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So game can convince a girl to have sex with an ugly guy? the methods haven't worked for me though I go up and act mysterious, tease blah blah but it never works I'm sure if I was average it would be working
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:33 PM
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So if the girl doesn't like ugly short guys which is most of them, I'm fucked. I'm fucked ethier way is what you're saying
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:27 PM
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I read this many times over years "be mysterious" "stand out" ect I appreciate you trying to help others though.
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:15 PM
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Pretty basic stuff
/r/seduction18/04/19 06:58 PM
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I don't buy it. I've read the best names in the game, they all say the exact same thing in different ways. I've been doing game for a long time and I'm not convinced it's this magic thing everyone says it is. Of course I'll just be accused of not doing it properly... but even these coach's if you watch them in real life aren't slaying every girl, eventually they meet one where it clicks. I think once you reached a certain level of conversational skill it's just a matter luck, an ugly guy will st…
/r/seduction18/04/19 06:35 PM
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That's not the point tho, is game as all powerful as everyone says? I have my doubts. Anyone can approach 200 drunk girls and get a few that say yes
/r/seduction18/04/19 06:20 PM
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I don't buy this I use game tactics and women don't fall at my feet like so many of you promise, but it does seem to happen for some of you, just not me
/r/seduction18/04/19 06:17 PM
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I swipe relentlessly on Tinder waiting for this day to come I'm desperate.
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:56 PM
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You must be looking alot of us can't get 1 date a month Options is not something we can all afford to have
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:53 PM
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Succeeding in the date is "game"
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:51 PM
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Fixing the jaw alone will improve online which is where most people get dates let's be honest, most people don't cold approach and it barely works anyway
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:50 PM
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You guys are crazy I'm ugly any girl who is willing to date me is getting married on the spot I don't have the looks nor am I social enough to have multiple options and select the right one
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:48 PM
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I can't confirm not deny it's easier for older people but in my 20's it definitely sucks. The people who are the life of the party and want to go out all the time have big advantage.
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/19 05:45 PM
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I'm black and I hate it I feel like my only choice is act like a thug or be single
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/19 09:26 AM
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It's pretty obvious
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/19 07:10 AM
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;(
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/19 07:07 AM
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Ugly introvert reporting in. Not like I haven't always know being an introvert made you less popular or desired. It's. Over.
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/19 07:00 AM
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I think being am introvert can only be good if you're also good looking If not, it's over.
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/19 06:59 AM
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You're not very smart are you. More partners equals more success.
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/19 06:45 AM
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I should stop worrying about how many times I push pull a girl in every interaction and just have a normal conversation, my personality Besides I'm not attractive enough for game to work
/r/seduction06/04/19 06:25 PM
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